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blass_aster/r/askMRP16/08/16 04:54 AM
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blass_aster/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 05:04 AM
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Metablass_aster/r/askMRP01/09/16 03:11 PM
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blass_aster/r/askTRP20/02/17 08:36 PM
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Once you make that friend and they invite you to do something or vice versa, just say yes. If their friends are cool and you're their type of cool wham bam thank you ma'am you got a social circle. Or rush a frat. You still can, its called informal recruitment. I did it a few years ago. All that filtering to maintain mystery and respect will just leave you feeling empty.. Inhuman. I did the same shit. Soon as you drop all the masks you'll feel like a huuuge weight is removed and you'll be more en…
/r/seduction29/10/17 02:41 AM
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Getting a social circle is a great place to start man. I think classes are the worst place to find friends but I did Engineering and had nothing in common with my peers. Eventually you'll just run into somebody who has the right sense of humor and similar values, become friends with them then force yourself into their friend group. Penetrate it bro. Find people you don't have to filter yourself with. Stop worrying about your past or whatever. Everybody has one, most of them suck, and none of the…
/r/seduction29/10/17 02:07 AM
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Give it time bro. You used your time wrong before and that's in the past, but change takes time. Youre making progress, let the fact you're doing good things make you feel good. Look at how different your use of time is now. Are you unhappy? A girl won't solve that, but rearranging your life will. Do you actually want two degrees? Do you want to free up time to rush a frat? Do you know how to express yourself freely? Where do you find insecurities in yourself? If I was you id get super high and …
/r/seduction29/10/17 01:53 AM
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If you act alpha its because an online forum told you to. If you act beta you arent even taking your own advice. It ruins the magic of it.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:11 PM
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You said you knew trp. How did all of your lessons go out the window like this? It seems so common for people to forget everything they learned. Did you just rationalize all the red flags?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 08:16 PM
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Online I give them my number. They text back about 75% of the time. In person I get theirs. Numbers don't mean a god damn thing anymore though :(
/r/seduction24/08/17 08:56 PM
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I'd suggest moving somewhere smaller that isn't racist but has less black people. In my town, there's very few black dudes but I know A LOT of women who go out specifically looking for them.
/r/seduction22/08/17 04:19 PM
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Let me start by saying youre already 90% there. The fact you're going out with hot women and able to talk to them is great. It sounds like you may be missing a few of these. Show intent. You can do this with Kino and talking playfully about sexual topics. Flirt. Be spontaneous. You cant make her like you. If youre enjoying yourself and making yourself laugh, it's up to her to join or not. With a chick you think is hot, but have no chemistry with, just go for the hail Mary. If youre not certain h…
/r/seduction21/08/17 08:10 PM
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It can develop for sure. My 2 cents: if you guys have potential, you'll feel strongly about something. Strong like or dislike, intrigue mystery whatever. If you couldnt give less of a fuck, theres not gonna be chemistry unless shes a wallflower and turns out cool. I recently got a new social circle. There's this chick I couldn't fuckin stand in it. I told her to go fuck herself multiple times, not in a playful way. We ended up becoming very good friends. Strong, charismatic people stand out and …
/r/seduction21/08/17 07:37 PM
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Men escalate physically, women escalate emotionally. Always remember this. For example you're gonna be the one to go for the kiss, she'll be the one to ask you to be her boyfriend/say I love you first.
/r/seduction21/08/17 05:29 PM
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You can try starting out with something bigger like "whatre you passionate about" However if you're sober it'll seem odd. People start with small talk simply to make the transition to more charged topics. You won't ever get good at it with that attitude either
/r/seduction20/08/17 07:08 PM
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How do you rub her boobs to make her cum??
/r/seduction17/08/17 09:24 PM
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You gotta understand that you're not offering women your face. Youre offering her a source of emotions. Youre not trying to get in her pants, you're trying to first and formost enjoy yourself, and second to increase the energy and emotion in the room. Talk to everyone, not just hot girls. Make yourself laugh, don't come at it from the frame of "I have an ugly face but see my other values." Your frame is "I'm having a jolly fucking time and you are cordially invited to join me."
/r/askTRP14/08/17 08:00 PM
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There was a period where I thought I was ugly. I was wildly unsuccessful with women. Then I stopped looking at myself in that light and became successful. I'm not as successful as good looking men with game but I'm more successful than good looking men without game. Your problem is in your mind not your body. And for fucks sake appreciate what you do have. You're not in a wheelchair, not retarded, live in a time where food and information are readily available.. So you didn't win the genetic lot…
/r/askTRP14/08/17 07:18 PM
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Most ugly people are just average looking people who are fat with poor hygiene. Does it even matter though? Ugly, hot, you still have to do the work. You just have to do more if youre ugly. If I was born hot I wouldn't have found this place and probably would have been divorce raped by 30. Its a blessing.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 04:14 PM
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It's ok if youre good looking. Face wise
/r/seduction12/08/17 07:32 PM
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Were your parents emotionally manipulative at all? I think a lot of the inner game issues start there. With not feeling comfortable with your emotions, with sharing them. That's basically what social communication is - sharing emotions, especially with women. When you're uncomfortable with that other people are too. Its emotional contagion and it can work for a man (her ex) or against him (me, and maybe you?). That's my 2 cents and what I'm working on. Accepting whatever I'm feeling, and express…
/r/seduction10/08/17 08:51 PM
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Youre missing amused mastery. Yes, theyre vapid at times. No theyre not all that way. It's plenty easy to have a great time with women, youre just looking at it wrong. Read posts on amused mastery. Rollo has some good ones.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 03:33 PM
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Why would he know? You know you and her best dude. I'm sure you can recover it. Do you want to recover it is the question. Will she still want this when youre no longer her BB is the question.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 03:22 PM
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That's titties dude. Makes me feel better about my metabolism, if that makes you feel any better lol
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:10 PM
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How old are you? I was like that then soon as I hit 22 I could gain easily at 2500 cal/day
/r/askTRP08/08/17 10:52 PM
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Yeah. If a girl tells me she has a girlfriend id ask if she wants another. If she says she has pepper spray I'd fuck right off.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:21 PM
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Start with the sidebar bud. Also don't text women like that. Text women to set up dates and get nudes, makes life easier
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:08 PM
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I get the feeling you know enough that I don't need to say it. Good luck, don't be a pussy
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:01 PM
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Is she a single mom?
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:52 PM
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There's 200k redpillers and 7 billion people. Odds are he's a random. Being mercilessly approached is the curse of being a hot girl. I'm surprised she hasnt learnt how to absolutely shut someone down yet. Get her pepper spray
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:30 PM
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Join a frat. A good one, not the first one that approaches you. Hang out in the dorms lounge, make friends with everyone that comes in. Take dancing classes. If you're off campus, host kick backs at your place for your new buddies/girls. Be connected with someone who can get you drugs and alcohol.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 06:04 PM
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I had something like this happen once. Never was sure if she was just being nice and the guy was pursuing or if she was intentionally leading him on or cheating. Didn't really matter - fact is she didn't cut contact and tell him to fuck off cause she liked having backup plans. I broke it off and were both better off for it. I get relationships, intimacy is nice, but you gotta go into it with the understanding shit like this probably will happen and you gotta be cool with that. Or don't fucking w…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 06:00 PM
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Even if that were remotely true what good does it do you to think like that.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 05:27 PM
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Good for your friends. If I wasn't fun to be around I'd expect mine to let me know. You probably have a good idea of who you are and who you want to be? Take a minute to think about what's stopping you. Do you care about people judging you for your transition? Are you worried you'll seem incongruent? Does any of that matter or is it just your insecurities? This is a great time for you to root those out. Remember there's a calibration phase for everything. You'll go overboard, you'll go back to b…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 05:26 PM
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You got this dawg
/r/askTRP25/07/17 07:43 PM
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Everybody has hurdles in life. Does your vision prevent you from talking to people? Don't let it be an excuse
/r/askTRP25/07/17 06:02 PM
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You got it bad dude. Too invested
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:04 PM
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Being a 2 is a dating mistake : /
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 04:35 PM
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You dont have to put yourself in a box. All you know is what's worked/happened to you in the past. Future is yours to shape. I think a lot of the "type" stuff in that book is horseshit.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 11:58 PM
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Solid input. Thanks dude
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 01:59 PM
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That makes a lot of sense. My post came off more dramatic than I actually feel. I think a person can be really passionate about anything that has enough depth, mech engineering included. I picked it because while I don't necessarily want ANY career right now because I'm still an immature kid, I knew that it would be good for my future, have monetary value, and is so broad that I can pick whatever I want to focus on when the time comes. I actually took most of my electives in aerospace. Id like t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 12:43 AM
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Picked it for money! Nothing wrong with taking a break after college and interning. I'm 22, my priorities are different than yours dude. To me, 5 years of school is 1/4 my life Side note I really respect your oys posts. Haven't been following for a few months but you were one of the only people ballsy enough to divorce and move on. Hope things are still good
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 11:48 PM
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Said nothing about having a problem and I get the feeling you're projecting your recent acceptance/fear of hard tasks on me. Why are you even giving advice
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 09:22 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 08:08 PM
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It's hard to find them cause they're busy and don't owe me anything
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 07:30 PM
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I wasn't very clear there. Ill finish my degree in mechanical engineering by next spring. I have a year and a half experience as an engineering intern. Im set up for the job market but want to take time off to enjoy myself. That said, you have any recommendations for when I do begin the career?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 07:16 PM
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It's been a year now! Health: 6' 185 lbs, 20% bf according to electrical impedance. I bulked about 6 months, stopped for a while and lost a lot of muscle while keeping the fat. Started another bulk again when I got my shit back together. I still have about 12-15 more pounds of muscle than a year ago, but definitely bulked too hard. lesson learned. Girlfriend and I are competing to see who can have the best body by Jan 2018. Figure I'll clean bulk another 6 months then cut. Love life: have a gf o…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 06:48 PM
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Ive been dating someone on depo for a while. No periods, very mild mood swings when she would normally be bleeding. I think they're great. Only drawback is the week when she gets the shot she's very emotional and she tends to get less wet when on BC in general
/r/askMRP08/03/17 04:24 AM
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Huh. That's interesting. When did you get over it? Would you have if you'd only slept with 2 women?
/r/askMRP26/02/17 09:03 PM
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I did more than a year later, were on kind of a trial basis because of how bad of an idea getting with an ex is. She has a lot of habits I like, back massages, fitness, cooking, submissive, enjoys planning lap dances and all kinds of nice things for me. I dumped her because I enjoy the thrill of the hunt. It was always a matter of how much I enjoy chasing pussy vs how much value does she add to my life. So, I'll enjoy this with the new tools I learned here until I stop enjoying it. I do now feel…
/r/askMRP25/02/17 02:36 AM
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I had a similar dynamic thing at 20. Dumped my ltr to smash in college. I ended up sleeping with ten girls then got back in a ltr. If you go fuck a bunch of girls you won't ever lose that drive. It's not an itch, it's part of your nature. You will gain perspective though. Pussy is pussy, girls can be awesome, and there are millions of them. You get to decide how you want to interact with them. It is fun to have crazy college stories though.. and as a black dude you're going to be in high demand …
/r/askMRP24/02/17 10:28 PM
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Gonna get worse before it gets better too :(. If it gets better
/r/askTRP20/02/17 09:04 PM
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The classic overt contract
/r/askMRP20/02/17 08:14 PM
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2-4 is so few dude. If that bothers you remember she's not yours
/r/askMRP30/01/17 11:34 PM
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Well said
/r/askTRP14/01/17 02:20 PM
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Lol
/r/askTRP13/01/17 09:27 PM
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A few months. It's common to restart a plate after cooling off though
/r/askTRP13/01/17 09:26 PM
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In some ways, I think I fucked her soul. Damn good
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 12:52 PM
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Step one is to read the sidebar here. Nothing wrong with a relationship, but if you keep going as you are you will 100% break up after a long period of unhappiness. Chances are it'll slow your transformation to being a comfortable, masculine man too. But that's OK. Keep doing what you're doing with the dominance, keep trying new things. Her saying I'm not a dog is a shit test. There's lots of guides on how to respond to these. I'm lazy and usually just look them in the eyes and smile when I get …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 07:17 AM
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Bro just tell her you don't like it and you want to text much less. She'll say but I like talking to youuu, you tell her now you'll have more to talk about in person. Broken record this. She'll probably go into a "you only want me for sex" tailspin. I like to do positive reinforcement. Sexual or logistics texts get positive replies, everything else gets little attention
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 07:08 AM
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It's not your problem. A good friend might help him get in shape, but you don't have to fix everything. Even that is a large investment.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 02:19 AM
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My life's so great I have people reading my post history
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 11:49 PM
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You're just proving my points bud.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:49 PM
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You let internet people rock your frame. If we can anyone can. Your ego. You have serious snowflake syndrome. This entire post was seeking validation from us "judgemental" fucks. I don't care that you're a weeb but it's not something you'll have in common with many women as opposed to rock climbing hiking etc. You have no idea what you're talking about but think you do. None of this is bad. Most of us start off worse. Keep your head down and keep learning and having epiphanies and you'll find yo…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 06:27 PM
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There is a purple pill sub fyi. The guys that cut you down do so because they have probably made the same mistakes you're making. Your ego is fucking huge
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 11:01 AM
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Back at 180 at 6'. My goal is 200 in the next six months, then cut to leanness. 22 years. Lately I've been feeling actual connections with a few of the women I game, something that hasn't happened since I consciously began pursuing women for plates. I feel more comfortable and more in control in more and more situations, which makes me 100% present. Gaming in the past I was in my head like what do I say next but conversing and teasing is like walking now, I feel no pressure and just engage with …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/16 10:46 PM
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I get what youre saying. However, nothing she does outside of stealing your kids should be on your biggest fear list. Get through this headspace shift, focus on yourself. If it gets bad, the saying here is "trust but verify."
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 08:15 AM
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Agree except #4. Why even ask. We already know why she's trying to get closer. She should know if she cheats it's over, and you should know nothing you do will reduce her attraction to him. All you can do is make yourself more attractive and make your boundaries clear. OP I dont think you're ready to verbally address this without seeming butthurt yet. You're starting to see how attraction works, now try to make it work in your favor
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 06:26 AM
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How's a feminist screw in a lightbulb? She holds it in the socket and waits for the world to revolve around her
/r/askMRP25/11/16 07:52 AM
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You have your own tastes and values bud. I hope so at least
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/16 05:52 PM
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My parents had/have a similar dynamic. I actually have a post asking if you can change your father's views. The answer is maybe. Depends on the person, but it's not something to actively pursue since it's not your problem. I look at it like passive dread. They may see you taking charge and look at their own life. I'd actually guarantee they will. It's just whether they'll make a change. About 9 months ago when I started, I was telling my parents about what I wanted to achieve and who I wanted to…
/r/askMRP13/11/16 11:53 PM
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I really didn't like art of seduction either. Way too much historical anecdotal bullshit. Nothing really actionable. You get the same vibe?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 11:40 PM
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It's crazy how much goes into it. Most of it should be natural for us but God damn does that bp conditioning go deep. It's a nice progress marker when approach anxiety goes from uncomfortable to a nice adrenaline rush.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 11:37 PM
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Was kidding. No reason to not start interacting with other people now. Build AM. You don't have to fuck the women, and you can meet cool guys too.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 10:04 PM
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Dude took it down. That's a bummer
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 10:01 PM
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No you should only game your wife
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 08:47 PM
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Lmao holy shit that was good
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 09:04 AM
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For anyone else interested, another good series is Flashman.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 03:43 AM
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Thanks!
/r/askMRP02/11/16 03:42 AM
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Thanks! I'm actually an engineer. My space systems prof has a hard on for the Martian too. I'll check them out
/r/askMRP02/11/16 03:39 AM
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And then you swaggered back in, took the bj now instead of later, busted in her hair, and told her you're still going to wear whatever you want. Finally, you rolled over and slept empty balls and empty mind. She wakes you up in the middle of the night for sex cause she was so turned on she couldn't sleep. Happy ever after
/r/askMRP26/10/16 05:55 AM
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Is your mom the sweet feminine type or.. the other type? My mom's a fucking shark in a seal costume. Loving, but soon as you slip, she smells blood in the water and tears you apart.
/r/askMRP24/10/16 08:21 PM
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Mom: "can I invite your ex to Thanksgiving?" Me: "no" Sometimes life throws you a freebie. Not really a shit test but thought it was funny enough to share
/r/askMRP24/10/16 04:50 AM
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Best sex I ever have is around 6-9 months into a relationship. Every girl is different, but there's always a learning curve and then you get bored. Some girls have deep shit that stops them from embracing their horniness. Sometimes there isn't anything to do about it, sometimes you're just not attractive enough. I think you should stay the course until you are physically and mentally where you want to be. Then decide. I cant imagine what it's like to only know one pussy. I do know that fucking a…
/r/askMRP22/10/16 01:55 AM
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I wouldn't say over thinking. It's not like when I'm hanging with people im stuck in my head. More like my natural reactions when things don't go my way right now are either deer or try to fight. If I take a good while to think things over I make better decisions, reflected in that post. Lol fuck you and fuck my dishes. I'll fight you too bruh
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/16 08:39 PM
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Stuff I'm doing well. I lift and eat well. Socially I'm doing really well. Have a date tonight. Involved in 3 casual dancing groups. Constant interaction in these groups gave me a chance to practice things I normally can't given that I don't have a monogamous relationship. I find fun things to do and invite people I value. Sometimes they come, sometimes they don't, but I go regardless. must not be where i want to be or people would follow my lead more often. Not a big deal. I think the biggest c…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/16 01:04 AM
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I think if you asked the girls, they'd say it's a novel experience for the customer. For me, the music was excellent but I enjoyed seeing these women try to get people to buy dances. It reminded me of what it's like to hit on girls when you're game aware but unattractive. Most come at you with this vibe of sadness, like they know there's a 90% chance I'm going to shut them down but they still need the money. A few of them had real confidence about it though. They were fun to talk to but I still …
/r/askMRP16/10/16 12:59 AM
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Hahahah the clermont lounge? I was there a few months ago. Death metal and obese strippers you missed out bud
/r/askMRP16/10/16 12:22 AM
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If he's coming over and not fucking you he's probably jackin it too much. That's a tricky one to stop. Good luck
/r/askMRP13/10/16 09:57 PM
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Millennial generation is prone to extreme attention seeking behaviors partly due to social media and college pickup culture. How do you think this will propagate as we age? Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/16 07:52 PM
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Talk about what you want when you want. Practice feeling comfortable with intentional silence when you don't feel like speaking anymore. Once you really control a conversation, she will often even feel like any awkwardness is her fault and try to recover. Also remember it's more about how you say it and the status you convey than what you're actually talking about. Amused mastery naturally conveys solid status. Raising your smv will help a lot too. How much effort would you put into a conversati…
/r/askMRP30/09/16 06:55 PM
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Plan exciting things. Game her for fun
/r/askMRP25/09/16 06:59 AM
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Wish I'd read it yesterday lmao. Had a nice little outburst today
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 06:15 AM
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I was really looking forward to 4). Let down
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/16 03:37 PM
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All this would have been avoided if you hadn't told her your friend was leaving. Could have worked out in your favor even. Go to dinner, wife finds out they're leaving, realizes how unshakable your frame has been
/r/askMRP06/09/16 07:13 PM
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Get out of my head
/r/askMRP01/09/16 05:06 PM
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Victim pukes and many questions are a part of the process. however, if you're a guy wondering how to respond to a certain shit test or what dread level to go to, your first response shouldn't be what would mrp tell me. Then you're still not in control of trivial shit and nothing you say or do will be right. I do lack perspective though. If this post is detrimental nuke it
/r/askMRP01/09/16 04:32 PM
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Man made boxes and artificial atmosphere.. did you have a good trip? Work the system or die an idealist in the woods.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 08:22 PM
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Fuck
/r/askMRP16/08/16 12:47 PM
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I am pretty judgemental. It's part of my ego. Judgemental vs opinionated is something I can work on
/r/askMRP16/08/16 12:43 PM
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Being a clown is second nature to some of us. He recognized his error and corrected it in his sub prime state, then shared the experience. I see value in this post.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 06:41 PM
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Flight was delayed three hours. When we got in, this dude's wife said "y'all took so long getting here I was about to leave your ass.". Guy said nothing, but a good simple AM response would have been "is that so?" With a smirk, ass grab, and kiss.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/16 06:53 PM
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Women are rarely receptive to unsolicited advice, but I like how you handled it after
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/16 06:02 AM
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It is a bit broad, also a redundant post. I'll delete it
/r/askMRP29/06/16 02:53 AM
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You want things because you want them do you need to explain further? Serious question
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 05:41 PM
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This sounds familiar
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 02:56 AM
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