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Correct, not to the OP.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:51 PM
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Nah, sounds too much like ill intent for the guy. Could be confused with jealousy. Better to radiate good emotions.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:50 PM
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You have to look pretty beta in order to be in politics. Beta=safe. Politicians get play (although too many of them use prostitutes, weird) because they hold actual power, not just the social power which TRP is built on. They can be as beta as they want, because they're holding codes to the missiles pointed at entire countries. Because politicians are smart enough to cheat on their wives and the wives don't mind so much, because they're the main plate of an alpha. The politicians don't have to o…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:47 PM
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That's good to not pay for her, but that's a rule for everyone, not just plates and not just plates who you're keeping boundaries with. Remember to be emotionally distant too. You don't have to say nothing. You can tease her. You can talk about other things. Talking on a the phone every night is really an indication of commitment.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:42 PM
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There are a lot of studly grey-haired men out there. If you're in shape, it doesn't matter (like many other things). You can also use facial hair to your advantage, even if it's grey.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:39 PM
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"We need to both move on and stop doing this." If it works, you lose her, if it doesn't, things stay the same. So don't change anything. If she wants to talk to you, you reply the same way as always. You escalate. You ignore the fact that "we're just friends now". If she wants your attention, she gives you sex. If you give her attention without sex, then you're just an orbiter. So you go silent and wait for her to re-initiate, then you escalate. The most productive thing to do, as in many cases,…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:37 PM
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You're still giving her attention (about fucking her) and not fucking her (at that moment). She's like one of those snapchat celebrities who sends nudes and guys tell her how much they're into her. Fortunately, you're actually fucking her (along with 4 other dudes). Remind yourself she's a plate. Challenge yourself to be the least engaged (most emotionally unavailable) of all the dudes she's with, without even knowing those dudes.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:28 PM
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That. Change her mood, not her mind. "I don't want you touching her" said three days, three weeks, three hours, in advance, means nothing. It's a shit test. If you do that one thing she told you to do that one time, it's validating her, you're trying to please her. Not attractive. If she says it right then, then you reframe it. "ok, YOU touch her. here and here and here. do this and that."
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:25 PM
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Plate her. Make her work for the LTR. She apologized, now make sure she meant it.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:20 PM
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If you left too much air in it, it might float. But that won't happen often.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:11 PM
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Girls can't be alpha. Alpha means, attractive to women. (Topic statement is poorly worded.) Similarly, you don't set out to "be alpha". You set out to accomplish whatever your goal is. Often, that means displaying characteristics of leadership and behaviors which are attractive to women. Plenty more people answered, so I didn't read the post.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:09 PM
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Push and pull. Give her 2/3 of what she gives you. Neediness is pull and pull, giving >1 of what she gives you. There's no simple answer, but the answers are scattered all around here. The commandments are useful. Your question is basically the gist of TRP. How do I do <something sexy> without <doing something revolting>?
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:06 PM
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Your game is better. She will lose attraction to him after his mystery wears off and he fails a few shit tests.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 06:37 AM
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Be patient with them. They'll come around. It's a temporary annoyance. Letting their behavior make you visibly agitated is the opposite of stoicism.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:12 PM
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Being open to criticism is great. So great, I'm surprised this is a woman talking.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:06 PM
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She'll be back. Don't chase her. Strip clubs are expensive. You should not be paying for sex, and you should not be paying for less-than sex.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:03 PM
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Softer with mass. Shoulders and arms. Abs are fun too, but people respond to a man with a physically large presence.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:00 PM
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Puns are a good way to start. Also, change your attitude about what kind of person you are. You are whatever you want to be. You're allowed to have different personalities in different situations.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:57 PM
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She's into a new guy right now. You don't have to drop her just because she's flirting with someone else. That's what a plate is. You have no relationship with her. She'll be back, just don't make any hasty decisions. You got with her by playing it cool (or doing something else, IDK), keep doing that.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:55 PM
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Uprated. She's texting you. She's initiating. She wants to see you. No tests here.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:52 PM
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Clubs are female validation orgies. You may meet women but you're very unlikely to fuck them.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:51 PM
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Talk to her, kino, escalate while talking. Set something up with her again. Don't talk about the awkwardness with her. Reply to that message (NOW, you have waited long enough, she's asking what she did wrong, which is good), but don't attempt to explain. Change the subject. Give her good feelings. If she absolutely repeatedly pushes you to explain: "I don't know. We were making out, you went to the bathroom. We were making out again, you wanted a cigarette. I tried to stop you but you really wan…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:50 PM
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"Don't give a fuck" means err on the side if giving offense, being rude. Disregard others' emotions, unlike almost everyone else. It doesn't mean, utterly don't care about anything. Don't become a nihilist. Become stoic. Nobody becomes alpha by talking less. It means have less fear. Do what may not work out well.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:37 PM
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Monk mode isn't easy. It's not required. Changing your mentality is required. Changing yourself overnight is hard for the brain. Especially if you're going cold turkey on several things. Building new habits takes time and concentration. I'm not trying to talk you out of monk mode. I'm making you aware: you chose a difficult path. It's worth it, and it gets easier.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:35 PM
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Most men don't allow their wives to have male friends. Then again, most men are betas and mate-guard. I can't speak from experience. The best advice I know is: don't marry. Try the married TRP sub if you want a better answer.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:31 PM
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She didn't have a plan. "She planned all along" I interpret as :She never had decreased attraction to her boyfriend, but she wanted to feel better about herself after he fucked somebody else. Finding another guy, to "get even" is how she made herself feel better. She never planned anything herself, she was just chasing her own feelings.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:29 PM
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That she was either planning on getting back with him all along, and just slept with me to "justify" him cheating on her. Yeah. Although she doesn't understand it in those terms. She was looking for someone hot to make her feel wanted sexually, you did it. You were rent-a-stud. Congrats. She may come back.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 11:22 PM
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Thirsty is lack of abundance mentality. Thirst is wanting to land THIS ONE and having trouble walking away. Thirst is chase chase chase.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 11:17 PM
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Don't be logical. They're looking for a way in. They want to be turned on. Girls are terrible at vocalizing their desires, they want yours. Maybe they just want you to orbit, but you won't know that if you don't talk to them (and turn them on).
/r/askTRP20/07/15 11:15 PM
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Dating starts when you're 22-24. Before that, nobody knows enough to do anything seriously. Too much gossip, too much networking, things change way too quickly. People go to parties, people hookup. People go out with friend groups. Handling rejection well is key. You can't get anywhere if you're afraid of rejection. Girls are afraid of rejection. That's why they never ask boys out. Girls are 100x more scared of rejection than you are. And if you are scared of rejection, you're still being a girl…
/r/askTRP20/07/15 11:13 PM
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It's akin to finding the biggest kid on the first day of school and punching him for no reason. But you have to back it up. You must be unapologetic, continue to be mysterious, and not run away from anything.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 11:08 PM
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If she's sending you bikini pictures, she not looking for an orbiter. She's trying to turn you on so you'll do something about it. If GF knows about her, light dread is complete. Don't pursue anything with FF unless you're trying to turn up the dread game, because that can backfire if you're in a good place with GF. Don't talk about FF with GF unless you're trying to increase dread.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 11:05 PM
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She's testing to see what she can get away with. If she hassles you, hassle her back. If she REALLY doesn't want to please you, then she's not really into you and you soft-next.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 11:02 PM
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Dress well. Like, really well. No speaking required. Know about fashion, and be able to talk about it. Bonus points if you can do it without paying a ton of money. But there are better and less passive ways to make an impression.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 11:00 PM
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When I trust her. When she doesn't radiate slut vibes. And she's on birth control (not necessarily pill). Mandatory. Though girls on birth control are not typically irresponsible, so that's one gauge.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 10:58 PM
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It's a SMV boost. Guy with kids has gotten with a fertile woman. Guy is now single, which only means there's no competition. The qualities which made him great as still there. Single fathers are hot, single mothers are not.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 10:55 PM
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Natural response, "guess you're sleeping on top of me." No reason for it to make you angry.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 10:52 PM
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"Don't ask questions you don't want the answer to." A line I use a lot (with girls I've already plated), and it works here as well.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 10:51 PM
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I'd say, there's no reason to continue asking. You already know she wants to. If she really has a problem with it, she'll tell you "no I'm on my period" when you take off too many of her clothes or stick your fingers in. She's here, alone with you, smiling, and not wearing a parka. Subconsciously, all she really wants is you to take her in your arms, kiss her, and get her clothes off and her into your bed. (And you've been doing this for a while, as if that's not a giveaway.) SHE ASKED "do you w…
/r/askTRP20/07/15 10:49 PM
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Basically how I do it. There's no emotion, nothing except direction. No adjectives, no unnecessary words. No "please". I can't be expected to think, my dick is doing the thinking.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 10:46 PM
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She has an orbiter. You knew that already. You just found evidence. Look at the message convo. She is doing to him exactly what we don't want done to us. He should be nexting her. She has deleted previous conversation not to hide previous involvement from you, but because she has little interest in him. You're reacting over nothing. As if she's not allowed to have friends of both sexes? It's not like you're married. You're being insecure. Thanks for coming to us before you did something crazy.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 10:44 PM
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You can do what you want, but I don't usually text people for my amusement. Especially if I think they're fishing for validation. So you are a bodybuilder. Then you have a shot with plating her if your game is solid. Although I bet she'd love to have a bodybuilder orbiter.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 05:30 PM
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You have to talk to all women, not just the ones you rationally are attracted to, or you'll never get to practice your game. Sounds like you're hamstering a bit.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 11:35 PM
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Yes, but we still don't talk about it explicitly. First rule.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 11:33 PM
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If you have two weeks, then try to make time for her over the weekend. Yes, kino. Absolutely kino. A date without kino is a waste of time. Up to you to figure out if you need to come at her slow or just not be a chump when you come on strong. Hopefully you have a good reason to tell her of why you can't go to your place.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 11:32 PM
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She wants to fuck you and has convinced you to pay money for it. Plus, you're effectively both breaking the law. In the short term, stop paying her and start buying her gifts instead. Like a sugar daddy, but not much expensive. In the longer term, stop paying altogether, she wants to fuck you anyway.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 11:17 PM
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Girls with flat stomach and 38F (really?) tits are accustomed to tons of validation. She's probably just using you for it. Your game (no offense) is not attracting her. Maybe you're really well built, but if not, you're probably just orbiting. she called me weird and I mentioned half of the stuff I say is so I can laugh at my own jokes, I said you like it and she goes "that's what you keep thinking" so I was like what do you mean and she goes "oh nothing". For a girl who says she wants an honest…
/r/askTRP18/07/15 11:15 PM
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Nudes is looking for validation. They send nudes, you respond, you sext, and when you're organizing a date, they're flaky. It happens sometimes. And sometimes you get nudes and they are legit looking to get fucked. Case by case.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 11:10 PM
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She just says "ugh" or "wow"? Three letters, one message? Yeah, doesn't matter how hot she is, that deserves no response.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 11:08 PM
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Uprate this more. If there's a question of acting or ignoring, choose to act. Better to error on the side of a crazy unpredictable beta than to be a doormat beta.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 10:59 PM
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Yep. If she wants to come back (i.e. continue the relationship), she has to work for it.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 10:56 PM
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I expected to come here saying, you're being a douchebag. But no, she's being way out of line. I think you're letting her off easy. And when you finally did stand up for yourself, she didn't know how to handle it. You did well. That said, you shouldn't date someone you work with, or work with someone you're dating. You will be seen as the bad guy if she raises your relationship problems with anyone in any official capacity.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 10:54 PM
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Red meat. Cholesterol. Not that you need it, apparently.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:49 AM
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The work world is blue pill. Don't worry about it unless you're surrounded by women. Starting your own business or making a successful start-up is extremely alpha. "Entrepreneur" "innovation" and all those buzz-words.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:47 AM
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See a therapist. Your school probably covers most of it, and everyone should see a therapist for a period in his life. Preferably a male therapist. You're halfway there, but a therapist can help you with your limiting beliefs. With your therapist, Don't talk about being obsessed with women. Say "people", and "fit in". With your therapist, Don't talk about TRP.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:45 AM
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high stress recruiting job that makes 35k They're trying to take advantage of you. Find something to use your degree SOON, or you'll forget everything and you'll be another chump with a liberal arts degree. Source: was chump with liberal arts degree. Only problem with your current situation is lack of upward mobility. 55k starting out is great, if you can work your way to high positions with more money. Go to the interview anyway. You'll probably get the job, probably hate the job, but the most …
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:43 AM
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She'll come back when you forget about her. Don't communicate electronically. I want to make her need me and make her rely on me. Kill this mindset. So long as you want that, it won't happen.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:38 AM
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Don't laugh, don't ask questions. He was probably on drugs.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:34 AM
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When I started realizing women are really bad at making decisions. Particularly the ones who are young and pampered. Girls LIKE bold. 50% of getting her into bed is getting her clothes off. 50% of getting her clothes off is kissing her. 50% of kissing her is getting her in your space. And getting her in your space is not particularly hard.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:33 AM
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Women are attracted to the way men act. They will tell you the man is attractive, but it has nothing to do with his looks. Men can, however, be attractive looking. Men's behavior can reduce attraction, even if they are physically attractive. That is why "beta" exists. Also, I hate the Chad Thundercock meme. Many of us here ARE C.T., and most of us are trying to be. He's one of us. Or at least he's in the manosphere.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:27 AM
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None of my plates know my legal name.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:23 AM
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Nothing over $5. Preferably food, like candy. Hard to do without being creepy, but if it puts you on her radar, it can't be all bad.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:22 AM
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Stop lifting, start spending money. Move to a warm state with a party school and start dealing drugs to college kids (I'm mid-20s). Meet girls, fuck girls. Leave whatever money I couldn't spend to male cousins (because it's cash, not in the bank). Might start doing steroids, actually. Full DT.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:20 AM
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"Seems like something's on your mind, hun. What's going on?" Don't be any more specific. You are allowed to ask questions of your LTR. You are NOT allowed to complain. And you are NOT allowed to complain about the sex. You are allowed to be emotionally there for her. You are NOT allowed to ask her to be emotionally there for you.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:16 AM
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Sylvester Stallone is 70 this year. He is still in great shape and might be fucking 20-year-olds. Certainly 40-year-olds. Silvio Berlusconi is 78 and still spinning 20-40-yearold plates. Anyhow, the goal is not to get married. Not to not have kids. If you can find a woman or 5 to have your kids without marriage (yes, you should raise them, or they'll be brought up by a single mother, which is not good for the kids), that's the goal. Look up Erikson's psychosocial stages. You are biologically bui…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:13 AM
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Encountered two women who I was instantly attracted to No, they have to work for your attraction. Re-work this mindset. and wanted to learn more. Yes. "I have a boyfriend, and I don't want to give you the wrong impression" Ton of possible solutions. "Tried that once, wasn't my cup of tea." "Cool, bring him and he can pay for us." "Quick, you better call him and tell him you're not doing anything bad." "Is he real or imaginary? What's his name? Oh, you paused. He must be imaginary. What does your…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:04 AM
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Now, having swallowed, TRP, I understand: I looked for validation a lot. As a dude, it's not attractive. I failed shit tests left and right, because I believed in the judgment of women (my own age, up to 24). And so I whined and reasoned and used logic and it was very unattractive. I was the opposite of cool, calm, and in control. I was terrified and controlled by what others might think of me. I was sort of the perfect girl. A mama's boy. Studied psychology, so I sort of tripped over a bunch of…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 04:52 AM
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Talk less. Flirt with women, don't agitate them. I never have men tell me to shut up (since TRP) and women are always laughing and touching me when they say it. I did get told to shut up as a beta. I was annoying. Always sharing my thoughts and trying to be funny. It was pathetic.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 09:09 PM
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His mentality is red pill (not his abundance mentality). His behavior usually is, but it's a TV show--they betray characters whenever it fits the story. Also, characters are two-dimensional. Sit-coms are not great for describing real-world traits.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 09:07 PM
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Alpha: what women look for first. Attraction. Beta: what women look for second. Provisioning. Gamma: what women look for third. What else do women want, after hot guys and money? People are not alpha or beta--behavior is. Calling someone an alpha or beta is an exaggeration--mis-use of the terms. But it happens. Losing is a behavior, not a lifestyle, but people can still be fallaciously called "losers".
/r/askTRP08/07/15 09:04 PM
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He's asking what to talk about to keep things going and continuing to be attractive and not ufcking up like 80% of males do, to keep her passion for him alive. Because if it were easy, everyone would do it. OP: you know what makes men attractive to women because you swallowed TRP. Success, mystery, emotional stability, etc. Share your successes with her. Make it look easy. Don't tell her everything (particularly your emotions), just give her the highlights when she deserves it. Share whatever yo…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 08:09 PM
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Sex is as attractive as the person is. Men get less attractive when they become less exciting and less mysterious. At some point, girls try to use sex as a play for power. As long as the guy believes sex with her is of value, she can use it to control her. Which is why TRP reminds us: her trying to climb on the pedestal and trade her pussy for things (including commitment) is a shit test and needs to be shut down. Don't believe her when she claims you like fucking her more than she likes fucking…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 08:03 PM
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It means "<man crush> I BET WOMEN WANT TO BANG HIM". Like 70% serious.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 07:31 PM
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ Fortunately, just "commandment" on google doesn't give you this.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 07:29 PM
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Speak from your belly. Make eye contact, to show a person you expect them to listen. Pick interesting stories. There's a commandment talking about a roller coaster of emotions, which you might find helpful.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 10:26 PM
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He was absolutely right. Either give her the alpha vibes she craves, or kill the relationship trying, because the relationship isn't what he wants it to be. So he has no reason to stay in it. Although telling her in advance may not have been the best move.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 10:24 PM
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No. Never let a woman be in control of something unless you want it to end badly. For example, relationships. How did she get to be leader? Probably by starting it or seducing the previous leader to become vice-priestess? Not by getting promoted through the ranks through worthiness, I'm guessing.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 10:21 PM
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"I'm tired of being dumped hot guys, I want a hot guy who doesn't get sick of my bullsht." Also, it means "I think guys are attracted to women who say this. I expect to get replies from guys who are trying to be chivalrous. I want more orbiters and maybe one of them will be hot enough to fuck me."
/r/askTRP07/07/15 10:18 PM
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They want a guy who passes shit tests and doesn't give in to their emotional manipulation.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 10:15 PM
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Online dates flake all the time. They agree to dates because they want you to keep talking to them and giving them attention. They're women. They feed on it. They want to feel popular, like they have orbiters, and they can only go out with one or two guys at a time. Guess what, those guys are the hunkiest of their Tinder-orbiters. The only thing you can do is be more attractive. Keep lifting. Or switch to day game.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 10:14 PM
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You were bullied because you let yourself be bullied. You didn't talk back to the bullies, you didn't engage with them, you started crying because they hurt your feelings, so they kept doing it because they're alphas and girls drop their panties for guys who are in control of other guys. Source: I was bullied. Didn't realize they were just being friendly and I was being a girl about it. (My dad was beta, never teased me, never made me act mature or taught me how to bullshit with people.) I chang…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 10:11 PM
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She lives an hour away and you matched her on Tinder? I guess not everyone lives in a college town. Also, she isn't seduced after 8 messages. You still have to game her properly in person.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 10:06 PM
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WHAT you say doesn't even matter : it's HOW you say it. Uprate this two hundred times. And HOW you say it should say "I am an interesting person who isn't afraid to talk to an attractive stranger on impulse, and I can talk for an entire five minutes to you with good eye contact and you will giggle because you like the attention and you hope I'll ask for your number."
/r/askTRP07/07/15 10:01 PM
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It means "COME TALK TO ME YOU SEXY MAN, I AM CURIOUS ABOUT YOU AND YOU ATTRACT MY ATTENTION". Approach, game.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 09:58 PM
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Highlighting a difference: "jumps from relationship to relationship with very little time in-between" versus "jumps from relationship to relationship with very little time in each". The first means she's a skilled branch-swinger, and she's never without a man. Not a bad thing, possibly a good thing. Doesn't mean she has short relationships--means she has something lined up when the previous one fails. The second means she can't hold a man. Maybe there's very little time between (if she's a flirt…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 09:56 PM
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Most of us here aren't PUA. Second, her neg was an insult. Demonstrates she doesn't know what's going on or what a neg is. Therefore, no threat here, game as usual. (The most important thing you can do is be ignorant of what PUA and negs are. She wants you to react to being caught using a pickup line, so respond to something else she said, indicating your ignorance of PUA and being unfazed by whatever it is she just accused you of. "Thanks, I try to have one epiphany after another. I always try …
/r/askTRP07/07/15 09:52 PM
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Be there for your dad. Be stoic in front of your sister, and ask him to try to be less influenced by her. HE is the adult in the house. And above all, don't mention TRP. Run game on your sister. Negs (never directly insult her), amused mastery, A&A, kino (don't escalate obviously), push/pull. Your life will be easier if you can control her (if she "looks up to you" because you're cute and older), and your dad's life will be too. If you're still working on your game, second-best is just avoid you…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 09:42 PM
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You get two apologies per relationship. If this event is worth one of them, then you may apologize. If it's that's bad. If you got ten of them per relationship, your criteria would be different. Just a heuristic.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 09:33 PM
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You seem to be in the sweet spot. You could fuck #1 with the attitude you have and the way you frame her. Expressing attraction to #2 helps because competition. Realistically, if you haven't met #2, you shouldn't seriously consider anything with her. It's fine to joke about it, but if you've already decided to fuck her before you met her, then she hasn't qualified herself to you and you haven't built any attraction with her. So you're the horny/needy friend-of-friend, not good for anything but a…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 09:27 PM
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Shit test. Look for other threads like this one.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 10:32 PM
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Don't play with your phone when you're with a girl, and don't let her. People play with their phones when they want to look busy. If either of you wants to look busy when you're with the other person, something has gone wrong.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 10:31 PM
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If you're a social guy, plates will happen. If you want sex, be a social guy. And then there's the 11(?)th Commandment: always have one in the kitty. A man with options is an attractive man. If you want to be exclusive and active with one girl, you'd better have excellent LTR game.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 10:25 PM
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Subconsciously, it's an opener. A way to talk to a strange woman without being overt or intimidating. Evolutionarily, it worked. Consciously, there are a million reasons.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 10:22 PM
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Tinder is 99% orbiters and women looking for them. Don't take it as a sign she likes you.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 10:19 PM
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She plated herself. You don't pay for her, you don't promise exclusivity, if she asks, you deflect. If she switches to good behavior, she may climb back up to LTR. Honestly though, you should be fucking 18-22-year olds. Not being in a LTR with 25-year-old unless she's in great shape and loyal.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 10:14 PM
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If you think it's the right call, sure. If you're actually looking for some interaction with her, then no. If you can think of some other motive, then no. I'd give it more than just two weeks. Two months, maybe. Sending a watch back is breaking no contact, and it also lends some finality to the arrangement. I don't know what your goals are here, so I can't advise too well.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 10:09 PM
2

Poe's law is an internet adage which states that, without a clear indicator of the author's intent, parodies of extremism are indistinguishable from sincere expressions of extremism.[1][2] Poe's Law implies that parody will often be mistaken for sincere belief, and sincere beliefs for parody.[3] Poe's law exists on television because television is entertainment and television makes jokes which older people understand but younger people take as truth. While that may be an indicator of "feminized …
/r/askTRP04/07/15 10:06 PM
1

"can't" is pretty final. Sounds like you have you mind made up, and it seems awfully irrational. And then you explain it as a function of her religion, as if she's a perfect christian (which she might want you to believe, but you shouldn't). And then you say you're an atheist, as if that's antithetical to being christian, like you can't be with someone who doesn't agree with one of your personal beliefs. Just, I don't know, man. I don't know what's going through your head. I guess, do less think…
/r/askTRP04/07/15 10:02 PM
1

Yes, that's an extension of it. You can google "take him at his word" for more understanding.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 09:57 PM
1

Google Chateau Heartiste. Website in the manosphere.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 09:55 PM
1

Discipline is sexy for both sexes. For women, that results in fewer boyfriends, for men that results in more girlfriends. More boyfriends is not inherently bad, it's just an indicator of other undesirable traits.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:32 AM
1

Punish swiftly, reward slowly. Variable ratio reinforcement is the most effective. (Google: operant conditioning variable ratio reinforcement schedules, for more reading) Yes, be vague. Her subconscious will figure it out.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:29 AM
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I didn't read any of the responses. Couple things: You should be initiating. Girls are turned on by attractive men desiring them--that is what makes them turned on. About the most passive thing you can do is eye fuck her while she watches (did that with my ex, she wriggled and loved it, without even touching her; also telling her to remove specific clothing SLOWLY). Be less verbal and more animal. At all times.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:26 AM
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Get them turned on. Don't ever ask. Obviously only with girls who already like you, i.e. you've already built attraction. But know, there's only so many sexts you can sext before you run yourself out of material. Chateua Heartiste has an article on getting nudes. But honestly, you'll only get nudes from girls you can just as realistically fuck. And the internet is full of pictures of girls sent to their boyfriends. That should help your abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:22 AM
1

TRP women typically live in republican states. (Because the men believe and raise their daughters in conservative values.) But if you're looking for slutty, non-LTR women, try Democratic (more feminist) states. As for gorgeous women, try the warm (high cost of living) states.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:18 AM
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Everybody gets more agency as they get older. More mature, more aware of the world. The difference is, most of the men here are over 20<over 30<over 40<50, all chasing girls under 30, who have remarkably less agency than us. So the argument can be made, all of the women [in whom we're interested], have very little agency.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:15 AM
1

Other posters have mentioned the realistic answers. I'll contribute TRP answers. You're a man, so you can look fine with acne scars. It's called "rugged" not "ugly". Muscle and a good haircut will make you look badass (instead of hunky, if you had no scars).
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:13 AM
1

Can't confirm, but I hear, part of what keeps subreddits viewed as legit is how much gilding that sub receives. So if you value the sub, give reddit gold.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:11 AM
1

Also, the government doesn't really allow green-card marriages. The first time you spoke to an immigration lawyer, they'd tell you that.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:09 AM
1

Babyface means you can date women 10 years younger without triggering shit tests. Small frame doesn't matter when you're in the incredible shape you're in. The first time you pick them up and fuck them with their feet not touching the floor, that's all they'll think of ever again when your size is mentioned.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:07 AM
1

Power talk with him. Tell him what a terrible mistake he's making. Also, $100k is a few years of expenses (everyone should try to have 6 months in the bank) or a bad legal battle.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:02 AM
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Respond with something completely unrelated to relationships but something she can relate to. Bring her into your frame. Food, in moderate detail, is a good one. Girls who are "not looking to hookup" are girls who are not looking to hookup with any but the best men.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:59 AM
1

I have no intention of getting the F-close right away with her anyway so a couple of drinks can't hurt. Okay. The downtown bar she is at is about 40 minutes from my house. NO. "My friend isn't feeling very well and she wants to go home." Don't respond, continue as planned. If you don't see her, enjoy yourself, if you do see her, cool. While it's not really a shit test, treat it as one. Ignore, because it doesn't change anything. "Sweetie" is patronizing, she thinks she's in control, time to move…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:56 AM
1

Military skills are great, military itself is like any other bureaucracy. Grad school is bloody expensive and a ton of work, PhD programs are not very expensive and three tons of work. Only get an advanced degree if it is 110% what you want. I'd say get a job with your B.S. now, get more schooling later (possibly when your company is paying for it).
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:49 AM
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Not exactly. Chateua Heartiste has a number of posts about IHAB "I have a boyfriend" line).
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:44 AM
2

You're overthinking it. If you really have an issue with [anything about yourself], change it. If you can't change it, own it. Done.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:42 AM
1

Why do you only have 2 girls texting you? If they see something by accident on your phone, great. That's social proof and dread game. Don't let them hold your phone--that's setting boundaries and standing up for yourself. If you're actually WITH someone and interacting, don't pay any attention to your phone. Other people can afford to wait hours for a response, that's why they're sending you a text. If it were urgent, they'd call you.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:40 AM
1

Exactly. "Might give me a bad reputation" is just another shit test. If she gets mad or calls you mean or a player or whatever...ignore or A&A. Your reputation is 5% real and 95% what you make it.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:38 AM
1

Being surrounded by females in a professional environment isn't good for your psyche. You will be shit tested all the time if you seem moderately alpha, sexual harassment is a thing now. And as a teacher, you'll be around kids and will have to be careful of people spreading rumors about you and the kids. That won't stop being a problem until we have more male teachers. On the plus side, if you play your cards right, there's mad social circle game. You can't date the other teachers, but you can d…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:35 AM
1

This is your answer, right here. Kamastura is another option.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:32 AM
1

2/3 ratio. If you only respond to questions, you're doing too much push and not enough pull. "We should hang out sometime" gets a response, say a place and time of something you want to do with her. Don't respond unless she accepts or offers excuse and alternative.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:31 AM
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Just means kino and escalate more slowly. Also fewer shit tests, so that's a good thing. Virgin just means more foreplay and more time invested. That's fine with me. Game as usual, just expect it to take a bit longer.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:27 AM
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dont know what to do as I cant be with her (shes Christian whos against sex before marriage, i an Atheist) I don't know what to tell you here beside, remove your head from your ass. Seriously, can't think of a more constructive way to phrase it. So I get that a large part in a relationship is the trade of sex for emotional, financial and other support but what about a guy being emotionally attracted to girl in the traditional sense No, that's what women want you to believe. You choose relationsh…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:24 AM
1

No, you just show it too much.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:19 AM
3

Gradual phase out. Always the way to go. Or when she's getting upset about something else.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:16 AM
2

Being insecure about it lowers your SMV. I can't even get hard for less than a 6 anymore.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:14 AM
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The first one is a different issue from all of the others. Porn is addictive. Hotter chicks, fewer logistics. The rest of them, however, sounds like attitude just needs adjusting. It's been said a million times: step 1, go to the gym. You don't have to lift your body weight within a month, just work on making it a habit, being comfortable around other more muscular, sweaty guys. Sounds weird now, but you won't think anything of it after a month of JUST. GOING. Read interesting things. Not on the…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:10 AM
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That was a great moment. First time in my life that happened and I'm like...shit, I'm one of those guys now. Fuck yeah.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:02 AM
1

Be social, join clubs, do things you enjoy doing with other people who enjoy them. Interact with people. Half of the people you meet will be women. Good places to start are outdoor and athletic hobbies.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:00 AM
2

Taking someone at his/her word means believing exactly what he/she says.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 04:58 AM
1

Plating single moms is risky. TRP may have contributed, but don't pat yourself on the back so quickly.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:54 AM
1

You're getting a lot of crap for getting the number despite a flirty "no". You had no way of knowing at the time she was serious and not playing hard to get. Kudos to you for actually getting it and not walking away after what could have been a shit test.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:51 AM
2

Eating out is a submissive thing to do. I advise not doing it early in a relationship. IMO. Also, it will almost never help you get it up. Fingering her, sucking her neck and nipples, very well might. Make her suck you, not the other way around. Although if the boner really isn't happening, giving her a few orgasms is always good. Read up on fingering a girl and ideally get some practice. I wouldn't have made the joke about alcohol-friend-enemy. It got you sympathy, even though you played it coc…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:48 AM
1

She flaked? After she invited YOU on a date? Looking for an orbiter then. Don't mention her flaking if you see or hear from her--if you need to be told that. You didn't use the tactic of: message her 30 minutes before, say you'll be a bit late, if she doesn't respond, don't show.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:37 AM
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The most important thing you can do while talking to women is not take them at their word. After a while, when they recognize you doing that, "superiority" (if you call it that) is established. Employ your own judgment over theirs.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:35 AM
1

I'm 24, i've been with my current girlfriend for 5 years (shes 23). Not to ignore the rest of your story, but I hope she's a catch. She's going to want marriage soon, so prepare to dump her or marry her. Ignore or agree and amplify. "Did you say something, honey?" --to your GF, ignoring ashley. instead of kissing her, lick her. or grab her ass. what do i need? hmm, pizza, that's what i need... Why is Ashley third-wheeling so often?
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:33 AM
1

Is life worth it when your IQ is under 140, your height is under 6', and your BMI is over 14%? I don't think so, but I see other people do it every day. Cynicism aside, your worst problem is your negative view of yourself.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:28 AM
1

Did she exhaust her plates, options and come crawling back to asking me? Possibly. Doesn't matter. You're getting your turn. She took over 4 weeks to respond... why should I jump on such short notice (tomorrow)? No, give it a couple days to respond. If she's serious, she can wait a couple days. You're not desperate; you asked this chick out 4 weeks ago, you barely remember her. If she loses interest after that couple days, she was just looking for an orbiter anyway. I feel if I give in and fuck …
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:25 AM
1

It's absolutely not a bad idea. It's almost as good as you get. FWB now, and keep up the FWB after course finishes. It's like working together, except almost no office politics--neither of you has any influence or really time to talk.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:16 AM
2

Don't worry too much about it. She's enjoying the sexting and thinking about sex and what you're investing in her. So long as you keep the feelings coming (and withhold enough to keep her coming back), you're fine. It doesn't matter what you promise or deliver (so long as you don't let her decide what you deliver). Just have great sex. The specifics only matter to you, because you're taking her for the ride. She doesn't care what the ride is, just that it is a ride. It doesn't have to be mind-sh…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:12 AM
1

Don't text. If you value him as a friend and it really is convenient enough for you, you can continue to hang with him and learn. Don't get hurt just because he's doing better than you and has his priorities straight.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:01 AM
1

"I did." No, she's asking for more. That's hesitation, and it went from 60 to 5 right there. You went from extremely forward to reactive. And then you left. You didn't do anything with it. Don't go back. Next time, escalate from your success. "Well thank you..." is her waiting for you to say something else amazing. But you left, instead of even getting her number. Or offering to "help her close up." Also, I wouldn't have said "titties"--it's not classy. I also would have given it a little more b…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:58 AM
1

Surprised this isn't higher rated.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:49 AM
1

Stay as the most interesting dude she knows. Don't always let her do what she wants. Maintain boundaries. And stop researching her. It will help your frame.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:46 AM
1

Tone. Is it a stupid-ass question, where agreeing and disagreeing are both (obvious) wrong answers? Shit test. Is it a innocent, not-well-thought question, where agreeing or disagreeing is a plausible correct answer and the other is much more correct? Does it cause drama or alleviate it?
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:44 AM
1

Wear sunscreen every day, rain or shine. Best and only makeup you will ever need (to leave the house in).
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:38 AM
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If you don't know her and she's serious, you leave. If you don't know her and she's kidding, you tell her to cut that shit out. Or "hands off the merchandise". If you do know her and she's serious, 1. tell her to save her anger for the bedroom, 2. grab her firmly and somewhat painfully, 3. tell her violence will not be tolerated. If you do know her and she's messing around, mess with her back--don't do number 2 above. In the case of your ex, sounds like "leave". Exit the situation quickly and qu…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:35 AM
1

None. Posters here are getting sex for free or less.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:32 AM
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Sounds like she is older than you, for one. I am very skeptical. She wants to come see you, after a 1-year relationship with no sex? Why would an attractive man talk for over a year to a woman without meeting her and fucking her? Why would an attractive woman spend so much time with an unattractive man? I don't see this going well. I think you'll get more than you bargained for. If she's so cool, why isn't she seeing men in her area? If she is seeing men in her area, why is she betting so much o…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:29 AM
1

This subreddit (and TRP) is THE place to understand that.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:21 AM
1

WTF when I am crunching numbers in my cubicle late at night when everyone else is out chilling or having a life. That's overly dramatic. Don't let yourself get into that "everyone else is" negative thinking spiral. If you don't know what is the best thing for you, try something you know nothing about. Move to a new city, volunteer, find a job you haven't done before (service sector if you're desperate), and do that for 6 months. Just re-color your brain. Don't worry about putting down new roots.…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 03:59 AM
1

Part of growing up. You CAN do better. It takes a couple of years of experience to see just how much time we fucking waste in college doing useless things. Your parents can't really communicate to you, just HOW you can do better. Plus, you're in college. the world is disney land. You are surrounded by distractions. Props on getting a 3.3. Make yourself better now, and in 5 years you'll be able to nail 18-22-year-olds without thinking. But you HAVE to MAKE yourself BETTER. NOW. And not fool yours…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 03:54 AM
1

She has a point. Not everything is a shit test.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 03:44 AM
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/06/07/relationship-game-the-day-to-day-alpha/
/r/askTRP20/05/15 03:43 AM
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Of course she asks you for that. Women always tell other people to be nice to them. Including other women. Who they're not going to bang. But you have to give her what she needs, not she she asks for.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 03:33 AM
11

KISS means keep it simple, stupid. Not GO FOR THE KISS NOW. Just so we're clear.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 03:21 AM
1

I meant "being a cold savvy professional negotiator" by "be a dick". I'm sure you have the casual dick game down, since you're here. Girls have thousands of years of evolution to negotiating guys into being in relationships with them. I'm saying, be careful of giving things away if you don't need to.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 03:20 AM
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If she has already asked you a few times, it's ok to say yes, I'm ready now babe. Make your expectations for her clear. Be vague about what you're willing to offer in return--don't offer it outright until she asks specifically. I know, we're encouraging you to be a dick to what seems like a really quality girl. It will be worth it though.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:41 PM
1

Partied more in college, played video games MUCH MUCH less. Video games fucked with my grades, my game, and my wallet. And lifted (I was self-conscious at the gym). And learned to dance.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:38 PM
1

That's a good one. Looking back, I passed up too many 5-7s because I thought they weren't good enough for me, and I never considered fucking non-LTRs.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:37 PM
1

Learn to dance. Channel that energy. Muscle memory will control a lot of it. And re-frame "excitable" as "spontaneous". Stop thinking of it as something not under your control. When your "nervous system" is getting excited, you get excited about something too. "Fuck, I want some waffles. Let's get some waffles. Who's coming to IHOP with me for waffles? I'm driving. Let's GOGOGOGOGO." Or something.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:32 PM
1

I've shaved my head before when I was 16 and was bullied mercilessly. You were shit-tested mercilessly. You probably failed repeatedly. Either stop worrying about it (it won't matter until ~30), or shave the whole head. You'll probably shave it all when you're 30 anyway. Or you could just keep it super-short for now. For the huge nose, small jaw "problem", grow a beard. Do some research on what beards are best for your face shape. You probably won't be able to grow a full beard until you're 22-i…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:30 PM
1

Every girl will become an AW to a huge dick (literally or figuratively) at some point in her life. The older she is, the more likely she already is. Don't worry about it. Nothing you can do. Aside, I'm average (6 long" 5 around") and I have needed lube on multiple occasions. Everybody needs a little lube sometimes.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:17 PM
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OP, im in love with you, but i cant love you Translation: You are my AF because just who you are and the way you are Translation: You are my AF, now stop asking questions and accept the compliment Don't get rattled; it means she's exactly where you want her. IDK where the boyfriend was mentioned, so I can't comment on that. (If you knew she had a BF before the comment was made, and she knew that you knew, then "you are my AF" is an even bigger compliment.)
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:14 PM
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Be social, meet them, game but don't escalate (unless you're actually looking for something). Don't do anything you don't WANT to do (like drive other kids to soccer practice, or grill, or kill spiders). You're a single dad; your SMV is miles above the single moms; you could trip and fall in pussy. Especially if you're in shape. If you're not looking to get laid, you can still use social group game--meet people THROUGH them who are bangable. If you really think they are absolutely not-worth-your…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:11 PM
1

None of your ideas sounded really exciting to me, until I read the 3rd-world sluts one. That sounds hella fun. I am well-educated; none of the other ones sounds particularly unrealistic to me; maybe that's where to appeal is. I don't have a great deal of practical skills (thank you, TRP, for helping me with social skills!), so moving around the developing world sounds a bit dangerous to me. (But I'm a rude rich American, so the 3rd world girls would gravitate toward me, right?)
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:06 PM
2

Maybe, but that's basically what the world is. Maybe cynical, but not sarcastic. The goal is to make yourself one of those better dudes (and still make the higher-ups wealthy) and get people to funnel money to you. Simplified, crude, manipulative way to describe it, but essentially that's it.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:03 PM
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Sounds like a fine idea to me. I didn't watch the video. "Promise ring" is/was a thing, that's basically what I see here.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:01 PM
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I did that for a while too. I just spontaneously stopped for a few months at a time when I found other addictions. Re-played Pokemon Sapphire, started dating one of my plates (and stopped later), moved in with some new roommates and started spending time with them. I wouldn't worry about it. You won't think about it as much if you just bookmark your tab list, close them all, and "come back to it later" (hint: you probably won't). To be fair, most of the posts here aren't REALLY that good. The ch…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 10:59 PM
1

All girls want your dick and you haven't fucked most of them. Call them "girls".
/r/askTRP09/05/15 08:54 AM
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Happens a lot (especially with new girls). Keep trucking, don't worry about it. The boner will come back, and you will be able to fuck her some more. You're allowed to do foreplay during and after sex. This isn't porn; it's not all one shoot, you won't having a raging boner the whole time, and you don't have to do a standing 69. (You will make her moan though, even if it doesn't help you come.) Go through the motions, do what seems like fun, and your mind will catch up sooner or later. Do NOT ta…
/r/askTRP09/05/15 08:52 AM
1

You're 20, she's 20. You're both too young for a LTR--you're both playing at being adults, and in the adult world, women beta-ify men. You aren't equipped to handle her baloney (though better than most 20yos) and she will be trying to lock you down, because you're getting her best years. You should be dating younger women. However, "should" is short for "in most situations, this will work out the best". I think you're right to be second-guessing the direction of your relationship. What do YOU de…
/r/askTRP09/05/15 08:40 AM
1

Rarely if at all (alcohol is an expensive habit and is no longer required to remove my inhibitions). I'm not a natural alpha. I'm something better. I'm a trained alpha--who knows how and when to throw in some beta. I make fewer mistakes than natural alphas do at my age. Including putting chemicals in my body and adulterating my mental state. 30 years from now, when they're hooked up to chemo and dialysis and looking for liver transplants, I'll still be banging 25-year-olds. There is biological a…
/r/askTRP09/05/15 08:30 AM
2

Sure, but we advise getting over a woman by fucking 10 more. And we advise that because, in experiencing 10 more women, in all of their glory and non-glory, we will understand women better and see the first woman more objectively, i.e. less pedestalized.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 08:23 AM
1

Girls slut shame. 80% of men do whatever women tell them to do. Low-value women find more % of men bangable, therefore they bang more men who get tired of them more quickly on average. "Slut" means "bangs many men and can't hold them down". Therefore, sluts are low-value. Reverse rationalization. It's just a social tool for women to try to control other women.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 08:20 AM
1

Your personality is what you make it. Almost everyone here was a nerd of some kind before finding TRP. We are on Reddit, after all.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 08:13 AM
1

Be friendly. Talk. Don't even worry about flirting. Make friends (which is easy, because you have a sexy voice). Find out where the parties are, go with people, THEN game.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 08:12 AM
2

Tinder, like all online dating, places the power squarely in the hands of the woman. It's a poor investment of time. But, you can get laid. Your real power--social proof, body language, kino, everything which exists in the real world and not text--is invisible over text. Subtract two points from your SMV to get your Tinder SMV. (And girls usually add 1 point, because they don't have to worry about all of that and they can cherry-pick their pictures, including that time they got their makeup done…
/r/askTRP09/05/15 08:08 AM
1

If money is really an issue, get money locked down before you try maximizing your health and muscle gains. I know, it goes against "lift more" but you will deterioriate quickly if you can't afford your gym membership or rent someday. Save money, find cheap ways to add healthy to your diet.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 07:58 AM
1

You can explain it however you like, but either you have plans with a girl or you don't. What you accomplish during those plans is up to you and does not need to be delineated beforehand.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 07:51 AM
1

Women who don't fit into the tribe don't survive and don't raise offspring. Women cannot survive alone with an infant; they require SOMEONE to provide for them, hopefully multiple people and other women to exchange favors with. Men survive by having skills within the tribe (or on their own)--by being valued. Men are expendable (unless they're indispensable); biologically, one more woman adds far more reproductive value than one more man.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 07:49 AM
1

Social power=hierarchy=status=attraction. The king who lets others get under his skin (manipulate his emotional state) isn't king for long.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 07:46 AM
2

The male. The male, the male, the male. Be assured of yourself and decisive. Sometimes she will initiate, and you have a leg up.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 07:43 AM
1

She doesn't have to be "down with casual sex". She just has to be down with sex with you. It's your responsibility to yourself to be as attractive and irresistible as possible. If, despite the pinnacle of your game, she resists, then you've found a woman worthy of you. But you have to bring the pinnacle of your game, or you're just another orbiter.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 07:40 AM
3

Yes, the gym is a sausage fest. That's why you go. It's good thing.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 07:30 AM
1

Oh, I see. Tough call.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 07:25 AM
1

It isn't so much that my frame broke, it just wore out and I was like "fuck this". Basically what I was thinking. You can freeze out just by getting distracted and checking your phone. Stop the emotion train, make her re-initiate or try yourself after several minutes. Not sure how "far away, no taxis, 3am" is relevant.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 07:33 AM
2

I'm not seeing "freeze out" anywhere so I assume you didn't try that. If you did, it may take multiple freeze-outs. "Her sitting on my lap whining", sounds like you lost frame somewhere. Entirely possible--she has ten years of shit tests experience on you.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 07:23 AM
2

Do we really enjoy sex? Or is it just biological conditioning and chemistry in our brain telling us it will have desirable results? They enjoy feeling desired by a desirable man. TRP makes it sound as though they feed on time, like leeches and need to be dealt with carefully. Which is true, but it's just another way of viewing the same behavior. If you're getting what you need from her, you're well-suited to give her what she needs too.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 10:06 PM
1

I don't know about India, but in the U.S. you can get put on the sex offender registry for searching for a prostitute (and finding a cop instead).
/r/askTRP01/05/15 09:58 PM
4

Posting something on TRP and asking for beta responses isn't going to yield many responses. You're asking the newest people for their input, when the newest people are focused on reading everything they can.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 09:57 PM
1

What's your goal here? It seems to me you're overthinking what you don't really care about. Or you could just be more Machiavellian than me. I tried the "going beta" thing a few times with no adverse effects.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 03:00 AM
1

She is in no position to be anything but completely grateful for whatever you have to give her. If you don't like what she's doing, see her less, talk to her rarely, or even next her. "dance partner" and "dog" mentions make me think you know her too well and have dated her, so she's making a play for the relationship. . All of that said, what I would try is "isn't what's said in therapy confidential?"
/r/askTRP30/04/15 02:58 AM
1

Talk to people online less. Read more. Review old conversations mentally more. Lift, too, but really talk to people online less.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 02:53 AM
1

Ignore it. Forget it happened. If she tries to force it, deflect. In the meantime, treat it as a frame exercise. Come up with a good response (but not too specific). Enough to turn her on, but not enough to give away all of your technique/mystery. To establish frame for yourself, not to answer the question if she actually asks you again.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 02:47 AM
1

Go, have fun, don't worry about how you appear (easier said than done, I know). You'll find yourself applying what you've learned and probably getting in some good practice. That's how you should think of it: practice.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 02:44 AM
1

You A&Aed the apology. "...but next time I'm stealing your teddy bear" (malicious but stupid and harmless) is more effective (unless her family is already dead or something and it was clearly obviously a joke). Went too far IMO and she may tell friends you're a psycho or something in the future if she needs ammo against you. Send her a funny cat pic to salvage it SOON (then cut contact), preferably a picture about apologies or forgiveness. Attraction is no longer in the question, now you're on d…
/r/askTRP30/04/15 02:31 AM
2

"Yeah, babe, it's such a big responsibility having someone as great as me want your body. Nice humblebrag." Other ways to play it, but however you do it, don't take her seriously. Don't validate those feelings unless you want the well to dry up. And if you screwed it up, just pretend that conversation never happened.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 09:00 PM
1

Totally possible. many threads on this.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 08:41 PM
1

Thread, not a whole reddit. Found it a while ago, didn't think to bookmark it. Here are some options. http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/search?q=female+how+you+masturbate&sort=relevance&t=all
/r/askTRP27/04/15 02:16 AM
1

Not sure it's blatant challenge, sounds like beta bait to me. I'm surprised and intrigued by the amount of controversy this one question has generated. Can you think of some other questions which ALWAYS deserve straight answers? You don't give straightforward answers about partner# or money# because doing so does not build attraction ("everyone" answers straightforward, therefore you should not). What would "everyone" do for "would we still have sex..."--probably try to comfort her, right?
/r/askTRP27/04/15 02:07 AM
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Of course they shouldn't have, but they did. And now we deal with it, and we don't usually deal with women by addressing the logic part of the brain.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 02:05 AM
1

If she's really a 10, she probably had boyfriends before who got off on it. It's not really a problem unless it becomes a thing, but your response was good.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 02:01 AM
5

You now understand abundance mentality. You don't get excited easily because you know it's little challenge.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 01:59 AM
1

You have TRP. You can explain why she had/didn't have feelings better than she can. You have more to gain on the slim chance of seeing each other again and not having asked, than having asked.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 01:56 AM
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Yes. I'll explain a bit further. It's simple, but conveys a lot. She's gonna put effort into maintaining how she looks for you so you don't leave. Yes, you want her to understand the answer and choose to maintain herself. But a flat "no" (simple, conveys a lot) is drama fodder; it will trigger a shit later on "do you just want me for sex". Part of game is knowing how to win battles before they start. Game, as far as I have seen it, is very little of taking women at their word and interpreting qu…
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:37 AM
1

First thing: clit. If you don't know how to finger a clit, go read the reddit on female masturbation. Tons of tips. Second thing: make her horny. IMO, you're escalating too quickly; do more foreplay and making out. She will beg for your dick eventually. I've had good experience with girls getting wet from giving head.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:31 AM
1

Cuddling. How much Emotion or Immersion. (I assume you've read sex god method or at least cliff notes.) A good LTR has some long sessions but I'd say 2/3 quickies.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:27 AM
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It just seems creepy for me to walk up to a random girl on the street and chat her up. That is in your head. Plan of attack: divide the girls into three groups: would bang, would friendzone, not interested. Cold approach girls from the third group. Get rejected, get over the awkwardness, get the creepiness fear out of your system. Practice. When you feel comfortable with that, do the same with the second group. When you finish that group, then go talk to the girls you're really interested in. Yo…
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:24 AM
2

Sometimes. Here, I don't believe so. "Are you coming to my concert?" Yes, be straight.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:21 AM
1

Expect better answers on a PUA forum. Report back, BTW.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:20 AM
1

She's interested, just terrible at logistics (AWALT). Don't be pushy, just keep trying. You'll get there in a week or a month. If she keeps saying no, without trying to reschedule, THEN you next her.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:19 AM
1

Talk to people. Be social. Don't ever be afraid of being awkward. Play a sport, make male friends. memorize these: (all 3, not just the one i linked) https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/08/20/the-rules-of-social-savviness-rule-3/ Being antisocial or self-conscious is literally the worst thing you can do. Talk to everyone, mean or nice, ugly or hot. Then invite the girls you like to hang out. Boom, girlfriend. and don't tell people you read TRP. don't worry about flirting, game, or any of that s…
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:16 AM
3

"you're such a flake" is defensive. you're angry at her, not transmitting good feelings. if you haven't fucked her yet, you blew it there. she replied the only way she could--pushing the blame off herself. Next. Never ever call a girl out on flaking on a date. EVER.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:12 AM
3

Awkward is fine. Make sure she's not crazy. Awkward is better than social attention whore.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:09 AM
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Keep your standards high. If you're a virgin, it's not due to high standards, it's due to high social discomfort. Read TRP to build your mindset, talk to people, talk to women, go on dates. You'll fuck one when you fuck one. Some guys get to 40 or 50 as virgins. You found TRP at 24; you're in good shape. Realize: you have a mental block about sex. It will go away after 1-2 fucks. Liking the girl helps. It will only get more uncomfortable as time goes on. Lose it sooner than later.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:08 AM
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An alpha can do whatever he wants. Question is, what does a girl with a high partner count bring to the table which a low partner count doesn't? Having a high partner count isn't a crime. It's everything else which adds up and results in high partner count.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:04 AM
1

Kinesthetics. One resource: http://www.simplepickup.com/forum/become-boss/1893-guide-kino-touching-girl.html Modified for non-seduction, obviously, but touch is too powerful for controlling emotions and people NOT to use. Use it every day, whether you're seducing or not. If you're not used to doing it, I wouldn't start with your sister. Or maybe she's the perfect person to practice on, because you're going to orbit her regardless.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 04:57 AM
1

Point was, be glad you found it when you did and not later. Nothing wrong with being 28. or 38. or 48. or 88.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 04:56 AM
2

Why would you ever be straightforward? If she CAN get angry, your answer is neither supplicating nor disrespectful. TRP 101. You never spell things out for them; they'll use it for drama later. You lead. You provide the emotions, not answer hers. Answer a question with a question, Charlie Sheen-style. Amused mastery that shit. ("If I weren't awesome..." response below)
/r/askTRP26/04/15 04:54 AM
1

I think you're overthinking the "friend zone". When you want sex and she doesn't and you settle for "maybe later" and stay in contact. The fact that you've swallowed TRP means you'll probably never be friendzoned again.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 07:20 AM
1

Practice practice practice. Lift. Read TRP/asktrp daily to build your frame. Lift. Don't go to clubs--they're for orbiters to get ONSs. If you need your hand held through everything, just keep reading. Everything is answered somewhere. Be glad you're not 35. Also, you could ask out a fat (ish) chick and get some practice in with her. Don't keep her more than a year. Don't tell her about TRP.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 07:16 AM
1

Don't think in such absolutes. Identify the source of the problem, then consider courses of action. Dropping out is probably not the answer--you'd be surprised how much harder it is to get back in after you've tried something ni "the real world" than it is to pull your grades up. College is absolutely worth it (without any details, mind) and if done right can be the world on a plate. When people ask you* what you want to do, you probably (since you're 19-20 y.o.) have a script of what is "the ri…
/r/askTRP25/04/15 07:13 AM
1

original poster is female.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 07:03 AM
1

Dip your toes in at an AA near you. See what you like, what works for you. Maybe you have something to share there, but you probably have more to gain by being silent.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 07:02 AM
1

I'm in the same situation (mostly). I'd like to hear some advice from TRP. So far, I've tried flirting, with minimal (though positive) effect, triggering and passing shit tests, also mild but positive results, and she's definitely noticed my definition and mass increases. I feel like we talk too much (monthly ish) and I instinctively take her seriously. I tried kino and huge negative response, though I amused mastery through it. Going to try uber-innocent kino in the future.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 07:01 AM
2

Uprated because it's actually not the worst idea. Just unrealistic and unpalatable. Therefore amusing.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 06:50 AM
1

I think you're jumping to conclusions if you think you cannot be comfortable with them and don't want to be associated. I.e. you think: they REDUCE your game. Having negative social proof is pretty hard. Details might be super helpful here. "recently joined" is the giveaway. You don't really start to notice everything handed to you until after a year, when you're no longer a newbie and it actually works as social proof. Even if you joined "the nerd frat" or whatever.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 06:44 AM
1

It's short for "make yourself more physically attractive, without any game required. Add something to your life every day, guaranteed". "Hamster yourself less." Seems particularly relevant in this case.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 06:40 AM
1

Both cases, it's the hamster at work. Rationalizing what's happening. "I'm ok with [being hit on] because it's happening, and I'm ok with [not being hit on] because it's not happening. I am taking responsibility for what I cannot control and pretending I can in order to feel comfortable and in control."
/r/askTRP25/04/15 06:30 AM
1

She's not in shape and not taking care of herself because no one is fucking/hitting on her, and no one is because she doesn't take care of herself.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 06:28 AM
1

Nothing. You do nothing. It's not your responsibility to open her eyes to the world, and if it were, you wouldn't achieve it through debate. What you do is lift more.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 06:25 AM
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Be glad it wasn't 38. Or 45. Go out. Expect to screw up. Know you'll be in a better place next year.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 06:21 AM
0

reward slowly, punish swiftly. it is absolutely right to reward someone for doing things right--that's how you get them to continue. the variable-ratio schedule of reinforcement (google it) is the most effective for long-term results.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 10:36 PM
1

Googled it. gynecomastia. If the pictures on google resemble you, IMO it's not a big enough deal to go through surgery, recovery, scarring, and a deformed chest. I think you're just being insecure about it and you'll cause yourself more trouble removing it, than trouble it's causing you now. But maybe the pictures on google are all of man-boobs smaller than yours. Also, I haven't been through it, but many of the other replies here have.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 10:34 PM
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Not a great reply--too apologetic. A&A harder. reply with something only vaguely related to your own arrogance. yeah, that's my nickname what does it say on the label that's what my army buddies call me yeah, i'm in the dictionary have you been talking to my boyfriend/sister/therapist
/r/askTRP24/04/15 10:28 PM
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Asking women to explain things never goes well. Brings you into their frame, but more importantly, they want you to drive the conversation. And the "magic spell" comment might be amused, but it could come off as defensive.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 10:24 PM
1

Can it? Certainly. Unrepentant self-confidence is a very alpha quality, and girls who are far under your exhibited SMV will not expect you to invest in them and so will halt their own attraction to avoid getting hurt. You may need to employ some beta in order to land the easy ones. The hotter ones, however, unaccustomed to such self-confidence in the men they meet, will merely test your frame (savagely) and tingle for you when you pass.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 10:21 PM
1

Could I lose her interest if I start giving her too many beta vibes?
/r/askTRP24/04/15 10:17 PM
1

Noted. Don't ask about her life, don't tell her about mine, don't see her more than once weekly, were mentioned. Apparently those are all in the same vein, avoiding confusing her subconsciously about my role as AF? Should I refrain from doing other welcoming things, like offering her a drink or food or whatever? Or should I be doing those early on but then fading them out? We did lengthy cuddling on the early visits, but now it's just between rounds. We hardly talk with our clothes on anymore. (…
/r/askTRP24/04/15 10:14 PM
1

Right, right.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 12:42 AM
1

He's trying to help but coming off offensive. Practice not getting defensive.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 12:40 AM
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I didn't find Gatsby's particularly useful. It's may get numbers, but numbers don't accomplish much. Tinder game: be attractive and have good pictures (ideally with other women, other men, doing something athletic, one shirtless, and no selfies), don't mention sex, be friendly, organize dates, escalate. Sometimes you get numbers, sometimes you don't. You don't ask to meet. You organically mention something which sounds like fun for both of you (a date), then you do it. "Let's meet for coffee" me…
/r/askTRP20/04/15 12:37 AM
1

All good ideas, especially the overnight one. Would you give a brief explanation of the others, in case there's something I'm not seeing?
/r/askTRP20/04/15 12:28 AM
1

Explain a bit more? I think I understand, but maybe there's more to it.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 12:24 AM
1

I hope that doesn't happen. I'll keep an eye out.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 08:42 PM
1

I meant more like, she texts a lot.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 08:41 PM
1

Good work. I'd love to hear what you did between the OP and the update to verify that.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 04:17 AM
1

Yes, it's a fast way to build attraction and establish frame.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 06:15 PM
1

You're 17. Age of consent is designed for people years older than you. As long as you don't cause drama or hurt someone, you're fine. You're welcome to date older women. It just never goes well. Women go for older guys. You're 17; the only women you're higher SMV than are younger than you. 17-22-year old women are in their prime; they have no reason to fuck you and every reason to fuck guys 5-20 years older.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 06:14 PM
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Hot. Virgin. On Tinder. Right. The real question is: why is she trying to LTR someone younger and farther away? I'm inclined to think: you mishandled the entire thing and she wants her AF (she's at an Ivy league, allegedly, so the BB is under control). And she wants you to be her AF, but you're pedestalizing her too hard to really make her tingle. Either way, hitting the brakes and slowing things down is your course of action. Don't ever bring up the exclusivity thing again. Find a good fucking …
/r/askTRP13/04/15 06:10 PM
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Those are just stages, I think. Those posters will change (if they are posters. If they're not posters, they're not really following TRP and they're just doing the best they can with limited knowledge).
/r/askTRP12/04/15 08:27 PM
1

There is no text game. When they match you, either they want you or they don't. Learned that the hard way. I'm sure you'll have a bit of a learning curve too.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 08:24 PM
1

If they're ready for it, it only helps. If they're not, it only hurts. It could trigger shit tests, but text shit tests are not as potent when you pass them. Gauge whether they're ready.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 08:22 PM
1

Number closing is not super important on Tinder. I've had equal success with and without it. Girls go silent on Tinder sometimes, and they go silent sometimes after I start texting them. Either way, forget about it for a week. Wait until you have 10 matches. Or 20. Or 30. Your thirstiness goes away really quickly. The ones who are interested will chase you.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 08:13 PM
2

Be attractive. Basically encompasses what girls everywhere say about someone doing it wrong. She will enjoy it if you're attractive, not think you're attractive if she enjoys it. Start slow. Pull away first. Tease her. Make her want it. Does a guy who has kissed a thousand women go for the tongue quickly and face sucking early? No, he's done it a thousand times, he's in no rush. Personally, she (all of them) always escalates the kissing while I escalate where my hands are on her body.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 08:10 PM
1

For the orbiter's sake, it's best if she doesn't reply, so he can get over her. For her sake, it's best if she doesn't reply because she needs to be focusing on pleasing her man. And if things don't work out with you, she can always go talk to emotional tampon when she breaks up. For your sake, it's less psychological maintenance you have to do if she's talking to a guy to give her the good feels which you give her the AF.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 08:06 PM
1

You'll find the girl you're looking for by continuing to date women and learn their tricks. Not by giving up on dating and hoping to trip over the perfect one.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 08:02 PM
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Date younger women. Dating women older than you is not only unrewarding (women go for older guys), they have more social experience than you and they will mess with your frame. Date younger women. They will wet for you just knowing you've been to clubs.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 07:59 PM
1

Cannot uprate enough.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 07:58 PM
1

Give her space. You're being needy. You're spending way too much time on her. Talk to and number close other girls before you do any more chasing this one.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 07:57 PM
1

Now that she's been with him she's almost giving up on him because he's too beta/gets easily butthurt. So she's going to come back to you on her own. Cool. I'm in a position to wreck him right now and steal her back for the fuck of it. No need. "Wrecking" him will just make him desperate and there is nothing for you to gain from that--could blow back on you. You're already on an unfriendly basis with him. Any time a girl is in a position to manipulate someone to her cause, you befriend him/her f…
/r/askTRP12/04/15 07:54 PM
1

Don't try to reason with her. Same as always. Don't join her frame; don't feel the need to address all of her mouth noises.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 07:50 PM
1

They do want to change. When they discover what they've been doing is not achieving the desired results. Same as reformed betas. Men always want to change, in their core--we instinctively want to bed attractive women. Women want to change when they hit 30 or 35 and realize their vagina is losing its power.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 07:44 PM
1

In this order, Schoolwork. Join a fraternity (do some research beforehand on which one) (for networking. get elected for an officer position, get responsibility. not for partying, that will come naturally). Lift. Meet people. Piss off girls. Don't watch TV. Don't play video games. I can't speak on travel/backpacking from experience, but it sounds like a great way to meet other 17-21-yos who want to fuck NSA. I don't recommend getting a job (unless it's manual, everything else will sell you beta …
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:42 AM
1

Give her a week before you decide she hasn't responded. Otherwise you're clingy. [e] Personal opinion, stop smoking weed. Costs too much and eats too much of your life.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:35 AM
1

Social anxiety. Read up on TRP. Read no more mr nice guy, 48 laws of power, chateau heartiste. Learning the psychology behind it will make you more comfortable with it. 3 rules of social savviness, by CH Read "I hope they serve beer in hell", too. [e] And you can be comforted by this: if you're big and not talking, then you look pretty intimidating to them, too. Keeping your words to a minimum will preserve that illusion.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:30 AM
1

They're under 18, everything they do is for attention. They'll fuck you if you use amused mastery. [e] Of course, if you're over 18, you can't legally fuck them and I am officially not condoning that.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:27 AM
1

Short: Talk about success at work. Go to the gym, don't hide it. Socialize. "I enjoy just sitting in a room for 20 hours and getting something productive done)" is not sexy, take it down to 18 hours and go out for 2, do whatever you did when you were AAF. Stop being clingy NOW, since you apparently know how you're doing it (excellent for you). You still know how to game; use negs when applicable; rev that hamster. Stop watching TV, if you do. Long: Work on dread game. Make noticeable gains at th…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:25 AM
1

I don't know what cross-stitching is. Cooking is a fine hobby, because it's fucking useful. Feminine, maybe. Volleyball, also fine--socializing, physical, meeting women, networking with fit women. Feminine, maybe. Quilting, probably not; you can buy a blanket at the store, or skin an animal for a fur. But I don't quilt, so maybe it actually has some use. ♂
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:18 AM
1

If they haven't hit puberty yet, they're still girls. Just do something which they'll enjoy and make them enjoy seeing you again. Be the fun parent. Be receptive to their ideas, do what they want to do, have ideas if they don't.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:14 AM
0

If you were 4 inches taller, you would get 34% more women. Formula is here. http://i.imgur.com/cILbF9D.jpg
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:11 AM
2

If you're worried about talk to hurt my social standing & prom date possibility then you're not going to get anywhere with her (or a prom date) anyway. You have no abundance mentality. Even better, get caught doing it and be completely unapologetic and unrepentant. "Yeah, I did. What's up?" Go. Watch. Cuddle. Seduce.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:06 AM
1

Or you can actually try being beta and see how it goes (and plate whoever falls for it).
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:01 AM
1

Don't take it seriously. Treating it like a date is a great way to not get numbers. Just be random and inappropriate and spontaneous the entire time. Deflect any questions about you, let the girl talk about herself and then reply with something unexpected. Like a Mitch Hedburg bit on something vaguely related to what she said. And don't hit on them, because every other guy there will. Easy ideas: pretend to be drunk, pretend to be there for narcotics anonymous, pretend you're from the future and…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:00 AM
2

Girls who are interested suggest alternatives. There's no rush to fuck her. You work together. You will see each other plenty. Game in person. Starting to text a girl after you hook up with her once is not abundance mentality. You're getting excited because you hooked up with her and you think she likes you. She sees that, and is not attracted. Stop texting her NOW.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 04:43 AM
1

Slippery slope. Explore at your own risk. It could cost you your LTR, but then, something will. Question is: do YOU desire a threesome? Do YOU desire to fuck that other girl? If so, you have the means available to you; girls can pick up chicks way easier than men can.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 04:38 AM
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Plate her. You haven't been on TRP long enough to master a relationship with her. Just practice. You'll lose her eventually but you may as well get some practice. If you have no other prospects, you're dating her, just don't commit to anything and put off the "boyfriend" label as long as possible. And don't show her this sub. And don't show her this sub. And don't show her this sub. And don't show her this sub. And don't show her this sub. And don't show her this sub. You'll be tempted to when t…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 04:33 AM
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She just plated herself, far as I'm concerned. If she did it without your approval in advance, she doesn't respect you already. It's not completely her fault. Her way of asking in advance was beta bait. You took it.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 04:29 AM
2

Being interested in her sexual history is not attractive. You can be, just don't let her know. By the time you're on your 20th/50th girl, you've heard it all before and you just don't care anymore. 5 months into a LTR, learning about this is a sign it's almost over (or never was). Without more information, I can't really tell you more. Have you two talked about your histories before? Why does she think you care? If this is a first, it looks like she's getting ready to branch swing or cheat (or a…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 04:22 AM
2

Shit test, not LMR. Ignore words, keep gaming. If a girl uses the word "hardcore", then she's trying to convince herself, not just you.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 04:15 AM
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Set a goal to get rejected 20x per week. Tinder doesn't count. Actually approach a (fuckable) woman, have a (short) conversation with her, then ask her out or ask for a number. After a while, you'll get a sense of what works and what doesn't, and you'll have trouble making 20 rejections. It's easier to get a rejection by asking her out first, but it counts if she doesn't return your calls or date ideas over phone, though it takes longer and you're going for 20/week. Then you can start setting ru…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 04:14 AM
0

Absolutely find a financial advisor if that's not what your degree/fortune is in. Possibly the best investment money can buy. It pays for itself, literally. "I know [enough] about finance/money/investment" is an overwhelmingly common misconception. When you hire a financial advisor and he asks why you hired him, then you know enough. (Most financial advisors will advise against index ETFs; ETFs are not for ~everyone~, and they're advertised too well.)
/r/askTRP06/03/15 04:09 AM
3

If you see it often, you should reconsider "beautiful".
/r/askTRP02/03/15 05:30 AM
2

It's normal (and healthy) to want to invest the most in one but have others on the side. It's not adaptive (or sexy) to completely ignore all for the sake of one. You will lose that one's attraction if she discovers it.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 05:29 AM
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Read the Sex God Method if you haven't.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 05:26 AM
1

Three rules of social savviness, that's how. Chateau Heartiste And never laugh too hard. Bonus points for employing amused mastery and abundance mentality. Source: was in a fraternity
/r/askTRP01/03/15 09:32 PM
1

Not the entire fucking show word for word. The advice he and Dante give out. Shit worth listening to. Couldn't have replied better myself. Yes and yes. If you really have that much time to kill.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 09:27 PM
1

They're orbiting. If they want to orbit, they are welcome to. What do you think of it? You don't. They're grown-ups, they can do what they want. If they haven't already, your interests and theirs will not bring you together. They're part of your past, unless they're not.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 09:22 PM
1

Remember in college how the professor, talking to no one in particular, would distribute eye contact among everyone? Remember how unnerving it was? Always be addressing someone. Don't feel pressured to include in the conversation people who aren't included in the conversation, unless you're actively trying to include them. Who has EARNED your attention, by saying someone worth a reply? Ever done a panel interview for something? You versus 3-10 people? That's the rule I follow. This is my opinion…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 09:19 PM
1

Nurses and teachers. They do that. I will never LTR another one. All of the other posts are right on, too.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 09:10 PM
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Vote that one ^ up. Best way to leverage being rich? Travel for leisure to places rich people travel, meet women there. Enormous pre-selection; most of the other people there are older; the rich girls on daddy's dollar will gravitate toward you. Ski resorts come to mind, Venice, Bahamas. Anyplace with a Hilton. Hotels make shitty dates (watch out for escorts in the bars, unless you want to pay for pussy and not practice your game) but amazing places to meet girls and number close (then you plan …
/r/askTRP01/03/15 08:57 PM
1

It's a gambit. Either you explode her hamster (unlikely) or out yourself as manipulative and desperate (thereby killing your chances with her). Girls are experts at being manipulative. They will see through your shit. That's why they have hamsters, because they run on manipulation. Don't grow a hamster yourself. Also, don't use smileys. And don't follow it with the second text. You're being apologetic, which is beta on top of being manipulative.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 09:12 PM
1

the girl I've put the most effort into won't sleep with me unless we're exclusive. She actually said that. I'd next her but Words don't count. Continue gaming. 1) she's the perfect submissive I'm waiting for a catch; I don't believe you. A perfect submissive jumps to please you, including your penis. 2) I like her. Not a reason. At best, you're being played. I don't want to commit but she's fun to talk to, she started an obscure hobby of mine out of genuine interest, she pays for everything hers…
/r/askTRP26/02/15 09:06 PM
1

The serious ones makes their intentions clear pretty quickly. There is no game. Find the ones who aren't there to waste your time.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 08:56 PM
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Hard to be a celebrity and RP. Being a celebrity means playing by some commonly-accepted rules. The most seriously RP men are in prison or avoiding becoming known. (That's not to say that being in prison or unknown is a red pill trait; plenty of guys go to prison for getting upset over a woman or avoid being famous because they don't believe in themselves.) Nobody goes through life without being beta; learning to play the hand you've got (by the rules sometimes) is part of living free. Even Kevi…
/r/askTRP26/02/15 08:53 PM
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I meant when he's 31 be fucking 23 year olds, lol. But He can still date 18yos.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 08:17 PM
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Now you know you're attractive. Fuck younger women. Forget the woman 8 years older; you want that to be you.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 11:50 PM
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You're right on. If you can't have a conversation because she is doubling reply times, then she cares less than you. You're not necessarily orbiting, but you're on the path to it.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 11:48 PM
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I've tried that. It's a great approach, but you can (should) push it even farther. It further allows you to reward good behavior with uncharacteristically fast responses. OCCASIONALLY.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 11:46 PM
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From personal experience, if you're wondering whether you've waited long enough yet, the answer is no. It means you care too much, and timestamps are a wonderful way to reduce how much you care and take back the power.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 11:45 PM
1

Why would you avoid fights? You win fights. Well, you win fights before they peak.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 04:29 AM
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No, still applies. Women in masculine roles are still women. They don't get laid often, whether for conscious reasons or because they unconsciously emasculate the men around them. Being better yourself only makes it more possible for you. Bring your game and may the best man score.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 04:21 AM
1

Reads like a troll.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 04:17 AM
1

Ever, yes. For example, if your asshole game is too strong and you need to add some beta to the mix. There may be other circumstances, but that one is 10 seconds old. Also, you can break up when you want to, or change the rules when you want to. It's not a binding agreement, use it how you need to.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 04:16 AM
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I used "I was going to ask you the same thing" or something, it was a while ago. Didn't meet her, but that wasn't the end of the conversation, so it may have been defused.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 04:13 AM
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I was the same way, before TRP (minus the masochistic part). In hindsight I was super beta, and the girls I attracted had one or another real problem.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 04:09 AM
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Nothing. She's unusually self-aware. "I like penis" doesn't mean "I like hundreds of penis". It means "I have liked penis on at least one occasion", just means she's met an alpha. She may even be talking about you. Look for other signs instead.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 04:06 AM
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Validation fishing, yes. But you can still respond. Ideas: There is no luck, everything is predetermined. I AM the luck. That's my line. We at least one of us is. You know I am, that's why you suggested it. (Other nonsensical self-confident thing to say.)
/r/askTRP15/02/15 04:02 AM
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It's just a shit test. No reason to overreact.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 03:56 AM
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Always Be Escalating. When she texts you, she's thinking about you. Girls are practically incapable of asking for sex. You don't have to respond to her direct question, but you can respond and make it dirty.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 03:51 AM
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Indecisive is not attractive. Flaking or cancelling are not recommended--that's what women do, because women are indecisive and seek stability. Since you're being unattractive, you may as well go on the date and find some other way to turn her off. Gain something from the experience. Roommate from work is not from work. You don't spend money on her the first date anyway. Whatever "asshole" means...
/r/askTRP15/02/15 03:41 AM
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I don't really include her in the relationship planning. I decide and explain it to her afterward if it comes up. She agrees sooner or later. Six months doesn't really sound like a relationship to me--not at your ages. She's approaching the wall. You're approaching your peak value. You basically broke up with her and are keeping her as a plate, and she is agreeing. She may make a play for keeping some of her advantages (like living with you, car, insurance, driving to the airport, etc.), be very…
/r/askTRP15/02/15 03:35 AM
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This is absolutely right, needs rated higher. [e] Wait, she has a kid? I didn't see that in the OP. In that case she's trying to boyfriend you, contrary to her words.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 03:25 AM
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If it's one-on-one, it's much harder. I'd say turn the asshole game way down and just try to learn dance without hitting on her. Do talk to her. If you're one in a class, game as usual. She is very strong willed and intelligent. Makes it sound like you're pedestalizing. Avoid that.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 03:21 AM
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Doesn't matter. You get laid with the same personality as everyone else. Lifting is always good, though, no matter you you are. The primary thing you do is stop being hung up on it. Do you seriously look 12? Probably not. (fuck younger women?) Yes, you really do? Nobody cares but you. 12-year-olds have sex. Wrap your head around that. Maybe they shouldn't, but a lot of people who shouldn't, do.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 04:01 AM
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Join something. Get responsibility. Ideally I'd say a fraternity and then go for a jeweled officer position. Isn't there a fraternity of basically engineers? You'd fit right in. You get social practice, you don't worry about it much, you worry about politics and grown-up-esque responsibility more. If you can get into mentoring or conflict resolution or event some sort of orientation group, that will do. And study. Make it a way of life, not an obligation. Learn what words mean, get good at using…
/r/askTRP13/02/15 03:49 AM
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Really damned good advice. Captured it perfectly for me. God's not afraid to stand tall, stand out, be seen, be intimidating. Put that thought in your head. I'm picturing a half-smirk, not even a smirk, just sort of a pursed lip, mildly lowered brows, eyes always laughing. A whole paragraph so I can award a: ♂ [edit] Or maybe he'd go to class in his pajamas and glasses with no shower and no hair product and not talk to any of us ants. Call of Duty-all-Saturday -style.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 03:27 AM
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Everybody in high school talks about their conquests. 90% of them are imaginary. The really successful (high school) guys are the ones who can keep it quiet and fuck multiple girls.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 03:22 AM
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Sounds fine to me. She doesn't seem interested but you'll have plenty of time to grow on her. Keep up the abundance mentality when you're around her, amused mastery.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 03:19 AM
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Girls feel weird taking a photograph for no reason, but they love attention so they create a reason for getting attention. They techniques mature as they age. You don't see many middle-finger self-photos of girls over 22. Look up the origin of the birdy.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:59 AM
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"TELL ME SOMETHING INTERESTING" I get something along those lines a lot (be glad she's making her desires known and not simply hoping you'll guess them). I know a lot of random stuff. Chicks love it. Google answers to weird questions you have, or weird words you know, or common-not-common knowledge like how alcohol works on the brain. Ever watch Sherlock? Watching his brain go is fucking incredible. Makes girls horny. Or at least the ones I find myself meeting. Paraphrase TURN ME ON, EXCITE ME
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:57 AM
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Lesbian is just a word. Either you can attract her or you can't, same as with any woman. If you establish yourself as a beta, she'll never change her mind about you. If you establish yourself as sexy, same thing. If she really, really, REALLY is a lesbian, then there's still no harm in gaming her.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:49 AM
2

Build more attraction. I've never fucked a girl (repeatedly) who didn't crave the sight and taste of my penis.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:43 AM
2

No anger phase for me either. TRP brought together a whole bunch of observations I'd made myself and united them under a theory of behavior and attraction. It wasn't a complete surprise or difficult to swallow. (Rather, the betas in my life were a major source of frustration for me for a long time, but I never knew how to describe it.)
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:41 AM
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The one who catches a perfect boy. Wishy washy, yes, but true. The one who stays in peak condition, loyal, responsible, stable, trustworthy...basically all of the "positive" adjectives in society. What do you want in a woman? The perfect woman has all of it, and you will be required to bring your perfect game in order to keep her. She will be required to stay at the top of her game in order to keep you.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:39 AM
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She has to wait... AFTER you're having sex with her. Unless that's just what your mouth is saying and your actions are escalating.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:35 AM
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Embody what you wish he could be. Stay in touch. Be available.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:34 AM
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Girls don't start objectively talking about/pursuing sex until their late 20s. They need to be seduced before then. But really, you're 18. Just have a good time. Girls are practically at their peak, you're just growing. Whether you have autism or not, if you think you do, you probably have more social skills to practice before you can really start seducing. So for those 10 days, work on throwing parties, not getting laid. Build social capital. If you don't have the connections to throw parties, …
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:32 AM
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She's trying to be funny and failing because she doesn't know how to hit on you. Go easy on her. Just tell her what you like. Set up the date; she's asking you to.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 03:54 AM
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I agree with everyone who said STFU and be boring. But here's another take on it, because no one is saying it. What is "traditional"? Why are traditions made? Why are they broken? When were they broken? Humans have been alive for thousands of years; recorded history started about 6000 years ago (Mesopotamia). Are we saying people in America had traditional values until the 1800s? 1910s? 1950s? 1990s? Do we want to give up on our "new-fashioned values" after 10/50/100 years of trying them? How lo…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 03:49 AM
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Exclusive relationships require roughly equal amounts of alpha and beta. If you want to go through life fucking one girl at a time who is about as attractive as you are, you can probably do that with not too much difficulty or game. But men are not made to be satisfied. We are made to be ambitious and pursue MORE and obsess with building ourselves to higher accomplishments. Including but not limited to more and sexier women.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 03:40 AM
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This question is asked often. Short answer, it's not a problem if you don't make it one. Long answer, do some searching, there are some really good answers.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 03:29 AM
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Find creative ways to not say it. Expand your vocabulary. Make her actions the object of your affection, not her very being. When you're inside her is good too. There are a hundred ways to make it sexy then.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 03:27 AM
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You fucked up by explaining everything about it to her. Then again, maybe she's a wonderful girl and worth the relationship. I apologize for assuming otherwise.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 03:21 AM
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You should? Not really. You can, and with minimal effort. You learn game in order to date someone with higher SMV (in part, by learning to increase your own).
/r/askTRP06/02/15 03:18 AM
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She was making a move on you. It's not a crime to have a girl's number. What you do with the number is up to you.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 03:16 AM
1

Every time you walk through a door, check your posture. If you need a visual, pretend you just did a pull-up and get your chin over the (imaginary) bar. Your whole body will straighten out.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 03:14 AM
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Why risk it? Plan the second date on the first date. Mention something you want to show her, allude to something you did, whatever. Put the thought for the second date in her head before the first is over. It's known as "having something in common". Even if you just made it up. If you legitimately failed to do so on the first date, make it up. Play it as if you did. "I'm booking our flight to Italy, how's this weekend?" Stupid, but better than nothing, if you mentioned you had been to Italy once…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 03:05 AM
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Practice outrageous things to say. Practice shit test responses. Practice speaking slowly, deeply, and deliberately. Don't try to do it all at once. Take small steps, and before you know it, you'll be tripping over poon. Maybe even practice pissing girls off and getting slapped. It's pretty hard to do.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 02:36 AM
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A little upset, "what makes YOU special?" look on your face. If you can cock an eyebrow, learn to do it in degrees. Also, make smirking a reflex. Preferably not always the same side.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 02:22 AM
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Try to scare her away. See how easy it is. Asking for nudes is one idea. Talking through things and giving her advice are no. If she's a 9, then it can't hurt to up the ante and maybe get something from her. Sounds to me like you're still beta. Certainly you have other things to do in your free time beside talking to girls with no interest in you.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 02:20 AM
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You can flirt, but only to make them like you. Network. Get invited to hang with their female friends. Friends of coworkers are fair game.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 05:42 AM
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Alpha is a noun, not an adjective. Moreover, it's a generalization. Alphas are who women choose to fuck, betas are whom they choose to sponge off. So if we're using imprecise language, "is there such a thing as being too attractive and/or fuckable to a woman?" Yes, you can be "too attractive". Explaining why is better covered by CH.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 05:26 AM
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If you're worried about being a creep, then you're a creep. Your fear is your only obstacle.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 05:21 AM
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Beta bait, not a shit test.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 05:17 AM
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Adoption is an option, since no one has mentioned it. Adoption is chemically/hormonally as painful as an abortion, however, and less permanent. Requires even more moral support.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 05:14 AM
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Yeah, this topic is 8 days ago. Maybe wasting my time. A horny girl cannot comprehend the idea of a guy turning down her offer for sex -- it kills her ego. Can't say I agree. I've been doing it for a while. Postpone, don't "turn down". Or maybe killing her ego doesn't kill her attraction.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 05:11 AM
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Snapchat is garbage. It's ultimate validation. Sometimes Tinder girls will snap you instead of meeting you, but it's just pixels. Dates are better, and Snapchat does not help you date. Snapchat non-nudes mean she likes your attention. Snapchat nudes means she likes attention from a lot of dudes (or she will when she has more than 1 man in her life).
/r/askTRP24/01/15 06:38 AM
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Let him see you with hot girls often.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 06:05 AM
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She said no and seemed to indicate she wasn't going to spend the night with me so I soft nexted her for the night. Ouch. She came for sex, didn't understand your teasing and you soft nexted her. You sort of shit-tested yourself. You changed your mind about the course of events due to something she said. She also doesn't want me doing any kind of overt PDA at the weekly means she doesn't want to be seen as your girlfriend. You should be happy about this. Girls cling to alphas in public, not the o…
/r/askTRP24/01/15 05:56 AM
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Masturbating is a waste of time. (Then again, so is sex!) 15 minutes you can use to do something else. Then add in the time you spend edging, if applicable, setting aside time for it, finding a location, booting the computer, waiting for pages. Etc. Multiply that by however often you do it. That said, I always, always orgasm before a date. But when you get plates, you won't worry about masturbating anymore.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 05:07 AM
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If she texted you after she realized you flaked, then it probably wasn't a shit test, and she's saving face, and she wanted moral support because you're intimidating, i.e. attractive. You had potential for Azzmo's response. The I am not a bank is a little odd if that's the case, but it may have been a knee-jerk reaction to your frame. Which means she still desires a date. But that's only if her "i cant go today" text was after you flaking. really needs more information Did you reply with your "E…
/r/askTRP24/01/15 05:02 AM
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You read TRP. You are a man. Therefore, you know when something is really not relevant to anything, and you know to look for girls looking for attention. When they're looking for attention and don't have a problem which is your problem, sympathize but don't validate that frame (don't add fuel to the fire, don't make it your problem). If they have a problem which is your problem, assist them with that as a reward for something else. "I'll think about it" is a good response for the latter case, an…
/r/askTRP24/01/15 04:35 AM
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Always assume you will initiate. Always trust a woman to fear rejection. They do not initiate.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 04:03 AM
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Means they're attracted. Up to you to decide whether you're interested in girls who find you attractive, or whether you prefer girls who require more work before finding you attractive.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 03:58 AM
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Don't worry about "game" until you're 21. Learn it, yes. Only worry about your future (college, grades). If you have free time beside that, lift. Muscle are crack for college or younger girls. And talk to girls. Have female "friends" (you don't actually confide in them). Mostly to cement your status as a cool guy, so other girls will be drawn to you (as a non-loser), partly to just be comfortable around women. Joining a sports team kind of wraps all of that together. They don't let you play if y…
/r/askTRP24/01/15 03:37 AM
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Great reply, but OP's history tends away from sincerity.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 02:50 AM
1

If you want to pay girls to give you attention, they're fine. Not being a dick, that's just exactly what it is.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 02:44 AM
1

"Being controlling is only sexy when I do it." It's not exactly a test, but that's what I use and it hasn't backfired yet.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 01:48 AM
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I'll replace that^ with "experienced PUA". "I have to leave in a minute. <game> <out before things go bad>" "Will you teach me sign language? I'm sure you weren't being rude." agree and amplify YOURSELF
/r/askTRP05/12/14 10:09 AM
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When have we ever said it's acceptable not to use a condom? Adoption, IMO. She may even be able to get some money for the kid, if you're lucky. Or raise it yourself. Say: You can stay with her (DO NOT marry, for many reasons, including: you "can't afford a wedding") until you both get sick and tired of each other, which will leave her as a single mother and you as a deadbeat dad. Or you can get separated and split custody when it's old enough, which also sucks. And then she can try to collect ch…
/r/askTRP05/12/14 10:04 AM
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Focused. Minimally verbal.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:55 AM
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Test. A hundred times test. I Amused mastery it. Then again, I've never actually considered hard nexting over a LJBF. I never got a LJBF from a girl who I hadn't overinvested in. Sometimes we escalate, sometimes she meant it and we part.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:54 AM
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Continue giving her as much attention as usual. Only be alarmed if she reduces her reciprocity (i.e. emotional engagement in you, i.e. she's getting it somewhere else). Watch her facebook or whatever to see whether she's partying and taking photos with good-looking guys while she's there. Or just don't be paranoid about it. There's no problem yet. Aside, you should absolutely take the opportunity to consider future plates while she's gone. "Always keep one in the kitty. A man with options..."
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:46 AM
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She'll play by the rules you set. But she doesn't wont to know the rules beforehand. Advice: make your expectations known. Just don't do it more than a few minutes in advance. Alternate rounds or dates. If she refuses to pay her turn or cheaps on her turn, either accept it or next her.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:39 AM
1

Good advice for some. Situational.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:38 AM
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After sex, politely excuse you or her. The next day/morning, basically first thing (when you awoke this morning she was your first thought), send a short rapport text, basically to affirm FOR HER MIND that it was mutual (not rape), like "get home safe?" Make plans in the text or shortly thereafter to "hang out"/use whatever excuse/ again THAT WEEK. Meet at whoever's place, continue rapport, escalate, fuck, politely excuse you/her again. Basically do exactly what you did the last time. After that…
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:34 AM
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Didn't read the link. By putting the ball in her court, I give her the chance to shamelessly ask me out in the future. You should know better than that. Girls don't recognize ball possession. I would not have replied after her first response.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:22 AM
1

Cool.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:16 AM
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Discovering the existence of shit tests. Discovering that sometimes people pretend not to like you or give you shit just to see if you take them seriously. Learning that you get along fine after you shrug it off changed my life.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:14 AM
1

Telemundo doesn't have many newcomers representing it.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 06:02 AM
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It never matters. If she's going to be loyal to her boyfriend, she has to outright reject your advances and not simply demoralize you. It's just words. (You can always counter with a mention of one of your girlfriends and see whether she stops talking about him then or becomes super inquisitive about your gf. It's a disqualification, but then you need to play it off properly later on when her interest is piqued.)
/r/askTRP30/11/14 06:01 AM
1

We answer this question all the time. search.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 05:50 AM
0

So much slang. This post makes you sound 13. Stop objectifying women when they're not around.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 05:49 AM
1

This, this this.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 05:43 AM
2

You were obsessed with feeling inspired by the world when you were 16 and/or full of hormones too.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 05:41 AM
1

80% of the people you know are betas. 80% of people "don't talk on the phone anymore". Spending just a minute on the phone is powerful. Texting is the standard because women are addicted to the validation and 80% of dudes don't know any better.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 05:39 AM
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Yeah, can't stop giving her feelings. Girls need drama (maintenance). If you don't make it, they will.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 08:54 PM
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Shit-test or beta bait, I can't tell. "I always say the same thing about girls!" "Yeah, some guys get really excited by the possibility." [e] Either way, rely on text less. Texting is girls' domain. Make phone calls a standard. They take a bit longer and they get to hear your voice. You won't sound like every other beta on their contact list.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 08:50 PM
1

I agree with everything you'd said, but we all start with one plate.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 08:41 PM
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No question, just something I see often here. A suggested course of action. Notated by "I suggest".
/r/askTRP28/11/14 08:40 PM
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Just text her every day. Follow the 2/3 rule. Make her feel included, but you don't have to talk philosophy with her. Your definition of a significant other is what women want you to think. They also want their significant other to be naturally alpha. "manage and mold" makes it sound much more active than it really is. "can't be vulnerable", sure. Don't whine in front of her about something neither of you can fix--that will cause her frustration not confidence in you. You can seek her counsel, b…
/r/askTRP28/11/14 08:37 PM
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You have the solution. Stop worrying about it. Almost always, when you see a dude with a shaven head, he's bald(ing), and it works. Patrick Stewart is bald (and so are about a hundred other celebrities who shave their heads) and like 80, and he looks younger for having no hair. Ignoring the fact of him being PATRICK FUCKING STEWART. (Unrelated, show some love to your stepdad. Not sure what the relationship is, but get close enough to him for some of your TRP to shine through. Maybe he'll pick up…
/r/askTRP28/11/14 08:31 PM
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Resist the urge to talk and talk because you will make mistakes, and talking often increases the tendency to seek consensus (which is not sexy). But if you know exactly what you're talking about, there's no need to restrain yourself. You should contribute, but you don't have to be the leader of the conversation in order to be the sexiest one in the conversation. Contribute when you can, amused mastery (even on men) when appropriate. Include yourself in the conversation, even if you're not talkin…
/r/askTRP28/11/14 02:24 AM
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They send the first text when they're already fuckbuddies with you, looking for validation. That's where the 2/3 rule comes in.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 02:19 AM
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and this other moment where she refused to kiss me at all costs telling me to say something "personal", tell her a story, or something that happened to me, said that she barelly knew me or some sht, which leads me to believe that there is some interest. "You want sex? Tell me a story. If you tell the right one which gives me the right feelings, you win. If you fail, you go into orbit. If you refuse [my offer], I'll give you another chance later."
/r/askTRP28/11/14 02:16 AM
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Surfing is fine. It's better than lifting, because you'll love it and it's social (you can meet women, unlike at the gym). Lifting is for those of us who don't have these opportunities (beaches!) gift-wrapped for us.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 02:12 AM
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You're asking here (no offense), which means you don't have the frame to keep her. If she's not fucking others, she will be soon. Mentally downgrade her to a plate. Part of what keeps her as a plate may be her illusion of having you exclusive to her. Going along to a shoot, just for fun, just for the experience is a good idea. Worst case, you get AMOGed and lose her right there; best case, depending on how you look and conduct yourself (unintimidated!), you may lock her down.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 02:10 AM
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It lets you fuck younger women. Being in shape (not even necessarily toned) helps.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 02:07 AM
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Those are good responses, but they're just validation, not escalation. Don't talk when actions will do. Escalating as you described is good (neck is another spot). Either they stay (continue escalating) or they don't (and you never had a chance anyway). And some of them are just doing it for the attention and are hoping you'll bend them over and dry-fuck them doggy-style for the whole club to watch. Don't go that far, you're being used. Isolate.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 02:03 AM
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You're assuming 1 man isn't fucking multiple women, or vice versa. In the long run, when everyone* becomes monogamous, the chips fall pretty much where they should. Top 20% marry top 20%. The 50-80% percentile who have been fucking top 20% men marry men who are less than they feel they're entitled to. *Everyone does not get married, and women's value diminishes over time, so people often marry outside their age bracket, confusing the whole system. Don't think too hard about it.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 02:00 AM
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Even with girls that will walk away from a group of guys just to greet me and hug me, I have no idea what I should do after that point. "Hey, look everyone! One of my attractive orbiters! You should all think I'm even hotter now!" So far, I'm pretty good at chatting with girls on campus, getting numbers, and building attraction. The problem is, once I get that far I just stop dead. Talk (NO TEXTING), push/pull, kino. When she decides to be alone with you (not in public), then you escalate to thi…
/r/askTRP28/11/14 01:56 AM
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if there was any chance I could "sweep her off my feet" with my newfound alpha nature. Maybe. I didn't have her phone number, so I had to resort to sending her a Facebook message. Nope. She seemed very excited to receive my message and went as far as to give me her new number (which I asked for) as well as offering up that she was living in an apartment near me and would love to meet up some time. "Please orbit me."
/r/askTRP28/11/14 01:42 AM
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2582565/Want-good-dancer-Its-neck-knee-Men-head-right-leg-seen-attractive.html I have the actual study somewhere, but this is what I found on Google referring to it in 30 sec.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 01:24 AM
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"being happy, smiling, making people laugh" are qualities we adore in women (Remember your mother telling you how to make people like you, when you were a child? That's how she makes people like her.). It's not "beta", it's just not something we admire in fellow men.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 01:22 AM
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Enjoy yourself. If you get further IoIs, act. Follow the three rules of social savviness.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 01:20 AM
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Think about it in your free time, using real details. Imagination is a great advantage and worth exploring. I'm surprised it isn't advertised and advocated more often on this sub.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 01:18 AM
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Practice. I've conquered all of the fears which caused my social anxiety (taking shit tests seriously, lol) but some of the behaviors had become instinctual. It will only take a few dozen experiences to change your mentality.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 01:14 AM
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Video games and TV started seeming hollow, after I learned to see the RP<<<BP tendencies in TV (and discovered a dearth of role models and learning opportunities), and video games are just a validation treadmill. Some of them teach great skills (AH on WoW was instrumental and theorycrafting got me interested in the math field) but not even those can justify the time investment. FPSs I can't even enjoy anymore. And there are so many wonderful things to read. Every college textbook has something t…
/r/askTRP28/11/14 01:12 AM
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That link/headline. Never thought I would read those words in a headline.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 01:04 AM
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I think your heart's in the right place, but you could re-word this to be more helpful; you don't sound much less angry than OP.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 12:58 AM
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Ignore words, watch actions. "Damaged goods" is overused. IGNORE WORDS. DO NOT be her drama sponge. You can talk to her about other things, but become disinterested if she tries to bring it up. [e] Can't explain it, but redheads attract drama. I could say "redheads are crazy" but that's even harder to support.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 12:55 AM
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Abundance mentality means not noticing when "a lot of ladies are checking me out". You know what really drives them crazy? When the dude isn't paying any attention to them. Don't ever initiate contact through text. You're allowed to talk to her(them) at work, though. Still not a good idea to date them.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 12:52 AM
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Can't confirm or deny; please rephrase.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 12:40 AM
1

All mistakes are recoverable, that's the best part about women. Their attraction is not a switch.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 12:34 AM
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Amateur or nothing at all IMO. Helps me keep my appetite (food) in check between lays, weirdly.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 12:31 AM
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"I've seen a lot of shit." (Works better when it's believable, i.e. with a 4+ -year age gap.)
/r/askTRP28/11/14 12:26 AM
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Can't uprate this enough. Something which causes "an entire table of guys to freeze up" is a shit test for an entire table. Emotional impact.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 12:25 AM
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Everyone who is here and serious has been lifting for 1 month to his entire life. Or swimming. Or climbing. For a damned good reason: looking manly is fucking attractive and helps with frame, because you're getting eye-raped all of the time. Most of us aren't bodybuilders, though. I'd say 98%. There's a "huge emphasis on lifting" because it WORKS. It's something you can do every day to make yourself more attractive, no ands ifs or buts.
/r/askTRP27/11/14 09:42 PM
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I'd go with cup size instead.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 01:41 AM
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If you're above her SMV, she'll see it coming and she'll play defense to try to land you. It will take some game. If she's above your SMV, she's probably accustomed to setting up guys with her less-hot friends in order to keep them as orbiters. It will be easy, but you'll be orbiting meanwhile.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 01:36 AM
1

Ultimatums are not things which socially ept people use. "Full alpha" is a mirage. Trying to be it, to jump into it, is just going to break things.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 11:16 PM
1

Number is just an indicator. It indicates discipline. Giving 50 bjs and never having sex is not significantly different from 50 bjs and 2 sex. Discipline is what you're really looking for, and why a girl's value is affected by many things (what she talks about, how demanding, etc. etc.) and not just how quickly she gets into bed. (Girls have the ASD because THEY believe quickness to bed is a bad thing, when it's really only a bad thing if it's a habit.) Discipline is worthiness for LTR. A girl w…
/r/askTRP19/11/14 11:14 PM
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Amused. Fucking. Mastery. Never take her seriously. You've heard it all before and it didn't faze you then. It doesn't faze you now.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 03:07 AM
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"It depends" = no. You have better things to spend money on. Like protein powder.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 02:58 AM
1

Lead by example. Treat girls as you treat boys. Tell the boys: "You have to be nice to girls, but you don't have to let them be mean to you." Rephrase as necessary.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 02:53 AM
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Never count on a girl to call you. Never say ok to that. You call her. Don't say when, beside "later tonight". "can I call you later tonight and let you know if we can hangout" is something YOU should be saying. Best response is probably "I'll call you later."
/r/askTRP19/11/14 01:50 AM
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Then yes it's totally ok to take her out for dinner. If she's earned it. Just don't do it just because she said so.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 01:38 AM
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I can't really know, but if he's not getting laid, it could be because he's acting so unrelentingly alpha. No pull, all push.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 01:37 AM
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"gay" is often recommended but comes off as defensive too often. "bitch" didn't help. That entire text could have been worded better. "Keep it simple" sounds like "keep it FWB and you're getting too friendly" since she went cold at a bar in public (not on a date). Plus she probably found some other dude and ignoring her for a week lowered your ability to remain a fuckbuddy while she chased him. You had a good thing going, I would have changed nothing.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 11:57 PM
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They're really the only marketing. Can't recommend it in public. I bet some real genius like GLO wrote some of those hateful gawker articles on why TRP is destroying men. 750 betas alerted, 75 got curious and converted.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 11:52 PM
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No reaction is a final decision. You get to respond, no matter what she says. You reinterpret what she says to make it something which makes you look and feel good. If she's shocked, you don't take her seriously. You re-frame it and don't get defensive. Pretend to be even more shocked somehow, for example (you thought I was 25 not 45? wow thanks i dont usually get told i look so good for my age). If she likes it, then of course she likes it, you're an interesting guy. But your interest is not a …
/r/askTRP18/11/14 11:36 PM
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It's pointless to rate yourself. Just push your number upward. If you have the right mentality, you're overestimating your number anyway.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 11:21 PM
1

How does anyone "stay sane" when hearing a dissenting opinion? How did Copernicus "stay sane"? You stop worrying about how wrong they are, and just watch the discussion. You're not there to change any minds.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 08:10 PM
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"travel 947 miles to see me" is just another request to pull you inside her frame. Unless she has backed up her request with real verifiable actions, not just words and promises, it's seriously beta-fying. And if she IS serious, going through all of that trouble is STILL beta-fying, because you're going to such lengths to make it work. Beta-fying yourself can result in sex if she's well below your SMV, but why would you invest so much for someone far below your SMV? To me, it sounds as though yo…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 08:09 PM
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Congratulations, you're raising your SMV and becoming more picky. It's lonely at the top. Really attractive people have so few people they really want to date. You're not a chump anymore. Humblebrag more.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 07:50 AM
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Absolutely. It's the epitome. She's trying to make you feel something. To provoke you. If you don't respond, don't show any affect, then you win. If you must respond, "You understand me perfectly" is a decent A&A. But really, just don't argue. When they start verbalizing the hamster, you disengage. Stop participating. In truth, they get really turned on by knowing exactly what's expected of them. Being "demanding" is a compliment. "Afraid to say anything" is her admitting you give her strong fee…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 07:01 AM
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You take her seriously too much. Get ready for her to get tired of you. You wanted sex. She wanted to talk. She won. Probably could have been solved with more foreplay. Certainly could have been solved with fewer words.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:56 AM
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It is possible to become pregnant from a man's pre-ejaculate fluid (pre-cum) under certain circumstances, though the chances are quite low. Pre-cum itself does not contain sperm, however sperm left behind from a previous ejaculation might be an eager stow-away on the pre-ejaculate cargo ship. Men can urinate before having vaginal sex to ensure that their lingering swimmers wash away; of course, when using withdrawal, the male partner still has to pull out before ejaculating to prevent pregnancy.…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:52 AM
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Make her earn it. Push and pull. Tease her about being so darn curious about you. How old are you, like any other simple personal question, is just women testing to see how easily they can get information from you. The easier they can control you, the uglier you become. My thoughts: one of the three can happen. She can be really shocked if she learns I'm that much older. Or she may like it that someone of my age took interest in her. Or she may think I'm desperate or insecure or w/e since I'm no…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:43 AM
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She's manipulating you. "x is supposed to y". No back-up, no support, just hoping you'll agree with her without thinking too hard about it. Think about it, use your brain, try to understand what she's thinking, then amused mastery. You can say yes eventually after you convince her she's not entitled to it. After she sees her feeble attempts to control you fail (thus igniting her passion for you). You'll take her to dinner because you desire to, not because she desires you to. (And also the subte…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:39 AM
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[edit] The tone of this makes me think: you are inexperienced. That's fine, but it means you should be focusing on younger women. Then, she replied that she is not the type of girl to do this, that she doesn't think that it's a good idea and that she more sees me as a friend. Really depends on how you replied to that shit test. I didn't contact her afterwards and asked her if she wants to do some shopping a couple of days later. This made her flip her shit and she berated me how she's not an eas…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:33 AM
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I was worried about "asking" but the problem is boredom, not rejection. Less often and longer and move around. Dominance emotion variety immersion.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:27 AM
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Just tease her about it when you make plans again. People flake all of the time and for all sorts of reasons. The good ones give you advance warning. Don't hold it against her. Don't bring it up as anything except a joke.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:24 AM
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Yeah, you probably could have made it last longer, but things burn out faster when you see each other daily. Got some experience. Don't get married until 34 minimum.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:22 AM
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Pussy is a great motivator. Embody the sort of success you want him to have, let him see, and then bleed relationship details to him without sounding like a braggart all of the time. It will take a couple of months to a couple of years, depending on how quickly you go through plates and how often you see him.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:20 AM
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"Sure. Come over. Bring wine." Bang, spin her. Unless you can't and you still have one-itis after she CCed. In that case, "Sorry hon, super busy." Then silence.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:14 AM
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Learn from him. That cockiness has a time and place, and the day may someday arrive when you're 7 inches shorter and 75 pounds lighter than the people around you, and you'll be glad to have some of that mentality available. He's compensating, and he's doing it well. I tried to sort of gently let him know he was full of it. was you giving him a shit test, and he A&Aed and passed it, because you left him alone. Now you know how betas feel. "Why are these girls paying attention to him? He's short a…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:10 AM
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3 months. Lol. So what, 6 fucks and you're considering career/life advice from her? She's testing you. Make your own decision. You can agree with her, but don't let her think she has influence over you. Aside, "going back to school" is something your parents tell you to do. Your parents have a (legitimate!) interest in your future, because their status is increased by yours. Be watchful of anyone else who suggests it.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:07 AM
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If you call her on it every time, she'll get away with it the few times you don't notice, and she'll become a better liar. Call her on it 50% of the time max, or just whenever you actually care.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:02 AM
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Talking about your feelings never results in sex (unless you're way above her SMV?). Game her, or gamer her social circle. It's important to maintain some female "friends", who basically make introductions for you.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 05:59 AM
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Text game is not tinder game. You're doing tinder game. On girls you already know. Tinder game doesn't work when you have mutual friends. Text game is about repeat business. Be undemanding. Not to-the-point. Not arrogant. Friendly.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 01:00 AM
1

Needs more detail. Sounds like you didn't do enough push/pull. Kino doesn't work without it.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 12:56 AM
1

Video is private. What do?
/r/askTRP14/11/14 08:37 PM
1

Power talk is talk with plausible deniability. You read it once. Read it twice more, then start hypothesizing.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 08:30 PM
1

Leaders don't worry about whether they're qualified to lead. Leaders lead because they don't see anybody else with a better idea. [e] Leader is interchangeable with alpha. That was my point.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 08:28 PM
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Plate her. If she wants the LTR, she'll work for it. I'm betting she will NOT ask you how to go about it, and she'll figure it out on her own.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 08:26 PM
1

2 months is nothing. You're feeling premature enlightenment. You're still on the high from new knowledge, aching to use it, but you haven't developed any skills yet. Apply it to your life before you make a life change based on something you read online. You should seriously consider college.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 08:23 PM
2

AWALT. Get out of your own head. You're humblebragging.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 07:55 PM
1

The Blacklist makes me cringe so hard. The main girl is a feminist fantasy. James Spader is a baller though. The plot/show itself becomes formulaic. Mad Men is pretty darn feminist.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:50 PM
1

PUA/seduction teaches you how to get a woman, TRP teaches you how to keep her.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:46 PM
1

Learn law. Learn police terminology and protocol. Learn your rights in any encounter with law or law enforcement.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:45 PM
1

Title is extremely misleading.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:37 PM
1

"You live with your parents" is a shit test. It does make it harder to bang, but only because your roommates are older and therefore home more than you. Your parents desire you to have a healthy sex life, and the girl won't care if you don't. Having your own place (no roommate!) trivializes logistics, and girls probably recognize that on some level, unconsciously asserting the stigma.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:30 PM
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If you don't have any positive influences or source of discipline or direction in your life, then it's a fine idea. (If you do, then immerse yourself in those influences.) This isn't a sex strategy, it's a life strategy. Don't worry about sex for 5 years.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 07:02 AM
1

AWALT. This stuff is in the sidebar. This is not a revelation and you should not be having any feelings about this whatsoever. Your girlfriend craves the penis of attractive men. Congrats, you're dating a woman.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:58 AM
1

You don't TURN alpha. Just take small steps at a time. Start here, if you haven't. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/08/20/the-rules-of-social-savviness-rule-3/ He's not trying to attract them, he's just working on his frame. And that's all you can do. Work on maintaining frame.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:53 AM
2

Read. Social Animal. Third Chimpanzee. The game. The mystery method. The sex god method. Magic Bullets. I hope they serve Beer in hell. Stop playing video games, for the love of god. Literally anything else you do is a better use of your time. (Source: 8 years of WoW and WoW-related sites) Californication is a decent watch on netflix if you ignore every character except Hank and you ignore how he acts around his daughter and babymama. His frame is admirable. IF. IF IF IF you must Netflix. IF.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:50 AM
1

The only time being a virgin can possibly help you is if you're way too hot to be a virgin. And then it's only good once, until it becomes a lie.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:45 AM
1

She wants you. Plate her. You did a lot of things right. She texted you again, to see whether you're a friend or a stud. Reply with something sexual, and arrange the second date (you should be able to get third base* or better). Fuck in three dates or next her. Always assume women are in it for the AF. Always always always. They will never admit to desiring less than a full relationship. I don't know how Japanese affects any of this; I don't know the culture. *Sorry for using 6th-grade terminolo…
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:41 AM
1

What is this, high school? Talk to her when you see her. Either make her interested or don't. If you're just starting TRP, take it slow, use her as practice, don't LTR her.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:34 AM
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Good luck. Being a single dad isn't easy (easier than being a single mom though!), and finding a woman to marry you and bear her children AND let you cheat is even harder. Unless she's a hag.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:32 AM
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I'm not the OP, but I used this response. Last time she ever complained. Oddly, she became more vocal about her sex drive and sex increased in frequency. I'm still waiting on the list of names.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:30 AM
1

"Lift" is a generalization. If you're running marathons continually, rock-climbing, doing gymnastics, or competitively swimming, that qualifies.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:26 AM
2

Most of the people here aren't pros. "Never" this and "only" that are not perfect rules; they're guidelines for beginners. It's a meme because there are 4 boys feeding girls free validation for every 1 fucking her. 80% accuracy.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:24 AM
1

She craves dominance. As usual, never take her words at face value. Slowly escalate roughness. You'll probably find her limit before yours. And if you don't, then the other responses in this thread have better guidance to BDSM.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:21 AM
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All men fuck downward, all women fuck upward. All women require training to be LTR/marriage-worthy. That's why we call them unicorns; they don't exist in the wild. Spin them. Get experience.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:19 AM
1

He gives her the tingles. If you're going to quash those feelings, you need to avoid giving her reinforcement for feeling them. Short version: don't talk about him, and be bored whenever she does. If you must talk about him, focus on the immature/disrespectable aspects of him; do not be threatened and do not actively belittle him. If you validate those feelings, he'll probably take her in one way or another.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:14 AM
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It's a plea for attention. Don't be petty. Recognize it as a plea for attention, and give the attention to her, on your own terms. All of the other responses have good re-frames. You don't get back at women for being women. Women get upset at other women for getting more attention or for trying.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:10 AM
1

Negs don't really work on men; men aren't intrigued by mixed messages and we don't react negatively to overt flirtation. And those aren't negs anyway; they're shit tests. She's trying to make you react, and you didn't (seem to). She's yours.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:08 AM
1

TRP: How to make the best of your relationship(s).
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:03 AM
1

Read the book. You have a public library. Until then: http://www.thepuablog.com/the-sex-god-method-by-daniel-rose-notes/ Oops, link is broken. Try this one. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=162412
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:55 AM
1

In the future: "No, I have pretty good aim." She smiles, you approach. She hasn't contacted you, she doesn't care. Either re-ignite and make an impression or get over her. Don't reference your history.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:52 AM
1

Once I was RP she started responding, but now, she doesn't even care anymore. Now that I am RP I don't believe you. Maybe that's my problem, maybe it's yours. In either case, I recommend reading it more. I started with the whole "Babe, I want you" etc. That didn't work. Good start, but I don't know what "etc." is here. Spell it out. A few days after that I started with the "open communication" shit. She was still not responding. Open communication is not sexy.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:43 AM
1

Reasoning is iffy, SMV increase is undeniable. Still doesn't make automatically you a rockstar.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:38 AM
1

Yes. Go to Google. TRP will just give you a bunch of opinions on this, unfortunately.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:36 AM
1

You don't have to make up an excuse to talk to women. You're allowed to be interesting and funny without having a justifiable (true or not) reason for speaking to them. "Cute necklace. My sister has that one. ..." "What's crackalackin?" "I came in like a wreeeeeeecking baaaaaaaall..." "I just flew in from NYC, and boy are my arms tired."
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:32 AM
1

A lot. Read The Third Chimpanzee. You can find parts of it online. Here's something: http://www.beaconschool.org/~bfaithfu/thirdchimpanzee.pdf
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:27 AM
1

You're going with all of the other guys who are going alone. Talk to every girl there; they're not married. Every one of them has a friend who is looking for a man just like you; just have fun with everyone and you will find yourself connected to potentials.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:26 AM
2

Speed dating. Horrible for dating, amazing for practice. A. Maz. Ing. Don't plan to leave with numbers. Just enjoy yourself and breaking expectations. You will piss some off.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:24 AM
5

It's the epitome of shit test. She tries to offend you, you react with anything except offense. If move on means stop talking to her, then you're making it rejection. If move on means change topic, then you're doing it right.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:13 AM
1

Every second day or so after class I would take her out for drinks and show her around the downtown area, everything seemed to be going well and we had good chemistry. That's a lot of dates without sex. Sounds like orbiting.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 07:22 AM
1

Always improve your game. If you can't fuck in 3 dates, you have room to improve. You're also dating THE hardest demographic to game. IMO, "LTR material" is not something you're qualified to evaluate for the first 6 months. Keep her spinning; we're rooting for you.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 06:48 AM
1

Pretend to be from the future. Pretend to not speak English. Pretend you're ... Then, "get caught". Have fun with it. You have everything else going for you, you can trip and land in vagina. Talk to them like your grandparents talk to anyone, and know dirty jokes. Find activities which put you in contact with people. If you're a student, this is gift-wrapped for you. "Hey, when's the homework due?" "How did you do on the test?"
/r/askTRP02/11/14 06:42 AM
1

She doesn't care about you. She cares about your social stature and your ability with women. Demonstrate comfort, non-defensiveness, maybe a bit of worldly knowledge (experience), and willingness to call her on her shit. Let the details bleed through--who your exs were, how many siblings, past jobs, but only and barely enough to nullify the "I don't even know you" argument. You're not there to make her like you. You're there to enjoy yourself. If you're actually looking for decent conversation t…
/r/askTRP02/11/14 06:35 AM
1

Now get a number and make a date. She laughed at your cocky funny, you win. Now continue to be the sexy dude you just proved you are. Keep in mind, she's expecting to qualify herself to you. Allow it. Provide opportunities for HER to prove: SHE's worth your time. (Asking little favors, for example.)
/r/askTRP02/11/14 05:36 AM
2

Thanks babe.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 07:24 AM
1

Wasn't perfect, but you erred on the side of rudeness instead of passivity. She won't forget you. Find a new response for the next situation.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 07:20 AM
2

Might be too late for a script flip, but in general, you are the one who GETS asked for FWBs. (FWB is a female term anyway.) Reply accordingly. "No, but I'm willing to consider it." You can say yes, but you have to force her to qualify. "If you behave yourself, you can get to the point of my dick". Slash, "if you play your cards right". "Well if the gutter is the point, I can give you a test drive."
/r/askTRP31/10/14 07:18 AM
2

If you were her father and you were out with your daughter, what would the father say? The father feels unthreatened by these young jokers. The daughter craves the father's approval, and is leaving with him at the end of the night, because there's no way she's letting her dad see her leave with dudes she just met. In any case, not the place to play apathetic.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 07:02 AM
1

Meet more people. Go to bars, if you can tolerate it, WITHOUT the intention of getting laid. Apply red pill, flirt, collect male and female friends. Apparently you don't have a job which keeps you around a lot of young people. You could meet prospects through their social circles, using whatever confidence you display.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 06:58 AM
2

"Yes" invites her to continue her train of thought but doesn't commit you to anything. "No, are they good" achieves the same thing. Answer whichever is true. What would an awesome dude do in this situation? An awesome dude soft-nexted her after she failed to respond after cancelling plans without suggesting new ones. An awesome dude had other plates spinning and wasn't worried about dropping her. An awesome dude has had sex 10x in the past 3.5 weeks with other girls he knows. An awesome dude is …
/r/askTRP31/10/14 06:56 AM
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^ +1 Don't compliment her. Recognize the sexuality of it, reinforce the behavior if you like, but never admit it inspires desire in you. She sent the same thing to 6 other people.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 06:46 AM
1

Performance ability is attractive to women. Although pulling out the guitar and singing some acoustic song can kill LMR.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:59 PM
1

She wants you to take the hint and open up to her. I.e. to show her the insecurity she's sensing. Don't. She likes you when you're quiet. Your mysteriousness turns her on, and she doesn't fully realize it.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:53 PM
1

"English please" It's a good line for any number of things. Mostly general bitchiness.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:50 PM
1

Ignore or A&A. Qualifying yourself to her is not going to make her like you more.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:48 PM
1

My LTR is NOT happy that I still text my plate... and yet, yesterday, I found out my LTR has been texting her old fling from last year. I was not happy about it. AWALT. Respond accordingly.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:42 PM
1

No. Your SMV rises as you age, assuming you don't become ill. On the off-chance you do become ill, having a wife or woman would be great. Stop hamstering "possible bucks with alpha traits". Be an alpha. Date younger, or date divorcees who are looking for fun with an older man (who are probably spinning their own younger guys).
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:40 PM
1

I have yet to compliment her on anything so next time I see her I'm planning on negging her - i.e. "that dress looks hot on you, what is it, a size 20?" Seems unnecessary. Keep it in the vault, but don't use it too early in your excitement.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:30 PM
2

Incel is a myth. Prostitutes exist. If you choose not to navigate the barriers to them, that's your choice. If you desire to add other qualities to "involuntary", then do so. One strategy has failed you. Maybe fifty strategies have failed you. You have not failed with women. Learn a new approach, see how it goes.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:26 PM
2

She's an attention whore, nothing new. Don't fall for her. Call her out on it when she's a whiny bitch.
/r/askTRP28/09/14 01:27 AM
1

Did fine. Stay cool, she'll come to you. Don't let her break your frame. Don't exceed 2/3 rule.
/r/askTRP28/09/14 01:25 AM
2

Now, I will have to run some more text game on her No you will not. If you do, then you will contradict I told her I'll not sit at home texting her a damn thing. I want to get to know her by meeting up, that's what meeting up with a friend is for. and you will ruin the excellent frame you established there.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 04:01 AM
1

Of course. I wouldn't let that be the sole dealbreaker, but if she has, then something else is probably wrong with her.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 03:53 AM
1

If you're not getting laid, then you're not technically her boyfriend. She's not "still with you".
/r/askTRP25/09/14 11:59 PM
2

There's no such thing as "her true self". Do you mean they all have bitch shields? There's a tactic for that.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 06:59 PM
2

Not light-hearted enough. When in doubt, make it sexual.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 06:55 PM
1

Friendships with females are made to be ruined. Women don't befriend men who don't raise the woman's status by association.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 06:54 PM
0

I said it's her choice and txt me if she changes her mind. That's implied. You're wasting words. Decreasing the likelihood she'll call you in the future to spark something.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 10:24 PM
1

If they say "cute" from looks alone, it means you're bangable. If they say "cute" after you talk to them, it means you haven't made an impression and are wasting your time. Either way, being more confrontational (and continuing to be nice, switch back and forth) will cause attraction.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 10:23 PM
1

You're feeding her drama. If you want to keep her around, you need to make the drama. Keep giving her the feelings she needs, but on your terms. Push and pull. She's 18. She has her entire class pursuing her. There is no way she's going to settle down. Just enjoy being AF.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 10:20 PM
2

Tell her she's acting immature, vying for attention like a 15-year-old and that is not how a mature young woman acts--especially one in a committed relationship. Because that is what her father would say.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 10:17 PM
2

You had her after the second page. If you had played the virgin thing off as a joke, you could have arranged a meet right there. Why you decided to be super-honest and continue talking to her forever eludes me. Being so available kills attraction. But if you were there for a confidence boost for yourself, then good job.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 10:12 PM
3

Confidence and social value absolutely to not transfer over text. CH has an article about getting nudes, but if you don't know the girl IRL, you really shouldn't care. Asking her for nudes, chasing her, is just validation basically. And if you do know the girl IRL, then nudes is just something you get when she's horny but can't see you.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 10:06 PM
5

Uprated. Height is a valid but irrelevant concern. Height is healthy and reproductive value in a male. Waistline (and bustline to a smaller degree) is healthy and reproductive value in a female. We don't really care here, we're not choosing marriage partners, but subconsciously it matters. Fortunately, men with lower height can learn game to increase their value, but all women can do is exercise and pray.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 10:04 PM
1

Betas make others happy. Alphas make themselves happy. It's not really so simple, but it's not a bad contrast.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 01:13 AM
1

We talk for like 5 mins, kiss here and there Not a freeze out. Also, Talking is a great way to kill the mood. since she's in my class I've been treading lightly. Don't. Don't make up excuses for not escalating. "Girl in my class" is the best-case scenario. It's not as if you're coworkers or she's dating your friend.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 01:11 AM
2

I know it's just a matter of days until she asks to meet (or shows up at my place uninvited, and then strips naked shortly after I let her in... happened before, several times). Doesn't sound like you're orbiting her. Sounds like she wants you. She may also be crazy, but that just means don't date her exclusively.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 01:06 AM
2

"Aloof" gets used a lot. You don't get girls by not caring about them. You get them by not letting them control you. You're not supposed to be apathetic. A girl is talking to you. That should make you happy and desire to talk to her. She's a fellow human being and entertainment. Push and pull.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 01:03 AM
1

Date younger girls. Older guys are going after the girls your age, and they can supply alcohol, cars, and other perks. You'll drive yourself crazy trying to compete with them. And you'll be them in a few years. Just date younger girls, don't get in a LTR, have fun, and don't worry too much about Game. Don't text more than twenty messages per day, except to your parents. Read the 16 commandments and 3 rules of social savviness for inspiration on how to conduct yourself. You don't have to follow t…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 12:59 AM
1

You're allowed to make jokes. Don't apologize quickly. You may not date the ones you work with, but they can introduce you to their friends.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 12:55 AM
0

No, but it's better to be asked out first. You can be asked out first by waiting a little longer. Girls will not ask you out straightforward though.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 12:54 AM
0

"The crazy ones always call me on my white lies." Maybe? I've never tried the line, but I may have learned something from you. [e] "Don't be crazy babe" is probably better.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 10:21 PM
1

School insofar as it gets you to college. Math and science are the only things worth really mastering in high school. Being good at school is also self-assurance and conversation starters. It synergizes with game. Then game, because starting early means more practice. Game takes literally years to build; success will be very gradual (unless you add alcohol, which is a crutch and not game). Then being interesting, because you're 18. A long way to go. Then physique. Don't push yourself too hard. W…
/r/askTRP23/09/14 10:13 PM
2

From the way you describe your strategy, your frame needs work. You'll be seen as cruel. Without the frame to reinforce your attitude, it absolutely will backfire.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 10:03 PM
1

Just like every other logical thing a girl says, take it with a grain of salt. Don't let it affect your actions. Women do not negotiate rationally. They don't sign contracts. Girls can be trained to be rational, but if you have any doubt, treat it as just another 1 of her two thousand attempts to manipulate you. Don't tell her whether you are or are not having sex with other women. The mystery will keep her attracted and keep her loyal.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 09:56 PM
1

You don't convince a girl to do anything without using her feelings. Having a logical conversation never works. Whether you use resentment or some other emotion is your call. Resentment makes it sound so permanent. She'll forget about the push as soon as you use pull.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 02:27 AM
1

She's not your LTR if you haven't had sex yet.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 02:22 AM
1

asktrp/comments/2f840m/i_have_aspergersautism_spectrum_disorder_what/ I can't link full links for some reason, type the reddit.com/r/ before it
/r/askTRP20/09/14 12:43 AM
1

Not have all female teachers and male teachers who are terrified of pedophilia charges if they don't step lightly with the female teachers. When all of your teachers are sharing the same ("women are good and we deserve respect because we are women!") point of view, it's just like any other indoctrination without alternate theories. Variety/diversity is important. Thank goodness we don't allow women in fraternities or they'd PC the shit out of our heavy-handed language and ban flirting at parties…
/r/askTRP20/09/14 12:35 AM
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You don't give them choices. You simply state how her actions will affect (or did affect) yours. Use If, Thens, not Either, Ors.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 12:26 AM
1

You can escalate over Skype, but the chances of ever seeing her in person are slim. Meeting people online to cyber with is not uncommon; girls do it all of the time on cam sites. They're not looking for something more serious.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 12:24 AM
1

Downvotes are great, but they don't give the OP answers.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 07:56 PM
1

Get a date with her, escalate. If you can't do both, move on.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 05:14 PM
1

Excellent, thank you.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 05:05 PM
1

It was a pretty safe assumption, given the OP.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 05:04 PM
1

You volunteer a bit more of your time. You make them love you and eager to please you. You be boyfriend-ish, without being the boyfriend. When they ask you whether you desire to be exclusive with them, they've already mostly decided to be.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:51 AM
1

When in doubt, avoid text at all cost.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:43 AM
1

Can I text you next week to reschedule?" I'm thinking she wants you as an orbiter. That's a long damned delay. You replied (ouch), now don't contact her again unless she does first, and make it on your terms or not at all. You lost a lot of ground after being AF. If your SMV is higher than hers, you can press her for details to find whether she's real or just stringing you along. If you're not higher, cutting contact is the stronger move.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:41 AM
1

Hemopilliacs. What would blue be? Hemophobiacs?
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:32 AM
1

Why is this a problem? A woman alleges her lack of interest in other men. If you have little or no reason to doubt her, then you're looking at her loyalty. If she plays WoW, she' getting her validation there and her sex from you. You're helping her assemble the prefect life. (If she plays WoW, she's probably not very attractive--if not physically, then in some other way which makes her not enjoy social situations.) Think how many college kids would love to sit around and play WoW every day and h…
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:31 AM
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It's rude. If you're rude too often, she'll get sick of you. If you're apologetic all of the time and considering her feelings, she'll lose attraction. So the answer is: it depends how much other rude things you do. It's disgusting. Strike a balance.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:25 AM
1

Your wife is getting off on the idea of other women being attracted to you. This is not a surprise. At all. Let her. Don't change your behavior. You can talk about it to her and come up with stories to tell her, but all she has done is talk. If she starts making actual moves to help you get other girlfriends, then you can consider getting other girlfriends. So far, it's just words.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:21 AM
1

You're probably being too harsh. LTRs require more beta than we usually talk about in TRP. But then, whatever she told her mutual friend was words. What are her actions? How does she respond to your change in behavior? What changes do you desire in her behavior?
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:17 AM
2

She is trying to tell you to be more beta. Don't believe it. She is defining the opposite of game. It is a shit test. You agree, you lose. You disagree, you lose. Re-frame. Respond to something she said, but not in the way she meant it. "Yeah, some guys have no idea how to treat a woman." "K, bring a good movie then." "I'm not in the habit of asking for sex. Consider yourself lucky." "Asking requires using a question mark." "Brb, becoming a movie star." [edit] Why can't I start a new line withou…
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:12 AM
1

Give her a short hug when you see her. Don't say anything, pretend like it's the most natural thing in the world. (It is! She invited you to her house when she's alone, she wants your arms around her.) But make it short. Go for a walk, no more than 20 minutes. Maybe even just around her yard. Hold hands at some point. Again, make it natural, don't hesitate, don't say anything about you doing it. Stop holding her hand after a few minutes, without warning. Or when you feel your hand starting to sw…
/r/askTRP19/09/14 06:03 AM
2

I heard her talking to an obvious alpha today, like I heard about 15 seconds of conversation, and she was telling him she kept on putting someone off saying oh I'm busy here and there. Ignore her words. She's just trying to seem attractive. Don't call him an obvious alpha in your mind. He's just another dude like you who knows some game. Bros are allowed to fuck the same girls. If they're exclusive, then it differs. Boarding school. So you're under 18. Everything is fair game. Dating is easy-mod…
/r/askTRP19/09/14 05:39 AM
1

What's the time delay between "forget that bitch move on" and "today i text her"? Basically, are you orbiting? If not orbiting, if you have been gone from her life for a few months at least, then you can set a date and escalate from there. Actually, do that anyway.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 05:31 AM
2

shes fucking smart Stop pedestalizing. Plus, you're an adult. You're allowed to be friendly. If you don't teach her it's acceptable to befriend strangers, how is she ever going to recruit orbiters? You have a kid and are muscular. Women would line up to bang you. You don't need game. Start conversations, don't accept responsibility you don't want, don't get defensive ever. Win. In a small town, you get huge points for being discreet (for all they know you already ARE being discreet and have othe…
/r/askTRP19/09/14 05:21 AM
1

A long time ago, "I give great blowjobs" was a shit test. How much those tests have evolved (generalized?) since then.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 05:19 AM
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"Full of SOMEthing" is my go-to response. "Something" implying semen. If pressed, I hint at that. "Why do you think my eyes are brown?" was my old line, but it was slower escalation.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 05:09 AM
1

Becoming a cop means learning all sorts of alpha traits (self-defense, negotiation, marksmanship, more) while being taught to be utterly beta in how you use them--never, or only when the legislators (the real alphas) give the go-ahead. You'll be owned by the state and you'll fight tooth and nail for a pension. Maybe that's a better deal than you have now, I don't know. At 19, you probably don't really know what you really desire from life. What fucking bothers me in an interaction with a girl/bo…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 02:31 AM
1

She's (subconsciously) trying to upset you, and it's working. You're losing, even if she doesn't see your reactions. Stop taking her seriously. We don't care about this drama and you should not either. Bloody hell, date younger women. You'll have plenty of time to bang 18-year-olds when you're 40.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 12:34 AM
1

You'll only be alone for the first minute. Literally anyone can start a conversation in a bar. It's the lowest rung.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:18 PM
2

Go to bars, make friends. Don't indoctrinate them. If you know TRP, you ARE the wingman.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:09 PM
1

Make a joke about daddy issues. But don't sound defensive. I'm not old enough to be your dad yet. Are you looking for a father figure? I'm not going to buy you a car for your birthday. From the top of my head.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:07 PM
1

It mean they're damned good actors. Plan accordingly. Or it means your SMV is low.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:04 PM
1

So he's beta. So what. We all have beta friends. You can't just push them into the cold water, or they'll hate you. One toe at a time.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:02 PM
1

Find a friend who can help you mask your writing style. Anonymity is not enough. Comedy is really the safest way to go, but good luck with that in a newspaper. TRP is all over YouTube.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:00 PM
1

LMR means "no sex k bye" and actually leave is the wrong tactic. LMR means you wittily acknowledge her words and then continue doing exactly what you were doing. Alternatively, you can freeze her out.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 10:57 PM
2

She told you not to like her, you acquiesced. You took her at her word. You believed in her ability to make decisions like that for herself. Maybe you know something we don't, from the context. Maybe "alright,okay" was clearly sarcastic or had some other meaning beside "yes madam, as you wish". Telling her you like her is a weak move, unless you're going to follow it with some large BUT.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 07:10 PM
1

It's healthy to have have doubts. Whether those doubts amount to GID is your call. Do you enjoy sex with women? If you stopped for a week (a month?) would you miss it terribly? I don't mean to be stereotypical, but to me, that is what makes a man.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 07:04 PM
1

Find her flaws (subtly). Have a plan on where the conversation is going.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 07:00 PM
1

More testosterone. Lift often. Fewer carbs, too, but I can't back that up. Bread/pizza/pasta make you tired.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 06:57 PM
2

SHE doesn't think SHE can do any better. You're the fallback. Go be someone else's entree, not her leftovers.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 06:54 PM
1

probably some other trap you haven't considered.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 05:48 AM
1

In theory, so long as it looks good, sure, it's fine. Knowing the details of the procedure is a turn-off. In practice, surgery goes wrong wayyy too often.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 05:43 AM
1

Just an aside; everyone's talking about how being a medical doctor is a great career, tons of status and money. Nobody mentions how it doesn't teach you how to spend money. Doctors throw away as much money as they make. get a fucking good (expensive!) accountant, and then get a fucking better (expensive!) financial advisor. If you desire to keep your money and not throw half of it away on big shiny rich-people-bait. Source: my poor clients are richer than my rich non-clients.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 05:31 AM
1

This, so many times. Barf. Don't ever answer "what do you do" seriously. Any topic which is part of the getting-to-know-you-script is an invitation to amuse yourself. Anything with an easy answer is an opportunity to make up your own. Whatdoyoudo whereyoufrom whatareyoustudying wheredoyouseeyourselfin5years whatsyourfamilylike howmanygirlshaveyoudated whatsyourfavoritecolor
/r/askTRP16/09/14 05:20 AM
2

When pressed, I like to start talking about counterfeiting.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 05:16 AM
1

My theory is that RP men run something analogous to shit tests--like a "slut test": they will say things that are sexual, meant to be provoking, try to get you home into bed, etc. and depending on how you react they will categorize you as a slut or not. To submit and put out means you have failed the test and you will never be considered relationship material. Sort of. We desire many women, regardless of their histories. Having sex does not make you non-relationship material. Having sex easily, …
/r/askTRP16/09/14 05:13 AM
2

Grats, you've found a non-slut. That doesn't make her LTR material, however. Also, don't be so quick to graduate to a LTR. Instead of dropping all of your plates and promoting one, drop a few and spend a bit more time on the remainders. You're having too many feelings. This reads like a soap opera. Too much hearsay. Don't overestimate yourself; you're not a pro yet. I just conclude with "well I can't control your decision making, and I won't beg for you to stay around, if you change your mind I'…
/r/askTRP16/09/14 04:55 AM
1

Unh. It's not an experiment, you're hamstering. the correct response was ":P" mirroring hers. But you waited too long. "Of course not; I'm awesome" reverts it back to the playful conversation you were having before. Ordinarily, avoid emoticons like the plague. You do not "be" TRP; TRP is knowledge about how to make girls interested in you. A girl is initiating conversation with you. The battle is won. Now, just verbally escalate, handle any shit tests as they arise and fuck her as often as you p…
/r/askTRP16/09/14 04:41 AM
1

Focus on yourself. Don't worry about girls. Be involved in things. Your SMV is just starting to grow, girls' is at an all-time high. You will not get girls by chasing them like every. other. freshman. boy. All of the hot girls are fucking the drug dealers in fraternities. You will trip over pussy before you catch it. Focus on yourself. Don't worry about girls.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 04:38 AM
1

Being grammatically correct in texts is a light neg. Use accordingly. Remain brief when at all possible.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 04:31 AM
1

Looooool. Shit test. Do you take her seriously? Now she tells me she is "seeing someone" and wants to just meet me at the venue, No dinner, no drinks, no nookie... I put it out to TRP community. How should I handle this? Ignore her words. She sees beta (providing) behavior, she tests you. Pass the test by not letting her words affect your actions or mind. Do exactly what you planned to do before. Also An FWB who lives about an hour away so we never seriously dated. Sounds more like a friend to m…
/r/askTRP16/09/14 04:29 AM
1

Treat them like any other girls. Mess with their heads. Tease them. Disrespect their personal bubble. Hold frame, never apologize. Your sisters are the two most annoying girls in your life, treat them like it. And their annoying friends are of no concern to you; you have plenty of options. If you really desire to meet their friends, never admit it.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:57 PM
2

Be playful (unserious). Don't lose frame. That was losing frame.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:52 PM
1

No. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:50 PM
1

4 nights of making out Escalate ASAP or she will lose interest.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:48 PM
1

Welcome to having a plate. Don't fuck it up.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:46 PM
0

"Dude, I [changed her mind and] got you in. What are you complaining about?"
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:45 PM
1

If you know her, don't use a line. "A little unfriendly" is a good thing.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:43 PM
1

Stop viewing it as a roadblock. If someone (including parents) gives you a hard time for it, treat it as a shit test, not as a valid reason to get defensive. If you show no insecurity from it, there will be no insecurity. Your parents WANT you to enjoy yourself as long as you do it safely.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:41 PM
1

Way too long, way too honest and open with her. You're not allowed to try reasoning. You're done. She may text you in 6-12 months, but she'll never be more than a plate. She flipped her shit, meaning you failed a shit test somewhere.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:31 AM
1

Just wait for your opportunity. Don't ogle them in public much, there will be plenty of time for that later. If they're interested, they're also waiting for the opportunity and will unconsciously help it happen. Do light, casual kino when you talk to them (because that's all you can get away with in public). If you haven't, then they 90% aren't even attracted to you yet.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:27 AM
1

Variety. Change positions. Lick her cunt while you grope her breasts. Break your rhythm.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:22 AM
2

Lol, you're a teenager. Talk to girls at school. You don't have to hit on them or escalate, just talk to them. Feel no pressure. They don't have to be hot. Boom, friend girls. Don't talk about your problems. Teenagers have a lot of feelings about social expectations. Forget about it. It's all in your head. Just have fun being you. Remove the word "loser" from your vocabulary. It's a word women use to control men. Remove "creep" while you're at it.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:19 AM
1

You may be interested later. Gradually fade. Leave the door open.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:16 AM
1

If she's not responding, then the conversation is boring. Now I just don't give a fuck and talk to girls without stuttering or anything at all. I'm confident as hell now. Its changed my life and I'm a completely different person. Forgive me if I hesitate to believe that. Good attitude, though. Don't "make her laugh". Amuse YOURself. If she laughs at completely non-funny things you say, that's an IoI, but don't "make her laugh". Don't ask too many questions. Statement statement question. You're a…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:15 AM
1

I think: you're looking for reassurance or to vent or something. Monk mode harder. Lift, eat healthy, learn to cook (fantastic opportunity while living with parents--free feedback and lessons). Take a year or 5 off from women (your SMV will only rise), build a casual friend group including some female acquaintances. can she find her "the one guy" who is alpha enough to deflect all her shit/fit tests, and can she "love" him (love on her own terms) and live happily after? At only 6? Yeah. I bet it…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:10 AM
1

If she were attracted to you already and you had a relationship, you wouldn't be here. The only way she's going to prom with someone she doesn't know very well is if you're dating down and she knows it. That said, it's prom. It will be full of guys who are thrilled to have exactly one date. Only the sexiest men get laid at prom, and not always with their own dates. And don't have one-itis.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:04 AM
1

Men can tell instantly whether a woman has good genes. We're all attracted to the same women, proportionately. Women cannot tell instantly. They need to invest time talking to a man to know whether he's high-status, though a strong jaw and muscles and other signs of testosterone count too. Women will take shortcuts. They see other women with the man, or signs of him having other women (abundance mentality), and they know: someone has done the work to evaluate his value. They might not instantly …
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:00 AM
1

So far I can think of meetup.com and talking to people in the street. Anything else I can do? Sorry, but not these. Tinder for plates, since you're desperate.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:51 AM
2

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strauss%E2%80%93Howe_generational_theory Sorry I can't do better. I'm interested in this myself.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:48 AM
1

Welcome to the club. Don't be ashamed.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:46 AM
1

I immediately get a "yeah, I am too good for you" vibe from them, although they are not really direct about it. That's in your head. Fix that. If I can take your post as face value, and you are fucking true 4-5s, then you're a 6-7 with no game or a 4-5 yourself with decent game. Just get better, stop explaining yourself. Don't settle for bar bitches.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:44 AM
1

This could have been my sister. She's looking for better options, not something at the first party. Don't take it personally.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:40 AM
1

The bulk of TRP (learning game) is designed for women 18-30. Until you want to date those, don't follow it too carefully. Do hit on older women (16-22). It's good practice, and they'll think you're cute and not creepy. Do not expect results. Whether you decide to have sex with girls your age or not is up to you. Boys on average lose their virginity at 14 (probably higher, because men lie), girls on average lose it at 12 (probably lower, because women lie). Lift (in case you're not already attrac…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:35 AM
2

Non-issue. If the girl is quality, then you've been dating for a while. If you're been dating seriously with intent to marry, you've met her parents. If you know her parents, then you know whether her father approves you and whether that means anything. You don't need to have a sit-down conversation and explicitly ask her father. You'll know.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 03:56 AM
1

Has a point. There will be other dudes around. Aloof is not the way to play it, if it comes up. On the flip side, if she does talk to other dudes, you talk to other girls. Things are the way you frame them. If you believe it's not a date, she will believe it. If you believe it's a date and girls pay for themselves on dates, then she will believe it. Believing you can buy a girl's company by buying her admission ticket is pedestalizing her and making her the prize, not you. You're an awesome dude…
/r/askTRP06/09/14 07:51 PM
1

He'll try again.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:47 AM
1

Cool. If it aligns with your other goals, make it happen. Make it a means to an end, not an end in itself. Wait 10 years before doing anything.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:44 AM
1

You're 17. Date 14- or 15-year-olds. They crave your attention (and you can drive!), and you will never have another chance to in your life. Don't game them too hard. But then you turn 18 and you have to be super careful about not pissing anyone off.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:42 AM
2

how r u doesn't get much more boring than that. Don't be boring. good good. do you wanna do something next week You gave her validation (twice! trying to seem casual) for answering ("super well") a simple greeting. Beta. And then you asked for her permission (beta) to do an activity which you haven't specified (desperate). Conceivably you were trying to maximize your chances of not being rejected. (Alphas are not afraid of rejection.) Game was over right there. The only possible way to salvage t…
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:39 AM
2

The standard you set in a relationship will be the standard for that relationship. Don't start warm and cool off. Just be cool the whole time. You may be bored sometimes, but that's time you can spend meeting more people.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:19 AM
5

My partner, however, doesn't see it that way. He tells me that he doesn't care about being an 'alpha' or 'beta'. Seems like an alpha to me. He'll figure out the rest with experience. Unfortunately he is a man of strict logic Alpha. Doesn't put up with silly crap, and will put up with less silly crap as he matures. Like you trying to convince him to read something.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:09 AM
1

"Let's not talk about her/him" and "I don't kiss and tell" are my go-to responses. They were not enough for this one. Come to think of it, how would I answer this question if it were asked by my mother or some other concerned but not seducible party?
/r/askTRP05/09/14 11:59 PM
1

Swallowing The Red Pill (a body of knowledge) teaches you to drive a relationship well. People who don't understand the knowledge encompassed by The Red Pill don't often get what they desire from relationships.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 09:15 PM
3

TRP means "women psychology". One does not "act TRP". One may "act alpha", but it's not an attractive trait in women. She's not interested in you. Being aloof is only attractive when she is interested. Time to be provocative, although lacking context, I can't really prove it.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 09:09 PM
1

Looks handled to me. The pressure flip was a bit early, because you invited her to invent reasons to not come, instead to come. It could appear as though you responded to the "age" test with bitterness, which is getting defensive, which is a gigantic no-no.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 09:05 PM
1

Reframe it in your mind as "spontaneous" (because that's what it means). Girls love spontaneity. Respond accordingly.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 08:59 PM
2

You get to dodge the "how old are you" shit test more easily than the rest of us. Enjoy it. Looking younger means dating younger women with less of their hamster revving. I dont have that masculine look that makes the vagina tingle. Doesn't matter. You are a man. Your attraction (beyond first impressions) is about how you act, not how you look.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:17 AM
1

The more attractive a girl is, the more likely she's had sex in exchange for drugs. Also, considering yourself a "work-in-progress" is probably not the best way to continue dating this girl. You can think of yourself that way, but don't present yourself that way.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:13 AM
1

They're not being exclusive with you. Abundance mentality means many women are attracted to you and you KNOW you could have sex with them IF you desired. You can be attractive to as many women as you desire; you don't have to fuck them. You actually can wait for a LTR if that's what you really want. If.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:09 AM
1

Yeah, my boost in SMV since I started reading TRP has freaked out my on/off LTR (it's complicated; I always treated her like a plate, but she was my only plate). She was much happier when I was more beta. She doesn't know what's going on and has started looking for reassurance. Ah, "comfort tests", yes.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 06:37 PM
2

Lift, do stuff you enjoy doing. You'll meet other people (girls) who are compatible with you. When you have to be alone, do it around people (like homework at the library). You'll meet girls, just by the merit of reduced approach anxiety from reading TRP. You'll also be naturally assholish, which means you don't have to use asshole game as much. You can get away with doing things for validation/approval, but do try to be conscious of when you're doing it, and DO NOT EXPLAIN(defend) YOURSELF. You…
/r/askTRP02/09/14 06:28 PM
1

Made out, took that all-important selfie (a few actually) Is this a thing, or just you personally taking memories? I assume: she's in the photo, because interrupting kissing for a self-shot is borderline freeze-out.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 02:34 AM
1

Doesn't get much more passive than a FB HB message. No harm and no point.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 02:29 AM
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You keep on keeping on as if nothing's happening. Because nothing is. She got too much alpha from you, so now she's enjoying some beta; the pendulum will swing back to you when she changes her mind again. Abundance mentality is not a desirable trait for girls, regardless of what they think. Girls get jealous. You have better things to do [pun intended]. You're acting like a girl. You're been being manipulative and trying to make her jealous; you haven't actually nexted her. Actually remove her f…
/r/askTRP02/09/14 02:24 AM
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I don't think the expensiveness of the wrapping paper is designed to arouse desire for the product inside. Your point eludes me. [e] O.K., so it's not a problem, for the reason mentioned in the OP.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 02:13 AM
4

Is it a problem? I'm asking. I know: the answer SHOULD be no; she wants to please you. Does it please you? Or is it another one of the dumbass things women do to be attractive and fail(like navel piercings)(i.e. ACTUALLY for themselves, to fit in).
/r/askTRP02/09/14 01:31 AM
2

Learning game means learning to be attractive. You don't have to fuck all of the women who are attracted to you, but you do need to learn game (and to better yourself) if you desire an attractive woman.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 12:19 AM
1

Women who do well at games are rare. They enjoy the socialization typically, not the achievement. That's what TRP is--turning aspects of life into a game: removing ambiguity from things so they can be qualified, generating strategies, being objective and learning from failures/deaths (which requires being WILLING to fail--abundance mentality). Only 20% of men who read this sub are going to be open to it--maybe 10% of the 80% who are still plugged in, due to bad experience with women, and maybe 1…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:48 AM
2

HS is required to be a financially independent person (yes, there ARE exceptions, but don't try it). Get a GED if necessary (incidentally, people who have their GEDs seem to be more capable than many HS grads). College, however, is not required for anything. It's built to make you a beta. It's beta paradise. Hence the "hookup culture" and the 20/80 rule; 80% of men in college successfully get neutered. They become good little taxpayers and marry fat feminist hamsters (I hyperbolize). College wil…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:39 AM
1

I can't speak from experience/history knowledge. But radical Islam is based on monogamy. The most extreme practices are meant to keep women loyal, to ensure she doesn't cheat or bear another man's child. Instead of simply being awesome, manly, and attractive. That's the opposite of abundance mentality. I'd say: it's a society of betas, and alphas are not allowed to prosper. (Well, the alphas probably run the underground prostitution industry, so they do prosper, by breaking rules, as alphas do.)
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 12:34 AM
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Study hard, get good grades, learn stuff which your 99% peers would never think to read (like TRP and how to deal with female tests!, or argumentation and logic and negotiation, etc.), own conversation. You stop being intimidated by things when you're prepared. When you're the most interesting, most-qualified person to talk. But it's easier to just get a job pretending to be a beta and learn comfort that way.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 12:30 AM
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Women's rights groups and other easy girls will use this sort of [empowering feminist] terminology in order to elevate themselves above women and other men, but it's really just a front for acting slutty and getting back at all of those evil misogynists and the "good girls" who get the guys whom the CC-riders want. Could not have paraphrased it better myself.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 12:23 AM
2

When you punish them (i.e. do not reward them with sex), they re-think volunteering such information to prospective partners. Her history is her history whether she shares it or not, but teaching her to hide her history does not make her history better. You're just making it harder for other desirable men to plate her.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 09:10 PM
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She's aching for you, don't punish good behavior. Keep to the 3:2 rule. If you ignore her, she'll get over you, if you reciprocate fully, you'll lose her attraction. You do not need to reply immediately.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 09:32 PM
1

Keep some beta in the relationship to make it last longer (3 months? Ouch). Maintaining a facebook conversation with all of them (10 min per day) helps immensely (I keep it sexual, but not sexting). Then physical time is spent horny.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 04:39 AM
1

The ones with the highest GPA. Frats of all kinds attract women. Plan for your future, not for fucking girls two points higher. Or the frats with less drug influence. Coked-up chicks help no one.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 04:33 AM
1

Whether or not you take women at their words and accept the manipulations they impose on themselves.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 04:29 AM
1

Don't let her use you. But you don't have to get sex within three dates. It's just the norm. Girls who are worth it take a bit more effort (if you ARE looking for a LTR and not reverse-rationalizing). So long as you are enjoying YOURself and getting what YOU desire, you're doing fine. The "real connection" line, however, was LMR. Taking her literally was a bad move.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 04:25 AM
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I'll put it this way: If you have difficulty telling her you're only paying for yourself, in advance, then you have a lot of self-assertiveness to develop and you're fighting an uphill battle with her anyway. Have the balls to create that minor discourtesy. She won't want to fuck/date anyone who doesn't have figurative balls.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 04:19 AM
1

Too much push, not enough pull. You're being an asshole, not a cute funny teasing asshole.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 09:21 PM
1

I've seen 13--63 years old cited (no proof) in similar threads.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:57 AM
0

They're addicted to their friends'/families' validation from "having an honest job" and "making my own money" and the validation of everyday people from "hi, you're so pretty". Plus they haven't learned to cheat well yet, so they AF and haven't tried to BB. The moral rationalization fitting-in instinct is strong. They'll learn strategy and secrecy when their numbers decrease.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:39 AM
2

A-fucking-men. TRP helped my relationship with my mother immensely. Oddly, she's been getting in better shape since. (Do I want to read further into this?)
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:31 AM
1

Yes, four hours is too much, period. Unless you live in the Sahara.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:29 AM
3

We advocate him doing exactly as he sees fit to do. Take advantage of her generosity as often as he desires, and feel no obligation to do anything in return, because he is utterly unafraid of losing her. Talk to her as much as he desires, ignore her if he desires. She will come back because he is worth the hassle. Coincidentally, this is the correct frame of mind for dating all women.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:28 AM
4

It means arrange dates. Time and place. How and where. The boring but absolutely necessary stuff.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:09 AM
1

What do men get from talking if they can acquire it so easily? Attention, validation. Why does a male open his mouth to tell someone his opinion? You can do it basically whenever you desire. But the times when you really want the validation, to be seen as smart, funny, inspirational, is when talking to someone of high value, like an attractive woman. You feel like you'll get a really strong feeling of accomplishment if this person sees you as valuable. Why am I writing this? Probably because I f…
/r/askTRP28/08/14 09:01 PM
1

"We aren't having sex tonight." "Maybe YOU aren't..." "You're the one thinking about it" is also acceptable. "Whatever happens, happens." Regardless, don't believe her, proceed as intended. It's a shit test. Cocky/funny response or no response.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 07:20 PM
1

It's pretty terrible, yes. IDK, you're a man surrounded by women who want to fuck you. Do you hide this fact? When a girl asks you for "dirty" talk, is it acceptable to tell her you're already being "dirty"? It's A&A because it's dirtier than she wanted. It's not as smooth as "come over", no doubt.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 07:19 PM
5

Marathons, rock-climbing clubs, similar places where young athletic people go for fun.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 07:14 PM
1

If a post was super helpful, you can give an alt-11 (it's like TRP-exclusive super-karma). So a reply might be "I'm the least-oppressed X you'll ever meet". Referencing X's position as oppressed, making a joke about it, and painting yourself as NOT the victim. (Victim role and modesty works for women, but victory role and bragging is more attractive for men.) Or if your ethnicity is stereotypically terrible at English, "I'm the most articulate X you know." And then poke fun at she stutters or so…
/r/askTRP28/08/14 06:15 PM
1

Um, just fuck her after they breakup? You have plenty of time to be awesome while they're dating. She'll underestimate you and maybe even recruit other plates for you in the meantime. You're already the sexiest person she knows, no need to kill a friendship from your impatience. She'll come to you one way or another.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 03:38 AM
1

During the last 2 months I had no time to spin other plates. Since this one was good, I spent a little more time with her. We went on a 5 day trip Ouch. ("I had no time to spin other plates" but you had time for her. B.S.) 5 days alone with her is implying 5 days of "I have no other girls to fuck." Reduces attraction. as a goodbye, since she was moving to some other country. Hamstering. You did what you wanted to do. If you didn't do what you wanted to do, then you're letting her control things,…
/r/askTRP28/08/14 03:30 AM
1

Nope. Co-workers already have my commitment. The #1 tool which you have to drive the relationship is already compromised.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 03:22 AM
1

Don't enter her frame. She's craving validation. Note how she's telling YOU what to do. Agree and amplify or pressure flip. "you first" "sec, lemme finish this girl" maybe
/r/askTRP28/08/14 03:08 AM
8

You're right in insisting on your initial frame and not letting her apology affect that. Punish quickly, reward slowly. 12 commandments. You can thank her later for being contrite.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 12:45 AM
1

The difference is you care now. It's your mind-set. It's you thinking of yourself as "in a shell". You're not. You're as awesome as you always were, and a bit more experienced. Focus on yourself (read interesting things, lift, don't eat junk food) and not on being attractive or thinking about women, things will go back to normal.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 10:42 PM
2

This is probably going to get lost, but here goes. Your first paragraph is excellent frame. Keep it up. Be honest with yourself and consider why does it annoy you? Then use that answer to tease them when they ask. You're living a PUA's dream. Not desiring small talk and keeping to yourself is quite alpha. You're building attraction and not even trying. Your two examples make me think you're good-looking AND exotic AND a dad (so pre-selected). They're curious about you. If you answer all of their…
/r/askTRP26/08/14 10:35 PM
1

Something which feel comfortable, fits your frame, and an extra something which says "that guy has balls". See peacocking. Do it every day, subtly. Something out-of-place but not obviously asking for attention or overly expensive. Like wearing your wing tips with normal jeans and t-shirt. Be ready to address shit-tests.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 06:08 AM
3

Seriously. This needs more up-votes.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 06:00 AM
9

It's a belief. You don't have to do anything. If she wants to talk about it, she's allowed to talk. Like religion or politics or vegetarianism or anything else on which you have contrasting beliefs. If she tries to control you, then it's the fitness test. Imagine if she tried to convert you to another religion. Be playful, tease, don't take it seriously. Amused mastery. Nearly everyone here was a feminist before swallowing TRP. It's just the belief system under which we're raised. You cannot hol…
/r/askTRP26/08/14 05:46 AM
2

If she has friends present, she needs an excuse for them.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 05:24 AM
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If you're not visibly muscular and shirtless or damned attractive in the face, you're competing for the bottom 50%. Open with something sexual and provocative. Off-the-wall. Ridiculous. Presumptuous and bold. Get a number within your 5 first sent messages or not at all.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 05:22 AM
3

You ask too many questions. Telling her about your day isn't great either. You had an opportunity to build SMV and you mentioned your cousin instead. You're not in enough to promise to call her. Spontaneity is king. was funny You're hamstering. Girls are not funny. Stop saying "Nice!" It's validation, and she didn't earn it.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 05:03 AM
1

If you can react and recover, i.e. if it's just her playing with you, then you don't care and you can play along, flip the script A&A, etc. If she's not playing with you and is actually flirting in front of you (and you don't have the opportunity to do some flirting yourself), then you express dominance. If you cannot react, i.e. multiple women of that opinion are not present, then it's damage control and you can only game the women present. But you still follow the three rules. http://heartiste…
/r/askTRP26/08/14 02:15 AM
1

Alpha widow or Projection. She knows what she likes in a man, so she acts that way. Game as usual. Be a rock, reward desired behaviors slowly and punish undesirable behaviors swiftly. She may test you on either, but maintain frame. Never apologize.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 01:20 AM
1

We all have fantasies about it working like that. Glad to hear it is. How long are your conversations? Both number of messages and in months. Do you get repeats? I.e. do they get spinning?
/r/askTRP26/08/14 01:13 AM
2

Kind of what I figured. Don't believe her, proceed as intended. Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 01:11 AM
1

It goes against to conventional wisdom to ask when they're free, but it's worked splendidly for me. They give you 3-4 times, you choose one. "I may be free on Xday" and leave it at that has also been successful for me. You can then cancel or make details later.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 01:08 AM
1

Noticing flaws is key to avoiding pedestalization. Make a habit of it, but never vocalize it.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 01:00 AM
3

If she's your exclusive GF, then she brings something to you which other females do not. And you trust her judgment. If you're her exclusive BF, then you are literally the best she can do, and she would never do anything to endanger that. Your girlfriend went to London (for how long?) leaving you without sex and leaving her not in range of your cock, which she craves. These are not compatible with the story you told. She should always be worried about what you would say or think. (You should nev…
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:55 AM
0

I've never alt-11'd before, here goes. ♂
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:25 AM
1

Get into a fraternity. The one with the people who you think will add the most to your growth as an individual. The one with the highest GPA, ostensibly. All fraternities attract women, even the gay and nerd ones. More importantly, all fraternities are built to make better men, which is what you desire for yourself. Find a way to meet girls. All of the betas are doing the obvious ways to date girls; you know more game (and are therefore more attractive) than them, just from reading the sidebar. …
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:24 AM
2

Accepting her new plans to go as just friends is accepting her frame. Just another fitness test. Ignore or A&A. Aside, taking someone to dinner after not having seen her in a few(? 2? 6? 12?) months is BB territory. Make her earn dinner with you. Don't sign up for her company unless it will be worth your time, regardless of outcome. You have other women hungry for your cock, act like it. Do not take her someplace requiring reservations. Do not tell her about the change of venue. Do not let her m…
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:14 AM
1

I see her every 4-14 days, for maybe ten seconds to chat. Enough to get a phone number on one occasion, enough to drop a witty line on several others. I hinted at a date. She jumps to give IoIs. The line in the title was a response to her explaining not answering her phone (upon further examination, she claims to have dropped it in the toilet, explaining not returning text messages either). She has begun texting me since, so the excuse appears valid.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 04:00 AM
1

Not fucking her yet. Do you just use texting to set up dates then, or do you use it to build attraction and qualification before a date? I added more context in another comment requesting it.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 03:57 AM
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Did you use kino at all? good conversationalist, very cool, smiled Was enjoying the attention, wasn't getting enough push/pull. I didn't want to appear as a creep so I felt I should tell her I was waiting for a friend who hadn't shown up yet You qualified yourself to her, were afraid of what she might think of you. You probably did more of that during the conversation. Good practice, don't make those mistakes next time. Grats on having balls for a cold approach. Waiting for her boyfriend to get …
/r/askTRP25/08/14 03:39 AM
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"Smart" is a manipulative word. It means whatever the user desires for it to mean. It has been overused (you can find other examples) and no longer means much of anything. There are too many ways to be "smart" (sharp) for the word to have any real meaning. Just like "busy" means nothing really--too many possibilities. Why did two men fight over an unattractive woman? Because she's more attractive than the women whom they normally meet. She was smiling because was enjoying the attention and feeli…
/r/askTRP25/08/14 03:24 AM
1

Or you could zero--close them the old-fashioned way, PUA. Browsing bars and such. As seen in The Game, The Mystery Method, etc. Larger time commitment and requires you to learn salesmanship. It's not really what TRP is about, but it's another strategy. You're not helpless. A dumbphone for your birthday/holiday would be a great gift.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 03:07 AM
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From TheRedPill: Excerpt: The women settled into a routine as well. The hung up a clothesline to dry their towels, then proceeded to sunbathe and squabble. Because unlike men, women were unable to do anything without consensus of the whole group. And because it was a group of at least a dozen women, consensus was never reached. During the next few episodes, the women ate all their initial supplies, got drenched by tropical storms several times, were eaten alive by sand fleas and were generally m…
/r/askTRP25/08/14 03:01 AM
2

If you're here, asking questions and looking for guidance, I'd say get out. You're old enough for her to be shopping for BB and not just enjoying a young stud. If you had more experience with holding boundaries and outcome independence, I'd say go for it. But if you can keep it up for 5 years.... /s
/r/askTRP25/08/14 02:59 AM
1

Up-date: 1 week later, I told her to come over (she doesn't know where I live), she offered to snapchat.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 02:55 AM
1

The only thing getting in the way of getting laid is your weight. In the meantime, grow a beard and groom it. Knowing game compensates for everything else. (Your mother would be thrilled if you had girl(s) over and she would make plans to be elsewhere.) The other problems you have only get in the way of you being a provider, which only seemed important before swallowing the pill. (Penis doesn't matter. And driving is only useful if you don't live in the city.)
/r/askTRP24/08/14 04:02 AM
2

He's just bantering with you. Be playful. Woo him with how impossible you are to offend. Same with women. He's giving you shit because he knows it affects you. Agh, if only someone had given me this advice when I was 12-16.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 03:49 AM
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Vast majority of tests? How many? Too many is not a good sign. Also, need an age. If you're under 18, grats. But don't start a LTR until you finish college. If you're over 18, 2.5 hours and no nudity is slow progress. Don't spend much time snapchatting. Let her send as much as she wants, but get another date ASAP and escalate further.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 03:46 AM
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temporarily exclusive with main plate right now Cringe. Either she's a plate or you're exclusive. Your plate is not being exclusive with you. ...You're not 75% sure she's into you. She's 100% into you, because all girls dig you. She wants to see whether she can make you jealous. She cannot, toss her to him, watch her come right back. Homecoming and prom are attention-fests for high school girls (the dresses, the photos, the limos and shit). Do not take them seriously. Instead, invite a girl to d…
/r/askTRP24/08/14 03:36 AM
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Later, you can tell her how you've been experimenting with lesbianism, if you absolutely must talk about it again.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 03:24 AM
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She probably makes out with men at bars all of the time. You can find a girl to make out with you anytime you want, because you're a seriously manly and popular dude. Does she bring anything special? You say "We clicked"--something girls say. You click with all of the girls you know, because you're attractive and interesting. She wants you as an orbiter (hopefully you didn't pay). Unless there was sexual subtext and you made vague plans for the next date.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 03:21 AM
1

Would be great to see you without clothes, you say, "I don't have to be at the beach for that". Really, just turn the conversation sexy as soon as possible. If you're taking her to a club, don't focus your attention on her. Let her see other women find your attractive. ("third base" and "home" makes me think (1) you're pedestalizing and (2) lack self-confidence.)
/r/askTRP23/08/14 08:30 PM
2

Your male friends give you crap for your issues as practice so you will be prepared when a girl does the same thing. Formulating strategies is exactly what you should be doing. If those work for you (they seem viable to me), then keep it up. Sometimes, you do need to step up and inform them: their behavior is not acceptable. Obviously, you have to back it up, somehow. Pick your battles. Create conflict to establish dominance, but don't use it all of the time. DO NOT WHINE.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 04:54 AM
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Be the best she can get, and she'll never do anything to jeopardize that. Be her alpha fucks. Means you have to have options, though. And she has to know it, implicitly. When you get married, keeping it that way becomes a challenge--one reason why marriage is considered a trap. It's easier to be her AF than both AF and BB. If you're not the best she can get, you won't keep her for long anyway, and the conclusion is the same: spin plates.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 04:43 AM
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Alpha means doing what you want to do, for your reasons. If you're introverted because people haven't done anything to win the grace of your conversational genius, you're being silent for you. Choosing the conversations you want to participate in and directing the flow where you want it is alpha, and comes naturally to introverts. (You may have noticed other "introverts" who become lively and talkative when you pick the right subject.) If you're introverted from fear of conversation with other p…
/r/askTRP23/08/14 04:10 AM
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Next time remember to not waste too much time with bantering. The more you banter without escalating, the more you will "dilute" the attraction you built from the direct approach (you were bold and mysterious). Not exactly sure what you mean by "banter". Yep, I lost some bold points, but I evaded both times she asked about me; I'm still mysterious. Getting her laughing is good but you don't want to just be her entertainer. Moreover, it's better for her to entertain you or be relating to you. Cor…
/r/askTRP23/08/14 01:07 AM
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Thanks for your analysis. I'm not sure when I could have asked her out sooner. I'm not sure she's old enough for bars. I bothered with conversation to avoid seeming overeager, because of the timing of her early replies (not sure whether she's allowed to text at work). And to make a topic of her for replying in the middle of the night, in order to (1) lead her into admitting to poor decisions and (2) present myself as the object of attraction. Those worked, but then I failed to escalate. I don't …
/r/askTRP22/08/14 10:56 PM
1

There is really no time to talk. I might be able to get a 10-second conversation. I seriously doubt a lack of attraction. Thank you for your response.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 08:39 PM
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