bertrand- Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
28	Had oneitis, realized that I place expectations when meeting new girls and get invested through fantasizing positive scenarios with the girl. How do I manage maladaptive daydreaming?	bertrand-	/r/seduction	15/11/15 05:18 PM
19	How to be authentic and self-confident, when you are still psychologically somewhat fucked-up?	bertrand-	/r/seduction	17/11/15 08:53 PM
6	Could you help me out with this thought-frame? Girls making grave mistakes all the time in dating, but guy does once and it's over.	bertrand-	/r/seduction	15/11/15 06:29 PM
4	Is it realistic to strive for not seeking validation at all, ever? To come from a place where you validate yourself totally?	bertrand-	/r/seduction	16/11/15 11:04 PM
3	How exactly one is being unreactive? Would use some practical help.	bertrand-	/r/seduction	15/11/15 05:28 PM
3	I want more from a girl than just looks. Why I get a feeling that this is not how majority of us guys operate?	bertrand-	/r/seduction	16/11/15 03:06 AM
2	Girls that have self-defeating behaviours, such as self-sabotaging their own relationships. Is there hope for dating such girls?	bertrand-	/r/seduction	30/11/15 10:52 PM
1	Girl flakes three times and still wants to meet again?	bertrand-	/r/seduction	23/11/16 12:39 PM
1	Reasons to ask girl to my place that do not include alchohol?	bertrand-	/r/seduction	11/04/16 04:24 PM
1	Going to travel south-east Asia, starting from Cambodia. How's pick-up at there?	bertrand-	/r/seduction	25/11/15 12:33 AM
1	Doing cold-approach alone in a club setting. How to make it work?	bertrand-	/r/seduction	15/11/15 07:08 PM
0	What the hell I did wrong? Literally blows my mind. Girl leaves after initiating sex.	bertrand-	/r/seduction	29/11/15 12:35 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Girl flakes three times and still wants to meet again? No, I don't pay drinks or meals for girls. You okay there pal?	/r/seduction	23/11/16 04:43 PM
1	How to be authentic and self-confident, when you are still psychologically somewhat fucked-up? Thanks a ton guys, this really helped me. I think I have now the tools for it. Other information that I found were some specific self-esteem devopment models for C-PTSD in a book "Complex PTSD: From surviving to thriving" by Pete Walker. Also looking to add betablockers for medication to deal with being shaky. It is a short-term strategy, but would basically take away all noticable symptoms until I have gone deep enough into the self-esteem work.	/r/seduction	18/11/15 11:08 PM