bisousophelia Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	where to shop for feminine clothes that aren’t revealing? I really like chicwish! They’re sizing is fairly limited unfortunately, but I really like all the peices I’ve gotten from there	/r/RedPillWomen	23/02/23 12:37 AM
14	I need advice from women My fiancé and I are 27, have been together for 10 years, and we started dating in high-school as well so we have a very similar story as you, and I think I was 23/24 when I ended up getting REALLY in my head about marriage even though we couldn’t afford it at the time. For myself, my soon to be husband is almost finished with med school, which meant he’s been in school ever since we started dating. This has meant we’ve also been pretty dang broke. 4 years ago, I just wanted to be married, I didn…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/02/23 06:36 AM
4	How to develop feminine traits in a stressful/rough family environment? or maintain them? Developing good habits that help you deal with stress/anxiety/high strung-ness will help you a lot! I’m naturally a very anxious person, but implementing meditation, stretching, gratitude journaling, and learning breathing techniques have really helped me be more chill day to day. Yoga could help with that as well! For swearing you just gotta break the habit. Maybe set up a swear jar (as silly as it sounds) for yourself to help break the habit, and save up that money to buy yourself something as…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/06/21 05:03 AM
11	This is why Red Pill Women Exist. 22yr old female. "Made my first phone call, cheers to adulting." Ooof, this is in the r/anxiety sub and as someone who has anxiety, and major phone anxiety, this post is a little insensitive and has nothing to do with ‘why RPW exist.’ We can argue about why anxiety is so prevalent now days, and if it has anything to do with society. But all I see here is a young woman just out of college, making good steps towards conquering phone anxiety with a positive mindset. If she was crying and whining about mommy refusing to make phone calls for her, sure, whatever. B…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/19 09:22 PM
17	Respect refresher Considering the fact there’s very very few examples there and they’re ALL extremely culture specific and irrelevant to the question asked I don’t think this is as big as a mic drop as you seem to think.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/06/19 10:53 PM
2	How can you work on having a prettier heart? Oh my gosh, I work at the closest Starbucks to two MASSIVE churches and sundays before and after service are the worst! I’ve never seen angrier, more unpleasant people. I’m lucky I have a pretty thick skin, but even then there’s been several sundays I’ve barely made it out without breaking down crying. I honestly can’t even imagine how people can sit through a church service after treating a stranger like that	/r/RedPillWomen	04/05/19 07:37 AM
2	The Understanding Heart: an analysis of The Philadelphia Story I keep meaning to rewatch this movie! I was 15 or so when I saw it, and remembered loving it (especially Hepburn) but hating the ending! I have to wonder how much my opinion has changed now that I’m a (tiny bit) older and wiser....	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/19 02:56 AM
4	Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types? INFP and either a 9 or 5w6, although I think 9 fits me much more.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/04/19 04:55 PM
4	Boyfriend doesn't Love me after 9 months I told my boyfriend I loved him for the 1st time at around 9/10 months. He didn’t say it back. Said he couldn’t but that he cared for and appreciated me (‘I appreciate you’ used to be like his ‘I love you’ which I absolutely tease him about now). We’ve been together 4 more years now. I would say trust his actions and other things he says more than those three words but it really depends on the guy. My boy is definitely more analytical (med student) so he sat on it for a month, then told me he lo…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/02/19 05:15 AM
5	Long Distance Relationship Then I’d look into what might be his next best. Obviously physical would be ideal, but if that’s not possible then you need to crack down on what his secondary might be. Gifts? Send him small care packages every-once in a while. Words of affirmation? Text him randomly with no prompting about how much you love and appreciate him. While distance obviously isn’t ideal there’s a lot of options out there (especially with the internet). I know my SO in the past has also liked handwritten letters, taki…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/19 03:23 AM
3	Long Distance Relationship Do you know what his love language is? Because that’s important to keep in mind too and honestly more important if you’re looking to make HIM feel loved and appreciated	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/19 02:56 AM
2	Do you drink alcohol? Yes. I’m a fairly anxious and self conscious person (not medicated) so a drink or two in social situations helps relax me and take off that on edge feeling. I’m very careful not to drink TOO much though, don’t want to make a fool of myself and I don’t actually enjoy being drunk	/r/RedPillWomen	08/12/18 03:08 AM
4	extremely introverted/socially anxious from birth - what do you recommend to get out of it? As a Barista myself, we love our regulars! Feel free to chat as long as we’re not swamped. Working as a barista has actually helped me a lot with not being so much an awkward introvert	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/18 02:19 AM