Hello,

I have noticed that I lack 'masculine' characteristics when it comes to social dynamics, physically I'm 5'7.5 and I am lifting everyday, becoming bigger. But my friends all tell me that if I had more 'confidence' I would be a sick person to hang out with.

I need to become more assertive, more fluent with social skills and be able to better voice an opinion/say what I want to say, and make a move when I'm actually on a date and not wuss out.

I know it seem's like I should be doing exactly that, but has anyone else been in my position, how did you get out of this and become the confident man you are now?