I'm out of town and I (17) met this chick (27) at a memorial service, she was throwing out IOIs everywhere and we were cuddling and petting really hard in the cinema, and after getting back to her house we dropped everything and began making out and petting heavily. After taking her into the bedroom and going at it again, she pulled away and started the barrage of shit tests and ASDs, everything from "I'm not like this" to "I've only slept with 4 guys" ^^Bullshit, every time I either ignored them or made a joke out of them and kept going, eventually she would push harder and harder away and it just devolved into her sitting on my lap whining about an ex boyfriend, go fucking figure.

The way I see it, it dawned on her that this 'kid' had gotten farther with her in a shorter amount of time than any of her pervious partners, this scared her, so she flipped the dialect and backed off hard, giving me nothing else for the rest of my time with her.

So yeah, was there any way I could have 'passed'? Are there any lessons I can learn from this? I think the biggest one is probably to limit and prevent the amount of verbal interaction and be way more assertive from the get go instead of just escalating to match her.