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bitterconsultant/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 06:08 PM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:50 PM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP23/11/17 03:35 AM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP13/10/19 05:57 PM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:00 AM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP14/12/17 11:30 PM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP15/11/17 10:00 AM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:13 AM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:51 AM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP10/11/17 06:54 AM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:01 AM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:00 AM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:35 AM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP19/02/18 08:34 AM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:08 PM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:50 AM
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bitterconsultant/r/askTRP24/07/18 02:33 AM
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You're right - that's nuts...
/r/askTRP15/01/20 11:50 PM
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Wait - are we talking 135lbs bench? I do 8 reps of 290lbs, 350 1RM. I have been known to overestimate the competition in all areas of my life though...
/r/askTRP15/01/20 11:38 PM
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I am waving my walking stick at you right now telling you to get off my lawn! :)
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:37 AM
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You're approaching a woman in a RELATIONSHIP at the GYM in your COMPLEX? Read the fucking sidebar, thirsty cuck. Don't shit where you pray (church of iron) Don't shit where you sleep (complex) Don't stand in line at the occupied bathroom stall when there are thousands of empty stalls all around you waiting for you to shit in them (chick in LTR) Lastly, don't come and post about how bad the boyfriend looked on asktrp to make yourself feel better. EDIT: don't go after post-wall mothers - is this a…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:41 AM
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People here say this, but at the same time 1. What woman will stick around for 1 year without commitment? 2. Why would anyone want to LTR a chick who was fucking a dude (and because it's not exclusive, probably other dudes) for a whole year without it being her boyfriend?
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:43 PM
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I had a girl say "I love you" while having sex on the first date. Awkward as shit... she quickly corrected herself "I mean I love this, I love this"
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:12 PM
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And you're* illiterate
/r/askTRP27/11/19 04:44 AM
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You need progressive overload. Start with one small gum, then build up until you're chewing five packs of bubblegum at a time. Use localised steroid injections as needed.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 04:14 AM
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Then you find him the next day and shank his mother, that mofo disrespected you!
/r/askTRP27/11/19 04:13 AM
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You say "Ummmm, okidoki then", roll your eyes with firmly closed lips, and leave. Then you look at your girl with smirk and say "I may be totally wrong but, was that guy hitting on me?"
/r/askTRP27/11/19 04:11 AM
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210 lbs 5'10" ~14% bf here, full natty since birth, don't take pre-workout or anything other than occasional protein shakes after gym sessions when I don't forget. Haven't reached my genetic natty potential yet in terms of size I think (my muscle growth has accelerated exponentially the last few years) but I choose to live my life, eat out, drink beers, enjoy myself and spend 40 mins per day 5 days a week at the gym + two 2 hour surf sessions on the weekends.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 03:54 AM
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Just browsing the listings for a rental, but will buy if something good pops up.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 06:22 AM
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With time you'll forget all about this red flag woman. Go to the gym and take long walks to get rid of the anxiety, and hang out with friends as much as you can. Once you feel better, go to the doctor to get tested for autism.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:20 AM
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I welcome oneitis and heart break as every time it fuels a long period of intensive self-improvement and I arise from the ashes as my next form of Super-Alpha.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 06:46 AM
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Actually, I'm a good looking and ripped guy who's got a lot of friends and do very well with women. I never receive compliments on my pictures on social media other than the odd "jeez - you're buff" when my arms are visible. I've noticed a lot of betas and 'friendzone' types of guys who get tonnes of compliments saying "you look so good <3" or "such pretty eyes" etc. I think it's the same as women commenting on each other's shit saying "omg you're so pretty I wish I had your boobs teehee".. does…
/r/askTRP25/10/19 03:11 AM
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Just an Update: Ended up texting her that I had fun but not looking for anything at the moment. She replied basically saying she's fine to be my plate/FWB and she will wait until I want to see her. I said I'm ok with casual.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 08:09 AM
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Yes, I would if she made my life better by being a good team mate and if I had the freedom to go after my goals.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 05:11 AM
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Um ... not give a shit and move on? Bro, you wrote a whole essay like some baby who met his soulmate. It's a Tinder chick. Who cares, move onto the next one. You've clearly got scarcity mentality - fix it.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 05:00 AM
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Correct - and 30's is when they actually max, IF you've used your 20's correctly. Don't waste them - both I and my life are the best they've ever been at 31 and I only intend to keep improving both.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 04:59 AM
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I wake up at 5:30am to gym before work. Get home from work at 18:00 and have until 21:00 when I go to sleep. Weekdays are for self-improvement, weekends are for enjoyment. This is adulthood until you retire.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 04:54 AM
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I do really well with women and have never had anyone diss me along these lines ... are they really shit tests? I'm starting to wonder...
/r/askTRP18/10/19 04:47 AM
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2 days of depression, followed by anger and revenge which manifests in extreme and disciplined self-improvement, primarily physical, but also professional, social and hobby-wise. If none of that works then suicide is always an option I can control.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 04:41 AM
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There is no advice other than eating big caloric surpluses. Your question reads: "I give up on the one thing that will make me bigger because of these excuses, please can you tell me how to cheat with a magical solution?
/r/askTRP18/10/19 12:27 AM
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Any girl that would come to your place as a first date is probably more dangerous than you are If she comes to your place, you don't have a safe exit if her online pics were from 2010 before she overdosed on sugar
/r/askTRP17/10/19 11:34 PM
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Wake up at 5:30am and make the bed. Weigh myself. Put my gym clothes on first thing. Make a coffee. Take a shit. Go to gym for 45 mins. Come back from gym. Take my protein shake, vitamins, fish oil, calcium and vitamin D, turmeric. Shower, brush teeth, wash face with facial soap, put on moisturiser. Put on suit, ready laptop, head off to work. I commute on the ferry to work, so I use those 30 minutes on the ferry to go through work emails, watch my favourite surf vlogs, and/or listen to audioboo…
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:53 AM
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Dexter
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:32 AM
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She's obviously insane.... run away
/r/askTRP19/08/19 06:42 AM
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Wow, the arrogance of some of these uggos ... hoe you're not even worth a dog humping your leg, yet you want a 6'3" fit lawyer with model-like looks riding up in his BMW to pick up you and your bastard kids for a weekend at his beach front property, as if this is a minimum requirement? No wonder they all end up alone with a house full of cats. Zero self-awareness.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 04:17 AM
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I don't consciously do it, but lately have been walking listening to 'Hopsin - Picasso' and it makes me walk like a force to be reckoned with. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jc1BoiPj4Kc
/r/askTRP18/08/19 12:48 AM
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He might be making more than minimum wage, who knows
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:28 AM
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31 also, and thanks
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:17 AM
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Here's one of those instances where a comma is appropriate, my man
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:09 AM
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Is there anything we can do to help with this appeal? I want to add that free speech is dying and we are entering an age of a fascist left... shame on Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 09:56 PM
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You're in blue right? Didn't mean you, mean the general attitude bitch(es) (there were some saying y'all, might have mixed it up from the quick look I had). I've kind of blended them all together and imagine a bitchy old hag saying she's too old to deal with an entitled child. As if his/her life is full of important shit. I don't think you were wrong here and I think they're losers to immediately jump onto the mob mentality train. Nevertheless I've learned that there's no point arguing with some…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:25 AM
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That illiterate "y'all" bitch sounds like a strong independent cat lady in the making.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:43 AM
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The fact that every "strong independent woman" has or is reading it put me off. Do they even realise that the same author wrote about how to pick these women up? Sometimes their sheeplike attitudes really irks me.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 10:13 PM
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Edit: after the fact I ordered a drink and asked her if she wanted one. She said "I don't drink I'm Muslim"... my God you just can't make this shit up I laughed so hard inside!
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 06:17 PM
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Why do you care? (Hint: you shouldn't)
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:44 AM
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Is it a coincidence that in middle eastern countries men wear dresses? I think not!
/r/askTRP11/08/18 02:50 PM
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Supply and demand - diamonds are so valuable because they're scarce. Pebbles have no value, so you focus on more important things. I am by no means at this level, but have about 4 women on call if I ever want anything, and a few weeks ago had 3 ONSs in 7 days ... That changed something in me; kind of feels like they have to be extra special to get my attention, and just a much bigger internal interest for other things (like focus on my hobbies, family, friends, alone time watching a movie with a…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:04 AM
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Get into investment banking or management consulting. Rather the latter as the former is hell on earth whilst the latter is just purgatory. Great investment to slingshot your career though. Get great grades and do relevant internships (I.e. either consulting or banking, maybe private equity if you can't get those two). Major really doesn't matter at all, brand names on the resume do. Good luck!!
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:44 PM
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Perhaps, my point to OP was that he seems to think being "mean" is good. Sure you shouldn't be a "nice guy", but he shouldn't go to the other extreme and be mean for the sake of being mean.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 09:52 AM
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And when I say being honest it's exactly that - honest with your intentions ... NMMNG and Models by Mark Manson puts it nicely.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 09:24 AM
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Hah - no I'm a selfish asshole. When I think of men I respect, they tend to be good men. That means that they treat people who do no wrong to them well (they don't go out of their way, that's nice guy behaviour who want things in return), but are more than happy to cut leaches out too without a second thought. Good kind men do good things with no expectation of anything in return. They do what they want when they want with no covert contracts.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 09:23 AM
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You can be an alpha without a mean bone in your body. Being nice in the real sense of the world is a virtue in my opinion. "Nice guys" are actually not nice, they're manipulative and dishonest. The worst kind. What you seem to be is a kind man, which in my opinion is very alpha.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 09:10 AM
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I work in management consulting now as a matter of fact - plenty of people your height or close.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 09:08 AM
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I work in the top of the business world and used to work at a top bulge bracket investment back in London. What you say is not true. Go for the career you want for other reasons than height anyway.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:58 AM
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Top 20% Fortnite ranking
/r/askTRP05/08/18 10:57 AM
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Isn't that weird though? Honest question, in the same position as OP but because I live in a new country/continent
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:32 AM
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Voting should be weighted based on knowledge and education about certain topics. Brexit and Trump would have been avoided if people who understand economics and foreign affairs had a 2x or 3x the vote.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:37 AM
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Agreed on the voting, don't have a view on the steroids as I haven't researched it at all.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:31 AM
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This would be mine too, but specifically around Islam seeing as it is such a mismatch of cultures and they try to impose theirs on western ideals.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:30 AM
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Nice one - be courteous but not too formal (it's refreshing for these older people who always talk business to be able to speak to a youngster who is not sucking up to them) and ask him questions about how he got to where he is at and what advice he has for you given your goals, both long term and within the company.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 11:23 PM
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GFTOD - Go fuck ten other dudes
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:13 AM
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And he said no - so there's no fight. Imagine if that were how lions did it; "I'm taking over your pride!" "Um ... No thanks I don't fight." "Oh, ok ... I guess, I guess ill go then"
/r/askTRP03/08/18 01:38 AM
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Doing good things for those less fortunate is something that has always made me feel my life had meaning. Unfortunately I don't do enough but would like to once my career slows down a bit and I exit the rat race. Edit: I would add that seeing a shrink is not just for those who are fucked up in the head. It's actually a very healthy thing to talk about your issues and feelings. (just don't do it to your plates or LTR)
/r/askTRP03/08/18 01:31 AM
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"Ambition" and entitlement to success means nothing. Every millennial has it, but most become nothing. Create a goal-tree for yourself. Let's take my goal-tree as an example, from back when I was in undergraduate (I'm 30 now): End-goal: "My goal is to be a successful CEO of a big company that I have ownership in" Key components of being this: Top education (Ivy/brand-name undergraduate or M7 MBA - I already didn't have the undergraduate part) Top relevant business experience (successful CEOs see…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 01:27 AM
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I'm still on my learners (even though Im 30, just recently started riding) - how would more experienced bikers feel about that?
/r/askTRP03/08/18 01:09 AM
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Sounds toxic. Will only get worse.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:46 AM
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Never met one
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:22 PM
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I don't work 9-5 ... rather it's a high-"prestige" 70+ hour a week type of job; but weekends are off limits for me, and made only for fun. Here's what I get up to: This is what a good weekend looks like for me assuming no going out and hangovers. If I'm hungover I only surf and maybe play golf; none of the other stuff as I feel too rough. Surf every Friday morning before work, and Saturday and Sunday with friends Motorcycle (got a 500cc bike, like to drive up to the cliffs and watch the city sky…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:25 AM
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Why would you waste your valuable years on such shit? You're only punishing yourself.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 10:53 PM
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No - I have a lot to hide.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 10:39 AM
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Reminds me of this scene https://youtu.be/DTtETj3MtzA?t=33s
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:49 AM
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That's an HB6 bro ...
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:42 AM
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In my experience, their "travels" are so superficial and they never actually grow from it. It's all about getting more attention by being "cool" for them. Call them Basic Travel Chicks ...
/r/askTRP19/07/18 09:50 PM
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Update: went on our second date yesterday, we made out all night and then she came home with me and we had sex. She's super into me and I now see that I am AF. Funny side fact, she farted in her sleep. :/ Thanks for all your comments guys!
/r/askTRP19/07/18 09:12 PM
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Since this is so fresh, I suggest hiding your phone or something that will make you unable to physically text her out of the blue. Also remove or block her from social media, or at least hide her. I recommend spending maybe 3 or so days just laying in bed, crying and sleeping as much as you need, and watching movies or something. I really do not think it's a good idea to try to bury the feelings by doing stuff now. But after those 3 or so days, get up, get out, lift at the gym like your life dep…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 02:51 AM
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Doesn't sound like Chad - "I'll never do that to you, I'll be so nice to you"
/r/askTRP19/07/18 02:43 AM
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What makes you sure I'm BB? Honest question, not disagreeing with you. I wonder how I became a BB in her eyes, unless she was just looking to make anyone that comes along into a BB?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 02:07 AM
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Gotcha! Thanks man!!
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:37 AM
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It's like, both ... but the marriage and kids stuff is her joking around apparently ... Man, this is confusing.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:29 AM
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What's her age?
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:01 AM
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Hmm - ok, looks like we will be going to cheap places only. Lucky girl ... :) How did your experiences end up? How long did you date them and why did it end?
/r/askTRP18/07/18 04:37 AM
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We already made out and she's texting me everyday (she starts). I asked her out on another date by asking "when are you free?" (usually I tell a place and time but intuition told me this would work best). She replied: "I am always free if it’s something what I want to do 😀or someone who I wanna see." So we are meeting tonight. We have chatted about me showing her my area (beach side) and she is keen so I'll invite her for dinner and maybe a hike or chilling at the beach this weekend if tonight g…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:35 AM
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update: went out with a 26 yr old HB8 tonight who I said this to about a week ago and she mentioned it tonight, giggled and said that she liked it when I said that.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 03:01 PM
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Did he find out about all the cheating?
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:36 AM
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I actually say: "Let's make this a two sided conversation - let me know when you have time to chat 😉" So far it has worked everytime...
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:30 AM
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Oh the irony
/r/askTRP12/07/18 01:25 AM
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You're an insect to people like me, and we treat you as such. We don't actively engage you because we barely notice you.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 02:37 AM
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What a pointless post from you. Completely unnecessary and childish. The dude is having a tough time and is asking for advice, not your immature regurgitation of whatever you've read here. Lacking independent thought is very beta, FYI. To the OP, I'm sorry to hear this. Try to pretend that you're a robot and force yourself everyday to do what you need to do. Take it day by day - each day's goal is to just survive and get what is needed done. Over time it will get easier to deal with.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 02:27 AM
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Wow
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:42 AM
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If you don't know him, watch him. BroScienceLife.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 10:57 PM
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Dom Mazzetti is natty and also the biggest out there.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 10:22 PM
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A very good friend of mine is a Saudi Prince and I've experienced the sort of thing that is spoken about in that post - but it has never been that extreme. Fair to say though, that being a decently handsome athletic dude in the midst of a club of 30% old unattractive rich guys and 70% super hot young women, I had my pick each time and all eyes were on me (they assumed I was also super wealthy because of my friend). This was for 10 days in Dubai and two nights in London - other times we have hung…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:49 AM
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could have been selective - maybe she riles him up or flirts, and then ignores and he gets angry and needy. my experience has been that if an ex is still in the picture, she's bad news.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:07 AM
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A piece of advice for anyone who still has their father - record conversations you have with him, both voice and video. I did this and am so incredibly grateful to myself that I did. Now I watch/listen to them every so often and it's as if he's right there with me and I could just reach out and touch him. If I ever have kids, they'll also be able to see and hear their grandfather they'll never meet in person.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 10:33 AM
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I wear A&F Fierce - have received a lot of compliments on it, particularly from dudes and my mom.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:44 AM
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Worst time of my life, sorry. It's very hard and 2 years later I am still struggling with it.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 09:22 PM
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I help CEOs make strategic decisions
/r/askTRP19/06/18 01:22 PM
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I wouldn't say a single word about it - women will always win that game. Only thing you can do is covertly disengage, slowly but surely. Easier said than done - I was in a similar situation and it was very difficult. She ended up breaking up with me, and it was clear she had zero respect left for me in the end. I still think it's her loss though, cos I'm a legend :)
/r/askTRP12/06/18 01:15 PM
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Well, that's a pretty clear sign of disrespect and seeing you as beta in my opinion. I would start to detach emotionally and downgrade her in my mind. Life is too short to be with people who are not 100% for you.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 12:01 PM
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The only reason she sees that sex with him as amazing was because she knew he was leaving soon after + some hindsight rose tinted glasses. I had an ex who started crying after sex because she knew I was going to leave a few months later. She was crazy horny for me. Then instead of saying goodbye those months after, we decided to move to the new country together. Not so crazy about me anymore. Either you're the Chad that got away, or you stay with her long enough to become the safe, unexciting vi…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 10:36 AM
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Thank you papa Jim! I love your beard, reminds me of my uncle Jessica
/r/askTRP07/06/18 09:13 AM
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agreed - that's how I feel as well :) I do like the friendships with my colleagues though, but that's about it.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 08:34 PM
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I actually agree with this. It wears you down. But they both open a lot of doors in business which ends up being red pill. It's just a means to an end, an investment of time, blood, sweat and tears to set you up nicely for the rest of your life/career. I've been doing MC for 1.5 years now post-MBA and will leave in 6 months for greener pastures.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 05:14 AM
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Haha 60-80 is management consulting (my current job). Investment banking is around 100 (my previous job). My worst week was 125 hours - it's interesting how a human can still operate on so little sleep (literally 1-2 hours per night for about 2 weeks incl. weekends.)
/r/askTRP26/05/18 02:14 AM
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Yesterday she wrote angrily again (she didn't leave me my key as promised) saying I need to give her the rest of the stuff or she will call the police or whatever. I didn't reply because I actually got worried she will never leave. She also said I need to repay the deposit (I already have and she herself said "keep $500 of it for damages etc") - now she wants the $500 back. Without replying, these were her last messages from yesterday - I didn't write anything in between these as I was in shock:…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:48 PM
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Hey - I haven't held onto her stuff on purpose. I had boxed everything up and told her she can get it, but she sent me a long list of like 50 items that were shared (kitchen stuff like knives and glasses) and told me to package it all and give it to her. I'm busy with my own life and don't have time to spend to be someone's mover, so I told her she can come up and do it herself under my supervision. She said no, so I said OK, then I'll give you whatever I see around that is yours. So I did that …
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:46 PM
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she dumped me though - same applies?
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:27 AM
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So what? I'm answering your question.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:09 PM
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Models by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:19 AM
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Subject Matter Expert underpants
/r/askTRP06/05/18 09:54 PM
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It's pretty pathetic how women (most women) just borrow personalities and characteristics from what they've seen around them and convince themselves that it's "deep" and they're "independent". Most women will just be a collection of mirror images of the men (or women) they at one point chased, and emulated to impress. There's no authenticity whatsoever.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 09:46 AM
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My story was different in the beginning but with the same end: she was very very into me in the beginning, but I kept the relationship going for an additional 1.5 years after her keenness turned into clear mixed signals. Same result: "tumultuous and painful relationship (predictable given what I know now) and a horrible breakup (also predictable)"
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:54 AM
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30 is young man!
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:19 PM
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Eeew...
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:19 AM
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say "lulz I was totally blacked out too, must have been a great night!! let me buy you dinner so we can get to know each other" This way you switch it to a fun vibe asap and either: Have dinner, and she willingly went on a date with you after the fact so no credible "rape" allegations can happen after that. You drop her after that and you win. She sees you as beta for wanting more and just wants to get away, so she rejects you with some lame excuse. You win again.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:30 PM
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what's the definition of better vs. lesser plates? I would assume a combination of: The ones that you are more attracted to The ones with whom the sex is better The ones who behave well and admire/treat you the best Thoughts?
/r/askTRP14/04/18 02:18 AM
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This is meant in all sincerity and no sarcasm despite how it sounds: you are wise. I especially appreciate this sentence: "Hierarchies are weak. Networks are strong. Stop strategizing on how to build a better basket to put all your eggs in." - this is very insightful and clever. My issue, I suppose, is that I've moved countries too often and have built strong networks, but left them and had to rebuild often. As such, I have an extremely strong global network but currently a relatively weak one l…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:38 AM
1

well I'd react the same if she were a 9/10. Of course my ego is hurt. I agree that your advice is spot on for future and I need to learn this lesson (and I believe I have), but for the present moment, given I made my mistake, should'ves and could'ves have limited utility. The business class thing doesn't fit in there, she could as well as she makes as much money as I do holding the same position. Is the reality that you can basically never really invest in anyone in order to never feel like this…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:11 AM
1

I hear you man, but with the 8/10 there's no history or emotional attachment and I'm not in love (read: person associated with frequent oxytocin release creating a chemical addiction). As such, I'm more aroused and attracted by the 5/10 than the 8/10.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:58 AM
1

Yes - both different country, Australia. And I plan on staying as I am an obsessed surfer and live 200 meters from a top beach break. I'll be leaving this job in 10 months once I get my permanent residence and hit the 2 year mark in the current position to open a lot of doors. Luckily I have taken two months unpaid leave to get away - booked my business class flights back to Europe to see family and friends and attend two weddings. This will give me some breathing room - I leave in a month.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 01:57 AM
1

Fierce by Abercrombie & Fitch is my scent.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:32 AM
1

are you dating my ex?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:56 AM
1

I hear you loud and clear - thank you!
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:35 AM
1

OK - so if I do 8 reps of 120kg bench I should be doing 8 reps of 180kg DL. I'll give it a try today with a belt - thanks
/r/askTRP04/04/18 12:35 AM
2

hmm - looks like I should be doing 220 or something. Maybe I should push it a little more. Thanks for the heads up!
/r/askTRP04/04/18 12:14 AM
1

haha - I don't want to risk my back with the deadlift. Also, trying not to tire myself out as I need my back to be rested for surfing as I need to arch it when paddling. What would the right deadlift be for me?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 12:01 AM
1

I agree with you, I have a history of neediness ... I'll read Models. Until now I was more focussed on LTR-type sidebar material, not attracting women, due to being in a LTR. Mistake. Thanks for the advice mate!
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:50 PM
0

Took her out for drinks and while we were making out and I was feeling her up I told her to come to my place - she said it's far and it's a work night. I see what you mean. What if my intentions weren't just to fuck? Generally they are, but I liked this one to possibly be a FWB that I can bring to work parties, etc. Edit: I didn't ask her, I told her. Seeing as I will suggest a second date today, should I say to my house and that I'll cook dinner or something? What's your suggestion?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:23 PM
1

Ah - I take it this will be explained in the book?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:19 PM
0

thanks - do you mind elaborating on the 100% truly honest with women bit?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:18 PM
1

what's powertalk?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:18 AM
1

yeh agreed - and this is making me realise that I run the risk of developing oneitis due to placing too much importance on her already by wondering how to proceed. My abundance mentality is weak, given I just got broken up with 3 weeks ago by 2 year LTR. Need to focus on spinning plates only.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:39 AM
1

sure but when? isn't there a rule texting too soon, etc? and how would you phrase it? Should I wait for her to get in touch or do I make the move?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:43 AM
0

"Come on - don't send me pics from the internet. I want pics of you!"
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:10 AM
2

Yeh I workout a bunch - currently maxing bench at 140kg. I did whilst with her too. I also surf a lot. Surfed 2 hours today with some friends.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:10 AM
17

23.8%
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:25 PM
1

And if it feels annoying, it's probably a comfort test?
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:34 AM
1

Sounds like WIN! Go for it bud
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:19 AM
1

hahaha!
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:04 AM
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"their", "they're" and "there" are used interchangeably all the time too. The reason it matters is because laymen and/or people with influence often say things like "evolution is not fact, it's just a theory". Now, you calling me an autist, is that a theory or a hypothesis? That's the real head-scratcher.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 06:01 AM
3

Maybe it was Thad from Blue Mountain State
/r/askTRP14/03/18 04:20 AM
1

It's normal - I'm a strong guy who's been in a fair few fights. There are times that I get overloaded like you and feel like a little boy who wants to go home to cry. Happened most recently when I was scolded by one of the Partners at my firm like I was a little worthless child.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:08 AM
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hypothesis; not theory.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:25 AM
1

Who's projecting?
/r/askTRP14/03/18 12:34 AM
2

I understand - though what I say is true and accurate, what's not included is that I am working crazy hours, just got dumped by a two-year LTR which was (in my view) emotionally abusive toward me (as a quick example, she dumped me on the day I buried my dad), and I'm trying to deal with my dad's death (complicated grief). On weekends I'm exhausted from the workweek and barely have energy for anything but surf. And I'm also 5'10". At the moment I think I may be depressed; but this is likely situa…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 12:33 AM
2

What do you mean ...?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 10:34 PM
1

True alpha - even after 3 days of searching, you never gave up until you found her.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 06:23 AM
2

username almost checks out ...
/r/askTRP10/03/18 11:54 PM
1

Where are you based (continent)?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 01:20 AM
1

From your previous posts it looks like you're a teenager or early in your adulthood and you said that you're a super virgin with no friends? What's up bro? Where's this girl you're talking about
/r/askTRP10/03/18 01:02 AM
1

Thank you very much for your replies - you have no idea how appreciated they are! I cried on most of the flight back to Sydney but I felt better when I got home and today even better. Sadly I'm not exaggerating :/ I haven't been able to have lunch for three weeks (excl. weekends), have been travelling/flying from Monday to Thursday every week for the past 6-7 months staying at hotels, excl. 5-6 weeks of holidays and working in a high-stress environment. The personal life stuff has been very roug…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 11:51 PM
1

Thank you - How would blocking flip the dynamic? With regard to the job, it's the sort of job that if I stay 2 years total it will open so many doors ... I know my mental health is the most important but I've worked my whole career to build this foundation and this last year is the last step - I'll never have to worry about money and work again after I leave this job. I can deal with all the shit life has thrown at me in isolation - the reason I've now had a breakdown is that all three have been…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 08:31 AM
1

I'm not full of shit and I've never been that way before :/ I've been seeing a psychologist - all I get is validation but no solutions other than leave. Which fair enough is a solution but I just can't seem to implement.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:54 AM
1

That's a really offensive message. I would delete and forget. In your mind say "bitch, go fuck yourself" and move on.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 01:30 PM
1

Um, ok ..? Mind giving me advice above and beyond the criticism? Clearly I don't know how Tinder works so, it's kind of the reason I'm here asking a question...
/r/askTRP25/02/18 10:00 AM
-1

I'm not new here. Not sure why you thought I was new here.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 09:25 AM
1

I'm happy to help with any questions/advice - am a management consultant, worked in venture capital for 3 years and co-founded my own business, have got a top 5 MBA (if that is worth anything)...
/r/askTRP19/02/18 08:25 AM
1

Would the benefit your clients get out of your service justify the cost? A good idea is to start your first few projects on a contingent basis, i.e. payment as % of decreased cost or increased revenue, or satisfaction index. That way, if you are good, you get repeat business and also proof points/ case studies for new clients.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 08:23 AM
0

What is the definition of weaponizing sex? What about if there's an argument and then she won't have sex until she "feels ready" because she "can't go from arguing to sex".?
/r/askTRP15/02/18 03:44 AM
1

I have made several big moves in my life like the one you describe: To Belgium at age 8 for 10 years - toughest one probably but kids adapt To the UK alone at age 19 for 3 years - had a high-school friend with me making it easier, but made a bunch of friends as this was for uni To UK again at 23 alone after going back to Belgium for 1 year - new uni, all new friends New York, USA at 24/25 - moved for 5 month internship alone, instantly connected with a bunch of people in the accommodation place …
/r/askTRP15/02/18 01:28 AM
-2

I'd believe that if she were attractive.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 01:22 AM
1

What the fuck is wrong with people? If I make jokes at someone's expense it will always ever be something I know is no biggie, like e.g. my friend surfing a long board instead of a short board, and I make jokes about it. (it's two different styles of surfing, one is no better than the other, I just take digs at it because they usually get in the way of short boarders) I never say this kind of shit to break people down or make them feel bad. I will only say about people's appearance or characteri…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 10:53 PM
1

No I'm just fucking strong and muscular.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 08:53 AM
1

This chick is hardcore BPD. I got flashbacks to the kind of shit my ex-BPD used to write me, except I never got such low blows as to criticise my skills in bed or manhood. I suggest you watch your back - these kinds of bitches end up being the ones denying murder in court. Watch the interogation videos of Jodi Arias (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Travis_Alexander). It will freak you out how similar she is to your gf, most likely.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:53 AM
1

sorry for your losses. would you mind expanding on how you used stoicism in this case please? thank you
/r/askTRP19/01/18 08:20 AM
1

thanks for your reply, I appreciate it. Yeh, just going through the motions, don't like the job but I knew that going in, it's an investment to open doors (hours are between 60-100 per week) and it's very stressful. I guess since my dad passed I've lost my motivation for life and the drive I used to have, I just feel like what's the point anyway with all this. I think that if I didn't have the stress, and if I had all my mates around, and family, and no worries, plus a couple of dogs, I'd be hap…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 08:17 AM
1

sounds like you've never been a smoker
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:23 AM
1

I quit cold turkey 3 years and like 2 or so months ago. Haven't touched a cigarette since, and haven't really wanted to. No cravings to speak of and I know 100% that I will never smoke again (unless I give up on life and go back into self-destructive mode). Since quitting I never had difficulty drinking. Didn't get urges and never cut down or stopped drinking. They key is to make yourself hate it and feel disgusted WHILE you still smoke, to kill that mental addiction. The physical is easy, once …
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:17 AM
1

Happened to me in Thailand (at a gunrange, by the employee there, haha!), I tend not to tell this story, mostly because it's irrelevant.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 03:39 AM
1

Technically, I have made positive changes in my life. E.g. Graduated with an MBA from a top 3 business school, moved to Sydney for a fancy, well paid job ($150K per year) where I live in a nice 1 bedroom right next to the beach where I surf every morning, traveled to about 15 new countries, most recently Fiji and road tripping in New Zealand (both islands). All of this means squat to me, to be honest. I am doing therapy (just got out of a session), but it's going to be a loooong road for me with…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 02:58 AM
1

Three of my grandparents died, and my dad died, and my mom got cancer. My LTRs in each case feigned support for a bit but then turned into AWALT and made my experiences 100% worse than they would have been had I been single and suffered in silence. Don't ever trust people not to kick you when you're down. Everyone and anyone will do it, and everyone has done it in my life because I let them by allowing them to be a part of my difficult times. I still don't know if these experiences have made me …
/r/askTRP19/01/18 01:23 AM
1

I get this too - the Japanese have a word for it: Kenjataimu (Noun) ( slang) Japanese word meaning : Period of clear thoughts when a man is free from sexual desires after having an orgasm Translates literally from Kenja 賢者 ( Sage ) and Taimu タイム ( Time )
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:29 AM
12

hahah that's messed up, poor fella
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:16 AM
1

I'm fluent (both spoken and written) in Swedish, Greek, French and English, with natural native accents in all. Why is this a good thing? No one ever gives a shit and I don't feel better for it.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 11:58 PM
1

Fucking white knight faggot
/r/askTRP21/12/17 09:52 AM
1

Understood! Thank you
/r/askTRP15/12/17 12:03 PM
1

the oneitis is for my LTR, not the plate. The plate is in the later part of the message. I'm trying to get rid of the oneitis by seeing other women and building an abundance mentality, as TRP suggests. Or did I misunderstand your comment? Thanks!
/r/askTRP15/12/17 12:19 AM
2

I quit cold turkey 3 years ago and never looked back. Haven't touched or considered touching another cigarette since. Found it quite easy to quit to be honest, after smoking a pack a day for 10 years. It was my first real attempt at quitting and it was a success. I credit it to two things: Really wanting to quit - long process of hating myself for smoking and processing the thoughts around why I want to quit (years) Allen Carr's Easy Way to Quit Smoking (book and actual session). This taught me …
/r/askTRP12/12/17 11:43 PM
7

Simple. Do not LTR, or you'll suffer for the next X years whilst she's stroking these guys and you're kicking yourself for being "a paranoid controlling man" according to her female hamster.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 11:09 PM
2

You have no idea. My dad wasn't much better, he beat me silly and was an alcoholic, and he also mentally abused my grandmother as she was going senile so I spent my summer's taking care of her so that she wouldn't have to deal with him. He once tried to fake her suicide but it failed. Nevertheless, I spent his last 2 months being his caretaker when he was dying of cancer a year ago. I dropped my life no questions asked because despite how he had been I still loved him unconditionally. I don't re…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 04:49 AM
3

ambifap
/r/askTRP24/11/17 12:06 AM
1

They're alright just because I fear losing my loved ones to death, like I recently did with my dad. But - I was very angry at her for a long time because I caught her cheating on my dad a bunch of times growing up (starting at age 6 when I found her naked with a naked stranger in my dad's bed). Then she started a new family when I was 8 and lied to me about who the guy was (just a friend) for 3 years until I found pills for pregnant women. That day I called her and was like "wtf, you preggers?" …
/r/askTRP24/11/17 12:01 AM
3

Especially given that once she would experience sex in marriage, she would want to try some strange and see what else is out there.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 11:55 PM
1

Meet people, get friendly, and then ask "yo, what's happening this weekend?". At some point there will be a house party to go to. I have the opposite problem, I get invited to shit all the time but am too tired from work to go. I'm 29 and becoming a grandpa who just wants to surf in the morning and spend the rest of the day chilling on the couch. :) Just be the person people want to invite to parties, nudge them to show that you are keen to party, and don't be too weird or pushy. Be outcome inde…
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:28 AM
1

Go to a house party
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:20 AM
3

Hey man - I'm sorry to hear about this. My father passed away from cancer a year ago; I had a girlfriend then for a little less time than you. She was completely obsessed with me and would do anything I wanted. When I found out about my dad’s cancer, she was fully supportive for about a week as I decided that I was moving to my dad's country from business school to take care of him in his last months (split second decision, it was the only thing that mattered to me). The family decided not to te…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 01:11 AM
1

No different, never posted about this as I didn't know TRP back then. Two years ago.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 10:42 PM
2

I agree with you. Thanks!
/r/askTRP15/11/17 09:16 PM
1

I meant for attracting women, not keeping the attraction and not in relationships - on that front I'm a train wreck
/r/askTRP15/11/17 09:09 PM
1

Thank you - I have followed your posts and would appreciate if I could PM you, but I understand that you probably don't have time for someone on the other end of the red pill spectrum like myself. I am a very successful man in every way except internally, which I have struggled to fix for a while. First LTR, I blamed myself. Second LTR, she was BPD. Third LTR, some sort of BPD too I think because there was zero empathy and 100% selfishness. What was common about all three, however, was ME. I was…
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:17 PM
2

sunrise surf with friends, coffee, shower, get dressed, go to work
/r/askTRP14/11/17 11:28 AM
1

Yep - I'm not saying one is better than the other, just correcting the terminology. I'm a consultant too (a bitter one)
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:17 PM
1

You are either a management consultant, or you are an IT consultant - you are not a management consultant in IT ...
/r/askTRP13/11/17 11:37 AM
1

So then what differentiates the man who ignores those doubts and the man who goes back?
/r/askTRP10/11/17 07:20 AM
1

What actually makes abundance? I know I can easily get other chicks, and have one I have on call (she's coming over tonight and is hotter than the ex), but still I feel sad about losing my oneitis - perhaps it's an ego thing, that she dared leave me ... ?
/r/askTRP10/11/17 07:16 AM
2

This here is a solid answer that validates the OPs feelings, who is indeed stuck in an abusive and toxic situation, but does not validate his actions. Very insightful and empathetic - a sign of high emotional intelligence. Bravo. Especially appreciated from a person like myself, who is currently in a similar predicament (not quite as heavy but similar).
/r/askTRP09/11/17 03:09 AM
1

is it cheating if she's kind of breaking up / on a break? brings me back to that Friends episode ... "we were on a break"
/r/askTRP06/11/17 09:57 PM
1

maybe my bias is coming through - maybe she's a 6/10, I don't know. She has told me that no man has ever asked for her number on the street or tried to pick her up. And the times that I've shown (largely unwarranted) jealousy she's said "look I'm flattered that you think that men are after me but it's kind of in your mind" EDIT: Also, I've seen her exes. Just imagine nerdy chubby Seth Rogen but solid on the business career and education front.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 09:05 AM
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