So I've been lurking around The Red Pill for a while now and its been an enlightening journey to say the least. I won't bore you with the details of my journey thus far as there is much work to do but I do find myself perplexed about a few things.

In keeping with the spirit of improving one's self I have focussed my efforts on improving my fitness, grooming, style, and job. You name it and I've overhauled it. I was already in good shape but I've managed to cut it down to 10% body fat with solid lifts across the board, my job rocks and I command the respect of people. All good so far. Where I'm falling short, however, is in the ability to attract women to plate. Maybe I'm thinking about it the wrong way and that's being expressed without me knowing but I don't really get any flirtatious signs from women or any kind of indicator of interest. Admittedly I don't really pursue day game so that is a big factor and something that I need to improve.

I've rambled on for a bit here but I guess my question is, should I actively be going out and trying to find plates? I don't really feel depressed by not spinning plates and don't feel as compelled in this area as I did with other areas of my life and I'm not sure if that's a good thing or not? I'd very much appreciate your perspective on it.