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A monk becomes a monk because they have a goal, a focus for their cloistered life. If you go into monk mode but without any focus, then you just become.... a hermit. This is brilliant.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 09:46 AM
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I hate to use the word abusive, because it seems so extreme, Well, because it is extreme. You mentioned him breaking and damaging stuff when he's mad, and hitting you. In my book, that is extreme. It sounds like you are making a genuine effort to understand yourself and improve yourself, though. You're also right when you mention that self-improvement gets less priority when you're with someone... in an LTR/marriage, it's no longer just about you. I believe that's why sometimes having a period t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 09:40 AM
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I'll share my story. I'm entering my 2nd year of monk mode, and I don't plan on coming out of it until at least next year. I was in a physically and emotionally abusive LTR that began my sophomore year of high school all the way until my sophomore year in undergrad. Although I was able to safely escape from my ex, I severely underestimated the damage that kind of early first relationship did to my mental health. My 2nd LTR, which began my junior year, and ended after I graduated undergrad, suffe…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 09:28 AM
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I just went through your post history... You're in high school. The boys you met in high school will all be shit. Sorry (not sorry). Stay out of trouble, read and apply the sidebar, and you'll have no issues when it comes time to pick your captain at ~21-22.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/17 11:24 PM
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Thank you so much! :) How interesting you drew the strength card... for reasons, I think that card in particular is actually trying to point me more towards one direction than the other. I think an alternative reading for Strength + Seven of Cups is to not be distracted by having so many options, and to also think carefully about the long term implications of my decisions. One association I make with the Strength card is the taming of our primitive, animal nature. Combined with the Seven of Cups…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 11:44 AM
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Why hello fellow tarot reader! I used to do readings back in the day, sometimes for extra cash, sometimes just for fun. :) I would normally use my own deck to answer my own questions but on occasion it's nice to ask someone else to do it to gain another perspective. So here's my question: I have a lot of decisions I need to make soon. As I approach this fork on the road, metaphorically speaking, what do I need to look out for? Are there any details I may have overlooked when weighing my options …
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 06:02 PM
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Yet society thinks it's morally "right" and "acceptable" to keep people in the dark about how the world actually works, leaving them confused, angry, and hurt as they struggle to figure out why the same bad shit keeps happening...
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 09:11 AM
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When a man is truly honest with you and isn't trying to sugarcoat what he says, thank him. It's a sign of respect. Unlike 90% of other women, he thinks you can handle it. THIS is the source of much of my anger as I swallowed the red pill. I wasn't mad at the truth. I was mad that nobody told me the truth. I am forever thankful that at least a few people cared enough about me to tell me what I needed to hear. I just wish it happened much sooner.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 09:00 AM
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That really made an impression on me; and my mom always insisted that I be able to support myself, that I should be able to walk away and not have to struggle. It made me not really trust marriage as the safe space that it should be. I really wanted to be a SAHM, but my mother was horrified at the idea as were most of my peers (because of similar experiences I imagine seeing their mothers struggle post-divorce). Reading these posts here is making me really happy that at the very least, I will be…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/17 10:13 AM
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Graduate student here. Undergrads: use your time, money, and attention wisely, or you'll be like me - 25 in monk mode. :) I'm glad to see college-aged RPW here. I wish I discovered it in undergrad; I would have done a lot of things differently for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 02:15 PM
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Stay the hell away from bars. Don't approach men (unless you've mastered how to thoroughly vet them, and even then, I caution against it). Stay away from 100% alpha men. Read the sidebar in full to know why I give this advice.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 02:08 PM
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I've found out about redpill through him as he is a Red Pill guy Mistake #1: off the bat dating a Red Pill man when you yourself are new to Red Pill.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 03:31 PM
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YES to the carbonated water. Gives the same pleasurable fizz without all the extra sugar, dyes, and other crap. I prefer mine unflavored, but occasionally I'll have a flavored one.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/17 11:52 PM
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What?! Who the fuck does that to a 14 year old girl? EDIT: Sorry I just woke up. Was it a bunch of stupid kids or (god forbid) adults that allowed that to happen?
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 10:00 AM
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Yep, I was a clumsy, awkward nerd in high school and in college. I'm still a clumsy, awkward nerd, except now I'm probably a bit more attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 12:40 AM
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The point isn't to be defeatist, throwing your hands in the air because you're damaged. It appears some men would like for this to be the point, and I wish they would stop commenting on this sub. The point is to know what the issue is so you can put extra emphasis on correction. THIS is what needs to be emphasized. None of this "you're damaged so you're fucked and that's that" BS. If a man wants to believe that, that's cool, but don't detract the women in this sub from improving themselves, just…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 07:25 PM
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If a man ends an unfulfilling/unfaithful relationship I don't see him going back. Perhaps not to the same exact woman, but other similar women? Idk, I've seen that happen to some men.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 05:56 PM
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TBH if this was someone on TRP talking about how he banged four women in one night (i.e. obtained sex without commitment from four women) he would be massively praised... but a woman who has obtained commitment from five men (i.e. four marriages and one LTR) is somehow not praised here? LOL. Of course you could argue that four marriages that ended = failure to obtain commitment because divorce, but chances are our hypothetical TRP man is not getting sex forever from those four women so -shrug-. …
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 03:57 PM
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Telling this woman not to have sex with this guy is good advice, but telling women with a higher number that they're "damaged goods" does nothing to help them improve themselves, so it gets pretty tired reading about it all the time. Yeah, my number is below five, but IMO repeatedly telling women that they're "damaged goods" reeks of someone that wishes to keep a blue pill woman from EVER improving herself and getting off the blue pill plantation even if she was put there thanks to an abusive ch…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 03:26 PM
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Agreed. I think OP was in the right, in this case, to stay quiet. There is a time and a place to open your mouth and speak up, but IMO openly spouting "traditional" viewpoints in a university is like strapping pieces of raw steak onto you and walking into a lion's den. It's unfortunate, but that's the situation that we as a society have found ourselves in. I'll use this moment to introduce a nugget of relevant wisdom for the OP. From the 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene: Law 9: Win Through Your…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 05:07 AM
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Thank you! Good luck on your goals as well!
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 05:53 PM
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A quick update on my goals from last month: I'm holding off going to therapy for now after trying two therapists that frankly weren't that great. I had a quality therapist years ago who really helped me out and I had to stop seeing her when she moved... I haven't been able to find another one like her yet. :( I managed to work out at least 4 times a week consistently and I've lost 6 pounds. I'm still a HUGE procrastinator. I'm still getting all my things done but I would love to not be constantl…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 10:42 AM
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I have no idea why I'm barely seeing your post (reddit's notifications have been acting weird lately)... But anyway, thank you for posting. You're correct that there's a lot of crazy women out there so he's probably being super careful. (There's a lot of crazy people out there but I digress). I'd imagine my date would type up something similar to this post - he's hard working, he's spent lots of time in school, he's hoping to one day have a family and be a good father, etc - so thank you for giv…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 10:12 AM
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Go back to TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 10:01 AM
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From what I've experienced, with wealth comes very active social lives. It feels like you know everyone. People in this circle are not using online dating apps or chatting up strangers in bars. You meet people socially through friends so taking the chance on 'strangers' is completely unnecessary. True! I'm not wealthy but I am educated and moving up the socioeconomic latter, I suppose. I've noticed that as I've moved "upward" I have a lot more people in my social circle which has eliminated the …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 01:28 PM
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Two months ago he said, completely serious, that he used to be against beating up women but that he changed his mind and that he now thinks there's a good reason for it to be allowed. WHOA. Next, next, next, next, a million times next him now. I doubt their boyfriends start acting like jerks right away, it probably starts more slowly, like cooking a frog. Ding ding ding ding ding! That's precisely how it starts! Sadly, I speak from experience... You're 22, you can do better than that. “When some…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 07:27 AM
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Yeah the first thought I had was that his friend was just ragging on him, but tbh now I wouldn't be surprised if it was true. He's a shy, quiet, nerdy guy and it's taken a while for him to start opening up to me... I think I'll ask once we go on a few dates. I don't feel comfortable asking him right now, honestly, because I feel I might scare him off. Once he's more comfortable with me then I'll ask.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 11:03 PM
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Maybe I'm so gun-shy to ask him because I haven't dated in a long time lol. But yeah, I think I'll ask him. Not immediately but once I feel the time is right. He seems to be a painfully shy guy so I'll ask once I feel that he feels he is comfortable discussing it with me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 11:00 PM
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Thank you. He is indeed a shy, nerdy kind of guy and he does appear to be a late bloomer too. I've seen earlier photos of him and I've seen some of his old posts on social media and gosh he's changed over the last several years (for the better!). Honestly, I think he's definitely going to age well. I think I should definitely stop overthinking, I think I'm just surprised to hear that he's never had a girlfriend or anything. He seems painfully shy so I'm not going to rush him and I'll play things…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 10:52 PM
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He's turned down other girls before so perhaps he's picky or just being careful like you said. He's not religious but he did grow up in a religious home so maybe his upbringing could be a factor too. Other women that he's been interested in have also turned him down too so I think a small part of it is just his bad luck.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 10:38 PM
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Hi there! I posted a similar topic not too long ago. I think you may find value in some of the responses I got. :) To sum it up: you didn't know better but now you do. Use your newfound knowledge to improve your future while also forgiving yourself for your past transgressions. It's easier said than done, but it can be done.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 09:00 AM
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I'm a 20 year old virgin and feel very ashamed of it. No. This is actually something to be proud of. Don't let the media, feminism, your friends, your family, etc., tell you otherwise. Now I am 20 and a virgin. I'm ready for a relationship and I am ready to have sex with my future boyfriend, but afraid having so little experience at my age is a turn-off. I'm willing to learn and (as long as it is in private) sleep with him, but I don't know too many men willing to put up with me waiting at least…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 08:52 AM
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Take steps to lessen the chances of it happening in the future? (aka reading and applying the sidebar material)?
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 09:59 AM
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Feminism talks so much about mental health, but they are the ones who plant the seeds of misery and paranoia and feed it. No shit. RPW has done so much more for me in 2 years than what therapy and medication has done for me in over a decade.... EDIT: I'm not discounting therapy or medication or professional treatment, but my point is that those things, while they can definitely be helpful, have personally not helped me at the same level RPW has.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/16 09:15 PM
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When someone says they want to be "just friends", that person thinks you're disgusting and a waste of space and a horrible person for making them feel put upon with your crush on them. Moreover, the person has no actual intent of being your friend. Can other fatties/former fatties on this subreddit attest that being told to be "friends" is the polite way of being told to fuck off? I held these exact sentiments until I realized that sometimes you cannot force people to give you the truth if they …
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 05:32 PM
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From what I've been gathering from OP's comment history is that he was falsely accused of stalking and rape.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/16 09:06 PM
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I PM'd you but I'm posting one of my replies to you here too. You're barely 19 years old. You were a victim of domestic violence and experiencing that in your teens is very hard because you're still growing and developing, physically and mentally. You're angry, and hurt, and you have every right to be. But for your own sake you shouldn't be channeling that anger into making her feel bad. By focusing on getting some sort of revenge on her you are letting her have power over you... don't do that. …
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/16 08:58 PM
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Damn. That's rough. I'm so sorry you had to experience that. Honestly just stay away from her and her friends. Don't think about her. She sounds like bad news. Do you have the means to see a therapist? Preferably one that has experience counseling people dealing with false accusations or miscarriages of justice?
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/16 08:30 PM
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Care to elaborate? EDIT: I went through some of your comment history. Revenge fantasies are not going to help your particular situation IMO. Improve yourself if you feel the need to, but don't do it with the sole purpose of wanting to get any sort of revenge on her or to make her feel bad. It sounds trite, but living well is the best revenge.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/16 08:13 PM
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I've never had any man I've dated increase dramatically in SMV after breaking up. If this happened to me though, especially now that I am a RPW, I wouldn't care. I think this kinda ties back to the myth that there is such a thing as "true love" or whatever as recently discussed in this post. I think people, in this kind of situation, may confuse the feeling of regret with resentment or sadness that they experienced the lower SMV version of that person rather than the higher SMV version. If I bre…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/16 04:24 PM
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Lol seriously. I'm having a hard time believing the OP is real.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 12:52 PM
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Long-time lurker here, just very recently made an account to post and participate. I actually discovered TRP (and this sub) a couple years ago. Trust me when I say the pill did not go down easy! However, I am eternally grateful I found this community because I have had so many questions of mine answered and everything just makes a lot more sense now.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 04:39 AM
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Oh, you women say you're anti-feminist in the side bar, but I think this is more feminist than those that would call themselves "feminists." In my journal the other day I wrote a rant comparing what feminism has told me is "oppressive" vs. what actually was oppressive for me as a result of ignoring my feminine nature. I might clean it up and post it to RPW if I find the time within the next couple of days.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 04:33 AM
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I guess this would fall under the umbrella of sharing information outside of this community but I think it's worth mentioning by itself. Be wary of PMs from other redditors trying to get friendly with you, making small talk, trying to gain your trust enough to get you to move the conversation outside of reddit. Yes, whomever is messaging you might legitimately be interested in a conversation with you, but it can also be an off-handed tactic to potentially dox you (see: skype resolving, social en…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 04:08 AM
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Reading TRP isn't a bad thing (although the way I worded my post makes it sound that way, I apologize!) As I mentioned before, what I was trying to get at was that RPW is focused with the goal of getting commitment, while TRP generally focuses on helping men get sex (read the sidebar material for clarification on this). It sounded like to me that OP's date was applying some techniques one might find on TRP to get laid and spin plates. For a woman who is looking for commitment, that kind of man i…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 03:32 AM
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A number of things probably. I've changed quite dramatically over the past several years, starting before my exposure to RPW, although RPW has helped speed things along quite nicely ;) My appearance: I've lost some weight, started dressing nicer, wearing makeup. Also been taking much better care of my hair and skin. My demeanor: I'm less confrontational and grumpy. Generally, I'm pleasant and nice to people. This doesn't mean I'm a pushover (most people wouldn't describe me as such lol) it just …
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 10:54 AM
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Since swallowing the red pill I have been getting a lot of (positive!) attention from men and women. I also have reason to believe that a man I know is interested in pursuing me romantically. Whether that actually happens or not only time will tell, but I suppose it's nice to know that he's starting to see me as a viable option for an LTR. I also feel like people are being more open and honest with me too. I've had several people come to me for advice regarding some very personal issues of their…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 12:01 PM
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I seem to have been born with a steel cable connecting my heart and my hoo-hoo and absolutely cannot handle physical intimacy without emotional commitment Same here and I'm still pissed at myself that I caved into sleeping with people I should not have. I have a low single-digit n-count but I am extremely resentful that I gave something so precious to people who weren't worth it. But I can't take it back, and the damage has been done. My next step is not sleeping around anymore. Like another pos…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/16 06:12 AM
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Agreed. I recall seeing quite a few of those stories on the relationships sub. However, I still think that even if women rode the CC and hops off later wanting to find a real relationship she stands a much better chance if she stops sleeping around. Will her new partner resent her? Probably yes. Will she face consequences for that decision? Probably yes. But the alternative decision to that is that she continues sleeping around increasing her risk of depression, STDs etc. To me that sounds a lot…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/16 05:57 AM
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Totally agreed. In general, despite what modern feminism or whatever might tell women in order to make them feel better, men do respect women who don't have sex with them right away.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 02:47 PM
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Seriously. It kind of astounds me that this needs to be explicitly said. Although in today's blue-pilled society I can see why women would fall into the "exclusive but not official" trap. I know I've been victim of it before myself too, sadly.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 02:45 PM
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Feeling like a fool is natural after fully realizing what's actually going on. Don't blame yourself. However, now you know what to look out for which means less chances of getting hurt in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 11:52 AM
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TBH I would end it over text. Something like, "I don't think we should see each other anymore." Boom. Over. Done. He may try to guilt trip you into remaining a plate. You don't owe him an explanation beyond "I don't think you're the guy for me." Common excuses he might make include: 1) "I'm busy/tired/overwhelmed." (Doesn't matter what he feels. If he truly gives a damn he will climb hell and high water to keep you.) 2) "But I care a lot about you!" or "Let's just be friends!" (aka "Please remai…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 02:41 PM
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I'm currently in graduate school and it takes a massive chunk of my time. Some of my classmates are in LTRs or married but it's a huge sacrifice for both the student and their significant other!
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 01:21 PM
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I should've worded that differently. No disrespect meant to TRP at all. I don't care if men read TRP, but as stated before, the goals of TRP and RPW are different. TRP overall, discourages marriage/LTRs in general while RPW encourages marriage/LTRs. It just sounds like the goals of OP and the man she is dating are incompatible, is what I was trying to get at.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 12:00 PM
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I am not his girlfriend but we are exclusive No. You two aren't exclusive. I offered to bring him soup and he said let's go out for ice cream instead. Now, he might have been legitimately not in the mood to hang at his place, but this, coupled with the fact that he supposedly travels a lot for work, and refuses to call you his girlfriend, and then not even texting to cancel, reeks of plate-spinning behavior. Oh and I am soft and feminine (he tells me this). tells me that he reads TRP. I would ha…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 11:48 AM
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The guy I just recently started seeing How recent exactly? A couple months? Or?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 11:39 AM
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Introduce your sister to this sub. I'm being serious. Like /u/PiperZepp has said: you can't force her to do anything she does not want to do. But at the very least you could introduce her to ideas that can help her out with choosing a good partner and her being the best possible woman she can be. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 01:09 PM
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I just really like him and he's the first guy that I've felt this way about. You do not want to fall into the trap that I did, which was: giving men excuses to act however they wanted with me because I felt like I was so in lurve with them, then being hurt when they chose other women as LTRs and marriage. Then rinse, wash, repeat with another guy. Then another. Break the pattern now while you're younger and have a higher SMV so you won't be 25 and trying to make up for lost time. I don't want to…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/16 05:10 AM
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Why he chose to carry his anonymity into his daily life, not sure. An extra layer of safety? You'd have to ask him. Which begs the question of: why does she want to be with someone that needs to be private in this sort of fashion? Is he a wanted man? An undercover agent? Does he have a psycho-ex girlfriend/wife that wants to kill him or something? Even if he is in fact not spinning plates, and any of those things I mentioned are true, does OP really want to be dealing with that kind of baggage i…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/16 11:46 PM
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Lol! My thoughts exactly when I first read this.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/16 11:38 PM
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You're 19, so I'll forgive you for being naive. However, if you keep using logic like this in your relationships, you are going to be like me: waking up on your 25th birthday, single, with all of your female friends in serious relationships and/or married, wondering where the hell you went wrong. I wish there was someone to tell me, when I was 19, that Hey Bittersweet, you're being stupid! This person wants nothing to do with you! but everyone in my life was blue-pilled or too scared to say the …
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/16 07:24 PM
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"he said that he lied about his name because he likes to keep the different parts of his life separate and that "girls can be crazy."" "He doesn't have social media or anything and he is a very private person" "I know that he's been a player in the past" "I asked him if he was serious and he said that he cares about me, but he doesn't want to rush anything" I'm sorry, but he isn't serious. At all.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/16 06:41 PM
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Stupid question and probably off topic, but, I would have thought that economics incorporate a lot of stats/math? Or is it more theory-based?
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 08:54 AM
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TBH, I think it would be similar but not quite the same... but you make a good point.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 07:53 AM
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So she's been in therapy for quite some time... however, IMO, some problems do need much more than a year and a half of therapy to fix. I'm getting the hunch that something else is going on that she's not telling you, but as /u/rainyweathergirl said, it's up to her if she wants to discuss that with you. She should continue seeing her therapist though. Also, do encourage her to be honest with her therapist - if she's not being totally transparent with her therapist that could also affect therapeu…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 07:06 PM
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How long has she been seeing her therapist? If she just recently started seeking treatment it's probably going to take a while before she starts seeing a difference in her mood and outlook. Either way, I also agree that she needs to hold off on any major decisions until she feels confident her depression is not clouding her judgement.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 08:30 AM
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Your blog looks lovely! Looking forward to your posts. :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 08:19 AM
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May I ask why you are still Facebook friends with her?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 08:12 AM
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Thank you. I know my entrance here wasn't the most positive but now that I know better, I'm working on a better version of myself and I am optimistic about the future. :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 02:55 AM
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Your comment brings to mind Law 32 of The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene. Law 32: Play to People's Fantasies "The truth is often avoided because it is ugly and unpleasant. Never appeal to truth and reality unless you are prepared for the anger that comes from disenchantment. Life is so harsh and distressing that people who can manufacture romance or conjure up fantasy are like oases in the desert: Everyone flocks to them. There is great power in tapping into the fantasies of the masses." It m…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 07:27 AM
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1) Go back to therapy. 2) Start working out at least 4 times a week. 3) Get ahead on all my assignments and readings. I want to catch up to a point where I'm at least a week ahead in all of my things. 4) Wear makeup every day.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 04:16 AM
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"Nowadays, men wonder and imagine how women would look with clothes on." Playboy stopped printing nudes in its print issues earlier this year.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 02:20 AM
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How does a young lady fall into this type of mindset: Social media or college atmosphere? For me, I believe it was the perfect storm of: * An unstable home environment and situation that developed early in my life which was also aggravated by * A mother who developed masculine traits in order to compensate for my father's inability to be an efficient Captain (both whom I believe became that way due to their unstable home environments) * Which led to me also developing a ton of masculine traits a…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 01:57 PM
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You believe you didn't put enough effort into cultivating an LTR, but many women in their mid-20's haven't met their next boyfriend/future husband I'm going to be real honest here... I believe I have met men who could have been husband material if I had my shit together when I met them. Cue my current feelings of anger, hurt, resentment, sadness, and all sorts of negative feelings. However, what is done is done and I'm just going to chalk it up as "lesson learned". Hopefully, if I start getting …
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 01:29 PM
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Thank you for sharing. Your story gives me hope that I'm not too far gone. As long as I begin making changes now though. :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 01:21 PM
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You bring up an interesting point: that my wondering of whether I have messed up badly beyond the point of no return is me trying to rid myself of responsibility in the here and now. Thank you for making this clear.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 10:14 PM
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Thank you. I recognize that there is a lot I need to change but as long as I stick with it, overtime I will see results. "Stop thinking, start doing." is what I need to do.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 10:12 PM
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Wow, thank you so much for this! It makes sense. I'm going to do this tonight when I have some time alone.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 10:08 PM
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Yep, that's the plan. I've already resolved to not get involved with anyone until I graduate, find a job, move, and get settled in to wherever I'm going next. I'm using this time now to increase my SMV and RMV.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 10:06 PM
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Yep, I can definitely see the similarities between what men and women experience emotionally when they discover TRP. I'm trying hard to weather my storm of emotions but at the same time I'm also optimistic about the future, hence my username. :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 10:03 PM
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Are you me? I say that because your post sounded more or less something like I would have typed up: a couple years ago I identified as a feminist. I've also repressed my femininity and thought that open relationships, sexual experimentation, etc., were things that were okay. I also have a low single digit N count which also surprises me considering the horrible state of things. I've also historically never been much of a partier/bar goer either. I've always leaned left but I have a few conservat…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 09:59 PM
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Thanks. The reason why I said that marriage would be difficult from this point forward for me was because I know that TRP preaches getting married young for women so I was worried I had missed the boat. I see that it's an ideal situation, however like /u/Kara_El mentioned sometimes it doesn't work like that. However, from this point forward I'm going to do the best I can to improve myself.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 09:47 PM
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Thank you. I'm doing my best to leave my past behind and work with what I have now. :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 09:44 PM
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Haha, this is a very nice sum of the ideas in this thread. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 09:43 PM
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