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| 6 | Her sex rating and her level of attractiveness | biker-dude | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 06:27 PM |
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| 10 | Study: Women find men who are desired by other women to be more desirableFTFY NEW STUDY: Men are attracted to big boobs on young slim girls. | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Observation after dressing nicelyAlthough some of the stuff at H&M are ok, the quality isn't very good. I know that is to be expected when you're paying so low for clothes, especially men's clothes. I personally prefer Banana Republic, JCrew, Nordstrom, and AEO for clothes. As for shoes, Cole Haan, Johnston & Murphy, and Allen Edmonds are my go-to. These brands are a bit more upmarket, but they're worth the extra costs because they will last you for several seasons and have very nice classic men's styling. As a guy, the quality… | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Hiring a professional photographer for online dating pics.Just read that again. You're right! Either way, what you pay is what you get with this. | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 10:15 PM |
| 1 | What should I wear for him to appreciate my boobs more?First make sure that you're a really a 34C. A lot of women wear the wrong sized bra. My gf thought she was a 32DD for the longest time, but she's always spilling out of her bras. When she finally got them properly fitted, they turned out to be 30GG. She is now comfortably fitted in the right bra and they look much better under clothes. Point is, wear a proper bra. Second, it doesn't have to be revealing to show off your curves. A fitted turtle neck can really bring them out without coming off as… | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 10:12 PM |
| 1 | I had the most difficult girl to pickup today and it worked!!!I only wrote "all" 3 comments to you, and although they had a bit of a tone to drive the points home, the comments were not rude, vulgar nor unfriendly. In fact, I did wish you the best with how you handle things in real life. No feathers were ruffled. I wanted to emphasize the salient points in that you were over generalizing and that you could simply be nice. Again, good luck to you with that attitude. | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you lose interest if a girl is too receptive?Reading this thread made me wonder why some women do seem to think that guys like bitchy women. I think I've come up with a theory about it... it's not so much that guys are crazy about bitchy girls with bad attitudes, but I think women may have misunderstood what guys are really looking for. I think most successful guys who are confident and sure of themselves find strong, independent, and determined women extremely attractive. That's because he's not afraid of holding an intelligent conversati… | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 06:18 AM |
| 2 | I had the most difficult girl to pickup today and it worked!!!I actually am! :) I can disagree without being rude, vulgar or unfriendly. Also, I'm outgoing and have no problem making friends with women or men, so your sarcastic statement is actually a true statement. I hope it's the same for you. | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Do you lose interest if a girl is too receptive?Do not be a bitchy girl to get guys to be interested in you. If anything, doing so would make you come off as an unpleasant person and attract the wrong types of people, because likes really do attract likes in this case. Just be nice and friendly to everyone (you lose nothing) and you'll have more options to choose from since you'll attract just about every type of guys. If you're not interested in a guy and you've given him hints that you're not interested, yet he's still being annoying, then … | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Girl sent me random handbra pic how can I further this goingYou don't sound like you're into this girl that way, so why are you pursuing? Don't lead a girl you're not attracted to on just because you want some boobs. | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 01:28 AM |
| 1 | I had the most difficult girl to pickup today and it worked!!!Shocking that someone dares to disagree with your cranky and unlikable attitude, huh? Well, get used to it! Not every shy or quiet girl is like you, so don't generalize. Also, wanting to tell the guys to "shut the fuck up" and labeling them as "strange" for wanting to converse doesn't make you nice or polite as you claimed. Well, good luck in real life with your attitude. | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 01:21 AM |
| 4 | I had the most difficult girl to pickup today and it worked!!!Of course, because every shy girl that ever lived is exactly like you. They just vehemently HATE being approached because they're all just plain ol' cookie-cutters like that. Seriously, the guy is doing his best with what little experience he has. If the girl likes him, then good for him, and if not, then oh well. At least he gathered the courage to talk to someone he's interested in. Besides, what is it to you? For what it's worth, instead of being a total curmudgeon about it when someone muste… | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 11:58 PM |
| 0 | I had the most difficult girl to pickup today and it worked!!!Interesting. I think you did good. Shy girls tend to take a while to warm up, but they're quite fun when they finally open up (pun intended). Good luck! | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Is height that important?It's one part of the equation, since most women want guys taller than them. However, I would say that most women would still pick the shorter guy with a handsome face over a tall guy with a not so good looking face. In terms of averages, 5'11" to 6'2" puts you in a position to score women within the widest range of height requirements. If you're taller or shorter than that range, don't make it a problem and it won't be a problem. Some guys make the height issue a bigger problem than it should be… | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 08:51 PM |
| 2 | I had the most difficult girl to pickup today and it worked!!!Curiously, is she by any chance Asian? | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 08:29 PM |
| 1 | field guide: what if a single girl by themselves says they're not looking to date right now!How do you know it's not true? You are basing it on your interpretation of the situation, which could be biased. What are you looking for with the interaction? A quick lay or a relationship? The vibe you give off could indicate to her that you're for one or the other and could put her off. | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 07:11 PM |
| 1 | At 32, I'm tired of just fucking random girls, and just want a loving romantic relationshipI'm a little late to this party thread of yours, but I know exactly what you mean and can definitely empathize. I recently turned 27, and for over 10 years (since 15) all I did was play the game to close the deal. It didn't start out as a game for me, since the first girl that I slept with was a pretty cheerleader a grade above me (she was 16, I was 15) and it started out romantic and innocent enough, at least for me, with some flirting and touching... until we got naked and had sex a week later… | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 06:47 AM |
| 1 | field guide: what if a single girl by themselves says they're not looking to date right now!You could be the ripest, juiciest, and most delicious peach out there, but some people just don't like peaches. Such is life my friend. Next time, just ask probing questions to see where she's coming from and see where it gets you. There's a good chance you guys don't click somewhere, well, at least from her perspective. | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 04:38 AM |
| 8 | Why do / don't you want a girlfriend?As someone who has been on both sides of the coin, I would say that life events, maturity, and life perspectives got me to quit casual sex for a serious relationship. I love women and I'm crazy about sex, so I hooked up with countless girls for sex and casual relationships since high school. When I went to a major university for my undergrad, it's as though I went from Costco samples to an all-you-can eat buffet. I had sex with new girls all the time during college, and on top off that, I watche… | /r/seduction | 07/12/16 01:57 AM |
| 14 | Advice an old friend gave meIf she's hot, a lot of guys would. That's another reason why men and women are different. Also, a lot of "boring" girls can learn to be fun once you show them how to have fun. | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Americans of seddit, have you known an Indian guy that had success with hot girls in your country?Hot girls in general or hot Indian girls? Either way, yes. My roommate from undergrad pulls chicks of all colors. He's good looking, fun, smooth, and smart. He's U.S. born, in case that means anything. We hit the frat houses and pick up chicks together sometimes. | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 02:19 AM |
| 4 | Sex on first date?I'm a boobs lover, so I try to at least check the ripeness and quality of the melons before I invest more money and time... Also, I prefer organics. Seriously though, I don't think it's going to make a difference either way and this will largely depend on the dynamic of your relationship with the girl. Sex is great and important, but there are other aspects about her that's going to be just as important in the long run. After all, how long can you put up with a girl who is awesome in bed but ann… | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Girl is likely going to cancel first date- cancel first?It's flu season, so it's not too farfetched that she's sick. Show some empathy and see how she responds. If she's sick, she'll likely appreciate your thoughtfulness and take more interests in you. Calling it off early gains you nothing but an intacted ego, but maybe that's important to you. | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 05:19 PM |
| 9 | She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence.GQ_guys, GQstyle, jcrewmens, bananarepublic, and mensfashion should be enough for you to get style inspiration. | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 07:29 AM |
| 2 | How does being good looking effect game?This is mostly true. Although some attractive girls do admit to not approaching certain guys or giving him hints because he's "simply too gorgeous" and that they feel intimidated. But honestly, most guys won't have that problem. And even so, those guys don't need to do much to get women to drop their panties... so it's not hurting their game at all. | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a guy to attract a lot of women from certain backgrounds or of a certain ethnic appearance compared to others?Does your group have more of the types you mentioned than the others? | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 04:46 AM |
| 8 | I fucked up bad, I hope you enjoy this one boys. Today is the last time I let any girl walk all over me.Sounds rough, but 3's a crowd my friend. If a girl brings friends on a date, then it's not a date anymore. Also, be careful with over confidence, as you never know if your game is better than the next guy or if he has an advantage that you don't. I would say this one is a write off unless she gets back to you and is willing to go on a one-on-one date with you. If she does, don't be a douche about it by bringing other girls along because that's just petty. | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 04:34 AM |
| 12 | Lesson learned after getting out of a relationship and being back at square one.Keeping the girl and building a good relationship are crucial points that many people on Seddit don't focus on. We tend to focus our game on getting her and getting laid, but I think keeping a quality girl around is actually the more difficult task. If you're half decent looking and have your game on, then you can pretty easily get a girl and get laid, but what do you do if she turns out to be that rare quality girl that you've been hunting this whole time? How do you keep her? Well, the romance… | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a guy to attract a lot of women from certain backgrounds or of a certain ethnic appearance compared to others?Maybe you tend to hang around these people more than the others? I get a bit of everything, so brunettes, blondes, Asians, blacks, middle easterns, and gays (I'm not gay)... It's probably because I mingle with everyone. | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 07:14 AM |
| 0 | Should I consider it a problem that i have really high standards?Sounds like you don't have any problems. | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 04:12 AM |
| 4 | How do I stop being so clingy/needy after the first kiss?His user name is BoredBitOfTea, so I figured it checks out. In your case, if you're spending your entire day doing other things, yet you still get the urge to be clingy, then you'll just have to exercise self control and use your head (no, the other head) to stay sharp in the game. I find it hard to believe that you keep yourself busy yet still manage to find time to be clingy to a girl you barely dated. | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 08:03 AM |
| 12 | How do I stop being so clingy/needy after the first kiss?Maybe because you're a Boredbitoftea, so you have nothing else to think about or do after the first date, so you get clingy. Try having a life beyond the girl, it'll make you more interesting, focused, and you'll have less time on your hands to idly think of her every moment of your day. | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 03:43 AM |
| 2 | What to do when you realize she's not as atractive as on her fb photos?Curiously, if she was an 8 on the pic, what is she in person? | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 07:21 PM |
| 2 | PSA: When you start closing consistently, remember to protect yourself.I used to be a wallet guy too, but then I started putting everything in it... And that's the problem! It gets fat and difficult to have in my pocket without creating a weird bulge. I only carry my wallet when I travel out of town, but even then I bring my money clip and leave the wallet in the hotel safe for a night out. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 04:53 PM |
| 1 | The feeling after talking to a girlThen talk to her and close the deal. It's that simple. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 03:49 PM |
| 31 | PSA: When you start closing consistently, remember to protect yourself.I bring a money clip with my ID, 1 credit card, and about $150 cash. If I lose all of those, no big deal. I don't ever drink to the point of drunkenness, so I tend to get up before the girl does. Lastly, I prefer to go to the girl's place over mine... If it's my place, then I arm the home alarm once we're inside, so if she leaves in the middle of the night without me knowing, the alarm goes off. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 03:45 PM |
| 3 | PSA: When you start closing consistently, remember to protect yourself.I've always lived in nice parts of major cities and I've always had my .45 and Remington 870 next to my bed because that's where it's easiest for me to reach... Also, because it's 'Merica! | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 03:31 PM |
| 1 | The feeling after talking to a girlTo bone or not to bone... that is the question. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How can I talk to a girl in my lecture?I would sit on her row or the row in front so she can see me, but if you sit behind her then answer lots of questions when the prof asks them to the class and ask good questions while you're at it. It draws attention towards you and she'll likely turn around to see you talking. I don't recommend doing this unless you know your shit and you're acing the class, otherwise you'll just come off as one of those annoying idiots who ask a lot of dumb questions and give wrong answers. Also, you can use y… | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Her sex rating and her level of attractivenessI'm with you there. The hottest girls I've been with have been the best ones, although there are minor exceptions here and there as well... | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 03:10 PM |
| 5 | How can I talk to a girl in my lecture?What's wrong with obvious? You're obviously interested in her aren't you? I had the same situation back when I was taking O-chem during undergrad. I went and sat next to this hot brunette (the only hot girl in the lecture hall, because science) and started talking. We ended up studying together at her place... let's just say we had a lot of chemistry together and there were a lot of "nucleophilic backside attacks" with cum being the usual "leaving group." | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Her sex rating and her level of attractivenessOk, so would you say that you were sexually more satisfied with the 4 than with the more attractive girls that you were with? | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Her sex rating and her level of attractivenessI was statistically speaking to point out the fact that very attractive girls have more guys going after them and therefore more difficult to score. That's not a far fetched observation. Mind not blown, bro... I scored my fair share of hotties, so yes, I've been THAT guy. But then I've also been unsuccessful at times. Anyway, since some guys say beyond a certain level of attractiveness, other factors overwhelmingly dominate over her level of attractiveness. So, the point I was trying to convey i… | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 07:46 AM |
| 5 | Will sleeping with prettier girls make you accustomed to it?To answer your question... Yes, you get accustomed to it. At least that's the case for me. It's like you're used to driving a Ferrari, so going down to a basic Mustang just doesn't do it anymore. Admiring a girl's fit bod with curves, a nice rack, and a pretty face during sex really gets me off... I'm not ashamed of it and I don't think there's anything wrong or fucked up about it. If that's what you like, then that's what you like. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Her sex rating and her level of attractivenessThat's a good point. But from my experience, the consensus are often unanimous when you have a 6 standing next to a 9... yes, there will be the one guy who thinks the 6 is prettier or whatever, but the majority know the 9 is the hottie. If you observe the room dynamics where there are a few 6-7 and then there's a 9, most guys are vying for the 9. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 12:22 AM |
| 1 | [34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here?NP bro. Btw, you can reveal things without bragging... it's how you say it, not just what you say. Plus, you don't have to reveal everything from the get go. Give them bits and pieces to keep the mystery alive... Most women love mystery, so it'll only incite more interests towards you. Good luck bro. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Her sex rating and her level of attractivenessHotter girls = more competition. Plus, she tends to know she's hot, so she has more options. More options for her = less likely to pick you. It's not always the case, but it's quite true in most cases. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Her sex rating and her level of attractivenessThat's a good point. Some less attractive girls are more insecure from my experience... but they try harder in bed sometimes, so I'd say it kind of cancels out. Hence, I'm enjoying the hotter ones more... at least that's my experience. So think back to all the women you've had... did the hot ones give you the best sex more consistently than the slightly less attractive ones? | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Her sex rating and her level of attractivenessThat's true. However, if you're basing on your own personal experience, then that subjectivity wouldn't matter so much, since you're only comparing different things that you experienced... think of it like you're comparing your own ratings of different movies. Hence, I just want to know if you found sex more satisfying when it's with a more attractive girl or a slightly less attractive girl, or maybe even the same after a certain level of attractiveness. | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Her sex rating and her level of attractivenessOf course scales are relative to the individual, that's why I'm asking about your own experience based on your own scale. So you'd go for the hottest girl despite having a higher chance of rejection, yet the sex would be about the same as the slightly less hot girl... if that's the case, then why go for the hotter girl? Just curious. Well bro, I one of those dudes who thinks that the guy is mostly responsible for how good it is in bed. Of course, that's assuming she's willing to do things. Think… | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Her sex rating and her level of attractivenessOk, so in a social situation would you still hit on the 9 knowing that you'll have less success with her than the 7 who is also in the same room? We're eliminating girls who you find unattractive here, since it's a given that sex won't be good if you're turned off by her. | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Her sex rating and her level of attractivenessSo for you, would you agree that after certain level of attractiveness, there's is no longer a difference and that other factors overwhelmingly take over (e.g. sex appeal)? Also, would you say that sex with a 7 is the same as sex with a 9 if they both have the same sex appeal? | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 08:26 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Hot girl from the club staying at my place for longer than expectedSounds like you both had fun. Keep up the fun and she'll stick around much longer after the date. Good luck man! | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 04:24 PM |
| 1 | [34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here?I think the reason why you're not getting second dates is because you come off as boring and possibly even a loser to some of these women. The reason is you have no car or anything that help your image, and you're not revealing your reasons to these ladies... so as far as they know, you could be a 34 year-old who lives in his mom's basement. For most first dates first impression is very important, so I think you're selling yourself short here. 2 options for you: reveal who you are and your fruga… | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 02:17 AM |
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