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ADVICEbiohacking-babe/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 02:40 PM
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ADVICEbiohacking-babe/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 03:02 PM
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Ask for more support from him, 6 kids is no joke.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/26 03:29 AM
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I’ve seen the same, and I think it’s an economic indicator. Men want back up and reassurance in these unstable times we’re living in. And couples are much slower to start families so men also like women doing something in the meantime
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/26 10:40 AM
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I think she was in the right position to do so due to job and social circles - and most importantly it appears she openly values wealth and success in men. I don’t think most female celebrities even go after such men, as they tend to be more independent minded. The most successful and beautiful women in entertainment rarely marry men who are better, and i have a hunch it’s not a priority for them.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/25 12:59 AM
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Is there a reason you don’t just get married? I know you’re young but 3 years is a long time
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/25 07:37 PM
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Amazing to hear, so happy for you 👏🏾
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/25 07:26 AM
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What happened exactly? Can you link the original post?
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/25 07:05 PM
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Oh my I’m so sorry to hear. Did you notice any signs he would turn out like this before marriage?
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 09:53 AM
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That’s what I thought, but seems expenses are very high
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/25 03:25 PM
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Go to vindictapoc sub for tips and people who can relate better
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/25 12:10 AM
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I don’t think she’s sulking about the markers, it’s his comment about the situation and if this applies to other expenses going forward.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 11:17 PM
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I see what he means about wanting something significant to them, because I had the same situation reversed with my partner. I’m much more affectionate and his upbringing wasn’t. I surely hope I didn’t one across as demanding!
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/24 07:23 AM
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So your husband would be entitled to all assets if you divorce?? Also don’t feel down about job hunting, the market is really bad in general now, even for very qualified people. Good you have the time to study, many people are doing this alongside full time jobs!
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/24 09:01 AM
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I don’t understand your point about cheating etc… this can happen in any relationship whether you stay home or not. And if you file for divorce you’re entitled to half the pension and a good amount of assets/funds unless you sign a bad pre-nup. Better advice would be to build up a good career/business before getting married, which you can continue with or use as a safety net. Women do have the responsibility of childbirth, and often do most of the child raising, looking after the home and keepin…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/24 08:55 AM
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Well you missed out the context that you were ‘forced’. It sounds like you are both better off separating. I still don’t agree you need to sleep with multiple men to come to that conclusion, it seems the issue is deeper than sex. Separating and dating others is a good way forward.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/24 12:27 PM
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Wow society has really conditioned you to believe you were missing something. Do you actually feel better having those 5 extra partners?
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/24 08:27 AM
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This post doesn’t seem real, the situation is bizzare. Why would you help a man 13 years your senior pay bills, cook and clean? And don’t get me started on the lack of actual commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/24 03:59 PM
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I thought I’m in red pill women
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/24 10:26 AM
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What’s fun about watching half naked women prance about anyway?
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/24 12:57 AM
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It’s random stuff, for example some health issues. It’s like he purposely won’t take my advice or see a different perspective, even though my family is in the health industry. But it’s not petty and ultimately doesn’t affect our relationship. He usually takes advice is a very delayed manner, as if he thought of it himself days later lol
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 06:22 PM
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Thank you! Ok good the rebellious thing is normal! Lol. So far communication has been collaborative so it’s good. I’ll try stick to suggesting if he asks, but let him take the lead
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 06:18 PM
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What is a shame culture? Would love to read more about that
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 04:16 PM
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I think planning things like NYE and moving closer shows he’s putting effort. And planning regular dates of course, and flying to you. Otherwise masculine men aren’t texting all day and sending emojis. Keep on spending time with him to see how the chemistry in-person develops. If you are more open and chatty, there’s nothing wrong with being more dominant in that area
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/24 09:24 AM
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Personally I think he sounds good. Women are typically the more attractive one in the relationship, and the man is more the provider, and it sounds like you have that dynamic. Men usually cool a little after the initial chase of a new relationship. It’s not their nature to be lovely dovey all the time. Focus on his consistency and reliability. I know it’s hard with the distance, but he’s already addressing that problem so sounds positive. Only issue I can see is the communication/chemistry. Are …
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/24 09:01 AM
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He’s enjoying the relationship vibes you give him, but is unwilling to commit. Whatever his reason is, don’t waste your time and catch feelings. I’d avoid anymore one on one activities
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 04:02 PM
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Can you not find a class with women, or maybe teach it?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/24 01:55 PM
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Troll alert
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 02:13 PM
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Thanks so much. I just told myself you really don’t know a person until a few months in at least. It’s easy to present a fake version of yourself at first, but hard to maintain over time. I also looked out for serious gestures before I got more excited. 99% of men will not make any special gestures, paying for dinner, inviting you on a trip, meeting his friends etc are basic.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 09:23 PM
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It’s already hurting your intimacy if it makes you feel bad about yourself. The damage is done, so best to discuss it
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 09:18 PM
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Well done on putting yourself out there and going on dates! And seems you’re attracting better candidates. I’ve been guilty myself, but don’t get excited about a man early on. I was in your shoes about 2 years ago and felt hopeless. But I’ve met someone and we’re discussing marriage
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 04:14 PM
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Technically the truly ladylike thing would be to let him come and visit you again, or pay for the whole ticket cost. That how he can truly lead. That’s why there’s rules in courtship, because it avoids such drama and confusion.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 05:50 PM
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Have you noticed it’s always the high earning educated professionals who claim they could never earn enough for a family? Strange huh. I think it’s more a mindset shift that he needs. He needs to worry less about competing with his other professional friends on who has the shiniest stuff and fanciest private schools, and focus on his family.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 10:29 AM
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You need to put your foot down. If he wants a stay at home mum and for you to raise the baby primarily, tell him you won’t be using your saving and he’ll be the main provider. So you’ll need access to his accounts etc. Period. Not even up for debate really. Please have strong boundaries at this crucial time
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/24 10:21 PM
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He may just be getting more comfortable. Many men aren’t big texters. Don’t get clingy and let him initiate the next date. Let him miss you. Get busy with your friends etc
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/24 10:10 PM
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I’m sorry, it sounds like he’s ready to break up but hoping you’ll do it first out of frustration?
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/24 08:26 PM
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Those are very sweet actions, and he must have a great personality for sure. On the other hand people who are good friends or family can also do these things for eachother. What did you see in the way of romance and passion? One way to tell early on is if a man initiates most of the relationship from the start. So asked you out first, plans dates consistently, you meet his friends first, he brings up marriage etc first. What I’d recommend is the book ‘The List’ by Corbett. The 30 day rule is a b…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 07:12 PM
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When you say he put in a lot of effort, can you specify exactly what he did that made you think he was serious?
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 12:29 AM
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It sounds like an updated version of the actual Rules book. There’s definitely a gap in the market for an in-depth book on app dating
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/24 10:00 PM
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Exactly, much better for the kids to see you in a happy relationship with someone that appreciates your personality, so they can seek the same
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 12:12 PM
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I read the first paragraph, and I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt … HE is the problem 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 12:08 PM
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‘Existing’ and your ‘femininity, personality etc …’ are the same thing to me
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 01:30 PM
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If it seems like he’s been enjoying the single life, then it’s all the more reason to be stricter and give him a chase. You’re doing good so far! Get very gradually warmer over a few months, so you’ll have time to see how consistent and reliable he is, and if he truly cherishes you and wants to make you happy and comfortable AKA boyfriend material
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/24 10:30 AM
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Why are you cooking for him in your house on the 4th date… if you’re not even exclusive? He’s trying to make the situation sound better than what it is, but read between the lines. Translation is it’s summer time, he’ll be travelling and wants freedom to sleep around. All you can do is let him go. If he decides he misses you, make sure he understands he only had access to you via courtship leading towards a relationship. He can decide if that’s what he wants
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/24 08:21 AM
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It’s not necessarily that he doesn’t take you seriously, he just excited about sex like most men. Did you already to go to his place? If not say you prefer to go out. And then if he offers a drink at his place after, you can accept to show him you’re getting more comfortable. But obviously don’t get too frisky and only stay for an hour or so. Basically get a bit warmer with each date. I agree to wait about 3 months or when he wants exclusivity before having sex.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 02:57 PM
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Darling, with no license it’s not a real marriage. I could have a wedding ceremony in my backyard, doesn’t mean I’m married. Tell this man he needs to marry you for real, otherwise it’s just pointless.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/24 08:26 PM
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It sounds like he feels too comfortable in the relationship, even though he hasn’t made a commitment. If you want to get the spark back, you should pull back a little. Make plans with your girlfriends, put more effort in your appearance as if you’re single, get busy… basically make him chase you again. Let him bring up any future talk. And when he does assert your boundaries - you’re a traditional woman who wants a proposal before moving in, and expects the man to be the main provider. Also make…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 10:15 PM
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I’m not really sure of the issue. This is a girl he knows in real life. So it’s not terrible to interact with her tweets a few times a year. She’s not a random OF girl, she’s someone he knows. Men hate being told what to do, sometimes they rebel subconsciously just because. Let him end the relationship on his own
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/24 08:30 PM
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I’m not getting a good feeling here. You’re about to embark on a demanding career, and he’s already showing signs that he won’t be supportive with household chores. Seems like it will just get worse when you actually start working. Not to mention the stress of relocating. And what about your young child, who’s the main caregiver? And do you plan on having more kids? I would really consider if you can handle all of this on your plate, whilst his only focus on his remote job. Also did you consider…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/24 10:44 AM
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You don’t need to pursue a man like that. If he knows you he’ll either pursue you or not. What you can do is try and be at more events where he’ll be, make yourself known to him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/24 06:15 AM
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Hmm sounds like you’re making a lot of assumptions here. Doesn’t sound like OP had a huge ‘career’ so I’m sure sure can pick up work if she needs to
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 11:30 PM
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I don’t think you’re his dream girl. He’s doesn’t seem extremely attracted to you, doesn’t provide for you or spoil you. He’s gaining everything here whilst you sacrifice so much. Once he’s finished his degree I predict he’ll get even worse.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/24 08:23 PM
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I love this advice, thank you 🥰 Totally agree to get my focus off him, which is what I’ve been doing and feeling so much better. When we are together and his daily actions don’t really align with his feats. It’s always hypothetical when discussing the future, hence my confusion. Agree it could a confidence thing, and I’ll keep reinforcing his good qualities and watching his actions.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 10:41 AM
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Well me and his ex are not the same people. He doesn’t have to do anything, but he knows my wishes and timeline
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 06:50 PM
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Unbalanced hormones and daily fluctuations due to hormonal cycles… I believe is the biggest underrated reason
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 02:59 PM
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Thanks for the responses everyone! I agree with the consensus he’s just been a commitment-phobe in the past. I will be strict with him, and if no engagement at the year mark, I’m pulling all the way back. I definitely won’t be dating anyone for 10 years haha.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 02:30 PM
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If that’s the case, she has some take some responsibility. Waiting for 10 years is crazy IF that’s what she actually wanted. My feel of the situation is that they used eachother for comfort and financial stability whilst they were climbing the career ladder. And then drifted apart once they reached those goals.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 01:57 PM
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I didn’t say it was perfect. He’s already admitted he wasn’t being a great partner due to his stress. But somehow thought they would get thought that. I guess he took her for granted, or they just drifted apart
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 01:52 PM
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Thank you! Yes we’re at that point were he is revealing a lot of details about his past, and shows he does want to work through that. I just need to ask the right questions and gather the right information. And he’s the one bringing up marriage and the future. It was from late 20s they got together, and I do suspect it was a comfort thing. They both relocated together etc. I think he preferred to do this with someone, and did she.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 01:49 PM
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Thank you! Yes im watching him closely and making sure he’s taking action, not just words. As far as I know, not engaged. But owned a home together.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 07:05 PM
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Could be the reason too
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 07:03 PM
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Yes exactly! He did say he was going through a rough time job wise - very high stress career etc. which probably affected the relationship. He was more shocked that she didn’t voice it or try to resolve, and just left instead. But maybe there’s other things he didn’t notice
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 07:03 PM
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Thanks! I’d only date him for 12 months with no proposal anyway. But don’t want any surprises when that time comes
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 05:00 PM
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