bendeguze Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
658	Ability To Cold Approach = Superpower	Fundamentals	bendeguze	/r/seduction	23/01/21 06:31 AM
7	I love you all	Inner Game	bendeguze	/r/seduction	27/01/21 08:50 AM
2	What will be your #1 focus this week?	Conversation	bendeguze	/r/seduction	04/03/21 07:39 AM
2	What are the top 3 internal qualities you look for in an intimate partner?	Removed: Off-Topic	bendeguze	/r/seduction	24/02/21 07:17 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Stop Putting Sex On A Petastal Agreed. I used to only think about "when will I get laid next" and become stressed over it. What I would add to this is one of the best ways to unfuck yourself from putting sex on a pedestal is actually having a lot of sex and then realising it is just yoga. It is just one of the activities you can do to become present to the moment.	/r/seduction	25/02/21 07:35 AM
1	How the heck do I stop being a little puss puss? Advice, techniques? Just relax bro we are all on our journey. The best thing I did to overcome my approach anxiety is go out with a friend who also wanted to approach. The best thing I did to overcome my approach anxiety is to go out with a friend who also wanted to approach.	/r/seduction	07/02/21 07:07 AM
2	Can anyone of a more advanced level take the time to share any advanced techniques or routines? Here is my gameplan for nightgame if I am totally new in a city and don't know anyone. Make observational open on the first people I see (just give them a compliment or a quick situational joke.) - it doesn't matter if this is a girl, guy, the bouncer. It just builds momentum Walk around slowly, avoid the "pickup guy bubble head" mistake Walk in a triangle in-between the bar, the toilet and the dancefloor (slowly, in my own pace without desperately scanning the venue) After walking around in thi…	/r/seduction	07/02/21 06:56 AM
2	Having Trouble - Need advice (prob not but I'm drunk and had a bad night) I think the main issue here is that you look at "having a conversation with women" as something you should "pretend". I think the most important thing you can do is increase your love for women in general. Maybe start with writing down 20 internal and external things you love about women. You might find this really difficult but once you write down a couple you'll be surprised brother	/r/seduction	07/02/21 06:42 AM
1	Ability To Cold Approach = Superpower agreed!	/r/seduction	07/02/21 06:38 AM
3	Asking someone out when they are working Ask her when she will finish and tell her you wanna grab a drink/hang out after. Or if you wanna go James Bond movie style the next time you give her money add a piece of paper that says "wanna hang out sometime?" plus your number	/r/seduction	05/02/21 07:17 AM
1	How I got the most out January That's epic bro thanks a lot for sharing. The most interesting bit for me is how you track your calendar - would you mind sharing a bit more on how you do it? Do you look back at your day at night and mark certain areas red, yellow and green? How do you manage to remember how long you spent doing meaningless shit? Much love	/r/seduction	05/02/21 07:14 AM
4	Ability To Cold Approach = Superpower If you just got started you gotta understand that as soon as you said "hi", you already won. And as long as you said "hi" + made it clear that you are attracted to her, that's all you need at the start. Don't care about the rest. Be happy. Present. And enjoy the process. Much love	/r/seduction	27/01/21 08:48 AM
1	[Vital Lesson] Don't let your Friends know, ESPECIALLY your Female Friends, that You are learning Game and how to Approach. Thanks for sharing	/r/seduction	27/01/21 08:46 AM
2	Ability To Cold Approach = Superpower What has been stopping you so far?	/r/seduction	26/01/21 09:56 AM
2	Ability To Cold Approach = Superpower Yes! Check this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUX2VvgEwiQ&t=5s	/r/seduction	26/01/21 09:55 AM
1	Ability To Cold Approach = Superpower Check this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUX2VvgEwiQ&t=5s	/r/seduction	26/01/21 09:55 AM
2	Ability To Cold Approach = Superpower love it	/r/seduction	25/01/21 08:39 AM
1	Ability To Cold Approach = Superpower Emotions are contagious. What you feel, she most likely will	/r/seduction	25/01/21 08:38 AM
5	Ability To Cold Approach = Superpower You: "Hey i like your mask" Her: "I don't even have a mask." You: "Exactly. Hey. I'm Ben."	/r/seduction	25/01/21 08:38 AM
1	Ability To Cold Approach = Superpower Is that how you feel at the moment?	/r/seduction	25/01/21 08:36 AM
1	Do you usually directly or indirectly approach? Agreed! It's not recommended, but some people just cannot help themselves lol	/r/seduction	23/01/21 06:23 AM
3	Do you usually directly or indirectly approach? Yeah bro it depends on the situation and also your skill level. If you are newer to this I would do more direct stuff to avoid getting into a convo that is going nowhere. Obviously be mindful of the situation you're in, so don't go full on direct with someone at your gym or workplace.	/r/seduction	22/01/21 06:13 AM
1	Bigger game of relationship in China Yeah it's good that you are being proactive bro. I actually made a video about this on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3o1SOhO2OcI	/r/seduction	22/01/21 05:48 AM
1	Bigger game of relationship in China Everyone thinks that "it doesn't work in my city". Every city has advantages and disadvantages. And just like with most things in life, it's up to you whether you turn things into your advantage or come up with the excuses.	/r/seduction	20/01/21 05:57 AM