beserkerbob Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	Blindsided		beserkerbob	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/26 02:20 AM
6	Seeing the Children		beserkerbob	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 12:12 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Seeing the Children She made absurd claims and that's all it took for the court to put a temporary restraining order on me. It took her two hours to make it happen and I've been in limbo for 6 weeks now. The hearing isn't till the end of next week. Completely unjust.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/26 12:13 AM
1	Seeing the Children Nope. Only baseless accusations in the first order, completely out of nowhere. It's crazy that she can do that and I lose everything plus get threatened with jail for having grandma drop off cookies for the girls (an actual thing that happened because I added "mama" in addition to the kids names.)	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 03:27 PM
1	Seeing the Children I appreciate the support. She really could have gone the amicable route that won't cost all the money in attorney's fees, but she'd really bad at decision making.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 01:42 PM
1	Seeing the Children Patients isn't my area of expertise. My lawyer is annoyed with me trying to speed things up.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 12:59 PM
2	Seeing the Children Even though there's never been any or even the threat of violence, my attorney says that the wife can just claim I hurt her and I'm headed straight to jail. She already made absurd claims in the RO. 100% chance that she'll do it again.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 12:48 PM
2	Seeing the Children There's a restraining order, but if she doesn't finalize an agreement, it's going to get lifted in a week and I will go home. To be smart, I'll bring a witness or two so she can't claim that I hurt her.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 12:29 PM
1	Blindsided I'm not even sure how to do that. I have no cards. The truth seems to be basically worthless.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 01:20 AM
1	Blindsided Appreciated. I quit drinking a couple of days after I found out and I've been going to the gym daily. I want this all over as fast as possible. RIP the bandaid off and get on with a new stable reality. Also, my attorney kinda sucks. I hate the idea of starting over with another, but I think I might need to do that.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 01:17 AM
1	If the wife initiates the divorce, why should we tell the kids it was mutual? The circumstances have to matter right? The wife initiated the divorce. I did nothing to warrant it. We weren't drifting apart (at least outside of her mind.) I would work on fixing things right now if she'd let me. I will tell the kids that. I'll also tell them to love and respect their mother.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/26 02:53 AM