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There's a scene in The Crown where one of the prime ministers tells the queen "We can't be everything to everyone and still be true to ourselves." When I tell you that hit me like a ton of bricks...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 01:57 PM
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Oh honey, I feel you more than you know. I relate to so many of your stories with my previous ex's. I left the last one a few years ago and started over with basically nothing. It was the best decision of my life. You'll be just fine. Just make it through a day, a week, a month and before you know it you'll have a whole new life. You can do it! We believe in you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 07:24 PM
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And I find it amusing that there are obviously men out there who feel the same way as this man. Yet when they find out someone like myself HAS put my career first and haven't had children at 37 I get lectured about not fulfilling my uterine destiny and "won't you regret it later?" So basically it sounds like we're supposed to perform all the domestic duties, raise any children and have a highly involved career. So NO SLEEP for any of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:07 PM
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Thank you! As a tall girl, when I saw the height requirement he put I immediately thought "ah, short man syndrome".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:41 PM
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Yeah I'm not fixing your son for you. Sorry not sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:36 AM
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I so feel this. I had a best guy friend that was really there for me the last few years and visa versa. We did stuff together all the time. He had admitted that he had feelings for me, but I explained it wasn't mutual but I really enjoyed our friendship and he agreed. Then I started getting more serious with my current bf and boom, no more calls, texts, visits. The thing that hurts the most is that I really thought we had a friendship and it turns out that he just wanted sex. I guess I shouldn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:32 PM
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The amount of times he says "ain't" is solely enough for me to pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:40 PM
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Dude, same here with my ex. I hated playing any games with him because he would get so frustrated at me. I think it really speaks to a person's character if they're good sports.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:20 PM
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One of the first dates my now boyfriend took me on was axe throwing, which turned out to be a lot of fun! He paid for the throwing time and drinks. Also, I felt it was a good way to really see what he's like in competitive situations. Is he helpful without being condescending? Does he encourage you or does he mock you during the game? Does he have to win every time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:43 PM
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One time, pre-pandemic obviously, we were at our big Friendsgiving party and I asked him to take a selfie with me. We were all taking pictures together. He acted like I asked him to chug acid. I was humiliated and one of our good guy friends looked at him and said "she just wants a picture with you, man". I appreciate my friend speaking up unfortunately it pissed him off even more and he didn't speak to me for the rest of the night. Fun times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:37 AM
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"So okay, I don’t want to be a traitor to my generation and all but I don’t get how guys dress today. I mean, come on, it looks like they just fell out of bed and put on some baggy pants and take their greasy hair – ew – and cover it up with a backwards cap and we’re supposed to swoon? I don’t think so!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:59 PM
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I sadly, but honestly, can't upvote this enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:03 AM
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Lol omg, I come from a family of TALL people, like the women are all 6ft or up and I'm the shortest at 5'8". All of us women have had a lifelong joke about "short man syndrome" because it is SO REAL it's insane. It's like men get weirdly defensive when you're taller than they are. I was so self conscious about it when I was younger but now I'm like, pffttt.... I'm gonna wear platforms today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:28 PM
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I LOVE their relationship. The speech she gave for his 50th birthday was so elegant, so heartfelt, it brought him to tears. Theirs is a relationship I aim for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:38 AM
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Good for you! Don't ever settle for less, because you deserve nothing else!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:25 AM
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Right!? The one good decision I've at least made with my life is never having a child because I've never found a man even remotely suitable. Ever, not even close. I'd rather be childfree for life than bring some poor kid into the world with some POS like that for a father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:26 PM
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My current bf and I had been dating for only a few months when quarantine started last March. One night, I got an awful awful migraine, one so bad I was throwing up everything all night. He took me to the ER, stayed with me until he couldn't go any further cause covid, then met my parents (for the FIRST TIME) out in the parking lot and stayed with them for two hours until I was released. Then he took me home and took care of me all the next day. That was the first time he really showed me how ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:58 PM
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Lol omg, as a girl that is 5'8", I feel this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:14 PM
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I had someone tell me that a friend of theirs had a family tradition of literally bringing a ball and chain to every family wedding and putting it on the groom at the reception. I mean what better way to publicly beat women down into submission and remind them that THEY'RE a burden on their new husbands, amiright!? Lol, so funny! Ahhh, the good old midwest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:00 PM
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Oh man, if there was ever something I should get tattooed....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:26 AM
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Honestly I have no idea. We still have a bunch of mutual friends so I guess if I ever hear that he marries someone else, I guess I'll have my answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:23 PM
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We were the cool, indie, hipster couple so marriage just wasn't "for us" but I made it known multiple times that although I never wanted a wedding I still liked the idea of eloping and showing commitment to each other. He thought it was irrelevant given that we'd been together so long anyway, etc. I still don't want a wedding but I'm hoping one day I can find a guy that is so in love with me he knows I'm the one for him, you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:27 AM
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I was that girl. 9 years and one day I just finally was like "enough is enough". I wish I had found you guys earlier, I really do. It was horrible to end it but it was necessary because I was CLEARLY not it for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:38 PM
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Thanks! I really wanna spoil myself on my 40th and get a vintage cartier tank watch. It's the jewelery piece of my dreams...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:50 PM
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Right!? If ONLY it was shaving my legs. It's all the other bullshit we have to do that they don't even know about like, WHY do we even bother with this crap!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:03 AM
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This is WONDERFUL. And scarily accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:57 AM
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Lol, so sadly true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:46 PM
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It took me far too long to learn this, but at the very least, I can make sure my niece knows this from day 1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:31 AM
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Me too girl. We never even made it to proposing because I didn't want to make him feel forced so it was over 9 years of nothing. But you better believe the DAY I left, all of a sudden it was "omg I was going to propose in two weeks, honest! Here look at these flights I was looking up, it's proof. No, I didn't have a ring or anything BUT I WAS TOTALLY GONNA." Sure... you... fucking... were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:23 PM
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36 here! You're totally not alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:15 PM
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Ditts girl, ditts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:36 PM
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Ima just leave this right here. "Bang-maid" https://youtu.be/yGpQeWHE89A
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:08 PM
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The fact that the one guy is barefoot on that carpet.... barf! I would want a hazmat suit to go in that room. Fugggghhh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:16 PM
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I guarantee you she bought the pizza.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:14 PM
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I met the man I'm seeing now at work on my favorite holiday, Halloween. He complimented my costume and engaged me in a long long conversation about how I'm a total Halloween nerd and then we became friends. We were friends for almost two years first and in that time I was able to see how many high value qualities he had. The things we talk about daily, things like that he respects and cares for everyone around him, his calm understanding demeanor, his AMAZING connection with his family. When we …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:43 PM
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When Brooke says "it'd be nice if you do the things I ask you to, it'd be even nicer if you do them without me having to ask." and Gary acts like oh well wow I'm not a mind reader! I totally know how that felt. I also don't get how they can't piece together, dirty dishes mean they need washed, empty fridge means we need groceries, pile of laundry means it needs washed. This isn't hard dammit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:14 PM
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I felt more lonely in my past relationships sometimes than I do now being single and living alone. It's better to be by yourself than settle for someone who should be your partner in everything but instead just takes and takes from you, then leaves you alone to deal with your issues on your own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 08:12 PM
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I want to wear my tiara!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:31 AM
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Two, my last long term relationship and now the one I'm currently in. The last one I think was more from really fortunate physiology between us and the current one is because he really really takes his time and focuses on me first, makes sure I'm comfortable, etc. I also think it makes a huge difference in my age. The older I got the more comfortable I became asking for things, saying no to others, knowing myself and what I like. When I was younger I had no idea what was going on and those guys …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:37 PM
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Omg... flashback. Holy hell flashback to sooo many fights. Oh wait wait, as men call it "communicating".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:55 PM
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I remember seeing this on reddit when it was first posted and was just blown away because sleeping beauty is my favorite childhood princess movie as well. I also then realized that my boyfriend at the time probably wouldn't have even known that about me, let alone ever do anything like this for me, after a decade together. Spoiler: I left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:25 PM
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Hahaha omfg the warcraft guy from south park! Girl, I can relate... far too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:27 AM
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This totally! And they can pin you down as the bad guy when you finally start living and thriving on your own! Like, "oh see, she never cared about me cause she's out enjoying herself and living life."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:54 PM
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I did this! DO NOT DO IT! DO NOT DO IT! OMG TELL HER TO CALL ME PUH-LEASE! If and when it is over you will have NOTHING. NU-THING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:23 PM
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I did 10 years from 25-35, left the week of my 35th birthday. He had this ability to continue to reassure me that we were meant to be and ONE day and EVENTUALLY. It takes a lot to leave when you are literally brain washed. And the worst thing was, when I left, I was the poor excuse even in my own family's eyes because sunken cost fallacy. This quote is me so much now. I was robbed of a decade of my life so don't waste any more of my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:01 PM
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Woooooow. What a twat. I can't imagine how frustrating that must have been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:13 PM
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Happy birthday! Cheers gf! I went and got myself a bottle of champs and my girlfriends and I are having a driveway firepit as soon as everyone's off work. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:19 PM
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HAHAHAHA, omg. Amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:56 PM
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Seriously!? This is such a load of bullshit. You're working, so if you're on a computer of some kind there is a CLOCK in the bottom corner. If you're not on a computer, then you most likely have your phone or a watch which tells you the TIME. This is NOT hard! The only reason you "lost track of time" is because you didn't care, plain and simple. You suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:46 PM
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I would like to apply for this awesome girlfriend-bestie-queen commune please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:19 PM
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THIS. I can't tell you how many times I TRIED to sit down to have an adult conversation, not be accusatory, just lay out my feelings to "communicate" and it INSTANTLY turned into a huge ass hissy fit because "why are you always nagging me!!?". Like bro, I just need some help around here, jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:13 PM
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Trust me, two long term relationships, both the "cool gf", both failed. Not worth it ever... EVER. See, I always thought if I wasn't just being chill, I was just needlessly stressing over everything. Turns out you can not stress, lay out your needs and boundaries and if they aren't being met, you just leave. Pretty simple and I'd say even more chill from my perspective!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:14 AM
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To put it succinctly, there's a quote I saw while watching intervention by Maria Robinson. It's "nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending". You can't change the past, but you can be anything you want to be starting right now. So be it. Once you reconcile that you've made mistakes, you're human, and you're working on bettering yourself then you can really grow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 12:52 AM
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I did this shit for NINE YEARS for a boy. Nine goddamn years. When I left I wrote him a letter specifically detailing WHY i was leaving (I'm exhausted doing this alone, we're never going anywhere, he has never done a single thing for me ever). He had the audacity to tell our mutual friends that he "just didn't understand why I left". Wtf dude!!!? I feel like I'm taking crazy pills!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:52 PM
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One of my best friends, who is very fds like-minded, and I have had a discussion regarding this and we honestly think it's because we just don't KNOW any better. Especially at a younger age. What do you have to go off of at that age? Porn and gossip. Ok well, great start, totally realistic and also what boys that age are going to use for reference. We've drunkenly discussed creating a school oriented talk circuit oriented toward female pleasure and safety related sex. But we're pretty sure we'd …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:36 PM
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This really stands behind the whole "men abandon their terminally ill wives" thing you hear about from medical professionals. Yeesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:18 AM
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I think there are two kinds of chemistry. The early chemistry that is probably more physically based, where you're attracted to them and you go off of surface emotions. Then you have the second chemistry that comes with time and getting to know someone and who they really are. In that second one you really get to see if you're comfortable around them and have compatible personalities, ways of life, etc. I can't tell you how many guys I've hit the first physical chemistry with only to hit a huge …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:51 PM
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I was just going to say. THESE are the requirements!? Wow.... don't go crazy, wouldn't want to overwhelm him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:21 PM
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Agreed! This is what I've focused on as well and I just physically feel better. My clothes fit better, my swimsuits look better even though I can't wear them anywhere yet. I think focusing on my personal strength and fitness is giving me so much more confidence overall, it's so worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:59 PM
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I've been considering a copper iud, simply BECAUSE it's suppose to be non-hormonal. I really appreciate the input, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:56 AM
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Good god, this was me. I spent over 9 years in a relationship like this. I..... was.... an..... idiot. Looking at this now from an outside perspective, I really get why he was so upset when I finally left. He basically lost a slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:43 PM
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Who's a badass bitch!? You are! You just remember, not giving a fuck is better than revenge. Just keep on doing you girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:57 AM
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One of the most central arguments my ex and I had was that he "so totally wanted to do stuff around the house, but I always did it before him". Uh yeah, that's because when it needed to be done....I just did it! It was like he was waiting for me to dole out chores to him like I was his mother! Be an adult and do the laundry when it needs doing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:25 PM
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In my past relationships I liked to use the term from it's always sunny, "bang-maid". It was definitely how I felt in both of those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:43 PM
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