bewt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	[FR]Threw a house party with my friend, learned a lot about social value and fun. Long post. I added bullets!	Field Report	bewt	/r/seduction	28/01/13 06:04 AM
4	Be the fun, but how?		bewt	/r/seduction	01/09/12 10:35 PM
0	Rejection Therapy: A Hundred Days of 'No' (X-Post r/truereddit)		bewt	/r/seduction	11/01/13 04:39 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	My biggest problem with this sub and seduction advice in general is that people have this "one size fits all" mentality. And that size is a 00.	/r/seduction	19/08/16 02:36 PM
0	Is college really better than high school in the "female" department? I talked to more ghouls in highschool than I do in college. YMMV	/r/seduction	17/06/16 07:44 AM
7	How to have fun at a party with people you don't know? There is nothing wrong with going around and introducing yourself to people. Guys and Girls. Everyone talks to everyone at a party. It's normal. The best way to find a friend is to be one.	/r/seduction	01/11/15 08:06 AM
1	Where do you guys "escalate" when parents are home? Social protocol dictates that going beyond casual kisses should be done behind closed doors. If you're not comfortable with having a girl around your parents, I don't know what to tell you. Escalate anyway. There isn't really a trick other than doing what feels natural.	/r/seduction	30/08/15 05:21 AM
3	Where do you guys "escalate" when parents are home? Yes.	/r/seduction	30/08/15 03:20 AM
8	Where do you guys "escalate" when parents are home? In their bed.	/r/seduction	29/08/15 09:21 PM
1	Just talk to the girl! People with ADHD have done this for their whole lives. I am a more social when I'm on amphetamines.	/r/seduction	25/04/15 06:33 AM
9	Just talk to the girl! "So do you like memes?"	/r/seduction	25/04/15 12:53 AM
7	The importance of the first kiss [infographic] Don't worry man. It'll be great!	/r/seduction	12/02/13 08:12 PM
7	Games to Play on a First Date? Maybe with some Kino? Ask her to tell you 3 things, one has to be a lie, and two are true.	/r/seduction	02/02/13 08:29 AM
1	Have any of you guys "given up" after years and years of trying to improve? I'm very close to. LOOK AT YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR AND GIVE ME 10 THINGS THAT YOU LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF. QUIT BEING A (SELF)HATER.	/r/seduction	01/02/13 11:13 PM
1	[FR]The first year of the rest of my life with pickup No offense, but why are you asking in Seduction? This is more of a question for AskMen or Relationships. As far as wanting to be less needy, just stop thinking about her all the time. Letters are good for this because they limit contact. Focus on yourself and your own improvement. Im not trying to be cynical but most long distance relationships do not work. Again, I do not know your situation, but she's probably going to cut it off when she gets back to you. Unless you can ascertain that she's t…	/r/seduction	30/01/13 04:04 PM
1	[FR]The first year of the rest of my life with pickup Good job at removing yourself from the friend zone. It's best to just tell the girl how you feel and move on. It's not a friendship if you love her and she believes you're just her friend. Also, for future references, talk to girls over the phone, or in person. Words aren't attractive (With the exception of letters, bitches love letters). So you were dating someone whilst she was out of the country? That's not dating. I'm going to be a bit of a dick here. Fuck that shit. It's not helping you to …	/r/seduction	28/01/13 06:11 AM
1	How does one get over shyness and uncertainty ? I bet that if you're talking about something that you enjoy you're enthusiastic and entertaining. You don't know what to say because you have this concept that conversations with attractive women are different than normal conversations. They aren't. Talk about what ever is relevant. Better yet, talk about what you want to talk about. Nothing is more attractive than a man who talks about what he wants to talk about. You're probably intelligent and have a lot of interesting things that you enjoy. …	/r/seduction	09/12/12 05:52 AM
2	A winning strategy that I also employ. It's a blessing and a curse	/r/seduction	27/11/12 06:30 PM
6	A winning strategy that I also employ. As a fellow fellow with a jew fro. Get a hair cut.	/r/seduction	27/11/12 04:53 PM
1	Best way to get rid of a stage 5 clinger? Cling wrap her to something. Creepy and punny. Should work, or escalate into some sort of BDSM dream of her's and make the situation worse.	/r/seduction	01/09/12 11:05 PM
11	Has anyone here tried gaming for the first time and found out that they were fucking amazing at it? Open mouth tongue kisses for men, and violent finger fucking for women.	/r/seduction	01/09/12 10:02 PM
1	[FR] Just do it! If I do say so myself.	/r/seduction	30/08/12 02:01 AM
1	[FR] Just do it! Short hair, glasses, tight jeans and a plain v-neck shirt. This is how I dress.	/r/seduction	29/08/12 08:57 PM
0	Hey, I'm going into my freshman year of college I need some advice. Paragraphs. Please. She's not that interested in you. If she was, she wouldn't have pulled away, and she would have been warmer to you. There were times when she seemed into me and other times when she was bored with me. It sounds like you need to fill in those boring gaps with either wit or charm. Initiate the touching. Provoke her. There's no sense in being timid. She's just a girl and there will be others. Your loggerhea indicates a severe case of oneitis. She sees this; girls are usually inn…	/r/seduction	29/08/12 08:29 PM
1	I've found myself feeling a lot more confident - and I have this community to thank for it. I have yet to figure out how to turn the analysis off. It gets out of hand. I can be having a conversation and predict where it will end up to the point where I get disinterested.	/r/seduction	29/08/12 08:15 PM
1	Is it too late for me? Nope.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 09:46 PM
1	5 things I would have told myself 3 years ago. Hell yeah.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 07:45 PM
2	Whenever I see attractive girls in public, I'm afraid to make eye contact or smile or anything. At the moment, it feels uncomfortable and don't want her to think "why are you looking at me"? How do I stop pussying out? I should be smiling at them, right? Wait until they get closer. Say hello. Etc. If neither side breaks, you probably want to say something. Ask where she's headed, etc.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 01:56 PM
2	Whenever I see attractive girls in public, I'm afraid to make eye contact or smile or anything. At the moment, it feels uncomfortable and don't want her to think "why are you looking at me"? How do I stop pussying out? I should be smiling at them, right? I've done contacts before. I got lazy with them, and never ordered more. Plus I dig my raybans. It's easy for me to pull off that intellectual intriguing look, but sometimes they don't lend themselves to direct confidence. I think it's time for another exam. I shall definitely experiment.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 03:36 AM
6	Whenever I see attractive girls in public, I'm afraid to make eye contact or smile or anything. At the moment, it feels uncomfortable and don't want her to think "why are you looking at me"? How do I stop pussying out? I should be smiling at them, right? It's hard to determine when you're staring or not. If it gets awkward, you're probably staring. You can break, but make sure to break to something that isn't the ground or your hands. HB9s are different. Don't lock your eyes away. That shows that you are intimidated--body language is key. You aim to show them that you're interested but indifferent. I think I read your comment wrong. I like what you are doing with her. You're denying her attention, that sets you apart and she immediately seeks yo…	/r/seduction	28/08/12 03:32 AM
2	Whenever I see attractive girls in public, I'm afraid to make eye contact or smile or anything. At the moment, it feels uncomfortable and don't want her to think "why are you looking at me"? How do I stop pussying out? I should be smiling at them, right? I realized that what I do can be turned into game. I've never really explained it in detail; this actually helps me understand myself better. I might start keeping a tally.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 03:07 AM
2	Whenever I see attractive girls in public, I'm afraid to make eye contact or smile or anything. At the moment, it feels uncomfortable and don't want her to think "why are you looking at me"? How do I stop pussying out? I should be smiling at them, right? Wanna have a staring contest? I actually wear glasses (Rx lenses). I wonder if it's a handicap or not. On one level, I have less periphial vision, so I'm usually directly facing girls I see, which implies interest. On the other, it impedes girls directly looking at me, obscuring my eyes.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 03:03 AM
50	Whenever I see attractive girls in public, I'm afraid to make eye contact or smile or anything. At the moment, it feels uncomfortable and don't want her to think "why are you looking at me"? How do I stop pussying out? I should be smiling at them, right? Eye contact is the first step. But don't stare. Smile. But not like a mad man. An attractive girl wants you to look at her; she's validated by that. But eye contact separates the wheat from the chaff. You're not chaff. You're wheat. Eyes are a crucial part of body language. Think about it, you can tell a lot about a person just by the way they look at you. Look at actors and actresses; I find that the best can communicate so much using only their eyes. The smile is secondary to happy and confide…	/r/seduction	28/08/12 01:53 AM