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Yes, we've talked about it three times already.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/17 08:02 PM
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We went out tonight and I kept this in mind. We drank the same amount yet I am like 100 lbs heavier. Major benefit was being present enough to deal with leading all night. No fights, I could tell she liked me leading. Thanks again.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/16 08:32 AM
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Jesus, I'm glad you chimed in. Just got 0 percent for 15 months. Thanks for the prod.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 05:14 PM
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Honestly, I just wrote that without thinking. Last night I joking told her she was my first mate and she says "Awwww thanks babe!..." then the shit test "I wanna be the captain tjough" sad cute pouty face. Told her "tough shit". Tingles ensued and it was a great night.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 05:13 PM
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Credit is a little depressed because of the high utilization rate. As soon as it goes up enough, I'll be doing just this.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 04:55 AM
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Great job man. You are doing the work, and that's awesome. Had a bit of drama around here last night. I almost let it derail me but I just reminded myself that a)their emotions are fluid and just because she's on a rollercoaster doesn't mean I have to get on. B) She is PART of my life, not all of it. Now, a very important part, but never all of it. Good luck with it all, keep us posted.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 09:41 PM
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her sense of security just took a hit when you budgeted Where does this step from btw? Until you mentioned it, I never noticed that after a change (e.g. tightening up on shores, spending, etc) she kind of pulls away. Is there a way to prevent that or is it just AWALT?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 05:32 PM
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http://www.learnvest.com/knowledge-center/how-to-budget-with-the-one-number-strategy/ This article is what I based my budget off of. I don't use their service because I find it cumbersome and a PITA compated to mint. But basically I made a spread sheet with income at the top. Below that, I have all our monthly fixed expenses. I subtract that from the income and that becomes my new "one number". My next budget is financial goals. I subtract number from the goals and am left with the remainder, wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 03:19 PM
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Thanks! Owning it can be hard. So often my hamster will start with the victim puke and then I'll realize fuck it this is on me. Good luck with the debt. I'm like you...I trust the math but I know something will come up. C'est la vie.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 03:15 PM
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Thanks, I'll check it out. I use mint currently but for some reason the offline track works better for me. I use it to track categorical spending and to get all my balances and shit quickly.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 03:11 PM
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Jesus, thanks for this. I have been a little obsessive and I think you're right she's been pulling away a bit. Shit tests have started up again. I will give it a rest.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 03:09 PM
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Lean into those shitty feelings. Realize something....just because you FEEL bad doesn't mean you ARE bad. Fundamentally, you are a person of value. Furthermore, remember that she was (hopefully) only PART of your life not your whole life. Go through this process of pain and don't push it away. Life's greatest success often comes on the heels of failure.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:42 PM
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you can literally cum ANYWHERE (and I probably have....)
/r/askMRP07/01/16 11:41 PM
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So let me ask you this: your wife literally got dressed up and tried to give you a blowjob, and somehow this led to an argument and no blowjob. There's a section in NMMNG about this. Nice guys always find a way to not get sex. His wife wanted to fuck him earlier but he didn't want to clean up.....try cumming in her mouth, in a sock, or into the God Damn vents. Then this..... OP, keep working. We're being hard on you because we way you to improve.
/r/askMRP06/01/16 05:00 AM
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That sounds good, thanks. And yes, time to man up (part of the journey).
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/16 10:08 PM
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You can never be drunker than her in her presence or rely on her to take care of a drunk you. Jesus, why didn't I think of this before? Thank you! Looking back on all the times this has happened, it has rarely ended well. Will need to save the drinking for when I am with my friends.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 05:57 PM
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A captain does not negotiate with his first mate on who to get drunk and who to captain the ship. Awesome, thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 05:56 PM
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God, such a pain in the ass to deal with them sober! You are right though.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 05:55 PM
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lol she had 2 glasses of wine over a five hour period dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 12:14 AM
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It is, I have access to all this stuff already and she knows I do. I just want to make a point; I can handle BOTH of our finances or mine alone (i.e. living on my own). She needs to put some work into this.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 06:37 AM
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Thanks. I actually do have this set up and can track her expenses, credit card info, etc. I am trying to make a point that this is an us thing though. Mint is awesome in the way it manages all the accounts.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 03:59 AM
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Wow, nice. I am hoping to do the same I just know how emotional then can get when you talk about cutting shit they want (aka need).
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/15 10:51 PM
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Yeah, exactly....so much stupid shit said afterwards. Be careful! And take what she says before and after (during) with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 12:16 AM
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good thing you were able to get hard after coke! Be careful with what you say right before and right after sex. Both sexes can say some stupid shit during both.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 09:29 PM
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Leave it alone, don't fucking text her. Did you tell her you liked her after sex? Just curious...
/r/askTRP19/12/15 07:57 PM
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/r/NoFap can be a bit extreme. I did notice that within days of not looking at porn, I started getting hornier easier and with normal people (not 10s). Stop for 1 day, see how you feel on day 2.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 08:21 PM
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That's not what we're talking about here dip shit. We're talking about this guy's individual case. Let me break it down for you.' Problem: Guy feels guilty for cheating. If he doesn't say anything, he feels guilty for some time and eventually the feelings fade. If he says something, he still feels guilty (probably worse for making his gf feel like shit), his gf possibly leaves him, and that brings a host of other problems. Should the good little boy run home to mommy and tell her he's done somet…
/r/askTRP18/12/15 05:27 PM
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If it's eating you up that much inside you're going to have to tell her eventually. Don't listen to this bull shit. Keep your mouth shut. You're going to feel like shit for a while. This is eventually going to go away, just like every other single feeling you've ever had and ever will have. Ever do something as a kid that made you feel so guilty? How do you feel today about it? You don't have to tell her. What do you have to do is figure out whether you're ready to have a child with someone you …
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:59 AM
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Jesus fucking Christ! Here's an idea; get a life worth living that is so great that some fuckhead bumping into you isn't a concern. Use your judgement. Physical altercations are always pointless unless it's self-defense.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 10:32 PM
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you already gave yourself the ultimate gift of discipline, sweat, blood and tears and you know how much of it you've put into achieving the result that ignites those kind of compliments. This is spot on. I never understood this as a kid. In school people always said getting the grade was the reward and in my head I thought "fuck you, give me a prize I got good grades!". It makes sense now. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 06:22 PM
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Agreed, and she does definitely hold me in high regard. But if she didn't that would be a major problem.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 02:48 PM
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Thanks. I'm working in it and have had success. This weekend people were gravitating to me (male and eomen) and on a deep lever I thought why the fuck would they want to be around me? Obviously some work to do here.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 04:36 AM
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The funniest would be if you jerked off in there too. Nothing beats jerking instead of sex, because initiating is beneath you. hahaha. I did get horny out there alone so I went to bed. She was fast asleep. I put my hand on her ass, she woke up and I fucked her. It was one of the better ones, lots of domination. I wouldn't say I was moping. I wanted to make a point: hold your frame, in spite of potentially missing out on sex. Reward her (fuck her brains out when she doesn't play a game) and punis…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 05:06 PM
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Why didn't you fuck her before the gym and then again after? I should have mentioned, she was going to shower first. I didn't feel like shower sex and her showers take 30 minutes. I needed to lift. Also, she was right about the dog Possibly, that book looks great I'll check it out. instead you sit alone on reddit thinking you somehow came out on 'top'. I came out to watch my favorite show and go on reddit. Once I was done (60 minutes), I went to bed. She was fast asleep, I put my hand on her ass…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 04:59 PM
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That could have worked. To be clear I wasn't butt hurt, just noticed the shit test. Good point about them being foreplay though, that's a good perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 07:01 AM
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I don't doubt she's highly attracted to you (e.g. no shit tests, blew you). However, she's likely doing the same thing with multiple other dudes. These chicks tend to be fast and high highs, as well as fast and low lows.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:20 PM
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http://www.smartrecovery.org/resources/library/Articles_and_Essays/Rational_Thinking/irrationality_lft.htm
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:16 PM
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A problem I see is that it seems like your frustration tolerance is very low. When you get frustrated you can't handle it. Your feelings of anxiety/depression/guilt grow and to relive yourself of those feelings you act out by buying shit or getting a hooker. This is usually caused by being coddled as a kid. Did mom and dad always step in to fix your problems? Could you do no harm? Did you get shielded from normal expeirences? If so, you likely have a low frustration tolerance. How to fix it? Go …
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:15 PM
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The first approach is the hardest. Once you start, you will develop momentum. Hopefully that momentum will carry you forward. Start small - make eye contact with each person that walks by. Then, say hi to one fucking person. JUST ONE! Can you do that? If not, then fuck off you're beyond help.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:08 PM
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Buy "No More Mister Nice Guy" today. Read it through. Then, read it again. Read the 12 rules of dread today https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/ You're in for a lot of changes....go slow, do not blow up your relationship. Do not start trying to kill ever shit test. Rather, shut the fuck up, understand what the underlying problems are, and work on yourself. You're going to be pissed off for a while. You're then going to be ecstatic at …
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:39 PM
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Not trolling, but I genuinely don't care if the majority of today's boys starve to death. My son will have food and he'll win at life. The other kids I could give a shit about. He'll wipe the floor with their bony carcasses . Seriously, starving boys today make me want to gouge my eyes out with the way they carry themselves like hungry, ravenous emo dykes. Extreme example to make a point.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 04:00 PM
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You mean, that I am being selfish?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 03:57 PM
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Agree... Her reaction is ammoral. Different sexual strategy to fulfil different needs.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 01:03 AM
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The fuck you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 08:54 PM
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Right! She SOMETIMES asks how my day was, but I've learned that she really doesn't give a fuck. I used to flip out when she wouldn't validate my feelings after a rough day and she would quickly change the subject to something else. I would also get annoyed when I had a big win and she didn't validate my emotions.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 08:42 PM
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No. Marriage did nothing for my career. I FUCKING DID. I used to think that marriage was going to be this super power that would make me succeed at work and my woman was going to help me overcome all obstacles and become the shit. She has no interest in doing that. Also, any self-respecting man who relies on his woman to drive him is a pussy ass bitch and isn't worth shit. Stop waiting for external circumstances to fix your internal discord. Improve yourself, put yourself out there, do what you …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 06:17 PM
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This is the thing dude.... It's not a character flaw.... That's how they ALL are. That's why the anger phase goes away, you realize getting passed about that is like getting pissed off at a dog who begs for food.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 04:41 PM
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I think the lesson is look care about this woman, but take care of your own shit too. Her mom, dad, and sister as well as her friends were around to take care of her; go live your life but also visit and be caring within reason (2 - 3 days a week instead of 6 - 7). Do NOT be obsessive and come everyday when you know she's just fucking sleeping. Don't lose your job over this; you're going to need it to pay for the increased expenses. etc. Obviously a tough situation to be in. I just found out tod…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 02:38 AM
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I slightly disagree. I help my woman, when she deserves it and usually in with a lesser or equal amount of effort as they have put in. Last night my wife spent a few hours cooking us an elaborate dinner. I reciprocated by doing the dishes. Why? Not because I wanted a gold star from her (cleaning does not give any woman the tingles!). Not because I thought it would get me sex. And definitely not because she is "the one". I did it because I wanted to reciprocate her investment in our relationship …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 11:57 PM
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This is helpful, I am the same way. After reading this, twice I caught myself today apologizing for myself. Once, at the gym. This cute girl came over and wanted to use my pully (they were split; top and bottom). I told her I was using the bottom and she could use the top. Then, my body language hunched and I basically was apologizing for.....who the fuck knows what....then asked her to move aside so I could do my set. Later, I was walking around the city on Halloween and someone ran into me fro…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/15 07:55 AM
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ya, seriously.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 07:48 AM
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If it's your last year of high school you already have a rep so who fucking cares. "Hey, I think you're cute but never caught your name" and put your hand out.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 09:52 PM
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It's not black and white. Some people will obviously be opportunistic and ditch you. Anyone you have an actual bond with will be around. Just don't take it too personally. I slightly disagree with the first poster. If it was simply a timing thing then consider rushing again. We had a few dudes who we wanted in but had some issue (failed a pledge activity, grades, etc.) and had them re-rush and got in. Reallllly feel it out though, nothing worse than a try hard who doesn't get that they truly don…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:52 PM
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Thank you sir. When I first started out I totally realized that I was attracting women like no other. Not even trying really, just getting 23 year olds looking at me all goo goo eyed. I must have lost my frame along the way, now I feel myself going outside myself to draw people in. Frame resumed, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 08:28 PM
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I did it two days in a row at an actual studio after months off. o. I feel like I get aa runners higheach time I do it. Sit near the teacher, you'll look like an ass at times but will be close enough to the teacher to get assistance.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:53 AM
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I've used headspace, it's great. Yoga I am realizing is like meditation on steroids... Give it a shot.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:26 AM
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What about no fb pics? It always makes me wonder when I don't see any pictues of a guy in his gf or wife's s pics. I'm talking about people who've been together for multiple years.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:21 AM
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Remember.... She is one OF a billion not IN a million. No woman is special. What's special is the relationship you create with them. Sounds like a shitty relationship, nothing special about it. Get over your oneitis and move on. It'll probably suck for a while just keep lifting and doing productive shit so that when you DO come out of if you'll be in a good spot to game chicks. Study, lift, make money, improve yourself.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:19 AM
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Dude... It could not go either way. It either will stay the same or get better! Internalize this mindset you're always improving or maintaining. Don't give yourself the option of reverting.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:17 AM
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I've noticed a lot of movied have loads of BP shit in them too. Last night, I was browsing through and saw Mrs. Doubtfire was on. The woman took the guy's kids and wouldn't let him see them. She dates an alpha all while her beta husband dresses like a fucking woman to see his kids. The kids all improve, do better in school, etc. but the woman is still a bitch and lets the judge order he have restricted visitation with the kids. Then, Mr. Beta gets his own show on TV. Guess who comes around and l…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 09:46 PM
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Fuck, good question....never thought about that.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 08:29 PM
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I am dealing with this at the moment. So many opportunities in front of me yet I don't take them or quit before the finish line.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 04:16 PM
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I felt like you a few weeks ago when I first got here. Look, even if you did marry the wrong person your timeline for making a change at this point is probably AT LEAST six months, probably closer to 12 - 18 months. I am making some assumptions based on the fact that you've got kids and you've been married for 15 years. I would ask that you consider this: you married the perfect woman and created a very imperfect relationship with her. Work on this shit in front of you. Don't even worry about yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 06:16 AM
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Thanks, this is helpful. I am seeing a lot of changes from women other than my wife, which makes me expect results. You're right though, obviously she's going to react more slowly.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 03:59 AM
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You're right...keep it simple.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 05:34 AM
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