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| 1 | 26 and feeling weird. Is my situation typical?Just from this reply, and I know this will sound clique, I just organized with an acquaintance to go out this weekend to some bars and clubs. You're right dude, if I cant be comfortable on my own then I am setting myself up for failure. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Feeling very doomer-ish and know I need to force myself to socialize to get out of this rut but I feel so depressed and have nobody to go out with and can't decide how to deal with it?Yeah man I don't know where to begin. I can talk to people and do whatever without feeling awkward and all that, but nothing really meaningful is in my life when it comes to human connections. I'm considering making a Tinder and just looking for groups to go hang out with, even other dudes who are looking to go to bars and shit. It's strange to consider cause my inner voice says shit like bro wtf why would you do that it is cringey as fuck but then I feel like how the fuck else can I at least tr… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Feeling very doomer-ish and know I need to force myself to socialize to get out of this rut but I feel so depressed and have nobody to go out with and can't decide how to deal with it?I appreciate the feedback dude. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Plate posted a picture of her and another guy kissingIgnore. If you're getting your dick wet and that is your goal then let it be. If you bring it up to her you are going to look attached and scare her away. Ultimately you want sex from her. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?At the end of the day, when all is said and done, unless you can offer more resources than her current guy you ain't shit. I've had a few girls lightly and then moderately pursue me and when I eventually drop the info that I am still at home and studying full time they hit the road jack and never come back. The older I get the more I feel that those type of women aren't worth my time anyway. We are the prize is what I remind myself of and yet sometimes I feel shitty I still know I am worth more … | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | "You're up early. Why don't you go back to bed?" says my mom anytime I am awake before 10am. Why does she do this?Found the 17 year old autist. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | I am at a healthy weight, exercise daily, eat well and avoid cigarettes/alcohol yet my blood pressure is always high. I am beginning to suspect chronic stress and don't know what to do about it?Well all I ever think as it is being taken is "Be low, be low, be low" and I literally feel myself getting amped up as if I am about to lift. I will investigate this condition on YouTube thank you. And how does one request getting full bloodwork? do I just ask a GP to organize it, like I thought you need to be referred to a specialist to get that underway. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 10:51 AM |
| 1 | I am at a healthy weight, exercise daily, eat well and avoid cigarettes/alcohol yet my blood pressure is always high. I am beginning to suspect chronic stress and don't know what to do about it?Red meat, beans, cabbage, carrot, tomato, cheeses, eggs, water, nuts, fish, just healthy caveman sort of diet. Yes I will fuck coffee off, it has only been a cup in the morning and a cup at night. Exercise is Mon to Fri, always starting with 20 minutes moderate cardio and then weights with whatever body part it is that day. I am 25. I asked the doc what else I should do and he just said monitor it and come back if it gets above 170/90 which I thought was pretty unethical to hear. I told him I ha… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 10:46 AM |
| 1 | As my awareness of TRP increases, paired with my physique bordering on ripped, it feels like life is entering easy mode. Is this all it takes to be in that top percent?What do you think it is that causes a lot of people to just be complacent in pretty much doing the absolute minimum throughout life? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | As my awareness of TRP increases, paired with my physique bordering on ripped, it feels like life is entering easy mode. Is this all it takes to be in that top percent?You and everyone who upvoted your comment missed the point and probably didn't read my post. I clearly stated I feel I am average, but with a few things I do on-going that help me, that are very easy to do. The point was to start a larger discussion on why some people have choices laid out in front of them that would definitely help them become more who they want to be, yet they soberly and clear mindedly reject it all and continue being frustrated. This sort of stuff is interesting to me. Just … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Woman I was introduced to by a mutual friend will not take a hint and repeatedly tries getting attention from me. What should I do?You probably would you scumbag. I don't want to fuck a married woman ffs. I mean not the one going to the same gym. You know. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Woman I was introduced to by a mutual friend will not take a hint and repeatedly tries getting attention from me. What should I do?From my current perspective even if I straight up told her to fuck off she'd probably giggle and go on to ask me what I got up to on the weekend and then give me some straight leg deadlifts in my face as I am trying to watch my deadlift form. Some people can blow this out of proportion and attempt to make me look like I have the issues or that I am thinking too much into things or that I can manipulate her to increase my SMV or something but truth is I just want to fucking switch off and lift no… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Whenever I attempt to bulk and lift heavy on a new routine I get to day 3-5 and go back to cutting because my inner voice tells me negative things. Is this still beta thinking trying to control me?I just feel like I have been spinning my wheels for the last 3 years and I want to say fuck it and just see how much muscle I can gain and how strong I can become. Say for example go all in for 12 months and see what the outcome is no matter what. Just a new goal. But I keep having resistance cause I think about what women like and if I gain some belly and chest/side fat (maybe even more than I planned to) that I will be seen as lesser In their eyes, like sexually speaking. I cringe as I type th… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?bro if a girl treated me even 25% as bad as she treats him I'd next her ass. i don't want some tattooed, chain smoking feminist thot talkin shit about me all cause i tried saving a blind beta that she owns. this is my situation cause on one hand i think of all this stuff about values and respect are really important and that i completely need to at least TRY and save this dude, but then i have that other voice sayin to me not to get involved cause the dude is already to far gone and needs to go … | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?well so be it. that's the sort of shit i cant control. i never made a pass at her and she has never made a pass at me so that says a lot right there. plus i once told her in front of a group that i didn't fancy her type when she pressured me to reply to "do you find me attractive" lmao. insecure much. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?Well i am reaching the point where it's either he will listen and slowly begin to get happier and get his balls back and maybe even leave the bitch or at least put her in fkn line for once, or i just decide not to intervene due to my own personal reasons and a pro/con list and just wait for him to figure it out through trial and error (like most of us do) cause fuck man, as i said below somewhere it feels kind of like he could take it badly in his current state and go tell all to her thus having… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?it is fucked though, I feel like he will side with her and his new found beta intuition and just write me off as some kind of fantasy destroyer and then tell his gf who will spread shit about me. Like his gf is pretty nasty man and I don't want to get into some sort of he said she said shit. also I don't think being a coward is the default outcome for not acting, like there are heaps of things to consider. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?dude I don't want to fuck his gf | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?yeah we (him his gf and me) all have the same base social circle, and as a whole all get along for the most part. y? | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?I have not directly tried to confront him about his beta-ness or his gf cheating and how he needs to get some self respect and leave the bitch, cause I don't feel comfortable dude it is so awkward. Like I know 2 other guys in our friend circle have said to him in passing like "dude you never hang anymore" and "bro she cheated on you, why you still here?" and he just becomes real defensive and sort of shrugs it off and it makes it more awkward. Like one on one he is still a real good friend but a… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?man you make a good point. he has given value in the past but since his gf got his balls I really have to struggle to get him to hang out with just the bros so that isn't a good sign and he is clearly whipped and under her command tbh. we've hung out probably 300 times though so it fucking hurts I don't want to pry but I don't know if he would even listen to me. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?I never told him directly that I knew his girl cheated but she fucked a guy from her campus when he was away for work and everyone found out man like everyone yet they stayed together lol. I wouldn't bring it up now it was 1.5yrs ago and it'd feel out of line, like I don't want to dr phil him. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?Yeah man she changes the dynamics at parties and he goes from chill and fun to reserved and in what I call damage control. Plus she is pretty rude to me most times too. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Possible flex. But my life is going really good & I am on my purpose. Yet I can't seem to squash these inner voices telling me I ain't shit?What do you mean? I get it but I don't.. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Possible flex. But my life is going really good & I am on my purpose. Yet I can't seem to squash these inner voices telling me I ain't shit?Ending up 40 and full of regrets. I know that sounds like a dear diary entry but I don't know how else to describe it. I think 5-10yrs ahead a lot of the time and struggle living for the day/week. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Girl at my gym showed me strong IOI's so I approached and she was mirin me hard but when I said "I'm busy for the next month, take my number" she froze and hit me with the BF line. TF?She wanted to swallow my load on her knees. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 04:33 AM |
| 1 | I'm having a hard time being my true masculine self. I need some advice from people with this shit figured out. My question is kind of specific but any advice is appreciated!This isn't about SMV dude. I don't care where this puts me on that scale. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Girls who keep hitting you up for sex, but appear to be not much into it?I ain't dropping no easy pussy. I find older women, like late 20's to mid 30's to be fucking F I R E in the bedroom, at least that has been my experience so far. I might make a Tinder gold and only search for milfs outside my area. See this is my dick talking now. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Girls who keep hitting you up for sex, but appear to be not much into it?Both of the girls in my story initially put up lots of LMR at first contact, as well as tried to do the whole hard to get/chase me thing and yeah it is quite a letdown cause I was expecting some freaky sex but just got this starfish shit. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 06:57 AM |
| 1 | I have a unique personality (as we all do) but since coming out of a 3 month monk mode I find myself over-analyzing and wanting to remain reserved and stoic at all times instead of being who I really am. How can I break the chains? (or should I keep doing the mysterious thing)What do you look for in a guy? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 08:17 AM |
| 1 | I have a unique personality (as we all do) but since coming out of a 3 month monk mode I find myself over-analyzing and wanting to remain reserved and stoic at all times instead of being who I really am. How can I break the chains? (or should I keep doing the mysterious thing)Your comment history shows that you feel this sub is full of toxic masculinity. Can you explain in more detail how that is so. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How many calories to you cut on?I used to enjoy the feeling of being hungry as I knew it meant I was burning fat but I go crazy after a few days of deficit. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | How many calories to you cut on?I want to be anonymous. The fat I do have left is chest, stomach and sides. Everywhere else Is fairly tight. In the morning I have outlines abs but after a few meals I look bloated. say 15.5% bf for correction. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing well for my age/situation? I have no friends and nobody to bounce shit off of.go fuck urself. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing well for my age/situation? I have no friends and nobody to bounce shit off of.My 3 guy friends all got GF's and stopped putting in effort. It's awkward and forced to make close friends at 25. I don't emit much warmth and generally keep to myself. Introvert. Many guys have this problem. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Watching reruns of sitcoms is almost unbearable after taking TRP. Has anyone else noticed this?Yeah dude. In my country Australia there is this show called Home & Away that consists of a dozen or so young girls and young guys who live in this fictional town and go through breakups and maturity. It's so far from reality. The way they portray guys chasing, and talking to women to impress them makes my skin shiver with cringe. Then you got the "oldies" of the town who chime in at non ideal times to share wisdom to the "young ones" by encouraging the guys to just keep trying with her because … | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 05:37 AM |
| 1 | 10th day on IF (20:4) and I have zero appetite?Well 10 days ago I was 89.0 and today I was 86.5, which is 5.5lbs. I know that is technically too much to lose in 10 days but I feel better and look better and my energy is stable as is my libido. So I guess I just had a lot of water weight to flush out that finally put me at my "actual" weight?. And I do not eat keto. I have been eating 1600 calories a day every day now and this includes 150g of carbs. I do plan on having a re-feed once a week or once a fortnight with double the amount of calor… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 05:27 AM |
| 1 | 10th day on IF (20:4) and I have zero appetite?If I wander off from IF and "relax" with a pizza at some random time I am FUCKED. Like my body feels heavy and knees weak spaghetti and so on. Brain fog, lethargy. At this point I don't know if it is even worth cheating or going back to say 4 meals a day. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to cut those final 10lbs of weight?I'm already doing 18hrs fasted a day man, I only eat between 12pm and 6pm. And during the fasted state I only drink water, black coffee and sugar free soda if I am craving something sweet. or do you literally mean fast for a few days like 24hrs...48hrs and so on without food? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to cut those final 10lbs of weight?I never train on Sundays so possibly. I fast anyway atm and have been doing so for the last 6 weeks. Only eating between 12 mid day and 6pm. it works really well. What exactly would a 1 day a week 24hr fast do? I understand asking that can open a can of worms but anyway.. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to cut those final 10lbs of weight?How much typically is a re-feed? like calorie wise. My bodyfat is estimated to be hovering around 15%, but I'd be confident in saying about 14.5% going off various pics/charts I see online. I'm 86kg 5 foot 7 and the only fat I have to go is sides, chest and abdominal. Mind you though it is holding on for dear fucken life at this point. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to cut those final 10lbs of weight?I have a lot of muscle. Have been lifting for 10yrs, mainly powerlifting. I currently weigh 86kg yes, but tbh I wouldn't be jacked unless I was around 76kg. So I definitely have fat to lose. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to cut those final 10lbs of weight?I am not overly fussed about losing some muscle. But I did not know that it was going to be so fucking difficult to enter the very lean / veins popping level of physiques. I am getting 120g of protein a day and the rest is fat and carbs. I generally feel fulfilled and still have libido and strength in the gym. I know some people swear by 1g protein per lb for example. But I just don't think it will do anything more for me. I had a re-feed last night, instead of 1700 calories I had 3000, so extra… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to cut those final 10lbs of weight?Fuck. I want it bad man, I am so tired of maintaining, I want to stand out even more. What's your height and current weight? and how long did you do 1400 for until you achieved your goal? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | I can’t understand thisHe sounds like someone I want to be friends with. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How can I make a good impression on day 1 of class?I am pretty dull tbh. I need to start playing guitar more. I used to read every night as well before bed. Yeah your right. Dull is the right word. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | In this day and age, why are there still men who are marrying women?I know of a guy who is marrying a red flag. She drinks heavily (can't just have a few), has multiple silly/spur of the moment tattoos, swears frequently be it drunk or sober, is a proud feminist type, dominant personality, grinds on other guys when drunk and in direct view of her partner, snorts coke. Why is he still marrying her? As far as I can tell he is one of the most insecure people I've ever known, and in his mind the thought of being alone would probably drive him to insanity. That and h… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl at party asked me a question in front of the group, my answer seemed to at first surprise them, but as the night went on I became the go-to guy. TF?Nah I get you. And I agree. I felt sort of depleted at nights end because every one of the girls ended up in bed with the guy they came with or got a Taxi home to their guys house. But for the bulk of the party, say the middle 4hrs, I was their boy toy. Again, I feel cringe as fuck saying shit like that but it's just how it felt lol. Depleted is the right word, not depressed or sad or like incel rage rearghhh! why I no gf!! sort of shit. I had a good time and the attention made me feel good abou… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Girl at party asked me a question in front of the group, my answer seemed to at first surprise them, but as the night went on I became the go-to guy. TF?My question was is it really this easy & what was the initial reaction and ignoring for when they all eventually did a 180 anyway? I was monk mode for 5 months before this event and I thought I'd been all up in my head and that I'd have a "meh" sort of night but then this happens. I was going to post on thanktrp but honestly that place is dead by the looks of it. And I did get carried away with my story yeah I agree. I always feel awkward typing out accomplishments like this. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Would joining a boxing gym put me at a significant disadvantage in a IRL fight compared to taking BBJJ?I agree completely. Will check links now. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Would joining a boxing gym put me at a significant disadvantage in a IRL fight compared to taking BBJJ?This is how I feel about it. I want to ability to throw a barrage of hard punches and overwhelm them immediately. I also wouldn't assume that the average guy would do any sort of mma or such, and even if they did they are usually the ones who are not looking for trouble.. correct me if I'm wrong. Like I think who is it I am "preparing" for exactly? If I take say 6 months of consistent boxing classes and learn how to throw down for above average amounts of time, take hits, throw different combina… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | What girl almost made you revert back to the old you, even after swallowing the red pill for quite some time?? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Question about getting leaner (short).Have you had much success with IF? | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Question about getting leaner (short).What do you mean? If I eat around 1900 calories I don't lose or gain, and that's including daily exercise. If I drop to 1800-1700 I generally go to bed slightly hungry and still have energy in the gym yet no visible changes. It seems I may need to drop another 150-250 calories from my total intake aiming more towards say 1600 calories instead. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Question about getting leaner (short).I had my bf taken by a pt at my gym 2 weeks ago and it measured 12.6% and he used the body calipers to measure skin folds and then weighed me and did my height which is 167cm. I've also checked out bodyfat pictures and I feel I sit around 12-13 percent. More so towards 12 in the mornings though. Might have to go on that starvation diet man. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 05:03 AM |
| 1 | What was your first real world experience that really made you swallow the pill?I'm not proud of this. But when I was 18 (25 now) I went to a nightclub and had about 20 minutes until my friends arrived. I bought a drink and went outside to this smoking area. I didn't smoke but you could still be out there for fresh air because the area was huge. Anyway this 10/10 girl comes over and asks for a cigarette, to which I reply I don't actually smoke and was just waiting for friends. She spat on my face and called me a cunt so I went to security with a thick piece of throat grease… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Not sure how else to ask this without sounding like a douche canoe. But anyone else find it hilariously obvious when other guys are intimidated by the fact you have an impressive physique and they don't?This is where I am at. I can have a good time with these guys in general, and they aren't losers and all work and have hobbies and shit. But this ongoing little thing is grinding me down. Like as if I can't fully respect them or trust them yet cause it's still some high school bs going on from their perspective. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 08:02 AM |
| 1 | anyone wanna talk?200 :O Glad you got a hit. Fuck. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 11:49 PM |
| 1 | anyone wanna talk?Your mission is very wholesome. And I have similar goals with wanting to get abs. Fucking ssllooww but getting there. And yeah bro I have full time studies beginning in a few months and a job lined up at the end of it. So in terms of mission, that is my next one and for the most part I am looking forward to being busy and social again, like social with random people and shit. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | anyone wanna talk?If I wasn't on mobile I'd reply at length. In short your words make a fuck tonne of sense to me and I am sure others too. I feel like I am questioning meaning more than usual, that's what it feels like. I'm no Alan watts so won't go on some rant cause I can't articulate very well. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | anyone wanna talk?I'm 25 matey. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | anyone wanna talk?Nah man no abuse of drugs, and I don't have any social media. My mission is next to study full time for six months and I have a job lined up at the end, I am genuinely keen and looking forward to it. But that's not kicking off for two months time so I have a lot of time off atm. I just finished a job I was doing full time at a warehouse as well, I was loading trucks five days a week for like two yrs but man tbh my mind and body need a Fkn break hey, I'm currently unemployed but still social and … | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | anyone wanna talk?It's just that. Like I know this will pass but being in the thick of it right now in present times is such an awkward feeling. It's just this complete removal of care from a lot of things. Yeh hope your right dude, over in 10 days would be nice. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 02:37 PM |
| 1 | anyone wanna talk?I will search it now. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Currently drinking alone, listening to nostalgic music and reflecting on the substantial amount of opportunities I've fucked up with women and career. What are you currently doing?Yeah man for sure. I just felt like I needed a bit of a release. Got lots of good shit planned for the next year. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 11:28 AM |
| 1 | When would you draw the line in regards to putting in effort to keep a friendship going?Someone you've known for 9yrs but has put in fuck all effort over a 12 month period even though you've put yourself out there multiple times. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | I just remembered this cringe gem from when I was 17 (25 now). What are some of your past cringes?LMAO. Hey, could have been worse. And yeah, a few days ago a cashier was about to scan the 3 or so items I was buying and I instinctively said "Yeah good" because I assumed she said "how are you" or some routine thing that people ask in a polite way, nope, she didn't say anything, I just said it with no prompt. Brb switching supermarkets. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Give it to me straight, just how hungry do you need to be on a cut if you're already under 15%?PAL? And I do 5 training sessions a week, 1.5hr each. I have followed this calorie intake for 4 weeks now with no cheating. Again, I do go to bed hungry. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Girls at gym who just don't give a fuck and wear practically nothing and position themselves directly in front of guys are beginning to make me feel disgusted. Yes I boner, but I just think like "so..is that ALL you have to offer or?". Am I gay?Yeah dude I agree. I made an adjustment to my post. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Depressed guy, feeling beyond self-disciplined help. Feeling like I don't matter at all and will never have a path forward.You see I am trying to be calculated and realistic but that nihilistic moping around fuck this why bother shit comes back in far too often and I don't know how to shut it off anymore. The only thing I can think of is to join the army but that makes me have those intrusive " you can't do that pussy" shit come to my head. man I am all fucked up tbh. I want to become more brave and just say fuck it let's give it a go and see what happens. I deleted social media recently as well so I hope that helps… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/18 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Depressed guy, feeling beyond self-disciplined help. Feeling like I don't matter at all and will never have a path forward.Can phones before bed really fuck you up that much? honestly dude I check reddit every night for like 2 hours and then sleep for maybe 7 hours but never feel refreshed. I eat well and get some sun when it isn't raining so that's good but fuck I know I am a fucking idiot with the phone before bed shit and I need to fix it but it is so hard I have always done it. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/18 07:35 AM |
| 1 | unemployed, depressed, no goals, sort of want to not be alive anymore. i feel it i am at step 1. fuck.I added a question thanks for pointing that out. and I feel that I am at step one and that it is nowhere but up, I just need to realize maybe that steps up don't just have to be a new job or some overnight success, like it could be starting with setting a stable routine to begin with and not waking up at mid day. like I feel disappointed in myself for letting my life get to this point but also strangely (and with difficultly accepting) proud for at least trying lots of things. i do have ways to … | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 07:00 AM |
| 1 | New to a workplace where It's all women. I'm still learning and they all give me orders and talk to me in this dumbed-down tone. It frustrates me but I need to learn. What do?All supervisors are female and I have had nothing but support from them, and I just be very friendly and appreciative of everyone regardless of the tone in which they help me. I am trying to develop this mindset of "I turn up, I clock on, I do the work, I clock off, I go home, I get paid, everything else is just a test of my patience and frame" I don't understand how people just say find a new job, like I didn't think of it how you put it here, how these people are on my level so to speak and un… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 08:56 AM |
| 1 | New to a workplace where It's all women. I'm still learning and they all give me orders and talk to me in this dumbed-down tone. It frustrates me but I need to learn. What do?The supervisor is nice though, she's much older and really a no bullshit sort of person. Like everyone does do their job at the end of the day but you're right. What if I just think solely of the money. Like treat the coworkers as "people who are difficult but useful and have information I need/may need" so just get in get out go home get paid repeat. ? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:09 AM |
| 1 | New to a workplace where It's all women. I'm still learning and they all give me orders and talk to me in this dumbed-down tone. It frustrates me but I need to learn. What do?It's 30-40 hrs a week though, and good hourly rate like I don't know if I would be fucking myself over tbh. I was unemployed for a few months prior.. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:07 AM |
| 1 | 24 hours without caffeine. Does this get easier?So do you still drink coffee now? if so how many cups.. See I'm not sure if caffeine is making me anxious or if I am just not realizing how much I am having. I've read of some people being jittery and anxious after 2 cups and then people who work and have 6 cups a day with zero negative effects. Can't seem to figure out what I want to do tbh. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 06:02 AM |
| 1 | What is high functioning depression and what can I look for in myself to grade whether I have it or not?Yeah that's me for the last year. I deleted my social media 6 weeks ago which I hope makes some difference in time, I don't notice anything at the moment. Do you still have problems comparing yourself to others? You wrote it like you may have overcome it or at least got a better handle on it. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?Fuck man that must have been a significant AWALT situation looking back. Like to see your mom decide not to work cause she has this free magical money pouring in from the sky instead. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?I've got a friend who's SO "told him" they are getting married. Next minute they are openly speaking of a 200 guest all expenses paid for 35k wedding in 6 months time and I'm over here thinking 'But you have 2 cars to pay off and a college debt?' lmao. The whole I love you so much so I want the government to get involved thing is so absurd and weird to me. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?70 percent. Dude how do you cope, honestly? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Any of you horny dirty dogs ever used one of those magical prostate massage devices before? How did it go?Is it best to buy a vibrating one or just a manual one? I'm not exactly excited to shove stuff up my ass but the stories I've read of people having outer body orgasms as a result makes me want to try it. Can you actually increase stamina by using one? | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Realizing I've been eating keto for 4 days, starting to notice the "flu" symptoms which I hear eventually pass. Is it worth to keep going?This is good to hear. What benefits did you gain and what was difficult for you through those early stages? | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Realizing I've been eating keto for 4 days, starting to notice the "flu" symptoms which I hear eventually pass. Is it worth to keep going?Acidic? Tbh I don't know what you mean can you explain. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Older guy at my gym frequently shares the shortcomings and problems about his life to me. I feel sympathetic but I also don't want his emotional fuck-pie put on me, am I right for feeling this way?I'm afraid that if I suggest seeing a professional he will be like "But why, I have you? aren't we friends.." kind of situation. Which makes me sick with awkwardness to think about. Like as some people have said I need to cold shoulder him and focus on my workout and be firm but honest if he doesn't let up with saying something by "Look, I'm here to exercise not to talk, I don't dislike you but I really do want to focus on my workout more" which I would hope would be enough. There's no way I can… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Hey boys. I'm having a solid bout of depression at the moment. What are some specific threads I should read in order to stay focused & not fall deeper in?Definitely. I'm not into popping pills if I can help it. Other people have suggested therapy as a start, that's if things don't get better. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I am quite surprised by the reaction of my buddy's GF and her 3 friends in relation to a hypothetical scenario. This is the type of shit that I can't wrap my melon around. Are men not worth anything?I did have a gut feeling yeah. Not good or bad really, just like oh boy here we go. I'm still training myself to avoid playing their game I guess. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | I am quite surprised by the reaction of my buddy's GF and her 3 friends in relation to a hypothetical scenario. This is the type of shit that I can't wrap my melon around. Are men not worth anything?I didn't realize it went this deep. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | I am quite surprised by the reaction of my buddy's GF and her 3 friends in relation to a hypothetical scenario. This is the type of shit that I can't wrap my melon around. Are men not worth anything?I didn't really know what to do other than go back outside tbh. I had no idea any of these girls thought this way. Like I've had a lot of conversations with them in the past and nothing ever showed up as a pre-warning. To your other point yeah, yeah I know 10 is a lot but that was back when I was either not aware of TRP yet or in anger phase, so clueless or somehow wanting to win. Things are better now. I'll approach future interactions with them with the knowledge I have now and treat anything … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Would you join in on an orgy if your buddy and his GF invited you?True. I've known said guys for like 6 years and we are tight. And plan to stay tight. If you know what I mean. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Doc told me I most likely have depression. But I don't want to take meds and can't figure out if I am just full of shit or not..If I felt it was seriously messing my life up I'd be all up for meds and therapy definitely. I can recall a handful of guys I went to school with who took their own lives after secretly battling with depression. It's no joke. Others here including myself seem to think it is seasonal so I'll look into that firstly. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 05:19 AM |
| 1 | After TRP I'm filled with disgustAyy man welcome to real life. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 04:26 AM |
| 1 | What happened to your old Oneitis?She blew me in my car while on a "break" with her ex (lord we all know what that means) then 2 weeks later got back with her ex who came out as gay soon after so she moved to japan and started uploading pictures of herself on Instagram looking after stray cats and visibly lost like 20lbs and stopped working out because "all you need is love, good nutrition and meaning" as she put it, in ink, on her abdomen, lol. Oh she also cut her hair off to resemble the boot camp type look and posted a handfu… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Why do I attract so many gay guys?Eh. It happens to most of us. Try not to think into it too much. Generally it just confirms you look decent. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Girl calls and asks me to attend activity with her a week after breaking up with meNo. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 01:22 AM |
| 1 | What was the reason for your mind shift from beta to alpha and discovering TRPBeing friendzoned for the billionth time and having people walk all over me. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with women with massive frames?I find the loudest most "hear me roar I am wamen rawr!" type women are the weakest in terms of frame. Just attention seeking adult infants who probably have a range of issues going on. Run. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Does often realize after the pill how many missed opportunities you’ve had in the past?It's painful to look back into the past knowing what I now know and I'll leave it at that. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Is this the most bluepill moment from any movie scene ?At first I sighed and said fuck off out loud then I kept it playing cause the song made me feel good and I sung it fully. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Would you fuck a prostitute? Why (not)?Sure. If you're horny as fuck on a Friday night, not getting any hits off tinder and have no current plates available and want to spice it up then go for it. Just make sure you do some re-search into what your getting into like pricing and don't choose a dirty looking bitch and wear a fucking condom for fuck sake. The end. Also don't go boasting about it if you do, you'll regret it. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 03:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you get past the mental block?My gut tells me that's just how life is for humans. Existential moments of "why even bother?" are real and happen to everyone. I know that I feel the same at times. My advice is to take on the full load of your responsibilities and pray for the best. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Ya'll ever notice how the more your SMV increases, the more enemies you seem to make?Tyrone my man. Yes. My short story is how I was once the joker of my group back in 2015 and would over share the emotional side of me in front of girls and also be a beta in general. A directionless beta who dried dem pussies up like my life depended on it (gross). Anyhow I kind of went my own way for about a year, only seeing people once every 3-4 months but overall, gradually, and with a lot of fuck ups and re-starts I lost 14 fucking kg and became visibly lean, like with definition, veins, al… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 06:36 AM |
| 2 | What's the term for this: A guy that isn't swayed either way by compliments or criticisms. A guy that does what he does, simply because he enjoys it. Girls included. He likes them but doesn't necessarily care if they like him. And WHY does this attitude seem to attract girls?Sounds like someone who I want to be friends with. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Went on a date today. Realised that my date for tomorrow might be her sister.Lol'd at title. Go for it playa. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 05:02 AM |
| 1 | I'm attending a party in 2 weeks but have been monk mode for 5 months. I'm definitely not the same person I used to be. How can I ensure I hold my frame around these "old friends"?I gotcha yeah. During my hiatus I did 2 weeks of solo travelling, bought a new (used :/) car, started recording music again like guitar and looping effects type shit, built a fucking computer and generally made a handful of new contacts. I feel like I've got shit to pull out to talk about but yeah you are correct with expanding always and not just being like "Hey how funny is this pic" cause that shit is cringe and reminds me of high school kid days. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 06:12 AM |
| 1 | I'm attending a party in 2 weeks but have been monk mode for 5 months. I'm definitely not the same person I used to be. How can I ensure I hold my frame around these "old friends"?Yeah I don't plan (voluntarily) to do it again. Unless some fucked up shit happens and I just go Tom Hanks Castaway mode until I refocus then yeah. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 06:07 AM |
| 1 | I'm attending a party in 2 weeks but have been monk mode for 5 months. I'm definitely not the same person I used to be. How can I ensure I hold my frame around these "old friends"?Frequently remind yourself that you're no longer the goofy guy. 2 years is a long time yo. Like if you fuck up at your event (which I probably will too) just take a brief moment to remind yourself like c'mon now don't go back down the rabbit hole. If they don't like you then who gives a fuck. I try to tell myself "I was a joker guy who liked attention, but I am NOW a man who has goals". Sounds corny but Men hold their own and don't let other peoples opinions turn them into some fool. Something l… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 06:06 AM |
| 1 | I'm attending a party in 2 weeks but have been monk mode for 5 months. I'm definitely not the same person I used to be. How can I ensure I hold my frame around these "old friends"?Everyone I know is going so I cant have a bail plan :O. Yeah that's a good idea though tbh, I'll go out on my own and fuck around, just browse shit at shops and socialize on a really basic level to practice and warm myself up. Hit up a friend I haven't seen in a while. I didn't exactly plan on paper to go into monk-mode for such a long time, it just started cause my friends were busy and stayed busy and I thought they were like fuck you so I got bitter and shit and ended up realizing I had to ch… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 05:57 AM |
| 3 | I'm attending a party in 2 weeks but have been monk mode for 5 months. I'm definitely not the same person I used to be. How can I ensure I hold my frame around these "old friends"?Yeah m8 I've done that earlier in the year. Had a few people who I genuinely thought were good friends just, turn on me when I picked up a few new hobbies and started to be more outgoing as a result. They were but hurt big time looking back on it (even at the time I knew but not fully why) they were watching me become the opposite of what they were, which was extroverted, making more friends, going out with girls and so on. Yeah man fuck them. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 05:52 AM |
| 1 | I'm attending a party in 2 weeks but have been monk mode for 5 months. I'm definitely not the same person I used to be. How can I ensure I hold my frame around these "old friends"?Your probably right. I haven't dealt with anxiety issues before when socializing (lucky). And after researching some basic anxiety symptoms I am over half the checklist and I think that's due to me stressing. Stressing about just going to have some fun. Yeah I even feel a little bit silly for asking on here for advice cause I sort of got worked up I suppose. Thanks for the insight dude. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 03:52 AM |
| 3 | I'm attending a party in 2 weeks but have been monk mode for 5 months. I'm definitely not the same person I used to be. How can I ensure I hold my frame around these "old friends"?I agree. Saying no has proven so far to be oddly powerful when dealing with people. No explaining myself just, no. Yeah panties dropping is a goal but more like 4th or 5th on the list now. However since I started using 30mg zinc a day and adding 30 minutes of HIIT it's more like number 1 on my list and I have no choice lol. Perils of being mid 20's with a dick. I really like how you said approaching it like the new you is meeting new people, like not literally "Who are you again?" to someone I c… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | I'm attending a party in 2 weeks but have been monk mode for 5 months. I'm definitely not the same person I used to be. How can I ensure I hold my frame around these "old friends"?Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 02:19 AM |
| 1 | I'm attending a party in 2 weeks but have been monk mode for 5 months. I'm definitely not the same person I used to be. How can I ensure I hold my frame around these "old friends"?Yeah bro definitely. Holding frame is the fucking pinnacle of everything I have learnt here so far. Just got to try not overthink it all now that I'm prepping for a opportunity to see how it goes as a (cliché) new man. Or at least a man becoming a new man. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 02:19 AM |
| 1 | I'm attending a party in 2 weeks but have been monk mode for 5 months. I'm definitely not the same person I used to be. How can I ensure I hold my frame around these "old friends"?True. I'm feeling that's my next move. Monk mode / Isolation / Waste of time, whatever you wanna call it, it fucks you up socially if you go too deep (which I did) so I do need to branch out more since I decided to be human again lol. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 02:16 AM |
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