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If you're gonna masturbate, it's better to do so privately.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:51 AM
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You said police need to gain entry to your house to prove their probable cause. That's not how probable cause works. Probable cause requires specific, articulable facts, not suspicions, that a crime has been committed. Check this out: https://dictionary.law.com/Default.aspx?selected=1618 To the extent that what you meant to say was if the police had probable cause that you were a pedophile, and they could find evidence of that in your house, then they could enter, then your sentence was unclear.…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/19 11:29 PM
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Because people cannot stop police from obtaining evidence in the way you're assuming. It's called obstruction of justice. What CAN stop police from obtaining evidence is the Constitution.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/19 11:22 PM
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No, you can't "prove" probable cause with a subsequent search. You must have probable cause to conduct the search.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/19 06:24 PM
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I disagreed because your premise that (and I'm paraphrasing here) "people could stop police from obtaining evidence" is flawed. And it's not a bullshit excuse, it's the Fourth Amendment at work. You might find some solace in reading up on how Constitutional law generally, and due process specifically, works. Our judicial system makes much more sense when you look at it as a whole rather than focusing on narrow situations. The law also works (mostly) the same way in the civil context. Imagine the…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/19 06:20 PM
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The murder weapon example you give doesn't play out the way you think it does. The way our justice system is set up, prosecutors must esbalish elements of a crime, but they must abide by US Constitution in doing so. IIRC police only need probable cause that an instrumentality of a crime is located in a house to get a search warrant, and in some cases they can even enter without a warrant. If they didn't need to have probable cause to perform a search, what's to stop them from searching you whene…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/19 08:55 AM
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You fell into that poster's frame just as easily as you probably fell into hers. Be more outcome independent
/r/askTRP11/10/19 04:47 AM
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You clearly missed some important info in the sidebar of the main sub.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:06 AM
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And if you don't reach out, her hamster will be spinning the whole time. Never chase, do your own thing. You'll be amazed at how well this works. If she falls off the radar, you saved yourself some trouble. If she keeps coming back, you can figure out what it means.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 08:35 AM
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Other people's bullshit.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 05:48 PM
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Not money enough. Real trick is this: when you give her a hug, slide your tongue in and around her ear.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:25 AM
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I see a lot of posts on here asking for analysis of why a situation played out the way it did. If the result was positive, great. Keep doing what you're doing and don't overthink it because it's working. If a result was negative, move on. By spending mental energy trying to "figure out what happened," you are subtly reinforcing obsessive behavior. TRP gives you a set of tools. It's not a magic bullet. Once you've internalized enough information, you will probably know why things turned the way t…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:59 PM
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This guy fucks... his couch cushions
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:44 PM
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Makes sense. Do you have a link to more recently obtained statistics?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 10:58 PM
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Why did everyone downvote the shit out of this comment?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 10:51 PM
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Definitely a valid point in 99% of male-female interaction. But its dangerous to extrapolate this data to sex. And as others have commented, the risk is too great when compared to the reward. "Watch what she does, not what she says" is a good rule to follow generally. However, in our current world I wouldn't make assumptions about "no" on the topic of consent. Call the bluff and walk away.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 01:11 AM
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So much to unpack here. And for fuck's sake, try and make your writing coherent. As /u/RedPill-BlackLotus said, your feelings are there to act as an internal compass. Use them as guidance to plan your next actions. If you're feeling shitty, figure out why and take steps to avoid feeling shitty. The point he was making was that by posting a diatribe about your feelings, you are implicitly communicating that you want those feelings to be addressed. That isn't going to happen. Why do you think you …
/r/askTRP26/07/19 06:31 PM
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First of all, you need to take a minute to proof read what you write. None of this made any sense. It was the written equivalent of diarrhea pouring out of an asshole. Use formatting to make your questions clear an obvious to the reader. If you want help, you need to help the reader understand what the fuck you are asking. Second, as others have said, you need to get a handle on your feelings. Nobody gives a fuck about a man's feelings, but that's just another fact of life. Third, why the hell a…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 05:13 PM
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Everyone is entitled to their preferences. But you shouldn't expect everyone to respect those preferences or that they will respect them to the same extent as you do. Seems like this is more of a problem with you than with her. Your anger is a covert attempt at controlling her behavior in a passive, indirect manner. Looking past why it might bother you, consider that you are angry because she's responsibly engaging in very common behavior for an adult. Hope that perspective sheds some light on t…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 04:04 PM
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I have similar problems. It's most likely a neurochemical imbalance of some sort. What works for me is doing something that I love. Even if I'm not particularly in love with it at that moment, I find that just going through the motions gets my brain back in check. PM me if yo'd like to talk, it can be helpful.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:59 PM
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Somebody is sour today. I agree that people shouldnt just post videos here. It disuades others from taking the time to post content in a meaningful and deliberate way. Though I could also argue that most of the content posted here is riddled with grammatical mistakes and comes across as rushed rather than deliberate. Have you considered that there are people out there that read all day for their livelihood and prefer to consume information through a different medium in their spare time?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 11:38 PM
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Abort! I repeat, abort! The advice not to shit where you eat isn't limited to protecting your current job. A sexual harassment accusation can, and likely will, follow you wherever you go. If you're cultivating an abundance mentality, you should never feel the need to even consider co-workers. I'm assuming you're young, given you mentioned that this is a summer job. Do you really want to start your career with a black mark on your name? This would be a hard pass for me, and it should be for you.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:09 PM
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To play the devil's advocate here, these concepts are just that. They are concepts. How you apply those concepts is game. I think the point OP is trying to make is that beginners should focus on developing an understanding of the concepts and then begin applying them to develop their own game. To use your football analogy, you can tell someone they need to be great at football. But until they know how to catch, block, hit, and understand the playbook, they aren't really playing the game.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 03:20 PM
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You aren't thinking big enough. Why be in one public place when you can be in multiple? Set up TVs around your town and live stream yourself from one of the locations.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:04 AM
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Do you know what false imprisonment is? Or the legal privileges that parents enjoy with respect to how they choose to raise their children? Congratulations on your success, but you need to be more careful about giving advice to others in an area where you don't seem to be too proficient in yourself. This is the point of the post you're replying .
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 09:21 PM
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As someone that's no stranger to mental health issues, I strongly advise you consult with a professional. Neurochemical imbalances can make life more challenging than it needs to be. But you're likely to hear that there's no silver bullet. Ultimately, change has to start with you. Do you have the courage to take the first step?
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:49 PM
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Even if you aren't consciously aware, it's painfully obvious that you wrote this post for some sort of sympathy. You won't get that here. Man the fuck up, stop wallowing in self-pity, and start focusing your energy on getting your shit together. If you act as depressing as this post reads, it's no small wonder you don't get laid. Who the fuck wants to spend their time with an energy vampire? Know what the upside is? You have the tools to improve your situation. Get the fuck back to the sidebar, …
/r/askTRP10/07/19 03:38 PM
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Better get used to getting yourself off without porn. Porn is a dangerous crutch, and it sounds like you mentally associate "personal time" with porn. You need to work on breaking that association by learning how to get by without it
/r/askTRP08/07/19 08:25 PM
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Enthusiasm is big for me, both in and out of the bedroom. Went on a date with one girl that may very well be the most boring person I've ever met. Kid you not, she aspired to work in HR and her only hobby was brunch. Fun fact: brunch ain't a hobby, it's a section of a menu. I don't expect women to know how to entertain themselves, but I do expect people generally to have some passion in life. If a girl isn't even passionate about herself, why would she be passionate about anyone else, including …
/r/askTRP04/07/19 10:31 PM
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I always hit em with a TOMBSTONE PILEDRIVER before I go in for the kill. Makes it easier to drag her out of whatever bar I'm in. What's wrong with just looking a girl in the eyes and going for it? If she isn't receptive, you didn't build enough comfort or escalate properly. Or she just isn't into you.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:39 AM
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It's appalling! I can't believe nobody has ever shat on her chest...
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:13 PM
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Not saying formulas always work, but in general I will: 1) start conversation by making an observation about something in a picture or bio. The more obscure the thing you are commenting on, the better. Do NOT comment on her appearance, unless she's wearing a gorilla suit. 2) aim to get 3-4 back and forths. Depending on the length of time between responses, this is a happy medium between letting her invest in you and you turning into a pen pal. 3) take the conversation off of the service. Only te…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:23 AM
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If you enjoy her company, keep seeing her. But don't let this one keep you from exploring other options. When it comes to waiting for sex, the juice is never worth the squeeze.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 06:14 PM
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"Breaking News: Research confirms people prefer consequence-free, instant gratification" Given the opportunity, I'm sure people would fuck in public and shit on the streets. But our society has rules precisely because certain behaviors, if done in certain ways, create more problems than they solve.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 06:44 PM
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But you can get fucked by one
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:46 PM
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The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane and How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes. Not every point in those books complies with red pill theory, but there are enough great points to outweigh that drawback. Just be smart about using the tips.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:47 AM
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Two problems I immediately noticed: You are incredibly negative. It sounds like you're still in the anger phase, which is normal, but you have to get over it. Stop being so damn judgmental about what women choose to do, and if you don't like it just avoid them. I've met some great women at bars, through dating apps, and all sorts of places. People can literally feel condescension and judgment radiating from you like a space heater. If you are able to meet a woman, I guarantee she'll sense this a…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:43 PM
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Not at all interested in starting my own sub. There's too much vitriol on Reddit to get something productive going, but it would be interesting to see where other TRP-ers (and by that I mean guys that have actually swallowed the pill) fall in terms of morality. A lot of people here seem to think that following TRP precludes morals, but the two are completely different. Thanks for the rec. I'll definitely re-read the "respect the tag" post, been a few years. Always great to chat with a cool dude.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 02:43 AM
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Craving validation is one of the most common flaws. OP thinks he wants input, but what he subconsciously craved was validation of his moral compass. I'm not perfect, but I figured out the best way to adopt TRP principles was to read what I knew to be good (books from the manosphere, SEC/EC posts, etc.), apply it, fail, and try again. Too many guys get hung up on perfection when they really need to go fail. That desire for perfection stems from insecurity and a scarcity mentality and needs to be …
/r/askTRP09/01/19 11:55 PM
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I agree it's stupid and arrogant to assume you know what's best for everyone. But I'm looking at this as a decision of what OP thinks is ultimately best for OP. Some guys could be in the same boat and not give two shits. But OP doesn't seem like one of those guys. That's not good or bad, it just is. Would you agree with the following? Nobody is responsible for engaging every shit test thrown at them. If OP wants to ignore it and remove himself from the situation, he should.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 10:56 PM
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I completely agree with most of what you've said (99% sure there were some flaired posts on the main sub talking about leaving women better than you found them, but I could be wrong). I was worries that my comment could come across as condoning the sort of White Knight bullshit you illustrated. It's not about whether or not what he's doing is really harming her. It's about whether or not it's harming him. To clarify, I wasn't saying that the pursuit of virtues independent of sexual selection con…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 10:48 PM
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I'm in a similar position as the OP and I think his incongruity stems from a clash between his values and what is commonly preached through the manosphere. I agree that her emotions are hers to deal with, but only to an extent. If he, as a man, places value in leaving a positive impact on others, then taking steps in line with that value might be just as important as sexual gratification. My father raised me to be mindful of the impact I have on others. He always cautioned me against being taken…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 05:34 PM
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I've thought this too, but maybe I obscured the point. When I spend 40 hours working on a project and my boss says, "It was completely useless. In fact, we would probably be in the same position had you not done anything," without offering me any constructive feedback, it doesn't allow me to avoid making that same mistake. There's a potential for growth, but for that potential to be realized I need to be able to learn from my mistakes. If I can't identify the mistakes, I can't learn from them. I…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:39 AM
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Says malpractice.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:55 PM
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As much as I want to strike out on my own, I need experience before doing so.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:50 PM
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He has been similarly critical of others at the firm. However, everyone else at the firm has been in practice for 6+ years and tend to have a better handle on things than I do. In other words, I while this is just how he is, I haven't seen him do this with others. As for a reason, the commute is three hours round trip every day.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:49 PM
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Pocket sand.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:12 AM
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If your roommates give you shit for bringing someone back to your place, you need to find better roommates. Or do you plan on indefinitely using this as an excuse to justify your fear that escalation and being forward with your intentions might lead to rejection?
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:10 AM
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You must have a pencil up your ass, because you're trolling hard.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 02:55 AM
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Different strokes for different folks.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 02:53 AM
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In all states, there are statutes that govern the admissibility of evidence (e.g., the California Evidence Code). In a two-party consent state, it is illegal to record parties without the consent of every person being recorded. What does this mean? It means that the state, and perhaps an individual, can bring a criminal/civil lawsuit against you for making the recording (I'd have to read the statute to see whether individuals have standing to bring suit for violation of this statute). There's a …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 04:24 PM
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In addition to what everyone else has said, it sounds like you don't really respect yourself. This is evidenced by the fact that you're bemoaning your social inadequacies and the lack of input from your friends. Find better friends, or give them a reason to want to spend time with you. If they don't value you enough to want to invest their time into hanging out, that's their problem. Always have enough interesting things in your life that the lack of plans becomes an opportunity to work on your …
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:15 PM
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Brevity is definitely something that I aim for, but in writing this I realized that the point I was trying to make wasn't as simple as I initially thought. I'll work on redacting more next time. As for thinking too much, not sure I agree. Went from idea to draft to final in about an hour. I value precision, so I prefer to spend a bit more time editing rather than haphazardly throwing out a half-baked idea. If there was any fear, it was only that my idea wouldn't translate well, which seems to ha…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 12:12 AM
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I completely agree with everything you've said, so if there's any disagreement it's with the words I've used. I'd like to, with your help, refine my post to more accurately reflect what you are saying and the point that I would actually like to convey. I do NOT want people to think that "TRP is not complete." The ideas are all there, they have worked for thousands of men, and there's no reason to question that the core underpinnings of the philosophy are somehow lacking. I am also NOT suggesting…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 06:29 PM
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Thanks for the rec, I'll definitely check them out! I was trying to avoid a purely philosophical rant, but you're probably onto something. Do you say that because there wasn't enough "practical" application following the illustration of the issue (which I admit was done in a very philosophical way)?
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 04:25 PM
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If your comment about concern trolling specifically refers to the quoted text, then it was definitely something I noticed and didn't intend. The point I want to make (and which I'd like to change my post to better reflect) is this: Gripping tightly at a specific semantic meaning can limit our understanding of a concept in it's entirety. Some guys may read that and think that I'm advocating that, for example, they "don't need to spin plates" because you can be alpha without it. As you pointed out…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 04:21 PM
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Your question sort of seems to me like a Buddhist who learns the practical skill of meditation and then says "Thats it? Well, I guess I'm done." Picking up the tools is the first step toward building your palace. The fact that you're asking the question represents the antithesis of everything that TRP tries to convey, namely the endless journey towards self-improvement and fulfillment. While you seem to know the phrases that are commonly thrown around, as others have suggested you would probably…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 09:03 AM
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If you think you're perfect the way you are, then I don't think you've fully grasped the pervasive theme in red pilldom: You are far from perfect. You should never settle for the person you are today, but instead take daily steps to become a better person. Only through self improvement can a man (I'm assuming you are a man) fully embrace his masculinity and realize his true potential as a human being. External validation doesn't matter, but it's not because you're perfect. Nobody is fucking perf…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 01:25 AM
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As several others mentioned, I think you're getting too caught up in the validation of women (in this case, Olivia) and serotonin release that accompanies it. After about a year of reading TRP materials, the thing that stuck with me most is how many people get caught in an endless cycle of validation-seeking. In speaking from the heart, you seem to have reached some excellent conclusions. You are your biggest fan, but you need to do more than say it; you need to live that experience. If you ever…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 09:19 PM
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I think it's great that you're aware of your internal dialogue and how it may or may not be affecting your perception of events. I've still got a long way to go myself, but here are some ideas that I have found helpful in my journey: Cultivate a positive and tranquil state of mind. For many, meditation works wonders in increasing your awareness of how you feel at any given time. If you are out and about and can quickly identify your emotional state (e.g., "I'm feeling a bit reclusive" or "I'm fe…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 12:00 AM
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You say that you aren't feeling as though opportunities are arising for you, but aside from joining up with this group, what did you do to create opportunities for yourself? Your post seeme to indicate that when you weren't receiving any stimulation in the group you decided to just play the part of the wallflower. Merely being out is a necessary but insufficient precondition to advancing your sexual interests. If you're out with a group that isn't quite doing it for you, then use that social pro…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 10:48 PM
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Great advice! I normally don't plan dates a week in advance, so I wasn't sure if there was something I was overlooking. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:49 PM
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This is exactly what I was looking for, thanks! One question though: How did you arrive at 2 hours? Seems like it's cutting it fairly close, especially with a week having gone by between setting up the date and the date itself.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:27 PM
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Thanks for the input. I'm already planning on texting her on the day-of to confirm plans, as it's just good practice, but I'm wondering if anything should be done in the interim?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:09 AM
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