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Rant/Ventingblackdepotguy/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 10:27 PM
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You must be a troll, have a good night.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 02:52 AM
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At least for the time being, improving myself feels a lot better than forcing myself into a relationship to not have the identity of always being single. Really no bitter feelings towards women at all, we shouldn’t fight the flow of things anyway, they’ll do what they do and I’ll do what I do.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 02:00 AM
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Thanks for your perspective, though complimenting and spending money on a fetish I’d say are two different brackets of down bad and I’m definitely not in the second group
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 01:57 AM
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I’m not doubting your judgement, you understand the beta alpha thing way more than I do I’m sure, but what if these said metrics aren’t being used with women in mind? I’m moreso focused on my own self improvement in those areas because I’ve been through points where I was dead broke and living extremely unhappy, what if I’m doing it for me and the promise to myself that I’ll never deal with poverty again? I can’t control how women see me but I get your point about proving you have money being a …
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 01:07 AM
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Thank you, I seriously just want to focus on me and see exactly how far I can go in life. I believe falling into the beta provider role isn’t a bad thing IF it’s what you want but generally it will ground you and that’s kinda the dead end for improving yourself financially, mentally and physically. I’m simply not ready for that yet, I’d like to see myself through as far as what I can accomplish individually.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 12:08 AM
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I understand the concept of there being low sex drive people, asexual people, etc. and I never want to label myself those things because I legitimately don’t know if those things are me BUT I don’t feel the need to kill the “single” identity I’ve had most of my life anymore. I’m legitimately indifferent on if that now instead of fearing the outcome.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 12:03 AM
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Sex is cool but not exactly what I’m after in life, especially seeing much effort and of a chess game to get it. The most I do now is tell them honestly that I’m not looking for anything serious nor commitment, I just get lonely at times and I could use company. I enjoy being alone, I can see myself traveling alone and having a house by myself. I don’t see the need to force a family into existence because I know there’s more than one to way to be a man.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:56 PM
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I definitely don’t mess with single moms, they approach me. A lot of them work with me and know I’m a single guy living alone because information travels. I never flash money or at least try to come off like I want to start a family with anyone. I’d actually rather just chill on women period for a long time and go travel or something.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:51 PM
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It makes sense, thanks. I can definitely be too focused on myself at times and I’m aware of that fault. It’s never failed me unlike constantly pursuing women has, so I guess that’s why it’s easier to put energy into that. The part about women purposely trying to upset me, yeah I’ve definitely met some that will ask a question that has no right answer then they get mad or ask me something like they seek advice and then combat your advice the whole time like idk what they’ll want from me LOL I und…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:45 PM
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Okay thank you for your perspective. I appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:39 PM
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Thank you, I see a lot of men around me older and younger that just stress and have very little control of their situation and it’s almost always caused by their woman. Whether they haven’t learned to stand up for themselves against her bs or they didn’t improve themselves enough individually before slipping into the “beta provider” role. I take this current moment of my life as a blessing and an opportunity to keep learning and growing.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:37 PM
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How am I beta if I’m legitimately not chasing or going after women though? If I’m beta then okay cool but I work and grind to stack my money, I live alone and have a nearly 800 credit score to the point where I’m ahead of the average guy my age. I don’t understand how I can be beta if women aren’t even in the equation of my life atm? If they do approach, then I tell them I can’t commit to anything. Some are cool with it and others take it like I’m a fuckboy and move around.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:34 PM
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Very true thank you, it was important to understand what I was feeling because I used to identify the feeling as wanting a relationship and feeling ugly because I’m always single. Turned out yes it was a feeling of a void but moreso simple loneliness at times. So anytime I talk to women I tell them I don’t need anything from them but I do get lonely sometimes and it’d nice to have company at those times. Some understand and work with me on it and others think it’s me being a player or emotionall…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:28 PM
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Thank you, what you say makes complete sense. I just had a moment where I couldn’t identify what I had transitioned into mentally.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:24 PM
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Definitely a good perspective, they definitely get it from being the ones sought after and we the pursuers. It’s a puzzle, the “improving yourself raising your value” was the easier part for me since I’m a naturally hustler and understand that money defines the man. The part with dating is the true puzzle for me personally, it’s why I’ve gotten cute girls who were really into me and I still felt like I could do better or I wasn’t satisfied enough with the hunt if that makes sense? I’m a student …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:23 PM
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Sounds about right, they always deflecting and never their sisters accountable.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:01 PM
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You’re right, I guess it just feels wrong because it’s just drastically different from the old me and I never noticed the changes until now. I notice how easily women walk away from things when things don’t go the way they want them to and I’m feeling less guilty when I do the same. They want us to follow their script and I’m simply not for it, it’s very off putting to me because they often the ones craving control. I really don’t hold women to any crazy standards or anything just don’t be an as…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:00 PM
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