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You’re not wrong about being mentally unstable. At least last night. I’m doing much better now mentally today than 12 hours ago. I’ll make sure to kill myself before anyone else though if it makes you feel better lol
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:53 PM
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Thanks for your advise in this thread. It was very helpful
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:50 PM
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And you sound like to most unhelpful person who has commented on here
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:56 AM
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Look man I’m having a rough time and need somewhere to vent. Enjoy your 2 seconds of superiority by writing a comment though
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:55 AM
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I mean by definition I basically am. I just constantly feel like I’m destined to be alone. It’s all I’ve ever known. I just got laid off and I’ve been drinking every night for like like 3 weeks. I’m literally in the most unbearable mental hell and I have nobody in my life to confide in except strangers on Reddit. My life just keeps falling apart and nobody gives a shit about me
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:42 AM
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Already been down that road. I cut my teeth and imploded weekly from age 18-21 just to lose my virginity. Now I’m 27 and it feels like nothings changed except I have a one night stand every 9 months or so. I’m so fucking done with getting fucked over and treated this way.
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:22 AM
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went alone to see one of my favorite artists last night. made friends with this dude who was also alone. he was cool and we just kinda shot the shit all night halfway through the show I started thinking about how I hoped to meet a girl there. all I felt was tremendous fear of dying alone but also not wanting the be the dude whos going around creeping on girls. also all I could think of is 100 reasons why im a loser. WHY AM I LIKE THIS ?
/r/seduction05/09/21 05:58 PM
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Hindsight’s always 2020. but it’s pretty bogus that she’d not respond after you reciprocated with nudes of your own. Been there tho. Done something I thought would turn some chick on and it blew up. It happens lol
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:22 AM
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Dont leave voicemails is great advice if you're under the age of 35 lmao
/r/seduction20/06/21 07:39 PM
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OP how much did you cut down from? If I go 1 day without I get fucking angry then depressed.
/r/seduction13/05/21 11:50 PM
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Dude people on there will screen cap you and blackmail and doxx you after
/r/seduction09/05/21 05:10 PM
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The main point of this I think is pretty valid but idk why it has to be worded so negatively. You may not even be a "beta orbiter" she might just not be that into you. Simple as that. Why turn it into a beta Male "question your own masculinity" conversation? This sub can be so toxic sometimes its ridiculous.
/r/seduction24/11/20 02:47 AM
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Yeah legit jobs wont make offers to ppl in the street
/r/seduction05/11/20 08:53 AM
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okay the biggest thing is that nobody is going to find you attractive if you dont find yourself attractive first. read that again. that said, grooming and style is important but ultimately you need to be the purest version of yourself, whatever that is. I can tell you for a fact that the nights I go out feeling good about myself and feeling like a vibrancy from my chest, feeling centered and present. I'm a sexy motherfucker. but the days I pay attention to the miserable fucks on reddit saying "l…
/r/seduction15/10/20 01:40 AM
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How do you avoid being negative while also providing unfiltered opinions? Obviously you can be somewhat respectful when telling people you think their tastes or opinions aren't that great or whatever. But if I'm gonna be totally unfiltered some people will get offended real quick
/r/seduction26/02/20 08:06 PM
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hell no. bro I actively avoid girls that I think are trying to get my attention. but as far as being a "winner" yeah. I literally am 2 years out of college, working out constantly, working in AV production (which is bascially my dream field) a musician studying jazz and electronic production, and playing in a band. i literally feel like i should be drowning in pussy. so many aspects of my life I feel are fucking amazing but I can not ever get laid from tinder cuz im ugly and cant get the confide…
/r/seduction19/01/20 01:22 AM
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how do I put this nicely... hes into bigger girls... but I guess thats what hes into. I could probably have a few fat girls myself but Im done with fucking anything with a heartbeat. it still sucks not getting laid though even though I know that im trying to have standards
/r/seduction19/01/20 01:20 AM
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Hey man just creeped through your profile cuz I'm bored and creepy. You remind me alot of myself when I was trying to lose my virginity based on your posts. For alot of men getting laid can really suck and once you get into a shitty depressed mindset it snowballs into almost every aspect of your life. I beat myself up pretty bad with alchohol and drugs either to lower my inhibitions to talk to women or to numb myself cuz I'm depressed. It doesn't work. I eventually got a reputation of being a dr…
/r/seduction18/01/20 05:48 AM
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Yeah I definitely have depression. I kinda fucked up by taking molly on nye for the first time in forever. But even before then I everything was so mundane and stupid. I just wanted to have some fun even though I knew I was probably fucking myself over. I swore it off awhile ago cuz I did it too much and it fucked me up. Combine that with seasonal depression work bs and my mom asking when I'll get a girlfriend (and the fact that I hoped the ecstasy would help lower my inhibitions to talk to wome…
/r/seduction18/01/20 05:13 AM
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Todd
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:04 PM
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what if I dont quesiton my own seft worth so much as I doubt my ability to actually get a girl/laid/good relationship. Most of the things on this list resonated with me and I have been trying to do for years. I feel like I establish so many meaningful nonromantic or nonsexual relationships with people but never get girlfriends or get laid.
/r/seduction03/04/19 12:58 AM
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There's this really hot girl I work with and she said something that made no sense to a customer along the same ish lines. We all laughed about it after. It happens to literally everyone OP
/r/seduction13/01/18 07:01 AM
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Dump weed and start going to the gym. Endorphins>thc. working out is like a drug of it's own
/r/seduction13/12/17 08:31 PM
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Practice
/r/seduction15/06/17 07:04 PM
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"The free soul is rare, but you know it when you see it because you feel very, very good when you are near or around them"
/r/seduction09/01/17 08:29 PM
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Good speakers
/r/seduction19/11/16 02:18 AM
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I mean I understand now what I did was really bad but for like 2 months I just didn't think or stress about what people thought. I always felt ugly and unwanted by women my whole life and once I finally found a mindset which allowed me to be able to hook up with girls constantly I stuck with it. But it was just all fake confidence, and after I was removed from college for a few months I realized what I was doing was extremely disrespectful. I usually knew what I was doing was bad but I always ju…
/r/seduction02/10/16 10:59 PM
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you know what man fuck you im looking for advice. women have ignored me and treated me like shit my whole life and once i finally feel confident and attractive and women notice me I send my life into the tank by going overboard. you dont know me you dont know my life, i realize ive done some shitty things and i dont need extra people telling me im a pice of shit because I tell myself that every day. im looking for some positivity or advice. not another voice in my head saying "hey you fucked up …
/r/seduction02/10/16 07:15 PM
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thank you so much for your profound advice i guess i should just live under a rock for the rest of the year then
/r/seduction02/10/16 06:44 PM
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Don't forget harambe while you whip it out
/r/seduction01/10/16 02:51 PM
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You must be really good looking if this works for you...
/r/seduction01/08/16 08:25 PM
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I know a guy who's short has red hair and isn't good looking at all. He has a great looking girlfriend. He's fucking awsome really genuine and funny and all that. It works but you just gotta be confident
/r/seduction11/06/16 11:20 PM
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Step 1: stop being a fucking pussy. The more you face your fears the more confident you will be in yourself Step 2: realize the more overbearing you are towards yourself because your single/unhappy with your relationship status. The less success you will have, the nights I get laid is when I don't give a shit if I get laid and I'm just doing me. Step 3: take the world by the balls. Don't spend all day on seddit thinking it's going to help you. Half the posts on here suck and give bad advice. Tho…
/r/seduction08/05/16 10:28 PM
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one thing awkward people dont realize makes them shitty conversationalist is they dont follow the rhythm of the conversation. pay attention to what people say and dont talk twice as long as them or twice as short. So what that means is dont give them one word answers on things you dont know wtf theyre talking about, ask them to elaborate more. and dont tell all the info you have about a topic you like talking about all at once. the main thing to remember is when your out drinking and partying or…
/r/seduction05/04/16 11:39 PM
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This is just me but the more weed I smoked the less success I had with women but then again correlation=/= causation. However I did start going to the gym and used exercise and a runners high as well as playing guitar as my " drug of choice" rather than weed. I still also enjoy drinking cause it helps me socialize when I feel Ike weed makes me unable to conversate at all. Weed is over rated and you'll realize how annoying the people on r/trees are after a few months of not smoking. Good luck Edi…
/r/seduction29/03/16 01:00 AM
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nothings ever black and white
/r/seduction28/03/16 03:16 AM
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The more validation you seek the less you will get. Period. I used to be like that but it get you nowhere. People who go to parties trying to "prove " something are pretentious jackasses.anything you do whether it's a party basketball game or guitar lesson, or a trip to the fucking dmv, whatever, you need to do it for the sake of doing it. Jimi hendrix the grates guitar player ever never had anything to prove he spent 10 hours a day playing his guitar because it was his love. If he went to parti…
/r/seduction14/03/16 01:46 AM
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Hey man, I liked your website! but the newsletter thing gave me an error so you'll want to check that out. Thanks for all the advice
/r/seduction19/01/16 07:26 PM
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You say you've tried all these alter ego "shy confident" or "funny ass" approachs, why not be yourself? if you act fake people can tell
/r/seduction08/12/15 07:07 AM
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Smile
/r/seduction13/07/15 04:53 PM
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yea sending that wouldve been bad... thanks lol
/r/seduction09/05/15 07:47 PM
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I read that in Dwight scrutes voice from the office
/r/seduction13/01/15 03:09 AM
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Don't know why this was down voted, a bad trip can cause ptsd
/r/seduction09/01/15 05:07 AM
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this actually really helped. thank you!
/r/seduction12/09/14 04:31 PM
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Yea that sounds about right. Sometimes i cant even really recall what i was thinking at the time but afterwards I'm just like wtf was i doing
/r/seduction17/06/14 10:14 PM
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Or trying to get pics lol
/r/seduction11/06/14 06:20 AM
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Watch music videos, not like some Michael Jackson but like a schoolboy q video. If you dont know how to dance, dance like a rapper cuz they dont either.
/r/seduction06/03/14 10:11 PM
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