bernierbruh Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
330	Getting Divorced in 2020 in Ontario Canada	Red Pill Example	bernierbruh	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/20 07:26 PM
25	Does Anyone Know if this case was ever heard?: Divorced Men Call Alimony Unconstitutional	Marriage/Children	bernierbruh	/r/MensRights	11/11/18 09:59 PM
0	Teenage boys more at risk from vaccines than Covid	Discrimination	bernierbruh	/r/MensRights	10/09/21 07:04 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I'm scared to get married (22M) and start a family in today's America, any advice? Try to marry a woman that shares your beliefs about money, sex and raising children. Ideally one that earns as much or more than you professionally and comes from a wealthy family. Divorce legislation is meant to level the playing field, if it is already tilted in your wife’s favour the damage to you will be minimal. Try to marry someone who is mentally healthy, whose parents are still married and who hopefully hasn’t slept with that many guys. You should fight relatively little and only about t…	/r/MensRights	07/09/21 06:31 AM
1	Hope for the future: 50/50 equal shared parenting rose from 7% in 1990 to 41% in 2008 in one study from Minnesota. We should celebrate and copy wins like this. And mods if you read this maybe Dr. Holstein should be noted in the sidebar or masthead	/r/MensRights	01/09/21 07:32 PM
2	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? Sort of, Still have lots of debt and I will have to go back at some point because the court's decision left the duration of some of the support payments poorly defined. I can pay my bills and my debts slowly but retirement is looking like a pipe dream.	/r/MensRights	25/08/21 05:37 PM
2	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? I’m not a nihilist. People of both sexes want to be understood, sex is a hell of a drug and it comes in different flavours. Some flavours are so good they override all the rest, it not that the others are bad, just not transcendent. Rough on the ego? Perhaps but I don’t think it has to be that big a deal. I know I am not the best that every chick I’ve fucked has had and vice versa, doesn’t mean it sucked.	/r/MensRights	25/08/21 01:31 AM
4	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? You’re not thinking about it the right way. Yes women are definitely benefiting but that is not the main reason this is happening in my opinion. The judges in family court know that traditional marriage is disappearing and they know they are out of a $200,000 - $300,000 job. They are giving themselves job security by making sure the definition of marriage is as broad as possible	/r/MensRights	25/08/21 01:20 AM
7	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? Glad to hear it. I follow politics a little and Gen Z seems to be pretty level headed from what I have read.	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 07:08 PM
7	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? In Canada they treat cohabitation as marriage after three years but the courts are even chipping away at that number from what I have heard. Things like saying I love you, buying gifts and going on trips together could drop the time period down.	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 07:03 PM
12	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? Hindsight is 20/20, but my salary was extremely modest throughout the marriage and my career took of post separation. On the non-compensatory model my ex should not be entitled to my post separation income increases (the seminal and most cited case is Thompson vs. Thompson but the principle has been affirmed in a number of other high profile cases) and the SAAG guidelines themselves are written that non-compensatory support is only intended to provide the recipient with the standard of living du…	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 03:14 PM
25	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? I had one girl texting her boyfriend that they were an "amazing team" right after I had finished fucking her for a few hours in ways that the guy will never know. She even showed me the texts. Hard to see women in the same way after that. She was Venezuelan.	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 03:08 PM
11	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? True had my parents not bailed me out to the tune of about $30,000 that could have been me.	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 03:05 PM
30	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? Prenups are routinely overturned in Canada, in fact one of the lawyers I consulted with bragged about getting several of them voided. I'd say to be safe you want to marry the way the rich do, Your wife should always make in the ballpark of what you make.	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 03:04 PM
6	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? I'm not going to jail.	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 03:02 PM
49	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? Technically that isn't the way the law is written though. The law is meant to support women who have made some sacrifice to help advance the spouses career, the court actually ruled that didn't happen in my case. My ex got what is called non-compensatory support. I could go into great detail but suffice it to say the court had to ignore a LOT of existing case law to give my ex all of that money and I did not have the cash left to appeal.	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 03:01 PM
32	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? I'd say that's decent advice although family court judges are constantly shifting the goalposts on what constitutes a marriage. I'd like to believe falling fertility rates, the death spiral of the institution of marriage and the continuing decline of male enrolment in higher education would get the attention of the powers that be but if anything all of those trends seem to be accelerating.	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 02:58 PM
74	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? I won't ever get married again (or even cohabitate), although every woman I've slept with since the divorce has tried to get me back to the altar. I'm also an older guy and dating around has opened my eyes to how much things have changed for better and worse as far as women go. Sex is much better than it used to be, but I realize now that there isn't much loyalty left. I'll be fine, I've had a good life but I worry about younger guys. The world is heavily stacked against them and they have no al…	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 02:00 PM
13	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? Nope fashion designer	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 01:53 PM
39	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? Easier said than done, I am wiped out financially and at an age where putting everything I own in a backpack and bolting is pretty tough (+Covid). Not saying it won’t happen just it will take time	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 12:56 PM
483	Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces? It's tremendously profitable. I paid all the bills while my wife kept all of her income and directed it to her business. When we divorced she claimed her business was shut down (it isn't) and claimed 100% of the home equity, all of my life savings and approximately 40% of my current income in support payments that leaves out over $150,000 in legal fees between the two of us and we were never rich. She's also free to repartner and run the same scam all over again as the laws on material changes p…	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 12:21 PM
20	U.S. Soldiers Told to Ignore Sexual Abuse of Boys by Afghan Allies This world is shit sometimes	/r/MensRights	21/08/21 11:46 PM
2	Thomas Messein : "I invite all cis men to implode their band of buddy" in "Away from the pack : How to get out of the masculine friendship" He should stick to French, his English is incomprehensible.	/r/MensRights	16/08/21 05:09 PM
14	A common response to males committing suicide 3x times as often as women is “That’s because men choose more violent & lethal methods”, with misandrist implications that it’s a result of men being inherently violent. In reality, studies show that even using the same less-lethal methods, men die more. Why is this bullshit upvoted? If three times as many women were successfully killing them selves as men you can bet blasé comments about “everyone matters” wouldn’t be tolerated. GTFOH with that shit	/r/MensRights	15/08/21 10:59 PM
7	They're coming for this sub now. Men are finally starting to act correctly in the face of all this bullshit. Male enrolment in universities is crashing, the institution of marriage is in a death spiral, men going their own way is breaking into the public consciousness all positive trends for us. Disengage from all rigged systems, if women want to run the world let them. We could all use the vacation.	/r/MensRights	07/08/21 11:18 AM
4	They're coming for this sub now. Let them come. Find other places to talk. The Donald moved to it’s own website as have many other subs that Reddit Censored. If Reddit wants to be a feminist, liberal echo chamber, then let them.	/r/MensRights	07/08/21 10:01 AM
5	Feminists have made such a big deal out of the whole “men’s rights=hate speech” thing that the news is talking about it The Guardian is trash.	/r/MensRights	05/08/21 07:46 PM
10	Why does it seem that men hate women? You have a lot of time on your hands. Maybe you should try doing something productive	/r/MensRights	31/07/21 11:06 AM
7	Why does it seem that men hate women? Why do you ignore that men’s suicide rates are multiples of women’s? Why do you ignore that men live shorter lives than women? Why do you ignore that men are disproportionately homeless? Why do you ask modern men of the thinking of a handful of politicians that most men would have had zero control over historically while ignoring the hateful acts of female rulers towards men? What’s worse not being able to vote or being conscripted to die in some war? Quit trolling	/r/MensRights	31/07/21 10:59 AM
11	Why does it seem that men hate women? Cleopatra wouldn’t let men vote, why do women hate men? Also Catherine the great ordered many men to their deaths in various wars, again why do women hate men?	/r/MensRights	31/07/21 10:47 AM
10	Why does it seem that men hate women? This post is like saying the moon hates the sun and giving half a dozen lunar eclipses as examples of the moon blocking the sun’s light. If men hated women you wouldn’t be posting this random nonsense on the internet. I wonder how many degrees you have to post this stuff	/r/MensRights	31/07/21 10:27 AM
3	what is the "patriarchy" i heard radical feminists (the insane one) say sexism is caused by the patriarchy it sounds like a Illuminati conspiracy theory (not real) but i also heard its real but the feminist don't know what it is so can you guys tell me i want a sane person not a super bias feminist It’s a fairytale feminists tell each other to claim all men have some sort of advantage that they do not	/r/MensRights	24/07/21 11:20 AM
24	Suicide stats - divorced men compared to divorced women https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/acquainted-the-night/201906/divorce-is-risk-factor-suicide-especially-men tl;dr, significantly higher risk for men. Edit: "significantly higher" doesn't really capture how bad it is out there. Nine divorced men take their lives for every one divorced woman. Also please ignore the speculation in the article, every article I've seen try to explain this is so far off the mark it's pathetic. Divorced men kill themselves because they have all their assets stole…	/r/MensRights	06/07/21 06:26 PM
21	That poor bastard. Be careful lads The law says a child over 18 that attends school “full time” gets child support through at least an undergrad degree. Fun fact my daughter will be 20 in two months and has yet to graduate high school is currently enrolled in two high school classes which both the school boards and my insurance company do not consider full time in the slightest and yet the last two judges I have appeared before have awarded full child support. Oh and my kid hasn’t spoken to me in two years. The law up here is an …	/r/MensRights	02/07/21 12:38 AM
64	That poor bastard. Be careful lads Don’t get married. Especially in Canada. Nothing but regrets	/r/MensRights	01/07/21 08:07 PM
4	The situation on reddit is getting worse... PoliticalCompassMemes: "Admins are intervening in the subreddit due to rulebreaking" When they ban WSB I’ll believe any of this shit.	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/21 09:34 AM
6	Man dumps 80,000 pennies on his ex-wife's lawn for hir final child support payment Thought about it many, many times. That day may still come.	/r/MensRights	15/06/21 10:27 AM
32	Man dumps 80,000 pennies on his ex-wife's lawn for hir final child support payment I haven't seen my daughter in two years as well. Let me assure you the courts do not give one single fuck. $1,300 goes straight to her mom anyway.	/r/MensRights	15/06/21 12:44 AM
110	Man dumps 80,000 pennies on his ex-wife's lawn for hir final child support payment Interesting that the daughter gave the money to charity. It’s almost like the ex and kids didn’t need that cash at all. 🤔	/r/MensRights	14/06/21 08:36 PM
3	Is the Culture is Becoming More "Open" to Men's Issues? I think the spin off effects of how broken the family court system is are forcing a lot of people that wouldn't otherwise give a shit to sit up and take notice. Marriage is more or less a dead institution, I know tons of older women that are extremely unhappy that men simply won't commit to any kind of relationship with them other than a friends with benefits set up, and there is a slow burn sort of acknowledgement that men are offing themselves at increasingly higher rates. While logic is in ex…	/r/MensRights	13/06/21 05:14 PM
-5	Just a reminder that men make up ~80% of suicides. And there's a mental health crisis among men. but I guess the 1244+ people that upvoted this "aren't real feminists" Bruh	/r/MensRights	12/06/21 08:09 AM
0	Just a reminder that men make up ~80% of suicides. And there's a mental health crisis among men. but I guess the 1244+ people that upvoted this "aren't real feminists" You know trollx is a joke sub right?	/r/MensRights	12/06/21 08:07 AM
10	Argument with a female friend the other day Taking to women about men’s issues is pointless. Doubly so for female lawyers.	/r/MensRights	11/06/21 11:40 PM
28	[Canada - CBC] Woman Who Claims 'Marriage-Like Relationship' with Buddhist Holy Figure Can Sue for Support (After Only Four In-Person Meetings) God I hate my country. Our legal system is a clown fiesta.	/r/MensRights	19/05/21 10:06 PM
7	Can anyone refute this? Iceland and Norwegian countries are tiny, mostly homogenous populations that don't lend themselves to generalized results in other countries. I also only read a few paragraphs and stopped but she doesn't appear to specifically state what it is about feminism that lends itself to improving male outcomes. Risk taking is inherently a male trait and while you could eliminate it and make men more like women it would have several unintended consequences that most people could figure out with a few mom…	/r/MensRights	11/05/21 02:56 PM
3	Canadian Supreme Court affirms that sex while drunk is rape but only for males The boy should have identified as first nations, he would have got off	/r/MensRights	08/05/21 01:26 AM
1	do men’s issues stem from the patriarchy There is no patriarchy so no.	/r/MensRights	18/03/21 03:22 PM
3	The feminist justification of the male homicide rate disparity I'm old enough to remember when blaming the victim was bad.	/r/MensRights	18/03/21 01:15 PM
1	Guy Ritchie - An Inspiration to us all I mean it's cool that he beat the system, but the true win would be destroying that system. Millionaires passing money around is one thing, but ordinary Joes are being left bankrupt and suicidal because the law is being abused.	/r/MensRights	10/03/21 12:09 PM
1	Dozens of famous men support $2,400 monthly payments for mothers for 'unpaid labor at home' I'm cool with it if spousal support gets nuked as part of the deal.	/r/MensRights	02/03/21 07:10 PM
10	Are You Overpaying For Pussy? I mean I've had some of my best sex for free post divorce thanks to this sub, but my game has always been more around social circles / luck and with the lockdowns dragging on that isn't really a thing for me. But yeah, it should always be cost vs. benefit. The sex I had during my marriage was boring as hell, I'm never going back to that.	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/21 08:20 PM
18	Are You Overpaying For Pussy? Not to mention a divorce in say Canada where I live will promptly transfer all of your past earnings and at least 30-40% of your present and future earnings for years to your ex (and that's before legal fees are accounted for). Pros / semi-pros are definitely the way to go.	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/21 08:13 PM
45	Tennessee bill would grant biological fathers veto power over abortion I’d prefer parental opt-out for the man for the same duration that the woman has to opt for an abortion to this. With parental opt-out meaning that the man will be indemnified against all child support payments but also forgoes all visitation rights.	/r/MensRights	22/02/21 12:46 AM
10	All Masculinity Is Toxic, According to John Stoltenberg. “we need to give up manhood for good if we want to live morally sound and love-filled lives.” They should put Gavin back in charge of Vice, it was more fun when it covered club kids puking in alleyways.	/r/MensRights	18/02/21 01:59 PM
3	Any good book suggestions on how to help men . No sexist feminist books on how to help men please. I want something like the 'palgrave handbook of male psychology and mental health'. Rational male	/r/MensRights	22/01/21 02:35 AM
6	Being proactive Remove the requirement for divorced people to maintain their income at the level it was at the time of the divorce. It’s consistent with the constitutional rights of liberty and would fix most of the the issues with family law in one go. Ex wife won’t make a reasonable settlement offer? Okay, I’m not a CEO anymore I’m a Walmart greeter.	/r/MensRights	03/01/21 03:24 AM
10	Need Advice on Breakup A dog will love you better than a woman ever will.	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/20 06:29 PM
16	Need Advice on Breakup This is really more of an askTRP question and this post will probably get nuked but to make it short, you've got oneitis and you need to get over it. Yes it will suck, probably for a while but it's best to get this out of your system early. In the state you are in she won't take you back and even if she did it won't go well. Woman are a reward for having your own mission, being happy and fit, not a crutch when you are down and angry. If you absolutely think you need a crutch right now, get a dog…	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/20 06:23 PM
1	33 Years of Marriage Wasted Infidelity has zero bearing on divorce proceedings	/r/TheRedPill	10/09/20 03:15 PM
1	questions about this sub from a woman I just added that detail because she worked through the entire marriage so it wasn’t like she was a stay at home mom. She got all that money exclusively based on “need”.	/r/MensRights	24/08/20 09:57 PM
7	questions about this sub from a woman I just had every dime I earned since I started working (age 11) taken from me + 50% of my current earnings + 75% of my retirement savings and I am $100,000 in debt because I married and supported a woman that wanted to be a fashion designer. Oh she also provably lied a half dozen times and defied multiple family court orders with zero consequence. So yeah, I support men, men's rights and think feminism is a ridiculous joke.	/r/MensRights	24/08/20 01:09 PM
29	Tomi Lahren in rant on “men are trash” and “the summer of canceling boys,” expresses frustration at herself and female friends’ inability to secure a suitable male partner Turning 28 is a hell of a drug.	/r/MensRights	06/08/20 03:45 PM
2	Why Your Bar/Club/Party Approaches Don't Lead to Sex If you’re a smart nerd you can simulate being a dumb hawt guy by being drunk and high. I have.	/r/TheRedPill	01/08/20 10:50 AM
195	Adele just got Brendan Frasered. As a guy that just went through this I take no satisfaction in it happening to anyone else, woman or otherwise. It's a disgusting system that needs to be trashed.	/r/MensRights	07/04/20 03:08 PM
2	Getting Divorced in 2020 in Ontario Canada You can write off the support after the fact, but the government has to "approve" the judgment.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/20 09:37 PM
26	Getting Divorced in 2020 in Ontario Canada Same law, cohabitation = marriage after a certain amount of time has passed.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/20 09:10 PM
8	Getting Divorced in 2020 in Ontario Canada Already already over 18, and the judge just ruled it continues as long as she's enrolled (not even completing the work in) a GED program. Also already working	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/20 08:43 PM
25	Getting Divorced in 2020 in Ontario Canada Believe it or not, the two lawyers I worked with considered this a "win" for me, mostly because she got time limited support instead of indefinite. Indefinite is increasingly considered support until someone drops dead.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/20 08:42 PM
4	Getting Divorced in 2020 in Ontario Canada I honestly have no idea. And I'm afraid to go back to court to find out.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/20 08:30 PM
52	Getting Divorced in 2020 in Ontario Canada I'd be very careful putting faith in a prenup. One of the lawyers I consulted with bragged about getting them voided.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/20 08:09 PM
16	Getting Divorced in 2020 in Ontario Canada That's another story. My child is over eighteen, dropped out of school with the help of my ex (they didn't tell me) and started working. Also refuses to speak to me. Child support is supposed to end when a kid is over eighteen and no longer attending school full time. It's also supposed to end if your kid hates you and refuses to speak to you. Judge ruled all my kid has to do is enroll in an online GED equivalency program, not complete all the assignments or courses (completed one course out of …	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/20 08:07 PM
12	Privileged men of the sub (that's all of us), what is the patriarchy bringing you for Christmas? $60,000 legal bill which is still being contested after I "won" at trial by only having to pay $2,400 / month for thirteen years after my ex spent the last three years partying, taking extended vacations to Bali, Honduras and Mexico. Oh, and she also repeatedly quit her jobs, killing her income, lied about me having hookers and blow in my apartment while my daughter was there and claimed I assaulted her with fake photos. My daughter also now hates me after her mother spewed venom in her ear for …	/r/MensRights	23/12/19 08:47 PM
2	According to feminists, rape is whatever you want it to be! and hilarious.	/r/MensRights	25/10/19 05:31 PM
10	Yesterday Child Support emptied my bank accounts. Business, & Clients accounts. Money that didn’t belong to me. Not only garnished from money that wasn’t mine, I’m penalised & charged for a debt I don’t owe, from money that isn’t mine. For a child I’m illegally kept from seeing. I'm considering this as I'm in the middle of an application where judges have repeatedly ignored perjury from my ex-wife and I'm close to bankrupt but I'm older (47) and I would have to go to a country with like $5 or $10k in my pocket. Don't know of any country where that makes sense.	/r/MensRights	02/07/19 01:59 PM
7	Oh, I was wrong about the Tinder thing, it is that bad The school of attraction YouTube channel has a few recent videos up about this. tl;dw Tinder has drastically changed it's algorithm recently heavily weighting distance between potential matches and being online at the same time, so much so that it doesn't make sense to use Tinder outside of peak hours anymore. He also claims they did something to ruin Tinder gold (being a Tinder Gold member actually tanks your matches right now?!?) so he strongly advises not paying until it is fixed. https://www…	/r/TheRedPill	25/06/19 04:50 PM
6	Fathers care about their children $24k? Did this guy even get to court? I racked that amount up at two conferences and a motion	/r/MensRights	12/06/19 12:53 AM
138	The Hard truth about Divorce While simultaneously posting her baller lifestyle all over Instagram. Sorry this tweet is my life right now.	/r/MensRights	02/05/19 09:35 AM
2	Feminist mum hears some hard truths From the thread in /r/murderedbywords from nine days ago.	/r/MensRights	15/02/19 07:19 PM
3	Feminist mum hears some hard truths This is a meme. There's enough real issues for us to discuss without getting caught out gentlemen.	/r/MensRights	15/02/19 06:31 PM
2	"Why me? You could get a better girl than me, but you didn't, why?" Ghosting is a nuclear option, maybe I am losing something in the translation but has anything even changed in the relationship? She won’t see or fuck you? If that’s happened then pull the chute and cut her loose, no contact. If she reaches out but won’t get back in bed, just tell her that her message made you realize she is beneath you and you’re going to start seeing other women.	/r/TheRedPill	01/01/19 07:12 PM
4	GQ announced its 2018 Man of the Year... Why is woman in scare quotes? Is Serena not a woman?	/r/MensRights	16/11/18 07:14 PM
2	Does Anyone Know if this case was ever heard?: Divorced Men Call Alimony Unconstitutional By the way give this podcast a listen for your health issues: https://bengreenfieldfitness.com/podcast/sleep-podcasts/coffee-break-fast/?utm_source=activecampaign&utm_medium=email&utm_term=panda&utm_content=&utm_campaign=bgf-podcast Intermittent fasting and sleep hygiene will save your health. The book is worth a read too if you are a reader. The Circadian Code: Lose Weight, Supercharge Your Energy, and Transform Your Health from Morning to Midnight	/r/MensRights	12/11/18 02:29 AM
6	Does Anyone Know if this case was ever heard?: Divorced Men Call Alimony Unconstitutional I've thought about dumping everything. I've had nothing many many times in my life and I don't fear that, it's the fact that I can't escape the obligation to pay her that kills my soul. If she hadn't already taken half of everything when she left I would buy her out but there's no way I'm going into debt to pay her. I have thought about typing the wrong kind of tweet or grabbing a colleague's ass. The world is unforgiving lately and they can't take what I don't have, but I'm not sure I'm at that…	/r/MensRights	12/11/18 02:22 AM
9	Does Anyone Know if this case was ever heard?: Divorced Men Call Alimony Unconstitutional Going through it right now, just got to the top of my career and the ex is coming for it all. Think about blowing my head off almost every day.	/r/MensRights	12/11/18 01:38 AM
6	Amazing Example of Dread Game at Work Putting it in her face is over the top, since she's already on your snap just add a couple stories later of you out watching football with a chick.	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/18 11:43 PM
7	Red Piller here who's been working in strip clubs for the last 8 years Is the general quality of strippers going down? I live in Toronto and can’t tell if it’s just a local phenomenon.	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/17 08:00 PM