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Fuck yeah! Add in due to notify
/r/MensRights17/12/18 06:49 PM
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When you are married you file jointly as single income, single debt. Her income is high enough that adding mine wouldn't make a difference but adding $300k of debt would. Also we both accept we don't control the other, we are compatible as long as we are compatible. Nothing is guaranteed
/r/MensRights20/08/18 09:38 PM
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So why does the US have better outcomes for any given patient? We have a fatter, sicker, more risk taking population yet what is the difference in life expectancy? Oh, within 1 year? This obese ass lives as long as a naturally healthier lifestyled European and you think that means their healthcare system is superior? Have you actually tried to secure treatment for a patient on Medicare? The hoops are tremendous. The Euro model caps people at $250k for a proceedure, if it costs more, they don't d…
/r/MensRights20/08/18 09:36 PM
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You support crappy coverage for all. Great plan /s It also won't fix shit, you only think so because you have only looked at a single aspect. Try looking at tiered structures for healthcare and use your background in economics to show how that would effect total coverage. I'll wait.
/r/MensRights20/08/18 07:20 PM
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I'm going to go to med school. Do you think my GF wants any part of that debt? Even though student loans stay on the individual in my state (CA) there is no reason to show that hit to a dual income when you can single file with a cosign
/r/MensRights20/08/18 07:17 PM
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So man up instead of being a whining sheep and you are GTG? Glad we all agree
/r/MensRights20/08/18 07:15 PM
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I suggest not treating an entire class of people, men in this case, as disposable and treat people on an individual basis. If a single patient has a problem with, say, all men. Isolate that patient. The hospital never should have implemented a policy in the first place that discriminated.
/r/MensRights19/08/18 06:45 PM
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and sexual victimisation by males is a common cause or major part of that. you mean ~10% of cases? There is often a theme of control being taken away, perhaps by an abusive parent. That is usually non-sexual and the mother is more likely to be the abuser than the father Now you are getting it. Notice how they don't ban women of a certain age, they ban men. Mixing hard to have separate wards when you only have the one, women only ward. So basically you have a lot of excuses for their behavior but…
/r/MensRights19/08/18 04:24 AM
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You are conflating self control with life control
/r/MensRights18/08/18 08:59 PM
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Lack of self control isn't the same as escape seeking behavior
/r/MensRights17/08/18 07:54 PM
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So basically NHS is blaming men for women who have control issues problems?
/r/MensRights17/08/18 01:31 PM
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but who wants to just be OK? That is settling with yourself. Why settle when you can seek to be the best you possible?
/r/MensRights18/04/18 11:00 PM
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I doubt he mentioned that he FB stalked them after getting the bad swipe on Tinder. Though that would be a fun convo to cap
/r/seduction01/03/18 10:18 PM
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So its everyone else, not that you have a shit Tinder profile? Thought the seeking them out on FB seems a bit creepy...
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:36 PM
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They don't hold less exec positions though. They keep fewer exec positions
/r/MensRights23/01/18 09:01 PM
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That is heuristic thought pattern. It takes a level of intelligence to break it. This professor lacks that level.
/r/MensRights23/01/18 08:59 PM
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Wikipedia was never objective, it is an analysis of source material. It cannot be objective and is why it is not a source. Because anyone can edit, you can fix the skewed articles with counter sources.
/r/MensRights17/01/18 06:06 PM
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You may have gone to the school with that specialist
/r/MensRights05/08/17 03:04 AM
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Special Ed doesn't mean low IQ only, it is any kid from say a military family that moves a lot or a learning disability, child abuse, young offender... Whomever might not fit in a normal classroom
/r/MensRights04/08/17 04:25 PM
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Ever notice that male teachers rape their students, female teacher have sex with their students?
/r/MensRights04/08/17 04:23 PM
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Have you thought that counseling won't solve the issue but may give new ways of coping with it? If the case was to develop new coping mechanisms, would you consider counseling?
/r/MensRights23/07/17 03:59 AM
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Then go to jail on dv charges because man
/r/MensRights09/06/17 11:52 PM
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Nsfw [gore] tag
/r/MensRights09/06/17 11:48 PM
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so a woman can't rape a boy then or is there a different statute with the same ramifications?
/r/MensRights17/03/17 08:13 PM
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here's the thing, his getting a vasectomy means this chicks genes don't propagate and he doesn't have to deal with kids in the divorce
/r/MensRights04/02/17 10:17 PM
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It sucks, it is a shitty process to go through. But you can, you must. At the end you will have outcome independence, you will be perusing your dreams for you, so when someone says "I can't believe you are doing that" you can easily reply "I can't believe you aren't. Who is the prospect for next years first round draft pic?" Water off your back.
/r/MensRights15/01/17 02:47 AM
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You know the answers to your questions. Stop seeking external validation and return to self fulfillment. It is the easily worded answer of the hard path but it is THE path
/r/MensRights15/01/17 01:12 AM
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What about divorce one?
/r/MensRights07/01/17 07:37 PM
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Safer to use pepper spray. Shows no intent to cause permanent injury
/r/PussyPassDenied06/11/16 09:42 PM
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FYI I posted that info directly from the American Cancer Society to TIL, guess how long it took for mods to delete my post
/r/MensRights31/10/16 01:50 AM
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No barrier to stimulus, thus more sensation. But honestly the whole circumcision thing coming out of MRA is stupid. It is getting caught in a distraction that is meaningless in the scheme of things. Why accept the frame of the 3rd wave feminists?
/r/MensRights08/10/16 07:47 PM
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Circumcision exposes the head of the penis, how does that deaden sensation? Adult men who have been circumcised report more sensation
/r/MensRights08/10/16 06:25 PM
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For the record: I identify as a lesbian trapped in a mans body who happens to be rather fond of their own penis
/r/MensRights05/09/16 07:58 AM
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Here is a relevant read on it over at /r/changemyview https://np.reddit.com/r/changemyview/comments/50slbu/cmv_a_negative_paternity_test_should_exclude_a/
/r/MensRights02/09/16 05:49 PM
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the cdc did the numbers on frequency of perpetrators, both within a 10th or two of a percent
/r/MensRights25/08/16 09:41 PM
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it was supposed to be "unpopular opinion" it turned into popular opinion, like the confession bear it was every other post on advice animals.
/r/MensRights25/08/16 09:32 PM
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I did. Emotionally abusive now ex wife fucking exploded for 4 hours.
/r/MensRights25/08/16 09:31 PM
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For entrance you must be able to pee standing, not mechanically assisted, while keeping your feet dry. *For those able to stand Work around?
/r/MensRights17/08/16 03:28 AM
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Prepared to, still am. If that cunt tries to back out of the agreement again I will not hesitate to fuck her life. You do what she did, treat me like that, I will fuck you up.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:15 PM
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If I did she could have lost her medical license so I didn't need to, just in drafting the docs
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 02:24 PM
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Smartest thing I did was record the conversation asking my ex why she felt she could touch my groin after we broke up. Her "I thought it was funny" was perfect. Admitted to sexual assault and abuse. Palimony is nice
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 04:18 AM
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I am more inclined to read "walking on eggshells" to be honest
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 06:19 PM
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Mental illness is really really tough to deal with. I kid when I tell people just use a shovel... My therapist sent me this link saying that it would resonate (I may have made the wrong impression) http://www.softpanorama.org/Social/Toxic_managers/Borderliners/divorcing_borderliner.shtml
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 04:40 PM
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my (ex) wife I am near certain is Boarderline Personality. FUCKING NIGHTMARE Jesus christ. The worst most dehumanizing experience of my life, the only time I even get treated as a human in our required interactions is if I bend her over a barrel. 10/10 never again Since you are tied together it is tough though you have leverage for 100% custody. I would.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 02:42 AM
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Give no fucks. do not act out of fear good things to the bold My current girl said that she only wanted sex 1x a week. Fine pressure flipped her, A&A'd the whole bit. Also if she cannot satisfy my need, that is fine by me, she just won't be the only one then. Immediately after I had more sex in a day than I did in months with my EX. Why? No oneitis, gave no fucks, no covert contracts, was honest with myself about my needs to be happy. Haven't looked back
/r/askTRP27/06/15 10:38 PM
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Doesn't matter. That feeds his hamster
/r/askTRP27/06/15 09:00 PM
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When you give someone everything, there is no one in a better position to take everything. Your uncle, I've been there. I get it. He fucked up because he though he could control his wife's happiness and was rejected. Depending on what she did that can be the most dehumanising experience. Even a rock has a breaking point. Your uncle discovered his. The lesson (game theory math! Inverse prisoners dilemma) don't ever give 100% like your uncle did. There wasn't anything left for him. edit: mobile+fa…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:32 AM
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Did you see the article about Fox News completely ignoring him?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 06:07 PM
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Hushmail
/r/askTRP21/05/15 12:12 AM
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It's some next level game to pick up women in person while taking a shit.. It isn't what it was but is entertaining.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 10:53 PM
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I generally wake up to a mimosa with raspberries in it, for lunch I'll have daiquiri, at 5 I'll have a Grey Goose Cosmo because I only drink Grey Goose Vodka, it is by far the best don't you think so? Oh its my favorite... did you hear they are cancelling the Mindy Project?I-know-right? Oh I finished it get me a Rosé, but it had better be Krug or Moet, where are you taking me for dinner? After dinner you can get me a skinny girl margarita if you take me to a good place
/r/askTRP07/05/15 09:34 PM
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you really need to find other sources of validation you'll be less pissed off too.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 02:35 PM
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he didn't mention 90% of those symptoms
/r/askTRP07/05/15 03:18 AM
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So as an American I just assume everything is free up there (I don't really, I am being facetious. I hate ACA) So again email your primary or I guess nurse practitioner and get the labs ordered. Or come to the US and go to any lab, it will cost you about $200, no doc required.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 10:24 PM
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50/50 that its even covered by insurance for the lab draw but you want to test more than just T, you want T, Cortisol, Estrogen, Thyroid, cholesterol, Luteinizing hormone... If you can, email your primary about doing a hypogonadism lab draw, it is a fasting test, lie about taking it in the morning, take it in the afternoon, say you just woke up. T is highest in the morning which gives the most consistent result but with T's half life it doesn't really describe you T level throughout the day. The…
/r/askTRP06/05/15 10:00 PM
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10% of guys get it (quick google search) making it outside of a standard deviation but medically normal.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 09:46 PM
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alright, well she is going out of town so I'll see what I can do. I've got my wits about me
/r/askTRP06/05/15 09:25 PM
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you don't have fucking klinefelter's, this is the problem with things like WebMD. You read one thing and you have ebola. You may have low thyroid, low T, shit diet, depression, physical trauma... the list goes on of things WAY MORE LIKELY to be the issue
/r/askTRP06/05/15 09:23 PM
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Why cant she get a copper IUD? Are you up to cum in any of the other orifices?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/15 09:17 PM
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Not oneitis at all. For instance right now texting a few luke warms to try to drum something up because its been 2 days. I have the energy and drive. However main may come over, if she does I wont have the drive drive/ energy (whatever you want to call it) to go for the pull, I just wont care.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 12:15 AM
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She is solid LTR material so I am fine with it but it isn't a goal per se. As it is the relationship is casual and open-ish.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 09:22 PM
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medically low is BS, look to see if you are outside of 1 standard deviation for your age group
/r/askTRP05/05/15 08:10 PM
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Ill pull it because it went no where. Seriously though, I have a main who is fine with us seeing other people, goes on dates with other guys when I'm busy but only sleeps with me (she is too sore anyway). Wants me to see other women so I can take it easier on her, by drive is too high. But I go full bore with her, next day when she is off doing whatever and I have the time to prospect, I don't have the energy or drive to do so.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 08:09 PM
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Fake it till you make it. Security comes with experience and testing yourself. For T level, how do you know and why? Also you are young, you will continue to change as you age, your brain hasn't even reached its adult form yet, your PFC will continue to develop till about 25.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 03:15 PM
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You need to cut the defensiveness and notice the grammar, particularly the word "aside".
/r/askTRP05/05/15 12:15 PM
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2x tops? Thats the thing, sex with her is holy shit marathon, rinse and repeat. Abs hurt 3 days later, I have no intention of lowering that after a 3 yr sexless relationship. So sexually I am satisfied (maybe one more day a week) I just don't want to catch that beta oneitis. Its just after a 2 hour session, waking up at 430 to do it again till 630 till she has to leave for work, I am gassed. I just don't have the mental energy to even pick up the phone which sucks because the last one I was talk…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 03:38 AM
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Oneitis and sidebar aside, give a few more details on the breakup. Were you clingy, time frame, how did she dump you etc.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 02:43 AM
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When started later there can be a negative effect on the old ticker but this you can easily monitor with biannual blood tests. The rate of these negative effects are low and not well understood. Also different methods of TRT have different effects.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 08:29 PM
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Disclaimer: Not a true believer in TRP, I aligned more with Married Redpill (... I was married) My take which I have alluded to before and am working on a good definition for is that the beta mindset is drug seeking behavior with love as the drug. TRP is full of recovering addicts. That said, there are different takes for dealing with the addiction, some do their best to avoid it, some try to capitalize on it, some try to accept it as it is and enjoy it without being ruled by it. I make no judge…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:17 PM
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A: Pressure flip Does you fucking x amount of guys make a difference? or something to that effect B: Shut up... Why? we both know the real reason you came over here.... or some other way to make it sexual.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 06:21 AM
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So my over controlling cunt of a future ex wife (countdown to legally divorced is on!) constantly checks what her level of control is over me and how much she can emotionally manipulate me. Ie taking the dogs from me. Fucking bitch! That is what this looks like to me. It is a test, ignore it.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 03:15 AM
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Its a long process, not a clean one either.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 03:32 AM
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Go to a Barber, $50 should also get you a straight shave. Barbers also specialize in men's hair so they can help you with a re-style too, as well as any products you want to put in your hair. Plus man conversation
/r/askTRP28/04/15 08:20 PM
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I did, hello rich psychotic even more entitled ex wife!
/r/askTRP27/04/15 04:50 AM
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So I start with a risk talk and getting tested, I screw with the lights on to be sure no herpderp... though I did just go pull-out on my main girl. I am really hoping I don't regret that one... she was rubbing herself down the length, all good then she slipped me in for a bit.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 04:21 AM
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anal? "If you are going to tease me like that I am going to have to be inside you. Since you didn't bring condoms I'll have to punish that tight ass of yours" Proceed with spanking then "this got me hard, its going to have to take care of it" Simple.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 01:37 AM
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Then tonight. It's 9:12 pm as I write this, she asked me at 8 to come watch movies with her. I told her I have no gas in my car, nor will I for a few days until I get paid. I assured her I wasn't jerking her around, that I did want to get together but she just picks the worst times (in a joking way) Sure come pick me up. Lets have a drink first. Why are you explaining anything? She comes to you, she wants to see you, you can make it happen. Do you want to salvage? Go for the flip get her to come…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 01:51 AM
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(I originally wanted to go marine, but my recruiter pushed me to go navy seal because of my asvab and physical) Wow that is not how that works at all so either troll or complete moron. Either way, go to the military, you might learn something
/r/askTRP23/04/15 12:42 AM
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Have you had your post break up nasty random sex yet? If not, start with that, dumpster dive if you need to, just get it done. The dreams should be gone soon after.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 10:19 PM
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add the book "the Game" to your sidebar reading
/r/askTRP22/04/15 09:29 PM
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Depression: "Getting laid by shallow, obnoxious women has become dull and unrewarding. And there's no sense looking for a unicorn. Maybe I'll just be MGTOW for a while." The other option which many incorrectly do is go back to beta; that drug of approval furthering the cycle (I know I did). Key is MGTOW to go to Acceptance.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 10:46 PM
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so I found gatsby to be ehh. I think most girls have seen it before. They are also doing the same thing you are, swiping away. So if you message them quickly you know a few things: they are on the app; they just looked at your profile / picture; most importantly they liked it. So message early for better results. Get em while they're hot. Openers. The take away from gatsby is to be creative and funny, just like in real life. Have a few openers you use IRL, use them on tinder. Tinder also isn't w…
/r/askTRP20/04/15 09:07 AM
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Attractive people have better things to be doing than protest. They don't need to hold up a sign and shout at someone for validation, they get it in their everyday lives.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 01:03 AM
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Rich people don't lease, the company they own or are a principal player of lease vehicles for them. Rich do lease, the know their image is valuable, as is their time. Leased vehicles offer the most reliability, are new and only cost about $2k more than purchasing and reselling. $2k over 36 months isn't a bad convenience fee.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 05:42 PM
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Nothing is more expensive than a cheap mercedes. If you want a nicer car for attention, go with a lexus or Infiniti, cheap parts so maintenance isn't bad, if you want performance steer clear of the Lexus. You can pick up a used Vette for 35. A better option is to invest that money and not spend it. Invest it in yourself. What can you do to increase your worth?
/r/askTRP17/04/15 05:39 PM
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They give this to you ALL the time, you just have to learn to recognize it. Thats part of the pill. Sex sucked with my lesbian ex because no one ever told her she was bad at head or wasn't creative. Getting a BJ her "wasn't that great", shit I should have said "I like it better when you do this that and the other" instead of the appreciative head nod.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 01:04 PM
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You're pedestaling. She is literally asking for validation and you are giving it on command fully. If a girl says "don't you think I'm hot?" you don't reply with "Victoria Secret needs you!" no! You reply with a back handed validation to the effect of 'if you showed a bit more skin' with a shit eating grin. Never with a 'no' however.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 12:55 PM
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Its hard with 2 kids. Do you ever get out? ...... whatever ..... What time do they go to bed at night. Oh 10? Good I'm sneaking you out at 10:30 Show up with wine or a stiff cocktail and two glasses.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 02:01 AM
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This is why college was so nice. see a hot girl (with cute roomie) in the complex, walk over buzzed "I never see you guys out when I am, come join me in the pool". 30 min later naked in the pool with the girl and her roomie...
/r/askTRP15/04/15 01:59 AM
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Beta move.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 01:45 AM
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DO NOT LEAVE YOUR HOUSE Not sure if you are in an at fault state or not but do not leave. PERIOD. In seconding BPP statements like "I feel you are saying 'x' and I feel ____" will validate and defuse. Then A&A. Game theory will work but here she is investing 0 so she is maximizing her return on the relationship per input (its all you holding it together). If she wants it to work she must risk emotionally, to drop the walls. To do that she needs to feel validated. A&A if she is picking a fight et…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 08:35 PM
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As you get more experienced with your cold approach the approach itself gets better and you are in a better position. That said, they don't always work and you get used to that too, or too much resistance and you can put your effort in elsewhere. So abundance kicks in and experience increases your odds. Sometimes you aren't in the mood either. So you might cold approach out of habit or nature and not want to take it through. When that happens I just sort of wander off....
/r/askTRP13/04/15 08:27 PM
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You're right, it isn't about throwing punches. In college in a 2 year span I saw 7 people get stabbed, 1 landed in a coma, 1 couldn't walk right again, another hit with a brick... You have very little in the way of experience and your view is incredibly short sighted. Obviously a troll here, but know what you are voicing your opinion on has real life consequences. Also Chuck Liddell isn't big, only 205.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 08:00 PM
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thats how you end up in a hospital. You have no idea someones training or temperament. Liddel used to go to santa barbara and pick fights all the time when he was at SLO. He was very well trained, he would freely escalate on ANYONE.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 08:12 AM
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I was trying to avoid the martial arts take but yes. You have no idea what my (anyone's) training is. I have met one of the Gracies in person with my college girlfriend, at the time i was around 220, 8% bf at 6-2. I told her he could kick my ass hardcore (i was gushing over meeting a gracie) she had no idea because she didn't know who /what the Gracies are. You have no idea your opponent or his friends. being able to avoid a conflict is much better than engaging in the conflict. The king gets th…
/r/askTRP13/04/15 08:09 AM
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I'd say you shouldn't need to yell, you can do just as well being firm. That said, why not just tell everyone while on the sidewalk "pound your beers now or put them in the trunk, they're not going in the car"? 2nd point, why were the other guys needed? Though fill in the back so you end up driving with one girl's head in your lap works too...
/r/askTRP13/04/15 12:08 AM
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Walk away. Is that so hard? An alpha male doesn't need to prove himself to others, he just is. If a guy is giving you shit, walk away. You don't need someone else being a downer on your night, you are above that nonsense. Let him think dropping down and doing pushups will get women. Be the puppet master not the marionette
/r/askTRP13/04/15 12:01 AM
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She could be looking for validation, a slight change of approach might be warranted. Tell her that you support her artistic qualities but you disagree on this. If it is what she wants by all means she can do in unilaterally. It also very likely is a power play as you see it, but she only sees her view on it. How then do you get her to see that the floor space is necessary? What needs do you have for the floor space (entertaining etc) and ask about setting something up where those needs exist (fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/15 08:08 PM
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I pulled a nuke in therapy (said she was becoming distant and it would kill us) and life blew up in my face. I may be better now but jesus christ... Anyway I wish I had taken the above approach versus my naive honest one. You are the Alpha male, you fix problems. Don't bring in one, she will see it as "he can't fix it, we're screwed".
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/15 07:54 PM
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Oh her ex is going to be there! Oh no! she new i wasent happen with him being that near and was all sorry over it and all and there was another guy there that tired to kiss her a different day before we were together even that he is in a long relationship but the thing is she is going to a party with her freind again next week and 2 of them will be there again i am not happy about this can i do anything Wow. Grammar + punctuation! This sub is about self worth and improvement. Lets start with gra…
/r/askTRP12/04/15 07:41 PM
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DO NOT BE HONEST IN THERAPY. Seriously that is not your place to open up, only hers. If she is directing comments at you saying you do this / that, call it out in therapy and only come with solutions you implemented to improve yourself. She thinks she's perfect, you have to show her that she isn't. Control the flow of the session and treat it like a giant shit test where everything she says requires a pressure flip without coming off as defensive. Start off a session, this is what I have done th…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/15 06:26 PM
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Planning ahead pays off: http://amzn.com/B00VK1IVG8 These are fun too http://amzn.com/B00KWRA4NY Have here wear something slutty and take her out and about with this in Go to the store, buy baby oil, use a scarf or long piece of fabric you can get a fabric store (softer than rope) that you can tie her to the bed with, get a sleeping mask so she's blindfolded, they are like $4 at walmart / target, food items are fun
/r/askTRP12/04/15 01:18 AM
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you just post the same Q over there
/r/askTRP12/04/15 12:05 AM
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its premarital as the will existed before the marriage or if during the marriage it is drawn up it is then drawn to one party. should ALWAYS be excluded unless there is a mitigating factor -abuse etc.- to cause a change.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 09:51 PM
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You and me both. Mine said she was down to do it but then, as this takes some leg work, I started making moves she pulled back. I think I'll have to tie her to the bed again and bring it up
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/15 12:59 AM
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I have found pressure flips work very well in the A&A escalations, easier to do when your brain isn't used to A&A. I would have NOT given the kid back the laptop. "I am his father, he disobeyed my rule. This is his punishment. I will not argue about it... besides (insert cocky A&A)"
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 11:53 PM
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1st: What are you good with? People? Numbers? Your hands? Consider going to community college to up your skill level. Learn math, english maybe take a programming language. If you are decent with numbers, consider accounting. For a CPA you need a significant amount of school but there are other options including working in accounts payable / receivable. you are in charge of a business's money, they get paid decently. Advancement will be an issue for you here without education. Mechanics make dec…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 08:35 PM
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There is a second option to the full overt next which I agree is the best option, that is immediately hop on Blendr, Tinder, whatever and have a date tomorrow. Keep contact with her and go seriously hard dread. She wants to be friends, fine, you are friends as soon as she said that, now looking for someone else. This isn't as good of an option for various reasons but it is an option. With communication you can get her back as a 1st but also keep the 2nd.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 08:07 PM
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So I have NEVER heard of any willed asset being a marital asset. There must be something missing here.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 08:00 PM
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Second, I was looking for a more immediate answer because I am not in a strong position right now as far as back and forth goes.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 01:00 AM
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Not quite that easy for me to jump into a MFF 3way. Not in college anymore
/r/askTRP09/04/15 11:26 PM
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Why are you paying for dates? Sets a bad BB precedent. Every other guy will take her out, be different. Kiss on the first date always. You go to her place to do homework. Why? You bring some drinks to her dorm to unwind. Chat, sit on her bed, kino, kiss, bone, leave/stay. I like leaving and texting the next morning and ask her to join you for coffee where you already have one.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 11:05 PM
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I let them take it, not nice things like a sweatshirt but things like a button up T shirt that i can dress her a bit slutty for me. Flip the mark, now she knows she is mine to parade if I feel like not free to demonstrate her territory as she feels as she originally intended. Then when she brings it back there is the "I was embarrassed" nasty steamy dirty sex session
/r/askTRP09/04/15 04:49 PM
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For workout: cardio 45 min to 60 3-4x a week + lifting an hour 5x a week and your weight will DROP. Seriously fall off, especially with good diet. Sprained ankle you should be using unstable surfaces like the bosu ball, cardio go lower impact like biking / swimming. Dumbbells are fantastic for building chest, Yates's workout was incline bench flys at 30* and decline flys same angle. will really isolate chest and build separation.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 04:02 AM
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if the mammoth stomped on your husband, you and your kids had an easier time surviving if it was easy for you to forget him and take on a new dude than otherwise Until they hit the wall. I was unsure of its real existence until my divorce (filed. YAY!) My ex has 0 attractiveness to me. She is unfit to bear my children and I find her completely unattractive. Interesting.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 02:07 AM
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Not too stupid to know, so used to it that it is normal for you, because it is. Trying to work the dread aspect here which only exist in the world where she see's you as more desirable than she is / treats you. By saying one thing then backing down you aren't creating dread. By stating what your life is like, how you get all this attention that she doesn't see, that others find you attractive is the dread. By then saying "I'm only yours forever and ever numnumnum" kills it. Shit "going out with …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 09:21 PM
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I already feel insecure about all the single women around you and now you tell me one is chasing you? -Its only for a weekend. Blah Blah hamster IDk? Something like -One way to be sure you can trust me. Make sure I'm too exhausted all weekend to notice. (poorly phrased but whatever) BUT she also said W: I know it feels good to be found attractive. She just said she isn't attracted to you. Why not pressure flip here? -What do people do to make you feel attractive? Hamster's semi important answer …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 07:29 PM
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So what exactly is your benefit with the situation? What are your needs? Are those needs being met? Are her needs met? What is she getting out of the relationship?
/r/askTRP08/04/15 06:48 PM
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In my experience with a lesbian ex, bounce. Its done
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 04:31 PM
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So with an lower SMV the dynamic will be different unless, as it sounds, you are so insecure with your approaches. With a low SMV they will hit on you which is totally different. Its like training for the 800 by throwing the javelin, yea they are both track and field but they are fundamentally completely different. Better to practice with equal SMV that you know are in LTR's. You are going in knowing you wont get anywhere but the dynamic will be closer to game time. Plus if you pull it then you …
/r/askTRP06/04/15 09:25 PM
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Thats common here. I have more reading to do on the subject but in a month or so I will be posting some solid theory on it that applies to most guys here. Meanwhile focus on you. You lost yourself, time to find it again. If you want here are my relevant posts on your situation, learn my lessons: http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2w05ee/the_strength_of_the_alpha_and_the_relentless/ http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2xp3zw/fr_tinder_dates_profile_fishing_this_past_week/ I also post…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 05:01 PM
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men go their own way from time to time. You need to grieve and refocus. IDGAF is useful, just don't let it last longer than 5 months, thats depression. You also don't want to continue a validation cycle so some solitary time will be good for you. Alpha up. Do what you do, do it well.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 04:40 PM
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you're showing weakness that's turning her off. PERIOD. every single time I've shown weakness it has been detrimental to the relationship because women are not turned on by weakness it is bullshit for them to say that they are and they are not. your personal problems are your problems she does not want to hear about them when she asked to hear about them she is really asking for you to say "it hurts but I can handle it and I can fix it. this is what I've done to improve the situation already" bu…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:54 PM
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So what did you learn from it, how have you applied it?
/r/askTRP02/04/15 01:26 AM
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I'd throw in The Game, deals with basicstuff but delivers it in a way that is easy to digest
/r/askTRP01/04/15 10:32 PM
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See a psychiatrist, could be depression spectrum stuff
/r/askTRP01/04/15 01:56 AM
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The CC system in CA allows you to transfer to UC's very easily, in general you need a 3.0 and can go anywhere to any program. Because you had a bad year you may have issues transferring directly. You may have done better at other schools because 1) courses were easy 2) summer course so again, easy 3) it was a break for you. Look into the counseling services at UCB and admissions about your situation, join a social group of some sort, go play with the cannon, Drink then play with the cannon again…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 09:18 PM
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How are your energy levels, has your diet changed, weight gain, ease or difficulty of orgasm, testicular size, body hair.... From what you said I'd weigh on depression over test but it's a $150 test for the full battery, you can do it at any lab without a Dr. note, insurance just wouldn't cover it in that situation
/r/askTRP31/03/15 09:08 PM
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Not butt hurt, just disappointed. She had me so worked I dropped my others because I simply didn't have the energy. Its going to take me at least 2 days to drum up another 1, two more to get a full load of 3. I'd rather have one who fucks me 8 hours straight every way you can imagine so that she can't walk straight for two days leaving me just too exhausted to deal with others. Then I can focus on finding that 1 poly sub chick to bring into the antics department. BTW you want a good lady challen…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 11:16 PM
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crap, sex was awesome
/r/askTRP30/03/15 07:53 PM
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I was hoping to be a little more proactive in the dread department, a softer next. I already hit her with "busy the next ___ days" but it didn't pan out the way I hoped.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 04:44 PM
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I explained the ins and outs of buying chicks drinks. You're joking right? I NEVER buy a drink unless I am in a stupid beta mind set. They buy my drink or I buy my drink. If I am hosting of course I will have booze on hand but I do not buy any girl a drink at a bar. That is why they are there, to have drinks bought for them. If you buy the drink you are playing into their game. After they buy me a drink then I will buy them one as tit-for-tat.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 10:09 PM
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"you're right, some of them are hot. Would you want them to watch?"
/r/askTRP28/03/15 07:12 AM
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It just sucks that I had such blinders on. Fact is men are used in combat not women because of innate loyalty. There was a big study in the 90's that explored this concept. Couple that with people's natural tendency to project their internal values on others and you get a world of hurt that so many experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 12:33 AM
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She said to fix yourself and you gave it a week? Shit man that sounds like my a-hole wife. Man up, tell her "I want to stay separated for the next few months and focus on me and see where we can pick up in 3 months" and implement. Limited contact, learn to fight, to respond to shit tests, to increase your SMV etc. IF you want, prepare for divorce at the same time else why did you get married in the first place? In the place where you don't care about being married but want to focus on yourself i…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 10:58 PM
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Well I thought my wife was going to be amicable in the process, Thought she was going to abide in good faith.... Holy shit have I been wrong. Granted she had no honor, was emotionally abusive, abandoned the marriage etc. but I still expected her to act with dignity. Yea NO! She is taking the dogs from me (technically a premarital asset of hers) with no visitation next week, 4 months earlier than the agreed for caretaking arrangement. I've been the caretaker of these dogs for 3 years, shes taking…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 10:50 PM
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must be using RES
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 08:01 PM
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10/10 you just need to communicate with them on their level which is shallow. In college hooked up with a former beauty queen by stating that I thought about competing in the men's equivalent even though at the time I was fat. I also was one of the few with the balls to approach.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 05:01 PM
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Thats where this comes in. 100% if its an audiobook do that. One thing I hate is when you adjust the speed the length of stops doesn't change so reading at 350 wpm but full period pause its like someone slamming on the brakes.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 02:39 PM
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builtfat and bear.... damnit! Does explain all the guy attention i get...
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 10:42 PM
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http://www.cnet.com/how-to/how-to-switch-between-reading-and-listening-in-kindle-apps/
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 10:41 PM
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Same boat on part of this. Try meetups to meet new people, change your gym schedule to go at night because it is cooler and less crowded, plus thats when the spotting buddy you found on CL likes to go, try taking some sort of enrichment course... There are more ways to occupy yourself at night. I'm in the bay so I use sffuncheap to think of new things to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 10:39 PM
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It might, it takes skill but when something is free for the taking it is never valued. I think an overt denial might trigger a fight but you being less available when you think she would want it (my ex about every 2 weeks), be at the gym, out with friends or have to wake up early for work might be a better play. Because you will always meet her need for it there is no requirement from her to meet yours. Scrap sex is the worst, but also means she isn't being truthful about something. Something is…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 08:28 PM
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there are aps to read it to you. For me it was way better hearing it than reading
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 08:06 PM
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I'd say the opposite. Do deny. She can get it whenever, you are struggling for it. By taking that away she will have to start working for it
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 08:05 PM
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Reading this, I don't like it. Good replies but she is still disinterested. She is holding a sex-power dynamic over you by the look of things
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 07:08 PM
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If I recall correctly only certain paternity tests in CA are valid in family law and must be requested prior to birth. Hows that for a bitch
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:29 PM
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If they "aren't showing interest" that just means you need to alter your approach
/r/askTRP25/03/15 03:33 PM
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as a guy with no refractory period I am completely unfamiliar with this very concept. Are you fapping so much to such extreme shit that nothing else gets you off? If so then the porn and fapping aren't the issue, they are just a symptom
/r/askTRP25/03/15 04:52 AM
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Without more of the texts can't tell but you may have lost it completely with this one. She's calling you a beta, why?
/r/askTRP24/03/15 11:39 PM
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Problem is once you are above that 200 pound mark the odds of you going to the hospital if it escalates grows exponentially.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 09:00 PM
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Ok so you don't like how he does anal. Do you still let him do it or do you say 'no'? To be honest you don't have a proper Dom/Sub relationship, TRP is about social dominance not bedroom per se. A good dom takes you on a journey not just plunge you in the deep end. You should listen to /u/Red-Zen and check the sidebar in /r/bdsm
/r/askTRP24/03/15 08:36 PM
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You are giving all the validation and getting 0 return. Orbit defined
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:27 PM
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No PM's. What boundaries are you uncomfortable with and why
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:24 PM
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Not a fan of the no-fap. Seriously its a muscle, use it or lose it. That said many over do it. Cut fapping to 1 or 2x a week if you arent getting laid. Keep the tissue healthy
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:00 PM
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So in the future (not now, maybe a few months) I will be doing an RP discussion post that will deal with that very issue. I hope that it legitimizes TRP a bit and starts a good discussion. I just can't right now. Suffice it to say that I think you are just more inclined to see that from women than men but it happens on both sides equally only differently.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 12:21 AM
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Have you tried planting a seed for a bit of adventure? This may not apply as I am divorcing the horrible and emotionally abusive woman I called my wife but with my new girl we did the following: I Texted: Hey can you do a handstand? Her: Maybe not very well, why? Me: Oh I have an idea of something that I'd like to try.... Next day: Start with standard sexytime start, tell her I want to see her in the light... shes naked... Me: Hey babe let me see you do that handstand. Her: ??????? Me: Ill help …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/15 12:13 AM
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Don't get me wrong, there is nothing I hate more than the entitlement you speak of, however I'm stating it is at least a valid thought. That said What is the difference between him and a woman not the best response to have. Somewhat contributes to a negative stereotype here.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:57 PM
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in his defense, inheritance. weak but valid
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:02 PM
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because you are higher in SMV than they are so they are trying to belittle your frame. Answer with something like, idk, "I'm just looking for someone to tie me down" and if you want continue with "because I usually do the tying" and you have deflected + escalated.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 08:02 PM
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hand to the small of the back to guide to somewhere and leave it there.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:56 AM
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Talk less, ask more questions. I'd ditch the static dates (movie, coffee etc.) and do something, even meeting up at the mall or something because then you can easily escalate touch when you want to steer her around. Do that for a bit, steer her into a corner and go for the kiss. Not to heavy on the start, enough to establish that you are both sexual beings, then take her hand and keep moving. 15 min later you have been keeping touch high + flirt high, go around a corner in the parking lot or wha…
/r/askTRP21/03/15 10:54 PM
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2nd the stay away and the side bar. For you I'd start with shit tests then work to the others. It sounds like you are gearing towards a level 5 blowout so need to be able to handle what she will throw out at you. Conceptually the idea for shit tests is not to engage directly but to parry her attacks and hamster. She has some religious background or something making her feel guilty about touching you, she is blaming you for that guilt. Its just a shit test/hamster. You did fail a way-too-early fo…
/r/askTRP21/03/15 10:41 PM
1

"Dread game"... exactly what she is doing.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 02:20 PM
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Cold Approach is spear hunting, Bar approach is bow hunting with a salt lick, online dating is trawl fishing.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 02:19 PM
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Think about it this way, how many times have you heard "I don't sleep with guys until the ____ date"? How many times did you A: listen to that nonsense B: let it affect your thinking or plan of action C: Not hooked up anyway with them within a week? If you answered "Yes" to 'A-C' then you need to improve your game. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 02:14 PM
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So thus far, unicorn on this one. I have never in my life been exhausted by a girl... ever. Holy shit. Also smart cute etc and wants me to hang onto my plates for when she isn't able to satisfy me. Doing my best to play it RP though but i had to burn my plates, I just didn't have the energy! She did give me blue balls this morning but that is partly my fault... she was too sore from our last session so I have to wait till Thursday for her to heal. I am looking for a unicorn plate (bi or bi curio…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 01:57 AM
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If you text her, she wants coffee. That sucks and she controls it. Text her to join you for happy hour.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 12:04 AM
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Honestly it sounds like you have some underlying anxiety issues, generally caused by mild depression. You may want to consider treatment for that part. A psychiatrist would be a good starting point, then can get you on an SSRI like trazodone that will help the anxiety and depression and doesn't affect libido. One thing I did to motivate myself was put my goals on a big poster board and stick it on the ceiling above my bed. Every night that poster board was the last thing I saw and every morning …
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:12 PM
1

especially 2 hours later from instant messages. Would be totally different in person but on fb, no point.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 09:07 PM
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Neuroscience here, 1: vitamins won't do anything unless you have a deficiency. Take a multi and forget the rest. 2: Depression, anxiety, meds or other drugs you are on all have an effect on Libido, as does being biologically "naive". For test, look at your score and compare it to the breakdown by age. if it is outside of a standard deviation you are insurance qualified for treatment and it is medically sound to do so. was the Testosterone lab you did a full assay including thyroid, estrogen etc?…
/r/askTRP15/03/15 08:50 PM
1

So you are planning on moving so you can get married? Why?
/r/askTRP15/03/15 08:06 PM
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The US recognises foreign marriages so unless you are planning on moving somewhere....
/r/askTRP15/03/15 06:03 PM
1

are you in orbit?
/r/askTRP15/03/15 05:58 PM
1

Rule 1 for game is to peacock, separate yourself from the herd of guys hitting on her. She is used to hearing direct compliments or insults, don't give either. Instead backhanded compliments work well and carry the teasing banter while showing mild interest. If you go for direct use it as a reward but be creative.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 05:25 PM
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Fair point. I took it as he wasn't in full orbit but you are probably right now that I consider it further. Definately safer to assume you are right than to put in the legwork to secure a wingman
/r/askTRP15/03/15 05:16 PM
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Why did you text "Should I expect anything?" I feel like it sounds needy but then again you lead with "maybe" instead of "how about the real thing" ... then made her wait
/r/askTRP15/03/15 06:44 AM
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I think the best move is to make her your wingman
/r/askTRP15/03/15 06:05 AM
1

wrong on the LTR of Tinder, you can LTR whomever you want just don't be stupid. Everyone there is a ONS - FWB until I find otherwise though since I am literally too tired after my main dish, she is LTR qualified. Tinder isn't as good as it once was with this limited swipe nonsense. That will kill it for the company. I also tend to shy away from the general TRP lexicon, working on alternates that are easier to sell. Gotta make friends first to sell someone. Cant sell an adversary.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 05:30 AM
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I would have gone with a different approach to get her home, work her up to no end and say "we aren't having sex tonight" Then smash in the morning. Right now she still controls the dynamic and put you in a weak position as the one waiting for the text. Your frame also reflects this a little bit. Make her come to you.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 11:42 PM
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use a proxy
/r/askTRP14/03/15 11:38 PM
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"I am no longer going to take your harassment. I am a student here, and as such, I am entitled to a professional, non-hostile environment. Your behavior is not acceptable. If you ever speak to me in that way again, I will report you to the dean. I ignored your conduct for too long, hoping you would stop, and I am not going to ignore it any longer. Leave me alone from now on. I'm going to quote Lamb of God: "Whoever appeals to the law against his fellow man is either a fool or a coward. Whoever c…
/r/askTRP14/03/15 10:54 PM
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So I've been kicking ass on Tinder to the point where I am too exhausted from my main dish to even continue to try with others. I cut bait. Here are my tips: 1 Forget real SMV, it is the SMV you can project that is important. 2 Get them to chase you. That easy. Have good responses to shit tests (I am always reading every shit test post, I asked the mods to do a meta on technique but was denied sadly) because they are going to come at you with shit after shit to see if your SMV is really as high …
/r/askTRP14/03/15 10:47 PM
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So you are hitting on a girl and she says "I thought you were gay?" Or random girl friends said they assume you were gay? These are very different. If you are spitting game and she says "I thought you were gay" easy, 'I'm full of surprises' and go for kiss right there and bite her lip. Or if you aren't in a position to pull that move, pinch her ass or something. Whatever, be playful and sexual. If its friends who said it, who cares? They aren't your target, their friends are, they are there for …
/r/askTRP14/03/15 12:49 AM
1

i stated clearly in that example equal earning potential so no spousal support. Child support is a different matter but if both earn the same, contributions should be the same and argued in court as such. Or go joint custody, no child support payments. You made the argument against marriage, now you're trying to use my agreement as a shield to back out of the argument because you realize it's airtight. I made the argument for marriage, that it needs to be thought of as a business decision. You s…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 01:52 AM
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Saying that people are entering into something in ignorance is not an argument against the agreement, only the reasoning. If you marry someone of equal wage or status, there is no real loss to you. So that leaves you with all the positives I listed.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:37 AM
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go now
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:35 AM
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ok semantics on promise / guarantee so I wont give you that. The business decision should be thought out. I didn't say I entered into it with that in mind but I did capitalize. What everyone should do is think about these things before they enter into it. I know how to make my SMV higher than it is, most people cannot. This is true. Most RP's still can't. They post about it all the time. Know how to skew perception!
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:14 AM
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Many things just don't be deluded by promises as I was. There is no real promise of fidelity, longevity, love, sex etc. There is a promise of joint finances, tax benefits, dual incomes so loan procurement, certain level of prestige and status... It is a business decision not a love decision.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:01 AM
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why didn't you make her beg for you to go over, go over and smash?
/r/askTRP12/03/15 03:57 AM
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I only date / marry women who qualify for AMT. I beg to differ. Marriage is a tool, don't be the tool and hate blindly nor follow blindly. Be aware and make good decisions. I screwed up so mine failed but I've won on the close.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 03:44 AM
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you know her address? Go to the PD, show the texts and get a temporary restraining order Emergency Protective Order. The best defence is a clean offense. Its a really simple form to fill out, you only need basic identity info. it goes for 72 hours before a judge reviews it and decides to extend it as a Temporary restraining order. Edit: Clarification and correction of terms
/r/askTRP12/03/15 03:36 AM
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From what you gave, nothing really just say you need to pee and talk to someone else. Depending on how she presents it, you have a cocky in. You can say... idk depends on the dynamic but 'don't worry about him and enjoy the present', you've been doing light kino so you should have an easy in to shut her up with your mouth on hers. She will go either full/partial engage (it was a shit test) or "no no no" in which case she is hung up. So success rate based on probability at that point is 66%. Agai…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 03:24 AM
1

Translation: So you withdrew and alpha'd up, she responded in essence to secure the relationship but you didn't increase your emotional validation of her, she see's her efforts as not working and is becoming depressed. As said above beta up a little, offer validation to her. Take her on a date that is more elaborate than usual so she feels special, then go for a run.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 02:48 AM
1

so soft dread?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/15 05:11 PM
1

What about setting up the relationship you want from the beginning, clear boundaries of what is ok, live the alpha life? It seems to me you are going for the easy way out with this one based on a prejudice.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 12:00 AM
1

So my thoughts aren't in the main post: Tinder Great for hookups but has slowed with the limited swipe option. OKC Seems in my experience more geared for dating / relationships though I have heard different. Q's are fun, match % is handy. PoF New to that one. It has a feature for "meet me" that so far is kinda worthless. More effort to send a message and read them than tinder and okc, cant see full profiles from someone that wants to meet you easily. High traffic Blendr Looks like it could be go…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 11:52 PM
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Tinder + Blendr (I think this might be better than new Tinder): Headline =There to meet people but you have limited time because of your business. Pics: Standard pic rules, a step up is do what I did and have some that were professionally shot. CL can get this for you cheap from an art student who needs a portfolio. All the talent and little expense. Then standard text game. Using this i have literally been exhausted and only on for a few weeks. Granted I am a decent looking guy but still.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:34 PM
1

1 step up and add the pressure flip: Standards. What makes you different from the other girls?
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:29 PM
1

Thought: She feels gross when she is sick and when she is on her period, the shit tests stem from this. Why not deal with that? My college gf was the same way... at first. Note there are other places to put your dick, hell with a condom and a towel, who cares if she's on the rag? Granted, I have fewer boundaries than most but I break them down by being in charge, showing confidence in what I'm doing and possibly most important building trust. I make sure (part of my failing in my marriage but de…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 10:30 PM
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that is a naive way of looking at it and exactly what someone trying to sell you would say.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 10:01 PM
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Don't go to the military to learn discipline, its BS. Take time off, work. Get a shitty job. One that seriously fucking sucks and you will hate: think janitor at a drive in movie theater. Nothing but sticky condoms everywhere. You will hate that job. You will be bored, you will have time to think. When you do think, read to improve yourself. Read books from the library about how to start a business, about tax law, sales etc. Try for a book every 3 weeks. Get used to reading a chapter or 3 before…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 09:59 PM
1

I guess I got muddled. She knows of the plate situation, tells me to keep them when she needs to heal. Is it really that easy?
/r/askTRP09/03/15 01:17 PM
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That is but the point you brought, not the argument. OP asks about rates, I replied with 'here is the theory based on statistics', you replied with the above and now are citing that assertion. You can't cite yourself in a debate, furthermore you need to directly address the point made. Here I reiterated the point made and you ignored it. This is no longer a debate. There is no knowledge nor position to gain.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 03:41 AM
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previous post: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2xp3zw/fr_tinder_dates_profile_fishing_this_past_week/
/r/askTRP09/03/15 03:08 AM
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So I lived with girls. I like actually living with girls when I need to have a roommate. They might be dirtier but they don't break walls. every girl I have lived with has given me a high five for hooking up with girls. This is normal behavior, what you are experiencing is something else. Shit test? Is she into you and you don't realize it? If so carry on bangin. Bitch? If she is a bitch, please sir, carry on. Uncomfortable with other women in her space? She needs more exposure, please carry on.…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 02:51 AM
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Having plates is a way for a man to not be overly invested, not give everything freely to the SO who will then devalue him for that. The logic you are using is a nonsequitur of the above point that I was making. It doesn't address it at all. The point is "value", not "being caught". That "being caught" you mentioned is adding to the basic scenario above, the addition of which is not congruent with logical forms of argument. Stick to the point of "value" and address it directly, without an anecdo…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 02:40 AM
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Non sequitur.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 10:47 PM
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Women file for divorce 70 something percent of the time. Not men. Having plates is a way for a man to not be overly invested, not give everything freely to the SO who will then devalue him for that. Then the marriage / relationship fails. Its a technique based on game theory, mathematically described with the inverse of the prisoner dilemma
/r/askTRP08/03/15 03:23 AM
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PM me if you want more info
/r/askTRP07/03/15 06:44 PM
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19 That explains alot. I was reading this thinking "are they all children?" The answer being obviously 'yes'. Work your amused mastery, pressure flip is also an option but you would be engaging him on his level. If you win the pressure flip, you're golden. To the friends that bring in a newb and this happens, you are being beta'd by the whole group. I had a group try this to me at a bar, I just went and hooked up with a girl out back, came back 'where'd you go?' "You guys were boring so I decide…
/r/askTRP07/03/15 05:42 PM
1

Free time? My day as follows (adult student): wake up, class, study, class, eat, study, class occasionally, tider gym eat pass out. W/e: tinder exploit in the am, study gym tinder. Repete. If i was working not in class I would STILL be studying or networking. my business could seriously kick ass. I want a gt3. I am going to get it.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 04:35 PM
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antidepressive meds can affect your libido. testosterone injections can change your life, seriously imagine being a 15 year old. they can also hardshock you in alpha mode which is what the whole no fap thing is here but I don't get. Use it or lose it. If you are at a certain threshold (outside of a standard deviation from the norm for your age group) you can get your doctor to prescribe it and insurance to cover it. else you can get it from a clinic online which in some ways is actually even be …
/r/askTRP07/03/15 04:27 PM
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just fyi in the states, spitting in someones face is assault (not battery which is what she did) not sure about the UK though. You need to work on controlling your shit though.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:54 PM
3

Do you have resting a-hole face? Are your clothes more expensive but mismatched? Hair in shambles? Dirty?
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:28 AM
0

I have NEVER been one for therapy, until yesterday. Recovering from a shit marriage, started therapy. Didn't really do anything for me at first. Yesterday the fickle person I married got under my skin, really pissed me off. Went to therapy mad. Left fine. I was pissed for hours, couldn't even lift she had me so pissed off (for me if it isn't 100% its hard for me to do... I lose my mental game). Yet halfway through the session, I stopped wasn't mad anymore. I was introspective. You might need thi…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 10:54 PM
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What's your SMV in rough terms? Perception of SMV, core tenant of TRP I will say that I know how to work people, I know how to manipulate, I can work a room and read body language. Girls key into some of the stupidest things sometimes, you just need to be aware. Follow their eyes follow how they position themselves. They will tell you what to do, just be perceptive. Footwear is more important than you think, her eyes go there first or second. She will judge the rest of you based on shoes, if you…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:17 PM
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I can see that being true. I fired up a few dating apps just to cull prospects but tinder uses most of my time, I haven't even really tried with the others. My PoF keeps going off and I just ignore it now
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:38 PM
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I've only been on it about 2 weeks total now, active for about a week, haven't been active since before the w/e. I see all the girls who want to just use a guy to get a drink, that was girl 2 so you need to prescreen that (obviously I never included those. One in particular I talked to for a bit, she pushed for dinner. Told her no. Mutual next). I also have this competitive always win thing so I am naturally attracted to hard-to-get... I think its the overdeveloped athlete in me or the hamster. …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 06:42 PM
1

I saw a different layout, but I think I have more on my plate than I can handle so i haven't played with it since last week. You might be right. I just don't know
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 06:00 PM
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I went through the same shit when I realized how beta I had become in my LTR and it ended. I felt like shit, totally taken for granted for, devalued etc. I knew early what I did wrong, I just gambled and lost hardcore that she would let me fix things. She didn't. That was my realization how bad it was. Not earlier when I tried to amp up RP thinking and actions. My current goal is continue to build myself despite the fickle one (note not because of, for or anything regarding her, for me), establi…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 05:59 PM
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So from tinder my hands have been FULL. The pay for app I think just lets you organize your likes and dislikes and undo them, idk about all the rest. It still works, is easy as you can see above. Blendr you need to make a fake FB account as it can access all of you photos regardless of share status of the photo which is BS. I fired up an account and all i see are hidden photos. Blendr though seems promising, my hands are just full Remember that I am not pursuing I am working being pursued so I a…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:22 PM
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So I went with the 1 text/ day to see what sparks and leave it at that. Enough attention to say I exist but don't care if you you don't text me back... Took a few days it seems but she started fiendish texting again, so you are right. I still think I need to alter my game a bit though with her. Thinking about it, same game my wife pulled with me so I need to be CAREFUL, though in the end the wife situation worked out in my favor, shes out and I'm fine, angry but fine financially.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:15 PM
1

even got a kiss Its a date, this should happen at a minimum otherwise welcome to friend zone. You don't ask for a meetup "why don't we go out" NO! Do not take her to a movie. Stop texting her so much. She texts you, go short + quick follow up question. stop. Wait for her to text you. If its a how are you doing? She's asking if your time is important. It is.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 10:14 PM
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That was definitely girl 2, I'm just not getting that vibe with this one. To the date quickly, yes/no I feel... situational. Girl 4 I had to talk to enough that instant friend-zone is a serious concern, she is just so reserved. Common with the nerdy/socially awkward type. I might have to go less of the standard pick up game more friend - trust - listen - comfort - intimacy approach, it is just so very close to beta. Hard to control that type of game, you have to give quite a bit. Still strategiz…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 08:53 PM
1

stop talking, make them talk. Control the flow, take them out of their comfort zone a little, say something to make them blush, physical contact... blah blah blah ask "why haven't you kissed me?" physically tease, meet token objections. bedroom, leave at 3 or 5 am because you have shit to do like hit the gym.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 05:42 PM
1

Read "The Game" will take you maybe 4 hours to read the whole thing.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 05:35 PM
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From my recent breakup i learned: Self doubts are for your friends and therapist, not wife. Try hitting the heavy bag when you are feeling down or spazzy, or go for a long drive. Clear your head up. But the car biz is rough
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/15 06:25 PM
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Shake up your mental game by busting that routine. If you are boring look for things like local bands playing at clubs/bars, even if you don't like the music, its a story and its different. If you can afford to, go somewhere! Join a climbing gym, learn how and go do it. Thats shit interesting. Start taking a class at the community college that will better you or your career. Learn a new business skill, take a polysci, theoretical physics or world religions course. Get an educated opinion about s…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 06:05 PM
1

Prison workout.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 03:33 AM
1

My takeaway lesson is two fold: don't rush and focus on yourself. I know I was able to pull off the win of all wins for me with the divorce agreement but we didn't have kids, thank fucking god! Some of my stumbling blocks as you can see are when I give things away freely (I think at the time its for the better of the relationship... damn beta side). If something is free, it has no value by definition. There is a lot to be said for withholding, the thing I struggled with was being able to withhol…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 09:27 PM
1

Your right. I still lift but my focus has been more cardio. I'd like to be in a position to go out for the national team next year. Not a serious goal, work/school first but that would be really fun. The cardio has cut my bench from 5x5x~260 down to ~220 but I think the look is significantly better. Defined is better than strong. Also looking at Yate's workout i think I should be doing fly-press supersets sets of 12 anyway. Here is the bitch with her. That hamster has an IQ of 155... It is a gia…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/15 03:47 PM
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Just to fuck with her I did send her a shirtless selfie (I leaned up significantly since we were last together. Doing my college sport again after a decade, coach just asked if I still had NCAA eligibility... Im in my 30's) which is rather out of character for me. Generally my attitude is "you want to see this you'd better earn it" but I thought a little rib jab would be fun
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 03:06 PM
1

I'm assuming you didn't read through the lines here. As mentioned above, I can, and do, Alpha other women but not the ex. This was the problem throughout the relationship, which I valued. I tried to change the dynamic as stated in my long post but I believe I failed for the stated reasons. This is about alpha/beta dynamic that exists in LTR's (see sidebar) and trying to balance them. My longer post dealt specifically with the drug like appeal of being "needed" which is, I think, a major contribu…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 03:03 PM
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CA: No fault. Only issue is misappropriation of marital assets which she has done, not me so more $$$
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 02:50 PM
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Why should I wait 6 months to get laid? I gave her the offer after she bounced. She did not value the marriage. I did. I entered into the marriage with the understanding that you are choosing to spend the rest of your life with a person, to achieve the rest of your life goals together as partners. She is fickle or something idk. Why do I still want her? For the above reasons, I didn't take that decision lightly. I thought about it. I was in a LTR that lasted 5 years before that. I knew what I wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 09:28 PM
3

"You want to hear my voice before bed? Stay the night and I WILL take care of that." This is what I was thinking
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 06:32 PM
2

She took the settlement which was HUGE. Holy crap that was the biggest thing in the world as far as my mental health was concerned. The thing is, and I think this was the point of my post, is the idea of a life companion is appealing, I do want it. I chose her as a life partner, with the BP idea of having someone to lean on when I needed and being there to be leaned on. Sadly the companion to lean did not happen. I guess I still want that and am trying to accept the RP philosophy that that won't…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 06:28 PM
2

Yea sorry forgot to include that in the xpost. Pretty much my life story, how I got to where I am
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 04:06 PM
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Getting a divorce, she left me for a woman, now lives with her. Not my ideal by any means. I have actually never spun a plate, never wanted to. One night stands, FWB but never had a side dish when I was in an LTR. Never wanted to. Her frame was that she missed me but at the same time wants to control everything and believes she can eat her cake and have it too. Do what she wants with this girl and have me as a second choice orbiter.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 04:04 PM
3

did
/r/askTRP24/02/15 03:46 PM
2

I was thinking that I should wait. rough reading in her text that she wants to hear my voice before she goes to sleep but she is with another woman now. Gotta maintain that frame but it is HARD to do
/r/askTRP24/02/15 03:43 PM
1

its basic we're filed, she misses me, i do want her back (in a good relationship, not the shit fest we had). wondering what to text
/r/askTRP24/02/15 03:07 PM
2

I actually did a whole post on it here: The Strength of the Alpha and the Relentless appeal of the Beta essentially my life story but the 2nd half is her. I should add that she called 9 times and texted a few that she wanted to hear my voice
/r/askTRP24/02/15 01:57 PM
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Read the room, silence is power, if attacked go to the standard shit test models of action. If pressed for an opinion you could say something to the effect of "Science papers must be sponsored by someone, that someone will have an agenda. Facts can be misused, statistics abused. I saw one stat that says when controlled for education and hours worked, men and women are paid the same. This makes sense to me because no one wants to be sued"
/r/askTRP20/02/15 07:05 PM
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Dealing with temporary weakness? Amused Mastery. The same cocky attitude knowing that even down you are step away from being on top, that you shit the bed from gastro and are too weak to hold a glass of water but in 5 days you will be back in the gym. The weakness doesn't define you, you can laugh at it.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 06:56 PM
1

No Backsies Luls
/r/askTRP17/02/15 03:41 PM
1

Women will always take the primrose path and rationalize afterwards why they inevitably had to take it This. I hope you aren't planning on giving anything to her in the future. Like what? She gets nothing. She wants something she has to beg for it or earn it. I found out that at a certain point size can be a hindrance. Some girls / women see the power or novelty, many if not most see "I wonder what happens if he gets mad?" Also the number of guys who walk up to you to talk about lifting or that …
/r/askTRP16/02/15 05:35 AM
1

Its the basics but the best houses are built on the strongest foundations
/r/askTRP16/02/15 05:07 AM
1

Have you really? you deleted your story but look at what you said. Your frame is the same. To your happiness point, when you buy a candybar or whatever, does it make you happy? It does. When you are at someones beck and call you are a servant, when you are available when you decide to be, you still make them happy but have lost nothing.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 07:26 PM
2

Either end the life or better, end the life perspective. You have given everything away as "the nice guy". When something is free it is by definition worthless. So by eing the nice guy you debase yourself. You have worth, expect returns on services. Deep down you are strong, you just have to learn how to express that strength. How to avoid being manipulated. It takes time (maybe some meds too) but when you emerge from the fog you are a better you. EDIT I thought this was an askreddit thread so I…
/r/askTRP15/02/15 05:03 PM
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Mine wanted a house husband. I begrudgingly agreed to make her happy. Respect went out the window, and so did the marriage
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 06:39 PM
1

I love modafinil! It is different from the other stimulants in that it is VERY broad, amphetamine stimulants work on only 1 of the dopaminergic pathways. As such you have stimulation of the PFC, Amygdaloid complex, global serotonin increase etc. Which means it will help to motivate you to do work but isn't going to give you that hyper focus on anything in front of you like amphetamines do. You wont type 80 WPM either. You will remember and recall better. No speedy feeling but when a cop pulls up…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 06:41 PM
1

This proves plenty of fish
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 05:25 PM
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I think its worth discussing the "let you and him fight" game they play. They are saying "you have no SMV, go earn some" like when they tell you to do push ups or pick them up or whatever stupid physical ruse they are coming up with that we don't do. So we have an omega that wants to be or thinks he is an alpha. Other than my advice of ignore & deflect as the main tools of controlling their position, what other tools are there that are effective?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 01:19 AM
1

Bugsy Siegel was relatively small. The guy happened to be a psychopath who was extremely quick with a razor The short guy always picks a fight How are these at odds? I also never said to provoke, I said to ignore or deflect. Sure say "hey thats not how it happened" to the provacure but after that talk to the ones most likely to do the damage. But yes, good FR
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 05:33 AM
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The short guy always picks a fight then has his larger friends do the work. This pattern should sound familiar with girls, loud group leader is asserting control over the group by being loud / center of attention, how do you overcome this if she is the one you want to hook up with? Ignore her, deflect her comments, control her position in the group. Same for this guy, ignore him, look for his orbiters and address them, not him. The group doesn't control you, you control the situation.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 02:42 AM
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Remember that all women use orbiters, usually betas that might be in for a week or 2 (or as long as they are available to be used) before the next alpha steps in.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 06:06 PM
2

Gotta say, this article post is crap. Pure nonesense and loaded with circular arguments, devoid of science. Fap away my friends, your once blue balls will thank you and your clear head will thank you.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 02:06 AM
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when asked about experiences in the last 12 months, men reported being “made to penetrate”—either by physical force or due to intoxication—at virtually the same rates as women reported rape (both 1.1 percent in 2010, and 1.7 and 1.6 respectively in 2011). In other words, if being made to penetrate someone was counted as rape—and why shouldn’t it be?—then the headlines could have focused on a truly sensational CDC finding: that women rape men as often as men rape women. Kinda throws a wrench into…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:43 PM
1

pretty much a Tl;Dr of The Game
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:40 AM
1

I say props for it as it doesn't leave her with a response and forces her to either be logical or quiet. ie she could say in reply "asshole" an admission you stuck it to her, "you should have known" - how? No one would ever want to have such a weak argument, or "How will I unwind now?" ... invitation. You didn't respond to the asshole comment so you avoided her level.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 01:28 AM
1

As someone who is 6-2 230lbs, I get more attention wearing boots that put me at 6-3 or 4 and women think im 6-6. Guys are more intimidated too
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 02:45 PM
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Elliot rogers hated alphas. He bitched constantly about them. In one rant going off about an indian guy with a bmw being a POS because he has a hot girlfriend that Elliot couldn't get. Btw newbie here to trp
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 04:11 PM
1

for Healthcare, look at being a PA, 2 - 3 years of school, 75-120k per year. For healthcare management it is variable and hard to get in.... BTW Same boat
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 12:51 AM
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Sounds like you attended a certain beach school. Accounting big 4 start at 60k with about 60 hour weeks. I was working sales making the same money but more hours and no real path for progression. As a CPA you can make it to 300k per year staying big 4, start your own business or hop on the startup bandwagon
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 12:49 AM
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I lost 50 pounds quickly and saw good results from women then I put muscle on that could be seen. That was appreciated. Just dont take the muscle road too far.... guys end up giving you more attention than you bargained for
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 08:16 AM
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