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Wait until you hear stories of TRICARE-atops...
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/21 08:54 PM
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Do you have any children yet. My story, but also concern, is exactly what you typed, but not sure how to make sure I am doing it right for my own kids.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 09:21 AM
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I realize that now, and my fuck up was being too enthusiastic at first. See my other comment, this is a good thing and helps you out. Being enthusiastic about the job does not mean sucking your WCS/LPO/Chief's cock.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 11:06 PM
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Hey I read a few of your comments and stopped. In the Navy it's the easiest to not be the fucking dumbass that works harder. Half the people do not work out so lifting is the easiest to stand out. 2ndly when it comes to standing out, you grab one of the new guys and bring them with you. Make them write down the steps you took and then you make them do it. The next time you are tasked, you go take them. The Navy is literally the easiest place for TRP and 48 Laws of Power to excel. 1 EP for days, …
/r/askTRP14/01/20 11:05 PM
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This. Many of us have been in this situation before. You aren't bothering to game and have fun with her either.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/20 04:40 PM
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How do you not make it a chore when you're tired? This is something I am stuck on as well. I think I'm looking at it wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/19 06:50 PM
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I don't want that brand on my shoulders Why do you give a shit what "brand" you have? Also, why is that "brand" bad? Lastly, to get it off - use the most magic word you'll ever use. Rando person: "Hey, don't trust Ricardomhv! He's a fuckboy!" Ricardomhv: "So?!"
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:39 PM
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Here is how I try and approach it. There is a difference of grieving in front of people and posting it on Facebook for some sort of validation or attention. On that spectrum, lean towards the side that is about remembering your dog and the relationship you and your loved ones had with it
/r/askTRP29/03/19 07:48 PM
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Amused Mastery at it's basic
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/19 11:44 PM
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Don't forget that there are new readers and subscribers that haven't heard it enough.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 02:38 PM
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I believe, more specifically, not the introduction of online dating but the normalization of it. Online dating has been around since the MySpace era but was something you never mentioned; maybe even made up a fake "how we met story".
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:33 AM
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How I learned it was "Do you also tell rich people that you think they are so rich?"
/r/seduction07/01/18 09:36 AM
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Completely disagree. This leads to SO many more problem and is a dick move. Being an asshole is a good thing. Being a dick isn't. Ghosting only works smoothly right from the start. Once you have established rapport, it's terrible and can cause unnecessary problems.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:52 AM
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Being an asshole is respected. Being a dick is what people tend to stray away from. Be an asshole. Don't be a dick.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 12:26 PM
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That's not how her hamster and how society will view it. I don't disagree with you in our judgement of her, but she will have "predicted" how bad it was with him and how bad he is and once he finally hits her now all of those assumptions are proven correct.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 05:25 AM
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And give her justification for her actions?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 06:22 AM
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I think he is referencing how they are Liberals that do not know how to come to any conclusion and wait till Sunday before talking about a subject because John Oliver will tell them (literally) how to interpret an event and feel about it.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 06:15 AM
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So I know a bunch of dudes who are taking pills right now because it doesn't pop as easily on military pee and blood tests. I've been asking around for about 4-5 months now, wondering if there is any alternative that won't stop your own natural process. My friends who do it have all explicitly told me that once you start you can't stop.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 11:15 AM
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I am more of a "Absolutely. Should I not?" and nip that in the butt right there kind of guy. Although, you can play some games after..."Hmmmmm now that I am thinking about that...I don't know......there are a LOT of things wrong with you!" (much better done in person, don't waste time texting.)
/r/askTRP09/08/17 08:57 AM
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You did the right thing. However if you're still talking to her without her making up (financially) for her actions then you're doing the wrong thing. She pays you back (somehow) or you don't talk to her. There are tons of 9s out there.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 03:33 PM
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Then disagree and amplify, then set up a meet.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 09:07 PM
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Agree and amplify, then set up a meet.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 09:07 AM
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change your attitude to a "so what?" Are you any different than you were? Their judgement of you doesn't change who you've been and who you are so question them. Call them out.
/r/seduction26/03/17 12:44 AM
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I have had more fun in almost every aspect of my time spent with a 6-7 than any 8-10s.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 09:27 AM
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Been here a long time. OP is wrong and there are women who are able to acknowledge their nature. Many of them appreciate the more realistic look and frankly the red pill women I know will call you out of you're slipping and not being what they need from you in your role. E.g. not owning your shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 11:34 PM
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Hey I am really happy for you. I just have to say one thing. I highly recommend you stop telling people little victories like this. Frankly if you feel better typing it out and posting it, great. But I would suggest that you turn off inbox notifications. IF you find yourself CHECKING this post for any comments or even looking ONCE at the karma upvotes it got - then you're not posting this for the right reasons. That is seeking validation. You don't need it. If you really did something good and h…
/r/ThankTRP05/12/16 04:15 AM
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Just to own an LLC in California is $950 a year. Regardless of profit. There are other taxes that make California a bad place to start. Lessons were learned.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 11:32 AM
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I try and let them figure out if I'm being sarcastic or not. If you do it right guys and girls will both chuckle at what you just said.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 04:20 AM
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/u/Nozflow This is exactly it right here. A lot of the real alphas on here don't spend much of our time on Reddit anymore. If we do it's in very short bursts. The men who are on this subreddit, the most, are not at the point yet where they can be the type of man to their woman to allow her to TRUST you to do things like this. I have saved all of the texts with my girl talking about how much it excites her to bring out some of her filthier sluttier side. You girl is expressing this to you in her …
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:16 PM
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First mistake is looking for a relationship. This is perfect weight Obviously not. I have severe You're making excuses. Obviously you haven't been giving it your best.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 08:22 AM
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Whenever it comes up. "Hey, where is this going?" "When this baby hits 88, you're gonna see some serious shit!"
/r/askTRP22/08/16 12:43 AM
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Is this a troll post?
/r/askTRP21/08/16 06:13 PM
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You haven't had sex with her and think she is the one..... She hasn't proved she's the one. She's just got your mind doing the work for her.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 01:34 AM
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Come on man......you knew the answer to all of your questions before you even made this post.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 01:20 AM
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Yeah he's alpha, but that doesn't mean he has good policies. People always say this - but never give an example. Take one from his website and let me know so I can be persuaded.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 02:58 PM
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the most common reaction for narcissists when their delicate ego is bruised: the silent treatment Isn't that TRP in a nutshell? edit - Going Radio Silent?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 01:51 AM
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Seeing how other people approached it is worth it. I in no way was implying people copy word for word. But just saying you "busted" through a test doesn't help anyone and isn't constructive in a field report. No lessons can be learned from your report.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 07:44 AM
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A lot of members use field reports as a way to apply the examples into their own lives. You express how important crushing a comfort test is and you giving them this "really?" face. And then the frustrated line, the just continue? Can you give examples of the tests, maybe how you escalated after she asked if you were getting frustrated?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 02:26 AM
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Lift and read the side bar of the main Red Pill sub.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 11:46 PM
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I have friends that are awesome and I help them out because I was there less than a year ago. If they can be helped I will. If I feel I am wasting my time, I stop.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 05:34 PM
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Here is a video on how NOT to handle the key situation.... https://youtu.be/B4bxKBt-P5I
/r/askTRP15/07/15 11:58 AM
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Taking a break from the relationship implies not having to do the day to day shit "listening to how their day was, worrying about if they handled what they needed to handle, texting throughout the day, etc. " That does not imply - go fuck whomever you want. Fuck I hate that "we were on a break". This shit ain't friends.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 03:56 PM
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Can you give us the details on those shit tests?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 10:11 PM
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For those just swallowing the pill and are more hurt than angry about everything, this is a great post to always have easily accessible. (Printed in small font and pjt kn your wallet, etc) Remember that when you no longer view yourself like that, you have truly established your foundation for the rest of your life. As you're lifting and meditating....this all will help get rid of your double bind and cause that true paradigm shift. Read this post a few times if you wake up and still hurt over th…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 03:59 PM
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Watching this happen with someone you care about sucks.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 03:15 PM
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Awalt. So?
/r/askTRP11/07/15 06:47 PM
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You could continue to, but you did decide to take that risk with her. Ultimately she is going to decide either way. Head over to MarriedRedPill and start reading up now on what it takes to be the true captain of this new ship you are about to embark on. One thing that has helped me in the past was telling them that I am still here AFTER the abortion and that she doesn't need the kid to lock me down (lie or not). edit - Truthfully if I decide to LTR a girl, if she gets pregnant, that is fine as I…
/r/askTRP10/07/15 04:35 PM
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My favorite response to "I'm strong independent woman" is always "Prove it". Then TELL them to buy me a drink. Or something where I tell them to do something.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 12:11 AM
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You do them by yelling "AHHHHHHH!!!!!!" at the top of your lungs and moving each muscle as fast as possible. Not unreasonable.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 02:37 AM
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I've been lifting since high school. On and off throughout college and stopped the past few years. I started really researching for myself since March. Been doing Stronglift since. Love it and the transformation has been amazing.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:19 AM
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Consider the warm up sets take 15 min if you do the rest times on the app - min. There is no way you're finishing and doing everything in 45. Unless you are doing light weight. Which yeah, when I first started I was done in 30 min.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:06 AM
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I ask because my stronglift sessions last 1.5 hours. I keep going up. Almost at 300 for squat and easily see myself continuing. I'm about to go to boot camp but was thinking of doing something else after. Ice cream 5x5 the way to go? Some one mentioned some Texas method.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 12:24 AM
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Could you elaborate more on this? Why not starting strength?
/r/askTRP02/07/15 11:46 PM
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I have been reading all of these posts about revenge and motivation for yourself. But when I read posts like this, I jump into your character OP and want to go crazy in making myself even BETTER than yesterday. Holy fuck man, I feel for you and thank you for sharing. This just rejuvenated any "pump up anger" I was lacking.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 03:39 PM
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You have any screen shots of any of those texts? I'm sure a lot of us could benefit from really seeing what your friend was talking about.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 03:34 PM
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I'm reading this right now. Its so much harder to get through than Models. Some good points but seems too lovey dovey
/r/askTRP29/06/15 12:17 AM
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Would you mind forwarding that same PM to me as well, please.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 12:22 AM
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The community will determine if it will be helpful for new comers. Not you. Post it in the main sub. But realize that everyone need to get through those stages on their own. This is the one aspect of change that people have to do on their own. As you did.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 06:59 PM
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Or op could be like me and stay with her and get lazy and complacent since she is awesome, then when she leaves you because she thinks she can get better your ego suffers a massive 'lol wut you're leaving me??????" And then you fall into oneitus and time cost fallacy. If you are feeling this now. Start making plans to leave and keep improving, plate until you find better.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 03:41 AM
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I'll watch it later. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 01:04 PM
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You make a statement and don't justify it.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 12:40 PM
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Probably the worst advice here and part of the reason you have such a polarizing way of "operating"
/r/seduction16/06/15 09:17 PM
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I don't give a fuck. I came for input on a specific question none of you can answer. Seems were all on the same expierence level with this one. Will post back results. Stop. First off you DO give a fuck. You give so much of a fuck that you not only posted a new post but you also are replying to my comment and not ignoring it. So don't lie to yourself. Second, I'm not here to bash you and I did answer your question. What you did was cringe worthy. So of course DO NOT GO BACK. It's not that compli…
/r/askTRP08/06/15 03:09 PM
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You're so experienced with it that you're asking random people on the internet if you think it's OK for you to go back there. Good luck man.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 02:57 PM
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What you did't isn't cringey, it's your own assessment of it that is. You assuming the "tension" was there. I really don't think from your story there was that "sexual" undertone.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 02:45 PM
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You seem to have a good grasp on examples. Would you mind taking a few more minutes and thinking of more examples of each? I'm sure a lot of men could benefit from that.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 02:38 PM
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Being a bouncer - can you go about how you got the job? I am going into the Military soon, but thinking about applying for some places when I get out - slowly doing research. It's a side job that REALLY interests me.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:15 AM
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When I first started trying to practice Agree and Amplify, I would just literally agree with them. My first real shit test recognition was in the car with my best friends co-worker. "wow, aren't you a bad ass..." "You're right. I am the biggest bad ass in the world!" (smirk) That night, I also practiced "undermining" her current boyfriend "Yeah what was his name Kaylee?!" "Keith" "yeah whatever, anyway I think he blah blah blah" "I mean, I think you're cute, but I want to be respectful to your b…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 02:16 PM
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I have had that in the past and feel since taking TRP that I'll never find that type of woman again. It's a disappointing feeling. Not a fearful one. The same way you say there are signs that she WAS a good faithful woman based on her exit strategy. Are there any signs for someone DURING it?
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:55 PM
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OP. Please disregard the above poster.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:43 PM
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It isn't about getting wasted. You can grab a solo cup and fill it up with water, which a LOT of people do. Not being social because you don't want to get drunk is a personally issue that you should correct.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:08 PM
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The redpill subreddit is amazing. But understand that most of the people who have truly moved on and have made their life better are NOT posting. They have read books and applied serious changes to their life. Take this opportunity to really read some of these books and try this stuff out.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 01:11 AM
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Obviously you are upset that you got banned - from a REDPILLWOMEN subreddit. Why not just lurk...isn't there something else you could be doing to improve yourself?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 02:24 PM
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Why are you intimidated?
/r/askTRP02/06/15 03:30 AM
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That's not true. I'm shipping out in the navy in a few weeks and need some extra cash to get my affairs in order. How would my parents helping me out with a few hundred dollars NOT do me good? If your brother has zero plan of action then yes it does him no good. But helping out others isn't always not helpful.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 04:42 PM
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Wow I'm so sick of these same threads!!! GFTOW!!! .....wait
/r/askTRP30/05/15 12:17 PM
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As someone who as FTOW - this is by far the best words you need to read. You'll find that you need to just realize its your ego. Not her. Every time you feel pain. Get out of your head by taking in a deep breath. Listen for the sounds around you. Notice where you are. Live more in the moment and say "fuck you ego, you're gonna suffer. "
/r/askTRP28/05/15 07:39 PM
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Something I have been thinking about as well as OP. How do you accept hypergamy but say you can't be seen as the alpha you were when they met you? But the abundance mentality and the millions of women I'll meet. That's how I just keep being awesome but I sometimes think about what op is saying.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 04:28 PM
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You're ready to read Models by Mark Manson. I always recommend to people to read that after about 4-6 true months of self improvement. You need to understand that it's OK to pursue. You need to show interest. If she doesn't reciprocate. Who gives a shit. Why would you want to be with someone who isn't even slightly receptive to your advances. Sex and everything else gets better the more emotionally invested both of you are. If you pretend to not show interest when you are, you're playing stupid …
/r/askTRP26/05/15 04:50 PM
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I used to have a plate that recently dropped who was an only child and had a very dominating strong independent mother. She tried shit like this all the time. You have a choice - Recent RP swallower and Angerphase interpretation is "she is trying to boss me around" Later you start to realize that that COULD be true but she might be genuine. You will be able to spin plates a LOT longer if you can simply just have fun with it by saying one simple pressure flip: "or what? (smile)" If they preface i…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 12:45 PM
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In my opinion: First off, she is damn right about her own sheets. If she wants to clean them fine. Tease her and be like "yes Mom" - or "make me (with a smile)" etc. Second, just go to the wedding if you think you'll have fun. If you are going to be stuck in your head wondering "WHAT DOES THIS MEAN FOR US?!?!?!" I want you to come to this type of conclusion by yourself so I really haven't gone in depth. Do you see what I mean?
/r/askTRP21/05/15 12:21 PM
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I can see that you are trying to see how you can improve. But sometimes you have to go with your gut. If they give you no feedback, then just say "oh well, fuck it" and you're doing something else to better yourself.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 05:26 PM
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I only do it when they start throwing up some INTENSE LMR - "Wait, I don't do this normally. I can't believe I'm here, I'm going to go" etc "Oh, I was under the impression that we clicked and you liked me. Do you not like me?"
/r/askTRP18/05/15 07:57 PM
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Why the fuck do I still want kids and a serious LTR after reading stuff like this...
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 11:48 AM
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I wish I had it in 2007, then again in 2009, and then when it happened almost 1 year ago. This sub has had it's extremes, but the thing that has held true is that women want the best man. I will never stop improving. The best me is every day better than yesterday. PUA stuff is great for guys that like to pretend to be the best man. There are some truths that you'd be an idiot to ignore on those nights where you are trying to get laid quickly. but until you really hit rock bottom and see that YOU…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 03:08 AM
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Nothing we say will help with this. Months will go by and you will feel this pain. You need to find a new identity that doesn't have her in the equation. This is harder than it sounds. I'm on my phone but look up on google for a fitness article about phoenix theory. Understand that you have been blessed with this pain. You will NEVER let this happen again. Use this pain. I still feel it. It just came back from a date with a sexy as fuck 8 with a 9 body. I have another plate on her period on her …
/r/askTRP17/05/15 12:54 AM
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You don't need us to do that for you. Seriously, just read your post as if someone else was going through it. You basically already gave yourself the best response you could have.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 05:25 PM
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"Am I wrong? smirk" "...and?" "...so?"
/r/askTRP16/05/15 01:19 PM
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Then you already know what to do.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 05:09 PM
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Just ignore, she'll keep messaging and wondering why you would reject her offer for friendship. Continue to ignore, unless she calls. Then you can choose to answer or call back and let her know that you just was looking for someone that could have fun but you were disappointed to find out she wanted friendship only. Then tell her you have to go. Tell her that you'll be free at night and she can come over and if she wants to talk about it, but wear something that can be taken off.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 04:02 PM
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After you go radio silent. What do you do to reinitiate?
/r/askTRP15/05/15 02:28 AM
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Can you go into more details about the late bloomers, getting into fitness. Do they miss the wall? Would you elaborate a bit more?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/15 02:25 AM
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When you feel you've done everything you can do to improve upon yourself for that day, then head to a local coffee shop and look at local events. Spend the day reading, meditating, relaxing, hiking, etc. and then go do something social. Even if you go for a hike. Make sure you say hi, and ask generic questions. You'd be surprised how many people are up for a break and might even end up making a new friend or friends. This is just a very simple idea. Apply it to other areas.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 01:21 AM
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How does this work if you are at their house?
/r/askTRP13/05/15 09:02 PM
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So basically go to work without breakfast. Eat at like noon to 1300 then again at 1600-1700?
/r/askTRP10/05/15 02:57 AM
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Ok. You had me. But Now I think you're a little bitch. Stop justifyjng. You don't need to qualify if it was a bad shit test or not. Your post still made your point.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 04:09 PM
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Your post is old but I was in the same boat as you. And I decided to go to a funeral of her dying father ( because of my close relationship to the family)coming up so I keep ripping off the bandaid. However - as far as you are concerned. One article that helped me when I swallowed the pill back last October (took a while to really understand anything and then seeing the effects of actual female interactions) this helped me so much. http://www.t-nation.com/readArticle.do?id=1846703 Truth is you h…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 01:07 PM
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So is there any advice that's worth me watching it or do I need to suffer the two hour video of a guy talking about his unicorn?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 12:44 PM
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How long did it take you to get to that point?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:21 AM
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I know this feeling. I was thinking about making a post about it myself. Basically I have to stop reading books like sex god method and or even some RP posts because even though I am someone of a natural alpha with women I start out super alpha but over time go full blue pill and it kills me seeing how I can destroy something. That's the thing. I read these things and see where I can improve and implement those improvements but it kills me to think how I was and what I could have done differentl…
/r/askTRP08/05/15 03:48 AM
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Also, you should lift.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 07:54 PM
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You're damn right it is! (Smirk)
/r/askTRP04/05/15 11:55 AM
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This was like reading about me. PM me when you can. Literally in the same boat. I really believe that what we are both missing is just someone that is in the same spot as us. Since everyone is either past this part or really is stuck in the anger phase. If you don't PM me check this out - from meditating, I think it is a pride and ego issue. Not your ex. How could she leave you? Now look how far you have come and you know if you had acted the way you are now with your ex, you're 110% positive yo…
/r/askTRP03/05/15 05:44 PM
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Can you elaborate a bit more on what he could have done differently?
/r/askTRP03/05/15 04:21 PM
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Those are shit tests. Not a form of them. Handle them the same as others. Agree and Amplify. Be confident.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 10:08 PM
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I did that in Vegas. Didn't even want to be next to her. I stuck it out because of her dying father and became so pathetic over time that she left me for someone else. Back to being awesome, if not better, and but because of how I previously felt about her, my ego took a massive blow. My oneitus is a result of my pride. Not her. I'm so fucked. No matter how much I improve, my ego only gets bigger, which results in more pain that SHE left me.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 09:55 PM
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So I'm going to piggy back this post - Unless you have plans to LTR the girl, you should not let them unload a little on you (if there is sex involved)?
/r/askTRP29/04/15 03:07 PM
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May I ask why? I had a friend tell me that he would feel excluded out of clubs BECAUSE he was white.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 02:54 PM
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Would you elaborate a bit more. Especially on your last sentence?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 07:20 PM
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It depends on what you want out of the encounter. If you are looking yo genuinely have a conversation then you don't always want to treat those as shit tests. I remember somewhere reading - if your mother wouldn't ask it, its a shit test. I personally take that with a grain of salt. When a girl asks me where I am from, I say something ridiculous like "China" and depending on how THEY respond to me being my awesome goofy self, I continue joking around about my time in China. You need to have fun …
/r/askTRP27/04/15 12:58 PM
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This isn't a tongue in cheek thing. You are missing out on awesome opportunities to improve yourself and enjoy life.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 12:54 PM
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What If you had already defriended them. You spoke on the phone recently after their father died and they said they wanted to talk again soon. I have zero intention of initiating that call, but I certainly shouldn't re add them on Facebook. Truthfully I'm only even thinking about this now while reading this thread and having second thoughts of defriending on Facebook. I didn't know it looked butthurt. Why the fuck do I care.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 07:36 AM
1

While you do exercise for to get in shape. Lifting also gives you so much more testosterone then I'm sure you are used to. That is what gives you the attitude.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 12:00 PM
1

Shakespeare, it's 2015. That line doesn't work anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 06:05 PM
2

Those smooth end of the day shower pick up lines are the best.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 06:04 PM
2

Want to add one note to those of you who have responsibilities (kids, school, homework, work, etc) - go out initially. Then hold frame after you tell people you need to leave. Don't make it a big thing or a swaying wishy washy I have to go. "I have to leave. I'll see you guys later. " Awww come on stay!!! (Don't explain yourself ) "I'll see you on x date. " If you do this you can easily finish off # closes if you need or want them. "Hey I'm heading out, give me your number. We can see where this…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 04:50 PM
2

I'm in the same boat but its been more than 8 months now almost and its daily. Anytime I'm not busy or have a few minutes to myself. I start drifting in my mind. It sucks. When it happens I start up my Duolingo app on my phone and distract myself. Works for the most part and I get better at a language.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 06:16 PM
1

As long as you're not looking for an LTR from it and are focusing on other women at the same time. Sure.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 06:14 PM
1

Monk mode is not the gym. Going to the gym is the fucking gym. You're an idiot if you equate me saying to not do monk mode as saying don't lift. You can get the same benefits NOT doing monk mode as doing monk mode, just different times. You CAN NOT get the physical results NOT going to the gym. They are not the same. So what it reminds you of is simply retarded. Monk Mode is not necessary and from my experience and the constant FR we read here. Monk Mode only slows down your progress from actual…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 06:04 PM
3

I'm assuming this isn't what you want to hear. But focus on school right now. If you aren't studying/doing homework , join campus groups/club sports and network. If you're not doing that, go to school sport games and just talk to the people in your bleachers around you while cheering, if you're not doing that you should be lifting, doing your chores (laundry, cleaning your room, etc) and then if that's the case.... then this is very important. If you have finished everything above.........Then y…
/r/askTRP21/04/15 11:48 AM
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Ok. So say I believe her and you. Do you know how snap chat works? You literally take one pic. Then click on MULTIPLE people. You getting a snap chat literally means nothing. Please man. Seriously think to yourself. You are gonna do your own thing. But please take whatever happens as a serious lesson.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 06:11 AM
11

She flaked out 3 times? You need to ask yourself how much self respect you have? Would you flake out 3 times on someone you were interested in?
/r/askTRP18/04/15 05:43 AM
1

I'd like to second this question. I might be moving there in the near future.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 11:32 PM
6

In my 20s. Wish I knew about it in my highschool / college years. I was always that awesome guy in the group/team/frat but always was beta with women. Just turned 26 and have feelings like I missed out. I hate that feeling but it drives me to work even harder. This post really was awesome to read.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 10:38 PM
1

I'd prefer if you referred to it as a bootcamp.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 05:32 PM
1

No you're only focusing on the insult and not the rest of what they are saying. However, continue to rationalize however you want. Obviously YOU are the victim.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 04:24 PM
1

Being stubborn when people are literally wasting time of their day to help you is significantly more beta.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 02:54 AM
1

You wrote this two months ago, but how long did it take for you and when did it click? I'm still hurting about my ex and how "dirty" she did me even after 7-8 months. I accepting how the world is but pains me to know if I acted differently I could still have been with my ex. However I am aware and I desire to also not want to be with her as there are a billions of women out there.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 12:47 PM
4

"Young Teacher, the subject, of school girl fantasy." You are dream to her. You are the life of your wife. You are coming here for validation of potentially taking her on her offer. I think you know what you feel is right. Be prepared for the consequences of going against what you feel is right.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:57 PM
9

Withdraw. Focus on yourself. Don't make plans with her. Make plans with other people. When she wants to go out. Tell her you're busy and you might be free another time but don't specify. Talk about how funny a female co worker is at work.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 09:18 PM
1

Pretty sure you're not trying to fuck your daughter. I wonder if I'll be a good father sometimes but I'm not dumb enough to think my treatment of girls that don't respect me will correlate with a child that I love more than anything in this world.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 08:22 PM
2

As someone at the end of the phase myself, and if not already out of it. Here is where it all clicked. Just have fun. Literally. You want to go out on a date? Great, but you're not trying to show her a good time. You are having a good time and she is envious and wants to have fun too. This goes in all aspects of life. Why would you fault a woman for wanting to have that fun? I read something long those lines a couple months back and tried applying it to girls and what I spend my time doing. If I…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 07:37 PM
2

So basically, that pain is something we should cherish forever?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 07:03 PM
1

Similar to OP, I still am haunted by the betray that got me here. It feels like it won't go away.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 01:36 PM
5

I think he wanted to let us know he fucked a chick and that he's from Europe.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 10:48 PM
3

Hold frame and move forward. Its over. She apologized.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 01:10 AM
2

Is what you should not do. Just help her out if you want to. Don't if you don't. Do NOT go out of your way.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 02:22 PM
2

You also have so much lurking to do.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 04:32 PM
1

It was I who said I'd benefit and I have. I have some things to think about while I lift today. I love this sub. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 12:59 PM
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I think a lot of people are trying to find that balance. I know I would benefit from more posts regarding doing nice things and it coming from a position of respect vs. reverence.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 02:11 PM
15

Literally dealing with this right now. Thank you. Few weeks ago this chick was going to be late to our date. I was already en-route to the date. I ended up canceling and she lost it. I soft nexted and she called again and again. I told her I am not interested in this game. She begged to meet half way. I was still interested so I let her know it was against my better judgement and gave her a new time and location. It snowed the day of our date. BP inside of me still offered to drive toward her to…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 10:31 PM
3

Could you go into more detail about this? Your comment is like a candle in a pitch black house.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 02:08 PM
1

Don't sweat it. FRs like these help ALOT here in this sub. I'd rather FRs like these so we all can see where we can improve upon.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:16 PM
1

SPOILER I watched it. Was overjoyed when she died right afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 02:17 PM
1

You should see this one clip of a guy who spits water on him or something. He handled it with SO much class. I wish I could find it on my phone. Found it - http://youtu.be/sUjHiUJHw9c
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 01:59 PM
2

He should have just left the game in his boxed or shelved collection and went to work so he could at least made the monetary requirements.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 09:06 PM
3

Last night - I was taking the subway in NYC from Queens to Manhattan. Once I got to Manhattan I had to transfer to a different subway going up town. I was a tad confused and approached these two women. I asked them if this was the correct platform, approached again a few minutes later to let them know I didn't get a midnight kiss and asked if they would want one as well. One of them agreed (since she didn't get one) and I had a great conversation on the train with them for a good 15 minutes. Mad…
/r/askTRP01/01/15 02:09 PM
1

I was thinking about that. I have enough money for the trip out there and back once. Should I not be there for the Brother and Mother (both who still text and skype with me and the other family members during a time of great grief? or just fly back to the other side of the country for a few days? Fuck I wish I could afford both. I want both. That man is incredible.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 07:28 PM
2

I'm one month further than you in the same situation. Awesome seeing someone else in the same boat as me. Last hurdle I have is seeing her again. Her Dad is going to die soon (of whom I came very close to and considered a second father, as well as the rest of the family) and I plan on going to the funeral to see her mother and brother. She will be there - I plan on going because I loved the family (and still maintain a relationship). Once I get past that I'm back to the other side of the country…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 04:07 AM
1

I held frame and she wanted to meet for coffee and for some reason my frame was "No, I'm already going to Sushi tomorrow - you can join me for that but I don't have time for Coffee" and I wasn't bending on that. So does that make you an ass when you refuse to make the girl comfortable? She was more "comfortable" to get coffee. I really didn't want to go get coffee. I felt a tad "ridiculous" afterwards but I am more upset that someone thinks I'm an ass and want to make sure that during this trans…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 02:02 PM
2

I just tonight had a situation where a girl basically was like "I don't want to meet up for a date because you're an ass" Is this a natural part about swallowing the pill? Going too far on the pendulum the other way?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 05:11 AM
2

That blog post on branch swings was tough to swallow. Accepting that ideology is painful as it reminds me of what I let myself become in the previous relationship. Thank you for your post. I need to work on moving on.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 05:01 PM
1

There are a lot of us that learn from the mistakes of others. This post is fine.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:15 PM
1

I'm suffering hardcore - even did clean break to other side of the country. Saying it doesn't do shit other than just have me focus more on it :/
/r/seduction18/12/14 07:09 PM
1

I just went through this and it kills to read. It hurts but I have to accept that she immediately moved on. Fuck, this process and life change is so bitter sweet. I know it will get better but I'm really struggling with this "oneitus" stuff. I'm so embarrassed on what I let happen. I just get haunted by it but it is what allows me and gives me the anger to never allow myself to regress to that point again. If you guys have any readings regarding oneitus or moving on please let me know.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:04 PM
1

Could you elaborate on the ignore and misdirect? Wouldn't it just seem like you failed that test if you ignore it?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 08:58 PM
2

I know that would have helped me greatly. It still gets confusing a little bit in looking for "shit tests" because of the word itself. Maybe that's just me though.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:44 PM
1

Essentially, If I go - My frame is "I'm there for her Dad, not her", maybe a quick hug and say "I'm so sorry for your loss, I'm here if you need to talk" type thing and then that's it. Say goodbye and hello to family members I have missed and then leave. I am processing a lot of what you said. You really hit home with some stuff. Thank you. If it seems I might not fully understand what you're saying let me know.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 09:03 PM
2

You've struck a chord. Could you elaborate about "guard up"
/r/askTRP20/11/14 08:53 PM
2

What do I want? what do you want? Do you want just another bang for the road from this girl? To rekindle your romance? Or just to not look like a tool at your almost-but-not-quite-father-in-law's funeral? To be honest the latter two would be technically what I want. The other comment below mentioned the problem I have is this "Oneitus" I'm pretty new to these philosophies. I appreciate the advice. I am just having trouble with the just leave part and struggling to accept that. They Mom and broth…
/r/askTRP20/11/14 08:42 PM
2

When you cut off all communication -does that also mean taking them off of facebook?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 02:07 AM
-2

I love the conclusion at the end of one of these Thorough examination of these matters in areas where male circumcision is more common is warranted. No fucking shit.
/r/MensRights01/05/14 02:42 PM
-26

Be cause it is and should be a perfectly acceptable practice. Yeast infections are far and few between with women that have sex with non smegma infested penises.
/r/MensRights01/05/14 02:37 PM
-8

You couldn't. And that is the downside to these posts on this particular subreddit.
/r/MensRights01/05/14 02:35 PM
-8

As someone who has had multiple friends' GFs complain about smegma, I am so happy I was cut when i was younger and one of those those guys at 18 got cut and was really upset he had to wear a diaper for a year. It is much harder to clean and guys who are uncut are kidding themselves when they say that cleaning it is exactly the same. There is a reason that when a female gets a yeast infection that MDs ask "Is your sexual partner circumcised?" But it's ok, I agree with mostly everything on this su…
/r/MensRights01/05/14 02:34 PM
0

Yes, I'm sure you've done the research personally to prove how "wobbly" they are.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 03:43 AM
1

I don't know if that's a can this comment section can open right now.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 12:53 AM
-1

I love straw man!
/r/MensRights23/08/13 12:48 AM
-4

Not quite the same. You don't rape a passed out person to help prevent future health issues.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 12:46 AM
3

I remember this one time when I was like 9 and some kid said the word "retarded" and some girls that were in middle school shit bricks because they said it was offensive to say the word retarded. I feel like I'm 9 all over again with this.
/r/MensRights17/06/12 07:08 AM
-1

That's a Blog post, not a scientifically published article. That aside, paraphrased from Bartonar's post above. "the lack of effort in cleanliness, the ability to go on, say, a camping trip, and not have to worry about potential infection from lack of water to clean in, and the fact that I can continue having sex, without over-sensitivity issues, right after finishing having sex." On a large scale, with a LOT of people un able to stay clean and are lazy, circumcision as I said - IN THE LONG RUN …
/r/MensRights14/06/12 02:56 PM
-11

Sadly it's not here. That SHOULD be the issue, but the majority are just stating how there is ABSOLUTELY NO MEDICAL BENEFIT. Which is far from true in the long run.
/r/MensRights14/06/12 03:56 AM
0

Thank you for hitting the nail on the head. Thank you for speaking up where I, and I'm sure others, couldn't.
/r/MensRights14/06/12 03:53 AM
13

What can be done about this?
/r/MensRights30/05/12 08:05 PM
1

I was raised in a household where my father paid for the bed. My mother picked it out, but he actually fronted the money at the time. When I got older, I told him about a friend who in the story slept on the couch after a fight with his girlfriend. He flipped out at this and told me, (He is a very proud Puerto Rican so, incoming racist remark): "That is such a fucking white guy thing. Listen, how can you go to work and earn a living for your family, only to have a disagreement with your wife and…
/r/MensRights24/05/12 04:00 PM
-1

You're right, but that's how most read out loud.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 01:25 AM
3

I honestly would really like each one to have support. That way I'd be able to at least have (on my hard drive) sources for rational discourse.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 12:59 AM
-2

It's a song, I was putting in the commas so that unconsciously people would pause, while, reading.
/r/MensRights21/05/12 11:55 PM
-9

Allow me to just wipe, that, dirt off your shoulder.
/r/MensRights21/05/12 04:43 PM
-2

Did you read it?
/r/MensRights23/04/12 06:21 AM
7

Sandy, I can not imagine what the past month has been like for your family. I am so sorry for your loss. Redog, http://tukwila.komonews.com/news/911/728610-man-falls-eighth-story-doubletree-apparent-suicide - Article http://records.tukwilawa.gov/WebLink8/DocView.aspx?id=35403&page=1&dbid=1 - Police report
/r/MensRights12/04/12 02:42 AM
1

That's a good point. Just kind of on the freak out side right now. This girl is wild enough to buy a prego-stage suit. I'm trying to just prepare for the worst. Make sure the courts see how much I'm trying to be there for (what could be) the kid.
/r/MensRights25/07/11 11:37 PM
2

Would you mind going into further detail. I really appreciate it.
/r/MensRights25/07/11 11:26 PM
3

I feel so helpless in this situation.
/r/MensRights25/07/11 10:46 PM
2

So it seems like neither Colorado or California have a registry. Ugh this sucks. http://www.courts.state.nh.us/probate/registrylist.pdf Is there anyway to petition for pregnancy or for paternity? Early? Before the baby is born?
/r/MensRights25/07/11 10:07 PM
2

If she changes her identity, would that be considered kidnapping?
/r/MensRights25/07/11 09:33 PM
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