| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1438 | Little reminder about "red flags" | #YouKnowWhattoDo2022 | blasthead99 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 08:16 PM |
| 382 | Blocking guys you see in daily settings | STRATEGY | blasthead99 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 05:19 AM |
| 134 | Social media potential flag - should I block/delete? | DISCUSSION | blasthead99 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 08:14 AM |
| 46 | He looked at a girl's butt on a date | SEEKING ADVICE | blasthead99 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:58 PM |
| 31 | Need support blocking and deleting | RED FLAG 🚨 | blasthead99 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 07:39 AM |
| 15 | The term "pick me" is becoming mainstream | FDS SUCCESS! | blasthead99 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Creepy neighbor, how to proceed | DISCUSSION | blasthead99 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Any women's studies majors/minors on here? | DISCUSSION | blasthead99 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 05:45 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 197 | Blocking guys you see in daily settings"I tolerated you for as long as I could" This is hilarious 😂 I'm definitely using this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 05:43 AM |
| 91 | Blocking guys you see in daily settingsBeautifully explained, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 05:33 AM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 58 - The Great SlapGate Debate: Is Male Violence Ever The Answer?I agree about the celebrity gossip remark. I realize a lot of people liked the episode and that’s great, but personally I miss episodes geared more towards direct dating issues like red flags, PUA tactics, porn etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 09:12 PM |
| 206 | Little reminder about "red flags"Very true. To add to that, the reality of the situation is that whatever we are seeing about someone, it is safe to say we are not seeing the whole picture. For instance, let's say we found out a guy we're dating went to a strip club. Chances are he's been more times than we know of and likely hired prostitutes at some point also. Or maybe we find out someone verbally abused their ex - there's a good chance there was physical abuse as well. Women who stay with partners that had an affair often r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 12:03 AM |
| 260 | Little reminder about "red flags"Yikes! And for some reason it's always our friends berating us for leaving over red flags. A female friend of mine recently said to me "I mean every guy is going to have a couple of red flags." Um, no. Every guy is going to have a couple of flaws. Everyone on earth has flaws. But red flags? RUN to the nearest exit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 09:49 PM |
| 9 | The term "pick me" is becoming mainstreamI clicked on one of those stupid snapchat discover stories today out of boredom. Despite how libfemmy they are usually are and how terrible they are with objectifying women, I was pleased to see the term "pick me" used on this snapchat discover story about Euphoria. The lingo is spreading! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 12:43 AM |
| 84 | Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?Literally all the time. Think of it this way - their whole lives, men have been told that what they are doing is completely fine. Watching porn, having sex with multiple women at once, hitting and quitting it, breadcrumbing etc. Mainstream (liberal) feminism even encourages this behavior. Now finally, along comes FDS (or any radical feminist subs) that actually point out how shitty their behavior has been their entire lives. Not only that, but threatens to enact change. If all women blocked guys… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 06:59 PM |
| 7 | Social media potential flag - should I block/delete?He doesn't have any other social media, only Facebook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 06:25 PM |
| 163 | Consent isn’t just a wordOr if the word “no” later turns into “yes” because you wouldn’t quit pressuring her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 03:56 PM |
| 29 | Women and IG vs Internet PornDid it ever occur to them that if it was pornstars being “prettier” we were pissed about, we’d be bitching about actresses and models just as often? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 01:34 AM |
| 59 | Women and IG vs Internet PornAnyone else notice this getting cross-posted to an anti-FDS community, and the only conclusion they could garner why we'd be against porn is that "women are prettier than us on the internet?" Sure, it has nothing to do with the choking, name-calling, spitting on, and other abhorrent violence in the movies, not to mention the PIED it has resulted in across the globe. Dear lord they are fucking delusional. (And while this isn't the point, from what I've seen, about 9/10 pornstars are either flat o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 09:46 PM |
| 70 | Women and IG vs Internet PornYes, BIG time. This is very well said. I think porn is one of the worst things to happen to women in all of our history (and considering how bad our history has been, that is saying a lot) I don't know what's worse - the degrading acts themselves, or the fact that this is what's getting the men we interact with daily off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:51 PM |
| 113 | The Awakening is Hard.Personally, I had already been awakened through years of negative experiences with men, and finding FDS was a relief because I finally found validation for exactly what I had been thinking and feeling for years. The "awakening" happened when I kept experiencing the same abuse, gaslighting, creepy BS, and pornsick insanity from all different men and it was my anger at that people said was the problem. There was a major "aha!" moment of relief to not only know many other women were feeling the sam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 06:29 AM |
| 48 | SWer finds out her dad watches porn. Calls him vile and disgusting. He doesn’t get why and neither does Reddit.You put this so well. This was the exact state of mind I was in when I was quitting stripping. I realized there is no difference between the creeps coming in to see me and every other man I knew. Really no difference at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 10:47 PM |
| 132 | Strippers are finally coming out with the truth. Faithful and respectable men DO NOT go to strip clubs. you’re not a ‘cool girl’ who lets her man go hang out with strippers. You’re just a fool who is getting playedI was a dancer for five years (I quit several years ago) and although I 100% agree strip clubs are disgusting, abuse-filled garbage and the men who go are cheating, it is not standard at any non-seedy club for the dancer to jerk the guy off. Yes, it can happen depending on the club and girl, but it’s not what a typical lap dance entails. Just wanted to clear that up. I agree it’s messed up regardless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 09:32 AM |
| 6 | Let’s talk about choosing not to blockIt's absolutely possible to block someone out of annoyance while not caring much at all. This is the same reason people block spam numbers on their phone The inner peace thing is totally justified too, but blocking does not equal caring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 08:27 AM |
| 45 | Current guy I’m talking to lied about his height on dating appNot only does this indicate dishonesty, but shows he believes the stupid and sexist notion that women are only interested in guys over 6 feet tall. Every time I've seen men discuss their belief that women want really tall men, it's in the form of some sexist tantrum about how shallow we are or their false perception of why they aren't getting laid. The fact he felt that 5'10" would not be tall enough for most women is definitely a red flag in how he views us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 03:52 AM |
| 43 | Exposure to pornography in childhood can lead to the worst of porn addiction. I don’t think this is happening on accident, either.I am in my late 20s and grew up with no smartphones and my computer access was fairly monitored growing up. I absolutely despise porn and am very deeply against it. Still, despite all this, the handful of porn I did see in my early teens rewired my brain for life. I still have it ingrained into me a desire to watch or replay videos in my mind sometimes YEARS later! It never goes away. It's like a program deep within your mind. Now consider the fact that many men started at like age 9, and now sm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 05:33 AM |
| 191 | I feel like there are no good menI am by far the most confident, best looking and all around best catch I've ever been in my life now in my late 20s and yet no day compares to the leers from adult men I'd get when I was under 18 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 09:25 AM |
| 311 | Spotted in another thread. She needs FDS!I disagree with comments saying it's because she's over 30 - I think porn is almost entirely to blame (and perhaps social media as well, which nowadays is basically the same thing). For absolutely zero dollars and no effort whatsoever, men can have any sexual experience they want in the privacy of their home. Meanwhile real women cost money and require them to put effort not only into the relationship but to themselves. They generally only dated us for sex in the first place and now they can acc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 02:58 AM |
| 58 | Any tips on how to engage a man emotionally without sex being on the table?Sorry this doesn't directly answer your question but I will say, if a guy loses interest because you're not offering sex early enough, this is the same type of guy who would have left after getting it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:34 PM |
| 30 | Men use going to the strip club as an excuse to openly cheat without actually labeling it as cheating. You are gaslit by society and men to accept this particular scenario of cheatingAnd that's not even including social media, cam girls and onlyfans where men regularly interact with sex workers (or just friends/coworkers who happen to have onlyfans) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 06:26 PM |
| 56 | Men use going to the strip club as an excuse to openly cheat without actually labeling it as cheating. You are gaslit by society and men to accept this particular scenario of cheatingI used to dance also and this hit the nail on the head | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 03:32 AM |
| 144 | Men use going to the strip club as an excuse to openly cheat without actually labeling it as cheating. You are gaslit by society and men to accept this particular scenario of cheatingI was a stripper for about 5 years and we had bachelor parties all the time. It really depends on the club and on the girl, but in every club I ever worked touching is allowed. Only in specific states and cities is touching not standard - more often than not it is allowed. In Vegas, where most men go for this, touching is allowed and pretty much guaranteed. Technically touching is fine everywhere except the vagina though some girls even allow that. Most bachelors will end up in the VIP room whic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 03:25 AM |
| 14 | Yes, that’s EXACTLY what I’m saying, and I won’t stop saying it.I don’t know a single woman who has not been a victim of attempted or successful rape and/or a sexual assault at least once in her lifetime. Not a single one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 04:42 PM |
| 31 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women.On a side note - does anyone else think the guys in that group chat might be homosexual, or at least bi? A group of men sitting around talking about their sexual fantasies together, and getting off to what their friends are fantasizing about.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:43 AM |
| 100 | Scrote wants woman to pay for dates, even though they’re not exclusive after several dates. Pretty impressed to see the comments from other guys saying that they happily pay for dates.Even with him having paid for all the meals, you know she's likely spent twice that much on the gym, makeup, hair appoints etc in the meantime. Men conveniently forget this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 03:04 PM |
| 7 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 14 - Dr. Gail Dines & the Queens Rage Against the Porn MachineYou are my fucking heroes!!!! I can feel my soul screaming with joy listening to this podcast. Is there a way to make a donation without signing up for a recurring subscription? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:30 AM |
| 8 | Men who take naked pictures of sleeping women, and men who use hidden cameras to secretly film their sexual encounters, are compelling reasons to avoid casual sex until you have thoroughly vetted his character.This 100%...I really wish there was a way to easily find this out. I only made one tape about 8 years ago and I'm shocked it never surfaced - my concern is more directed towards hidden cameras. I've slept with some major scumbags in my pickme days and I'd be shocked if none of them recorded me against my will. I do have a very specific body type and could probably just start searching but that sounds absolutely abhorrent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 06:01 AM |
| 24 | Men who take naked pictures of sleeping women, and men who use hidden cameras to secretly film their sexual encounters, are compelling reasons to avoid casual sex until you have thoroughly vetted his character.In this case, the guy was just blatantly not ashamed of being pornsick. He liked pornstars photos on instagram and stuff and even left pornhub on his "top visited sites" on his homepage when he pulled his laptop out. It was 100% normalized to him, I don't think hiding it ever occurred to him because it was just something humans do like eating in his mind. I didn't give it much thought because I wasn't interested in dating him and he genuinely seemed to be a good, fun friend. Then this shit happe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:55 AM |
| 82 | Men who take naked pictures of sleeping women, and men who use hidden cameras to secretly film their sexual encounters, are compelling reasons to avoid casual sex until you have thoroughly vetted his character.Hell, this can happen just by having pornsick men as friends too. A couple years ago before I realized pornsick men are not only men to avoid dating but to avoid in general, I was friends with one. He is trusted and well liked by most people in the community including women. We ended up being roommates and the asshole took a picture of me one day when I was changing. It absolutely sucked because now I had to move out and find a new place to live just to feel safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 05:37 PM |
| 161 | it's sad because our pain will only ever be hypothetical to themMet a guy recently who went on a “feminist” rant when I played a song that said the word bitch in it a few times, but about an hour earlier had been discussing his enjoyment of porn and threesomes. You can’t make this shit up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 07:00 AM |
| 83 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).Lmao at the cargo pants... I showed up in a dress and heels looking great once and the idiot showed up in what appeared to be swim trunks!! I straight up asked him “why the hell are you wearing swim trunks” and he said they were “board shorts” and were all he wears. Waste. Of. Time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:27 PM |
| 22 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).LOL omg. I had a guy ask me to Venmo him $200 for gifts he had bought me once. (I blocked him immediately after). These men are literally just handing us blackmail to use against them...imagine us sending these screenshots to their future gfs “this is what you’ll be dealing with when you break up!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:24 PM |
| 30 | If *men* didn't demand the service of sex workers, there would be no sex "work"One of the best arguments I’ve read against sex work: http://logosjournal.com/2014/watson/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:11 PM |
| 7 | Men with an impossibly long list of "preferences" don't actually require a potential girlfriend to meet every single one, they just want the opportunity to devalue any woman who might date them, and an excuse to always keep one foot out the door looking for someone betterWhat's funny is that these are dudes who know we prefer something other than their ugly dad bods and early balding (though we're not rude enough to say that to them) so they try to get the upper hand by pretending the woman who is out of his league needs improvement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 06:42 PM |
| 22 | This is why we say no to coffee dates. Before finding FDS, I agreed to a coffee date. He was supposed to text me a time to meet but never did. The NEXT DAY he asked me why I didn't wake him upImagine turning this absurdity back around on them. "I forgot I had a zoom meeting today, why didn't you remind me??? I briefly mentioned it in conversation once, you should have called to make sure I was up and would make it in time!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 06:06 PM |
| 25 | Women are finally allowing themselves to admit that they do not support the porn industry and they do not want their partners to do so eitherI attempted to watch porn a few weeks ago for the first time in over a year...and I just ended up feeling sick to my stomach about 2 minutes in. I saw an ad for a clip where three girls who looked barely 18 were stacked on top of each other as some ugly dude got ready to drill them. First thought I had aside from how young they looked was "yikes, that does not look physically comfortable and is terribly degrading." Moments later there was another video preview thing for a girl who once again loo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 06:16 PM |
| 13 | We need to stop with the myth that dating is sooo hard for all men and that men will treasure you because your attention is rare. 🗣 THEY’RE PLAYING ALL OF US AND THIS IS HOW!You hit the nail on the head with this one. We're taught to think "oh, this 5/10 will be grateful he landed a 9 or 10 and will treat me well out of fear of losing me!" when the reality is he will now see that he can land a 9 or 10 and try and manipulate as many as he can into having sex with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 05:15 AM |
| 1 | OC: I decided to do a little gender swap on that horrible meme. I’m not a cartoonist but I hope you enjoy it! 🥰So much talent and humor in this artwork. Seriously, if you made more of these you could probably go viral with them. Really nice work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 07:22 PM |
| 53 | This. I felt this was since i was 13 and got exposed to hardcore porn. People told me that i will change my mind when i grow up. But now i'm 21 and still feel this way, even worse now after my encounters with men and all the misogynyOr worse, they do go down on us but they suck horribly and its not pleasurable whatsoever. That's been my experience every single time a guy has gone down on me...literally not one exception. Best oral sex I've ever received was from another girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 07:52 PM |
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