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bigfishh/r/seduction21/12/12 10:30 PM
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Maybe it's because I have a life and am not permanently on Reddit, to respond to some crying Redditor. I don't know. Your face is somewhat off. You clearly don't work out, slightly overweight I guess. What garbage you eat mate? Try good stuff. Waiter? Are you serious? How do you even plan to do anything with a girl? Intend to let her do all the paying for stuff, I guess? Good lucks.
/r/seduction15/05/18 04:16 PM
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yea, seems like they were making fun of you, but how can you blame them? look at you. look like some pathetic little weasel.
/r/seduction15/05/18 12:12 PM
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I think you could make a strong case, where I'd probably try harder to like the girl back. I'd look for things I like about her too. Obviously if I find nothing, then nothing happens. Welcome to game, there's always risk involved. Either way, it's never off putting. I'd just really like it and give you more chance than you would have otherwise, for sure. Assuming you're not a model and I can somewhat remain my senses, I will look for things I like about you, if you approach me, whereas if you're…
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:10 PM
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In fact, I'd rather kill myself. It's simply not fair to anyone. The gained companionship may be a great experience, if you lack that, but that's about it. Better to just become friends, if you otherwise like the person.
/r/seduction02/01/17 12:19 PM
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Guess who's at the bar? Legs. I cracked. Good read! :)
/r/seduction27/08/16 04:25 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5OVZ9xk1B-o Essentially he's telling you to work harder, and be willing to work harder than others. Also is it possible I have social anxiety? You should stop looking for reasons why all of this won't work for you, instead look for ways to try harder. It comes down to it simply being a numbers game. The more numbers you do, the more comfortable you will be. Also, most people on this sub started just like you. Why else would they be here? Any natural talent, any ex…
/r/seduction27/08/16 03:23 PM
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Edit: I sound like a psychopath... No, you just sound super bitter and also a bit like Taylor Swift.
/r/seduction25/06/16 12:12 AM
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Lonely and depression are not the same thing.
/r/seduction05/06/16 07:29 PM
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Yea, it's quite fascinating how dumb some people can be. They don't understand that popularity is what pays them, the more popular, the higher the pay. That's also why the current debates, as to whether video games are "real sports", are entirely irrelevant. It's popular and nobody gives a shit about the opinion of old people about it. ( seeing prize pools of dota2 for example ).
/r/PussyPassDenied29/05/16 04:29 PM
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Move out of that shithole. There is no other way. There's this saying "plently of fish in the pool", the problem in your case, it's an empty lake and simply not true :D
/r/seduction12/05/16 08:15 PM
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I don't know ugh, maybe the idea that you would need a deck of cards to be interesting?
/r/seduction12/04/16 04:40 PM
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No actually it's more like do it That goes for everything you want to do, but you feel like you can't, or fear stops you from doing so. Life is more fun, if you learn to just do whatever the fuck you want. Not just woman, the way you talk, what you do around people. Yolo more.
/r/seduction17/10/14 03:05 PM
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Seduction really isn't about much more than being a positive loving kind of person that likes to share his honest opinion all the time, and by of course taking action. Anything beyond is ... well for people that really lack all of it, the entire package. All I took out of seduction is basically, talking to women in a different manner, expressing myself more often, and constantly reminding myself that I want to cherish people and myself constantly, I always try to have a positive attitude towards…
/r/seduction12/10/13 09:49 PM
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Have a chill in the eye ... smile softly and don't stare. When thinking about this stuff, usually you simply avoid looking like a creep.
/r/seduction08/09/13 07:53 PM
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Yup, and that goes and works for everything too! Can't wake up ... dude you a fucking pussy slap self? Can't run anymore, feel down ... should I go ba... fuck dude you a pussy? :D It's great, it pushes you no matter what.
/r/seduction19/08/13 12:21 AM
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Mostly seduction is about improving yourself anyway, so yes that's definitely the route to take. Stop making it sound so weird ( not you in particular ), like ... as if we're learning how to hypnotize women, when all do is doing stuff for ourselves.
/r/seduction18/08/13 11:29 AM
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Talk and feel the vibe coming from her. What kind of answer do you expect anyway? Some weird ass formula that explains when her eye contact will be something that will guide you? Who gives a fuck, if you like her style then tell her and see how she feels.
/r/seduction18/08/13 11:27 AM
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Got a friend like that too, did not tell him but you can absolutely tell he never did it, but brags like big dude would ... hard to explain. Whenever he ... or even them see me talking to group of girls, because I see no point in our all male groups discussions anymore, I leave and sit to others. What do they continue to talk about? Me and the results I get. They will laugh when I fail, they will doubt when I say I didn't, it's really strange and sad.
/r/seduction15/08/13 06:34 PM
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Easy, just show him how it's done. If he is in fact curious as to how it's done show him. Tell him that he basically needs the balls to talk to a girl, cold approach like, and be fun at the same time and still escalate. Tell him that rejections are no big deal, tell him that he should approach anything he would in theory fuck, without being picky, approach anything, get over the starting problems people deal with e.g. what do I talk about, how to avoid the interview, go for crazy shit with him, …
/r/seduction15/08/13 06:32 PM
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Self respecting? What's that got to do with anything? I really fail to see the point, maybe it's just me being completely different, maybe in your kind of high class area this is actually the truth, I don't know, but don't you think you take this whole example a little too serious? It's not meant to be a serious thing, you say this with a warm, positive but funny attitude. Maybe not " give me strong babies ", that's a indeed maybe a little creepy no matter what, but it's still going to provide l…
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:50 AM
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Eventually a girl is going to ask you whether or not you're able to draw her like one of your french girls. Trust me, it's going to happen.
/r/seduction12/08/13 08:38 PM
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You people sound like fun.
/r/seduction12/08/13 08:35 PM
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Dat feel when you read the article and see things you've already done. Had no particular success with it ... wasn't actually meant to anyways, was more of a joke to have some laughs going, which to be fair, I got plenty. It was really fun the first time and I've been doing it ever since sometimes when I feel like it's a little too silent. I didn't know it even works for real :D, might change my attitude and tonation with it, even if it doesn't work it sure as hell is fun as shit. Instantly casts…
/r/seduction12/08/13 08:29 PM
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Putting her in it might even result in something different. Just like guys try to get out when put in, women should react similar. Let them feel the good vibes, the good energy, tease a little ( if you intend to ), but nothing else. Keep her as friend, see what happens why not? This isn't r/redpill, women at the end of the day are people too.
/r/seduction12/08/13 04:04 PM
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mangina eater... isn't that a good thing?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 11:09 PM
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" What were you even thinking? "
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 07:47 PM
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Just because someone misses a serious punch on me, doesn't mean I have to wait for him to hit, or to equally strike back. If he wants, he will get it serious, any means I want or can get count. Complete loser look for "fair fights" in bars or whatever. I don't want to fight, I've got better stuff to do, I will evade, but when I see myself unable to neutralize the sitation, to calm balls down, then you ( or me ) will be fucked without any thought put into it. Fair fight ... go join a box club or …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 10:28 PM
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Ask yourself why you're completely friendless, without being bitter to the others. Try to understand the people around you, then see how you can change. Recommend reading How to influence people and gain friends, fairly popular book. Do you look like a nerd? Change that, or build up on that... though I guess that's way harder than going the easy route, which is adapting to what is acceptable. See fitness, lift and build decent body, no immense shit, just casually working out. Buy a fucking white…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 12:43 PM
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He's an idiot, but he's still a bro. I'd still talk to him, see what he says, he might even tell you he's already done with her, but stealing her is weird as fuck, no matter how bad the bro did, there's plenty more fish in the sea, you shouldn't risk friendship because of your oneits.
/r/seduction29/07/13 12:59 AM
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I could, that's what we call peacocking. EDIT: done looks great.
/r/seduction23/07/13 09:55 PM
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No tattoos, though always shaved when going out or dating. Want a pic of my dick too, want to know that I'm a gifted HG10 that just has it? You're pretty smart I can tell... r/Seduction is fake, you lost. World's most perfect guy just won't get it done.
/r/seduction23/07/13 09:48 PM
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Yo, at least you won't have to look into entitlement issues, in case you consider learning the game. Fairly sure you mistake confidence for arrogance. Who but you says you're perfect anyway? Girls obviously don't, and you know ... girls are people too... I sadly don't know how to help or what to say, I'm really sorry. http://0.media.collegehumor.cvcdn.com/75/14/5f8ec9ac2fc3ab0616d508270a0872c0-meg-griffin-is-real.jpg Apparently you think this women is hot, which basically translates to you being…
/r/seduction23/07/13 08:56 PM
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Why do you care then, if you're happy, successful, confident, secure and so on? How many do you approach a night? Because there's this thing called chemistry too, some people just won't like you, so approach as often as you can, eventually you will find someone, if what you say is in fact true. Saying you're confident and happy and fun is usually all it takes, because it enables you to approach easily, without fear and open mind, and you can take the rejections because you're above them so... ma…
/r/seduction23/07/13 08:39 PM
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I don't think a guy that is actually happy, fun, secure, confident, successful is needing game, I would agree with that. Don't see seduction as hidden secret methods to hypnotize women, but think of like ... well some men need the bigger balls. If you're confident and see a woman you like, usually you approach, no magic involved, so that guy doesn't need game. But most here are not like that ( or weren't ).
/r/seduction23/07/13 08:17 PM
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I don't quite understand, my guts tell me that you are looking for a needless discussion, because to be fair I think what I tried to say was fairly obvious. Girls are not "training" guys to be a certain way, you can always choose to stay the passive introvert, without muscle, without caring for yourself, without speaking your mind, without approaching at all, being a HG5, and pray to fucking god that eventually a women will approach YOU in this state and just ... game you, I don't know. Maybe it…
/r/seduction23/07/13 08:02 PM
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People that are no naturals, people that are unable to do shit with women, learn game so they can actually compete. For years of my life I'd waste time and drink myself to death with friends... I thought eventually it would happen that a cool girl would just "get me". Well... I had several GF's, not for long though, and in a rather big time distance, and it sucked really. Then I found game and it already changed me and my life drastically. I'm no asshole, just way more confident than before, spe…
/r/seduction23/07/13 09:49 AM
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Did uncovering these hidden secrets and techniques Yea... are they really hidden techniques and fucking hypnosis? I really don't think so, it's more like a represent of what mental state you're in and how you can handle certain situations. I'm not trying to fool women, but just try to have fun, that's what it is. You make it sound so weird.
/r/seduction23/07/13 09:36 AM
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Enjoyed reading, though ... kind of confused :D. Probably think I'd react similar, depending how our time was prior to your decline, was it actually fun and tensing or just ... meh at the end of the day clubs are full of HB ( and HG ofc ) so ... devoting so much time into a set is a price to pay. Really wasn't there, no idea how you guys felt each other, obviously he didn't take your signals correctly, if you send him any at all. Fun to read, hope you continue!
/r/seduction22/07/13 10:31 AM
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Brilliant.
/r/seduction21/07/13 06:19 PM
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Mates of mine are no naturals, they see me doing shit with ladies and like it, hang on to me thinking they could catch the left overs or some shit, it's really weird. Totally okey to me, I tell them to just open shit themselves, but they just can't seem to make it. Gamed girl"friend" of their group a little, people seemed a little pissed off, she felt ... kind of interested. No idea, though I figured that it really doesn't matter what they think. Ultimately sort of left this particular group, fo…
/r/seduction20/07/13 10:48 AM
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See at this point, where you read so much, maybe it is in fact pointless. There really isn't anything else to say then " get more girls bitch ". Seriously, just do it. There's no analysis or white words that can help you now, it's just you taking action or not so go out and stop being a faggot. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/07/13 10:42 AM
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Be a little more foward, be a little less nice guy that wants to listen to this favorite bar crap for 15 mins. Thought this was a really cool story, specially the shit where you'd forget their names everytime again, I too have massive problems with names :D. A couple of times she says something and I just say "Cool." and there's a moment of silence. FAIL. But she always picks it up and keeps talking. Was that really a fail? Because ultimately, you don't want to listen to her shit, it was just a …
/r/seduction20/07/13 10:35 AM
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Don't tell her she has bad breath... unless you can't ignore it of course. I don't even know why I'm doing this, I just sit there notice her shit smell out of her mouth and tell her. So pathetic, happened 2 times already, 2 times the girl instantly fucked off.
/r/seduction20/07/13 10:21 AM
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Consider that it's not the text message that counts, but how she thinks about you and whether or not she wants to spend more time. You can literally text anything if she wants to hang.
/r/seduction19/07/13 03:00 PM
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Nobody is this busy, free time with people you want to spend time with is always found. Like you are maybe busy? You will though find time for this girl, same for her. If she is interested she will text back or give you details, if not then you're wasting time.
/r/seduction19/07/13 02:58 PM
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Definitely need to treat them more like people, yes. :D
/r/seduction18/07/13 11:22 PM
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Go there, say something, done.
/r/seduction11/07/13 02:02 PM
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I've known this girl for about ... 3 years ... I wasn't actually interested in her all the time, but it started around a year ago, I got her too for one night and then she flew off to Ireland for a year. She's now back in town, seen her recently and I really kinda love her. Meh, seen her at a party, was a little too drunk to try out anything. Asked her next day whether or not she wants to hang this weekend and she said she already has a boyfriend, asked whether or not he would care ( was still k…
/r/seduction31/05/13 04:53 PM
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Be you I'd say. All advice you really need is being able to actually do shit. Do talk to them, do escalate, just do the shit you want to do but in the past you did not. That's the advice. The second advice is, trying to learn from what you maybe did wrong. Be you for me means talking whatever comes to mind, bum in the past I learned that's not always the case, several times I'd tell a girl she's having bad breath. Boom and gone, and never did it again: D
/r/seduction17/03/13 11:02 PM
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Then do what you feel is right.
/r/seduction17/03/13 10:55 PM
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I seriously think all you need is one or two friends that are more than what you just described. Check out the people you get along with more and see whether or not you can imagine doing more with them. Life without actual true friends is boring and hard, and as much as people here tell you that the only person you need to make you happy is you, that's wrong to my understanding. You are somewhat dependent to people that are on your wave, that you really get along well with. People around you oft…
/r/seduction17/03/13 10:49 PM
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WHATS
/r/seduction04/03/13 10:10 AM
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Yea I guess I misunderstood then. Came off to me like you were chasing this 10 for 5 months, not gaming other girls, while not actually moving on with this one. But let me ask ... if 4-5 months was the last time you've seen her, what makes you think she's interested? Why not get a different 10 instead ( this is probably just very hard to accept, I'm still learning myself, but that's what the big PUAs probably would say right? ) Whatever you decide to do best of luck to you! Make that 10 yours :D
/r/seduction13/02/13 12:43 AM
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I have many friends, I know like ... 2 of them that are approaching girls. One needs a bottle of wodka to approach, I don't have to mention that's he's not good at game. It does however make him speak better since he kind of has problem with it ( illness not native sorry, cba to google right now ), the other is like really successful with women as it appears to be. Sometimes I like him, sometimes I don't, it's kind of weird. The rest of my friends literally never approach. Either they have a gir…
/r/seduction13/02/13 12:16 AM
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Keep trying to get better. Is your life interesting right now? Are you fit? Do you smoke? Whatever it is you know there's things you would like to change but didn't in the past. Try doing it.
/r/seduction12/02/13 11:31 PM
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You're very desperate, forget her. You're not going to get more. Instead, get more girls. What have you been doing all this 4-5 months, waited for her to happen to you? That sounded like 1 night if anything more ... but fuck that half a year you have in your head over one single girl. You probably had her this very night too but you were too shy to seal the deal. "Kissing back cheek after she kissed mine". How long have you been lurking here? What I'd do if I was you, ask her out and see how she…
/r/seduction12/02/13 11:26 PM
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You're essentially asking, is it worth it? Is my effort gonna pay me back? Who knows :D, I googeld this about a month ago too, trying to see what benefits I may have when I stop doing it. I didn't find anything, so ... I didn't take it as serious. I also didn't notice anything but it does kind of make sense. Your inner desire to reproduce or some shit, maybe you do get more active when you stop for a longer time? Who knows, no one can tell you it's scientifically proven, but maybe ...? Also it s…
/r/seduction12/02/13 09:13 PM
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I guess that's a better way to look at it. I think you're correct, you have to assume that everyone chose to be the way he is, so that a life can be lead alone if one chose to lead a life like that. I really wouldn't call it a character trait though ... like don't you think that character trait kind of implies that it can not be changed?
/r/seduction12/02/13 03:55 PM
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Basically what I thought of recently is that ... is being an introvert a kind of sickness? I talked about this with my mother, she thinks I am the sick one, because some are just like that she said. But I can't help but think that it is, just because the change I currently see in me, why would anyone not try to change and be more open to others? A life alone is meanigless and boring for everyone right? Maybe introvert is the wrong word ... shy maybe? A trick I just thought of was chatting with F…
/r/seduction12/02/13 03:15 PM
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I got kicked out of a bar for kissing too many girls there, that has never happened to me before. It was kind of ... weird because I was still in the act of doing so ... but well it does sound kind of cool does it? I was shameless too, kinda lost count with how many girls I made out. I have no idea how no one punched me in the face.
/r/seduction12/02/13 02:04 PM
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You already won, if you want to why hold it back?
/r/seduction20/01/13 08:41 PM
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Maybe you're the problem, because you're being a creepy awkward fuck? Sometimes women can feel chemistry, some women actually go by looks and if that's the case fucking move on and don't be butthurt, christ.
/r/seduction03/01/13 04:54 PM
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To it seems like you were actually afraid of possible rejection, so to compensate you rejected her, without realizing that you already had her. Negging is good, but she's your girl and you give her attraction too, you shouldn't diss her out like that, that wasn't even Alpha but simply very fucking stupid. It's just a day though I guess, get it on next time and don't fuck up the save shit. I had this too last weekend, I'd just act arrogant as fuck to every chick I'd meet. Some felt immensely attr…
/r/seduction27/12/12 04:54 PM
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You say you're confident right? You say you realize when you get hit on, now take this somebody, have a good time with her and eventually make the move. I really fail to see the issue ... I really hope I do not sound rude here man.
/r/seduction24/12/12 10:03 PM
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I felt like he was being extremely pushy, appeared to be a little needy although I don't know whether I know the difference in being needy and taking what one wants to have yet. Did he get the actual number? Didn't she seem like she was rushing away? I wish I was at his stage though ... but I felt like he was a little creepy, not handling the situation too well ... but I don't know, maybe that's because he realized he's on a short time scale. That one moment though she did act a long, I wonder i…
/r/seduction23/12/12 11:50 PM
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I'm considering to do this too. I really want to quit being a passive fucker, just get it on and do stuff. Already started to just keep staring in womens eyes when I walk, not for actually trying but to maybe get used to it and experience in a way. Got to add that I should do what you're doing, just talk to random people I see, just chat with them, feel it and see how it goes, without intending to lay her down, but simply for the interaction alone. Exchange names, feel each other for a min. Also…
/r/seduction23/12/12 10:52 PM
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I shake whenever I do 1n1 in a game called dota2 very often. Get very nervous, I do keep telling myself I am the best, I avoid such 1n1 though ... maybe that's the reason? Same goes for IRL I guess ... I see all those trashes getting girlfriends that are insanely hot and I'm the 21yo virgin that seems to get nothing done.... I feel like I live in a small town, people might notice quickly I am desperate, which sort of keeps me away from trying...
/r/seduction21/12/12 10:03 PM
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