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| 148 | How pickup is like improv: An improvisers perspective on seduction. | biggyb92 | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 12:25 PM |
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| 2 | How pickup is like improv: An improvisers perspective on seduction.I'm learning how to be a positive high status individual both on sand off the stage. That's why when I have the status game I hold a specific body language of that character for 3 minutes then go. It helps getting me into the mindset. I agree that high status people can flex between high and low status leading and owning their decisions. But like picking a number I believe anyone can become a high status it just takes practice, and having a bit of fun taking risks. | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 03:49 PM |
| 1 | How pickup is like improv: An improvisers perspective on seduction.Yea definitely! The status games I've played revolved around either endowing others with a specific trait or having hidden statuses such as pecking orders. Where players endow themselves with a number of 1 to 3. 1 being high status and 3 being low status. But I don't think I've played a game specifically called the status game. | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 03:03 PM |
| 1 | How pickup is like improv: An improvisers perspective on seduction.I believe it can be for either | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 02:51 PM |
| 2 | How pickup is like improv: An improvisers perspective on seduction.Thank you for posting bridging the gap between the two fields. I couldn't have said it better | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 02:50 PM |
| 3 | How pickup is like improv: An improvisers perspective on seduction.I can definitely relate to this. My initial reason for joining improv was that I wanted to be able to talk to people. I was a major introvert in high school with major anxiety issues and I didn't start doing improv till my first year in university. Before improv I had a massive fear speaking in public, to people and even making decisions. Improv pretty much became immersive therapy to me. Forcing me in situations where I had to be in the moment, taking risks and making decisions. Improving both … | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 07:46 AM |
| 1 | How pickup is like improv: An improvisers perspective on seduction.She was first surprised and a tad hesitant. So I knew I had to lead it. I grabbed her by the hand and waist. Gently swaying side to side till she rested her head against my shoulder. Then I whispered that I made a promise to her that I would take her dancing and how I intend to keep it. It was a beautiful moment. I really cherish it and will never forget it because it will always be a reminder that life can be exciting as well that when things go wrong accept it and work with what ya got. a few … | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 07:30 AM |
| 1 | How pickup is like improv: An improvisers perspective on seduction.As well learning how to fail gracefully is charming. The more you learn how to accept your rejection or failure. Shows little to no outcome dependence, and that goes a long way. Plus it also gains then on your side. | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 05:03 PM |
| 3 | How pickup is like improv: An improvisers perspective on seduction.Yeah man anxiety does play a key role when you put yourself in a vulnerable position whether your on stage or approaching a girl your putting a decision/intention out there that makes you vulnerable. The one thing that helps a lot is making a set of personal,business, and relationship values. Which help guide in my decisions, intentions and actions. And they have reduced my anxiety when I approach as well has reduced my neediness when I get rejected. I'll share one of mine to help shed some ligh… | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 05:00 PM |
| 2 | How pickup is like improv: An improvisers perspective on seduction.That is so true! Thanks for putting that up I forgot to add the motto "If you're ever faced with a decision pick the choice that tells the best story." | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 04:52 PM |
| 9 | How pickup is like improv: An improvisers perspective on seduction.I'm not Dave Morris but he's a friend of a friend. And his teachings transcended into some of the classes I've taken. He's really fun to be around :) | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 04:50 PM |
| 1 | On creating a mystery vs. open vulnerability"You make people interested, by being interested in them" Soooo true!!!! Totally forgot to hit on that point so it makes me happy to see it being posted! | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 11:22 AM |
| 2 | On creating a mystery vs. open vulnerabilityHey! It's good to hear you can openly share yourself with others. That's often a difficult skill to acquire. And trust me many people love that skill a lot. They may not say it but the gratitude is there. But to get to your question if you feel like a conversation is dying or your getting bored. That's a sign that the person your talking with is either not really into you or your not really into the other person. In the book models Mark talks about rejection and how it's a beautiful thing. Weedi… | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Im getting 'teased' for trying to learn?In the immortal words of Dr. Suess "Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." It's your life to live and if pick up makes you happy. Keep it up just make sure your not doing it for the validation of others. Personally I see pick/seduction as a tool of communication and a way to give value to others. While finding beautiful, confident and high status women that make me happy. Pick up not only gave me the strength to meet women but it gave me the greatest reflection of myself.… | /r/seduction | 19/06/14 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Best self-improvement books?The nerdist And anything by Robert Greene | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 05:47 AM |
| 3 | What blogs do you read and recommend related to seduction?I recommend Pickup Podcast hosted by Jordan and AJ harbinger they have 157 podcasts filled with everything you need to know from approach, text game, closing and how to improve your social life getting the girl and the life you want. | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 09:31 AM |
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