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It's the game and the journey that makes me feel alive, not the final result.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 06:58 AM
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please and thanks
/r/askTRP24/02/17 07:21 PM
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"Something like that" Damn that's perfect, stealing that.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 04:41 AM
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It's been about 5 months. We dated for 2 years. Got over her in about 2 months.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 12:36 AM
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Dude no. You're lying to yourself. Believe me because I was doing the same thing a few months ago. Ex cheated and I wanted to meet up with her to get my stuff back (trivial stuff I didn't really need) but really I was making excuses to see her again. Check my post history, it's there. I haven't talked to her in months and it feels so good that I truly don't care about her anymore (she still calls and texts, I ignore). No contact ever again. You can do it man.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 04:28 PM
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I picked up my first one night stand ever (last friday) while wearing a long sleeve tee so there's that.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 05:57 AM
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I'm not someone you'd probably want an answer from since my count is fairly low, but lately I've been seeing a lot of minor success when going out (makeout sessions mostly). I've made out with more girls in the past few months than I have my whole life and I realized it's because I'm going out a lot. Recently started a fairly high paying job out of college so I can afford clubbing pretty much every weekend. I think it's all statistics really. Also after a few times I've gotten the whole meet a g…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 07:46 AM
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I guess I need to push a little more/better. I definitely noticed when I'd take a step back she would move back into me, almost like she was trying to find my crotch again with her ass. I pulled my phone out to take her number before she left, and she's like "what's the point you're not gonna even call me". I said "I might text you". And she just turned around and left.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 02:09 AM
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The best thing I did after finding out an ex cheated was acting like I didn't care one bit. I played football with the dude at the beach (it was a group of guys, mutual friends, I'm not buddies with him by any means of course). It drove her crazy. She's still calling, texting, sending snaps months later. I don't even bother blocking. No reactions whatsoever, just read them and move on with my day. The best revenge is no revenge.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 08:32 AM
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What's wrong with having a couple drinks when you go out with friends to loosen up? As long as you're not overdoing it, there's nothing wrong with getting drunk.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 06:52 AM
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I have rules. I never do it on a weekday or Sunday, and only on those nights where you drink heavily (about twice a month). Drugs aren't so bad if you have some self discipline.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 05:44 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8AqvLEMa7iM Also, thanks for those thoughts. Live laugh love, it's been overused and sounds cheesy at face value but your elaborations were awesome. Good stuff.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 07:26 AM
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Lol my life isn't out of order brah. I make 80k out of college, 23 yrs old, just bought myself a new mustang, lift 5 days a week. I just can't seem to enjoy clubbing without being drunk or high. How would you even know my priorities from that one paragraph lol?
/r/askTRP17/02/16 06:34 AM
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Few questions for you. Were you drunk? What did you say when you went up to her? I have these new bad habits where I drink a shit load to get comfortable, do a line or two, and approach a girl with almost strict kino (grab her hands, turn her around, dance, kiss, etc). I need to learn how to talk without kino. I can do it in a calm setting (family dinner, etc) where the common questions are asked and life stories are exchanged. But how do you initiate in a loud setting like a bar or club? What d…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 03:29 AM
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Yes 2 year ltr, she cheated. Met a new chick about 3 months later (1 month after fully getting over it, I legitimately didn't care one bit about the ex anymore and started feeling sorry as she kept calling, texting etc). Fucked the new chick for about 2 months and was afraid to commit so she dropped. Now I can't stop thinking about her and what could have been.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 07:47 PM
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Bruh you sound really weird with that needles to penetration connection. Don't go around saying things like that, it's weird. Not everything is a symbol, sign, metaphor, whatever.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 11:23 PM
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It's almost hilarious how easy this is when the girl is really into you. Thinking back now, the last time I was able to do it I literally told her we don't have much time (parents were coming home), grabbed her hand, and took her upstairs.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 06:00 PM
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I'm kind of starting to feel the same way. I've been going clubbing almost twice a week, dancing with sluts, making out, going back home with them, and yet I still find myself thinking about an ex. You start to miss the connection/affection that a good friend provides.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 07:08 AM
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Can you elaborate a bit on using dread with family members? I hear that a lot here. How would that even work?
/r/askTRP19/01/16 06:21 PM
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Yeah in hindsight that was extremely dumb. I just wanted to win some of my dignity back. I should have gone the mature route and just shrugged and moved on. Oh well, on to the next one.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 04:54 AM
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If it comes up again change the subject immediately. Don't talk about these kinds of things with people, ideas that trp stems from. It's better to keep them in your mind, don't forget them, but don't talk about them. Keep everything light and fun. Once you go down the serious conversation route you're in trouble.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 04:50 AM
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Ok thanks man.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:41 PM
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It's the excessive number of questions isn't it haha. I know I'm not. I like this girl. That puts me at a disadvantage unfortunately. I still see her at church regularly so I'll have to say hey if I'm walking by just to keep my cool. I guess I'll keep it at hi and bye and in a few weeks go for the "how have you been?" or some shit.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:33 PM
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If you contact her for whatever reason in the near future. Wait what does this mean? If I contact her then what? You think I should contact her? Maybe approach in person, and try being cordial? I doubt that would work. I can see the outcome of that now. She's going to stomp away most likely.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:26 PM
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Will do. Will stay cordial whenever I see her in person. If she wants this she can make a move. I've made too many at this point.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 07:24 AM
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I ask myself that same question when I repeat to myself "don't chase after her, text her, try to win her back, don't tell her how you feel, how you fucked up and you miss hanging out with her...ego is more important." Sometimes I enjoy telling that inner voice "fuck my ego" and convincing myself I'm going to try getting her back. Maybe you shouldn't stop until you either get what you want or you hit a wall, and then turn around and go a different route (ie. move on). The skill here is knowing wh…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 05:58 AM
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Fuck. Thanks.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 02:14 AM
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Wiki about that is interesting. Can you explain how it applies here? Does it relate to "didn't know what I had till it was gone" or took what I had for granted?
/r/askTRP13/01/16 10:14 PM
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I'm the same way. What I also don't understand is how women get over you so fast. I seem to get hung up over her when things end for weeks and wonder if she is doing the same. In most cases it's easy for women since they get validation from tons of guys left and right. My most recent chick though barely has any guy friends, it's always girls night out for her. I'm dying to text her and dying to know if she is too.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 08:11 PM
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Sit in a chair facing the wall, and stare at said wall for an hour. Fuck that sounds horrible haha.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:28 AM
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Oh have definitely cut her off. Since doing that I've scored makeouts at clubs with cuties ten times hotter than her, an fwb, high paying job, new car. Life is amazing after her. I just literally feel bad for her whenever I get a text. She knows she fucked up and lost a quality guy. Then I move on.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 07:22 PM
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Not looking for your remorse buddy but thanks for the insightful comment.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 07:55 AM
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I don't know. I think it's better left alone. There's a good chance I'll see her again when I go back home for vacations and such. We have the same friends so I'll be cordial when we're in the same room but that's more than enough. I wouldn't wish what she put me through on anyone.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 11:01 AM
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Lol who pissed in your cereal
/r/askTRP09/01/16 06:58 AM
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Makes sense. My situation is more of the former, she wanted to commit, I thought I didn't, she pulled away, I realized I took what I had for granted and told myself I don't want an ltr when maybe I did. Radio silence from both ends right now. Awkward accidental eye contact when we see each other at church.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 05:28 PM
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Does this also apply to a fwb/plate you wouldn't commit to but then decided you would? Ie. You followed trp stuff thinking committment is bad I don't want commitment and then realized you kind of do.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:50 PM
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Definitely can't.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 03:07 AM
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What about an engineer who works at google and plays video games and watches anime and also likes to go hiking and biking and is hot as fuck? 7 billion people in this world, you're bound to find a lot of everything.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:10 PM
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While that's all true, that has nothing to do with my point. I was just saying not all girls are typical no hobby, facebook loving hoes.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:09 PM
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That accurately describes way too many woman, but does it describe all? You can't say there isn't a cutie out there that enjoys anime, biking, hiking, video games, or whatever.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:22 PM
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I was planning on suggesting we meet up when I see her at church. Seeing her tomorrow most likely. You think I should say "let's get lunch" or just be friendly, chat a bit, and leave the meetup thing alone?
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:40 AM
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Sounds good, thanks man. I feel whenever I get distant she tends to miss the attention and starts sending snaps, etc. The push/pull dynamic really does work.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 07:56 AM
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Good shit man. Thanks. Usually things that make me happy or things that I enjoy are just simply being with other people. Family is great, but sometimes I miss hanging out with a large group of friends. When I first moved where I am now (about 3 months ago), I met this girl (through family/church), she introduced me to her friends, and I was going out a lot with them. Hiking, biking, clubbing. I love all those things but I don't really enjoy them alone. Most of my guy friends have moved away. (I …
/r/askTRP05/01/16 04:22 AM
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Sheet you're right.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 04:01 AM
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No picture
/r/askTRP30/12/15 04:45 PM
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Ah I love using that last one. Fwb who would act shy and worried her parents were going to find out about us: (when I was leaving her house) "don't touch me, don't hug me". I look around to make sure the coast is clear, lean in, grab her face and kiss her for a good 10 seconds. "Did you like your hug?" smirk. She sits there frozen with a smile like wtf just happened I love it.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 06:50 PM
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Holy shit that is so me haha. I shall be the man with a persistent boner 24/7. Next time I see her I'm going to chat up all the women around then go to her last. I'm getting that ho back.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 08:11 AM
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Well if she loses attraction then we're at the same level of seeing each other as friends right?
/r/askTRP29/12/15 08:06 AM
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I hate how I have every one of these points down except the abundance. Goddamn that part is difficult.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 07:23 AM
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Good stuff, thanks man.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 06:20 AM
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Damn wish I read your reply before getting greedy and trying to set up a date. The rest of the convo: me: ok me: how about next sunday me: wait shit i cant sunday (genuinely forgot that i cant sunday) her: ill be in la me: ok next week her: im literally so busy her: we will figure it out after new years me: sounds good Sounds like she's playing hard to get, but i wasn't even expecting her to say yes so we'll see where this leads. I'm thinking of radio silence until the 4th or 5th and setting som…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 05:04 AM
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Thanks dude. Our convo just now: me: hey her: hi me: lets meet up her: ok her: after new years Good sign? Something tells me she said after new years because she wants to see what kind of stuff I post when I go out. We are going to different parties. I posted me kissing girls on snapchat twice when I was seeing her and she gave me shit for it. I mostly did it for dread to keep her around, and it worked for only a bit. It was something extremely stupid to do, obvious dread like that is dumb, I re…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 04:39 AM
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What about when I text her hey and she replies immediately? I guess she somewhat cares if she replies back that fast. What do I say? Start with small talk and lead into lets meet up?
/r/askTRP28/12/15 03:56 AM
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She did mention once she wanted to talk but she kind of mumbled it and when I brought it up over text she didn't reciprocate. I'll do it in person. I see her at church, probably tomorrow. Thanks so much for this dude.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:27 PM
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I think I'm going to try to reinitiate contact and tell her how I feel. If she doesn't share those same feelings anymore, so be it. I'll get over it just like I got over my cheating ex and find someone new.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 09:35 AM
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I probably shouldn't want commitment, should have learned a lesson after getting fucked over by my last ex ltr. Though I've been thinking about it since we (fwb) stopped talking 2 weeks ago and I realized why live life that way, always being afraid of real relationships just to protect myself. Instead, maybe I should have the courage to be willing to be vulnerable even when there is a risk of being hurt. Life is all about gambles. Sitting around and wondering if she still likes me because I care…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 06:24 AM
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What if it were the latter case? How would I go about talking to her again, and making it known she actually means something to me?
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:22 AM
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There's no way this dude isn't trolling.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 05:29 PM
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Made out with a chick who looked like selena gomez at the club a month after being cheated on by an ex ltr. This spur of confidence led to a new high paying job, new car cause of the job, new fwb (not the selena gomez unfortunately). Life went from absolute shit this summer to being at the highest smv I've ever been at.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 11:17 PM
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Lol ouch. Oh well, ontothenextone.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 01:38 AM
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She said she loved me midway through our first time having sex haha. Definitely can.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 09:41 PM
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Solid advice, thanks.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 08:08 PM
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Right before sex...also stupid I know. At least I ended up with the best fuck session of my life though. (I was coked out of my mind lol, was fucking her like it was the last fuck of my life)
/r/askTRP19/12/15 08:07 PM
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Wow this is amazing, thanks dude.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 08:23 AM
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Goddamn this is all too true. I need to revert back to hanging with my guy friends. I fell into her frame and fell hard.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 06:10 PM
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My body and fuckig are pretty solid haha. Game and frame need a lot of work though. You're right on the ltr, not time for that now. Thanks.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:41 PM
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Wow this sounds a lot like my scenario. Would like to hear replies to this.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:39 PM
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Probably because she's the only one I was fucking. I don't know how people do it around here, have mutliple prospects. I'm lucky if I can pull one plate every few months.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 07:10 AM
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How do you make that call? Straight up tell her let's be exclusive?
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:01 AM
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Lol interesting outlook on this. A 10 message exchange takes an hour? You could text in between sets at the gym haha. I see your point though, she'd probably end up clouding my thoughts as well. Why hasn't she texted back, what's she up to, etc. I like option B. This soft next is going to be fun, looking forward to seeing the outcome of it.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 06:01 PM
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I told her I'm not much of a texter and that was that. Regarding commitment, I told her we're just having fun after she kept pestering. Probably not the best reply. I think you nailed it on the connversations vs pinging though. That sounds like solid advice. Will try that from now on.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 05:50 PM
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Oh man I was in your same exact spot this summer. I mean it, not exaggerating. Same exact situation. I couldn't eat, sleep, I felt like absolute shit for a month and a half. I'm the happiest I've ever been in life right now. New job, car, friends, and fwb. Life is amazing. Cheating ex sent another text the other day. I read it, closed my phone, and went on with my day laughing at the thought of how sad I was over this bitch only 2 months ago. Things really do get better. Keep improving yourself.…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 02:51 AM
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Oh man this is so true. My case exactly right now. The urges to text her come whenever I'm bored/horny. Should always keep busy and find new chicks to plate.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 07:45 AM
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Um I don't care about the downvote. I care to hear the reasons behind it. Downvote means disagreement, which means I did something wrong there. I want to hear what that is so I can fix it.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 04:36 AM
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Will do, thanks dude.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:43 PM
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Even if she initiates a hangout? I don't go for it right?
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:23 PM
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Reasons for the downvote? Would like to know what I did wrong here.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:14 PM
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That was me punishing bad behavior. She came over and refused to blow me. She was on her period. We were making out in bed, most clothes came off, and twice she would kiss me all the way down to the pelvis and stop. Muttered something about teasing me. We ended up leaving the bedroom abruptly. I kept it cool though obviously, just decided to next her for a short while with that busy response.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:56 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean. I'm keeping texting to logistics only so I haven't been doing any "fun" things over text. Except for once when I sent her this "👉👌?" when we were in the same room as our parents (we're family friends) and she replied positively. I definitely keep things light and fun in person when we go out. We've gone out 4 times now. I met her a month ago.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:39 PM
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Damn I only got a bj and one fuck out of this chick. Oh well.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:25 PM
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Why did you hard next? Just curious. If you don't wanna share it's cool.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:07 PM
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When I say love in my responses above this is pretty much what I mean. True love is parental love. The rest is as you said dopamine and excitement and getting used to one another.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 10:29 AM
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I'm talking about post marriage standards. Since we're talking about who is capable of love, the mutual love is there already. So marriage or ltr.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 10:25 AM
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I'm giving you my opinions here. Sure men don't either. I don't treat trp like a religion, I agree with a lot of the points made and disagree with some. But there is a standard in society that men are held up to. That is to not become beta. (It's hard to say women have a similar, harsh standard.) That's all I see trp as. A guideline on how to be a man, not become a needy bitch, and lead your women. You become beta, that love you see in that video vanishes.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 10:12 AM
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Hahaha that was too funny. Got goosebumps watching that. But to address your point, I think women are capable of love. It's just not the same unconditional love a mom provides her kids. If the dude gets too comfortable (want to avoid using the word "beta" here, but it's the same thing), you can be sure she leaves him and he'll be the one sobbing.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 10:01 AM
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I like your style.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 06:14 AM
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This is a fun situation to be in honestly. Have fun with it, as the other responses suggested.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 12:35 AM
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Yeah that threw me off. 3D animation is awesome.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 07:01 PM
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Every time I remember how I cried over my ex only 1.5 months ago I laugh to myself. How stupid could I be to cry over someone who valued me so little that they'd cheat on me. No girl is worth it man. Save love for your family. I'm currently fwbs with this new chick and a lot of the things repeat themselves. You find new cute things in this person, you do fun shit together, she makes you laugh, you have sex, and realize that the old one was not special. No one ever is the one. They're all replace…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:45 AM
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Don't ask if she has a boyfriend. Flirt during the hike, wait for IOIs, go for the kiss.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 08:52 AM
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You honestly sound like you are interested, but trying to convince yourself you aren't for whatever reason. Just my opinion. Decide what you want and go for it.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 08:50 AM
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Are you seriously asking if it's ok to not be interested in a chick? Yes it's ok dude. Do whatever you want. damn.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 08:47 AM
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My thoughts exactly.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 09:36 PM
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I still do eskimo kisses with my fwb. That shit's fun.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 07:57 AM
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Wut broh
/r/askTRP23/10/15 06:17 AM
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Good stuff, thanks dude.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 01:04 AM
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I've started it. Also watched that video where he explains how to get a bj. He mentions pleasuring her first (which I did by sensually kissing neck, titties, stomach), 69 (not possible due to period), or putting sweet stuff on your dick. Maybe I should have tried that last one. I was pretty aggressive, guiding her head and such. Twice she would start kissing me from the chest, go lower, reach my pelvis and stop. It drove me crazy.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:56 AM
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My go to response when I just don't give a shit. You shouldn't here.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:45 AM
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"okay"
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:40 AM
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Maybe she's trying to do just that, tick you off. Maybe she's sensed you don't want any commitment since you haven't responded to her hints about wanting to be in a relationship. I would take it as her trying to fuck with you.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:34 AM
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By go caveman do you mean be more aggressive/demanding for the bj?
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:31 AM
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Damn haha, women are psycho. Will keep to logistics. Thanks for the awesome song though!
/r/askTRP20/10/15 11:29 PM
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The thing is when you hang out with someone and spend a decent amount of time with them, there will inevitably be some connection formed. This specific song was relative to our last hang out. But I see why I shouldn't send anything that doesn't have to do with logistics. I think the occasional snap is ok, to remind her I exist and am socially adept (social media is a big part of today's life, you have to admit).
/r/askTRP20/10/15 06:13 AM
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would feel really disgusted at myself if I slept with anybody else. Textbook definition of oneitis right there.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 10:36 PM
2

Doing what I want got me cheated on. Doing what I want consisted of texting my last ltr whenever I felt like it. And saying whatever was on my mind. Apparently that shit doesn't fly in the real world.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 04:21 AM
1

Sounds like the best advice, will make this my goal.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 04:07 AM
1

Funny guy
/r/askTRP13/10/15 04:06 AM
1

I think my problem is I really want to perfect this whole alpha thing. I've never gone this fast with a chick and my success after following advice on here is super addictive. I should just be cool. Not overthink things, but not revert to my old beta self at the same time. Have fun, essentially. Thanks for the tips.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 10:17 PM
1

Isn't plating essentially doing ltr things without the exclusivity? Pretty sure that's what I want.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 08:19 PM
1

Already made wrong moves in my last BP relationship. Trying to do things right this time.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:05 PM
1

Ok she just texted first haha. Guess we've got a bait and hook. Will try to set something up for Thursday, to keep weekends open for hanging with bros. Thanks guys.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 02:00 AM
1

That last part is why ltring a virgin is scary. She starts to feel like she wants new dick after a while, she feels like she's missing out in life. I speak from experience.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 06:14 AM
1

Oh trust me, not giving her that vibe at all. She thinks I don't give a shit, she told our friends this. Faking it till I make it.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 10:25 PM
2

Yeah I have...It's getting a little sad, I realize. I'm obsessed with getting instant advice/comments on everything regarding this breakup. It has controlled me though, I should stop giving her anymore thought.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:42 PM
14

Fuck this guy is good.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:05 PM
1

Hahaha, yes that is straight out of sarah marshall. "My dick doesn't wanna be around you anymore!" I'd be like bitch don't touch. You ain't worthy.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 02:21 PM
1

It's very hard to believe people like that exist. I got burned by my 2 year ltr who used to fucking worship me. My friends of 6 years didn't even have my back. I don't think people outside of family are capable of giving a crap about anyone but themselves.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 01:12 PM
0

Spending 2 years with someone and then having them not care about you anymore feels very strange. I just wish she still cared.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 01:04 PM
1

Lol I wish it were like this. She cheated and wants nothing to do with me relationship wise. Only wants to "be friends" to relieve herself of guilt. Forgetting about her would be so much easier if she were chasing. It'd feel good.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:49 PM
1

Was only here back home for vacation. Going back to the US for work. Moved there last year. Need to develop a new social circle over there. Hopefully I'll be able to do that this year. My mind was still here when I left last year. Mainly cause of her.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 11:16 AM
2

Honestly I think I just want an excuse to see her again. I saw her yesterday in a mutual friends gathering and I didn't feel super confident around her, at least only initially, then I felt like I lost it. Felt like she was "winning" with all the attention the guys were giving her (they are white knight betas who didn't have my back through this whole thing). Wanted to see her today to take my stuff, have her look me in the eyes with a "lets talk about this" look, and drive away. We are both lea…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 11:03 AM
1

Damn dude. 6 years. Fuck I'm barely over my ltr of 2. Good on you man, nexting and not dwelling, how it should be done.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 10:30 PM
2

You shouldn't have told her if nothing happened.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 01:43 PM
1

I can relate to this discrepancy. My ex is probably around an HB4 or 5. I went for her because I found her clumsiness to be funny and amusing. I wanted a relationship. I wanted to be wanted. As time went on we created memories together, lost our virginity to each other, etc. Cue the attachment. Now I wish I could fuck her because of my oneitis, yet I know she's not very pretty. She doesn't want me anymore though, go figure. Acting beta pushes away even the ugliest of the ducklings.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 10:10 PM
2

Those last words are worrying. Sounds like the ltr didn't end on great terms and you're looking for revenge. Don't. Revenge is a petty emotion. I think about bashing in the head of the dude my ex cheated on me with everyday, I think about yelling in her face, but I never will. I'll just move on and live a good one and eventually the news of my success will reach her somehow and she'll hate herself for fucking us up.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 09:09 PM
3

Women aren't as you thought they were. Women as you see/hear about them in movies, songs, books, etc are not what they are like in the real world. Women need a shoulder to lean on, they cannot be a shoulder for you to lean on. You talk about your feelings/problems with one person you trust, your best guy friend, cousin, etc. Never show weakness to anyone else. Nothing in life is ever guaranteed, be ready for hardship and the unexpected.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 12:16 PM
0

A woman of course, my sister...
/r/askTRP06/09/15 08:34 PM
1

She just texted me. Didn't call. I didn't reply.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 01:30 PM
0

They only meant well cause they saw how devastated I've been from this whole thing. They don't understand that the bitch wants the attention and will feed on any confrontations regarding the situation.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 11:20 AM
1

Dude the burst of confidence I got just reading this. Holy shit. Gonna go tonight. Thanks.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 11:53 AM
1

There was a really long comment here that someone posted. It was really good, wanted to read it again but it was deleted I guess. Not sure why. Thanks everyone for the comments. I really appreciate it. I can't wait till these feelings pass.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 11:39 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP01/09/15 11:56 PM
3

Goddamn I don't know. They probably think I don't really care. We have this group text thread where a bunch of people are in it. She's always pretty much the only girl who ends up coming. She comes with her new dude, soaks up validation from the other guys, and makes me watch meanwhile. I've decided I won't be going to these outings anymore. Seeing her is making shit worse. I'll only go if I know for a fact she won't be there.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 11:04 PM
15

I think losing your virginity to a prostitute is a billion times better than losing it to someone who "falls in love with you" and then cheats on you 2 years later. That shit stays with you. (Apologies if that didn't help, I'm still bitter.)
/r/askTRP01/09/15 09:53 PM
22

I am so thankful for this community. You guys are awesome. Only wish I found you sooner. Thanks.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 09:22 PM
1

I like this response the best, as it sounds most like something I would do. It is convenient to keep hanging with them until I go back (2 weeks left) so I'll be doing that while keeping in mind they aren't very loyal.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:12 PM
1

It's more along the lines of this friend is one of those mr nice guys who must please everyone. After my ex bitched to him about not telling her about plans (a couple weeks ago) she threatened his mission of having everyone he talks to be satisfied. So he started telling her about plans, and I assume not telling me to avoid awkwardness, etc.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:11 PM
1

I came back here (home) for vacation. I'm going back to the US in two weeks (for work). She's moving there too (to the same state). I've been friends with these guys for 6 years. She's known them for around 2. I think they should be inviting me when they go out...
/r/askTRP31/08/15 12:56 PM
3

It was an almost 2 year long ltr. We are all part of the same social circle. I definitely don't mind them telling her when we go out, but they better tell me too and let me decide if I want to be in the same room as her or not. Will try saying that to them, thanks.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 11:23 AM
1

Makes sense, thanks.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 02:44 PM
1

Same group of friends, she ends up being where I go sometimes. Though this is only temporary as I'm going back to the US after my vacation ends.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:08 PM
1

Exactly how I feel after being cheated on by my 2 year ltr. You always go through life thinking things would never happen to you. And when something does it's very very hard to swallow. I'm not handling it so well...
/r/askTRP21/08/15 01:37 PM
1

I'm curious why this was downvoted.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 11:49 PM
0

I really really want to do this, but I don't want to make our outings with mutual friends awkward. I'm acting totally cool if she approaches and talks to me, yet still dry and I end the conversation quickly. I'm planning on going nuclear and deleting her from everything once this vacation ends. We'll both be moving to the same state, she expects us to meet up and shit. That's definitely not happening.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 08:58 PM
0

I have been taking the I don't give a shit and I'm totally fine approach. It's somewhat driving her nuts, saying things like how are you so fine with it, etc. But I'm realizing the more we keep texting the more I stay attached. I've since stopped replying.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 08:45 PM
1

Taking this advice, thanks.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 12:23 PM
1

Part of me doesn't want to poison the well since I'm trying to game and fuck her best friend. We were at a party last week where we danced the whole time, tried to go for the kiss but she was totally sober, didn't work out. Cheek and neck kisses all over though. Ex was a jealous little bitch the whole time. Her best friend loved it. Was great. This friend only goes out with us if my ex does, she's very weird/complicated.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 11:52 AM
1

They kind of aren't. They only invite her when they really have to.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 10:50 AM
0

I wouldn't mind a last fuck. But she told me she's "seeing the guy" which I half don't believe, I don't think he wants her. Waiting for her to come crawling back so I can tell her to fuck off.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 09:42 AM
1

Right makes sense, thanks.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 09:28 AM
1

They are definitely more my friends than they are hers. I introduced her to this group. It's also mostly guys. I can't ditch plans with my guy friends for her, I don't care if she's there and I am too. So I wouldn't want to say I'm not going if you do.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 09:11 AM
0

She's actually pretty ugly. You wouldn't want them. I'm just hung up because I developed oneitis over my first fuck.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 11:58 AM
1

Thanks, this really helped. I'm starting to rebuild internal happiness. Hopefully this lasts.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 12:10 AM
1

Wait hold up. Who said I don't want to cheat? I cheat, girlfriend doesn't.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 07:51 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:10 PM
1

That's pretty much what it is.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 01:26 PM
1

What if I am willing (and have) cheated? I know that's fucked up and everything but I have my needs as a guy. What she doesn't know won't hurt her. Of course that logic doesn't fly on the flip side - she can't go fucking guys. Why? I don't know that's just how I feel. Maybe I'm a hypocrite.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 01:24 PM
1

Alright thanks.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:14 AM
1

True, but (excuses coming up...) she's back home where all our friends still are. I had to move away to start a career - I graduated before her. She has the upper hand in that I had to basically start from scratch. I did meet some girls where I am, went out with them a couple times, used snapchat for some dread game. That worked a bit I guess. Though still no phone calls. Will keep at building the abundance though. Maybe more will do it.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 01:51 AM
1

Since I won't ever be able to know, what should I do? Should I fuck her when I get back? I don't want to do that if she cheated.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 01:38 AM
2

Hmm I guess so. Such is life.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 01:28 AM
1

So you're suggesting from her behavior that those are all the signs I need correct?
/r/askTRP29/06/15 01:22 AM
1

Bruh give me actual advice. That shit don't help.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 12:24 AM
1

Yes except this is an LDR haha. Will try this when I'm back. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:41 PM
1

Ok please guide me. I will do exactly as you suggest haha. I believe I have a decent amount of self control. When you say don't contact her, that means don't initiate? Or don't even respond? As of now I only reply to her texts and keep them very short. Hence the "why are you being dry?" 's
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:32 PM
1

Yep though the frustration is coming from the fact that she doesn't seem to be phased by our dying relationship. We haven't cybered in like 4 months I think. She started claiming she didn't like it even though we had done it plenty of times before. Forget that though, we haven't spoken on the phone in over two weeks. Haven't skyped in like 3. I'm doing the opposite of chasing and it's not working. I think the issue is I dug myself a deep hole with some major beta qualities. The only thing that w…
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:25 PM
-1

She does text this guy a lot. I know that for a fact. But they're just friends from college, same majors - they mostly talk about education and such. I mean you can never really know until you know for sure right? There's no point in worrying about that now. I think it'll be obvious when I see her again - if there's any hint then I confront, if she confesses or stutters then it's done. Pretty simple.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 10:59 PM
0

I really don't feel like that's the case. Sure by saying that I just sound like every other beta guy who has been totally oblivious to his cheating whore of a girlfriend, but I really doubt that's the case. I don't know why, sometimes you can just tell. Really not enough red flags. I think the fire is just dying out and the only thing that will rekindle it is seeing each other again - an opportunity where I can show some true alpha qualities (whilst enjoying myself - out with friends and playing…
/r/askTRP28/06/15 10:52 PM
1

Will try that next time.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 10:47 PM
1

Been doing that, but what about when she asks why I'm being dry? I just say something along the lines of "everything's cool, not being dry" right?
/r/askTRP28/06/15 10:41 PM
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