benzamtrp Archive

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1	[RANT] Thought of the weekend : If I wasn't a man slut in the past few months I'd never have met the woman of my dreams. (I'm getting Oneitus). It's so funny to read you saying you have "redpill mentality" and then describing your opinions that are just about every blue pill concepts in the book. My guess: you've learned game but you haven't actually spent nowhere near enough time on the redpill or the manosphere to understand that your desire for commitment is what will make her losing interest in you. You'll be back here with your dick in your pocket after being rejected by the girl within 6 months.	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/15 09:26 PM
3	Prison psychologist has sex with teenage rapist, reportedly in bottom 1% of population by IQ And I think you are very much misguided. Genetic altruism would be a behaviour of helping another organism because of the statistical chance that said organisms has the same genes. This explains why you'd sacrifice your life for your kids but not so much for your cousins, even less for a foreigner. Here, u/destraht hypothesises that an organism A would behave to mate with another organism B on the basis that it has higher chances to reproduce. That's not altruism. In any case, u/destraht, you're…	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/15 12:51 PM
2	Study: women tend to exhibit bias against unattractive men if they “mess up,” while being more forgiving toward attractive men. http://www.amazon.com/The-Laws-Power-Robert-Greene/dp/0140280197	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/15 10:53 PM
1	Brainwashing may be able to cure "misogyny" That first paragraph is spine-chillingly ironic.	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/15 11:44 AM
2	You cannot negotiate attraction. FYI, The "painting experiment" is from psychologist Dan Gilbert and described in this amazing TED talk and even more amazing book "stumbling on happiness" (not a self help book contrary to what the title might suggest).	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/15 11:17 AM
2	Dear men of TRP, how should women handle you within a relationship when they are used to dating more BP swallowers? I love and respect the way he handles himself within our relationship but that this also means he may occasionally flirt with woman and it can be harmless and even good for our relationship or that other women will also be attracted to how he carries himself..or that he won't take shit from me underserved and not be "soft", and still remain faithful and good to me, as promised, despite me not feeling I have any "control" over him like I felt I had in previous relationships. And this, gentlemen, …	/r/TheRedPill	27/05/15 11:57 AM
1	How would YOU deal with this act of (odd) dishonesty from your girlfriend? Reminds me of a convo with my then GF during my blue pill days when the topic of lying showed up. Early days of the relationship when we naively learn about each other. Me: "so you do lie?" Her: "oh yes, you know white lies.. Why don't you ever lie?" Me: "well, no.. [both fell silent] That's the day I realised she was... Different. Dangerously different to me Now of course I know that AWALT..	/r/TheRedPill	26/05/15 10:12 AM
1	Having trouble with other people not seeing my true potential As a man, you're only valuable as to what you produce. It doesn't matter that you're "good with numbers", "a great listener" or "have a great potential". What matters to a woman is that you bring money on the table or fucks her good. What matters to an employer is that you make him money. Stop thinking about potential and start thinking more about outcome.	/r/TheRedPill	26/05/15 12:34 AM
2	"I am a Prince Among Men" Not sure you realize that feeling like "I am the prince" is a well-known trope of the redpill from the Book of Pook to the Rational Male.	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/15 07:47 AM
1	RooshV slams the Red Pill That explains why his material seems outdated in comparison to the manosphere.. When did he sell out?	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/15 07:38 AM
6	Post-wall, ugly female professor's bitter rant about her colleagues hitting up 20 year old coeds instead of her. And this, gentlemen, is the result of the Blue Pill conditioning of modern women. Just as young boys taught to shower women with attention become men who cannot understand why they don't reciprocate their love, young girls taught they are special, strong and independent become women who cannot comprehend that men are not attracted to their brains and achievements... Sad to see all those poor chumps plugged in the matrix..	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/15 06:14 AM
9	Red Pill Q&A Thread: Newbies, ask away. Except that the information must not come from you. A woman can't ask a man to be more dominant, that'll only give him performance anxiety. Get a male friend of his to bring him to the gym and buy him the book	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/15 10:48 PM
3	Red Pill Q&A Thread: Newbies, ask away. You just keep on rehashing what you think and I just keep on failing to make you see the light so that will be my last try. But it seems like there are three categories I think this is you main conceptual problem. There are NO categories. I think you imagine that by "alpha", the redpill tells men to become complete assholes and you have a problem with that because you want to care and provide for your woman and you don't want to be seen as a "beta" since "betas don't get laid". As a result you i…	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/15 10:31 PM
2	Alpha Value vs. SMV- An alternative view on being Alpha I would very much agree with this. But I think the concept of SMV was defined separately to the AF;BB one so that the "official" SMV as found in Rollo and Roissy's blogs blend in elements of alphahood's sexual value (physical strength, find your mission) and betahood's social value (money, learn to listen).	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/15 10:04 AM
6	Red Pill Q&A Thread: Newbies, ask away. You get it completely wrong. I'm going to take the time to explain because you are on the wrong path. But, my theory is that it's just one strategy: The dual sexual strategy of women I have just described to you is a scientifically backed, fundamental pillar of redpill theory. The outcome of every interaction you ever have with women can be accurately predicted with AF;BB and Hypergamy. You need to understand these concepts. http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/23/schedules-of-mating/ Women are at…	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/15 09:48 AM
4	Red Pill Q&A Thread: Newbies, ask away. "Alpha Fucks; Beta Bucks" is the summary of the dual sexual strategy of women: get the good genes from the alpha male, get the provisioning from the beta male. A woman's sexual attraction is what defines the alpha. Whatever you do or have that makes a woman lusting for you are alpha traits. We're talking sexual arousal here, not "I'm going to fuck him because he's rich so I can get some and up my social status". Lust of a woman for a man is emotional so it's hard to pin it down to a specific rea…	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/15 06:59 AM
3	Alpha Value vs. SMV- An alternative view on being Alpha Redpill theorists have been at it for over a decade now, no need to reinvent existing concepts. The only people who are confused are newbies who haven't done their homework. The definitions of SMV and alpha according to Rollo can be found there: http://therationalmale.com/2012/06/04/final-exam-navigating-the-smp/ http://therationalmale.com/2012/02/21/defining-alpha/ Your message seen through standard redpill concepts: In short, SMV is your sexual value as a male for women, and since female's sex…	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/15 05:48 AM
7	Observations of living in Japan for 10 years You don't need a new definition if you remember alpha and beta are describing traits or behaviors, and not types of people. A man versed in red pill philosophy in a world where women favors the BB side of their dual sexual strategy would intelligently adapt his game to display more Beta traits.	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/15 12:28 AM
1	Signs of Success http://therationalmale.com/2014/01/14/the-second-set-of-books/ [...] For men who’ve become aware of this conditioning through some trauma or personal crisis that prompted him to seek answers for his condition, we call this period our blue pill days. I think it’s important to make a distinction about this time – whether or not a man is Alpha or Beta doesn’t necessarily exclude him from the consequences of a blue pill conditioning. That isn’t to say that a more natural Alpha Man can’t see the worl…	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/15 10:47 PM
1	I'm an ugly beta loser who just found theredpill. I want to make a change in my life but I don't know where to start. What I'm struggling with is "play the long game" I want to meet girls when I start college next fall, ya know? I don't want to have to wait until I'm 30 to start dating and having sex. So innocent.. Implementing TRP right now will show results even before summer starts. Make sure you implement the actions (lift, looks) and not only the theory (books). Oh and burn that hat. Seriously. Nothing screams more "I'm insecure about my hair so I need to cover it up". Girls don't see you have a sense of s…	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/15 10:16 PM
1	Got laid after taking the red pill. The Power of Now is very new-age and directed at Christian women and thus recommended by Oprah... but it's still a good read because it delivers the timeless and efficient message of Eastern philosophy (mindfulness) in a language understandable by westerners. Anyone who found the Power of Now good and useful ought to read Alan Watts.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 11:43 PM
1	How do I always appear sexual and not the creep or asexual guy? It's probably your vibe. Insecurity, desperation, need or faking shows subtly in your body language and girls can pick that up really well. You now need to integrate all these improvements into a firm belief that you are prime, high-quality masculinity that girls just want. Assume that girls can read your mind. Do they read "Holy hell, that girl is really hot. There is no way I can pull that off.. I hope I don't say something stupid." or do they read "hmm that girl is really hot. Let's see if sh…	/r/askTRP	10/05/15 10:12 AM
3	Going after a "taken" girl You're attached to getting one specific girl, you're asking infos for opening, and you plan to do it through online communication... Yeah I'm going to go and say there is no way you ever going to get her. Don't be attached to THAT girl. Get busy thinking how you're going to get girls in general. The content of the opening doesn't matter. Say "hi" Move on to real-life interaction as soon as possible.	/r/askTRP	10/05/15 10:06 AM
5	The US birthrate has collapsed 14% from 2007 to 2012. Now at all-time lows. I am surprised to not see a single comment here making the obvious TRP remark that this collapse could be simply due to girls in their 20s now more busy riding the CC than in a committed relationship..	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/15 09:58 AM
8	The US birthrate has collapsed 14% from 2007 to 2012. Now at all-time lows. you got banned because that sub decided to ban all users who are also active on trp. Expect this to happen with other sub. Create a trp dedicated account	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/15 09:53 AM
9	On top of my SMV... now what? I think there is a big misunderstanding about SMV. There is the objective SMV (good body, looks, making money) and the subjective one (how high value she sees you depending on whether you're confident, desperate, acting "nice" or "jerk", fun, boring, etc.). Don't make the mistake to think that a high objective SMV is all you need. You still need serious game to boost the subjective one.	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/15 09:49 AM
–	LTR went through my phone, need advice Your male hamster is spinning like crazy. You're simply lying to someone who has put trust in you and that makes you the kind of person that everyone (men or women) would want to avoid. With impeccable game and high status you could have both a faithful LTR and plates on the side, who all know and are OK with the situation. But if you deceive people, then you're just a shitty person.	/r/askTRP	04/05/15 05:29 PM
1	[FR] I got dumped and got over oneitis with RP advice. The moment I stop, everything falls apart again. Done that so many times pre-RP... I cringe to remember how I reacted every time I fell in that trap. Any time an ex texts you or "want to talk" after you've demonstrated assertiveness (no contact, increased SMV), you must treat this as a shit test. She wants to check that you're still into her, which would confirm she still has that massively better SMV than you. Power trip Seriously, install an alarm in your head that goes off "WARNING: SHIT TEST!" whenever the object of your oneitis "seems" to…	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/15 01:08 PM
2	TRP and the "Be Yourself" advice: A RP perspective on the traditional female advice. Very interesting insight thanks.!	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/15 02:03 AM
0	The red pill in as few words as possible. Though this is a nice essay on the importance of boundaries, I am utterly disappointed by the misleading title. Without including a single notion on the feminized society or women's dual sexual strategy or other fundamental concepts, this is anything but a basic description of the red pill. Also "in as few words as possible"? seriously?	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/15 10:07 PM
25	TRP and the "Be Yourself" advice: A RP perspective on the traditional female advice. I'm going to paraphrase my answer from the last time someone here posted girls telling you to "be yourself" actually mean "be the best self you can be": If girls wanted to tell you to be your best self, they would tell you "be your best self". Instead they say "be yourself", which basically means "be genuine". They mean "be genuine" because there is nothing worse for a woman than a beta pretending to be an alpha. That is a HUGE genetic investment risk for women. So they mean "be a genuine beta, …	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/15 07:38 AM
1	Do not expect anything. There is a glossary in the side bar. AWALT - All Women Are Like That. It means that every woman has the wiring to cheat, find good reasons for it, etc. It's the acronym to remind yourself that these rules universally apply, and yes even to that girl whom you think is a special snowflake who would never do such a thing.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/15 09:41 PM
1	Do not expect anything. Interesting insight. The third man is actually her longtime friend, still with him today (2 years). I think he was the branch she was interested in the whole time, so transition man theory works pretty well here.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/15 09:36 PM
1	New GF spending a lot of times with orbiters, exes, etc. What to do? this. fucking good reminder. cheers	/r/askTRP	28/04/15 08:55 AM
1	New GF spending a lot of times with orbiters, exes, etc. What to do? Well technically I'm pretty much at the very beginning... But if I had not offered my exclusivity straight away (as per other comments), I wouldn't have had to set boundaries... Time to open up my options yes.	/r/askTRP	27/04/15 11:42 AM
3	New GF spending a lot of times with orbiters, exes, etc. What to do? Cheers. Made me realise I'm definitely hamstering the situation. Wouldn't say oneitis on this one but real bad scarcity mentality obviously...	/r/askTRP	27/04/15 11:38 AM
4	New GF spending a lot of times with orbiters, exes, etc. What to do? Solid advice thanks. You make a similar point to many here: why the fuck did I feel like getting in a relationship after 3 weeks without even plating her first was a good idea? Looks like I have a lot of BP scarcity mentality to weed out. Fix mentality and downgrade to plate it is then.	/r/askTRP	27/04/15 11:33 AM
5	Married man from r/DeadBedrooms gets fed up. Applies every single RP principle by the book, without even knowing about RP. Results are as predictable as you'd expect. Of course they do. Both males and females are hard wired to think "Who runs away from you probably has a higher SMV than you".	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/15 12:36 PM
148	Married man from r/DeadBedrooms gets fed up. Applies every single RP principle by the book, without even knowing about RP. Results are as predictable as you'd expect. It won't stay open long if redpillers continue to flood the comments with RP terminology... Gents, please stop. Let that thread alone, that it may remain and become a shining beacon for the poor chumps of that sub in need of real help. There are now enough hints in the comment section as to where they will find it...	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/15 11:51 AM
1	Tinder Game c'te dialogue de sourds.. :) j'ai beau me le répéter, j'avoue que "mon amoureuse Tinder" ne passe toujours pas.. Enfin bon, si c'est ta langue aussi, je n'ai pas de commentaires à faire.. Perso, je ne joue pas la carte "je suis Français" sur Tinder. Je leur garde la surprise pour plus tard..	/r/askTRP	21/04/15 06:09 AM
0	Tinder Game Sorry man, you follow the grammar rules but that still doesn't work. Not sure why -maybe you can't use a noun as adjective. Trust me it's my native language.	/r/askTRP	21/04/15 01:59 AM
0	Tinder Game I didn't try to tell you how to tinder, I just called you out on saying that you "speak French" and then gave us a French sentence that doesn't make sense. But of course I realize you're not on tinder to be a good French speaker but to pick up chicks who are turned on by two words in French, even if they don't make a proper sentence. That's why I said "not that it matters".	/r/askTRP	20/04/15 11:29 PM
2	Tinder Game Pretty bad French - not that it matters, really. It translates more as "Hello my new lover tinder". Try something along the lines of "Bonjour jolie mademoiselle. Comment allez-vous aujourd'hui?"	/r/askTRP	20/04/15 11:32 AM
0	TBP (TheBluePill) comment censoring. great analogy that last paragraph. I'll remember it.	/r/TheRedPill	20/04/15 10:46 AM
1	The #1 most incorrectly interpreted advice from women. "Just be yourself" absolutely does not mean "be an impressive human being". If at least girls were saying "be the best version of yourself you can be" as OP says, then I'd agree: That's actually from successful PUA Neil Strauss. If they were saying "be genuine", then I'd agree. But no. Girls say "Just be Yourself", which means "just stay who you are right now". This runs completely opposite to the self improvement and mindset of changing yourself that are at the very core of the red pill: "start…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/15 01:12 PM
2	The #1 most incorrectly interpreted advice from women. From Rollo: If my conditions are such that I enjoy sitting at home eating a whole pizza, washing it down with a six pack of Budweiser and watching Anime on a Friday evening, can I realistically expect that hot fitness instructor at the gym to come on over and genuinely want to fuck my brains out? And why not? After all I’m only being myself and she should “love me for who I am”, right? A woman only tells you to JBY so that it's easier for her to read you and assess you. It serves her sexual stra…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/15 12:06 AM
1	The Red Pill is a Gift to living a good life, Be Grateful I think it's like a deeply religious person discovering one day that God doesn't exist. You can be angry at all the lying and upset about the lack of meaning of this life and this world... or you can discover a fantastic new world to explore in which beauty, even if not designed, is still there. Your reaction to the red pill is up to you.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/15 11:47 AM
1	Alpha females : you're chasing the wrong guy. Look for a Beta man - Telegraph.co.uk If you only define alpha in the sexual strategy patern, you need to keep swallowing the pill. I'm going to guess you mean alpha defines the individual who display the traits of leadership such as assertiveness, physical and mental strength, sexual value, and the fact that this definition can apply to women or applies outside of the context of relationship. Fair enough. But the pattern is specifically important in the context of mating strategy.	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/15 09:52 PM
4	Alpha females : you're chasing the wrong guy. Look for a Beta man - Telegraph.co.uk alpha is a concept of male qualification in the context of the female dualistic sexual strategy. The concept as we know it doesn't apply to females. if by "alpha female" one means a female of high status, since hypergamy dictates that female finds a male of higher SMV than her (http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/13/the-hypergamy-conspiracy/) this means for such female a drastically reduced pool of men she'll find attractive. That is more the issue than what men want. despite a basic psychology g…	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/15 01:43 PM
3	First post on TRP. Trying to swallow the pill. Any advice is much appreciated! If a girl is not interested, you NEXT her. Doing this will hurt ONLY if you have a scarcity mentality and/or oneitis. Develop abundance mentality and AWALT awareness to fight these two BP illnesses and stop hurting. Even if you're still so deeply blue for now that nexting a girl or the thought of nexting a girl is painful, you still NEXT her. Everything else will hurt you more in the long run.	/r/askTRP	15/04/15 08:57 AM
4	First post. I've encountered a girl I cannot figure out. I want some advice. The Blue is strong with this one...	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/15 08:05 AM
1	LTRs – Why keeping healthy AF levels is trickier than it might seem As with every subreddit, read the side-bar. It's all there. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2zckqu/updated_glossary_of_terms_and_acronyms/	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/15 06:18 AM
1	How does TRP and AF/BB theory eventually culminate into into a successful marriage/long term relationship if there is such a thing? It's possible of course. Search for info about "relationship game" for example here or there.	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/15 06:14 AM
1	Psychology of Female Attraction cheers. ordering it right now	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/15 01:43 AM
1	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view yep, just like the woman married for 20 years to a man know him so well that she makes the rational decision to divorce him after he turns BB... /s	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/15 09:21 AM
1	Psychology of Female Attraction what/where is The Red Queen?	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 10:34 PM
207	"The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative view Perfectly agree, with one minor comment: the woman's "examination" of you is not rational but purely emotional. Her "standards" are not rooted in logic. Accordingly, you can lift, learn game, earn money, know how to hold frame and pass shit tests to increase the chances of her being attracted to you but the outcome is still not guaranteed. This may be no-one's fault.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 01:37 PM
1	Shame: And why I (mostly) believe TRP Don't think that all women are like dogs that need to be broken and trained, because that's just as bad as a woman saying that men are stupid pigs who only want us for sex and whatever else they're too lazy to do. It's not that it's bad, it's just plain stupid. But many people on here are still too far deep in the anger phase to realize that trp teaches you that sexual strategy is amoral.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 09:07 AM
1	FR: Don't cuddle I second this. If you do something that the girl gets emotional gratification from to the point she's developing feelings for you, then keep doing it!	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 04:53 AM
2	The Friendzone is an Insult Fuck man. You're deep in the anger phase aren't you? Friendships with women have HUGE benefits. Networking, preselection, wingmanship, game practice...	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 01:35 AM
4	The Friendzone is an Insult I disagree on two points with OP: One: He said his interpretation of the LJBF excuse is: "I know you; I've had a good look and I think I can do better." That's not unconscious "tingles or not tingles" dichotomy classification to me. OP seems to think that girl rationally assess the status of a male over others. They don't. They feel something or they don't. Two: Insulting someone is showing disrespect, disdain. If a girl doesn't feel the tingles, it's not her fault. She's not going to force hers…	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 12:10 AM
1	The Friendzone is an Insult You don't get it. The LJBF excuse is just a way for the girl to tell you she's not getting the tingles with you. She doesn't feel you are AF. But you may do as BB so keep providing that friendly attention. That's not an insult, that's a feedback	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/15 11:01 PM
7	Why do women call me handsome instead of hot or cute? handsome = you're looking good AND masculine/mature. Don't bother about the words.	/r/askTRP	10/04/15 08:35 AM
1	I constantly don't feel like approaching, any ideas? Except that you are only at the approach stage while penguin's experience is on the next stage: escalation. What he means is that you feel like "you don't care about approaching" when the reality is that you have very normal approach anxiety and your way to cope with the anxiety is to feel like you don't really want to do it. There's no literature to read. Feeling like you need to read and learn stuff before doing it is just another way to cope with the anxiety by delaying the moment you need to…	/r/askTRP	10/04/15 08:31 AM
6	Exploring realistic paths to a healthy state of, "Not Giving a Fuck." I was subscribed on /r/howtonotgiveafuck for a good while some time ago. I had been attracted by the original website that laid down the basic idea (HTNGAF = stoicism with modern vocabulary) in a very simple and engaging manner. Ultimately I left that sub because of the insane amount of posts of deeply upset people in full-blown anger phase writing paragraphs and paragraphs of how they're super cool because they "don't give a fuck" now. 1) Get painfully betrayed/manipulated/fucked over by a roma…	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/15 05:34 AM
1	Being strong gets thrown around a lot. How do you be strong (besides physically)? Read Marcus Aurelius' meditations	/r/askTRP	09/04/15 10:58 AM
21	When Innocence is Lost Welcome to adulthood. You need to find your mission. Start by some traveling perhaps.	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/15 10:52 AM
3	My conversation with a girl about ways of thinking. There you have a FR illustrating how men act on their logic and women act on their feelings. It's good to be reminded of it again and again and again because this is such a fundamental difference on how we operate, that it's one of the biggest obstacles to understand them. I'm very analytical myself and I keep turning discussion with girls into arguments because I keep forgetting that they are not analytical. I say "I've read recently how they've made scientific studies of X and discovered that …	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/15 11:14 PM
0	[FR] - Amused Mastery Works Fast I'm not sure how is this amused mastery. from http://therationalmale.com/2012/09/14/amused-mastery/ An attitude of Amused Mastery implies to a woman that by virtue of your maturity and/or authority you’ve “seen it all before”, you already know what women mean when they say or do what she is, and it’s amusing to you.	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/15 11:06 PM
7	If you've had oneitis, then you already know the female's perspective on the AF/BB. I strongly disagree with your suggestion that "what woman feels for AF = what man feels for oneitis". If TRP has taught you anything, it's that women and men are VERY different. Their sexual strategies are different, the way they love is different, the way they think, feel, rationalize are different. A man that has oneitis for a woman idealizes her. He will overlook all his defaults, will sacrifice for her. He will not be in the mood to look around for anyone else. She doesn't have to be hot, do…	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/15 10:59 PM
1	If you've had oneitis, then you already know the female's perspective on the AF/BB. you don't have to be THE most alpha / best genetics / whatever, your girl just has to FEEL that you are I agree. What counts is how she perceives your SMV to be, not what it actually is. This explains why jerk-boy without money, style or looks can still get the girl. Because he has a super strong frame, she perceives his high SMV, and get the tingles. if your girl thinks you're the best thing since sliced bread (you're her oneitis) brad pitt could come along and she wouldn't even give it a thoug…	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/15 10:38 PM
2	I want to bring up the elephant in the room. Rejections that truly attack you as a human being Alright, explain how the retard knew how to behave like this and what kind of tingles did he cause. Fair enough. Maybe the girl had a kinky fantasy to fulfill. Maybe she felt she could help a poor soul. Maybe she was drunk. Or of course maybe OP is exaggerating a bit about him being a retard because he's so butt-hurt about that girl. In any case, if this is true, you can't take this anecdote as a suggestion that "super low status will get you laid". We are talking about the choices of a promiscu…	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/15 04:01 AM
3	TRP texting example - Women behaving badly Personally, I turn the feminist table on them. "I say we split. This notion of the man paying is so old-fashioned, it assumes women are not the equal of men. There are more modern ways to be chivalrous." If she insists. I say: "Look, the only way I'm paying for this is that you pay the next."	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/15 01:09 AM
9	TRP texting example - Women behaving badly I see your point but disagree. shes looking for someone who can put a mental leash on her while she tries to bite back And that's exactly what he did by treating her like a child. Sure he could have tried to methodically destroy her argumentation and appear as a man of superior intellect, but why bother when you can achieve the exact same "mental leash" result by holding frame through amused mastery. Look. If she really was disinterested in him, she wouldn't have sent him that many messages. I b…	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/15 12:10 AM
2	I want to bring up the elephant in the room. Rejections that truly attack you as a human being The real reason why "some eligible men won't get fucked" is that they are so focused on thinking that their "eligibility" will get them the woman, that they forget that holding frame, passing shit tests and having a abundance mentality are the real causes of a woman getting the tingles.	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/15 12:01 AM
2	I want to bring up the elephant in the room. Rejections that truly attack you as a human being So I guess my conclusion is that TRP theory is somewhat flawed. Self-improvement can actually be detrimental, if it does not move a man way into the pursued top (rockstar status). The alternative is to hide your status and play the role of a low-status sexual adventure. That's it? Your conclusion of spending time on this sub is that women are sexually attracted to very-high-status and very-low-status males so that if you can't hit that super high status, let's just stop improving? So I can stop …	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/15 11:57 PM
2	I want to bring up the elephant in the room. Rejections that truly attack you as a human being Man that SHIT here: She fucked guys who were lower than me but turned me down. That attacked me to the core. I know that might sound like I'm a pompous dick who thinks he is above certain people, but we all are. [...] I like to think that we (guys) intuitively know who are our superiors are, our equals, and the ones below us. I think we have a strong grasp when we look at another guy and see if he is further along in his life path than us, or lagging behind. [...] And I mean this in all levels, …	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/15 11:35 PM
27	TRP texting example - Women behaving badly This is gold. Thanks for sharing. She shit tested you so hard I was getting the urge to argue as I read along. And you, sir, you beautifully hold your frame the entire time. We need more of this kind of real-life RP demonstration. There is no way she's not feeling the tingles after that. I'm looking forward an update. EDIT: Dang! Post was too good to be true... Thanks for blowing it out of the water /u/mrp3anut..	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/15 11:14 PM
1	Major Oneitis or Laziness? How would you feel if your ex starts seeing someone else, fuck him and spend less time with you? If you couldn't care less and would still enjoy hanging out with her when she's available, then congrats you don't have oneitis. You not wanting the other girls is what make them attracted to you. You don't have to sleep with them if you don't want to. it's a non-problem. Go MGTOW.	/r/askTRP	07/04/15 11:44 AM
2	Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for your taste/preferences in women. Reminds me of a night at the pub with friends a few weeks ago. My mate's girlfriend told me how she'd like to introduce me to her single friend and proceeded to show me some Facebook pictures of her. Girl was not attractive at all so I tried to politely back off: "Sorry, she's not really my type". The look on her face made me understood that I had not hidden my standards enough to her liking: "I can't believe you are that shallow! You don't even know her!" Why are women so hell-bent on refusing …	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/15 09:54 AM
1	How do you deal with failure? Life's got ups and downs. You've got to practice considering the down parts not as "failures" but "opportunities to learn". "Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn"	/r/askTRP	07/04/15 06:45 AM
3	Agree and Amplify Practice Start with the "agree" part: just say "Yes". The "amplify" will just flow naturally from it. "Yes... I've been crying every day ever since you left" "Oh yeah... Actually, the whole town cannot wait for your return"	/r/askTRP	07/04/15 06:39 AM
1	Beta friend came to me in need. Not sure what to do. It's just better to avoid sharing your opinion about it altogether: http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/20/the-feminine-reality/	/r/askTRP	07/04/15 03:36 AM
1	The Alpha Female? Dating a girl who considers herself an "alpha female" There's more there, but what I got from it is that the "alpha female" in this story will only ever attract betas, Guys' attraction is only triggered by how hot a girl is. How many times have you been attracted to a hot girl despite her being crazy, dominant, or displaying hundred of red flags? Whatever her behaviour, if she's hot she'll attract guys, BB and AF alike. and eventually turn around and cheat on him w/ a true alpha, who she could never land due to her own thoughts. So you mean juste l…	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/15 12:00 AM
1	Never sacrifice a thing. Make her sacrifice for you. wait wait wait... So you read the title but not the content, and so decided to comment that you disagree based on the title alone, but still judge the "gist of the thread" to be "spot on", so you upvote it? WTF?	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/15 11:15 PM
1	How do you deal with the shit test of being 'controlling'. Depends on how you'd say it. You're not wrong in saying that setting boundaries without singling out any particular person may be a surer way to not appear insecure.	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/15 10:09 PM
1	"I don't do blowjobs" Check her attitude/action and not what she says. If she's anxious, "I'm bad at them" could be insecurity. To be dealt with as a comfort test. Talk her gently and reassuringly into it. It's not dirty, it's good for bonding, it puts her in control of your pleasure, etc.. If she's defiant, "I don't really know you" sounds like Anti-Slut Defense. To be dealt with as a shit-test. Tell her she's totally right and that since you don't know her either, it's probably better you don't have sex with her bu…	/r/askTRP	06/04/15 10:45 AM
1	Rebound asking to go on a date. Don't spend that much time trying to figure out what she wants and figure out what YOU want. Do you want to sleep with her? Accept her invite to her place and see if she's keen. You can shut her down later if she reveals she wants more than a casual hook up. Do you want to have a fun date with her? Plan for movie and/or dinner. But don't pay for it. Never. Always pay your share or split. If she complains (which is an easy shit-test to pass), say you "find that very old-fashioned in our post-femi…	/r/askTRP	06/04/15 10:31 AM
2	Should I next her for being too good? Make sure you are clear as to what is your sexual strategy. You want to spin plates or get a LTR? If spinning plates, next her. There are plenty others available and having oneitis now is detrimental to your strategy. If you want a LTR and she sounds like she's a keeper, then try to keep her. But you need to work big time on your game man. Your obvious lack of self-esteem and how fast you put her on a pedestal and develop oneitis are pretty bad indicators as to how this is going to end. There ar…	/r/askTRP	06/04/15 10:15 AM
1	Is clubbing every weekend and drinking/getting wasted a red flag for a girl? AWALT is about hypergamy and AF/BB strategy, not about partying. There are plenty of girls who don't like to party, get wasted or ride the cock carousel. It is a red flag because it demonstrates need for attention, impulsiveness and lack of respect for oneself. It doesn't mean you can't LTR her, it just means that it's going to be hard work and high risks for you. Never put anyone on a pedestal in a general manner.	/r/askTRP	06/04/15 10:04 AM
7	Beta friend came to me in need. Not sure what to do. There's a reason why you don't talk about TRP. If that poor bugger is not ready to be unplugged, he might react pretty badly and talk to all your friends about how you are one of these "misogynists", leaving you having to do lots of damage control. Not talking about TRP is not about consequences for them, it's about the consequences for YOU. Are you ready to take the risk? Two only ways to introduce someone to TRP. One is by being an example and wait for them to ask what's your secret and gradua…	/r/askTRP	06/04/15 09:58 AM
3	Building Resilience, Not crumbling with massive social pressure and shit tests? I say don't cut them out quite yet. Use it as a good learning ground to build your confidence. Analyse after the night which of the buttons they pushed, and think how you'll handle it next time.	/r/askTRP	06/04/15 09:35 AM
10	How do you deal with the shit test of being 'controlling'. The problem is, in my view setting 'boundaries' seems beta. On the contrary! Setting boundaries is alpha. It shows you know exactly what you want and won't accept second-class behaviour. It is the insecurity showed by being controlling that is beta. So it's all in how you display it. Don't say "you shouldn't be hanging out with him". Instead, say "I don't want to date a girl who hangs out with him. Go see him if you must, but no need to come back here after."	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/15 06:21 AM
2	Figuring out your passion? Most people find their passion simply because they got exposed to it one day: One saw surfers during a stroll on the beach, one walked into a motorbike shop while he was on the street waiting for a friend, one had a friend who was really into climbing and suggested he'd took him out one day, one went traveling in an area reputed for hikes. All of these guys didn't think "Woa, here is the passion of my life!", they all thought "could be fun.. why not try?" TLDR: Try new stuff. One will click.	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/15 11:38 PM
2	What I learnt from yoga class. Maybe it's harder for a man than a woman in some ways And in other ways, it is much much harder for a woman, some sequences needing great strength	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/15 11:20 AM
9	What I learnt from yoga class. Yoga is originally an Indian practice dedicated to the improvement of one's physical (breathe, stretching, muscle strength), mental (mind-body awareness, focus, peace of mind) and spiritual (sense detachment, enlightenment) condition. No wonder this was essentially a male practice. Then, western, new-age women came along and turned it into that big, self-pampering, materialistic joke we now have. Compare OP's self-centered mantra to the traditional Ashtanga chants focused on honoring the lineage…	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/15 11:14 AM
1	I let my guard down and got cheated on. I swallowed the pill long before a concept as the Red Pill was understood on Reddit. Don't be so cocky that you think you've got it all figured out before anyone ever did. Swallowing the Red Pill means understanding a large number of concepts including the Feminine Imperative, hypergamy, AF/BB... You only swallow it once, after you've read the material in the sidebar. What you are trying to say is that you had a mainly Alpha behavior... which you apparently did if you lifted, had good game, and …	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/15 09:31 AM
24	Keep a diary: Track your progress and watch yourself improve. I mean one of those diaries that 8 year old girls keep to write down the boys they think are cute and bitch about their friends. say "journal" and you'll avoid the "little girl diary" connotation.	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/15 09:10 AM
1	"I had a dream about you" I'm making a move and if I play my cards right, I'll get that insanely good looking woman I thought I'd never have. that' a very BP thing to say... but good luck	/r/TheRedPill	25/03/15 08:35 PM
21	"I had a dream about you" It is crazy to see how just about all field reports on this subreddit hit home... AWALT all the way. In my still recent BP days, I'd take this as "She does care about me! She does love me! I still have a chance!", then give her the attention, and get shot down shortly after.. haha! Still can't believe I can now laugh about what used to be my most despairing moments!	/r/TheRedPill	25/03/15 03:20 AM
9	"I had a dream about you" Ahhh.. As only recently unplugged, I still get the 'I had a dream about you'TM on a regular basis too. That and its close cousin 'I was listening to that song you gave me'TM .	/r/TheRedPill	25/03/15 03:07 AM
1	[Rant]Recently taken The Red Pill and now I am disgusted with my life (long post from a 100% beta trying to change) I've been reading TRP for about a month now. I feel ecstatic at seeing that everything finally makes sense (my few successes and my many failures) and already seeing major positive results in my life, though it also means I realize I've wasted a lot of time. But most important, I realize I'm still confused at what it really means for my future and I'm aware this will take a LONG time to integrate all of this information and make it my life. There is still so much to read, so much to experiment. …	/r/TheRedPill	24/03/15 01:54 PM
1	Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct Openers, Part II Style's "jealous girlfriend" goes something along the line of: "Hey girls, I've only got a second but let me get your opinion on something. I'm trying to give my friend over there advice, but we're just a bunch of guys and would need girls' opinion. See him over there? Well, he has been dating a girl for three months. And she just moved in with him. Now, he is still friends with his old girlfriend from college and she takes issue with that and she's asking him to cut ties. How would you feel abo…	/r/TheRedPill	24/03/15 02:45 AM
2	[FR] Your Voice It's true voice pitch is a part of body language, but don't get too hung up on it. Neill Strauss' voice sounds like a cartoon mouse would sound and that didn't prevent him from being one of the most successful PUA out there.	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/15 09:23 PM
1	UPDATE: girl losing feelings for me I'm afraid I can't. You've provided zero information on what happened between the good period up until the time she started acting weird. But remember how things work. Girl is into you -> she shit-tests you -> if you fail, she shit-tests you more -> if you keep failing, she's losing interest. If a girl is losing attraction for you, it's your fault for not passing shit tests. You must have failed to notice them then, and it's going to be really hard to tell what they were now. Once you're back wi…	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/15 01:46 AM
-1	UPDATE: girl losing feelings for me Good job! Keep up the dread game for a bit longer, and when you're finally taking her back in, make sure you avoid repeating the early mistakes: keep frame, no straight-talk, pass shit tests. Also, give yourself options.	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/15 01:23 AM
1	How do I chat successfully? I.e. if you meet through Facebook Read some more TRP material and you'll understand why you need to go back to it. Because you're still plugged-in, you probably think that spinning plates means "being a disrespectful player who fucks several women at the same time but what I actually want is just one great girl". After you've taken the pill (meaning, reading the material and understand it), you'll realize that spinning plates means "giving my attention to several women so as to create in my own mind a perspective of abundance, a…	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/15 01:09 AM
6	How do I chat successfully? I.e. if you meet through Facebook There is no such thing as a "natural TRP". You obviously need to lurk more, read more of the sidebar and Rollo's blog. If you had done this, you would have realized by yourself that you're getting oneitis and that you just need to drop that plate and start spinning others. About online Game, you need to know that you cannot maintain attraction very long by just chatting. You need to meet IRL as soon as possible.	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/15 12:25 AM
14	The red pill context link: http://therationalmale.com/2014/09/29/a-new-hope/ Yep you got it. blue pill context: "I've always wanted to find the one woman to love me unconditionally." red pill awareness: "I understand RP is the true perspective of the world of intergender dynamics." -> red pill awareness in blue pill context: "I'm going to use my new RP knowledge to find the one". Doesn't work.	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/15 06:43 AM
3	Idealism I can agree that most women may as well be polygamous in nature, and that this is a natural thing of life, however there definitely are women who can enter a into a relationship of love. I think you are very confused. "Polygamy" is defined as a man with several women. You probably meant to say "hypergamy" which describes that of all male available, women will seek the one with the highest SMV. They do not do this rationally. They are simply attracted. They "fall in love". So if by "there definit…	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/15 06:15 AM
1	/r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomes OK I understand what you meant now. Your #1 was that she can put on the alpha pants and force him into a BB role, which needless to say will strain their relationship further. And #2 was that she can accept the blame and give him the opportunity to maintain his status, in accordance with the redpill view of proper relationship. Good discussion cheers!	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/15 05:55 AM
1	/r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomes I think your analysis is great up until categorizing the two advices in either blue or red pill perspectives. Whatever reaction she decides to have is normal post-wall AWALT trying to save her marriage. How the husband will react to what she gives him is somewhere on the scale between AF and BB. RP is understanding the reality of human relationship dynamics and acting in accordance. BP is not having a clue.	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/15 05:20 AM
6	Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct Openers, Part II Please do provide examples: the practicals are more important to convey information than any pages-long theory. Videos would be even better yes. I wrote “no complimenting at all” not to mean it as a general rule, but just to say that the examples in the video did not include any compliment of any sort. So now reread my answer, but focusing on what I tried to say about the meaning of your interaction. Here is summed up what you said to that girl: ”Hi, I know this is random and I have to go but yo…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/15 12:58 AM
3	Burning through 3 women in 2 weeks... venting Man you shouldn't be angry about them but about yourself. You've been accepting LJBF offers (woman #1), helping them with stuff (#1), being their listener (#1), getting butthurt and loosing frame (#1,2,3), letting them guide when and where to catch up (#1,3). Looks like you could with more side-bar reading. Don't vent about their behaviour. Just remember that AWALT, and smile when you realise that TRP gives you the knowledge and tools to handle these situations. Above all, KEEP THAT FUCKING FRAM…	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/15 10:23 PM
10	Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct Openers, Part II Ok so this feels more like we're on seddit than trp but... Opener is just the very first topic of your verbal interaction and has only one purpose: make you interesting enough that she wants you to stick around. It's not about whether you're direct or indirect in your compliments. Complimenting her anyway is a bad idea because it is raising her value but not yours. You may have said one thing, funny, out of the ordinary, and raised your value a tiny bit by doing so... but you BP-sugarcoated it b…	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/15 09:30 PM