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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Lacking Self Acceptance and getting easily attachedThank you so much. I really appreciate the time you took to write this. I wish you the best! | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Lacking Self Acceptance and getting easily attachedThank you for this helpful response! That might be a dumb question, but how do I start loving myself? | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Fearless course by Mark Manson saved me and then i lost ithave you found it?? | /r/seduction | 04/11/22 03:26 AM |
| -2 | Having a mindset of gratitude is an underrated component of being attractiveI agree to 99%. I doubt that you have independent thoughts tho | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Silence during a dateGood advice, thanks! | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Silence during a dateI should have elaborated this. Since I meet the girl for the first time and I am not a huge player, every silence feels awkward to me. I don’t know how she feels. It’s not that we are silent for 5 min. I just start talking even before a silence can come up bc I am nervous. And I think with that I disqualify myself | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Silence during a dateWhat do you mean? | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Silence during a dateThat's not true in m opinion. I think you can't talk all the time. It's normal that there will be silence, I just have to get more comfortable with it | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Silence during a dateyes, but I think you can't talk all the time. It's normal that there will be silence, I just have to get more comfortable with it | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Am I being too passive?Yea I meant how should I do it next time | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Direct or indirect opener?Do you have a better one? | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 05:48 PM |
| 4 | Am I being too passive?The “do you want to connect is unusual” and likely not doing you any favors. Don’t be afraid to end the conversation without asking them out and do it later. That puts you firmly in control but how should I ask her for her social media or her number? | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 02:31 PM |
| 2 | After getting the number, when should I text?Sry! Random approach | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How do I get a idgaf attitude?journal? about what? | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 04:27 AM |
| 2 | How do I get a idgaf attitude?Yes, you are right! How crazy is it that someone else gets to decide how I feel? | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | How do I get a idgaf attitude?Yes, but it feels like death is still far away (I know, you never know). For me, the pain of not doing it seems smaller than the pain of doing it. And I don't know how to change that. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I get a idgaf attitude?How did you start meditation? I am usually doing it 20 min per day but I have been doing it for 6 months now and it feels like I don’t improve at all | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 10:28 PM |
| 6 | How do I get a idgaf attitude?That’s the thing. I don’t want to look back when I am old and regret things. I want to start living the way I want to live, and honestly, I don’t even know what I want. I know that I want to remembered as someone who always faced his fears and never gave up, but there are often situation in which I nevertheless cave in | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Warm Up before going outI am not able to do this yet. I am still a beginner and need to overcome approaching anxiety. That’s why a warmup is key for me | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | NO matter you like RSD in general or not, this is a great video from Tyler on How To Warm Up And Build Social Momentum (of course everything from RSD is about night game)is it still available? the link doesn't work for me | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Toxic/low value behavior I have seen in most men that enter game that you need to be on the lookout for.where did you meet these guys? I think having a group would help me approaching women and getting out of the comfort zone since then I would then have to report to someone. But I dont know how to find other guys who are interested in this | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Demonstrate value after approachingI like the advice, thanks! | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Neil Strauss 30 days challenge - Day 4yea exactly like that haha. I went to a mall so I feel its a little bit easier | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Overcome approaching anxiety challengebro tell that my mind haha | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Overcome approaching anxiety challengeAt what point during the conversation to you usually do that? | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Overcome approaching anxiety challengeI just noticed that sometimes I have to convince my mind that the approach is the right thing to do. It feels like my mind tries to assess the situation first and find out if approaching is "okay". I need to learn to follow my instincts, bc by the time I've convince my mind, sometimes the girls is already gone | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Overcome approaching anxiety challengeThank you!! But do you know any challenge in the internet, where you have to challenge yourself every day? I feel that increases the chances to stick with it | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Neil Strauss 30 days - Day 2I am at Day 7 rn so I am gonna post more days tomorrow. I wrote all my experiences down though | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Neil Strauss 30 days challenge to overcome approaching anxietyCan you send me the link? | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 08:20 PM |
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