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Id just say no
/r/MensRights26/07/26 02:17 AM
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This is generally what happens with progressive identity politics. Everybody talks about all forms of inequality, real or alleged, except the elephant in the room of class based inequality which forms the material basis of oppression. I think it is because the entire system is influenced by capital and the system supports ideas which stabilize it.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 08:04 PM
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No. We live in an oligarchy.
/r/MensRights04/07/26 05:04 AM
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Prioritizing female interests and devaluing male interests operates to undermine class consciousness by fomenting divisive gender identities among the proletariat.
/r/MensRights28/06/26 09:56 PM
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This bill also classifies it as first degree murder when the genders are reversed. Im figuring that its being shown in a female friendly way in press releases for political reasons but when you look at the actual code it does not make limit the crime to female victims based on hatred of females, perhaps for constituional or other reasons. (b) provide that, in the following circumstances, murder — known as femicide when committed against a female person — is murder in the first degree: (i) the mu…
/r/MensRights21/06/26 12:53 AM
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Higher male variability
/r/MensRights11/06/26 07:07 PM
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Lol the article says its men declining the jobs because they think the jobs are a masculinity threat. Sure, sure.
/r/MensRights08/06/26 05:31 PM
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Ideas get a competitive advantage in the marketplace of ideas when the ideas are compatible with and/or further the interests of those with power. Money and power go hand in hand in capitalism. So, yes, a lot of what you are saying makes sense when it comes to the reasons that feminism is comptible with and furthers the interests of capitalism. Yet I think you may be missing other reasons also: Feminism provides system stability by undermining class consciousness which represents a threat to the…
/r/MensRights04/05/26 03:42 PM
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Misandry will continue to be normalized in progressive politics because it's a message that's in the interests of existing power structures. It operates as a poison pill to the working man identity, driving him away from the left, undermining class consciousness and dividing the working class along gendered lines.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 07:21 PM
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Lol reality check
/r/MensRights15/04/26 06:45 PM
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It doesnt get things right a lot of the time but it usually gives you enough information so that you can verify the answers its giving you.
/r/MensRights13/04/26 08:55 PM
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The chatgpt can answer many of your questions.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 07:50 PM
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The government programs and contracts for women owned businesses Selective service registration being men only Disparate treatment by criminal justice system
/r/MensRights23/03/26 06:39 AM
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There are many causes to the observed data. One is reporting differences as women are more likely to state that theyre in a relationship than men. Another cause is age gap relationships, and this is probably the largest factor. Other factors are multiple women dating the same man, sampling variation, etc.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 02:45 AM
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The trick is you dont get married then the man's income isnt part of the medicaid application and then the government pays.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 10:39 PM
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I think it goes by where you get divorced rather than where you get married.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 03:56 PM
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I think the reasoning is that it has to do with congress' authority to raise armies
/r/MensRights28/01/26 06:42 PM
1

I mean, if you want a room by UCB it can be had for like $1,000 - $1,500, and you get the whole room to yourself. This one you got to share the room.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 03:23 AM
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You have 4 bedrooms. Each bedroom has 2 men paying $1,500/month each. 4x2x$1,500 = $12,000.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 12:35 AM
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This is $12,000/month rent for a 4 bedroom house. This looks like it's about maximizing rental revenues.
/r/MensRights24/01/26 10:59 PM
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Well, here is the AI analysis of the relative efficiency between those two things - https://chatgpt.com/s/t_696bda5218088191a6927a9a809b761b
/r/MensRights17/01/26 06:54 PM
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Realize that my view is not that DEI has no merit, but that it will be promoted by capital regardless if it has merit or not because of its divisive effect on the working class. My concern with DEI largely has to do with the lack of individual approaches. For example, giving scholarships to young college women to try to address past discrimination. Its like, supposing there was past discrimination and you wanted to address that, then you would go find the people who had endured it throughout the…
/r/MensRights17/01/26 05:46 AM
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I don't understand. Divide and rule has been going on for thousands of years.
/r/MensRights17/01/26 05:26 AM
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In a society with extreme wealth and income disparities there must be some mechanisms to prevent socialist revolution. Part of managing resentment among the working class is things like DEI which operate to divide the working class against itself. DEI is thus capital friendly and will be promoted by capital not because DEI has any merit, but because its true purpose is divide and rule - To support the status quo of an inequitable capitalist system by undermining class consciousness.
/r/MensRights17/01/26 04:45 AM
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There ends up being overlap because a lot of things are like "contracts are awarded to women and minority owned businesses" - You know, basically everybody except white men.
/r/MensRights13/01/26 09:09 AM
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The data in the article is pretty bothersome but narrow and specific to the institutions. Curious if there are more expansive data sets.
/r/MensRights13/01/26 02:31 AM
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Mostly Ive heard about people going to the sperm banks.
/r/MensRights05/01/26 05:22 PM
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What about https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coverture
/r/MensRights02/01/26 09:33 PM
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"If no record is found and you believe that you have previously registered, please give us a call at 888-655-1825." https://www.sss.gov/verify/
/r/MensRights02/01/26 04:50 PM
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Id honestly say not to use separate property as a marital residence because the house could be generating rents that would be separate property. When you use it as the marital residence then the lost rent is being basically donated to the marital community and half of that lost rent is going to the wife basically. It is better to rent the house out and to live in a different house where the housing payment is paid with community funds.
/r/MensRights31/12/25 08:17 AM
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https://ucr.fbi.gov/nibrs/2019/tables/pdfs/offenders_sex_by_offense_category_2019.pdf
/r/MensRights17/11/25 07:19 AM
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Because it isn't about equality or diversity. It's about favoring women and pretending like it's really about equality or fairness.
/r/MensRights30/10/25 04:47 PM
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How do I know the news article isn't capitalist propaganda which operates to divide the working class against itself a long gendered lines and thus making them easier to rule?
/r/MensRights19/10/25 05:25 PM
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Challenge them to distinguish discussing crime data based on gender from discussing crime data based on race.
/r/MensRights18/09/25 05:12 PM
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Homer Simpson
/r/MensRights08/08/25 08:41 PM
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Its usually judged using the saw it and didnt like it standard.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 10:40 PM
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Fuck the tree.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 02:16 AM
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Privilege is a lot more about money than other things.
/r/MensRights13/07/25 02:08 AM
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Could be a lesbian who doesn’t know it yet
/r/MensRights07/07/25 05:43 PM
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Sure as long as we remove women from positions of financial trust to prevent embezzlement as it is one of the few crimes where female offenders outnumber male.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 02:16 AM
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Because they've been brainwashed by western media and education system
/r/MensRights23/06/25 04:23 PM
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Florida is fairly diverse
/r/MensRights22/06/25 02:10 PM
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I doubt women answer the question honestly anyway. It's just a popular form of man-bashing by communicating the defamatory lie that a man is more threatening than a bear. Put those women in the woods and have a bear go by and they will freak out. A man goes by they'll just be like "Hello".
/r/MensRights22/06/25 01:31 PM
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As women got the right to vote and entered the workforce, it became a priority for the capitalist media to foment gender issues to divide the working class against itself so that it could be more easily ruled. It also functions as a diversionary tactic, an red herring to draw attention away from the elephant in the room which is that the rich have everything and we have nothing. That is how they like it, and what they fear is that the workers will unite in their common interests and use their ri…
/r/MensRights18/06/25 04:20 PM
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Just dont pay.
/r/MensRights14/06/25 06:46 AM
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The sacrifices of men in wars always seems to be brushed over in social justice.
/r/MensRights08/06/25 04:09 PM
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Feminism is fomented by oligarchy. It's an alternative issue to the elephant in the room of the rich having everything and everybody else having nothing compratively. Feminism operates to divide the working class against one another so that it can be ruled by the rich.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 08:51 PM
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I have heard that it can be effective to reduce the risk the person represents to the community when theyre released. It seemed important for child molestors
/r/MensRights30/05/25 09:53 PM
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Paywall
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:26 PM
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To gaslight them into being more pleasant to be around by dangling pussy and not following through.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 11:41 PM
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My dad left when I was 3. My mom had several boyfriends over the years and they didnt suck.
/r/MensRights03/04/25 04:05 AM
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Aitah stuff is fake anyway
/r/MensRights03/04/25 01:36 AM
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Actual suicides are far worse than failed suicide attempts.
/r/MensRights09/03/25 04:03 PM
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UK has had its head up its butt for decades
/r/MensRights06/03/25 04:46 PM
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Embezzlement, Prostitution, at least based on arrest data https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2019/crime-in-the-u.s.-2019/topic-pages/tables/table-33 Perhaps others if police are arresting men more frequently
/r/MensRights06/03/25 04:16 PM
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The best reasons seem to be the tax advantages which are situational, and also modifying your household composition to qualify for government benefits which is also situational. There is also more acceptance of your relationship with old fashioned people.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 09:47 AM
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It’s small boobs energy
/r/MensRights01/03/25 09:40 AM
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"a person is prevented from resisting by an intoxicating or anesthetic substance, or a controlled substance, and this condition was known, or reasonably should have been known by the accused." https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?sectionNum=261.&lawCode=PEN Not rape just because theyyre drunk.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 06:40 AM
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Usually drawing attention to negative generalizations of a group of people is to form the premise of an unstated conclusion related to the group. The conclusions are unstated because they are weak ones.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 06:06 PM
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I Uber driver in San Francisco. I hear the DEI guys talkin on the phone in the car saying things like they wouldn’t want to fire woman than hire man because “it sends the wrong message”. They refrain from adverse employment action against woman and refrain from positive employment action for man because of gender to keep up appearances. It is illegal.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 10:51 PM
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I didnt do much anyway besides comment on reddit
/r/MensRights21/02/25 10:50 PM
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A lot of the money was just thrown around, yeah. You can read here and Google further if the subject interests you https://nypost.com/2021/02/25/bidens-covid-relief-bill-is-chock-full-of-anti-white-reverse-racism/
/r/MensRights12/02/25 03:05 AM
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My feelings about the Democratic party changed when they did that with all the COVID relief. Basically they had all these funds setup and white men had to go to the back of the line when applying. By the time it was their turn, the money was gone. These funds were challenged in court (successfully) of course but most of the money was gone by the time the courts would do anything about it. These things were voted for by the Democratic party unanimously. So, it was clear to me that that party beli…
/r/MensRights11/02/25 07:07 AM
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Probably stop doing things that are like “grants and tax funded help for women and minorities” which basically means tax money given away to all groups except white men.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 10:40 AM
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If it says women owned I don’t buy it.
/r/MensRights28/01/25 09:03 PM
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Just dont believe all the bullshit these stupid companies put out
/r/MensRights20/01/25 02:30 AM
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Why didnt they just look at the tapes before arresting him
/r/MensRights18/01/25 05:53 PM
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These people are suffering from some collective delusion. I dont even think they really believe any of it. Seems like a big emperor has no clothes situation.
/r/MensRights14/01/25 06:11 PM
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In California they have the death penalty for falsely accusing someone of a crime when the accused is put to death because of the false accusation. (penal code section 128)
/r/MensRights28/12/24 07:50 AM
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The rich benefit because more and more women stop making children and start entering the workforce. This increases the supply of labor while decreasing the cost of social services for children like public education and healthcare which are largely paid for by taxes which are disproportionately paid by the wealthy. It is far cheaper for the rich to have young, educated immigrants come in and do the things in society that the erased children would have done. Further, by fomenting feminism and asso…
/r/MensRights26/12/24 02:28 AM
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Half assed justice. Give the people just enough so they wont overthrow.
/r/MensRights21/12/24 05:50 PM
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When the state cannot be relied upon to provide justice people take matters in to their own hands.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 11:47 PM
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Thats because their government is stupid
/r/MensRights29/11/24 01:51 AM
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Nobody cares about men in nursing
/r/MensRights23/11/24 07:17 AM
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More gaslighting
/r/MensRights09/11/24 07:01 AM
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Gaslighting
/r/MensRights09/11/24 03:20 AM
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It's a euphemism for "everyone but men".
/r/MensRights30/10/24 02:33 PM
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It is the same as just putting cash somewhere. It is community property regardless of who's on the account title unless there's a prenup or something.
/r/MensRights26/10/24 09:25 PM
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If they have a women only chess tournament then they should have a men only chess tournament as well.
/r/MensRights18/10/24 08:37 PM
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Abigail Van Buren can go fuck herself
/r/MensRights09/10/24 10:35 PM
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Why do you post stuff like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:12 PM
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And if there was 1 negative test and 9 positive tests? Would you then look at that 1 test in a vacuum and consider it as definitive evidence of infidelity? Of course you wouldnt. You must weigh all the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:40 PM
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I dont think its fair that people who arent going to live as long have to pay for like "retire at 65 and get paid til you die" sort of thing. This apparently is more of an issue with smokers and fat people, etc. Yet you can be as general or as specific as you want when it comes to unfairness. A view toward the equities and inequities of the entire system can be better I think than considering only one part of it that is inequitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:37 PM
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Funny, you didn't mention lab error. Do you know when people don't mention some thing or address? It usually means that they don't know because because who knows how reliable those labs are
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:57 PM
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Yeah but theres something youre not understanding about statistics when youre dealing with low probability events. If there is nothing to suggest other than the paternity test that the woman was unfaithful, and there are things other than the paternity test that suggest the woman was faithful. Then you have to weigh the low probability of unfaithfulness against the other low probability events that could have occurred causing the paternity test to be negative. For example, what is more likely - …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:09 PM
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What about the payouts? Women live longer than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:54 PM
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Its beneficial for women who reap the benefits of it but dont do anything for it. Some women devote a lot of time to it and dont get much for that time other than thinking that theyre a good person.
/r/MensRights24/09/24 07:52 PM
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A positive paternity test does not prove fidelity. A negative paternity test does not prove infidelity, but its compelling evidence of it that would warrant further investigation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:45 PM
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It's in the best interests of the child to remove any shadow of a doubt in the father's mind as to paternity. If the mother loves her child then she would want the father to see those test results so that she can be sure that the father child relationship is not hampered by any doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:50 PM
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A man can test whenever he wants for any reason or for no reason, and has no obligation to disclose unless he’s agreed to that ahead of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:11 PM
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Oh yeah thats what I said /s Come on dude you can do better than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:02 PM
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my relationships, not your business
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:35 PM
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I have heard that childhood sexual abuse victims typically know the abusers. Not sure about rape victims generally. Though, a lot of things that are technically rape (depending on jurisdiction) are probably a lot more common than whats more generally accepted to constitute rape. For example, an accusation where someone was having sex where they initially consented but she told him to stop but he didnt stop, or I also hear about people starting to have sex while their partner is asleep and the pa…
/r/MensRights22/09/24 03:56 PM
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The cost of paternity test is like $150 dollars. The cost of raising a kid is like $250,000 dollars, or ~1,666 times the cost of the test. The test costs ~0.06% the cost of the child. Paternity mismatch is estimated in the population to be somewhere between 0.7% and 2.0%. The paternity mismatch percentage is more than 10 times the test cost/child cost percentage. This would seem to make routine paternity testing a rational choice to avoid paternity mismatch. It may even be a rational choice for …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:57 PM
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Paternity test doesn’t require any tissue from the partner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:03 PM
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They dont want the man to ask women out because theyre concerned that it will make the women who reject him uncomfortable. Because they do not care about the mans loneliness, and only about the other women, they will not give him the advice that is in his best interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:01 AM
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Can’t afford them then sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:36 PM
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This is probably the weakest definitional argument Ive heard in a long time. OK. What is and isnt "cheating" isnt very clear cut but for the most part "cheating" means engaging a person romantically other than your partner after a reasonable expectation of exclusivity has been established in the relationship. Definitions arent prescriptive, theyre descriptive. There is no central authority on the english language governing what words mean. This is different than debates over rape definitions, fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:29 PM
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lol @ WaPo article "We have every right to hate you. You have done us wrong. #BecausePatriarchy. " I didnt do shit, but I agree people have every right to hate. And why? Its not illegal to hate. People hate all the time. Incels got just as much right to hate women, and they do. Racists got just as much right to hate whatever race it is they dont like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:45 PM
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I went to McD's at Waikiki once. There was a guy dressed up in a cow suit out front playing a guitar and handing out PETA pamphlets, singing a song about the suffering of the cows and cheeseburgers.
/r/MensRights15/09/24 08:32 PM
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It is very plausible that some man is responsible for female perpetrators getting off easy. For example, judges, DAs, detectives etc are men a lot of the time. But that doesnt mean that men as a whole are responsible. You must argue against the validity of collective responsibility. One person is not responsible for the conduct of another person unless there was some substantial connection between them (eg Person A told Person B to do something or they conspired together)
/r/MensRights14/09/24 08:15 PM
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Sense of humor is conspicuously absent here. Its theorized that being able to make people laugh requires intelligence, and that sexual selection for a good sense of humor functions as a proxy for intelligence selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:39 AM
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Thats just depends where you go
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:35 AM
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You really think people deserve what they have and that it was "hard earned" ? I mean, dont you have the life experience to know now that that isnt true? I'll tell you a story. I work as a driver and I saved and invested. I owned 3 rentals when COVID hit. Driving customers around in San Francisco was the first thing they shut down. Here's what happened. I got $1,000/week unemployment, forgivable PPP loans, low interest SBA EIDL loan, and my rentals appreciated $500,000 dollars. I didnt do shit a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:24 PM
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When it comes to evaluating human beings what we should do is treat it like brand shopping. It goes so much faster. It's OK to do that with men on Reddit but not black people. For that you have to go to X.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:47 PM
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The problem with communist ideology is that it advocates a violent overthrow of the government. What about a similar socialist ideology that does not advocate a violent overthrow? For example, using legal and constitutional means to accomplish the ultimate ends where there is social ownership over the means of production? Or something thats effectively the equivalent? (ie very high tax rates) The main problem with capitalism is that the burden of profit distribution to owners. There is a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:33 PM
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I know that women are more fearful of men and bad experiences with men can lead to prejudice. I also know that women are less tolerant of casual sexual relationships and prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:22 PM
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"Men just can't" - More accurately, "Some people just can't"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:56 PM
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Delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:06 AM
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No default contract. There should be a set of options that people can choose from and none of them should be selected by default. When you make a default then you make it so that when somebody rejects the default then it may damage their relationship. That gives the default contract an advantage over the other options. Common options are alimony vs no alimony, community property vs equitable distribution vs all property kept separate, etc. And comingling vs no comingling (ie whether or not separ…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:52 PM
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Pretty much all sexual desires are shamed these days, even cis gendered men desiring attractive women. Shaming is so prevalent. It is a tactic employed by people who usually want to influence you, usually to some end they care about but you dont. Shaming is a power you let other people have over you because it is about self evaluation. You must have a resilient sense of self, and developing that is important. A good place to start is to not trust people who shame. Usually these people are using …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:21 PM
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Im sure DiCaprio would have no trouble finding women over 25 willing to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:53 PM
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Phone searches are less costly but more invasive than paternity tests. Phone searches also require cooperation, consent and disclosure while paternity tests do not. There is also the relationship between the father and the child to consider. It is in the best interests of the child that any doubts be removed from the father’s mind as to paternity to prevent such doubts from interfering with a good father child relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:00 PM
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Im not sure why it was created but I have viewed feminism as useful to the ruling class becauae it operates to divide the working class along gendered lines and to change the subject from class issues to gender issues.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 02:25 PM
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Feminism is a theory of female superiority cloaked in egalitarianism. Do not fall for it.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 03:36 AM
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Have you ever been in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:52 AM
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I havent seen them. I have heard of talk of government mandated girlfriends but I thought it was ridiculous. I had figured that government run brothels might be a better notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:36 AM
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Extreme misandry would not be similarly policed. It is only when women are victims that the UK government will do something.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 12:12 AM
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Theyre not saying that its supposed to be fair. Theyre saying that its not their fault that they dont get sex because that conclusion is ego protective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:08 AM
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You're not a good person to marry if the extent of your commitment is a test that costs a few hundred dollars and doesn't have much, if any, privacy concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:39 PM
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prejudice /prĕj′ə-dĭs/ noun The act or state of holding unreasonable preconceived judgments or convictions. An adverse judgment or opinion formed unfairly or without knowledge of the facts. "a boy with a prejudice against unfamiliar foods." Irrational suspicion or hatred of a particular social group, such as a race or the adherents of a religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:11 AM
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Feminism: "Men are women are equal, but women matter more."
/r/MensRights26/08/24 06:06 PM
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Thats so that when they say "I have a boyfriend" that you will believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:52 PM
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I dont have a lot of friends but yes some of them are female. Theres less in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:28 PM
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I was talking about the experience of having been born cisgendered compared to having to change ones body to be consistent with ones gender identity. The post question was "Would you want to be a man?" which, Im assuming isnt talking about a sex change as the comment I was replying to seemed to have suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:45 AM
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I dont think sex changes work very well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:47 PM
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Child support is optional. Dont make a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:07 AM
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If you make success seem impossible then there’s no shame in failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:52 PM
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How? I mean they can also do crypto or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:35 AM
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They'll just cash their paychecks, and not use the banks anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:21 AM
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They were told it was a bad thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:23 PM
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I post my 7 inch dick pic to Reddit and tell her to look at the post
/r/MensRights21/08/24 01:45 AM
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The quality of life of men shall be sacrificed at the altar of the powers that be. Otherwise they will not accept their lots in life and may cause trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:53 AM
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How would they get child support enforced from another country?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:49 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insight-is-2020/201801/why-people-give-unsolicited-advice-though-no-one-listens
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:12 AM
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Prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:11 AM
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People dont want to say anything about their sexual desires that may result in negative judgments. So they just lie. Only way to prove it I think would be if I watched you closely for a very long time, unbeknownst to you. It would have to be enough time for observing those involuntary emotional reactions that cant be faked. Thats how you can know things about what people are really feeling. Not really worth the time obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:35 AM
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Oh how dare I speak my mind. Im just so arrogant you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:09 AM
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People say stuff like this but I don’t believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:31 AM
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People only recognize abuse when they believe that they deserve better. They need to be taught that they have value, but the problem is the impact this may have on social stability. Young men are historically the demographic thats most likely to revolt. If you make them think that they matter then they may rise up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:28 PM
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TBH the thing single moms have going for them is conspicuous proof of fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:00 AM
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Why should any man trust you? You want to discourage cold approaching so you tell men that they will fail. But the reality is that men who listen to messages like this ARE failing and its in no small part because they dont approach women. But you dont care about men being lonely. You only caring about women getting hassled. You probably dont care about men. That you should change.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:14 PM
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That's because the TV told them it was a bad thing to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:09 AM
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"The problem is men" "The majority of men hold inherently sexist beliefs" You sure you're not being sexist yourself? Because that's what it looks like. A sexist man is part of a problem but a sexist woman isn't? And how exactly are you measuring sexism? And when a random man is assuned to be a potential threat and a random woman is regarded as non-threatening then oh that's not prejudice or anything. That's not sexism. Because there's all those statistics right? Statistics from the FBI about how…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:26 PM
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Romantic jealousy is the main barrier to this. Monogamy avoids the problem. Kids need positive father figures in their lives. The lack thereof has caused and will continue to cause widespread social problems. I think the issue isnt talked about a lot because people think its dog whistling. Theres stupid policies that discourage marriage. Like, when a woman is pregnant and she's on medicaid then if she gets married the husbands income will be added to her household income and disqualify her from …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:16 PM
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"There are far fewer women in prison than men to start with — women make up just 7 percent of the prison population. This means that these women are disproportionately affected by a system designed for men." lol... no it means that men are disproportionately affected, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:24 AM
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Just gaslighting... it happens everywhere
/r/MensRights13/08/24 05:38 PM
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Women don’t have victimhood because they are women. Victims have victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:01 AM
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What’s wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:03 PM
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You didnt answer the question. That probably means that I was correct because you didnt deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:00 PM
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Do you care about men as people? You think that they, as a whole, dont care about women as people. That means you think men dont care about you. If you think they dont care about you, then you wont care about them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:38 PM
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Sour grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:52 PM
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Lol sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:21 PM
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On the one hand I want the mass deportations to increase my wages, but on the other hand I’d like the welfare freebies to continue. I’m not sure which one is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:09 PM
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I will leech and you will pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:03 PM
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Yeah but you put it next to “handout receivers” so the most probable sense is the entry I showed you because it’s related. Also is that entry is for bum not bummy? You didn’t show the word and the example word is bum not bummy. Contributing’s overrated anyway because work sucks. I’d rather live a good life as a parasite to society. Do no work and have it all. I think the Walton family has it best in that department.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:11 PM
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Adjective bummy (comparative bummier, superlative bummiest) (US, UK, informal) Like a bum (homeless person or hobo) I don’t see where I’m going wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:59 PM
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“a couple of bummy handout receivers” Ok that is poverty shaming. Perhaps exploiting the system is what annoys you, but you are poverty shaming to try to punish the other thing probably because that’s what you think will hurt. No gaslighting please.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:55 PM
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Playing poverty shaming card princess? You know that’s so unbecoming these days. What would your mother think?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:44 PM
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The solution is to not get married and for the man to sleep in a travel trailer parked on the street in front of the house. So long as they’re not married and don’t live together then the government says it’s a single mom on welfare situation and the man’s income won’t be counted on the welfare applications. Then it’s time for section 8 housing vouchers, Medicaid and food stamps. Also the man can own the house and rent it to the woman and the government pays him rent. Is it all legal? I haven’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:27 PM
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I’ve considered that a lot of ideas that spread among women are popular for that reason. Talking about creeps and fears about men… the whole man or bear thing. It all indirectly communicates that a man wants to bang you. The quality of being soothing to the female ego makes these ideas to be more likely to be communicated and recommunicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:03 PM
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I am not responsible for what other people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:32 PM
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Here's the problem with content like this: No evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:40 PM
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You wanted a family but they didnt want you making children. They wanted you working. Your participation in the labor force increases the supply of labor thus decreasing its cost. Kids are expensive for them. Kids use teachers, doctors, and other government funded ervices - All of which they pay a significant cost of - and kids dont give back to society until theyve entered the workforce after some 20 years. Its a far better deal for them to give a visa to a young college graduate from another c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:50 PM
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Feminism is a theory of female superiority, not equality.
/r/MensRights01/08/24 07:06 PM
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Perhaps they do, but it is still real shaming when you shame somebody who deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:39 PM
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Oh, so what do you mean is that it doesn't count as real shaming when you shame someone if the person being shamed had it coming
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:59 PM
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Sure. Just go to Reddit and get called a neckbeard incel when you disagree with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:50 PM
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It takes a long time to become highly educated and successful, and focusing on career means not focusing on what appeals to men. Most of these women are older, unattractive and lack the qualities of a good wife and mother. They are of little use to men, other than perhaps as a source of money or bad sex in a dry spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:41 PM
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My gf has been selling stuff online for awhile. Mostly because it’s easy money. If she’s doing it for the money then it’s fine. If it’s mate seeking behavior then it’s not fine. It’s obvious to me that it’s been for the money so I don’t have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:16 AM
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Believe me there are a lot of closet homosexuals because that's something that can be hidden. It doesn't change people. It just makes them pretend to be somebody they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:58 AM
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Hierarchy is inevitable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:57 AM
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Be yourself and if nobody wants you then nobody wants you. Thats life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:38 AM
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You should have the same rules for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:30 PM
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They're pretty much the same thing but different genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:37 AM
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Funny the objective isnt to avoid being murdered in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:01 AM
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Being a man or being concerned about being beta-buxed are things that aren't relevant to whether or not a complaint about being friendzoned has any merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:55 PM
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Any feelings for status competition should be constructively channeled on being a good spouse, a good parent and a good - I’m not sure how to say somebody who takes care of themselves in a healthy way, but a good one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:06 PM
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If I told you then you wouldn’t believe me because you don’t trust. You have to find that out for yourself be being introspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:03 PM
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You are one of the most biased users in the sub. If we want to fix the bias problem then perhaps we could start with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:50 PM
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Id imagine that women dislike the manosphere because the manosphere prioritizes men's issues and deprioritizes women's issues. In other words, within the manosphere, women are not important. This is the same reason a lot of men dislike feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:58 PM
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Maybe he’s just not thinking much and letting his ego do the talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:03 PM
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What makes you think it is a troll? So many here talking about how they think life sucks because they are men just focusing on the marketplace for casual sex. These men have lost sight of the forest for the trees and fail to appreciate what they have. Recognizing that your unearned advantages make you enviable will make you less likely to envy others, and the default psychological response to envy is contempt. Letting men know they have it good may be an effective way to reduce contempt they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:43 PM
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People should have sex because they feel like it and for no other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:38 PM
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Well viagras like $10 dollars. The doctors visit is probably covered anyway.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 06:04 AM
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People are allowed to be sexist. They're also allowed to be classist, racist, and lots of other "ists". When people say they're not any of those things, then they're not being honest with you. They'll just pretend they're not to avoid shame or looking bad. It is prejudice based on simple heuristic reasoning. Profiling people is certainly not the most accurate form of reasoning, but it does go faster than taking the time and effort to investigate each person. People want to be treated fairly and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:34 PM
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Maybe he knew you well and that's somethat that takes a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:31 PM
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Why did he pick you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:10 PM
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Getting tired of all the unfairness in life.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 04:17 PM
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OP didn't call it misandry.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 05:10 AM
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Men have it worse when it comes to rejection because men are the ones who usually have to make the advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:59 PM
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There is something called diminishing marginal utility. Since Im already doing that then there is little marginal utility in having another person do it too. It's different because it's duplicative of the role I want to play and am going to play. We won't need another person to do it. That position has been filled and hiring is closed. We will need another person to engage in child rearing and homemaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:44 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:40 AM
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IW focuses on her career. I don't see what value that adds to my life or my children's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:26 AM
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It's not cheating if you break up first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:41 PM
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They can certainly claim it but that doesnt mean they have it. You know, claiming to be about stopping sexism while at the same time prioritizing women's issues is rather hypocritical. Query: Why prioritize gender issues at all? Even if we were prioritizing situations where one gender was unfairly adversely impacted in a manner that was gender neutral we would still be prioritizing gender issues over other issues. For example, where people were unfairly adversely impacted because of other charac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:34 PM
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Why isnt it in the list?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:26 AM
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Conspicuously absent from your list of things women care about is something they care about very much: Long term intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:15 AM
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Men should not have to worry about being raped as a de facto part of a prison sentence. Doubt you care about that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:08 AM
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To interfere
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:29 PM
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I had a different theory of those stats. It was that the women are with older men. This also explains why so many of the old women single and the old men aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:14 PM
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You think you know things? Wow. Thats good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:09 PM
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If your goal is reproductive success then head to the sperm bank or become a craigslist ghetto sperm donor for lesbians. Youll put every guy out there who doesnt do the same to shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:36 PM
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Cats are bad for babies because of toxoplasmosis
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:53 PM
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No, youre not. Youre probably just wrong, know it and trying to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:04 PM
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Reputation among close friends and family is what matters to me and what Im talking about. There are some practical reasons for reputation mattering in other situations but theyre not emotionally significant (eg if you have bad credit its hard to rent apartments; if you have convictions its harder to get jobs) Edit: Like to add that Reddit's design like takes advantage of giving a crap about what other people think. Like, the whole karma system is about external validation and invalidation, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:04 PM
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Who you date does affect your reputation. Dont really think youre actually laughing or surprised. Think thats probably fake emotional reactions to try to make it seem like you actually believe what youre saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:26 PM
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Shaming caring about your reputation is a bit of an irony. Like, "Wow you care about what other people think? Well I think you should stop doing that!" This, of course, doesnt really change the person if its effective. It simply makes them try to be somebody who doesnt care about what other people because they care about what other people think. There is a logical conflict to this approach. And, I think, people should know that its OK to be concerned with their reputations. And why? Because that…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:27 AM
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A business started after the marriage is something that might be better addressed by a postnuptial agreement, though perhaps a prenup could be that all property is separate and not communal, or that only certain property (eg wages and property purchased using wages) is communal and all other property is separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:32 PM
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Just because you don't know, a cheap solution doesn't mean one doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:40 PM
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I think what he means is make a prenuptial agreement part of the marriage license issuing process. I dont imagine that feasibility would be very costly. For example state drafted forms with checkboxes for most common financial terms could be used for that purpose and have to be filed as a condition of receiving the license.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:06 PM
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A big issue is that the default prenup changes based on where the case is filed. This allows the divorcing party to travel to a favorable jurisdiction, do what needs done to make a filing there legitimate (ie establish residency) and then file. Then the default prenup becomes the least favorable laws to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:18 PM
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You need evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:25 PM
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Calling him an "American idiot"? OK, the idiot is directed at him, but do you have any evidence that the idiots per unit of population isnt much different in the USA as it is elsewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:51 PM
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As much as it annoys you I think you will remember for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:39 PM
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If you seriously considering it then you should review the legal requirements for emancipation because they vary from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. For example, where I am a kid has to actually have the capacity to be independent and this includes a review of you know their social and financial skills and things like that. so the kids have to have those skills to make the petition in good faith where i am.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:08 PM
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Also you use “that” when you refer to men and you use “who” when referring to women. I don’t like that. “That” is used to refer to inanimate objects. It’s like using “it”. (“a man that won’t cheat” “a man that’s high in conscientiousness” vs “a woman who can cook”)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:18 PM
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conscientiousness* Sorry but it was such an eyesore
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:56 PM
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My plan was to apply to the local courts to have my kids emancipated shortly before they turned 18 because somebody who was an emancipated minor is an independent student for student aid purposes. Then the government will give them just as much aid as if their parents were broke losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:21 AM
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And so you can be classified as an independent student for FAFSA student aid purposes, thereby avoiding the reduced student aid from your parents expected family contribution, and also not needing their tax papers to apply for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:15 AM
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So that you can take an additional 250k capital gains exemption when you sell a house, or if your partners foreign you can get her a visa.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:09 AM
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It is in the sense that some people are attracted to money and status and while not being attracted to them sexually. OP claims this isnt real attraction and seeks to exclude it definitionally although it is attraction, albeit not sexual attraction. Complicating the question is that there are people who actually are sexually attracted to socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:50 PM
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Person A: "No Scotsman puts sugar on his porridge." Person B: "But my uncle Angus is a Scotsman and he puts sugar on his porridge." Person A: "But no true Scotsman puts sugar on his porridge." And what if Person A also claimed that Angus is not a Scotsman, and that he was, in fact, an Irishman, and that it really was the case that no Scotsman ever has put sugar on his porridge and that no Scotsman ever will. Well, this goes to a factual matter, and sometimes whether or not something is fallaciou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:40 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/dPo2H41Poa Not exactly a call out but you should get the idea
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:47 PM
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I call those out too. I identify primarily as a working man and I view the battle of the sexes as distraction from class struggle, plausibly deliberately fomented by the wealthy to divide and rule the working class. To that end I seek to end it and have the workers unite against their oppressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:45 PM
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It isn't a classic case where somebody public makes a claim, then when confronted with a counter example modifies the claim to exclude the counter example. The classic example: Person A: "No Scotsman puts sugar on his porridge."Person B: "But my uncle Angus is a Scotsman and he puts sugar on his porridge."Person A: "But no true Scotsman puts sugar on his porridge." More examples (from the link I gave) - John doesn't drink alcohol. No real man avoids alcohol. John isn't a real man. Sarah always w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:24 PM
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Gold digging somebody isnt attraction in the sense that the person is a means to an end. Rather, some people are attracted to somebody because they perceive the person as having high socioeconomic status. In other words, some people are attracted to those who they think are better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:21 AM
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https://www.businessinsider.com/2009/1/study-rich-men-give-women-more-orgasms?op=1 These women orgasm harder when the man is richer. That seems pretty raw and sexual to me. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:59 AM
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Everything you just wrote is conclusory. Nothing you just wrote explains why your post is not a no true scotsman fallacy. My intentions arent relevant to whether or not my assertion was correct, and being motivated by intellectual ego is something you should expect in a debate sub, but TBH Im mostly motivated by hatred of BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:52 AM
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That is a straw man argument. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:43 AM
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It is real attraction. This post is a no true scotsman fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:49 AM
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You are blaming the sexuality of straight women for the patriarchy. I wasnt born yesterday. This is a post about blaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:27 AM
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Nah, it's a red flag, but shouldn't be a dealbreaker. And a red flag for what, exactly? To get the person STD tested before engaging in any sexual activities with them. Prostitutes often contract STDs because they have sex with a lot of different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:27 PM
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Does your life suck? It's not because you suck at life - It's because of all those things that other people did or didn't do that made your life worse. It's always somebody else's fault. Now keep telling yourself that so you can feel better about being a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:40 PM
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Hunch: I think hollywood and advertising have kept making this "girl power" message and it cause men to sexualize that sort of woman, but those women dont really exist so much. I mean theyre out there but not so common and this cause a supply/demand imbalance where theres too many men who want that sort of woman and not enough of them to meet the demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:38 AM
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And when did I say I expected them to do anything? My expectation is that feminism will become more popular and mainstream in the west because the rich rule the west and I think it useful to the wealthy to divide the working class along gendered lines, and giving feminists a megaphone and platform does exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:20 PM
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Look at them through the lens of a shared identity (eg a national one). If Americans are being treated unfairly then that is an American issue, not a mens issue or a womens issue, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:44 AM
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Prioritizing womens issues reflects a belief that womens issues are more important than other issues. Such a belief is not consistent with a belief in equality as between the sexes. So, when feminists say they believe in equality as between the sexes, I do not believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:40 PM
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Feminism piroritizes women's issues while claiming to be about equality. The gender based prioritization is not consistent with a belief in equality as between the sexes. It is a consistent with a belief that women's issues are more important. That's the problem - A stated belief then action inconsistent with it. When people claim to believe something but their conduct isn't consistent with that belief then the logical conclusion is that they dont really believe what they claim to. This is what …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:53 PM
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Women would have to be happier being single or in harems. Human psychology largely isnt setup for that. This population would probably be worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:46 PM
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The only thing that Islamic law and norms are more tolerant of is polygamy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:52 AM
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A lot of these irrational cultural things I think are caused by ESG investing from hedge funds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:47 PM
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Believe that they matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:46 AM
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This only pertains to casual sexual relationships which most women arent interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:05 AM
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But are they telling the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:05 AM
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Sacrifice is for suckers and moral superiority is for losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:37 PM
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The problem with "stealing" somebody's SO is that now you have an SO who has a history of infidelity. Is that really what's best for you? I don't think it is. You're better off with somebody who isn't a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:47 PM
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Yeah but its obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:39 AM
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Most of these double standards are coming top down from corporations, usually advertisers and media companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:51 PM
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Religions usually have some holy book that doesn't change much so their ideas are more rigid I guess. When it comes to red pill stuff, for purposes of discussions here I look toward what's listed about red pill in the ppd community information. I dont see anything about it there that strikes me as inaccurate, but on the other hand I hardly see much there about it at all. So its usually not clear to me what "red pill" really means. Its like this amorphous group of related ideas. I do like the met…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:35 PM
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Well, one problem is that I don't really know who came up with the ideas of the red pill. Rather, you're talking about people who gravitate toward those ideas rather than the person or persons who came up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:08 PM
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Are you sure? I mean, have you looked at all the great ideas out there and learned about the people who came up with them? You might be surprised when you find out that many of the best ideas came from people who had dark personalities. People who are very narcissistic and competitive often are driven to succeed at any cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:53 PM
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You do realize that whether or not somebody is a jerk isn't relevant to whether or not they are correct, right? Why are you claiming that red pillers generally have negative personality traits rather than debating their ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:23 PM
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This reminds me of those job postings that require college degrees and pay minimum wage
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:08 AM
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But you did and you don't see how. You are identifying with women and valuing their interests more than you're valuing men's interests. That's why you're pointing out generalities about women you consider to be good and generalities about men that you consider to be bad. This is in-group favoritism. Realize that identities are social constructs and arbitrary. People can be divided and groups made however you want to make them. Identities are regularly fomented by the powers that be in a manner t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:41 PM
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You should stop making divisive upward and downward comparisons between men and women. It isnt productive. If you really believed in equality then youd realize that men and women are equally important and refrain from making pejorative remarks and comparisons intended to denigrate men and elevate women. All you saying here is reflective if a belief that women and better than and more important than men. Youre wrong and that belief is incompatible with a belief in equality. How can you reconcile …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:37 AM
13

“Women don’t really compete” “We’re all 10s” Do you really believe these things or are these just things you tell yourself because it makes you feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:06 PM
16

Everybody has to compete, not just men. Everything you writing here just about trying to make men think that theyre no good. Probably means you dont like men. Maybe you got your reasons but I doubt theyre good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:19 PM
6

You changed “business” to “care”. Care all you want but that doesn’t make it your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:51 AM
10

What business it of yours what other people are looking for other than somebody you dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:15 AM
5

If you trick somebody to get with you and they find out that you tricked them then youre gonna get dumped and youre gonna deserve it. Just wasting everyones time doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:40 PM
7

Everything’s always men’s fault somehow. Doesn’t matter what it is. Are you a man? Well you did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:57 PM
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He checked all my boxes and then some, but I turned him down because he was a late bloomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:52 PM
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Im an Uber driver. I picked up a guy from downtown San Jose CA once. Here's what he said: "Man I f@$king hate women. The problem is Im attracted to them sexually. Men are so much better. I wish I was gay." Then I knew for myself thay misogyny exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:23 AM
1

Probably cut off your balls
/r/MensRights29/05/24 01:39 AM
20

Different men want different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:57 PM
4

It is a crime in 17 states but rarely prosecuted. In 3 states it is a felony.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:49 PM
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Both cases are civil cases. Theyre the same civil cause of action, "alienation of affections" and both are for ~9 million civil judgments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:01 PM
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"Keith sued the man his wife had had an affair with. The judge awarded him damages of $8.8 million." https://www.npr.org/2024/02/23/1233355097/planet-money-a-lawsuit-for-your-broken-heart
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:16 PM
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The judgment is against a woman and in favor of a woman. There are also cases where the ex husband sues the wife's new lover and in those cases it is a judgment against a man in favor of a man, assuming the new lover was a man I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:56 PM
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I dont see how it shows that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:16 PM
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https://abcnews.go.com/Business/TheLaw/wife-wins-million-husbands-alleged-mistress/story?id=10151957
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:29 PM
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There have been a lot of significant adverse life consequences for men who dont register, often through excusable neglect. Like the parents tell their son that theyll do it for them and then they dont do it and then the kid's SoL.
/r/MensRights24/05/24 04:46 PM
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You didnt say 2 would leave if I had another girl, but you did say 1 would leave. You also said 2 only values me for my money and wouldnt cheat on me. If all she wants is money then she wouldnt care if I had another woman. Marry 2 (with a prenup) and get a side girl who loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:09 PM
2

Sure ya do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:32 AM
3

Lol yeah I saw the post about wondering if the price was right for a 1995 toyota
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:28 PM
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The underrepresentation of dogs in the workplace is an underappreciated issue. The species pay gap is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:27 PM
9

My mom always gave me food all the time. At some point I suspected she was trying to make me fat so Id stay at home, never get a gf so she wouldnt be lonely empty nester.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:29 PM
2

What you’re looking for is very relevant. FWB or LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:57 PM
2

I mean, you got to be clear what you mean by "better than" or "superior". A lot of people mean it to mean that certain perception of status sense. Like, having greater social status is what it means to be "better than" somebody or "superior" to somebody a lot of the time. Like "were better than those losers".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:58 AM
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Human beings are very status oriented. You should be able to easily recognize who is superior and inferior within the social hierarchy. prisoners, homeless, working poor, middle class, upper class... Whats the basis of the hierarchy? A bit nebulous and subjective, but there typically is a basis for hierarchy recognized and believed in by each individual, even if intellectually denied they can still feel it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:21 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_status
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:19 PM
0

Um pretty simple those people are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:52 PM
0

Dude grow up
/r/MensRights21/05/24 04:24 PM
1

bigotry: "obstinate or intolerant devotion to one's own opinions and prejudices : the state of mind of a bigot" Sounds more like your attitude than mine.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 03:11 PM
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Thats kindof how I see it.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 01:51 AM
2

I’ve noticed that a bit lately. Like they talk about “equity” and what have you but really it seems to me to be like “money, jobs, opportunities, etc for women only”. “Equity” like a big bologna to me.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 01:07 AM
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Youre alleging a difference between what is being advocated for and distinguishing based on that difference. I havent heard or seen much about feminists pushing for revising history so I dont know what youre talking about there. I just going off the feminism entry in encyclopedia brittanica.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 11:37 PM
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I do have similar reservations about the BLM movement, yes, but I don’t do that.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 10:59 PM
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This is the claim but why call it mens rights if thats not what its about? I also dont see that reflected in the sub. Like, most posts are about mens issues rather than human rights issues generally.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 08:03 PM
3

Most people aren’t in charge of much of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:36 AM
0

You blind yourself to truth with defensive and closed minded dismissiveness. I cant help you see what you dont want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:29 AM
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There is a lot to envy about men. Males generally perform better at physical activities, particularly sports. This is something everybody is doing when theyre kids which is a time that has a big psychological impact. It's a conspicuous unearned advantage and gender is also a big part of identity. Men have throughout history have held the lions share of power and grand achievements. There was never a woman on the moon nor a woman president. The list of nobel prize winners is almost all men. The b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:28 PM
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Non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:59 PM
6

The default psychological response to envy is contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:21 PM
2

Because he's never dated anyone and doesn't understand people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:39 PM
2

No sex no deal end of story
/r/MensRights15/05/24 07:15 PM
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Im unlikely to believe them without having first having been convinced that theyre credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:50 AM
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And there goes the college education.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:44 PM
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And what happens if they break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:33 PM
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A lot of the girls are in college and the parents are helping them. That is pretty normal. When they have a degree and/or are in the workforce then its not so much an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:08 AM
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"If you dont stop seeing that man then Im going to stop paying for your college, your rent, your car payments, you cell phone bill, and I can disinherit you whenever I want"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:00 AM
-1

The parents do and the woman is often still dependent on them. This will make the relationships difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:54 AM
5

When people give advice it’s usually bad advice because they don’t care if it’s going to work or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:15 PM
1

Sacrifice is for suckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:18 PM
1

You are wrong because your claim is that “Men are entitled”. Your claim isn’t the bold text you put down halfway through your post. Your claim portrays the whole negatively and isn’t supported by any evidence other than your own alleged personal experiences which, even if true, aren’t sufficient to prove your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:02 PM
5

It's a bad idea because you don't get to check for problems in bed before you're married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:57 AM
2

Why would I trust you? You're some random redditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:37 AM
3

Im not paying for another mans kids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:14 AM
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A lot of the arguments have this problem. Ive yet to see a compelling data-based argument indicating that a random encounter with a random man in the woods is more or less likely to lead to an injury than a random encounter with a random bear in the woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:33 PM
6

Never heard of diversity hiring of men nor scholarships for men in industries that are dominated by women like nursing or school teachers.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 04:42 PM
2

Not at all. Im in an age gap relationship and the people who seem to care are all the redditors who are always trying to make me out to be a horrible person and her to be a fool. Afaik redditors are a younger demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:27 AM
2

12+
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:39 AM
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I think women should pay for the first date because historically men have been doing that and it just hasnt been fair. Women should be paying now in the interests of gender equity to counteract all the times men paid first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:14 AM
3

The target of criticism was switched from red pilled men to western feminists. It's probably retaliatory criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:01 PM
9

If you dont know what "dark triad" means then you can about it on the wikipedia - https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dark_triad Its a thing. I assure you. The article isnt silly. Its a scientific study. You are here arguing that women are attracted to caring and empathy but the science isnt consistent with that. A lot of men were fed the idea that chicks dig nice guys when they really dont. It was just a lie to try to get guys to be nice. As much as the lie means well in a way, it causes those men …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:29 PM
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"Women rated the high [dark triad] character as significantly more attractive." https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:43 PM
3

It’s time for people to read Night of the Grizzlies
/r/MensRights04/05/24 10:30 PM
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People should also include their race, religion, political party (if any), relationship status, net worth, income, employment history, and educational history so people can determine whether or not somebody has any credibility before bothering to consider what it is they have to say. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:51 PM
2

Right because what I said was true and it has nothing to do with capitalism. There is no validity to collective responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:10 PM
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"We" ? I didnt do that. Im not responsible for the conduct of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:56 PM
1

Nobody respects. It’s all fear cloaked in pretend respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:34 AM
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Obviously the white male drivers should be replaced with minority women. A termination and hiring campaign should be commenced immediately to fix the problem.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:12 PM
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By tricking them into thinking being a good person will lead to companionship you can channel their miserable loneliness in to more productive alternatives like making the world better for women. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:33 PM
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Your argument is a hasty generalization based solely on your (alleged) personal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:06 AM
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My comment was half sarcastic really, as I do think a lot of guys waste a lot of time gaming for that reasoning. I wasted a lot of time doing that when I was younger, and I regret it now. I think the real reason not to use video games as an alternative way to satisfy one's psychological need for advancement and achievement is that you don't get many incidental benefits. Like, the overwhelming majority of the time you don't get money, sex, children, status, love, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:27 PM
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What bothered me more was the other article saying half of the marriages are sexless with the men saying that "she doesnt respond to my advances" and the women saying "its just too much hassle." Too many bad lives being lived over there. Too many bad lives being lived everywhere.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 09:48 PM
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Why bother pursuing success in life when you can find success in beating video games? Theyre a lot more fun and the goals dont take so much time and effort to reach. Im up to the challenge of defeating the bad guy and saving the princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:07 PM
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Ukrainian refugee. They only let women leave the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:42 PM
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Obviously I meant at the time you say it first so that you avoid insulting somebody in the first place rather than insulting them and then after the fact being like "Oh, I didn't mean it that way." Reality is a lot of people in fact DO mean it that way then after the fact falsely deny that they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:15 PM
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If that's true then it's your fault that you neglected to clarify that. I don't trust your representation that meant it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:55 PM
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For women too if they want it. The people need the sex. They're not getting it. It's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:52 PM
1

You asked me what I'd do. Now I answered your question honestly. You don't like the truth? That why you're being insulting? Why'd you ask for it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:41 PM
0

Id thought about free sex for STD free people at government run brothels.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:58 PM
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I tell her to find a husband before she turns into a cat lady
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:15 AM
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This article reeks with bias and isnt credible for that reason. The big problem with a lot of studies is the conflict of interest where the authors are putting their names, reputations and careers out there in front of their academic community. If they say or do something that is going to displease that community then they may lose respect, reputation and jeopardize their careers. Its that fear of loss and desire to be held in greater esteem by their peers that is the conflict of interest. When …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:46 PM
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All ego, no love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:15 AM
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I'll do what I want. Do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:25 PM
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If you don’t play you can’t lose. Let’s give up and go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:56 PM
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If the bar for success is set to impossible then failure isn’t damaging to one’s sense of self.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:50 PM
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Its not what you do or who you are thats wrong. Its what you are thats wrong, and when you understand that then everything makes sense. Youre wrong because youre a man. Thats what they want you to believe and they send this message to you day in day out in one way or another. Its usually in some implied, hidden way so that you dont pick up on what it is theyre doing. But realize that youre not wrong because of what you are. They are wrong because of what they do.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 06:51 AM
0

I dont see anything wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:48 AM
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Bad policies based on false assumptions lead to suffering because they fix problems that dont exist while the real problems go unaddressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:12 PM
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Just another negative generalization about a gender based on claimed personal experiences. The evidence is weak, and for me to consider it Id first have to believe that OP credible, but I dont even know who OP is. Just some random person on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:31 PM
2

Many womem treat men like absolute garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:24 PM
1

It takes longer to figure out life because you have to learn more in life the hard way when you dont have a guide. You make it but you are behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:03 PM
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Feel good denialism feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:52 AM
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I’d think she didn’t value us spending time together. That stuff about not being able to afford it just isn’t true. The marginal cost of bringing an extra person a long isn’t that much. It’s the plane tickets and the food, event tickets etc. Rental car and hotels are going to be the same price with an extra person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:26 PM
2

He had good looking girls over all the time. Wasn’t anything much special about him that I could see other than him being a good looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:23 PM
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Injustice makes people feel bad. Denying that it exists avoids those bad feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:34 PM
0

No. Success is usually a combination of luck and work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:33 AM
1

Haven’t known the government to verify heights and weights on IDs. It’s not much more credible a source than the person you’re dating. Usually height and weight you can see yourself anyway. Intelligence you can discern.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:10 PM
1

Objectification gets a bad rap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:45 PM
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Swapping the identities is often a good test.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 12:24 AM
3

You should work on your attitude. If a lot of people dont like you, then its probably your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:42 PM
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There are lots of mean people around. Theyll smile in your face and stab you in the back.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 11:36 PM
50

Being a real man means not being a loser and a sucker for people who just want to use you and throw you in the trash.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 11:22 PM
3

No, but I know that Im out of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:12 PM
4

You say that I didn’t choose to marry in my league. In other words, that my girl is not in my league, presumably because you think that traditional women are beneath modern women. No, I’m afraid that’s not true. Being a good wife and mother is who a lot of women want to be - A lot. Theres absolutely nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:04 PM
6

There are ways to tell what a man is looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:02 PM
5

I took one to be my wife. That’s what I wanted. Why you here saying men don’t want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:53 PM
23

People always posting bologna here with no evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:30 PM
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Nope. All shes gotta do is make the baby, be it by your seed or otherwise. Everything else is your problem. If you cant handle that then you need to work on yourself and stop being so immature. Its your responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:17 AM
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You have presented no evidence to support your position nor any evidence to establish your credibility. Furthermore, what you’re asserting is inconsistent with the existing evidence that I’m already aware of. I will dismiss this as more baseless contentions posted in this sub and I have no reason to take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:23 PM
0

There is parler or x I guess if you want
/r/MensRights03/04/24 07:14 PM
-9

Make a pass at her friend and she will make a rape allegation. Its in the interests of justice anyway. You hurt her so now its time for you to pay the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:27 PM
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Because dark triad was and continues to be an effective psychology for success.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 08:34 PM
1

Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:10 PM
1

TBH it's questionable whether or not narcissistic personality disorder is an actual disorder or simply something the APA wants to shame by labeling it as a disorder because the APA thinks it's what's best for society. The APA has a history of classifying things as disorders or not as disorders for reasons that aren't related to whether or not the consensus among the experts is it's a bona fide disorder. For example, the APA removed sadistic personality disorder from the DSM because it thought th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:15 PM
1

Probably increased technological immersion resulting in the greater consumption of content which, by and large results in the wholesale destruction of the male ego through messages, explicit or implicit, of female empowerment which results in males not believing in themselves, and not bothering to even try pursuing sexual relationships because they estimate such a high probability of rejection and low probability of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:08 PM
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BS takes a lot more time to prove that it's BS than it does to manufacture it. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brandolini's_law This is the problem with this sub generally, and a lot of other subs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:50 AM
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Why would you think that a lot of women arent ready for relationships until their 30s when 68% of women aged 18-29 are in relationships? https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/?attachment_id=28973
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:09 AM
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Feminists are not egalitarian. Feminists care more about women than men.
/r/MensRights25/03/24 06:37 PM
0

Controlling the target of criticism is a common propaganda technique. This sub is all about the battle of the sexes. Any "discussion" about the toxic behavior of men is probably for the purpose of making men look bad and women look better in comparison. But people here have lost sight of the forest for the trees. Who benefits from that battle? The rich do. Why? Because it undermines class consciousness. So long as the workers are pitted against eachother then they will not unite against the rich…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:18 PM
1

Good for a laugh https://www.oscars.org/awards/representation-and-inclusion-standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:37 PM
3

I wanted prince charming but I settled for a neckbeard
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:34 PM
1

Lets talk about the toxic behavior of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:30 PM
1

https://youtu.be/ObZtS-Vl7wQ?feature=shared
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:06 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:31 PM
6

You said "The reason". You did not say "A reason".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:04 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallacy_of_the_single_cause
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:24 PM
5

You're living in a dream
/r/MensRights14/03/24 08:17 PM
1

Tell that to Joseph Merrick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:32 PM
4

It's a form of gaslighting and deflection. When you say somebody is fragile you are taking the position that it is their fault that their feelings got hurt, even though you may have done something insulting, mean or hurtful. Usually bad arguments like this are concealed in words like that because if the arguments are made clear then it becomes obvious how bad they are.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 06:32 AM
12

"Women and children" is code for "everyone but men."
/r/MensRights10/03/24 06:09 AM
14

Why are poor people born in third world countries envious and resentful of rich people born in the west?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:18 PM
3

Community, meaning and purpose in life through family.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:15 PM
2

Make baby is good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:29 PM
2

It's so the man won't leave the woman after she makes the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:35 PM
3

Yeah, it does happen. It would be nice to have men only gym because of lower probability of being suspected of or falsely accused of whatever. Theyre not public accommodatuons AFAIK but under some state civil rights legislation I think there can be compliance issues with gender discrimination at gyms.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 05:09 AM
4

I work because if I dont pay the bills then bad things happen.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 04:40 AM
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May have to do with it being customary for men to make advances toward women; A lot of women receive unwanted advances from men. This results in one-sided demand for women only spaces. A women only gym is a profitable business model whereas a men only gym probably would lose more customers than it would get by discriminating against women. Also I think a lot of them arent really women only gyms for legal reasons. Like you can just go in and sign up for a membership. They just soft signal that it…
/r/MensRights08/03/24 04:06 AM
3

What are you talking about? Player, stud... these words have positive connotations and men who do that are admired by many. There is a lot of social encouragement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:55 AM
3

What if the man was infertile so the couple used a sperm donor? Does this have to become a certified public record that the man's balls don't work?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:58 PM
4

No. Do not ever accept life as a loser. Make it or die trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:54 AM
1

Where's the 50+ data?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:47 AM
1

Wanna know who is even more loyal than women and men generally? Dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:47 AM
3

To get rid of the expected family contribution for student aid
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:52 PM
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This is doubtful to me. Google derives the overwhelming majority of its revenue from advertising. The advertising industry is especially woke minded and corporations like Google exist in fear; Under the implied threat that advertisers will shut off the money. Look what happened to X when Elon Musk says non-PC stuff. Part of being politically correct is the rampant double standards.
/r/MensRights02/03/24 07:19 AM
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Everythings fine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:08 AM
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One time I read something on the internet and it wasn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:38 PM
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Just a bunch of anti-male rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:35 PM
1

Maybe less competition from other online people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:32 PM
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If a lack of social skills are the real reason you are opposed to late bloomers dating young women then you would similarly be opposed to 18 year old men dating 18 year old women. I doubt that's the case. What's more likely, I think, is that you envy the youth of younger women. You can't get back what they have that you lost, but what you can do is try to make them appear undesireable; Deny that they have what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:47 PM
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Did you know that the two party system and identity politics, fomented by the wealthy, together operate to divide and rule the working class? Did you know that affirmative action is a pathetic attempt at justice? If you actually wanted to address the bigotry of the past then you would go and find the people who were subject to that prejudice their entire lives and they would be the beneficiaries, not the next generation. Yes, lets get some affirmative action for college folk to address underrepr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:45 AM
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Not everything that could be dog whistling is dog whisting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:14 AM
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being against affirmative action is explicitly "pro white men." What did they put in your brain? smh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:55 PM
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No. You what you assumed was that people wouldn't look through the article and discover the fact you were concealing, nor was your point about a traditional setup being an unreasonable expectation. It was about a non-traditional setup not being a threat to a man's manhood ("you're a modern man" not "they can't expect the traditional setup") Do you know how to be honest? Apparently not. Try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:07 PM
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If you split bills/mortgage with your spouse, you’re a modern man. In the US, around 16% of women are the sole/primary breadwinner and 29% of couples are egalitarian. You failed to mention that 55% of men are primary or sole/primary breadwinners according to that article. And there goes your credibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:03 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Faulty_generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:50 PM
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If that's the best evidence you can offer to support your claims then you should withdraw them for lack of persuasive evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:36 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:39 PM
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Anti-male propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:31 PM
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Personality is important. Nice guys finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:18 PM
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The target of criticism is usually one gender or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:27 PM
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You said, in response to my statistics indicating that 71% of women say that being able to financially support a family is very important for a man - "That's what people say, but it's more useful to look at what they actually do." He showing you stats indicating what people actually do. Now you again reject the stats on the alleged basis that they don't say "that women aren't supporting the family to a significant extent " This post isn't about whether or not "women are supporting the family to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:56 PM
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71% of women think that "being able to support a family financially is very important for a man to be a good husband/partner" - Only 25% of men say the same for women. That makes money far more relevant in dating for men than women. Source: https://www.pewresearch.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/FT_17.09.20_Spouses_forcouplestoday.png?w=310
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:42 AM
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I do not trust your claim of a diagnosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:06 PM
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Young women are hounded by men who want sex. You are a man. When you reach out it is assumed that you want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:56 PM
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Most were good, but some were bad. Therefore judge them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:49 PM
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Who is at fault? Men or women? The debate continues. Actually, collective responsibility has no moral validity, nor are men and women distinct legal/political communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:40 PM
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Not legal in Reno or Vegas https://decriminalizesex.work/Nevada-prostitution-laws/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:20 PM
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They're using the preponderance of the evidence standard. This is a low burden of proof but there's no discussion in the document about the evidence against him. Yet, that the local DA had been moving forward with a prosecution suggests they thought they had evidence beyond reasonable doubt. They usually dont prosecute unless they think they will win. So, you say its just the girl's word against his? Nothing other than that? How you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:34 AM
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Funny how you claim that the argument is weak yet you proffer nothing that addresses it, only personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:50 PM
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Nobody wants me because I'm a fat, do-nothing loser living at Mom's house. I could work on myself, or I could blame other people for my problems. Yeah, other people. The market sucks. I'm not the problem. The market's the problem. I just need to keep my sense of self safely in this delusional realm of denialism so I can avoid the shame of being a failure. There. It's better now because the pain is gone. The truth hurt. The truth is the enemy. But now the truth is gone, and it's so much better to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:36 PM
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If you're looking for rational debate, this isn't the place to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:57 PM
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Prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:56 PM
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He'd be gay because the world has a way of making sure that good things don't happen to average people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:28 PM
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date - verb: "to make a usually romantic social arrangement to meet with" date - noun: "an appointment to meet at a specified time - especially : a social engagement (see ENGAGEMENT sense 1a) between two persons that often has a romantic character" https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/date Doesnt say anything about being exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:37 PM
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Dont take advice from people who dont give a shit about you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:22 PM
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It would be a foolish choice. Life's easier with a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:57 AM
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These are lots of questions. Arguments should be spelled out clearly to show what your point is. Questions make arguments unclear. The central issue would be the validity of the judgments people make about the relationships. From what Ive read the negative judgments usually stem from a presumption of wrongdoing on the part of the man and an interest in protecting the younger woman when it is an older man age gap. This is usually assuming a lot based on little information.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 12:01 AM
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There's nothing wrong with caring about your reputation. People want to be accepted, not judged and shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:35 PM
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To protect the female ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:20 AM
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"dealt with a woman that would say ..." You use "who" to refer to people and "that" to refer to animals and things. A grammar error, or perhaps not if you're a sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:29 PM
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I suppose there are probably data from apps on the phones that always seem to track where you are. That would be a low hanging fruit. Like, ask them about the trip and such and then compare what they told you to what the location data indicates. Getting access to those data may be problematic. If you had any reason to suspect it you could hire a private investigator in the location where they traveled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:56 PM
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Mate seeking behavior is often a breach of exclusivity agreements.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:20 AM
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Women have to pay for all dates now because the feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:41 AM
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Lust for power.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:26 PM
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Serial monogamy does not mean an intent to abandon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:35 AM
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Not sure I get you. My understanding is that charities discriminating on the basis of a protected characteristic (eg gender, race, religion, etc) don't have problems running afoul of civil rights laws so long as there's no discrimantory hiring or public accommodations. The real situation can be more complicated. For example, when private money is used to fund discriminatory scholarships which are administered by a public school then the school's administration of the money implicates title 9 cov…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:42 AM
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In-group favoritism is not hard to understand. Gay organizations can do that and do do that. They prioritize issues that adversely affect members of their group because they care more about the people who they identify with. That is identity politics and it is often represented as some belief in equality and fairness when that's not what it is. Loyalty isn't about equality. It's about inequality where you value the interests of some over others. For example, I value the interests of my friends a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:19 AM
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Anybody who claims they're for equality then only cares about the issues adversely impacting their group identity doesn't really believe in equality. It's simple in group favoritism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:32 PM
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This would definitely cause a problem for my relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:18 AM
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"'sex offender' reported to police in that 12-month period was a four-year-old child who uploaded an indecent image of their sibling." This is whats included in your data of sex crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:15 AM
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Do it anyway. Fuck social norms. They're just a bunch of bullshit to try to trick you in to being a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:55 AM
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I expect more jury awards as woke bologna clashes with civil rights laws.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 05:24 PM
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Because it's normal human nature. People have to exercise self discipline, police themselves to not engage in that sort of thing. When youre driving your car youre not supposed to speed but you cant always be looking at your speedometer. Youre going to go a bit over every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:01 PM
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I think people engage in a lot of minor mate seeking behaviors (micro-cheating, as you call it) without being so self aware of what they're doing and how it may conflict with their obligations to their relationship. It's important not to presume that they're consciously disregarding their obligations and/or actively shopping around for a better partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:06 PM
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Young men are historically the demographic that revolts. By normalizing hatred of men it helps to maintain social order. Deep down they will agree that they dont deserve anything and wont object to being treated like garbage by the powers that be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:25 PM
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Im better than you. I bet you like that, dont you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:11 PM
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They still are choosing to do that. They can choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:54 PM
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Men choose their mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:39 PM
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Depends on the drugs really, and also how theyre taken and how often. Smoking is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:31 PM
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If its okay to say that about men then its okay to say that about women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:21 PM
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I think this is probably about challenging the position that women have superior victimhood. This evidence lacks a comparison to women, and there are better arguments to be made against women having victimhood, like arguing that being a victim comes from being a victim, not from being a man or being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:26 AM
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There wouldnt be any emotional connection because the AI doesnt have any feelings and even if it did they would be weird non-human feelings that arent likely to be compatible with human psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:46 PM
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D... mostly worried about hurting her feelings by leading her on inadvertently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:59 AM
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I was joking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:28 PM
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Well if he got Beats headphones you know hes a baller.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:15 PM
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The definition of accusation is not met by conducting a paternity test. You are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:27 PM
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Wow. You got an attitude problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:08 PM
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This is clear sexism. Collective responsibility is without merit. Consider a young woman. She hasn't done any of this work you're talking about and you're talking about handing the benefits to her simply because she is a woman. She has done nothing to earn it. Consider a young man. You are arguing that he should be denied benefits because other men "can't even get a group of them together". The young man should not be held responsible for the conduct of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:21 PM
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It isnt mental gymnastics. For there to be an accusation you must accuse somebody of something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:18 PM
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Conducting a test is not making an accusation. If you cant see that then you arent thinking straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:03 AM
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No, it isnt an accusation. When you accuse somebody of something then you are claiming that they did something. No such claim is made by conducting a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:56 PM
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Conducting a paternity is not an accusation of cheating. The tests cost about $150 dollars, do not take a lot of time and I dont see much, if any of a privacy issue. If one came back negative Id figure it was more likely that the test was bad, that there was some mixup at the lab or maternity ward or that I was a chimera.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:41 AM
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Its time for losers to take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:30 AM
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Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:04 AM
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That empathy is unlikely to be reciprocated. It's a bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:40 PM
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Dont listen to OP. If you dont approach women then you will probably be lonely because you likely wont get a girlfriend nor sex. OP is probably a woman pretending to be a guy giving you bad advice because she cares about the problem of unwanted attention and doesnt care about your loneliness. See OPs other post where she complains about receiving unwanted advances from men - https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/56ihyUQfO7
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:17 PM
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How does that add value to your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:45 PM
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"the results have been overwhelmingly positive." Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:52 PM
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I was selling a house once. The lawn was in pretty bad shape. The realtor suggested having the photographer photoshop perfect grass in to the pictures. I didn't think it was right, but I knew that people would see the true condition of the grass before they purchased the property. That was good enough for my conscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:43 PM
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Why do we have to get married legally? Don't you trust me to do right by you? Why do we even need the courts or the government to ensure that I'll do the right thing? Don't you trust me? That you even want that means that you think I would do the wrong thing. I'm so insulted.
/r/MensRights09/12/23 08:54 PM
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No, it would not. When you say that there "isn't anything [you] personally can do to help" I would know that is not true. You could go over my dating history and love life and try to figure out what I can do to make things work. That would take a lot of time and effort though. It's not expected that you would, but when you say that you can't do anything when you can, then I know it's a lie and it would annoy me. The truth would be that you can do something to help but that you got other prioriti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:10 PM
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There's always the sperm bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:36 AM
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Lock her up
/r/MensRights08/12/23 11:42 PM
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No dating issue shoud be blamed on a gender. There is no validity to collective blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:55 PM
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Staring's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:02 PM
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Because social status determined reproductive success during the formative period of human evolution. It is natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:10 PM
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Passport bro-ing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:13 AM
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Child support is for the child. You must obtain the child's consent for a financial abortion. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:53 AM
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I dont see how that is relevant to whether or not OP's advice is sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:12 PM
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It is unlikely that a man will get a woman if he does not approach women because women rarely approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:31 PM
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Look for a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:29 PM
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You have to be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:05 PM
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Somebody attacks me for that and I perform a citizens arrest for assault and battery followed with a civil complaint and I'll laugh when they get convicted and sentenced and their garnished wages pad my account.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:04 AM
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Cant really edit the post title but I did add an edit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:32 AM
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That claim wasnt made in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:55 AM
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That would be the gist of it; That unwanted advances are an inevitable consequence of advances in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:53 AM
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Advances have to made for there to be relationships. The overwhelming majority arent going to. You cant tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:25 AM
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https://emedicine.medscape.com/article/1519417-overview?form=fpf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:58 PM
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What is your score on the narcissistic personality inventory?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:45 PM
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TBH I was always more worried about rejection or creating an awkward situation rather than looking like I wasn't masculine because I failed to approach. Not approaching isn't something that evidences a lack of masculinity. It's a pretty passive thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:35 PM
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Nothing in life is guaranteed except the past because the future is always uncertain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:22 PM
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No, it isn't toxic. It's tough love. A man must work hard to get a good life or end up a bitter, unwanted loser who blames other people for his problems. Nobody is going to save you but yourself. Maybe if you were born rich and with great genes you have an out, but most of us do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:08 PM
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That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it. https://www.thelifedoctor.org/the-narcissist-s-prayer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:56 PM
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We should just people for their past
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:40 PM
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That's probably because they see things like what you wrote their whole lives and have come to believe that they're not good enough so they don't approach women because they don't want to bother risking the rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:38 PM
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"women get to be picker more than ever" No. The guy to girl ratio hasn't changed. If anything the quality of available men has diminished as less men are going to college. There's only so many men to go around and polygyny isn't acceptable to the overwhelming majority of women who are stuck choosing from the stock that's available or remaining alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:16 PM
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Its good to be king
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:39 AM
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Thanks for womansplaining that to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:00 PM
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No. Men can have children much longer than women can. The age of the mother is far more significant a factor in birth defects and fertility than the age of the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:27 AM
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Work 70 hours and have rentals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:31 AM
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The woman needs to feel that she belongs to a superior man. She will need to find a man with an invincible ego and play along with his delusions of superiority. It'd have to be a man who never grew up, and never will. Somebody who thinks that he is always right. I'd suggest she start her search in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:01 PM
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The statements are for different situations. So, both can't be simultaneously true of a relationship. The only way could be if the woman was having two different relationships at the same time. People should put due effort in to a relationship but should abandon it's not going to be acceptable despite such effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:34 PM
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OK. Person A got X. Person B did not get X. What determined that person A got X was that person A was born female and person B was not. That is the complaint. Frankly, I don't care much about it. I appreciate the larger context and believe that it is was better to be born male than female despite whatever advantages females may have in certain situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:19 PM
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My understanding is it's the ease which heterosexual women have access to casual sex with attractive partners compared to heterosexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:09 PM
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TBH your post comes across as an unhinged rant directed at men who are resentful at the unfairness of the dating world. There's a lot of unfairness in life. It's hard to deal with for a lot of people. I don't go tell them that their problem is that they have an unreasonable expectation of fair treatment. That's a truth they have to discover for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:56 PM
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What about gay incest? They cant inbreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:48 PM
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They were lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:33 PM
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Incest, polygamy and prostitution are areas where what consenting adults are doing is made the business of society. So are minimum wage laws and a lot of other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:30 PM
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https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/2019/02/12/colleges-universities-discriminate-men-title-ix-complaints-toxic-masculinity-column/2831834002/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:07 PM
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The point where I agree with feminism is the belief in equality as between the sexes. The point where I disagree with feminism is the prioritization of combating sexism when women are at the receiving end of it. This gender-based prioritization is incompatible with a belief in gender equality and it is why I regard feminism as fundamentally flawed from a logical standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:42 PM
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You do not understand what selfish means. "concerned excessively or exclusively with oneself : seeking or concentrating on one's own advantage, pleasure, or well-being without regard for others" https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/selfish Simply wanting something isnt selfish. It is when you want for yourself but you dont care about what the other wants. So, simply wanting the man to be emotionally vulnerable would not be sufficient, in and of itself, to be selfish on a woman's part. She …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:24 PM
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Mmmm well it is nice to have a safe space. Thats something.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 09:20 AM
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Just another post devaluing men. Know your worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:12 AM
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Maybe theyre just trying to fit in or actually are expressing platonic affection. Theres no basis for presuming a sexual motive other than cynicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:21 AM
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Karen is a sexist and racist pejorative and the fact that it's normalized speaks volumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:27 PM
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Honestly I blamed the rich because fomenting gendered divisions divides and rules the working class along gendered lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:18 PM
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The reason to work on yourself isn't to replace relationships; It is to improve yourself so that you will be good enough for somebody who is good enough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:15 PM
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It's not bad to want something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:57 PM
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I consider that the elevation of sex and the denigration of casual sex are plausibly myths propagated by women to decrease the supply of sex and consequently increase its price, or perhaps a method for people in committed relationships to establish and maintain superiority over those who are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:30 AM
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Why is it wrong to want casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:06 AM
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The Amish rejected the telephone because it would reduce the frequency of in person communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:32 AM
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There is nothing wrong with wanting casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:39 AM
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"stop acting like all guys are innocent a d want a little virgin trad woman to marry and have kids" - Who is acting like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:18 PM
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Divorce court
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:25 AM
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"only bad persons have value. got it" - I didnt say that. You misrepresented my position as that. "the straw man fallacy, occurs when an opponent’s point of view is distorted in order to make it easier to refute." https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/fallacies/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:33 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:04 AM
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Male life has no value. Thats why we draft men only. If they die who cares. Dont worry though, because once you accept that youre worthless then youll be what is known as a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:58 AM
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You have to be able to support a family to be marriageable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:21 AM
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Feminists dont care about men.
/r/MensRights18/11/23 01:58 AM
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Youre not a real man unless you let me control you by threatening your masculinity.
/r/MensRights18/11/23 01:51 AM
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My experience with this sort of stuff is that a lot of what happens in courts gets sensationalized and twisted by the media. Often reading through the actual case records is the only way to see what really happened. With employment cases they often get settled without trials or go through private arbitration and what really happened is hard to know.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 05:16 PM
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I dont think legislating fair definitions is going to fix systemic bias unfortunately.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 01:50 AM
2

I was talking about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:26 PM
2

I never accept less than the best because I am the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:08 PM
1

Bad people give you bad advice on purpose and tell you that its because they care about you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:31 PM
2

Did I claim that I didnt want something when I actually did?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:57 AM
2

Your judgment does not affect my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:28 AM
4

What I believe and dont believe does not affect what is and what is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:51 PM
5

That would be deceptive but I dont see how the deception would make the desire unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:36 PM
12

It's not unreasonable to want something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:48 PM
1

With respect to luck and work... It's usually a combination of both in life and dating is no exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:20 PM
1

Probably the red pill guy because we'd have something in common
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:05 AM
1

I dont have to read anything or do anything. I can post what I want. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:40 AM
1

No. It takes time to do that. What would be irresponsible would be to immediately drop what Im doing and go look at that data, and I didnt dismiss it. In fact I said it was a good article. You have been snarky and cynical because you assume that I dont act in good faith when it comes to the evidence and conclusions therefrom. But youre wrong about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:24 PM
1

He is less credible than Washington Post because I never heard of him before. I dont know anything about him. He can be misrepresenting the data from the original sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:10 PM
1

It is a good article but theres not much credibility with him compared to Washington Post which would necessitate looking at the data myself to verify what hes saying for me to be persuaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:29 PM
2

There is no greater good than the quality of my stream of consciousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:00 AM
1

Planning on getting married soon. If there was no sex in 4 years... I dont think I could do that.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 04:58 AM
0

No real debate happens here. Nobody trusts anybody. Nothing productive comes of any of these conversations. Its merely a venue for people to rant and vent, spouting their opinions and dismissing contrary views with hasty, half baked rationalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:56 AM
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Well, here's some alleged data: https://imgur.com/a/OiqXlvF Things are different now. It's not like it was before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:52 AM
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Sour grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:01 PM
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True but more likely than not the correlation would be strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:29 AM
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Lame that you're blaming men for the hate sex workers get when women generally hold more negative views of prostitution than men do. https://today.yougov.com/politics/articles/14864-prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:56 AM
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The content was flagged automatically by software.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:25 AM
0

Even if I accept all of that as true it does not change the inference made from the data with respect to the relative prevalence of misandry and misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:07 PM
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The automatic moderation flagging data from facebook has 90% of the autoflags for hate content as anti male or anti white people. I would imagine its a similar picture on Reddit. This evidence is more compelling than your claimed personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:53 PM
1

Probably just notice it more when its anti women rather than anti men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:43 AM
1

I dont think thats the real reason because they also go easy on anti white racism which suggests something ideological or political.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:02 PM
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Automatic moderation policies from companies like Reddit tiktok etc go easy on misandry. This probably contributes to normalizing hatred of men. https://dailycaller.com/2021/11/22/facebook-hate-speech-white-people-men-joel-kaplan/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:06 PM
2

Just because victims are partially to blame doesnt mean we should not hold perpetrators accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:58 PM
2

Why bother to even try to do good when you can have so much fun staying at home, wanking and playing video games and blaming other people for your problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:29 AM
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Probably more like they want to place the burden of policing misconduct on other people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:07 AM
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Same sex friendships are generally better because you have more in common and its unlikely to be complicated by sexual or romantic feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:24 PM
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Gender issues are indirectly fomented by the wealthy because focusing on the related injustices, real or not, can divide the working class along gendered lines and also serves as a distraction from the elephant in the room which is wealth and income inequality. Should gender neutrality be a goal? Of course, but we shouldnt let ourselves be pitted against one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:38 PM
1

Lots of people have bad relationships with their families and will put their friends first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:36 PM
4

Being unattractive is the curse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:36 AM
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"Why are women" ... "these same women" - Basically this post is an attack on a gender in the form of an appeal to hypocrisy combined with notions of collective responsibility. The same garbage thats always in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:38 PM
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Women want men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:50 AM
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Theyre an existential threat to the sub because Reddit already banned incels mgtow and trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:15 PM
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I blame moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:21 AM
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I need a woman. A woman who will cook for me, clean up after me and do everything I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:16 AM
1

It's too much work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:59 PM
0

The only arguable situations would be with respect to abortions and other prenatal things because it is the woman's body making the baby.
/r/MensRights21/10/23 02:21 AM
2

A wife's consent isn't necessary to conduct a paternity test without cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:11 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_dilemma
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:06 AM
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Fatherhood seems to be an afterthought in public policy, and the message is clear: The government doesn't care about men.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 07:06 PM
7

Pick on fat men. No mention of fat women. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:47 PM
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Nope, the complaining does help them. They work together based on their common interests and collectively they can help solve their problems, such as by voting to elect representatives who will make positive change.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:46 PM
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Just because someone hasn't given something their all doesn't mean they don't have a right to complain about being unfairly rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:07 PM
1

You know people born in to third world poverty need to just suck it up and stop complaining about how unfair life is. They can work hard to get a better life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:04 PM
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There are a lot of people who will never be desirable no matter how hard they try.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:58 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:05 PM
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Didn't approach women because he was taught that it was annoying to women to be approached by men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:02 PM
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This is unsolicited advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:49 PM
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SO gets mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:39 AM
1

Its not even a consensus. Its just a bunch of annoying people spouting bologna for god knows what purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:41 PM
1

Hey look another "blame men" post. Keep beating the dead horse. Remember that its always men's fault, never women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:18 PM
1

You only think its a big problem because its a problem largely women have and men dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:15 PM
2

TBH whenever someone I dont know treats me as a person I regard it as an attempt to cause me to appreciate them so they can use me later.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:13 PM
2

So thankful for freelancing
/r/MensRights15/10/23 04:17 AM
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By that reasoning then non white men shouldn't ask for white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:57 AM
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We're getting McDonalds coffee for $1.49, not even Starbucks. Wasting money's for fools and suckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:51 PM
1

Sounds like sour grapes to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:51 PM
1

Why oh why didn't I take the blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:43 PM
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BSA did it for financial reasons and sold it as some girl power thing
/r/MensRights04/10/23 04:29 PM
0

More bologna intended to make men think they’re no good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:28 PM
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https://www.uncaged.org/post/how-trafficking-happens-exposing-the-loverboy-method
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:45 AM
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Go over there and talk to the girl. If you dont learn to do that then youre not getting a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:11 PM
3

Most news media out there is feminist propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:00 PM
2

You cant tell if its wanted or not until after the fact. Then when you know its unwanted you stop.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 05:22 PM
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You seek to punish male deception in romance but do not seek to punish female deception in romance. This is selective enforcement based on gender. Something wrong with how youre thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:47 AM
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I dont understand
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:13 AM
1

Got to be better for them than them being single. For some this just isnt possible unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:13 PM
1

"The competition being what ?" Good question. That's what she knows and you don't. If you're looking for casual sex then the competition will be fierce. If you're looking for mutual exclusivity, as most people are, then the competition will be a lot easier to beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:34 PM
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Just another post eroding the male ego by communicating to men that they dont really have much of a chance by saying women have really high standards and are super selective. Men, dont listen to this stuff. You dont have to be amazing to be a winner. You only have to be better than the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:11 PM
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The sexual double standard increases the supply of males available for casual sex and decreases the supply of females available for casual sex. This contributes to a supply/demand imbalance which increases the price males pay for sex in terms of love, loyalty and commitment. The sexual double standard consequently furthers female interests, and its probably no coincidence that women judge casual sexual relationships more harshly than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:34 PM
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When the gender disparity is unfavorable to women, then they care
/r/MensRights26/09/23 08:11 PM
2

There must be an ulterior motive
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:15 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:21 PM
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“Hi. Wanna get some coffee?” “Get away from me you creep!”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:01 AM
1

What about a millionaire cab driver? Best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:13 PM
1

Of course some so. The question would be how many
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:03 PM
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No evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:20 AM
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What do women do when they arent good enough to get a man to commit to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:38 AM
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I dont. I was changing the target of criticism from men to women in retaliation for OPs initial focus on male inadequecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:59 AM
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End up with one who says shes a virgin but isnt really
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:37 PM
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You should directly quote, verbatim, the alleged text within the study that you claim to be supportive of your position if you expect people to accept your evidence. Reason being that not doing so places a significant time burden on the audience to have confidence that the study is supportive of your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:01 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:32 AM
4

Hate would be a species of dislike
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:27 AM
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Both men and women must be selective and competitive to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:47 PM
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"Misandry doesn't exist [...] Men are naturally more violent and aggressive so it's valid for women to fear/dislike them." lol... is this a joke? Saying misandry doesn't exist then saying it's valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:22 PM
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Would depend on how many kids and the womans income
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:00 AM
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Yep.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 03:12 AM
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No. What I said was true.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 03:12 AM
52

They dont care about you and they never will
/r/MensRights17/09/23 03:03 AM
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Sometimes its because the person is bigger and stronger and the smaller one doesnt stand a chance. When its judged that way then its not a sexist judgment.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 01:28 AM
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Childcare costs a lot. If shes working then shes not doing that, and work is harder when pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:47 AM
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And of the mothers with kids 6 and under, the rate is 65.6% while the father’s rate is 91.5%. That’s probably because the moms are staying at home providing needed childcare while the dads are working. Let’s see, so that’s ~34.4% of the moms. About a third then. That’s strange somehow?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:33 PM
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Why would I listen to you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:56 PM
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If a man wants kids... A career woman wont have enough time for childrearing and women are usually better at that than men plus being a stay at home dad would be pretty emasculating. Dont want that life. TBH Ive figured the push for career women might be some top-down nonsense coming from the rich to lower the cost of labor by increasing the labor supply by having women stop being SAHMs and enter the work force en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:30 PM
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The reason for prioritizing men's issues is a shared identity rather than a greater need.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 07:18 PM
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If you’re good then it’s less work because you’ll be accepted more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:32 AM
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You need downward comparisons to counteract the upward comparisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:30 AM
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Its supposed to make you feel that way. It is divisive language designed to divide and rule the working class along gendered lines.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 04:35 AM
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The truth hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:05 PM
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All identity based organizations which espouse egalitarianism suffer from the flaw of prioritizing situations where members of the in-group are treated unfairly and do not prioritize situations where members of the out-groups are treated unfairly. This identity based prioritization is not egalitarian. Yet, where there exist other identity based organizations pushing for social change (eg feminism) there must exist opposing organizations to bring balance. In that respect, the existence and wide-s…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 07:35 PM
2

IUD
/r/MensRights14/09/23 05:31 PM
1

While I got gas at the cheapest Arco in Memphis, a man walked up to me and said "Hey man, you need a female?"
/r/MensRights14/09/23 05:06 PM
1

The other cars on the road are far more dangerous than the customers in my experience. The data from Uber also suggest this.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 04:25 PM
2

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tu_quoque
/r/MensRights14/09/23 02:41 AM
6

The hate is strooooong with you
/r/MensRights14/09/23 12:16 AM
3

Youll grow up some day
/r/MensRights13/09/23 11:26 PM
3

Are you for real
/r/MensRights13/09/23 10:57 PM
7

Can you rationally distinguish fear-based prejudice toward black people from fear-based prejudice toward men?
/r/MensRights13/09/23 06:02 PM
8

If youre afraid of someone bc their gender is male - you should avoid going in public and stay home. and also consider therapy
/r/MensRights13/09/23 05:34 PM
0

Id imagine it would be possible to say you identify as a woman but to say that when you dont actually may be a fraud and grounds for termination.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 04:12 PM
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Perhaps then they should allow racial preferences too so that the people who are afraid of black drivers can feel safe by avoiding them. /s
/r/MensRights13/09/23 04:10 PM
3

Sometimes you do everything right and still lose. Thats life, and datings no exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:07 AM
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You're correct that it's a preference selection. Like, if there are both women and men drivers available the call goes to the women, and if theres only men then it goes to men. At the end of the day I don't think it's going to make much of a difference legally whether it's a preference or strict selection because youd really only need one instance of gender discrimination for there to be monetary damages (eg a single dispatched call based on gender). The legal arguments Id imagine would have mor…
/r/MensRights13/09/23 06:00 AM
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Probably. I may have to wait for them to actually do it so that there are actual damages first.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 02:26 AM
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I think identitiy politics is deliberately fomented by the wealthy to divide and rule the working class. All meaningful identities seem to be endorsed and fomented by the rich other than the worker identity. Social class is not a protected class. I dont think this is a coincidence. I think the workers should unite and use their power to outvote the wealthy elites so that they can have better lives. This is the identity which makes for the greatest happiness for the population and the most just b…
/r/MensRights12/09/23 06:42 PM
1

Conspicuously absent from this list is third world brides.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:08 PM
1

"I need a woman who will cook for me, clean up after me and do everything I say." "Thats just a maid. You want a maid?" "Thats right. A maid; A maid I can bang."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:07 PM
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I think most self identified incels are probably volcels with low self esteem. Theyre usually shut ins who have been consuming a lot of western media since childhood which often has underlying feminist messages that value women because they are women. The logical corollary is the devaluation of men because they are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:15 PM
1

I dont like the lack of regulation because it means cheaters prosper.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:10 PM
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Fraud in dating is rampant because there is no regulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:21 PM
5

"a person (usually a man) who regards himself or herself as being involuntarily celibate and typically expresses extreme resentment and hostility toward those who are sexually active" https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/incel "In common language, “hate speech” refers to offensive discourse targeting a group or an individual based on inherent characteristics (such as race, religion or gender) and that may threaten social peace." https://www.un.org/en/hate-speech/understanding-hate-speech/w…
/r/MensRights11/09/23 07:01 PM
1

The issue is responsibility, not irresponsibility. A single mother is responsible for a child that isnt mine. That responsibility will interfere with the relationship. If the child died then I suppose this wouldnt be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:18 PM
2

Wear them so you dont get unwanted advances from women while Uber driving
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:59 AM
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It doesnt matter to them if youre right because the arguments arent advanced because they are believed to be correct.
/r/MensRights10/09/23 03:24 AM
1

What's in it for me to solve other people's problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:24 AM
1

The marginal cost of a girlfriend isnt that high if a man is living alone in an apartment. Just put a girl in it and get her on welfare. The government pretty much pays for everything except housing, at least in medicaid expansion states. If anything the gf could probably be guilt tripped into doing errands and domestic work which would save the man time which could be used to make more money doing gig work like Uber driving or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:00 PM
10

Whats annoying is when you tell the truth and people assume that youre lying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:49 PM
0

I made myself attractive. I received unwanted advances. I blamed the people who made the advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:25 PM
0

Whenever somebody fails and it's because they sucked, make sure to drive home the truth so they cant avoid the painful destruction to their sense of self with denialism, blame-shifting or some other ego defense mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:21 AM
1

Funny that my conscientiousness is bottom 1% yet Im a workaholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:16 AM
0

Discriminating in dating based on genetics is not eugenics. That is when you are looking toward an entire population, not just your future children. I didnt say that they shouldnt have ever been born. That decision was their parents and I dont judge it. I value honesty. Were in a world dripping with lies. If the truth hurts, so be it. Pain is often the price of facing reality. Dont shame me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:37 PM
1

Just trying to give him some hope. I dont think its false hope
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:18 AM
0

If a woman has kids with an autistic man then it is a substantial risk factor for the children to have autism if the father is autistic. Thats the trouble because you cant test for it. Not really an issue for relationships where the man wouldnt be fathering children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:00 AM
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My brothers are all on the spectrum or just off of it. Theyre all married or have girlfriends. Just work hard and work on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:41 AM
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Trouble with autism is it cant be tested for before birth so you cant terminate the pregnancy like you can with down syndrome etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:18 PM
1

Maybe if the recipient was gay it would be the equivalent, or perhaps if the woman was a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:37 PM
0

That would be a single instance of it. You said that you see the argument being used regularly in this sub. Can you show that that is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:59 PM
0

I have never seen that argument made here before and Ive been here for awhile. This strikes me as a straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:39 PM
1

Measure contribution with time (eg hours)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:31 PM
2

It's not cheating if he dumps you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:33 PM
-2

Nice guys finish last. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:35 AM
2

I have a split sense of self. One grandiose, but deep down I also self hate. My mind painfully shifts between these two states. I try to process that people use shame to try to control me, reject it, and forgive and better myself so that one day I can be free from shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:34 PM
1

Why would a grocery store or library be bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:05 PM
2

A traditional purpose of marriage is, in contemplation of children, to provide the woman some security as she would have a very hard time pursuing an education/career as she would be repeatedly pregnant and responsible for child rearing. Marriage is about love and commitment. Thats what you give. Thats the price. What you get in consideration for that commitment is what the advantage would be. Hopefully youre getting what you want, whatever it is that makes you happy.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 06:54 AM
1

I didnt suggest that.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 05:14 PM
2

You have duly confessed your crime of being attracted to a woman. This is a positive first step and you are well on your way to absolution. However you will have to repent to make up for what you did. Through atonement you will redeem yourself in the eyes of society and we will be proud of you and accept you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:44 AM
3

Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:04 PM
4

No way man. Free rent's a good deal. Chicks dig financial savy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:32 PM
6

Im forty and a fat, bald, do-nothing loser living at moms house. For some reason I just cant get a date. I dont what the problem is. It must be my location.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:42 PM
1

I dont believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:33 AM
3

Dads arent beta males
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:36 AM
25

OK. Guys brag about money all the time. Women know that and wont believe you. A place is a costly signal that they can see and shows that you got your life together. Living at Mom's house is viewed as a low status loser move. Thats just how it is.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 01:16 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/BaldursGate3/comments/15xbuax/i_found_the_reason_why_its_so_hard_to_avoid/jx691u5/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/MensRights21/08/23 07:56 PM
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If youre trying to get a girlfriend then having your own place makes you more desireable.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 07:53 PM
1

Go to Pahrump, Nevada. Enter a brothel. Take your pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:50 PM
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Lol they shame it because they dont want sexual competition. Dont fall for that bologna.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:32 AM
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Lol they shame it because they dont want sexual competition. Dont fall for that bologna.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:10 PM
1

I told my gf to pay for Dennys because the feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:08 PM
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The feminist agenda is useful to the rich because it undermines class consciousness, dividing and ruling the working class along gendered lines. This is why the wealthy owners of news outlets and advertising agencies give feminists a platform. Barbie probably epitomizes it, and the hypocrisy of the whole thing was laughable, especially the part where there's a female lawyer railing against corporate speech in a film that is corporate speech.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 06:24 AM
1

Everyone should have to post full nudes sans makeup, CVs, rap sheets, drug tests, IQ tests, STD tests, medical records, credit reports, tax returns and balance sheets to increase transparency in dating. All information to be verified by a trusted independent third party.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:05 AM
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She said she never desired sex with him. Why was she married to him then? Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:25 PM
10

The unstated premise that women are more important than men is the common denominator in so many of these articles. They can't justify it so they hide it with implications.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 07:00 PM
1

Never do anything that might make a woman uncomfortable, like making advances. They could be unwanted. Youll never get a girlfriend but whatever. I mean, your loneliness doesnt matter because youre not a woman. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:24 PM
0

So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:19 PM
2

Yes, state codes usually require a licensed physician to be involved to avoid child support liability. Total dick move by the mother to file for that.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 08:10 PM
1

No. Respect, love and loyalty have to be a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:56 PM
1

As early as possible would be high school. As soon as practicable would be after getting a quick trade school degree like an electrician or something right out of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:46 PM
1

You said being in one's 20's was important because you should be in your best shape to take care of the babies. If the woman is the one who is primarily responsible for taking care of the babies then it would be the age of the woman, not the man which would matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:09 PM
2

Need to be financially established to do that. Most people in their 20s arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:25 PM
2

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:03 PM
2

Misandrist propaganda
/r/MensRights11/08/23 06:18 PM
0

Man does the money. Woman does the babies. It works good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:39 AM
2

Younger woman can make more babies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:39 AM
0

This is a wholesale threat of relationship termination designed to cause men to agree through fear
/r/MensRights07/08/23 02:32 PM
1

Because it communicates that she isnt open to advances before the advances are made rather than after. This would avoid some of the "discomfort at future mixed gender events" caused by unwanted advances, which is what OP was asking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:42 PM
1

I think it's because the sperm for male fetus has a Y chromosome which is lighter than an X and so it goes faster giving it a competitive edge over the heavier sperms to reach the egg and also people abort female fetuses more than male ones, or use IVF to gender select.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:39 PM
1

OP asked for a "good way to prevent this discomfort at future mixed gender events". Cheap, simple solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:25 PM
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Wear a wedding ring
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:38 PM
1

The whole notion of the patriarchy/matriarchy presupposes that men and women are tribal factions. This is a false premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:18 PM
5

Dont date a woman who has been banging Chads til shes 30 and now wants to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:13 PM
3

"dress however she likes to gain confidence from simps online" "Can make life changing money from sex work (Stripping, escort, onlyfans, cam girl)" Sounds like taking advantage of desperate people to me. That was my point, and you seemed to have missed the /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:10 PM
2

Hey guys modern women are a bad deal for men. We need traditional women. It's time for us to passport bro over to Poland and peruse the Ukrainian refugee camps. The Ukrainian government only let women leave the country and there's over a million refugees there. Best guy to girl ratio on the planet right there. We can't get a better deal than that and you got a lot to offer because she'll get an American passport if she becomes your wife./s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:25 PM
3

She doesn't want you. She will tell you things to spare your feelings. Those things often are not true and the real reasons are often unknowable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:12 PM
5

If they're paying somebody else to do it and they've earned the money then that counts as independent IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:09 PM
1

If you let men know what women want then theyll fake it to trick women in to giving them sex. You see you have to confuse the men by misrepresenting what women want and that way when women see what they want theyll know its real.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:47 AM
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Whats next the thought police
/r/MensRights15/07/23 12:59 AM
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Probably a way of getting away from you while trying to spare your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:04 AM
1

Yes. There was always relationship thoughts one way or the other, kind of being danced around I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:33 AM
3

I think its more like the rich own the media and give platforms to divisive voices.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 05:03 AM
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This is propaganda from the wealthy designed to divide and rule the working class.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 07:10 PM
5

Once you are in a relationship, the continuing condition of love is love. Before you are in a relationship you have to be good enough for somebody who is good enough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:20 AM
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The price of love is love.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:48 PM
2

Persuasion may be a better approach than shaming.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 02:17 AM
5

I dont think much about it.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 02:07 AM
10

From what I've seen it's usually court ordered payments and then if you don't pay the court issues an order to show cause why it shouldn't find the debtor in contempt for failure to comply with the court's order to pay. Then people don't show up for the order to show cause hearing or when they do they say things like "I had to pay the rent" when the only thing the court will accept is "I didn't have the money."
/r/MensRights04/07/23 04:20 PM
1

If they gaze lustfully at her then they will envy me, and then they will regard me with contempt to overcome their feelings of inferiority. It's said that imitation's the sincerest form of flattery, but hate might be better IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:39 AM
0

Largely they're what women don't want and it just confuses guys, especially since women tend to pretend that it's what they really want when in reality a better representation of what women want can be found in romance novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:14 PM
3

Average man can work on himself and become better than average to overcome the supply demand imbalance in casual sex. Or if he really just wants sex he can goto a brothel in Nevada.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:22 PM
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He didnt say men dont want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:34 PM
1

Theyre good with feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:16 AM
1

Sour grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:16 PM
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Looks, socioeconomic status and the dark triad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:32 PM
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I mentioned some of them here - https://www.reddit.com/r/confessions/comments/14b03dx/feminism_is_selfcontradicting/jodd27k/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3 This is a dating sub. These arent dating issues. Most of the target audience would be aware of and concerned with the advantages women have in dating rather than things like college scholarships and diversity hires. Despite those issues my conclusion remains the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:07 PM
0

The rate is about 20% higher than girls but you said "very high". It isnt accurate to call that "very high".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:43 AM
1

Poor kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:25 AM
0

Well I mean that is something that's better about it but you don't think the other things make it better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:53 AM
1

Youre not. Im a man, not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:52 PM
1

Its not disgusting. I dont see why you think it would be. That makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:41 PM
1

Man typically doesnt have to after urinating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:27 PM
1

How else am I supposed to talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:19 PM
1

Objectification's fine. Relationships are give and take. Each person is both a means to an end and an end unto himself/herself. There is love, and there is also responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:56 PM
2

This is the narrative, yes
/r/MensRights25/06/23 04:54 PM
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Because they've been fed the narrative that men don't matter. When men have a problem, it's their fault and they should take responsibility. When women have a problem, it's society's fault.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 04:19 PM
2

Most women dont orasm from intercourse and something like 15% never orgasm. That sucks. When they pee they always got to sit and have to wipe and such. When not at home they got to use the stalls everytime they pee. Those things nasty a lot. That sucks. They got to deal with periods, pads tampons and all that. This also sucks. They shorter, weaker. I mean maybe some people dont care about that but I value being taller and stronger. These things affect everyday life for most of life. All that stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:09 PM
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I like your attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:07 AM
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I dont feel much better or worse about myself when Im objectively more or less attractive. Ive seen many women so concerned about it. I hardly ever seen men much concerned with it except some gay ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:04 AM
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I'm aware of that stuff and it does piss me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:28 AM
0

Beauty is usually more important to a woman's self esteem than a man's.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:13 AM
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Well, the biological differences - which at the core really are the fundamental ones, do make for a better life experience. The impact is significant because they are lifelong and affect everyday life. The ease of being accepted. TBH I have not considered that when I was making my judgment. It is very easy for a man to be judged as worthless and lazy it seems and to be rejected on that basis. I dont feel well accepted anywhere outside of Moms house.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:44 AM
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No. Misogyny is hatred. This post is addressed largely toward men who hate women because their envy has begotten contempt. The purpose here is to dissolve that envy with appreciation for what one has. But I believe true feelings can only be changed with the truth because the scrutiny people have here is very high. And the truth is, it is better to be a man. That doesnt mean men are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:16 AM
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The strength is convenient for moving things more easily. I mean, we just move things a lot in life I guess. Going to the bathroom is easier with urination. Dont have to use the stalls. Dont have to wipe or deal with a pad or whatever. You can also pee in bottles if you dont wanna get outta bed in the morning but not everybody takes advantage. I suppose youre right from a data standpoint about the widespread mediocrity. The opportunity is usually there though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:48 AM
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Havent seen it or if I did I didnt remember it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:41 AM
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I havent seen a lot of hate for them here TBH. Maybe talk about how having a large number of sexual partners supposedly devalues a woman's mating market value. I didnt interpret it as hateful though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:33 AM
0

I didnt see that in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:10 AM
8

Women judge casual sex more harshly than men do, but your answer is to blame men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:47 AM
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If youre not looking for a partner and youre not interested in casual sex, then why are you going out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:42 PM
1

If he saw you and another and chose to advance at the other first, why would that be? You assume his reasoning is that between the two, the first advance is the one he considers more attractive. This often is not true. It may be that the one he chooses not to approach he considers so attractive that she will turn him down so why bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:54 PM
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Cant get to know them if they turn you down at the first advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:36 PM
5

Unless the things youre looking for cant be known simply by looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:14 PM
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A man can't tell if a woman is special just by looking at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:02 PM
7

Casual sex is fine. I don't see how making advances toward multiple women is evidence that the man wants casual sex as opposed to a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:15 PM
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Trying to get a girl. The most unforgivable crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:29 PM
2

The spouses probably have more to lose in such situations which may explain the disparities in divorce filings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:05 AM
5

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:18 PM
7

Would you like to talk about who is to blame more for relationships terminating, men or women? I think ths is what this is really about. Yet I doubt the merits of collective responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:27 PM
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Well, regardless my thinking is that the reasons for filing are different from the reasons for estrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:01 PM
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Id imagine that the reason women file more is because usually the man is acting as the provider and the courts are necessary to enforce things like child support, division of property and alimony. This statistical filing result would be more about the economic situation than who is at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:17 PM
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When something ends it doesnt exist anymore. How would one leave something which does not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:13 PM
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If the post was titled "Just because a woman files for divorce does not mean that she ended the marriage" then I would understand the relevance, but that isnt the claim here. Or at least thats not what it looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:54 PM
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Do you have any response to my contention that the "person who ends a relationship is generally the same as the person who leaves it. Thats what leaving means" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:49 PM
2

Karen is a racially and sexually derogatory term to refer to arrogant middle aged white women. It also has some "reverse snobbery" going on with it. Anyway, this post is a prejudicial generalization about a group of people who have already been prejudicially generalized. How far do you want to take your prejudice?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:38 PM
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The person who ends a relationship is generally the same as the person who leaves it. Thats what leaving means. I dont understand the shift to divorce filing statistics. This doesnt seem relevant. There are often good reasons to end relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:33 PM
8

Its good that the other person lost because it was a zero sum game and that means I won.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:11 PM
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Suffering isnt good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:32 PM
1

"When men just want to fulfil their superficial desires and dont really see you as a human it is a big turn off." I think this is a big lie and that a lot of women are turned on by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:26 PM
1

There was no attempt to bait nor diversion. There was no default assignment of anger. You are not entitled to have your post addressed by me and I dont think I will. Just because I do not do so doesnt mean your post is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:12 PM
2

If you have a problem with somebody then you should take it to that somebody rather than venting at the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:18 PM
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You gave me attitude and I didnt do anything to you. Go read your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:31 AM
6

What women dont like doesnt matter to me because Im not single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:30 AM
5

Men dont like attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:17 AM
5

You are changing the subject from your position that there has been a sudden obsession with the virginity of people as an insult to whether or not online stuff was "so widespread that the majority of kids had access." Ive been around awhile. This is an obvious attempt to save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:00 PM
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There was online gaming and MMOs and such. World of Wacraft was released in 2004 and I had played the pre release betas of it, along with other games like Asherons Call, counterstrike, starcraft, diablo and all that. It was all there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:52 PM
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"sudden" ? Very often the kids called eachother virgins as an insult when I was growing up, very especially online. This was 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:17 PM
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Maybe they can find one in a week but theyre not going to know what they have until theyve been with them for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:08 PM
3

"Women can easily find another faithful good guy in a week" - What?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:33 PM
3

Nobody controls the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:06 PM
2

Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:22 PM
2

This is an unsupported and conclusory ad hominem attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:51 PM
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The paper cites other studies. Go look up the other studies if you want to criticize them or present your own studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:25 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13yhh4s/cmv_a_douchebag_is_the_male_version_a_bimbo/jmxtoz6/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:18 PM
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Most slut shaming comes from other women, not men. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13yhh4s/cmv_a_douchebag_is_the_male_version_a_bimbo/jmqdfzc/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:48 PM
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If you got the house before getting married or acquired it through gift or inheritance then it may be your sole and separate property which may allow you to dispose of it without her cooperation. As a practical matter you need a title insurance company to give title insurance on a deed you sign to the house. The title company would probably know. You can get a realtor and then talk to the title co about it before you sign a listing agreement. If they say they will give insurance then you are pro…
/r/MensRights06/06/23 04:31 PM
6

it means whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:51 AM
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I think they say CIS women but w/e
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:23 AM
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I see. On the next page (quoted below) it talks about which sorts of cases are referred. A problem is that these sorts of cases dont necessarily represent all of the convictions so the 25% figure isnt very well supported by this source. I dont doubt there is a problem with the false accusations. "referrals made to the FBI ordinarily involve cases where (1) identity is at issue (there is no consent de- fense), (2) the non-DNA evidence linking the suspect to the crime is eye-witness identification…
/r/MensRights06/06/23 02:12 AM
3

Ive noticed the basis on which respect is earned seems largely arbitrary, but wealth, beauty, power, education, overcoming adversity, and heritage all seems to play in to it usually.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 11:49 PM
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You wrote it that way. Thats on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:30 PM
1

Honesty is my favorite virtue to signal.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 09:57 PM
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Respectfully, the first source is a pdf with 117 pages. It may be a good idea to reference the page(s) because it can be time consuming for users to dig through it.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 08:38 PM
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"If your life sucks then you suck at life. That's your fault. It's time for you losers to take responsibility."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:23 PM
1

He said they not dating them "just for their bodies" and you said "certainly the youth aspect" which implies that youth would be the only reason, and youth is the age of the body... This is one and the same thing. Now you say its merely one of the reasons rather than implying that its the only reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:50 PM
2

This isnt persuasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:17 PM
0

What is your evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:06 PM
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There's more that goes in to entering a committed relationship with somebody than just their body, even in AGRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:51 PM
0

research indicates that women are more conservative and less accepting in their attitudes towards [casual sexual relationships] than are men (Allison & Risman, 2013; Hald & Høgh-Olesen, 2010) researchers have consistently found that men hold more permissive attitudes toward [casual sexual relationships] than do women (Askun & Ataca, 2007; Clark & Hatfield, 1989; Hald & Høgh-Olesen, 2010; Hendrick, Hendrick, Slapion-Foote, & Foote, 1985; Petersen & Hyde, 2010; Sümer, 2013) https://minds.wisconsin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:09 AM
1

Men are attracted to young women. This is not weird. It is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:48 PM
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What if they like to bang Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:18 PM
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You blaming "sexist men" for slut shaming but most slut shaming comes from other women, not men. "In general, it pays for women to operate as a cartel and cooperate to ensure a high price for sex, just as OPEC ensures high oil prices by controlling coordinated supply. The theory therefore predicts that the effort to neutralize and shame sexually permissive women will come mainly from other women, not men, because permissive women allow men easy access to the resource and thus lower its market va…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:05 PM
1

Having a high opinion of their mating market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:39 AM
1

Feminism is not "by definition being against womens oppression." The definition of feminism is "the belief in social, economic, and political equality of the sexes." Yet people who represent themselves as feminists often seek to address inequality as between the sexes only when women are at the unequal end of it. When men get the short end of the stick the inequality doesnt matter to them.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 05:02 PM
2

Yes I understand and I agree with your point. Its not your fault I didnt laugh. Im a stone faced arbiter this AM.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 03:24 PM
2

Yes, they do advocate for women's equality and not men's. This conduct reflects a belief that men don't matter and women do. I don't see how such a belief can't be reconciled with a claimed belief in equality as between the sexes.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 03:18 PM
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Feminism ostensibly advocates for equality as between the sexes. Yet, what I see is the prioritization of issues which advsersely affect women and the deprioritization of issues which adversely affect men. For example, sexual violence against women is often a priority in feminist circles but rape of men in prison is not. Breast cancer is a priority but testicular cancer is not. The underrepresentation of women in STEM is a priority but the underrepresentation of men in caregiving jobs is not. Ho…
/r/MensRights30/05/23 03:00 PM
1

First, you're looking at a class of people who have it easy. Now you're becoming envious and resentful, but be careful because the default psychological defense mechanism to envy is contempt - "Why would I envy somebody who I look down on?" But there's a better way. You learn how to be happy for other people. Second, you are looking at the advantage women have in dating but this is but one of many advantages and disadvantages as between the sexes. There is a strong case to be made that it is sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:58 PM
0

They'll find out when they seek love and commitment but end up pumped and dumped because thats no deal with those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:20 PM
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They're not suitors. They just want to bang and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:30 PM
2

Id like them to try it just so they can suffer a humiliating defeat in the courtroom
/r/MensRights26/05/23 01:32 PM
5

Moral superiority's for losers. Nice guys finish last. Be a winner. Be evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:05 AM
1

Ok but your claim was that it was fair "according to [my] own philosophy". Im assuming that youd be referring to the prior comment which did not mention fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:31 AM
1

Never did I mention "fair" and I was being facetious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:13 AM
1

Not all narcisissts have NPD. Not all people witb NPD have an inability or unwillingness to recognize the needs and feelings of others. Not all people with NPD are terrible partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:45 AM
2

It was your responsibility to give notice of the change in conversational context. Your failure to do so caused the confusion. Thats your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:21 AM
2

The post is about traditional submissive housewives and narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:50 AM
2

Women arent children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:13 AM
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No exclusivity no deal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:38 PM
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Probably more a political thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:09 PM
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Women going to take what they can get. The more men suck generally then the less good a man has to be to get a woman who's good enough for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:08 PM
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Everythings a scam to make you think youre worthless. Dont believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:15 PM
11

"the results of our study demonstrate that the Dark Triad male personality is attractive to women" https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:23 PM
1

You said narcissists are terrible people. Not really though. More accuratey a lot of terrible people are narcissists but that doesnt mean that someone is a terrible person because they are a narcissist. Understand your prejudice. Popular culture regards them with contempt. But is that fair? No, it isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:47 PM
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All foundations of value are arbitrary. What's good is what's good for me. That's my foundation of value and I don't see how others' are any better than mine. You see, other people don't matter. They're for me. Everything's for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:09 PM
0

Nope. Im not in the dating pool because Im not single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:46 AM
0

The world is broken and needs me to rule it. Once Im God everything will be better. Dont you worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:47 AM
-5

Being with me would make anybodys life better because Im better than everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:43 AM
-2

That would depend on what youre looking for in an LTR. Narcs and people pleasers have rather compatible psychologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:35 AM
-4

Just because youre a narcissist doesnt mean youre a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:29 AM
1

Maybe you can date a deaf girl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:00 AM
1

Maybe they need to play the FFVII remake with Tifa as your fake computer girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:54 PM
6

This guy's a psychologist with a PhD and says otherwise https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:16 PM
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Misandry Ive encountered but its not so often as other things like fear of men, implicit trust of other women, in-group favoritism among women and valuing female life over that of male life in films and stories. A girl told me once about how the dog died in "I Am Legend" and the Will Smith character yells "Sam! Sam! Samantha!!" and it wasnt until he said "Samantha" that the girl felt bad about the dog dying. I was really bothered by how her feelings worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:49 PM
6

AFAIK if you count man raping another man then the USA is one of the few countries that has more rape of men than rape of women because of the high prison population and prison rape situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:29 PM
3

The case for profiling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:13 PM
2

"Be yourself, but dont be somebody I dont like."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:29 PM
4

This is not about protecting young women from older men. This is about young men trying to eliminate sexual competition from older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:25 PM
1

Education level =/= intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:56 PM
1

Honor my word
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:50 PM
2

What blog posts were you looking at?
/r/MensRights15/05/23 12:50 AM
5

If it is a female aggressor and male victim with forced intercourse (perhaps not physical force but by credible threat of immediate violence etc) then this would usually violate several codes the defendant could be charged under, including various sexual offenses and non-sexual ones (eg assault/threats). So that its criminalized, well it has been for a long time. The political issue these days is whether or not such acts are criminalized under specifically the rape sexual offense. Some places re…
/r/MensRights14/05/23 01:45 PM
6

A lot of this stuff... it really depends on what you want to do. If you want to be DINKS and get rich then your partners education and finances are very important. If you want kids and a SAHP then it doesnt make a difference if theyre a PhD or a high school dropout.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:00 PM
3

I really dont care much for you or other people. I just dont want any trouble. -Your local nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:47 AM
75

File with EEOC IMHO
/r/MensRights13/05/23 10:31 PM
1

Most of the posts here are regard men and women as distinct groups and sometimes as separate political entities, usually with perverse notions of collective responsibility. The relative superiority or inferiority between men and women is usually claimed either directly or indirectly. I disagree with most everything posted here for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:01 PM
2

Would you have done the same thing if I had made a post claiming that men were inherently of greater value than women and a woman who was offended by my post said that I was delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:21 PM
1

Feminism isn't good for men because women are protected by feminism while men are not. Feminist ideology claims to be about equality of the sexes but the reality is that, like other identity based movements, it is only when members of the particular identity are adversely affected by issues of inequality that feminism comes in to play. This is a form of selective enforcement where men are left out. For example, feminism cares about the "pink tax", domestic violence issues, the gender pay gap, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:14 PM
128

Its easier to get fit than to get rich
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:57 PM
2

Plenty of beautiful women around the world want to marry a western man and bring their families in to the USA through chain migration. Thats bringing a lot to the table and it costs you not much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:13 PM
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Women attracted to good sense of humor which correlates with intelligence. It is theorized that this is how intelligence is naturally selected for. See, e.g. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0160289611000523
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:58 AM
1

BMI and body fat percentage, the latter being more meaningful but difficult to measure accurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:58 PM
0

If the existing evolved adaptations are there, be they physical or psychological, it's often more convenient to simply embrace them rather than to work around them. For example, if raising a family on a single income it is more convenient to have the man work and the woman to be a SAHM rather than to have the woman work and he man to be a SAHD. The woman has the biological tools to make baby and milk. Pregnancy and lactation can make work more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:34 PM
1

I do not contend that it wholly explains what you're observing but it is a substantial factor. See - Age gap data from facebook - I would imagine other factors could explain the data, like people lying or polyamorous situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:55 PM
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The women dating older. Ages 18-29 1/3 of women are single while 1/2 of men are. Ages 65+ 1/2 of women are single, but only 1/5 men are. See here - https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/psdt_08-19-20_dating-relationships-015/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:21 PM
3

It's simple. They're wrong.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 11:27 AM
3

"Til legal grounds for divorce do us part". There all better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:18 AM
9

I support this man. Way to go champ!
/r/MensRights03/05/23 09:47 PM
6

Correct! I'm a man. All should know that they're loved and their lives have value. I forgot the /s 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:02 PM
13

The measure of a man is the value he adds to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:12 PM
4

Treat her how you want to treat her. Find one who likes to be treated that way. Then everybody's happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:04 PM
1

You're gonna have to be a good girl for me to get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:26 PM
3

Maybe those incels aren't really involuntarily celebate but are really a bunch of losers who need to man up instead of making poor life choices like sitting around at Mom's house playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:16 PM
10

Just let a jury figure it out IMO.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 12:41 PM
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A perpetrator's culpability comes from consciously disregarding a victim's humanity and this grossly outweighs a victim's negligence, whatever there might be. Discussing a victim's culpability changes the target of criticism from the perpetrator to the victim. In propaganda it is often the goal to keep control over the target of criticism. As long as we criticize X, we're not criticizing Y. This is why victim blaming should be regarded with suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:18 PM
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"Some" is such a low-bar for you to be correct. It makes this post a truism and pointless to argue against. There need only be 1 instance of victim-blaming behavior that occurred which was caused by concepts of taking ownership for the stated view to be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:31 PM
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I dont even know what it means to be red-pilled specifically. Is there some list of beliefs? I havent seen one. What I do like about TRP is the metaphor of accepting the truth regardless of how bitter it is. Thats about discipline in belief formation - Not deluding yourself with feel good denialism about the state of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:22 PM
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No, it doesnt guarantee success. There are those who will fail with women no matter what they do. These are the true incels - People with severe disabilities or incurable congenital diseases and such. What's a quadriplegic going to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:18 PM
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Hey you're a straight white male so you're not one of us and you're part of the problem. You should be ashamed for having been born with the original sins of imperialism, racism and oppression. You have nothing to be proud of and your successes are meaningless because you have benefited from straight white male privilege. You can't add any value to an organization because hiring you wouldn't help fix any organization's diversity problem. You'd just be making things worse. You say you didn't do a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:24 PM
2

Kate Middleton
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:10 PM
4

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/rape
/r/MensRights26/04/23 11:08 AM
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Im going to find an ugly person and tell them theyre ugly. Thats my right under the 1st amendment and if doing that makes ugly people feel bad well they just need to get over it and see a therapist because I have freedom of speech and I just feel like doing that. Why should I change what I do for them? Their feelings are their problems, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:14 AM
-1

Be modest in public. That applies to all issues, not just wealh and beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:47 AM
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Do show it off. Do that at the beach or online or something. Dont do it at Walmart or a public library.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:14 AM
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No, it doesnt matter from a decision making standpoint. If I do X and X will cause suffering then I should not do X even though I am not responsible for the suffering which would have been caused by X. That is about compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:32 AM
-1

No, you just dont tell the world about it. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:28 AM
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As a practical matter the first look you cant control because you have to first know that the woman is attractive by looking at her before you decide not to look. The problem becomes when theyre everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:20 AM
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You really think men are all "weak-willed goons"? Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:10 AM
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A sundress is sufficiently modest as it conceals the figure. The shoulders are not much of an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:59 AM
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I love my crocs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:41 AM
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You shouldnt do it because it causes problems. Your fault or not, the problems are caused. I dont go to my poor brother's house and talk about how Im a millionaire then blame him for being envious and saying its his own fault for feeling that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:38 AM
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Yeah, personally I dont mind it either. It doesnt bother me. Lots of eye candy around. That is until you get a girlfriend and then its your fault for checking out other women. And what if theyre all over the place?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:35 AM
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It doesnt matter whose fault it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:33 AM
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It causes suffering regardless of who is to blame. The suffering outweighs the benefits which are limited to the braggarts validation. This is why it shouldnt be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:14 AM
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Just because youre within your rights to do something doesnt mean that you dont have responsibility when you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:56 PM
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I think Im going to drive a Lamborghini down skid row. Well, not really. Even if its their fault, it still causes it, and it is a form of suffering. Thats why it shouldnt be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:51 PM
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In that context he was courting you. This isnt a public thing. Wealth flaunting like wearing expensive jewelry, designer clothes, driving expensive cars, etc. It can get more crass than that but many of the consequences are similar, particularly fomenting envy. Do you blame the rich person for causing that envy? Or do you blame the poor person for experiencing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:37 PM
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Are you able to meaningfully distinguish advertising beauty from flaunting wealth?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:26 PM
4

Whats going on with you that you like that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:42 PM
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It does matter here because you said "Why are women seen as more frail?" - Frail means physically weak. Strength is the opposite quality. see entry 3a here https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/frail
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:33 PM
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I dont think that many women are carrying guns around in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:26 PM
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If you want to have a meaningful platonic friendship with an attractive women then you accept that there is no romance, no sex and there will never be sex. If she propositions then you reject her because you were never there for that and thats not what she is to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:16 PM
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That doesnt make sense because there are ways to filter out those men that are a lot less work than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:05 AM
5

Are you telling me that they're really going through all that trouble just to filter out red pilled men? I think there'd be a better way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:28 AM
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Let me guess, you didnt know the answer so you decided to change the subject to a personal attack to conceal your ignorance. How embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:23 PM
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Why would they want to be undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:38 PM
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Such a woman wouldnt be high value to me. Shes got too much of her own life. Id rather have a woman whose time is spent on me than her career, friends, hobbies, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:22 PM
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Life's never going to be fair, especially when it comes to romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:21 PM
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Avoiding STDs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:58 PM
9

The ability to piss in bottles makes it easier to live out of your car.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 09:41 AM
85

We bear witness to the normalization of hate.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 08:20 AM
3

If you value people not as means to ends but as ends unto themselves then you will understand that people should generally be valued equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:26 PM
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The way the post is titled, grammatically this is claiming that it applies to every case. ("When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is [...]") You walk back this claim at the end of the post, saying it only applies to some girls ("This isn't to say all women are like this") You must make a more specific claim to argue against. It looks like youre merely claiming that some women do that. There are billions of women. Of course some of them do that. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:57 PM
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Why do you think that most RP men don't understand that loving your woman isn't simping? Maybe there's a few loud and annoying voices and you made a hasty generalization. This is a very common fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:25 PM
-1

This is probably a straw man argument. You say that TRP says these things but do they actually?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:20 AM
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My take on this is this is an expression of hatred for this group of people. Consider a reciprocal proposal for women. All things being equal except the gender. How would you feel about it? Probably differently and less supportive. And why would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:03 PM
1

Her life probably sucks because she's lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:57 PM
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This perspective is pretty limited. You have to look at the entire life experience and think whether its better to be born male or female and compare the probable advantages and disadvantages. Without making a case as thats too much work, Id just say there are things that you havent considered. For example, I see no discussion here about the biological advantages that men have like being taller, stronger, being less likely to contract STDS, it being easier to urinate, not having periods and havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:53 PM
2

JPMorgan idiots.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 07:26 PM
4

There is a price to pay for being real.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:13 PM
2

Florida homestead creditor protection law
/r/MensRights17/04/23 01:10 AM
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I doubt most progressive men are true believers. Theyre probably just virtue signalling for brownie points in social environments that reward that set of beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:01 PM
1

The solution is to negotiate complete and total control, including over the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:08 AM
1

Equality is popular politically, but not everybody wants that in their relationships. Why so judgy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:12 AM
1

We all have our issues
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:46 PM
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Wealth is power. I dont want the woman to have power in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:31 PM
1

Be yourself but dont you dare speak your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:34 PM
12

After nine years do you know what Ive realized? Ignorance is bliss. Its time for the blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:24 PM
6

"This bill would also create an exemption for employers needing to consider height or weight in employment decisions only where height or weight is a bona fide occupational qualification reasonably necessary to the normal operation of the business and would also exempt operators or providers of public accommodations only where height or weight requirements would qualify as bona fide considerations of public health and safety."
/r/MensRights27/03/23 08:22 PM
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When weve finally accepted what they want us to believe, that were beings of an inferior order, altogether unfit to associate with them in either social or political relations, and so far inferior that we have no rights which theyre bound to respect.
/r/MensRights26/03/23 10:36 PM
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"In 2008 the Justice Department released a report that indicated that prison rape accounted for the majority of all rapes committed in the United States that year. Because of the high prison population in the United States the country has become probably the first and only in the world where rape of men is more common than of women." https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prison_rape_in_the_United_States
/r/MensRights12/03/23 02:12 PM
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This kind of explains the problem with the law there: ​ Section 112 was enacted at a time when modern scientific tests such as DNA tests, as well as Ribonucleic acid tests (‘RNA’, for short), were not in contemplation of the legislature. However, even the result of a genuine DNA test cannot escape from the conclusiveness of the presumption under Section 112 of the Evidence Act. If a husband and wife were living together during the time of conception but the DNA test reveals that the child was no…
/r/MensRights23/02/23 04:37 AM
2

The scholarship ad does say women are eligible. This implies that men are not eligible but is that just an implication or are men actually ineligible?
/r/MensRights22/02/23 11:45 PM
1

I was able to cancel the page load after it loaded the content but before the paywall message popped up. Using Safari / iPhone.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 03:13 PM
1

Unfortunately I do not
/r/MensRights15/02/23 02:55 PM
1

Paywall
/r/MensRights15/02/23 01:40 PM
1

The 2 party system is used by the wealthy to divide and rule the working class by appealing to and fomenting identities other than class. Dog whistling on the right, double standards on the left. No party stands up for the American worker.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 01:59 PM
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Yes, that's what I would imagine also. The first thing that came to mind to me was EEOC but I don't know that they can do anything. I'm imagining there's state level policies to handle it, assuming it's a state and not federal courthouse.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 06:49 PM
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Sounds like a sexually hostile work environment. This is government employment so the rules are probably different but your feelings are valid. Not sure what the rules are there.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 04:33 PM
1

Probably a Title VII violation
/r/MensRights02/02/23 03:48 PM
45

We need more women in STEM so you don't get that scholarship, she does and that's equity because a long time ago men had it made and to fix that we're going to punish you.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 01:07 PM
2

It works for some but not all and theres side effects. Its more work to pee.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 12:19 PM
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Probably. Being old kinda sucks so I figuring those years not worth as much as the other ones anyway.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 09:42 PM
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What's rape in California isn't rape in Texas. There's a lack of clear standards for what is and isn't rape, and what seems to be happening is a political push to broaden the definitions and now whether or not you raped somebody comes down to where you were at the time rather than what happened.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 05:46 PM
46

Thought about it before and think Id rather avoid the periods, problems urinating and I do enjoy the benefits of testosterone. These are things that affect my life every day.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 05:24 PM
1

I wish we could dispose of these identities and make new ones that are better. The rich divide and rule the poor by pitting them against eachother. Instead of talking about wealth and income inequality we talk about race and gender issues, and seem to fight amongst ourselves over what scraps trickle down from the rich rather than uniting against them.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 07:37 PM
1

How am I supposed to argue against gender based in group favoritism in r/menrights without incidentally indicting the sub?
/r/MensRights15/01/23 01:23 PM
1

Caused by capitalist media; A plutocratic conspiracy to divide and rule the working class.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 07:58 PM
7

Something to test for in utero when you're doing all the other genetic tests IMO
/r/MensRights02/01/23 07:44 PM
4

Id be concerned that such a policy might cause people to withhold whats on their minds for fear of getting banned.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 06:32 PM
3

What I heard was that married people were objectively happier but only when the spouse was in the same room. When they werent in the same room they were less happy than single people.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 05:23 PM
5

Maybe they can do a study that accounts for those things to see
/r/MensRights24/12/22 03:34 PM
4

Why is white and asian more attractive to women and men?
/r/MensRights24/12/22 01:21 PM
4

Putative father registry laws aren't necessary because of paternity testing. Maybe there was some need for these laws a long time ago before there was DNA tests, but not anymore.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 02:56 PM
57

Life is such an unfair thing. It begins with a roll of the genetic dice and the circumstances you were born in to. Thereafter your household environment and schools you have access to shape you, along with the media you're exposed to and the quality of your parenting, etc. The fight for justice seems so futile at times it's disheartening.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 04:33 AM
2

A person (A) is guilty of an offence under this section if— (a) A commits an offence under section 4A (intentional harassment, alarm or distress) in England, and (b) A carried out the conduct referred to in section 4A(1) because of the relevant person’s sex (or presumed sex). https://publications.parliament.uk/pa/bills/cbill/58-03/0020/220020.pdf This legislation doesn't make anything illegal that wasn't already illegal. It merely adds a separate chargeable offense if the illegal conduct was bec…
/r/MensRights09/12/22 07:24 PM
2

I'm never wrong because I never believe anything.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 04:08 PM
2

'Avatar' Director James Cameron Says: [Virtue signalling bullshit] Fixed
/r/MensRights04/12/22 05:10 PM
1

The TV lied to them when it told them that simping gets them sex
/r/MensRights19/11/22 10:38 AM
5

Work hard to get a good life. Nobody's gonna save you unless you get lucky. Don't get suckered in to selflessness. Don't save the world. Save yourself.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 09:30 PM
5

Well we gotta keep poor college students and the working class distracted with manufactroversies lest they wake up and put a stop to the oppression of the rich.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 01:12 PM
7

"He was pushy and then I said yes" "He flirted with me" OMG call the cops
/r/MensRights15/10/22 07:20 PM
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This is probably consistent with the working definitions that were in play at the time the law was written. A policy change on that would be up to congress. I dont like Biden much but I dont see this specific position as problematic.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 09:31 PM
3

Nah.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 08:18 PM
1

I doubt that their attitudes and worldviews are a substantial factor. They don't even have to change those. They can just hide them.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 08:08 PM
-7

Basically it means a mating market loser who can't do anything about it and one who has a lot of anger and resentment about their situation.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 07:38 PM
1

Gender is used to prioritize the distribution of taxpayer money. Like, awarding government contracts to women and minority owned businesses is a common practice. There was also a lot of COVID relief stuff where there would be an initial application period where only women or minority applicants would be considered. The common "level the playing field" justification isn't persuasive. This assumes that female or minority applicants have faced difficult hardships when that may not be true, and it a…
/r/MensRights09/10/22 01:11 PM
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https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/pissant
/r/MensRights09/10/22 04:15 AM
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Immigration policy would be an expected place of conflict between national loyalties and the idea of a broader community of men globally. I dont know about other countries but generally its pretty good for the families of women who marry Americans because they get to use chain migration laws. Might be good for a lot of them incidentally.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 09:58 PM
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OP presented a problem and asked for a solution. My answer seemed accurate to me and still does. Nobody has claimed that what I said wouldn't work to fix the problem. Do you?
/r/MensRights08/10/22 07:15 PM
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I see no duty to be fair to immigration applicants. I do see a duty is to be loyal to the interests of the citizens of the admitting country. It'd be a lot easier if the girls were here. The losers would be the girls who already are here that they'd be competing against for husbands. A stronger argument IMO is that their interests would be adversely affected by such a policy change, but nobody would make that argument here I guess.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 05:13 PM
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That's the problem. They have to leave to go get the girls then come back. That's a big barrier. If the girls come in then the men don't have to leave to get them.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 04:18 PM
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Take what you can. Give nothing back.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 03:46 PM
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Why is that?
/r/MensRights08/10/22 03:43 PM
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The men who would be discriminated against aren't my countrymen. The men who would benefit from that discrimination are my countrymen. The benefit to any women who come in is incidental.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 03:25 PM
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I doubt you really thought that I was thinking that. You are making up what I thought and then attacking it because you dont like what I was proposing. This is called a straw man argument. It is more productive to say the why you dont like what I was proposing, and then for me to respond to the real objection you have.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 06:44 AM
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It takes different qualities to be marriageable as a man than it does as a woman. I don't know that the world has what the women want, but I do think it has what the men want. Generally, if a man is marriageable he's likely already eligible to enter the country under current immigration law. But if there's some comparable demand from women I'm unaware of for uneducated and poor but attractive young men who want to be house husbands, then perhaps we can open the borders to them to meet that deman…
/r/MensRights07/10/22 11:43 PM
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Open the borders to attractive young women who want to get married.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 10:04 PM
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What do they do if he refuses to work?
/r/MensRights07/10/22 06:51 PM
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"a sample of 348 men recruited online through various sources, such as Incel forums and subreddits" OK. Has anyone here seen the incel forums? They're like one of the most toxic places on the net. Most "incels" are not like that, but the kinds that are tend to congregate there. This sample is probably not representative simply because of where they were finding the men. A lot of incels are do-nothing losers at moms house blaming the world for their own failures, and lack of sexual success goes h…
/r/MensRights06/10/22 04:51 PM
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"If you don't behave like X, you're not acting like a man." This is a typical manipulation tactic. Recognize it when you see it to protect yourself from it.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 06:18 PM
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Usually the lawyer's contact information can be looked up on the state bar's website.
/r/MensRights03/10/22 07:41 PM
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What generally irks me is these things like women only scholarships which are supposedly supposed to address past discrimination but it makes no sense because the women who were supposedly discriminated against in the past aren't going to college anymore. They're already well in to their lives and the women who get these scholarships are typically young and haven't been subject to the problems women in the past have faced. If people really want to address past discrimination then they would be d…
/r/MensRights02/10/22 11:02 PM
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I'd always figured moonlighting as a bartender was a good way to find a wife. Tinder and whatever isn't.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 06:11 PM
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I heard that females were aborted at higher rates in China during the "one child policy" times. I havent heard much about recent stats in the west. Its possible there might be different rates of medical conditions that would motivate abortions. For example, abortions for autism now happen because advances in prebirth genetic testing make it detectable in utero and autism is significantly more common in males.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 04:57 PM
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Probably the gender discrimination in grants, scholarships, contract awards and other programs.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 08:25 AM
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I like the extended family model better, but in my mind I had been comparing the nuclear family to single parent households and lack of adequate parenting and father figures causing social problems.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 03:46 AM
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They'll just have to marry hard-working princess charming who wants a house husband except the problem is he can't get pregnant, he can't make milk, her eggs are going to go bad, and most women don't want that and want to marry up. Don't worry though, all the changes in society serve to further the interests of the wealthy. The destruction of the male ego and nuclear family creates political divisions within the working class along gendered lines. So long as the working class remains divided, th…
/r/MensRights29/09/22 10:21 PM
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Throw the pillow against the wall maybe. We all have our moments and sometimes we gotta look for the nearest nondestructive way. Cant take it out on your phone. Damn PITA to replace those.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 07:22 AM
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When you care about somebody, their happy makes you happy. Do you really value their happy, or do you value your own and theirs is simply a means to that end?
/r/MensRights29/09/22 12:55 AM
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I had a Persian room mate once who grew up in Iran. He said that he'd be sitting on a bench with a girl from school and the police would walk up to them and start asking a bunch of questions; That they'd also pull you over and basically say "Alright, what do you got on you?" (as in, you give them your stuff or they arrest you on BS charges) That the girl was killed by police in response to violating the hijab law seems plausible to me. I don't know what really happened. The protesters have every…
/r/MensRights23/09/22 09:08 PM
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I dont know. My hunch would be if there's going to be cultural superiority or inferiority as between the sexes then I would imagine that a male dominated culture would have greater average happiness than a female dominated one. This would have to do with the differing psychologies. Yet, egalitarianism I think is ideal.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 07:25 AM
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It's not a better outcome for me if I'm regarded as a second class citizen. I don't want that.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 06:13 AM
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