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1

YES....I done almost nothing but use body language and made others curious about, sometimes I said nothing and someone would approach to strike up a convo. Where it goes from there is really based on my intention as they opened the connection door for me.
/r/seduction12/01/25 06:47 PM
2

I wouldn't recommend doing anything for anyone hoping for their validation....be better for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/24 01:54 PM
3

Be the best version of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 09:21 AM
2

That's all you got?....lmao,he needs to get out his head and back to reality. His self talk ain't helping by asking this shit,if he don't like the convo then say less. Your just proving why the rules are enforced,do better.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/24 08:28 PM
23

Has the sidebar thought you nothing...."RULE ONE YOU DONT TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB" Time to go back to foundation....re read the material cause this post says I'm ready to start over.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/24 01:19 PM
3

Live and learn....good for you
/r/TheRedPill30/09/24 10:27 PM
8

Being flirtatious and unbothered would be better in my opinion,no need to disqualify yourself from her but I wouldn't push up the other guy. No hate for him....just see it as if she's interested it'll get easier not harder.
/r/seduction03/08/24 12:28 PM
11

The post is simple yet effective stop doing the extra stuff and build the foundation. There are old post like these where men have forgotten about the rule of KISS...(keep it simple stupid) And use what works and leave the rest out.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/24 06:36 PM
4

So.....does her being high value means that your value doesn't matter?...no then go about your life and if she's interested you'll be able to pick up on her actions. It's not that deep.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 02:30 AM
3

Your a grown man,act like it sir.....your either exclusive or non exclusive quit the BS an move accordingly. She agrees your good or she opposed the idea an that's also good cause your saving time. Stop hamstering shit with modern day trends...feel guilty when you break your word not when you don't know what you want.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 09:51 AM
1

Self love goes very far.....tend to your garden the butterflies will come.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/22 09:22 PM
2

Leave them alone....done.
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:17 PM
1

Read them all.....use what's useful,discard what is not.
/r/askTRP20/03/22 10:41 PM
1

It doesn't....the red pill is about bettering yourself,getting women is a byproduct of that achievement but not the goal.
/r/askTRP20/03/22 10:32 PM
1

Move on
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:47 PM
2

Opinions are what they are however I'd tread lightly on patriotic ideology for genders here, misinterpreted would lead to a rather strange debate.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 01:49 PM
9

Reading atomic habits and maintaining discipline was and still is mindset change to altering bad habits... Less is more..focus on the parameters you create..reap the rewards...
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 10:57 PM
56

As uncle vas said...too many TRP oreos,can't use red logic for blue pill goals and you already know what blue logic gives men....
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 01:48 AM
5

Sex God method...karma sutra...uncle vas post (EC)
/r/TheRedPill02/08/21 04:06 PM
7

Isolate,escalate and penetrate....focus on the basics for communication then gauge the comfort level....make ah move to polarise...read the room.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 10:59 PM
2

First off....you should be having fun with this as she clearly is... if it's just disrespectful you can always walk away...treat her like practice...take this experience to other women and hone your skills at beating them.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:12 PM
7

Sidebar....the talk
/r/askTRP20/06/21 06:28 PM
2

Things happen....prep for next girl to be with/spin plates....
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:45 PM
3

Your on tinder....why the fuck do you even care,your there for sex not getting for ltr...if you come across one then good for you until that changes....fuck first.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:26 PM
5

There's a contributor named woujo...look him up,his content should help.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 10:28 AM
2

Read the room so to speak...you font need to be a smiling sigh walking about....its okay to have relaxed demeanor so if they do come to you just know it's on purpose. To that point...men approach,it's better this way as your in control of your actions and the opposite can throw you off if your not accustomed to being social.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 09:23 PM
1

Your talking about a plate....this is not the case for that as she's an fwb...their interaction is greater than meet and fuck till next time...
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:12 PM
3

Being unapologetically masculine carries an aura...even if it's just your speech pattern that's changed that alone communicates a secure frame of mind.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:54 PM
5

I haven't made time for games...I'm multitasking work,gym,diet,socializing,learning skills and women... I do miss the games with a sense of nostalgia maybe I'll create time for it at some point...but not now..
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:09 AM
3

The pill is a TOOLBOX...take what you need leave the rest...you dont need to what you aren't but remember that since of these tools have a carry over...
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:17 AM
1

Didn't even read this post...you got an ideal setup and you want to fix it? DO NOTHING...let it be as is...
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:47 AM
2

Yup
/r/askTRP10/06/21 11:51 PM
1

Correct...you learned what they were born to do...sex sells,image sells,protection sells...
/r/askTRP10/06/21 11:12 PM
3

It's not you per say....the general sense of thought is that you represent an ideal of sorts to what they are interested in,to that point also women are excellent salesmen for any and all their needs,wants,spontanious moments...you grt the gist. They barely know they are doing it as its a method trained at a young age to live life.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 10:53 PM
1

If plate..the answer is "yes"...if a prospect for ltr then..."is sex all you have to offer"....
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:41 PM
3

Just look up the ECs and vanguard's...then from the top post...filter by time vs likes you'll see what you want..
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:33 PM
4

You stay humble by helping others in there journey as a reminder of where you were to keep that ego in check...while continuing to grow yourself... Kendrick Lamar-"be humble,sit down"
/r/askTRP07/06/21 10:40 PM
3

First off.. men today are validation pieces for women to compete with each other for their feels of ego driven status quo... Second .. from your post history...it seems your not ready for an ltr yet and that it's best you find and grow as a person before you engage with women in the future.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 10:36 PM
2

Lol
/r/askTRP07/06/21 10:28 PM
1

Be busy... not that hard...
/r/askTRP07/06/21 10:18 PM
1

Your assessment that high smv women dont come with baggage lead me to show you a common problem men get with these so called well adjusted girls is NOTHING should be ruled out.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:20 PM
1

So a bipolar woman who's got money and run a successful business is aces in your book...noted.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 09:24 AM
2

Sex God Method
/r/askTRP04/06/21 10:31 PM
2

Exactly my point....dont be the monkey
/r/askTRP04/06/21 12:23 AM
3

STFU and get on purpose... if she hits you up then engage but until she has your on your own champ.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:08 PM
2

Read my reply again....I didn't say he should go lift but state that lifting is only part of what men are to do and he should aspire to be as great as he can be in said area even if it's not lifting.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:00 PM
2

How about having a frame that utilizes emotional intelligence to read a time to show your humor when needed...not have a funny frame,dont be a dancing monkey.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 09:20 PM
0

Excuse for what....meet up,escalate,see her reaction and act accordingly..
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:15 PM
3

You dont,STFU...the less you say the more you speak.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 05:20 PM
2

Being a man is just as important as being muscular....you've been giving your options,what you CAN do is still within your grasp but only if your willing to continue working towards it. You cant lift...bummer doesn't mean it's over bro...go out get it and dont look back. TRP is a toolbox and lifting isn't the only weapon that can be equipped.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 05:17 PM
3

Not surprising....bad diets,poor fitness routines,mental blocks and societal pressure..
/r/askTRP03/06/21 05:07 PM
1

Patrice O Neil.....listen to him and come back to us
/r/askTRP03/06/21 05:03 PM
2

Unless your spamming people with flashy shit it's ok in moderation just know it meant to showcase what your doing in real life and not some pseudo virtual reality Chad that hasn't done any of it in person... Use it to engage with interested person but not to stoke your ego....live and learn.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:54 PM
0

Then have an entry level questionnaire for the sidebar before post are allowed...it'll water down the amount of redundancy we see here...
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 10:46 AM
12

Mandatory steps before letting in "fight club" as it's easier to notice for disapproval from anyone...
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:16 PM
1

Acceptance of self...your pros and cons....being at peace with that can go a long way to self growth
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:12 PM
4

Hard times create strong men,strong men create good times,good times create weak men and weak men create hard times....
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:09 PM
1

Your hamsters running...might wanna catch it,shes still dealing with her ex so disappointment is a natural feature in this case though it's to move on....you can plate her till she breaks...
/r/askTRP03/03/21 01:54 AM
3

How about stfu and m8ve accordingly....don't say things like that aloud either,you come off butt hurt. She doesn't want to...fine,inform her of your needs/wants and if it's a deal breaker you then say its been nice and wish her well..
/r/askTRP03/03/21 01:48 AM
6

The details of your life determine witch side of the coin you choose to facilitate,as with all matters of perspective the narrative will be based on personal growth and the length of time required to meet its goal. To have the work put in and not reap the rewards is a bad hand entirely as your goals are your own.....one would go on to even have your cake and eat it too if done right but often with side effects.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 05:20 PM
8

I see....well your point is generally understood,that doesn't mean game is a joke or that TRP is bullshit though more so it really states having the balls to make a move when many would not in this case attracted or not.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 01:50 AM
1

Elaborate for those of us who are slow to the class....?!!!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 01:39 AM
1

Outcome independence is lack from him.....
/r/askTRP24/01/21 02:48 AM
3

All women want you to chase them....it's when you understand the value of attention that they feel your of greater worth and consider chasing themselves. Your in no position to assume anything at this stage other than....you went out and the night ended,no response....fine then talk to other girls and if she pops up arrange a meet or leave alone.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 02:46 AM
1

Fair enough...based on your current understanding,would you say the wanted to see you again or more importantly was it stated for another meet up in the future?
/r/askTRP24/01/21 02:38 AM
5

Ok.....how was the date?
/r/askTRP24/01/21 02:34 AM
23

You care too much already....
/r/askTRP24/01/21 02:30 AM
1

look at what she’s done to you. This right here is funny shit.....and true
/r/askTRP18/01/21 12:56 AM
3

Discipline is what you need.....know yourself
/r/askTRP17/01/21 01:32 AM
3

From a winner's POV.....your just giving back to others you dont mind helping From a loser's POV.....he's your mentor from similar hobbies or you've come across each other enough for it to become a habit due to prosivty.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 01:31 AM
37

Law 10: Don’t Get Infected by Misery and Misfortune Avoid the losers and complainers, associate with the happy and the winners
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:42 AM
2

Read the 5 stages of TRP and 5 stages of unplugging.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 11:53 AM
2

My question is: should I give her space and let her do the chasing? Yes I have already asked her when she was free but she gave wishywashy answer and no definite answer. Meaning no She also claimed She was going to be busy the entire day today but just ended of sitting at her house watching Tv and relaxing Stop stalking.... I just feel like she’s rather chill at home than spend time with me even though we’ve been talking daily for the previous week. Why talk this much instead of meeting up....al…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 11:44 AM
3

Not enough feels but good enough for orbit,pull away
/r/askTRP02/01/21 08:10 PM
1

How you use emojis are more important than if you do,I've used them in chats though context is also a factor when placed on its use. Adaptation to the forms of communication is will always be in your favour but time and place for them are even more of a underlined notion.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 01:54 PM
2

You need to be self sufficient for your own mental health and space as it will break you should this line of thought continue. Start from ground zero Strangers - people you see often - coworkers(if working) - acquaintances - friends - friends with benefits then you know what you are to them as well similar to sockpuppet's girl hierarchy.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 12:53 AM
3

Worth the steal ...
/r/askTRP02/01/21 12:46 AM
0

As we usually say in reference to women,its like giving children dynamite.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 08:46 PM
0

They gave us a toolkit,it's up to us to use it well.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 08:39 PM
1

Why not....,anyway we all have ways to dealing with things I have mine you have yours....enjoy the new year.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 08:35 PM
0

They ask questions,you give responses...it is what it is as I said before with my response yet the focus on A&A was the only choice seen,such is life
/r/askTRP01/01/21 07:48 PM
0

You were told how to deal with shit test,who you choose to handle it with is your responsibility as it appears with your response you need to be told to leave underage individuals alone....you dont need a babysitter just stick to the basics and apply to the legal aspect that comes with it.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 07:34 PM
2

Agree and amplify,pressure flip,ignore and amused mastery....nuff said.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 06:20 PM
2

For 1....say "ok,I get her to come on weekend's so the week stays open for you" For 2....there are many factors for rejection but constant rejection is an entirely different scenario so take it with a grain of salt while you do something else till the next time.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 06:09 PM
3

FEELZ man,FEELZ....the end all and be all.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 11:25 PM
4

There are no LDR's...just two people who are acquainted with emotions that are very distant
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:32 AM
1

"The only easy day was yesterday,why because it's already been done".......this motto is best used to understand that no matter the issue the past is meant to help you come to grips with the present while shaping your future. Your mindset of endlessly comparing others is and will be your downfall so I would suggest more so to relinquish your current perspective to help you change to an adaptive system.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:55 AM
1

Clearly he hasn't read rollos work on unplugging someone from the matrix....it's dirty work.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:13 AM
1

It's like u/uncle vasily says,think horizontally not vertically....shoot and learn
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:05 AM
9

Most women are ridiculously naive in believing that dread is a tactic which can be used to create attraction little do they know the opposite effect is made to their misunderstanding of the concept....
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:48 PM
2

Only time will tell,it is a nice goal to set for yourself and no you dont have imposter syndrome.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:58 PM
2

Many know and have felt this issue growing up,I understand...its not easy shifting the narrative from being the side character to the main protagonist but that's the thing about opportunity it comes and goes. Your comfort zone needs to be tested more but only if your willing to go though the material and use the tools given to improve the situation.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:21 PM
2

Okay,your in her shoes right now....would you,fuck yourself knowing your thinking about matters that can change on a dime,that's a fickle mind to deal with.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:17 PM
2

Why are you uncomfortable?,your the upcoming star of the show called LIVING YOUR LIFE.....see the pros of this as an indication of progress cause the cons aren't far being eg haters,naysayers,white knights....you get the idea just take it one step at a time and dont fill your head up with bullshit.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:13 PM
5

Just because she won't date whatever (person/ethnicity/religion) does not mean she won't fuck you,that mindset your projecting is what she won't fuck with.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:09 PM
1

You are aware that just made a post regarding the tangible results social media offers while declaring the said platforms to not be if your preference right. Its not needed as it's still a validation hole for many who use its infrastructure for its purpose,you can give it go when your lifestyle benefits you for its use but non issue depending on your circle.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:00 PM
1

If any of those girls are interacted 5with more often then not and the vibe is showing then go for it otherwise you're wasting fuel on burnt out flames.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:38 PM
32

Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. Lack of knowledge from not reading the sidebar or it's contents.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 09:18 PM
1

Then this is over....
/r/askTRP25/11/20 11:41 PM
2

Keep the condom on first of all unless you want a kid. You don't stop the game because you meet someone who doesn't like how you play the game. If she dumped you would you be looking at her everyday all day? Or move on with your life.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 11:37 PM
5

Ok.....listen well If she's your only plate then she your girl and if she not your only plate,move the fuck on cause these things are a norm when plates reach there breaking point anyway.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 11:09 PM
2

The hell is wrong with you....take the bj and find something to do with yourself for a couple days....lift,hobbies,mission,etc....
/r/askTRP24/11/20 12:03 AM
2

The narrative of her leaving you is her hamster saving face for closure....leave it be cause true or not you'd have to live with it.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 12:00 AM
2

Create your own post,d9bt piggyback on another. Why'd you contact her again after so long,did you miss her or run out of options? You've been there done that already so she right to be hesitant considering YOU ended it. If you don't have any plans or goals for this girl leave her the fuck alone else you'll end up back here seeking some advice to either get rid of her or keep her in line with a plot twist of oneitis.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:55 PM
1

For fuck sake man....what happened to using paragraphs man,on to your case. Bruh as so stated you've got other plates and yes since plates are better than others but that's the thing about non exclusivity....the con here is she applying dread on you in an obvious manner that is straight up annoying to get your attention or keep you chained. Give her some space cause that nonsense about her pussy is great is also the reason she fucking with your mind right now,it's one thing to know she fucking o…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 10:02 PM
0

How about caring about yourself first,thinking about other people's opinions is a natural effect to social calibration but that's the thing though....you dont need to give a fuck from the offset,so quit this bullshit focus on you and your mission.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 04:09 PM
4

Good maintain that vibe....
/r/askTRP23/11/20 12:58 AM
3

Along those line's....you don't need her friendship,if people ask say "we wanted different things" and keep your distance without being cold. Be indifferent not an asshole cause she's still in your circle.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 12:54 AM
7

It's not my belief she friendzoned you,buyers remorse is a very real aspect in this situation as she basically spelt on the idea of you and changed how she wanted your interests to be so she'd feel better about what she did that night. It's not about you being beta or not as women egos are more absurd than you'd think and her going though a rough time as she states could be her wanting to supplicate some form of attention but switches to maintain the hamsters movement. Don't engage unnecessarily…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 12:30 AM
13

I'm not reading this monstrosity.....paragraph and punctuate your work sir then assistance can be afforded at your lessur.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 11:28 PM
2

You need to rephrase the general,question as no one in here would be able to give the answer your seeking but only offer scenarios of similar situations to reference to. It's best to dust yourself off understand what you did right from wrong and attempt to meet her again to confirm the thoughts that are beating you.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:31 PM
1

Seconded opinion.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:24 PM
5

The only three option's to consider.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:25 PM
5

They aren't your friends.....former acquaintances at best,just ease out of group no drama
/r/askTRP20/11/20 12:52 PM
1

SIDEBAR....TRP...is AMORAL No one can give the answer you seek as the minimum requirements are past experiences of your youth,present understanding of your level and future perspective of your goals hence Why only you can determine the outcome,just recognize every action has an equal and opposite reaction.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 01:38 AM
1

Depending on the context of matter it's not a bad thing to do,you'd be required to maintain a level of autonomy to your opinions of the matter while saying you found someone complain about a survey online while keeping your distance from associating with the questions involved.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:37 AM
3

I found it intriguing,submitted hope you understand the ramifications to bring associated with this information as I believe it in your best interests to make people know that this is was an experiment to keep your reputation as neutral as possible while getting the results you seek.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:33 AM
1

Fuck dude....she's an ex now,that's a lot of writing for something you shouldn't care about anymore.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 08:02 PM
5

You move on.....see what your friend did,what you didn't and be glad for him
/r/askTRP15/11/20 07:52 PM
-1

Reference yourself as the boogeyman aka...baba yaga from john wick and move along with a laugh,don't offer serious attention to these low level provocations.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 07:50 PM
5

So your a buff Jason statam with anxiety then....you achieve those other traits being unfocused just turn that focus into a skill when dealing with people not just women and the results will show up with confidence.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:32 PM
12

Be who you were when she meet you just remember she's now your tag along
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:36 PM
2

To be quite Frank,I'm not read this as the title itself has given me what I needed to give advice. Sir you need to leave her be due to being fact that she's already ejected from the relationship weather right or wrong in hindsight,for she can and will do it again if the narrative fits her motive.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:05 PM
3

YOU DON'T..... DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT
/r/askTRP07/11/20 06:58 PM
0

Basically,children with dynamite
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:24 AM
1

Its sounds like their trying in some tomboyish way to assert some form of dominance during your interaction,take a step back continue to treat them as you would any person who you must report too and keep your head down while getting the job done.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 03:00 AM
7

Agreed if you dont want to go,its ok to have other things planned....sure she could be dissapointed or even not care it's basically a reverse logistics play but for you to tag along instead.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 02:56 AM
2

You feel this way due to your lack of self love to yourself....decrease your weaknesses and increase your strengths brother,the pill is a toolbox not a scratch and win ticket to happiness for anyone's peace of mind.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 01:01 AM
1

This question isn't something to casually answer as attraction varies from person to person and relationship to relationship.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 01:24 AM
18

Slow down....say less speak more,be present in your thoughts but understanding with your patterns as it's a process.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 01:18 AM
2

You dont......for fuck sake. DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT
/r/askTRP26/10/20 12:17 AM
1

Well it's a foot massage with a fancy name,your expectations were too high.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 11:54 PM
1

I dont necessarily get the purpose of this post but I'll bite. Yes he speaks words of truth to an extent of anger while it's a great lesson you should also not stay so far to this mindset that you become MGTOW as he's portraying a sense of betrayal and resentment from unrecriprocated actions for long term care.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 11:49 PM
2

I became demotivated. I mean I was doing all the stuff, but I was the only person who saw this progress Yeah this mindset is not right at all,your approval is the only one that matters and motivation is nice but discipline is absolute. You dont want it enough cause your safety nets keep you from failing,you dont stop it's a marathon.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:44 PM
1

You do know there are hobbies that can introduce a variety of people and women of different mindsets to your life such as....painting,hiking,sports,biking etc.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:40 PM
1

Well said...everything else can and will be learned from experience.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:36 PM
6

Second line's good for this type of question.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:34 PM
1

Your thinking too much for a basic move,get out your head and focus on being comfortable in your own skin. She like the pics...okay just say in person you'd like to take her out and try to keep the online approach to logistics if you go this way.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:27 PM
1

The anger phase never stops....it comes and goes for a reason...well several but that's to be expected as life's a marathon and you dont stop learning just because you understand how things work a little better now.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 01:11 AM
2

Dont get angry at the lion for deciding to eat you knowing full well that's the nature of the animal,you on the other hand with the means to kill said lion did the opposite. Well put....act accordingly with the toolbox that is THE RED PILL.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 09:58 PM
2

First off be glad your awake at stage of your life irrespective of the age,many never come to see the light while other fall into the abyss. Being frustrated is completely rationale as you begin contemplating the years you've lost in the marathon of life,to which I ask?..."what do you intend to do about it?!!". The way you looking it isn't right and unhealthily in the long run,they're your reminder for what could be yourself if you remain disciplined to your goals.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 02:34 PM
1

Who told you this?!!....there are many more scenarios that encompass the personalities involved both within and out of TRP,generally you'd get recurring questions or experiences but thats to be expected during the stages of unplugging. Game exist,its not absolute by any means as many succeed without it and some even lose their natural appeal after learning it regardless of past triumphs. The philosophy of game itself is an internal understanding of how the world operates but with an outward pres…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 09:58 PM
1

Men have been initiated in the lifetime parameters of women logic to which they feed you information in how to treat women but not how to be masculine in lue of this mindset it is required the standard practices be initiated for logic or lack there of.... M8ney equals women but nobody said spend it on them just have it,these men are just another cog in the agenda of fem logic where they spend money for implied pussy.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:15 AM
3

Dont talk about fight club,it never ends well and why give people the upper hand when you can take what you know then apply it to your liking to come out on top.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:07 AM
2

If your good with them,my go to is playful dominance like being aggressive to employ as form of physical contact under the guise of cocky fun. Warning...they should be comfortable with the idea of you being asshole like to pull this off first.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:05 AM
3

Bingo....let it go and find someone else to dance with it's part of the game king.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:01 AM
1

The use of an unplugged mindset in the workplace can be very beneficial towards the individual in question as long as you be wary of the tactics used and they apply to your environment.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:43 AM
19

If people say they've learnt nothing from you it's a shame,context to narrative ratio on point.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 02:39 AM
6

Just read this....very accurate information.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 11:37 PM
4

This is an excellent way of handling your shield and sword tactics when maneuvering though the world today,the way you defend against these scenarios should help build up the experience to attack back when ready. As we know,it takes time to accumulate the mental strength needed for mishaps such as these but it's on you to find use when hit hard so you can hit back harder.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 11:34 PM
1

Correct....let her miss you for fuck sake,pick up your hobbies and grab your bro's for some time to chill.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 02:30 AM
0

This mindset is not the right application to a plate/fwb/ltr or even wife taking a distance away from you,YOUR the prize yet your thinking of scenarios that may or may not happen.Kill the hamster within.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 02:28 AM
2

Not gonna read all that the title alone... No such thing as long distance girl problems,so time to move on.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 01:17 AM
4

The one you stick too....on a real just keep it simple,mma or Bjj or you could go into kickboxing but the best one is there's no best to choose from as they all have various purposes.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:54 AM
9

Compliment things in her control only.....her genes are her parents doing so not that but her style or choice of clothing....sure.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:38 AM
5

Repeat after me..... IF YOUR NOT HER BOYFRIEND THEN YOUR HER GIRLFRIEND proceed accordingly....
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:27 AM
2

Now's not the time for fear....that comes later
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:44 PM
5

Your environment reminds you of who you were and not who you are now,its understandable but my suggestion is to use it as a crutch to never fall into the abyss of the past again.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 08:00 PM
1

Offer advice you would give to yourself after hearing the scenario,that's it
/r/askTRP15/09/20 02:08 AM
1

I wasn't saying to ask her....I was asking what you left the date like to access weather she wanted to meet up sooner rather than later as your post didn't say how she reacted to you in general.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 01:01 AM
30

You'll get nothing looking for logic from an emotional creature.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 12:24 AM
1

Relax....how'd you leave the interaction?,you'd call her or she'll msg you....but the balls mostly in your court so setup something around the weekend.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 12:23 AM
3

Take her off the pedestal king....the halo effect your seeing is an image of your creation,check walks the earth like anyone else...... Meet other women but dont categorize them to make life easier on yourself.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 12:18 AM
1

Arrange...meet up...space,so time to arrange another meet up.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 11:47 PM
61

They are just fish in a sea of attention...navigate your ship accordingly and dont sink into whatever thirst traps they lay for you to bite at. What's baffling about that!!!.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 11:45 PM
3

1...if you haven't slept with her she's a prospect and 2,why care at all it's either your a rebound aiming to her laid or you leave her alone
/r/askTRP08/09/20 08:16 AM
3

Convey it don't say it....actions over words,she'll get the drift after you pull the attention away
/r/askTRP08/09/20 08:05 AM
1

They are socially calibrated creatures made to follow the herd of attention,validation and status quo....so being isolated from the world weather self chosen or not won't change their programming for being sheep.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:51 AM
2

Hello everyone I’m new to this page and I’m looking for some help. Sidebar Whenever I talk to a girl now all the wrong things pop up in my head because I’m scared they just won’t like me. Scared to polarize while showing lack of idgaf attitude My close friends that are girls try to encourage me and always tell me that I’m good looking and to just go for it, but there’s something holding me back. Dont listen to women on how to get women....ironically they aren't wrong for saying grow some balls. …
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:44 AM
1

You dont take it personally and remember that's why they call it game....I mean you learn cues from experience and apply them as you see fit. Her doing this is part of testing your framework,push and pull guy just tease back use AA or AM then gauge how she reacts while being indifferent.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:34 AM
8

Let her know you've got enough friends and move on cause your interested in something more personal.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:30 AM
1

Let me show it to you this way....for everything you are doing correct,you also know what your not doing right so improve on those aspects while learning how they apply to each girl your with as no two women are the same. Increase your strengths and decrease your weaknesses.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:28 AM
3

They NEED to get their house in check....nobody got time for all that.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 12:38 AM
7

If she boring in bed....your boring in bed,experimentation comes with time and consistency so non CRAZY could also be great. On another note.....are you also willing to marry as it seems your in a position to try unnecessary risk?
/r/askTRP08/09/20 12:28 AM
2

Bonus points if she doesn't know that you know and you ghost the shit out of her to make that hamster lose its shit.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 12:02 AM
2

Text for logistics but dont be autistic about it,keep the convo light and move it towards a meet up.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 11:59 PM
1

How are trying to cut her off?,just use pleasantries in person and stop contacting her cause your role right now is to be kept in orbit incase her choice slips up.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 11:56 PM
9

She's a plate right....WHO CARES,let her do it if she wants cause weather or not you cant stop her nor should you.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 11:53 PM
27

The fuck is wrong with finding a woman who ISN'T unstable to have sex with.....isn't it bad enough to have regular girls with the potential to crash men's lives. DON'T STICK YOUR DICK IN CRAZY....
/r/askTRP07/09/20 11:50 PM
2

Say...."sometimes there up a tree or sitting near a pond",then move on to a next topic.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 02:59 AM
22

It's a form of submission or submissive behavior.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 02:52 AM
10

If don't want to go then don't go....show some tact about it an do something else that day to fill the gap. On the off chance you do go....be cordial and have some fun while being social,don't invest too much info to the event and learn a thing or two about the girl in question.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 01:04 AM
3

Dont say it...show it,annoying how? Unless your doing some weird autistic stuff!!
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:59 AM
4

Tell her all the best and move on....non issue
/r/askTRP02/09/20 11:35 PM
2

What vibe are you pushing,that conveys you not being able to have women? Ignore or pressure flip....if she's single herself it'll show and if not.....being held down right now is bad for your fun.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 11:30 PM
4

All you needed to say was..."we wanted different thing's at the time",she inquires more move accordingly to her interest.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:41 PM
2

Read the primer on K.I.S.S from the mod.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:14 PM
12

Get your house in gear.....you shouldn't be projecting any issue you have on her,the idea of being asshole is a by product and not a mantra for trp.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:51 PM
1

No issue....live and learn
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:50 PM
1

"Year later resolved some confidence issues I had and I’m diggin her guts out." To my understanding,he's getting laid if the statement us what it represents else he's really naive.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 09:41 AM
2

First of all...its either you got positive or negative feedback,second...it varies with girls,so my style of being distant would be considered normal if they anything about how I handle interactions. Work out the kinks in your game to understand what works for you as it could come across as congruent with past behavioural traits leaving you to come across as try hard or over invested.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 01:38 AM
5

It's okay to have on and off days to the basics,its not knowing when your slipping is the killer as you'd fall into the abyss of regression. Lick your wounds and go again.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 01:07 AM
22

Preselected mates are the go to for female hive minds.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 01:03 AM
2

Slow down,relax as shes doing the basic pulling away maneuver to gauge your interest,pop a phone call to throw her off and see if it changes things then revert to the basics of logistics.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 01:02 AM
2

Can't be an orbiter if he's getting laid...more like he's not the top option in the basket so she's shopping around.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 12:59 AM
9

If it's not broken dont fix it....if texting works FOR YOU,dont change pattern to please the masses. On another note,a call now and then is viable to kill your anxiety to dealing with ppl head on over using a platform the hides your weaknesses,adjust accordingly to the person in hand and use your discretion.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 12:55 AM
0

Talk more in person but it's ok to chat her up abit b4 the meet
/r/askTRP30/08/20 11:14 PM
2

I'm an improv type...so the environment gives me my opening. Eg... Party..talk about the vibe,sports bar....talk about the game,grocery...talk about the products. Being scripted is a bad mindset,use what you see and have around each other to create openings.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 08:53 PM
2

Yes....move on
/r/askTRP24/08/20 07:20 PM
2

Never do ultimatums....you'll get a lot of resentful attitude for doing what you asked yet you'll lose if she has another option to use going forward.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 11:03 PM
10

Sexual market value
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:41 AM
4

Feelz / emotions drive women in all of their decisions. Even when given clear logic they will choose their feelings. This doesn't make women bad people, it just makes them women. If you can learn to master your emotions and pay attention, you can manipulate any situation you want into whatever outcome you find desirable. The world is your oyster when you can learn to master your emotions and manipulate others with theirs. What I like most about this line is,no matter how many times over or who e…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/20 10:20 PM
4

Do you live on the moon?....no,just be patient while working on yourself and try behaveing like a socially normal person when you meet a girl then act accordingly.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 10:51 PM
8

Look at it this way,the day you stop acting the way the world wants you to behave is also when they attack your new found mindset relentlessly to conform. Fall down 7 times and get up 8.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 01:22 PM
3

Yo...first off,find the sidebar read it then read it again before posting about this nonsense. On to helping you,an ltr is the last thing that should be on your mind as you have oneitis and would like to make sweet love to your unicorn who by the way is not THE ONE. Your choice you can hit her up and go out or leave it be but all thing considered you might learn something,so shoot your shot,just dont come back here with it until you've done your homework.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 12:44 AM
2

Bruh....why even care though,weather she was interested or not shouldn't be the difference on how you behave. Go find others and stop overthinking about nonsense.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 11:41 PM
1

Emotional about what....this post intrigued me to try to understand your motives,never did I say it was wrong for a female to be guided by a male. The Disney dreams dead...life is wha6 you make it so any man on that fairytale shit is still plugged in.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:22 AM
1

At no time there would be a woman so consistent in this world without a male guided mindset ready to be placed in matrimony for your individual desire....I.e unicorn,dont get me wrong its fine to have standards and expectations to a female YOU consider ltr ready but to what avail do you mean to get from seeking THE ONE?
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:04 AM
2

Stop chasing unicorns and vet your women better.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 10:45 PM
6

Reddington is a beast of adaptation and composure.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 10:36 PM
3

https://www.forums.red/p/theredpill/220924/the_5_stages_of_red_pill Use this
/r/askTRP12/08/20 09:55 PM
1

Exactly....she's on social media too much,it's an issue but if not on it at all and he bitches.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 09:45 PM
1

Say hello and be a normal being with social calibration then move on.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 08:07 PM
3

It was more of an inquest to understand your reasoning as I can agree with this myself but life can create some varying scenarios.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 07:31 PM
2

Why not get a surrogate to have a kid and spin your plates then?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 06:42 PM
2

They said go no contact because your being fed beta bait and your blue urges are resurfacing. It's best to let this one go bro,you've not nothing to gain from this endeavor.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 12:36 AM
1

Improv....learn to turn any situation into a form of banter,its takes time to get going but it's a hell of a shield to navigate social awkwardness.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:23 PM
10

"Is sex all you have to offer" and proceed accordingly
/r/askTRP26/07/20 11:59 PM
2

I agree with this to a point as if you're truly spinning plates it becomes tediously time consuming to manage seeing one too often and if you do the closer to a fwb or girlfriend in any case.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 11:57 PM
2

This is too much writing for someone you don't mind not fucking.....pull the trigger or leave her alone.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 11:54 PM
3

Alpha Male strategies.....YouTube channel.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:59 PM
1

Ignore or say "good for you" and either move along to a meet up or go after another plate.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:48 PM
3

Reading too much into it move on,it matters not to quite Frank.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 12:10 AM
6

read this
/r/askTRP20/06/20 12:02 AM
1

Nothing....you gave her discipline now continue on your way,it continues hard next
/r/askTRP18/06/20 11:11 PM
21

Exactly,every oneitis a man get is the result of being alpha widowed by a female.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:09 AM
1

I didn't say she was a unicorn,just enjoy the moment while you live and learn.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:57 AM
1

Trust me.....its a sight to see,but try it out just say do it right....like your giving a commencement speech.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:56 AM
1

Could be for any number of reasons to be honest,I'm in no position to state what your going through or doing is really my business just that I'd like to know why you cant just stay on course and not hamster any lurking issues for no reason.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 11:28 PM
5

"I dont kiss and tell" or count on your fingers till you come up with a number while going back and forth about how many counted then stop and say "enough"
/r/askTRP15/06/20 11:09 PM
1

The sidebar has a lot of info pertaining to the content you seek.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 11:48 PM
1

This is their version of "potential pussy" but with money,your good as the only downside is a rape charge for playing rich
/r/askTRP11/06/20 11:49 PM
3

I dont think I can read all this so hears what to do.... Live and learn,human beings not just females can be downright horrible at times but what you can do is take solice in your new form of awareness and apply it where needed to the situation at hand then rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:47 PM
1

DGAF is all you need but have some decorum as it's a social setting so a little tact would be useful if you know who your dealing with.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:43 PM
1

He hasn't learned it's Arrange meet gap arrange meet gap not meet arrange meet gap.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:40 PM
1

I thinks a great plan but execution is key as you should be using this a platform to practice to social calibration when out in open spaces making it easier to converse in smaller enclosed places.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 01:37 AM
1

Being passionate about something increases smh but its subjective as one girl will adore your tap dancing skillset while another couldn't be bothered,if arts your thing when go to or be at art affiliated events to match your aspect of female fans.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 01:33 AM
1

These women are hamstering a form of power by testing their sexuality to you even though many of them are already taken but would like to know men(like you) would still challenge the Implied commitment to their partners.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 01:28 AM
1

I'll take word on that....
/r/askTRP10/06/20 01:17 AM
1

Nice message except the last part.....remember You dont lose women chasing money but you do lose money chasing women.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 12:44 AM
6

110% ,STFU and you'll fuck more women....besides it's always better to let them spread the talk about you anyway.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 11:35 PM
1

From the streets she came and to the streets she returns.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:20 PM
2

Trp is amoral,so you chose this route but expected better results. Live and learn
/r/askTRP07/06/20 09:20 PM
42

He hasnt realized the only person he should be comparing himself to,is who he was yesterday.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:54 PM
1

No where in the red pill says that cardio use is detrimental to your well being of overall progress as an alternative to bodybuilding,so if you've chosen cardio as your tool for self progress......good for you.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 11:56 PM
1

1.did you imply exclusive relations to her? 2.hickeys are minor in the scheme of things as these moments happen. downplay it to foreplay with another woman who couldn't take no for an answer if you truly want plausible details.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 11:14 PM
6

Dont try DO.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:49 PM
3

I cant upvote this enough...your answers are killing me like a bot doing voicemail.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:30 PM
2

Let me get the gist of this correct,you got a girls number and started texting each other but you never initiated a meet up?!!. Do tell.....for what purpose did you acquire her contact info...also WTF!!!
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:22 PM
1

Body weight fitness
/r/askTRP25/05/20 01:03 AM
1

He's 50/50 to me...giving useful info but under the guise of financial support.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:03 PM
1

Have you checked BFW sub for an alternative,I'm sure they'll have compound movements to replicate the excercise with useful progressions.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:02 PM
1

Agreed,live and learn
/r/askTRP24/05/20 08:26 PM
18

All women are like that....sidebar sir
/r/askTRP23/05/20 10:59 PM
1

Simping*
/r/askTRP22/05/20 10:51 PM
1

I'm aware of the character dynamic but to put it as simple as skimping when there are two sides of the coin,is rather dull for new comers as they need two know that you can end up on either side if dont know the game.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 10:50 PM
1

That's your context...for others,its about having a woman so into you as a bottom bitch that you should know that no girl can be trusted to an extent of no faults case in point the ultimate alpha widow that gets used to fullfill his wishes.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 09:38 PM
9

Mona lisa - lil wayne Superman - eminem
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:29 PM
1

Are Implying that your satisfied with the goals you've set?....if so,do you believe those goals were all of your desires to fullfill otherwise the mountain won't climb itself man. The issuse with goals are that it used as a measurement of personal value,so to exceed those metrics to beyond your limits is uncertain to you but you should know the marathon is about how far your willing to push not by how many are ahead of you. To have a lifestyle carefree or not isn't the issue,one does not exclude…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:57 AM
1

What the fuck is this mindset.....if you know you did wrong then fair enough but why would you apologize to make someone happy. Sun zu said the battle won is sometimes the battle not fought,doesn't mean roll over and concede to break even son.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:17 AM
1

Speech is silver,silence is golden ...you get nothing speaking of TRP and if you have read it you would know it taboo to the plugged in socialites that roam the earth.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:11 AM
24

Chasing checks...never chase a bitch....
/r/askTRP20/05/20 11:11 PM
2

If she's your only plate then she's an fwb
/r/askTRP20/05/20 12:43 AM
11

There are no LDR relationships!!....on a side note,phone or cam sex?!...dude go get a girl IRL.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 12:29 AM
2

The alpha beta inquisitions to behavioural habits are becoming tedious to read now....Do as you please and gauge the reaction to move accordingly. Gay or straight it matters not,everyone has that moment of both traits weather their aware of it or not. If you dont want...ok but if you,take it and move on.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 12:25 AM
1

Basically your impatient,rome wasn't built in a day so ease into it.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:25 AM
1

This right here...balance.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:57 PM
4

You did well...her friends are either jealous or she's seeking a greater form of commitment.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 07:07 PM
3

Control your voice register by speaking slower and deeper through vocal exercises,takes time to get user to it but creates a powerful tone weather high or low pitch due to your control. Remember,speak dont talk there's a difference.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 06:37 PM
144

Gotta admit seeing this play out was a live reminder of why you need to put yourself first and focus on you.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 07:47 PM
0

STFU....drops mic.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 12:28 AM
2

She's what you want her to be...for fuck sake,she could have 10 n count and be great or 5 and be shitty.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:31 PM
2

Shield and sword bro......your looks are your shield and your personality is the sword,adjust accordingly.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:26 PM
3

If you come across as cold over text,just call her and say I'm busy I'll get back to you...proceed accordingly.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:53 AM
1

Read the f*ucking sidebar....please,these questions can be fulfilled there. Unicorns do not exist,I get it...you fell for a girl and she no longer a part of your world but pick yourself up and move on
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:42 PM
3

Just say "good for you" then continue doing you.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 10:40 PM
3

Nice perspective....the serenity prayer mantra is ideal for dealing with matters head on.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 10:07 PM
1

Self isolate,have them pick you up and maintain composure to what you can control.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:45 AM
1

It's a trigger,she most likely does that for an emotional reaction stimulus....eg how some ppl eyes twitch for anger or anxiety,she sucks her thumb so pay more attention to why she's doing it not how she doing it.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:02 PM
1

try this
/r/askTRP10/05/20 02:30 PM
2

We do not negotiate with terrorists,the day she weaponizes sex is the day you take the L.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 02:25 PM
2

That the thing with drawing lines in the sand,if people know where its drawn they will attempt to cross it irrespective of consequences.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 02:13 PM
2

Its best you take a read of HSP post on managing women and boundaries,should give you a fair assessment of what is deemed understandable.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 02:10 PM
2

This post has a few contradictory issues..but I see no reason take issue with her not partaking considering the situation
/r/askTRP10/05/20 01:55 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP10/05/20 01:37 PM
2

You don't
/r/askTRP10/05/20 10:01 AM
1

The templates your looking for is in the sidebar,not many BALLERS are going to be available at convenience to your liking. To my understanding its best to read as much as you can and see an underlining experience from past experiences.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 09:59 AM
2

Live and learn,the red pill is a tool box of many assorted theories and practical techniques for use of your choice.i would recommend finding out what is it your looking to accomplish,set a metric and use the relevant information available at your disposal to engage in self development then your varied results should give you clarity on what's useful or irrelevant.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 09:51 AM
4

Sometimes people hold a core belief that is very strong. When they are presented with evidence that works against that belief, the new evidence cannot be accepted. It would create a feeling that is extremely uncomfortable, called cognitive dissonance. And because it is so important to protect the core belief, they will rationalize, ignore and even deny anything that doesn't fit in with the core belief. Hamster - Used to describe the way that women use rationalization to resolve mental conflict a…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:48 PM
6

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. Read this everytime they push you away....stop reacting to ppl,it a waste of energy.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:43 PM
1

Listen to some Patrice o Neil....bro,your perception will not be about oneitis anymore but self respect and taking Ls
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:19 PM
1

Say"good for you,have fun"....anything she comes at you with use this and move on.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:41 PM
82

I actually like this report.....the story itself reminds me of many moments I've seen come to pass but we say,some need to burn to learn.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 07:31 PM
2

Considering the rules is today's media...I watered down the quote,dont need the b.s of bring told I wasn't (P.C) cough cough.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 08:05 AM
42

Hoes get horny...men get hurt -2pac
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 12:17 AM
19

He needs to see this break the pattern
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 12:16 AM
6

He needs to see this break the pattern
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 12:16 AM
1

Have you read the sidebar? If yes,you misinterpreted what you read but if no.....well it time to start.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 11:19 PM
5

First off your too invested,if your not good at texting it's ok as we always say text for logistics.Inform her that texting isn't your thing and you'd like that way. Molding her is a nice goal but it seems like your using red pill methods for a blue pill lifestyle,it won't progress well if that's your tactic.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 11:11 PM
12

I'm hearing NO pros right now....so time to evaluate your options and move accordingly.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 12:01 AM
22

Good on you for being aware and taking action with a flow of energy they couldn't read aka aloof.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 11:13 PM
7

Most people need to experience the natures to women to their fullest degree to cultivate what they missed from awakening to the pill....your case is your own but understandable no less. "The only easy day was yesterday,why it's already been done",your past doesn't define you but you can use it to mold you.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:51 AM
6

This is literally the peak moment for monk mode self improvement around the world so feeling spirited to accomplish goals should be second nature to you if you've set goals and standards to your choice.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:46 PM
1

Well clearly you have some form of wisdom to impart on him other than disassemble the information with your negative projectile of words.....but that just me.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:43 PM
1

Take it as a compliment...the shields so good you dont have to use the sword.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:52 PM
1

Bro your the head master of the school and kids dont like you...do you conform to be liked...HELL NO,do you while they keep mocking you,trying to bring you down but to no avail because YOUR in charge.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:25 PM
1

Have you spoken to a doctor?,if not....that's your next stop.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 08:42 PM
3

What about doing the reverse....building yourself...spinning plates....having LTR because of your abundance.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 08:37 PM
12

Bingo
/r/askTRP22/04/20 08:29 PM
5

If You ain't got no haters,you ain't poppin Embrace it....and use it eg Amused Mastery.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 08:27 PM
2

Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. Live and learn...
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:07 AM
6

NMMNG( NO MORE MR NICE GUY),WISNIFG(WHEN I SAY NO I FEEL GUILTY).
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:04 AM
2

First off,diet is a broad statement so what type of food are we talking about?,to an extent if your calories are on point and need tweaking it's ok as you've found a way to get results from this endeavor. I must ask though,what is it your looking to improve...lowering bodyfat,gaining mass,are your energy levels good,etc cause we cant assist with a solution without you listing an error per say.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 10:10 AM
1

Ahhhh yes and water is wet....stay out of her orbit and live your life.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:44 PM
1

Ahhhh yes and water is wet....stay out of her orbit and live your life.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:34 PM
1

Like I said,mirror her msgs you'll get the drift.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:28 PM
1

He let her go for a reason,having a change of heart to to re-enter a former plate is one thing but his effort towards this girl is already in a frame of she can come back to him even if he decided to end the interaction...if he's making more effort than their last encounter it all for nort with her thinking she can do him the same thing.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:14 PM
1

Your response is more important than her decision to teach out which could be for any number of reasons so it's best to understand what do YOU want from this scenario.its going to be your call to know what's up but mirror her msgs,and your input and treat them like casual then fade away.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:38 PM
1

No problem
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:28 PM
13

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. Move on bro...
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:27 PM
1

Context....if he was a virgin or had little experience talking about sex could throw the dynamic of the interaction to awkward levels....best to stfu when you dont know what to say,as you cant take your words back.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:20 PM
1

You wish him all the best on his upcoming nuptials and as a friend would....tell him you'll be here to talk to when ever you need someone and let the situation unfold. It's someone's life your dealing with more so their ideals on love and companionship so dropping the bomb on him is in no way advised or your job but can be guy he talks to should shit hits the fan.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:48 PM
1

The line is based on YOUR needs.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 11:12 PM
15

99 problems,that bitch ain't 1
/r/askTRP14/04/20 11:03 PM
5

What stopping you from doing both.....why cant there be balance?.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:21 AM
3

We're all pieces on the chest board,your best bet is to be the best item based on your skillset and apply them to the game.....you been given a shot to beat them d9nt waste it trying to join them. The cards were dealt already,time to learn to play or sit at the bench cause its playing with or without you.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:15 AM
0

Read the damn SIDEBAR
/r/askTRP12/04/20 04:05 PM
3

No matter how many times we say it,they still persist.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 01:42 AM
1

Give a man a fish he eat for a day but teach a man to fish,he eats for his life.its nice when this come easy while it's more rewarding to know you can go after what you want.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 01:07 AM
2

All of it
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:32 PM
2

Stop bitching or do something about it. ACTION...put your ass to work and be the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:48 AM
1

Eat,lift,sleep and sidebar.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:42 AM
1

Control as with all things is a measure of action on your part to defrinciate priorities,as what you control requires your direct and immediate attention while for matters not in control but has the ability to affect you require your resolve to weather the storm.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:37 AM
2

Take your foot off the pedestal son,be who you were when you meet her no less for you seem to believe the need that things will go stale Implying outcome dependence of a boring interaction to come. Live and learn,keep your options and dgaf.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:30 AM
1

What's your concern here?,you barely see her and you have sex at every meetup yet you feel the need to mix it up for some misguided reason. If your worried that your developing oneitis,its normal but just add another plate or 2 to the rotation.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:24 AM
3

Hiit,jump rope and anything that incorporates full body movement.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:19 AM
21

Feelz before realz post,an underestimated concept for real world results.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 10:18 PM
3

Very true indeed as I myself know of women who have small tattoos on their ankles or wrist that are to my reasoning well put together.larger versions on open body parts fully exposed says a lot depending on past experiences or current lifestyle.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:03 AM
1

Came to say the same thing myself,read the damn sidebar ppl.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 11:18 PM
1

https://theredarchive.com/archive/24224 Do THIS.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:05 AM
2

Understood,your perspective came across as being able to re-plate former women but since your seeking wisdom from a personal standing i get where your coming from. To me it would be about maximizing results from past relationships to validate notions of questionable behavior and rectifying lost opportunities with a new persona given the person you've presented is viewed as a different image to last seen.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:22 PM
1

If you've done this before,why are you questioning your actions.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 09:16 PM
1

Pros: your familiar with them Cons: their familiar with you Why let your opponent have you up against a wall when they no longer need you when you can be getting to know someone new.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 09:12 PM
3

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was STOP THIS NOW.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 08:56 PM
2

Dude sidebar,don't shit where you eat and so what if he flirts with her she's not your girl anyway.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 07:50 PM
2

Better you read year one post on the rationale male site,his point of view on the matter might resonate with you.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:29 PM
1

Good then this tread is complete,go do you.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:21 PM
1

All I'm reading here is your getting what you want but aren't getting what your looking for.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:16 PM
2

You appreciate her for what she brings to the table while accepting that she can be like this to anyone else,enjoy her man stop this mental madness.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:15 PM
1

Either the routine is to simple or your looking for push back from her that this is all we do.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:12 PM
1

You cant,your comparing past experiences with future prospects and that not in your control to assess whom you'll be with 1 month or 1 year from now.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:10 PM
1

Your solid frame is shaking right now.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:07 PM
1

If this is all you do then she's more a plate than a ltr.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:06 PM
1

Ok,it comes back to what are you looking for?
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:05 PM
1

The same way you deal with any setback,acknowledge the loss and learn from your mistakes.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:03 PM
1

Never said it was bad,if you don't want oneitis put yourself in a mindset of its still your turn and anything can happen.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:01 PM
1

Interact with her less or have more going on in your life so she's not in the rear view all the time.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:57 PM
2

Your saying she's great on one side while hamstering a reason to be non exclusive on the other basically your seeking greener grass while not firing your current gardener.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:56 PM
2

The day you internalize the sidebar is the day you don't need it anymore cause your living and experiencing it through life. You slip up you don't lose it.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:54 PM
1

What exactly are looking for with this woman,a reason to complain perhaps?.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:50 PM
1

Well then if she's so great why are you in two mind's?
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:49 PM
1

Haven't internalized it yet.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:44 PM
2

You just answered your own question,ease up on your interactions and create some wiggle room,on another note you just promoted this girl why even commit know you want to smash other girls?
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:42 PM
5

What's your question? Your already in oneitis phase so I'd recommend more sidebar since you've found your one.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:34 PM
1

What do you hope to gain from this info?
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:40 AM
1

You dont,keeping fucking her till she show as much qualities as possible and make an assessment on long term contact while she should be the one to initiate "the talk" then you decide if she a good prospect for ltr.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:33 AM
3

Eye contact is strong indicator of a connection during intercourse so them closing their is rather strange. I believe you should run a test with these women to see another outcome and how many times had this happened to you?
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:27 AM
2

"Good for you" then proceed on.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:19 AM
4

Setup a meet based on your availability see if her plans align with yours and pull the trigger,your not meeting her to setup another meet that stupid. Make the call,find a compromise and check her interest levels and remember there are no mixed signals just a lack of understanding.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:34 AM
3

You dont need a second chance just learn what you did wrong,remember what you did right and apply to someone new.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:17 AM
3

I say don't overthink it,make the call if she answers setup a meet and if not move on. Perform an action to get a reaction can't offer more info due to lack of action. Relax,engage and adjust.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:14 AM
1

Being fat is not a trait but your genes are born with you,can you make a change from being fat to fit Ofcourse on the other hand if you've been handed certain facets of family traits e.g. grey hair at a young age it's ok to alter it to your liking but if it's for other opinions is it really that bad to embrace it.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 09:55 PM
1

Dude embracing your traits are part of essence of being who you are,why in the shield you be bothered for something this small just turn it into a line for wisdom for maturity and have fun with it.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 09:45 PM
1

Your outcome dependency is to high,you need to take a step back and ask how life changing they are to your life and realize the ego your carrying is too fragile. Ego investing can be a bitch but your in control build an aura of abundance in your mind to dealing with life and re read the top post theirs one about this same situation.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 08:19 AM
1

Don't DEER.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 08:11 AM
1

Stop worrying about other people and move forward with your life,surely you didn't get a job thinking weather your potential co-workers are naughty or nice human beings.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 08:08 AM
1

This is how you answer a question, well done.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 12:40 AM
2

Dude let it go,change is constant in everyday life move on
/r/askTRP01/02/20 11:06 AM
1

Read the FUCKING sidebar....on another note LDR do not work
/r/askTRP01/02/20 11:04 AM
1

[email protected]
/r/seduction01/02/20 12:11 AM
0

Agreed
/r/askTRP28/01/20 11:59 PM
25

Think as you like but behave like others,this law is has many levels.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 11:33 PM
2

Hustle hard bro....hustle hard
/r/askTRP25/01/20 10:29 PM
1

If they haven't then this is beyond them,it's in the first 15 of top post.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 08:28 PM
11

"We suffer more 8n imagination than we do in real life",your comparing yourself to another individual stop that NOW. If she's looking for a chink in the shield this is it,focus on you not someone you don't even know about standards that may or may not be true.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 11:27 PM
1

Exactly,why give her extra comfort as the alternative to basic communication that this is casual and we're not exclusive.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 01:23 AM
2

Live and learn move on
/r/askTRP21/01/20 08:21 AM
1

Let's flip the switch, if your an orbiter but you get sex do consider yourself her boyfriend now or her sex buddy knowing your looking for more while she interested in less.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 08:20 AM
1

If shes attractive to you and gives you what you want with no issues why care what anyone else thinks.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:57 AM
22

Your confusing her with your behavior,if you treat her like a gf she'll want gf treatment nothing wrong with her request stop doing things that create situations like this.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:55 AM
2

Stay present and keep looking forward,the only easy day was yesterday because it's already done. The fight doesn't get easier nor do the losses feel nice but war requires consistency and perseverance.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:50 AM
1

Let me get this straight,you blocked her but would like to keep fucking......wrong move.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:46 AM
1

Why act un normal....just go about your day like you hit the reset button and move accordingly. The fact that your thinking this much is concerning bro,she make a scene of you decided it was worth fussing.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:41 AM
4

Think as you like but behave like others,the thing about social media is that it's a normal part of life to the point if you don't have any it's weird. My take on it us to have an account to show but not use only to post 1 or 2 pics every three months,nothing special just images that not some social retard. You don't have to engage with the girls that msg you just state you do things in person and the back and forth msg isn't your style p.s. don't like any of their pics or story's it's ok to wat…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 10:40 AM
1

There can be no such thing as a social circle that is too big,your priorities to those you connect with in your time needs structure and focus on the bridges you would like to maintain vs expand only then can the fruits of social labour be grown.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:06 PM
1

Dude what the hell, I mean it's a personal reference your seeking but it comes down to taste so if your exclusive she got what you want but if non exclusive WHY not a another to rotation.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 09:58 PM
2

Basically she's shit testing you and you're awareness of the situation is putting you off but why is more important thing to consider?. You should be focusing on passing them not wondering if she's doing it to get rise out of you,read the sidebar if you haven't or if you have pass the test and move on.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 07:58 PM
7

What's your question?
/r/askTRP31/12/19 03:24 PM
81

I don't disagree with this post so fair enough.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 12:34 AM
2

You are going to need to be the example for everyone else to follow,it's harder to lead than follow but would you rather be in line with the others or set the standards. Be as consistency as possible that the people depending on you keep feel nothing but respect due to your way of dealing with matters however the form.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 07:16 PM
2

This is basically the tit for tat if life in many circumstances to be honest as it's not only common but assured,your view should be full aware of the dynamics depending on the relationship at hand weather it's personal or not as it applies to all matters of life. I'd put the basics of give and take ratio should be in your favor if you yourself have the capability to be aware of your value and deem those necessary the resources required but the level of indifference needed is also based on how y…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:26 PM
1

It's is,it's also the fastest way to polarize her at this point on weather she willing to give him another shot or play with his head leaving him hopeless.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 01:02 AM
1

If he's savage he can say whatever but he's not so pleasant seemed the way to go. He's already lost her to me so ah hail Mary is his best bet but I'd move on.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 01:00 AM
1

Either he does this or nothing
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:35 AM
0

"Hey morning,had a great time I'll hit you up for a next meet up"
/r/askTRP28/12/19 10:24 PM
3

Show us where you see that,what your doing now is not trp so you better try again.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:34 PM
3

"Your charming personality and your butt" that should do the trick.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:32 PM
1

Not
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:09 PM
2

I agree his style is an acquired taste but it's not for you to like only understand and comprehend send your friend to the site.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 04:28 PM
54

Agreed,speech is silver and silence is golden.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:54 PM
1

It's a book.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:35 PM
1

It's good practice for engaging with ppl but the idea of a scenarios becoming more is an rather small string to pull on.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 04:50 PM
0

You dont,WHAT PART OF DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT isn't understood.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 04:13 PM
2

I'm saying this ONCE,go read the sidebar and don't post anything within the next few weeks to a month.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 10:50 AM
1

Fucking it up is good,he should learn a lot about himself if he's paying attention as they say"thier us no lose only win or learn". He should focus on how he interacts and nothing else,have fun pick up some cues while staying aware.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:31 AM
4

Well sir for one not telling creates dread ,two it benefits you both as if inexperienced you can get away with poor results while she stays curious due to the fact that she might be the only one who you fucked badly in rotation if you created a plausible image of being a player or high smv male weather your n count is high or not you retain the allure of curiosity. You have nothing to gain from telling her and lose the power play immensely by giving her info she never truly cared about,her anxie…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:25 AM
2

“i want to fuck your brains out.” Get in line and take a number like everyone else then don't respond till you've got time.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 01:52 AM
3

What you say is accurate,I was referring more to the timeline they assume they have due to decisions or lack thereof in retrospect of their supposed smv without knowledge that no matter your prescribed lifestyle the chickens always come home to roost.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 01:48 AM
2

Should've left her on read,nothing more no less.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 09:51 PM
1

Popular is an understatement,your comprehension will be tested and your focus should be at the ready for pure literature in my humble opinion.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 09:46 PM
36

Basically,they underestimated the wall and side effects.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 09:20 PM
2

She gave you drinks,ok so are interested in her or just observing?. If want something out of this make a move or just let it go,don't over think it or better yet appreciate the beers and enjoy the learning experience of women.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 05:58 PM
1

Meditations,rationale male,book of pook,48 laws of power,way of the superior man and tools of titans to name a few.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 05:47 PM
98

"Is sex all you have to offer?",then see her hamster run like crazy.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 05:33 PM
8

What's your question?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 04:25 AM
6

Correct,he's giving himself a recipe for oneitis and sacrity,she wants space give it to her.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:47 AM
2

I understand where your coming from sir as I myself have been and still feel like on that path the thing is though as you make progress you forget the road your on while focusing more on the car your driving which is you. The only metric you need is the past you because future is an image created by the actions of now and yes some may or may not be in your control,such is life you wake up wanting to know the next move but can't it BEEN THERE. it is difficult to make moves knowing and comparing y…
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:45 AM
1

Find oriented hobbies that fit your niche and connect on similarities in a social manner(repair shops,hiking,swimming,mma,cooking,ETC) and while females will be in these activities as well your overall focus should be your interaction with people from the get go eliminating those who you aren't casual with.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 12:17 AM
1

TRP wants men to be men coincidentally men being men go after women thus both sides benefit from the pill should it be applied the way most DO.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 10:11 PM
2

Check you're diet before the program as the food you intake is more responsible for results than how much you lift,be consistent in your diet then ask for program advice as activity levels are your measure for how much food you need to achieve the results you seek.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 10:05 PM
1

Generally speaking your aim should be to come across as an attractive male irrespective of the type of women you meet,now should you attract a certain demographic of females I'd interpret that as the image YOU are putting out more so than than the concept of "how come I only get sluts or church girls or even goth chicks" Time to reassess your projected image if you know what I mean.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:59 PM
2

Women Ofcourse,they've been handed a lottery TICKET to security(resources) and the need to replace their partner goes down as divorce changes nothing. The man on the other hand gets to taste his investment as long as he's a good little plaything. Playing devils advocate,what if your scenario takes place but are allowed based on the leverage that more sex equates to resources. NOW THIS WOULD BE INTERESTING
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:16 PM
3

Bruh,she has plans if she wants to come last min then your move to let her but go to the event anyway might meet someone else. Go socialize and have fun and don't worry about a reply,she got an invite don't push it just move see if she'll come yo another meet up to see if bite until then stop hamstering.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 08:37 PM
2

That's a great book and an excellent start,you should try tools of titans as well irregardless the day you become aware is the day it begins start implementing what you learn an be better than you were yesterday.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:52 PM
1

You do nothing and stop acting like she flaked on you,she's still coming over right your in a better place than most men who don't even get a notice just keep an eye on how often she does it that's all
/r/askTRP08/12/19 11:18 PM
1

She's testing you out ask for a meet up and see what she's about,pulling her hair memory was her hamster seeing if you got the nuts to say what's on your mind just go with the flow agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 11:08 PM
8

Book of pook and way of superior man are great reads for internal outlook.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 03:26 PM
7

You should be seeking to increase your strength not the finish line of growth,remember the comfort zone is ah man greatest weakness as his guard is lowered to a point of unknown consequences for actions unbeknownst to him.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 08:54 PM
1

Everything in moderation,have control over the things you do or the things you do have control over you.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 06:45 PM
2

Year one on the rationale male covers this well,men are overt while women are covert.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 09:14 PM
3

Say what you want,being alpha isn't a script so do what feels right learn what's wrong and recalibrate.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 07:37 PM
2

He can go monk mode and still bang chicks,it's his mindset of desire that going to hinder him if he wants more during self improvement.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 06:50 PM
16

How many times must we repeat this DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT Lift,eat right,build yourself and stay away from drama
/r/askTRP16/11/19 10:45 PM
1

"If your asking if I'm good with my hands the answer is yes" simple
/r/askTRP16/11/19 09:46 PM
1

"Wanna be my sugar mama" "The Babysitters position been filled,you try elsewhere miss" "Looking to have your way with me I see" The list goes on but have fun with it
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:55 PM
1

Non issue,MOVE ON
/r/askTRP14/11/19 10:23 PM
2

Don't stalk her online find things to do like go after other girls,hobbies,reading ETC
/r/askTRP09/11/19 09:02 PM
1

I find it liberating to be self sufficient and mostly responsible for many of my outcomes.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 05:27 PM
1

Agreed,while trp is amoral why be married if you want this lifestyle.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 01:13 PM
3

Texting for logistics is good but don't be autistic aboutit ,open up the convo with light banter then switch to a meet up if she tries to make a penpal out of you let go and move on.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 12:36 PM
1

Let me get this straight,your trying to understand why women behave like women for general purpose of this convo this is a non issue cause they aren't even consciously aware of half the things they do so their hamster takes the wheel. To answer your question it can be any number of things from smv to boredom to self esteem you know the on and on so try not to focus on what your not in control of cause you can do everything right and still be wrong.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 12:31 PM
2

First rule be attractive don't be unattractive,you'll get there but you need to slow down the experience of dealing with ppl
/r/askTRP08/11/19 11:04 PM
1

1 you don't go out with ppl (this goes for both genders) they go out with you,the plan is to have fun with others as a benefit. 2 act like nothing happened she didn't show ok,you either don't see her again which is a plus but a non issue or see her and be indifferent to her regardless.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 11:01 PM
1

Your into this girl and haven't realized it yet and on the topic at hand,she's just being salty for you not accepting the branch she asked to swing on so rejection time it's course to let the hamster run wild.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 10:56 PM
6

I read this and saw monk mode in it's purest form difference is some confuse monk mode with isolation
/r/askTRP08/11/19 10:37 PM
1

Post Is too long,every woman had the potential to be slutty in the moment of her choosing or whoever possesses the attributes to make her show it. Your mindset of bitterness and anger is understandable for the world you knew no longer exist in the way you say it to be. You need to collect yourself from where you are to where you want to be and set realistic goals for progress. I'd start with basics (sidebar),top post in main sub,experience exposure (testing theory) and DGAF attitude until your p…
/r/askTRP07/11/19 01:36 AM
1

Dude,find something to do please for the love of all things necessary. Lift,read,find a hobby and don't watch her stories. SEE THEM their is a difference one you have your own thing going on and notice hers without reacting ofcouse and the other is you've got nothing to do for toooo loooong.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 10:04 PM
3

If you wake up and meet an asshole their an asshole but if you wake up and everyone's an asshole then your the asshole,lesson learned is that everyone you meet can't be an asshole no matter the situation meaning your the dick. Heard this on a tv show once seemed legit,anyway it's not about you per day but about your reaction to the level of tolerance ppl are used to. Your best bet is to tone it down a bit and recalibrate your emotions to reflect the circumstances in you presence.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 09:54 PM
1

Of the many levels that come with diet management,to each their own when dealing with food so clean for you be construed in many forms for others such as adding a salad for some is eating clean while eating lean is another topic entirely.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 09:47 PM
1

Good carbs(oats,sweet potatoes etc),high protein (salmon,chicken breasts etc)and healthy fats(peanut butter,olive oil)
/r/askTRP03/11/19 09:39 PM
1

A bit touch and go with this one,if he's a good roommate leave her be it better than making an enemy you literally sleep next to. Sidenote if he's no good to you,smash the shit out of her he'll know what's up.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:11 PM
2

First off why are you angry at all second it's not easier per say but the dynamics are a reference to what the world represents before you step in it considering most don't have an idea what their smv is or will be down the road. Use the toolbox for it is don't complain about the GAME just play to your strengths and keep the weaknesses in check.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:02 PM
1

To answer your question basically it's all relative considering an ltr depends entirely on weather both parties are getting what they want in a healthy context but you do as you like based on your requirements. If an ltr has been vetted,stayed consistent and has manageable flags take the chance know you can walk when your ready or uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 04:13 PM
1

Interesting post,I get where your coming from but do you have a question? And if you don't this should have gone in the main sub.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 10:14 AM
2

Improving oneself doesn't necessarily mean excluding oneself either,your monk mode was fine the problem was implementing social dynamics into your journey e.g. going balls to walls monday to Friday then socializing Saturday and Sunday to compensate your skills or lack of when dealing with ppl.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 08:53 AM
5

Ok,sidebar experiment analyze repeat
/r/askTRP31/10/19 01:03 AM
2

For every action theirs a reaction but that's cause you want to react,leave her alone she'll get the msg weather she want to or not just pull away man.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 12:59 AM
4

Download headspace for a quick start or read mindfulness by henapola to get an understanding at least.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 12:51 AM
3

Stop assuming things thats what got you in this situation in the first place,she not broken till she doesn't what you anymore besides that treat it like nothing happened and if she brings it up say ok,np to avoid saltiness.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 12:46 AM
1

Ask her out,kino and make your move.keep it simple like a place to socialize if in s place your known extra points for you but focus on the interaction.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 12:41 AM
2

Most unfortunate,what's wrong with taking accountability for not wearing a condom and doing your very best to look after YOUR child. Anyway I'd look into the agency's available that can offer support,get a job if you don't have one and focus on maintaining an understanding with the mother before she gets crazy ASAP
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:57 PM
2

Read essentialism,good book to help set your mind on the track to basic organising and limit declutter for the future.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:49 PM
5

Why even care,you fell into a trap discussing this. Don't do this again you'll get nothing from it and your friend is now in your limelight for it.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 08:16 PM
1

I don't hear a problem sound like your his role model
/r/askTRP28/10/19 05:45 PM
5

Her hamsters shifting gears son,these aren't preemptive strikes she easing her conscious.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 05:43 PM
6

Wonderful points with a hint of sidebar material,I like it.The only easy day was yesterday because it's already done,forward ever backward never.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 09:07 PM
7

Not a bad idea isn't that what the tribes are for in the new forums?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 12:17 AM
5

Agreed,move on
/r/askTRP10/10/19 10:27 PM
6

Think the rule your speaking of relates to not taking an ex back and the one you mean is "it is always better to seek new prospects over past one due to familiarity"along those lines.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 10:26 PM
1

THIS☝️,move on just another girl on the hit list.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:52 AM
2

Plate first,girlfriend later
/r/askTRP30/09/19 10:57 PM
14

Alpha male strategies.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:55 PM
1

Read essentialism to help filter ppl and things alike.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:22 PM
4

Agreed anyone can put up a post but it should at least have your perspective on the matter.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 09:22 PM
2

Mma,kick boxing,rock climbing,dancing,etc just do some hobbies you like you'll met ppl.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 08:52 PM
1

Exactly,he should of just said ok and move on.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 07:14 PM
1

Seconded
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:32 PM
1

Damn right,what your in control of master that and for everything else be better than you were yesterday.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:27 AM
-2

I don't suspect a change in mindset,the same applies (seek better,smarter,sexier,emotionally stable and financially well off partners)
/r/askTRP18/08/19 07:56 PM
1

Some men just want to watch the world burn - Alfred (The dark knight)
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:26 PM
3

Do you have plans to meet her irl,otherwise move on from this pointless action of talking and not meeting.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:22 PM
1

She's being what she is,a girl and to what extent does behavior affect you from doing your daily activities anyway.Ignore and move on!!!
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:19 PM
7

Nice approach or perspective in this sense of mattter.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 03:24 PM
1

That's his problem,he's a gardener in a war not a warrior in a garden
/r/askTRP04/08/19 03:42 PM
2

Ok you read the sidebar but I'd recommend going through some of the top post first,the answer your looking for is more likely their due to your goals.Game on the other hand is part of the red pill toolkit but does not encompass what being redpilled is about.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 12:00 PM
14

Everything seems on point,the 35+ category statement made me laugh.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 06:21 PM
2

There's a reason ppl say the truth hurts,breaking the image of someone reality or unplugging them so to speak is a double edged sword. You've taken their world and showed them how things really work and everything they've been told is a lie or at the very least fabricated to a system.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 08:20 PM
13

Agreed,sometimes the battle won is the battle not fought.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:34 PM
4

Your process seems flawed,what are going for ltr or casual hookups?there are women everywhere it's your job to screen for high interest girls not where they hang out.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 02:04 AM
12

They are not getting gf's,they are creating plates that want to commit from ons > plate >fwb>gf
/r/askTRP30/06/19 01:58 AM
9

💯THIS,don't mateguard just analyze.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 10:10 AM
6

Blue mindset red lifestyle,live and learn he'll figure it out soon enough.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 10:08 AM
13

The rationale male(opened my eyes),meditations(created my resolve),the obstacle is the way(altered my perspective) and book of pook(how to hunt females).
/r/askTRP19/06/19 11:18 PM
2

You control your life not others so stop the "my friend won't listen bullshit",let him make his choices,have some mistakes and learn the hard way then should he reach out slowly integrate him into a new mindset.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 08:56 PM
1

It is a nesesscity,the fact that you can tell the difference when your emotions or perspective has been altered proves your growth.one step backward two steps forward rule.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 03:46 PM
1

Agreed,everything in moderation though. Monk mode is dangerous depending on the individual the might stay in this state if progress is effective.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 11:33 PM
1

Walk away tell her"We should end the ltr" don't deer just keep it simple and short.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 11:28 PM
1

Your entering her orbit bro,eject now.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 11:17 PM
1

Read this should help you out alot. https://www.woujo.com/blog/2018/4/26/how-to-hold-frame
/r/askTRP09/06/19 08:09 PM
1

He means text location and place for a meet up then radio silence till the next time
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:55 PM
2

Keep this in mind the next time you read another post,sexual strategy is amoral.Vice versa you're going to lose.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 11:15 AM
9

Response like these are one the reasons I come here.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 03:24 PM
1

Doesn't matter if your with parents or living by yourself,it's about mindset.learn to drive you'll get a car in time keep the focus on thing you control.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 09:09 PM
6

Sidebar,rational male and book of pook.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 08:40 PM
1

It's the opposite,the more you do any task you'll either master it or at the very least understand it value in you life yo determine it rank of purpose.eg more sex doesn't mean better sex just more of it,so you create new ways to stay interested in it besides changing women
/r/askTRP08/03/19 12:26 AM
3

She reaches out again arrange a meet,escalate know what's up and move accordingly.your in her frame right now move on to other options.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:00 PM
1

Nice post,wrong sub.place this in the main forum
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:52 PM
0

Oneitis,sidebar first ask next.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:38 PM
1

WHAT???
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:15 AM
1

I wouldn't mind reading it.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:12 PM
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