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Nobody owes you fidelity
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:34 PM
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My point is that fidelity is not a need since you wont die without it. So people should not feel entitled to it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:56 PM
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Alright, you wont die if your husband is cheating on you. Hell you may even be safer because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:52 PM
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Then the whole "sex is not a need" is meaningless and yet it's widely preached.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:49 PM
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catholic upbringing. I don't practice religion that much but I think killing yourself is sin for catholics. The inconsistency is your catholic guilt is a sign not of your catholic upbringing but rather your need to find validation from an authority figure. You want to be seen as a good catholic boy and want people to feel sorry for you. So you show the world, look, look, I am a good catholic boy, I am choosing to suffer instead of abandoning my faith. Inside you are just a little boy looking for…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:46 PM
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It's not a need, it's a want. You wont die without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:39 PM
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why break the promise? Why is not a right question. They wont die if you break the promise, it's not a need. So you have no obligation to fullfill it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:38 PM
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who the fuck likes cheaters? The people they cheat with. Yes my argument is based on ideal that women have made themselves. They have made a decision that, just by saying sex is not a need, they absolve themselves of everything. So you can't be mad when the same idealism is applied in a generalized way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:37 PM
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And you wont die in a bad relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:34 PM
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Let me tell you something, diamonds are not valuable either, they just restrict their supply to make them valuable. Her feelings, she will get over it. Your unwillingness to cheat is probably more of a sign of your incapability to cheat. The answer to that is to get the capability,.not self harm
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:31 PM
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not being seen as a piece of shit isn’t a need either. Exactly, so men should not bother with it. They wont die if other people think they are shitbags
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:29 PM
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You really hate cheaters?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:27 PM
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good relationship It's not a need, you wont die without a good relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:26 PM
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Sure they "got me" but I never said in the post that you need to hide your extracurricular shenanigans from your partners. Also how would one get an STD when they don't even fuck their husbands lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:25 PM
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But respect and trust are essential in a healthy relationship. But they are not needs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:22 PM
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What’s the point of reducing everything down to that? Good question. It's just what people do. "Sex is not a need" may be true but it doesn't change anything.but people think that they are making a sound argument when they say that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:22 PM
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I get what you are saying but even more ardent opposers of infidelity will rather you cheat on your wife than commit suicide because of sexual frustrations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:19 PM
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Yes they both are wants. One doesnt get more weightage than another
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:18 PM
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Yeah, I don't know whether they can't connect the dots or don't want to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:17 PM
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Who say you need to conceal anything to break fidelity of marriage. You can just inform your partner that you are seeing other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:16 PM
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Yes, if your partner is hiding the fact that they are cheating from you and don't use protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:10 PM
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Yes, if your partner is hiding the fact that they are cheating from you and don't use protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:09 PM
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All my posts here have wild swings in upvotes and downvotes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:08 PM
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That doesn't refute anything I said. All I am saying that you wont die if your partner cheats so your partner staying loyal to you is not a need
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:06 PM
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Then don't complain when testimony is used against you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:08 PM
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That's the nature of the crime, That's like saying, murders in wilderness are rarely solved. It's just that its harder to get conclusive evidence. That doesn't mean you just start putting people in jail without evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:11 PM
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Ok so, you are mad because testimonial evidence from an accused has same weightage as testimonial evidence from the accuser? Either testimony is evidence or it's not. You can't have it both ways. That "I didnt" and " it was consensual" is evidence and who is to say he is not telling the truth. You want criminal conviction, bring evidence that proves beyond reasonable doubt. You want court of public opinion to condemn an accused, public has as much right to believe that accuser is lying and conde…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:35 PM
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If it's not a conclusive proof then people have right to tell you to go away. You guys want us to treat accuser's words sacrosanct and when inconsistency appear, you want to excuse that away as fallible memory or trauma response. Hell you guys even oppose cross examination of the accuser because they would have to relive the trauma.. Honestly, you guys are just evil. You would rather take away any trace of due process just to put men in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:57 PM
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Wait? A woman telling me that the onus of proof is on the person who makes the claim? What about believe women? How would women accuse men without proof if the onus of proof is on them(since they are making the claim??)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:41 AM
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How much of that satisfaction comes from husband's just giving up?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:08 AM
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What's worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:00 AM
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You can provide sources to the contrary
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:25 AM
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Basically a cycle of demonization and reinforcement. Suppose a husband thinks that therapist is wrong, therapist being an authority figure can scold him for disagreeing with him or use his insecurities against him. When wife sees therapist dominating husband and husband cowering away, she feels husband is not right. At the same time, therapist reinforce wife's beliefs that husband is wrong. That husband is source of all her problems blah blah. So a woman who with a failing marriage with an uncer…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:23 AM
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If I have to guess, A couples therapist dehumanise husband so so much, that his wife stops seeing him as a human and thus is willing to inflict physical pain on him that otherwise her conscience would not allow. Just like we love puppies but eat chickens. Difference is just about how our culture or our media(authority figures) taught us about puppies and chickens. People who have pet chickens find it very difficult to kill them because of how developed their(chickens) personalities are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:11 AM
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I do think age limit should be applied more strictly on pornography. Porn is protected under first amendment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:55 PM
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Redpill women have a way of seeing things differently, kudos I believe the relationship will have a lot of resentment and anger. No, I think a woman will be more resentful if her husband is a good guy rather than a cheater. Because she will hate that she is cause of failure of her marriage. Women really don't like to be responsible. If there were actual issues in the relationship it now shuts down those discussions because it absolves the victim of the adultery of any wrong doings in the relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:52 PM
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You need to have sex with your husband to get std lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:45 PM
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But why then do they care is prostitution is legal or not? They don't want those men anyways. I will tell you why, it's because wives stop fucking their husbands but still want complete monopoly on his resources. Prostitution is just a convenient way to shift resources from wife to hooker. Women don't like men to have that convenience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:42 PM
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Then those men deserve to be cheated on. Same as women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:38 PM
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People don't give two shits. Women don't understand that, they care too much about what others think so they need something to save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:37 PM
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That's fine for you, but when a man spends his hard earned money on a hooker that his wife feels entitled to, his wife throws a tantrum. Men for better or worse are productive member of society and women wants their husbands money to themselves or their kids. That's why women don't like prostitution. It's bad for their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:35 PM
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I am not sure. I haven't seen men saying that their wives talking about sex makes them feel coerced or pressured. But if that's the case, then yes, it's better for women to cheat first
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:28 PM
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Being poly is not good, it has to be cheating so that wife can blame husband for marriage failing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:26 PM
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Hell yeah, try it and let us know if it works for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:25 PM
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It lowers the value of p*ssy, that's why women advocated for bans
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:24 PM
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My wife's boyfriend keeps her busy, not her fault
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:23 PM
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Of course you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:22 PM
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Cheating is better than divorce. It gets man sex he wants, it gives woman breathing room regarding the situation. Divorce is not always feasible, especially with kids. I don't believe that kids do good being shuffled around
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:21 PM
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Horns decided to spoonfeed u/pointlessuser01 instead of dropping the hammar. No way pointless is gonna be able to swallow all that down, for like months let alone implement it. He doesn't have the grasp on the basics. Why waste your time?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 05:28 PM
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I never wrote redical feminist in my post anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:27 PM
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being LGBT is protected Being pro LGBT is not protected
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:27 PM
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So it's okay for Elon to deplatform democrats?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:03 PM
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Just don't use social pressure to deplatform them. Protest about what they are saying, don't protest to deplatform them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:01 PM
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He died because people didn't like him using his free speech rights to say things that they found wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:59 PM
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So let's say, if a company fires someone for being pro LGBT, they are justified?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:58 PM
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fighting By using his free speech right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:57 PM
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Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:56 PM
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But you guys also use your social influence to deplatform them. Typical feminist playbook Why not let them speak? You don't have to listen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:56 PM
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I hardly think anyone is forcing anyone to listen to them. People just want to listen to louis CK, or Dave Chappelle but can't because you guys lose your shit if they dare to go on stage. You don't wanna listen to them, don't. Don't stop them from speaking, don't deplatform them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:50 PM
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But you admit that consequence of him using his free speech right was unfair and unjust.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:48 PM
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I never said redfems were harrassing Rowling, I said liberals were using feminist playbook to harrass her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:45 PM
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People were being harrassed for merely suggesting it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:43 PM
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fighting That fighting involved him exercising his free speech via, speeches, protests, sit ins etc. He didn't actually fought with arms, just words
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:42 PM
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Good thing he wouldn't have listened to you then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:41 PM
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Rowling is the transphobe so that, bottom line makes her a bigot and intolerant. That's not good enough. We should debate her ideas, not call her transphobe and be done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:40 PM
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Feminists aren't trying to make public demonstrations illegal. But they.wpuld happily block and harrass anyone from attending men's right conferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:40 PM
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There is difference between saying that virus comes from china and threatening violence against Asians. One is free speech, other is against the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:38 PM
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Would you have said same to MLK Jr.?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:36 PM
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I am saying is that liberals tusing feminist playbook to try to silence jk Rowling. It's feminists who attack a person by calling him misogynist, transphobe etc. Liberals used to attack ideas, not the person. It's always feminists who attack the person by labeling them something and get their minions to harass them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:36 PM
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freedom of speech does not mean freedom from consequence? Okay, put yourself in 1960s, during civil rights era. MLK was harassed, spied on and assassinated for his use of his free speech. I wouldn't say what happened to him was right. Yes, freedom of speech lead to consequences for him but should it? Unless you are creating a situation where violence can happen, people should be allowed to practice their free speech. Only solution to bad guy with free speech is good guy with free speech. Censors…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:32 PM
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Liberals used to be free speech absolutists. There is a reason, ACLU fought for free speech right of KKK. It was conservatives who used to cancel people. Take bill Maher, he was cancelled from.his show politically incorrect for saying something that would be completely fine if he says it now. Liberals have become what they always hated, because of bad influence of feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:25 PM
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please Do yourself a favor and get this word out of your vocabulary, especially with your ex and your fiancee. Set the frame of interaction in such a way, that what you want is "matter of fact" as compared to a choice your ex has to make. Because she will always be a bitch about it, no matter how right you are. Your "please" puts onus on decision on your fiancee, which involves her admitting to herself that she did wrong and create doubts in her mind that she may not be good enough for you. tell…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 01:14 PM
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You have a BAD case of oneitis, which is actually understandable because your wife is not the BPD kind of bitch, she is just normal kind of bitch, understandable her husband acts like a loser. Hell, she even feel guilty about being a bitch, which implies she may even care about you. Get a life, stop being so "pointless". Go out, make some friends, preferably women.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 12:55 PM
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initiated How exactly did you initiate??
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 12:46 PM
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