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bigsam1time/r/MGTOW27/09/19 06:04 AM
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bigsam1time/r/askTRP20/07/20 10:39 PM
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bigsam1time/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:58 AM
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Congrats bro. Enjoy the decline
/r/TheRedPill14/11/22 07:43 PM
1

Thank you. Will do
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:56 PM
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Will do boss
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:54 PM
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Quick hello, how is their day, what are you up to, some dirty talk, meet
/r/askTRP17/06/21 10:41 AM
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Unfortunately, the world won’t unfuck itself in this lifetime. You’ll wake up and still find that the girls you love will still pine for Chad and Tyrone’s dick, the female imperative will still dominate, AND YOU STILL AIN’T SHIT (which is not a bad thing. Release the ego. Live for yourself and your family, tune out the negative, focus on the positive. And you can’t change the world on your own, but the little things you can change around you and for those that you appreciate, change those.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:23 PM
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Word? Aight bet, I’ll do the same. I’m a big guy but I don’t really get attention from older audiences, I get 18-21 mostly. There’s been this gym milf who’s been looking tho. As for your problem, distance solves everything mate. Let the hamster hamst.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:44 AM
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Bro How did you bag an older girl?
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:03 AM
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It might be too early to cohabitate tho. According to our bible (TRM) you should only live with her 6 months prior to engagement/marriage. Your monogamy orientated though, so if you really do feel like you’ve vetted great, then you should pursue it further. On the whole future issue, I honestly don’t know. I think you know what is right for you to do. My elder cousin is 28 and is looking to get married to this wealthy girl he’s been with since varsity. While I’ve often advised against it for him…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 09:28 AM
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All you have to do is go to gym, and get rid of people who don’t benefit you. Rejected? Move. Get walked over? Move. Treated like shit? Move. Being nice is like having a vagina, girls don’t get fucked for free, so neither should you.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:08 PM
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You got this. We’re the same age. Wake up tomorrow and go jogging. The runners high do good for mood enhancement. When I was a sadboi I would ask my roommates to help me out with socialising and going out, and that is a good outlet to meet new people. Also, try to do something that’s constructive to reinforce in your head that you’re capable, you’re enough and that in your own mind you’re worth it Read book of pook (or re-read). Being a virgin is a problem because you make it a problem. It’s oka…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:12 PM
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Well done mate. Be cognisant of the moment you’re in, acknowledge change and be grateful/thankful. Seeing older homies do good inspires me to do good too. Remember: SAVINGS. And Snoop told us not to love these hoes in the dub C era. Wishing you continued success Edit: Lifting? And if you’ve read core texts it will do you good to take a break from the subreddit so you can implement teachings and observations. Living RP is much more fun than reading it. As for mentality change, stand straight, dri…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:47 PM
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Get of this sub. You’re reading women hate. Take a 6 month break. Make new friends. Make friends who are girls (lol, if you’ve been lifting they’ll hit on you). Go out. LIVE
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:53 AM
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A year and a half ago I saved all core texts and mashed them into my own personalised “manhood bible”. I read that so much that I developed tunnel vision, got scared of women, didn’t approach, was a weird sadistic fuck towards them (but still handsome). When I took my first break I started testing waters to break the bias and develop an idea of women outside of rp, and trust, it works. You see what RP opens you up to but you “discard what’s useless, keep what’s useful and add what’s uniquely you…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:20 PM
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Beware of beta bait. Read that. But the best was quitting this shit. I only come back here when I’m too soft
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:04 PM
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Beware of beta bait. Read that. But the best was quitting this shit. I only come back here when I’m too soft
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:04 PM
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He gets downvoted because he has something nice to say about women? Do better, cause wow
/r/MGTOW27/12/20 06:27 AM
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I can only imagine reaching goal weight while being lean. God like things will take place when I get there. But I haven’t been doing enough, I’ve been to busy getting lost in new coochie. Need to get back to basics
/r/askTRP27/12/20 12:04 AM
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Clearly I haven’t been lifting enough :’)
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:56 PM
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Fair. I won’t rationalize out of this, you’re right. I don’t care about her that much tho, my issue is more plate retention and obedience within my parameters.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 09:01 PM
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Will do 🙏🏾
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:59 PM
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Fair. Not afraid to lose. Just had relatively high turnover this year so I’m looking to fix
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:42 PM
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Will re-read. Thanks 🙏🏾
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:35 PM
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We’re both varsity age students. She told me she got out of a four year relationship. I can say I’m a 6.5/7 she’s a 6. I saw her in the building and asked about her, then asked her if she’s interested in doing “things”, and now we’re here. The first girl is the same, but I smashed her on the roof of my building the past Friday, and now she’s giving me the too soon chat. This girl is a 6 too I guess. Both girls seem like hoes on the low, give off good girl vibe but their friends are thots
/r/askTRP26/11/20 10:19 AM
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What additional context is needed?
/r/askTRP26/11/20 09:17 AM
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Then what is it?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:43 PM
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Still silent. Wanted to meet her in university campus when I was done working yesterday, her last text was that she’ll confirm if she can see me.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:33 PM
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The one I fucked just went mute, but then texted a month later explaining that she was triggered by the whole situation (my interpretation - I gave whack dick). The second one that I kissed (some details in previous posts, basically was gonna branch swing but eventually went back to her man) vanished off of the face of the earth. Did not give any closure or explanation post kiss/fondle, just disappeared and not even texted back to my texts. This third one who I met Friday, at a party, we both du…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:16 PM
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While I agree with your statement, I’m just trying to hustle ass I actually like
/r/askTRP18/10/20 12:52 PM
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No question. Just didn’t think this was for the main sub. Some motivation for the ones like me.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 11:16 PM
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😂💀 We aren’t sure of ourselves, master. We need to be guided every step of the way.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 07:25 AM
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Plate multiple girls at once. I see it as splitting the love. Other than that don’t spend too much time with them. Time spent can catch niggas slipping.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:57 AM
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Dankie satafrika 😂
/r/MGTOW13/06/20 08:10 AM
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Must be nice. Concerts in the time of corona
/r/askTRP01/06/20 05:21 PM
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26F? Respect
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:57 AM
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Where? WHERE? I’m 6’3 and 😭😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 05:52 AM
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RP Christians can answer you better, Chief
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:50 PM
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Big oof
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:49 PM
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Don’t broski. Literally last Tuesday I was going through the same. Just don’t. I don’t have bitches like that so I can’t tell you “Abundance/ALPHA ALPHA”, but just let her know that it’s done. Then part ways. If she persists, block, delete.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:47 PM
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Big OOF, but very true
/r/askTRP24/05/20 10:38 PM
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Sexual strategy is amoral. If this is how you feel, then don’t do it.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:46 PM
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This. I’m allegedly Chadlite but there’s no coochie 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/askTRP21/05/20 02:59 PM
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So actually giving two shits about the person, doing your best to build something with them, putting their feelings and emotions before yours at every single turn, going hungry so that they can get whatever their heart desires, being there for them in greater instances where even their own family would help. Just so she can nuke it all to go to CHAD? Chad who just smashes and leave? Great. I’m 21, and apparently I’m chadlite based on my height and now physical appearance. You guys always bitch a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:41 AM
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Big OOFF
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:18 AM
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I lost my virginity to a girl I had passively macked on for 4 years. My friends who had sex at age 12 told me that I’m gonna get too attached to that body, she ain’t shit, and she’s gonna leave one day. Like most of us, I thought I was the exception. She broke me, I’m here, and he told me what was gonna happen word for word. No red pill, books, none of that hypergamy shit. Just facts from my bro. It’s funny, he laughed at me for 20 minutes while he hugged me, and after a while I laughed too. You…
/r/askTRP20/05/20 12:16 AM
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Love is something only your mom can bring. You should’ve started lifting at sixteen. Your Fuckboy friends were right. Don’t trust anyone with your life.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:05 PM
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I’m sure you smash mad pussy cause wow 🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂 F for respect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:43 AM
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Keep on keeping on. I developed a slight weed addiction (before breakup I never smoked before) and failed at school AGAIN. Put the bottle down bro. Look in the mirror. God is staring back at you. The love, wealth and happiness that exists is looking right back at you. It was always there. It’s just up to you to figure it out. And fuck, if you hate him/her it’s fine, I hate her too, but forgive yourself. You weren’t wrong for falling in love, of giving the right pieces of you to the wrong person.…
/r/seduction17/05/20 03:26 AM
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Kinda difficult mate. The hatred is what gets me out of bed every morning.
/r/seduction17/05/20 03:00 AM
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It’s quite simple compared to some European languages. In German there are about 9-12 versions of “the”, with Afrikaans it’s just 1
/r/MGTOW13/05/20 11:24 AM
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Kan ek ook besoek oom.
/r/MGTOW13/05/20 11:07 AM
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Lol... that time I have no girls blowing up my phone 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:42 AM
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I’m 6ft3. Show me the way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:26 PM
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Thank you in advance, master 🙏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:06 PM
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Thank you. Not OP but I needed this too
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:59 PM
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Wait wait wait wait You guys are really South African? I thought I was the only semi-MGTOW in this country but WOW.👀😂 This is baffling.
/r/MGTOW26/04/20 11:07 PM
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Usually it’s just pee that needs to be released when you wake up. After that, limp dicks everywhere. So you good.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 09:05 AM
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Watch him decline, but you’re wrong for at least not asking him to protect himself. Tell him to sign a prenup
/r/MGTOW23/04/20 10:16 AM
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Woah Why are the South African mandem hopping on this so suddenly 👀😂
/r/MGTOW22/04/20 11:16 PM
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But a woman can break him to become one
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/20 10:47 PM
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I’m assuming you’re in academia? My parents are both professors in the university I go to and usually encounter resistance from students they used to supervise. Recently, my mom had to endure the same disrespect from a post doctorate student she helped along the way. How they always do it is in a passive aggressive way. They may discredit you on your personality, but you can tear them down through the work they put out. Point out the plagiarism, lack of effort and other issues in his work in a m…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 11:41 PM
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“It ain’t the size of my boat, but the motion in the ocean.”
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:22 PM
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Was your friend watching Tumi Seeco’s “SEECOMODE”? 🌝😂
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 08:52 PM
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Skepta-Bullet from a Gun
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:20 AM
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I’m a bit taller than you, and that’s the recommended size for people our height. I’ve been working out for about 9 months and at my prime I reached 202lbs in 5 months. Eating is really key, and applying the 1g protein for one pound of body weight is important in your bulk. Corona, stress and depression got me a bit down so I’ve dropped a lot, but if you eat 4 - 6 meals with at least a 130-150g daily intake of protein you will see results in 2 months. Carry on in that vein and the first 6 months…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:53 AM
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200 - 220 lbs
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:29 AM
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I’ve got a lot of almosts. I have to LTR to smash (cause I’m me) but I was moving into my student accommodation, getting to know the neighbors. I was displaying insecure traits, taking up little space as possible but talking to these dudes and it went off without a hitch. Their girlfriends come in and it’s time for the guys to bounce. I literally didn’t have to do anything but stand up (I’m 6,3 and look like I lift, not quite buff yet) and girl was on top of me in an instant. Compliment after co…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:40 PM
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I do most of this already. Don’t talk to many people tho. Will do, thank you 🙏🏾
/r/askTRP13/04/20 03:09 PM
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Ever try 9 years? 😂
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:07 PM
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Are you South African 🌝
/r/MGTOW09/04/20 09:02 AM
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Damn. Thank you. I didn’t see it that way at all.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 11:18 PM
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Noted.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 10:24 PM
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I didn’t claim that I’ve changed. I’m still billy beta with bigger arms. I STILL LOVE HER. Tell me something new
/r/askTRP06/04/20 10:23 PM
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Think Joffrey in game of thrones
/r/askTRP06/04/20 10:21 PM
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honestly the best 2 years ever. no looking at ex, no thinking about what to post, no anxiety over reaching a like limit. you just be you
/r/askTRP03/04/20 08:21 AM
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Literally, tickle her as much as possible. Light touch behind the neck, stroke back, in between thighs. Those are the hot zones. I don’t know what girls relation is to you but when I “massage” a girl I do that, tell her she’s having all the fun to herself... THEN I WHIP THE DRACO OUT 😂.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:30 PM
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Massage = Sex Like the pornos bro, like the pornos
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:31 AM
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Read.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:14 PM
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Many thanks
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:43 PM
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Generally became a more hateful person. Nihilistic, wasn’t able to reconcile my reality with the red pill reality. Then acceptance, doing the work and all the good things that come out of being redpilled. Although I haven’t reached the “I get bitches” part, the boost in self confidence, doing well in your school/work is a reward in itself.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 08:47 AM
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Slight butthurt I will go to girl tomorrow and do what must be done
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:14 PM
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I’ve been listening to your Podcast with Uncle Vas. I’m sure it’s far more complex than “Hi. I saw you were making eyes with me.” Not to throw shade but even the direct way doesn’t work.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 03:56 PM
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You see that pain of heartache? It has stayed with me rather than dissipating away. I can’t sleep without taking a painkiller or smoking. Some shortness of breath at times. The only time it really goes away is when I’m at gym/mass physical exertion. I haven’t been to a doctor because WTF would you be doing asking for the cure to heartbreak from a medical professional
/r/askTRP31/01/20 11:12 AM
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OUT
/r/askTRP22/01/20 03:50 PM
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Thank you 🙏🏾
/r/askTRP27/11/19 04:59 AM
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Yes I have
/r/askTRP27/11/19 04:51 AM
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Bruh, a vibrating alarm. The one you feel buzzing until death. Cop that with the earplugs and you’ll be set. Don’t kill the homies vibe. Most likely those dudes will give assists for the rest of the year.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:07 AM
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Betabux huh? You know what to do.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 05:21 AM
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You should look into going into a monastery (but not monk mode lol). A lot of places offer you to go work, lead your life, etc. but you live at the monastery, attend the meditation classes, and are encouraged to not date but you can if you want to. Good place to detach, gain control of your emotions.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:28 PM
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”On to the next, on, on to the next one”
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:22 AM
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But you need to hold them to the same standard as you do your male friends. It’s only iffy if she’s using you for benefits, but if it’s a real 50-50 on all friendly related things then it’s fine.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:21 AM
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I get that, but was there attraction to begin with? We are taught that we should see if there are IOI’s or IOD’s before we game, especially if we aren’t 7/8/9 material yet.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:19 AM
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I’m 20 and have only been in LTR’s. I guess I wish for your life, but there’s something about falling in “love” which can’t be explained. The whole illusion of seeing the rest of eternity with her when you look into her eyes, beginning to merge your existence with her because you believe and trust her, then she meets Chad when she goes clubbing, slobbers his whole load and still kisses you goodnight. My point: the highs and endorphins are great. Throwing caution to the wind and giving yourself t…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 01:24 PM
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I walked up to a girl on campus. My first ever day game. Walked up to her, told her I don’t usually do this. She stopped me right there, shook my hand and left, without saying a word.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 07:31 AM
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It’s not worth it to stay in something that causes you discomfort and pain. END IT. Find peace, find someone else.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 02:01 AM
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I’ve seen that this dynamic applies to me, I’m the eldest of 5 (I got all sisters) and was raised mostly by my aunts, mom, gran and grandpa. Grandad is a man of his time, holds the fort, stern and hard but otherwise displays provider traits the older he gets. Respect for women was drilled in, sexual shame and anxiety for me was at 9000, and I still feel compelled to show “honour” when interacting with women. My cousins in a nuclear family swim in coochie, DGAF mentality but they still go soft fr…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 01:34 PM
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I’m not alpha by any means (yet), but this doesn’t even require the red pill. With my first two girlfriends I would literally shake whenever they leaned in fishing for the kiss. If you are as attractive as you say you are, she should be pulling you. I think that you just need to tell yourself that you will kiss her. On dates, in a secluded place, just lean in. More often than not, she’ll just grab you and kiss. 80/20 bro, 80/20.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 07:54 AM
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Wait, what? 👀😂
/r/askTRP15/10/19 11:54 PM
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King SK “She was never your girl, it was just your turn”
/r/MGTOW20/09/19 07:12 AM
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MGTOW GANG
/r/askTRP11/08/19 01:33 PM
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Tell your dad. Liberate him the same way you’ve been liberated from the illusions of life. I get that you love your mom too, but this is something that, if left unchecked, will break the family apart in worse proportions down the line. Tell your mom you’ll tell dad if she doesn’t cut the shit. If you catch her again, drop the nuke
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:12 AM
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What he does is outside of the typical RP approach we're supposed to go to. We're supposed to have 2 of the 3 attributes (looks, game, wealth/promise), he has only one and does better than other RP based males in my life
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:40 AM
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Homies over hoes
/r/askTRP01/08/19 09:01 AM
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Bro, you should use a condom. Other than that you should get yourself checked out for delayed ejaculation. Speak to a sex therapist and/or the male counterpart of a gynecologist, when I had a similar issue they suggested strict noFap and gave me some antidepressants which diminished my lasting time to what is considered “standard”.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:25 PM
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Bulking
/r/askTRP27/07/19 10:34 AM
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My bad. I’ve been between 84 and 89kg and I’ve been fluctuating. Sometimes I drop to 80kg so
/r/askTRP27/07/19 08:11 AM
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SSSSSSSAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEEEE It's madness, I don't even want to go to uni because I'm scared to see 'em both.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 08:24 AM
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One day at a time bro. I was dating this girl who was 2 years younger than me when I was 18. Accused me even though we never had sex. HARD NEXT. She still blows up my phone to this day. Therapy helped me get through the process, just go to one or talk to a mate you really trust about it. 3-6 months in you'll laugh about the incident, trust.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 07:50 AM
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I'm 20 and in varsity, and before I kinda was the videogaming type (no real hobbies, time was spent between PC, girlfriend and school) and now that two have disappeared, 2.5 seems like ample time. Full upper body everyday, Sunday is leg day
/r/askTRP29/06/19 04:35 PM
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If Chad is the one that females aspire to be with and leave other men for, why wouldn't anyone be Chad?
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 12:30 PM
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Nope. Will do
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 12:26 PM
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