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Dude if I was Bi, I'd be gay. Sadly, I love me some axe wounds, and some awkward mule-hips. Fish-holes. Jiggly-puffs. Teet-ons. Full moon harvest ace. Saint Shopenhauer save me.
/r/MGTOW25/10/17 07:02 AM
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Like, one single thing, if they choose to. That sounds a lot like bible bro talk.
/r/MGTOW30/09/17 10:18 AM
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Some of these dudes honestly seem a bit fucked in the head, but I know for sure that these are feats women couldn't accomplish. Feminism exists solely because, truly, women are not equal to men.
/r/MGTOW29/09/17 04:36 PM
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in Japanits a bit pathetic though because they culturally don't try to change their life or take a fresh perspective. They would kill themselves thinking it's what society needed from them
/r/MGTOW29/09/17 04:30 PM
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It's cruel, but based on the number of single moms on okcupid I concur. In truth, women should just get a cap installed over their cervix or something after they enter poverty, I don't know
/r/MGTOW26/09/17 09:37 AM
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Here's the most misogynistic thing I've ever wondered: does the average woman possess intelligence only to serve as a means to successfully parrot the behavior of men enough to trick them into seeing women as fully human. Somewhere in the Y chromosome is the means to tap into the "higher knowledge" of meaning and truth.
/r/MGTOW26/09/17 01:13 AM
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Democrats played the female mob mentality super hard that election. This will get worse, then bitches will figure it out, and rage super hard against it. It's like the MRA fan-girls or nerd-girls who realize the resource train is running away.
/r/MGTOW26/09/17 12:21 AM
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I'm not sure it's as much about passing genes as it is with men. Women want to secure resources. It's sort of assumed that women will have 6-7 kids (by nature), so what they want is for 2-3 to survive in the end. If those kids are females, the genes will probably pass. If they are males, then what matters more is if they are powerful enough to secure resources in the future for female kin.
/r/MGTOW26/09/17 12:17 AM
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Even with absolute compassion, and utter fairness, women will still lose their shit. That's my point.
/r/MGTOW26/09/17 12:15 AM
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Haha, yeah. A man should have to be notified in the first trimester of pregnancy that the woman is pregnant, and have the right to waive parental rights and responsibilities. If he is not notified, or declines, he shouldn't owe child support. GOOD FUCKING LUCK PASSING THAT ONE
/r/MGTOW26/09/17 12:14 AM
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The tug for a while was a replacement for intimacy for me, because I would always try to push things with the girl. Eventually I realized I had to stop thinking of it like that. A tug is literally just a nice ending to a massage. I don't know why the hell it's so illegal.
/r/MGTOW24/09/17 08:04 PM
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But muh continuation of species
/r/MGTOW24/09/17 02:43 AM
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Holy shit I thought it was just me
/r/MGTOW24/09/17 02:41 AM
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Haha, fuck you troll. Thanks for proving you've never been to Japan.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 11:23 AM
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Well she's probably used to foreigners but things are changing
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 11:54 AM
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Sorry, dirty blonde maybe is what I meant. But to me, that's a light-haired brunette. Blonde is blonde.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:16 AM
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People would say golden blonde, but blonde is blonde man. I have German ancestors. "Golden" is brunette to me. Sorry, inserted personal shit.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:52 AM
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It's like a little bit of heaven and a lot of bit of hell all mixed up. Not quite a turd with sprinkles, but no paradise.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 01:52 AM
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Yeah, it's not a paradise. Their preferred body type is lean muscle. If you have a good smile and that body type, go to Roppongi in Tokyo (where the foreigner hunters lurk) and just troll. That's the lowest effort way to get something. But, sex with Japanese girls isn't that great to be honest. However, if you like skinny girls, Japanese girls have the world record number one ass/hip/curve proportion for skinny girls. Their skin is also usually completely perfectly smooth, god-tier. Some have br…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 01:40 AM
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That's right, sounds right. And if a girl's just not interested, game won't help. Same as anywhere else.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 01:35 AM
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So, Japanese don't have sexual taboos per se. A lot of "normal girls" might have the same inhibition as any Western woman. But, Japanese believe in perseverance, and generally they do NOT want to appear as failures. This helps them overcome inhibitions. Specifically, if they are paid to do something they'll really do it, with enthusiasm. It's a work ethic thing. As for the sex industry, keep in mind that when you're in a native country there's not this stereotype of everyone being a genius. A lo…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 01:34 AM
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Amen, Chinese girls are extremely different from Japanese girls. Plus, something people don't count on is pheromones. Many very sexy Japanese girls, when it gets up close and personal, don't do it for me. I swear to god. Went to the States, got a lap dance from golden haired brunette and it was the most aphrodisiac experience.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 01:27 AM
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*who lacks bladder control
/r/MGTOW23/12/16 02:36 PM
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Women love saying: "everything happens for a reason". The way the female brain is structured, subjective emotional experience is the centra context for all knowledge. "How YOU feel NOW" is the most true and valid thing in the universe for a woman. For older women, I'm saying that the well of experiences in their memory so exceeds the mendacity of old age living, that basically life loses its moral context. Women lose their attachment to morality and descend into ugly and bare selfishness.
/r/MGTOW23/12/16 02:36 PM
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"Then explain it to me" = "He's still giving me attention, I need to troll him for more time so I can fulfill my instinct to emotionally manipulate him into giving me as much of his attention and resources as I can afford. And when he does, I'll get bored and move on" And the princess doesn't realize that shame is not an effective emotional tactic here.
/r/MGTOW14/12/16 03:45 AM
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Why does it matter if I AM a little weak though. The completely perfect powerful superman is the female fantasy. I don't appreciate being bullied into a frame. That said, it doesn't hurt my feelings or anything.
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 12:54 PM
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It's basically true though. Men less easy to manipulate will give women fewer offspring. Future generations of men will be easier to manipulate, basically representing a victory for female prerogative. By the way, this is how we all got to today.
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 11:25 AM
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It's basically true though. Men less easy to manipulate will give women fewer offspring. Future generations of men will be easier to manipulate, basically representing a victory for female prerogative. By the way, this is how we all got to today.
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 11:25 AM
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Women create a social frame, and we live within it, so understanding it helps remove its power.
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 11:23 AM
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Sorry not angry. I'm just saying that, inasmuch as female behavior isn't some vast clever conspiracy but just a biological instinct, women react to MGTOW negatively by trying to provoke aggressive make behavior. Their instinct is to manipulate male aggression, and as MGTOW presents a challenge to that, they want to reclaim it. The point is that a person could say, about MGTOW: "I'm sorry for you, I empathize" or "Hey! Not all women are like that! I resent this." But instead you find some women s…
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 11:21 AM
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I just say I can't stand the way women are in relationships.
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 09:23 AM
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Sometimes, the fox gets them, and they are sour.
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 09:23 AM
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Yeah I think it means: "I didn't mill myself last time is was single"
/r/MGTOW18/09/16 02:33 AM
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The only flaw with this is male attachment to the female. But this arrangement protects the female if her desires change (when). As for the man, having his rights protected and the naturally more logical male brain should accommodate the situation.
/r/MGTOW13/07/16 02:00 AM
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You mean explain?
/r/MGTOW13/07/16 12:00 AM
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In this case it really does
/r/MGTOW12/07/16 10:47 AM
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Are you male or female?
/r/MGTOW12/07/16 09:35 AM
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Women like playing with babies. Some of them.
/r/MGTOW08/07/16 12:13 PM
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She did career late until baby rabies bit, won herself a younger man by mothering his rehabilitation from drugs. Then when he got better he resented her stubborn condescension of him and left her to continue her career I guess.
/r/MGTOW24/06/16 02:32 PM
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The best thing is that red-pillism actually is working. It's reducing beta wallets. So it makes women more desperate for ANYTHING. Meaning even betas and nerds are getting 6s and 7s in some communities. If we can convince ourselves we don't need pussy, we actually might usher in a day where we get way more than we even want. And, in any event, one thing we'll never get is that "genuine partnership" because it ain't real.
/r/MGTOW24/06/16 08:04 AM
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Hey I appreciate it! I think the situation is under control. It's just, I'm reminded why exactly women are unbearable. Their instinct is to convert your life and goals to hers. Even with a good frame, she's still gonna try. It's inevitable. And it's not worth it.
/r/MGTOW27/05/16 08:21 AM
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Yeah, but I'm not really in it for just sex. She's not young enough. She was more like a friend that jumped on my dick eventually. If I frame up, then I lose respect for her as a friend, which, if I do, then the sex itself won't be worth it. Part of what I'm saying here is definitely: "you can't have sex with and also be friends with a woman." The whole "life partner, and companion" bullshit. Not that I was setting her up for that. It's just, for about 1 week I was like "maybe that MGTOW stuff i…
/r/MGTOW26/05/16 02:41 AM
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I get all the sex I want. It's just more and more she's starting conversations that annoy me. Like, doesn't impact the sex, it's just annoying to have to retread the same stupid commitment bullshit. And she's starting not to show respect for my time. And the most annoying part is she doesn't get it. Like she assumes I need spce so I can get critical work done. No I'm not that busy! Just, if I have only 4 hours in Sunday, don't try to manipulate me into staying 6, or cry when I don't. The fact th…
/r/MGTOW25/05/16 08:52 AM
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Vagina and travel company in a foreign land. I'm no a red pill aficionado trying to signal my genetic superiority. I'm basically MGTOWing it. This woman fell into my lap and I do not sacrifice for her more than anyone would out of common courtesy for a friend. It's just, she's starting to become annoying. And that's what bothers me. I can handle it for now, but it has made me realize how pernicious women are. They are always trying to wring commitment from you. The laundry thing especially. Fuck…
/r/MGTOW25/05/16 08:45 AM
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She's said I shouldn't say I'm leaving. And I said yeah but I probably am you know. She said okay I know I'm glad to be with you while I can, but it makes me feel cheap when you say it. Okay, I won't say it. But, I mean, I AM going back to America.
/r/MGTOW25/05/16 08:30 AM
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It would take too long.
/r/MGTOW25/05/16 08:21 AM
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True, but I'm not worried about a thing. She's on her period now, so we're condoming up hardcore moving forward (she doesn't know). I'm surviving for now, but the lesson is, when I get back to the states, to keep in mind that there is no such thing as a constructive relationship with a woman (well, if there's any sexual potential that is, at a minimum here). Just have to remember.
/r/MGTOW25/05/16 05:16 AM
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Japanese women are physically attractive, but they don't smell attractive. Like, I think some Polish and Turkish guys I know have good attraction but I'm northern/Anglo European and J-girls smell like weirdly metallic to me, and I lose my boner sometimes when I get like actually close to them (like move from the kiss to the neck smell).
/r/MGTOW05/05/16 08:51 AM
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You're not alone. Go out in fucking nature one day, all by yourself. Sit down on a rock and let go of all your thoughts. See how alone you feel.
/r/MGTOW05/05/16 08:46 AM
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I don't know about "Asian" women but Japanese women explain why so many men are going their own way.
/r/MGTOW03/09/15 11:33 AM
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A lot of MGTOW red pills will know that women set the tone for the culture, hypo-agency if you will. It's not even about sex, but rather (and this is the secret AWALT women never realize except by manipulative instinct) does the woman give emotional affection and nurturing to the man and support and respect his inner emotional life. Obviously, these men have mothers and wives who don't love them unless they achieve social rank.
/r/MGTOW03/09/15 09:40 AM
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Uh, no dude chill out. I'm in Japan for work and am dating because I occasionally decide to "try it one more time" and was curious about cultural differences. And it has never been more difficult. Like, just frustrating needy women that give little in return.
/r/MGTOW03/09/15 03:42 AM
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Yeah actually some women really mind but many don't, apparently. But my issue is the "he makes me laugh". But is she as interesting and fun to him as he is to her? Or does he have to constantly work to entertain her and provide, but no sex? Yeah MGTOW...
/r/MGTOW03/09/15 12:17 AM
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I get annoyed by beta women soooo much. It's super easy to approach a beta woman and get her to agree to a date. I did the other night by accident. I was in this situation where I wanted to go somewhere for the weekend, my friends bailed, and some new chick I was speaking seemed to be smiling at me. So I, very innocently and simply, asked if she wanted to go do this thing with me. No big deal. She agreed enthusiastically. Next day, around the time we were to meet up, she sent a text bailing and …
/r/MGTOW08/06/15 10:29 AM
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Yeah, I know I know. I'm imagining a world where women were more like men and didn't worry about max SMV. Instead, they pick a rationally balanced combination of SMV and commitment. And then, I'm pointing out that by comparing this thought experiment to the real choices women make, it's very revealing about women.
/r/MGTOW14/05/15 06:03 PM
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Well, obviously the pump and dump is why they don't pick this strategy. But if a man was a woman, I'd like to think they'd settle on this. In any event, he'll always want more sex than you (the husband), so there's no possibility of not having enough sex in the marriage.
/r/MGTOW14/05/15 05:30 PM
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It's so funny, because if I - as a man - happened to like men, have a great female body, and a touch of baby lust, this plan would be my number one goal. The point being that we have contrast with the actual female mind as alien to the male perspective. No woman will ever be the "companion" that many MGTOWs once pined for.
/r/MGTOW13/05/15 06:25 AM
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Jzs. She's pretty too, imagine if she actually lost the weight. There's something wrong with fat women these days. Like, I know we've got high-fructose corn syrup, but there has to be some other unified explanation for this phenomenon. Some sort of social-psychological break down. So many women are huge.
/r/MGTOW12/05/15 06:52 PM
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"wa-hutt" lessons do we... Holy crap, Canada, please, just go kill yourself.
/r/MGTOW26/04/15 03:23 AM
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But the hive-mind is realizing its mistake, hence MRA women.
/r/MGTOW20/03/15 02:39 AM
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Hell yeah
/r/MGTOW09/03/15 04:00 AM
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Fuck you dude! If you're going to be having some white wine you better being making yourself some kind of delicious pork chop or something. Just kidding. I'm saying though to man up and use your intelligence and talents to really enjoy life. Don't just "be a bitch" and sit on your couch downing wine. Well, I won't tell you how to live your life, but it's a suggestion. When you dedicate yourself to having a good time, you will. Don't let it be your fall back. Make it your main thing. And, when yo…
/r/MGTOW09/03/15 02:52 AM
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Yes, and my dialog with her is similar to the phenomenon whereby people wave a laser pointer around to make a cat chase it.
/r/MGTOW01/02/15 12:19 AM
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Sometimes I think we need to leave a proper evidence trail. It helps others who are still learning about this stuff.
/r/MGTOW01/02/15 12:06 AM
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Here, in some comments on another post.
/r/MGTOW30/01/15 01:41 AM
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I don't thing prostitutes are sluts. I would never call a stripper or whore a slut. Having sex then demanding payment is very respectable. They're sticking up for what they want. A slut is like a fat kid who eats all the chocolate because he heard the chocolate factory is going out of business. The fifth chocolate is too much to eat and becomes disgusting, but there are 2 dozen more to eat and time's running out.
/r/MGTOW30/01/15 01:37 AM
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Like I told her, and she completely ignored (can't blame her), being a slut necessitates a certain lack of introspection and complete lack of empathy (not really putting yourself in the other person's shoes). Her only concern is whether a man is a potential mate or not. That is the frame of any discourse she would have with me, I imagine. Interestingly, her extremely rude and perhaps objectively cruel comments likely exist to make sure I don't come near her. A shit test basically, to drive me aw…
/r/MGTOW30/01/15 01:33 AM
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You're a mgtow because you're unattractive I think she was just being a bitch.
/r/MGTOW30/01/15 01:28 AM
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How charming, your boyfriend must be a really great guy to like someone as kind as you.
/r/MGTOW29/01/15 03:06 AM
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I don't like when girls I sleep with decide suddenly that it is now inevitable that I will marry them and especially therefore pay for all their shit and instantly make their life more comfortable. But, that's rare. I generally like "being in love" before having sex, and have followed that route a few times. Obviously, the women involved had a different perspective. I had women stop dating me because I wanted to wait just a little bit (like a few dates) for sex. Other phases of my life (maybe in…
/r/MGTOW28/01/15 04:44 AM
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Because said women doesn't understand the men she's with - empathy problem - she is simply reacting to impulses outside of rational thought. If she understood men better, and was less beholden to raw instinct, she would be instantly disgusted with herself. (In that she was catering to the desires of awful men) The women in my life, as I was growing up, told me that women were especially kind, loving, open, and very much reserved about sex "only for someone special". They more than anyone made me…
/r/MGTOW27/01/15 05:50 AM
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Yeah I will keep to myself, and be perfectly happy. I have never in my life been half a cruel to a woman as you have taken it upon yourself to be. And yet mgtow is completely benign and inoffensive, keeping to themselves, from your point of view. Your cruelty in response is revealing. Haha, a lot of men commit suicide because of the women they're stuck with. I guess real men just run off and say f it and leave you in the dirt. It's too bad I don't have the genes 'for it'. Because I'm a pretty bi…
/r/MGTOW27/01/15 05:05 AM
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I like what you're saying. I just disagree with the older part. 18-24 yr old women are notoriously immature. If you are that age I can understand the older thing. But older can also mean sluts hitting a wall and switching games. But, plainer women who are kind and intelligent and not vain would make great friends and companions. I mess up with them because they're usually slow and timid and game turns them off and it screws me up, but I'll try to be a little more natural with this type.
/r/MGTOW27/01/15 04:59 AM
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Ha, no, quite a few women desperately wanted me to stay with them. It's just that these were horrible people so I didn't like them. Naturally, this made them like me more. I don't know why you say most men aren't meant to reproduce, that's sort of silly. You're clearly an uber slut. And slut is a proper criticism because your behavior shows that you prefer men who see you as a vagina and want them to see you as a vagina. Which means that the men you don't like, those who are able to see more in …
/r/MGTOW27/01/15 04:55 AM
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Most women I meet say I'm really cute or one of the best looking guys that they have ever dated. So, I end up being sincere and since I'm somewhat an introvert and don't command a posse of dudebros, they realize that the good looks are good for like 3-4 lays then just sort of move on. They always say I'm really nice, really funny, really cute, it's just that "they want to just fit into my life and my friends" or "their friends don't really fit with me". Etc. etc. Well, my MGTOWs know what I'm ge…
/r/MGTOW27/01/15 12:02 AM
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This is a good point, and very salient at that. Red Pill theorizes that men have "protector instincts". Men seek to protect and provide for women and are very responsive to their cries for help. Sometimes I think the desire for a relationship with a woman comes from a subconscious desire to feel fulfillment as a provider. Which only strengthens your point. What is it about 'companionship' that is really so great anyway. Most women I've met are incredibly dull, though if interesting, they're none…
/r/MGTOW25/01/15 03:47 AM
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