Tinder Game

intelcorei5 · 2015-04-20T00:37:41+00:00

I didn't find Gatsby's particularly useful. It's may get numbers, but numbers don't accomplish much.

Tinder game: be attractive and have good pictures (ideally with other women, other men, doing something athletic, one shirtless, and no selfies), don't mention sex, be friendly, organize dates, escalate. Sometimes you get numbers, sometimes you don't.

You don't ask to meet. You organically mention something which sounds like fun for both of you (a date), then you do it.

"Let's meet for coffee" means "Let's meet somewhere before I take you home to fuck you, so I don't feel like a slut."

...If you really need practice "gaming" women on Tinder, just talk to them. Don't game them. Orbit, figure out how to get responses which are longer than a sentence (i.e. they're actually thinking about you), figure out how to get them to message more than you do. You can use TRP to make that happen, but asshole game is not it (no social proof, no kino).

Chiurazzik · 2015-04-20T00:32:23+00:00

Tinder works wonders. Use an opener, gauge the conversation, demonstrate value, escalate, preferable switch the convo to snapchat, so that you don't get catfished, escalate, and then make plans.

KettleLogic · 2015-04-20T03:04:04+00:00

i would like to take you out.

how about it

The difference using the above and anything else you can say is marginal. I found the above worked just as well as any inane conversation.

She's decided if she'll bang you before you messages you. She has you there for an ego boost or a date, all you need to run is 'don't fuck up game'.

SheepKing · 2015-04-20T05:34:24+00:00

I speak french and I always open with "Salut ma nouvelle amoureuse tinder" it can be translated to something like "Whats up my new tinder-love"

Luckyluke23 · 2015-04-20T04:29:31+00:00

tinder will work well for you if you are half decent looking...

best way to do tinder is to have YOUR BEST OF YOUR BEST OF YOUR BEST pictures up.

once you have that just run normal text game. shouldn't be that hard if you have good pictures up

anothercarguy · 2015-04-20T09:07:11+00:00

so I found gatsby to be ehh. I think most girls have seen it before. They are also doing the same thing you are, swiping away. So if you message them quickly you know a few things: they are on the app; they just looked at your profile / picture; most importantly they liked it. So message early for better results. Get em while they're hot.

Openers. The take away from gatsby is to be creative and funny, just like in real life. Have a few openers you use IRL, use them on tinder. Tinder also isn't what it used to be. OKC seems to be much better now than tinder with that stupid swipe limit. Morons don't know they ruined what they had going for it. OKC same company has a similar feature.

I don't like the quick meet up as much as others ESPECIALLY IF THEY PUSH FOR A MEETUP. They are controlling the flow, thats a no-no.

Always just like IRL ask questions and give short answers. For meetings, I like free activities to feel them out, usually with cocktails afterwards or during. If they push for dinner, I give them 1 chance to back off that idea then next.

kingofpoplives · 2015-04-20T14:05:34+00:00

1)openers

I put zero effort into openers. If "hey" isn't enough to get a response from her, it's all for the best. The goal isn't to chat with girls on an app, or even to get dates. It's to initiate sexual relationships, and in my experience, if a girl isn't enthusiastic from the first swipe trying to sell yourself to her isn't worth the effort.

2)convo points

I just casually shoot the breeze for a handful of messages. Same with openers, if you need to try hard to impress her here, it's not gonna be worth it.

3)How long should the convo go on for till i ask to meet?

Not long at all. Worst thing that can happen is you get deeply invested through convo, only to have her ghost the second you ask for the date. I usually ask for it at the first natural break in the convo.

DarkisKnight · 2015-04-19T20:46:59+00:00

Check out Gatsby's Tinder Game

Title	Tinder Game
Author	twodm
Upvotes	16
Comments	17
Date	April 19, 2015 8:11 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/335p5b/tinder_game/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/tinder-game.148110 https://theredarchive.com/post/148110

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