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Well that's what you get for filling your head with that shit.
/r/seduction03/09/22 05:17 AM
6

Absolutely, this is more for younger/inexperienced guys.
/r/seduction03/09/22 05:08 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/seduction03/09/22 03:10 AM
1

I guess that's a zero.
/r/seduction03/09/22 02:40 AM
2

How many women have you approached this week
/r/seduction03/09/22 02:17 AM
2

This information of yours is useless, even if it were true. Maximize your appearance and do cold approach, end of story.
/r/seduction03/09/22 02:09 AM
4

If you leave your house, you'll see plenty of men who are average or below average with pretty girlfriends. I see it literally everyday. So reality does not reflect your claim.
/r/seduction03/09/22 02:00 AM
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Useless post that belongs in the garbage. I guess the only thing to really glean from this is that women are generally a terrible source for pickup advice.
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:15 PM
1

You think so?
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:14 PM
1

Thanks but shhh, keep it between you and me. I don't want other guys stealing it ;)
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:11 PM
5

Good to know it's not just me :) literally my experience too.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:06 PM
1

Lol I love your drive. I've tried 10 in a day and it can be pretty taxing, but if you have the stamina, go for it. I personally say 3-5 per day is okay.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:04 PM
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I'm with the previous commenter. I sort of agree that sex sort of underlies everything we do, but also that once you get sex regularly, it's no big deal. If you had 5 supermodels on your bed, assuming you've been in a relationship with them for a month or more, it'd be no big deal to you. When you're not getting sex, it's like being hungry and seeing a steak dinner. Your mouth starts watering and you fantasize about the taste and satisfaction of it. Once you eat and your stomach is full, the ste…
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:56 PM
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You nailed it.
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:52 PM
3

You're lucky you had your boys to do this with, I'm doing this shit all on my own. I'm just out here with my ass hanging in the breeze lol
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:36 PM
1

I'd do at least 3 per day. 1 per day isn't enough in my experience.
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:34 PM
5

I think the real key is simply if you disagree with something, tell her you disagree, or just say nothing, and don't change your stance because of her unless she offers an actual well-thought-out argument which actually DOES change your mind (but 99% of the time, that's not gonna happen). Basically, don't pretend to agree even when you don't just to "keep the conversation smooth" or whatever, because in reality all you're doing is killing your chances.
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:29 PM
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I'd be impressed if the majority of them actually messaged you back.
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:26 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:21 PM
5

"height color race does not matter to the needy one" what does that mean
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:18 PM
1

One little tip I learned from a good PUA: don't think in terms of "rejection", there's only results. They declined your offer, in the same way a friend would decline going out with you on a particular night cuz he doesn't feel like it. Would you be all like "aww no my friend rejected me", no he just declined your invitation. etc.
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:16 PM
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"removed by moderators"
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:03 PM
1

I said in another reply to try to leave the girl better than when you found her, so yeah...
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:31 PM
1

I really never see girls getting approached at bars or clubs. Concerts and festival idk I don't go to those. Like I said though, go to anywhere with a bunch of sober people, you'll see zero cold approaches.
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:28 PM
1

Oh, well the thing is to just barge in regardless if it feels right. If you sit there waiting for the perfect moment, you'll be waiting forever.
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:33 AM
1

I know. My text game is very rusty, and yeah the second part of that sentence is true as well. I lost a lot of momentum because I didn't do approaches for a week because of the heat. But yeah getting the girl to invest is where I struggle now I think. I usually just want to do the approach and get out of there lol, so lots of nervous energy still. My structure is very basic: basically "hey i thought you were cute and wanted to say hi" introduce self etc. It sucks and needs improvement for sure, …
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:56 AM
2

In my opinion it's the best way because of the peripheral effects (confidence, literally making society better, fighting the technocracy, etc.), but yeah. I think if rejections make you want to off yourself, then you're just not in the right place mentally or in life to even have a girl in your life at the moment. Maybe there's other things you need to take care of first.
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:25 AM
1

I think even if the genetic theory is true, it's more nuanced than that. But I don't think it's genetics, I think it's upbringing/conditioning. But yeah I agree with the last part in any case.
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:21 AM
2

Lmao, I'm sorry to hear that. You may be coming at it with the wrong attitude/intention/from the wrong place.
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:19 AM
1

You have free speech (unless you're not American). There's no law saying you can't start conversations with women. The creepy police are not going to come and arrest you. You are not violating any consent by walking up to a girl and talking, no matter what she's doing (unless she's in a changing room or bathroom). If a girl tells you to leave her alone, say "take care" and leave. Simple. Everything else goes. Your comment is a thought process that comes from a person who doesn't do approaches. W…
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:17 AM
2

Yes it is actually. Go hang out in a crowded area with lots of foot traffic. You will probably see ZERO men do a cold approach.
/r/seduction02/09/22 05:03 AM
2

Oh boy I've been shadow banned from tinder a few times that's for sure. Even when I wasn't shadow banned, it still sucked and is only a shadow of its former self. The days when you got unlimited swipes without having to pay and there weren't a bunch of women simply using it as a way to promote their social media, those were the days. I tried it a couple months ago and it was pure garbage. What a waste of time.
/r/seduction02/09/22 04:56 AM
2

Right, using apps can and does work (assuming you have good pics and all that), but I think the rewards you get from cold approaching far outweighs using apps. For me Tinder just isn't worth it anymore. It was good back in the day, now it's garbage. I tried Hinge for a short period, but wow, that sh*t is way too much effort, no thanks. Maybe it's just me but once I experienced the rush of doing cold approaches a few times, dating apps just feel boring and mostly a waste of time, not to mention y…
/r/seduction02/09/22 04:54 AM
2

Lol! I think it has the potential to change the world, the whole PUA thing certainly did, but hardly anyone does cold approaches anymore. Everyone is choosing instead to keep feeding the algorithm/surveillance system. Create some chaos man! But be cool, don't be mean or weird :) peaceful chaos.
/r/seduction02/09/22 03:04 AM
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You know, maybe that is an effective strategy, but I'm too lazy for that man :P plus it sounds boring having to take a bunch of pics and posting them and doing all that sh*t blehhh. I find going out into the wild and cold approaching way more exhilarating ;) and I don't think you get all the side-effect/benefits listed here from doing "IG game." And yeah part of the point of my post was to get off social media and fight the technocracy lol.
/r/seduction02/09/22 03:00 AM
2

Lol well yeah, but sometimes small tweaks like that make a big difference.
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:13 AM
1

EXACTLY! But shhh maybe we should keep it a secret...
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:12 AM
3

I agree with everything here except the having to read the mood part. This is a common misconception. We think we have to read a girl's body language before approaching, it's actually the other way around: you calibrate and read her emotions AFTER you've opened her. I'm giving away free gold here, I might write a book on all this.
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:09 AM
5

Absolute f-ing bullsh*t, I RARELY see guys doing cold approaches, not even in bars.
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:07 AM
1

If you have the slightest urge to, then yes. I would, and I have. It totally might go nowhere, but at least you did it.
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:46 AM
2

In my experience that's not the case, especially if you walk in unfazed by her attractiveness (because you've done so many cold approaches and now have a thick skin).
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:45 AM
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Right, if that were true, then all women would dress unattractively and not take care of themselves...
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:43 AM
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Well, you do you. Meanwhile others will be out doing cold approaches and reaping the rewards which, as has been stated here, extend far beyond just being good with women/getting dates/sex, which maybe you'd experience for yourself if you actually tried it. But if you do, remember that consistency is key, do 3-5 approaches everyday (or more). After a month, you'll see...
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:12 PM
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Lol that's simply not true. Jut leave your fcking house and you'll see pretty unattractive guys with pretty girlfriends, I literally see it everyday.
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:00 PM
9

Oh look we got a squeaky clean conformist here doing things by the book. Good for you man, stay in their system like a good little guinea pig, never leave the Matrix.
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:51 PM
6

Possibly, but what will definitely change the results will be if OP really consistently does 3-5 (or more) approaches everyday. That I can say with pretty much 100% confidence.
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:47 PM
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In my experience, very attractive women actually aren't that picky, idk why tf guys on the internet keep saying this. It's literally this: some women are picky, others are not, regardless of their attractiveness. END OF STORY. End this f*cking "very attractive women are picky" myth already.
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:40 PM
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To your last sentence, exactly. But who cares what they say, approach anyway.
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:27 PM
4

That's all you have to say after reading my post? :[
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:25 PM
15

Those feelings will pass eventually. A way I think about it is right after an approach, whether it went well or not, I think in my mind "that's 1". On the next, I think "that's 2" and so on till I get at least 3-5, then I can go home feeling good that I at least did my approaches.
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:13 PM
10

In the month of doing this, no. I've gotten like 15 numbers though, and I can now get like 1 number out of 3 girls I approach, so I've improved vastly. I almost got a date, but the timing was bad because I had to study for an exam. I think I definitely would've gotten that one but had to wait a week because of studying etc. and by then I think her feelings of excitement wore off and it ended up going nowhere -_- Also, I haven't been doing approaches for the last week or so because it's been so f…
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:10 PM
3

Yes, I absolutely agree with most of this. "If you use it for self-improvement that's fine but it won't be mechanistically different than just trying to learn how to socialize better in a social circle" this I actually somewhat disagree with. I think doing cold approach will make you more assertive and charismatic in a way that simply socializing in a social circle will not. But yeah, I 100% agree that the more you think about it, the more you won't do it. The only reason I'm not out doing it ri…
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:03 PM
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Mine is pretty much the same except with minor differences depending on the situation. I think being direct is good when you're first starting out. But honestly, for me at this point, I'm doing it more for the confidence and adrenaline more than wanting a girl haha. Like I'm doing it more for the side effects listed here. Literally creating peaceful chaos. One thing I'll say is always try to leave the girl better than when you found her, always try to leave her in a better mood. If you can't, oh…
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:54 PM
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Okay, maybe modify it to "Hey I know this is random but I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi." You could also try indirect and say "hey I thought you looked interesting and wanted to say hi." Honestly 4 isn't anything. Do 3-5 a day for a month, your approaches will automatically get better. If you're doing it and it's making you feel really down, come back here and I'll try to help.
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:53 PM
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Yep, that just goes to show you how rare it is. It's literally like 1 in 10,000 guys.
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:48 PM
10

Only a small part of my whole post was about women's psychology bro, did you not read the rest.
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:42 PM
2

What's your opener?
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:42 PM
9

Yeah I understand the urge to do this because it can be intense asf, but you do have to try to have at least a 2 minute conversation with them. At least do a direct approach and tell them you thought they were cute/looked badass w/e and wanted to say hi, THEN ask for her number.
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:06 PM
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Yes, interesting. The thing is though I think 99% of the time, the excuses of "I'm too busy/she's too busy" are just that: excuses. That's an inner game/mindset thing, and I think it'd be a problem even if we weren't a capitalist society. I actually think the "black pill" community exists to keep more men in the house, in the system (internet). Because whether the black pill ideas are true or not, what effect does belief in them have? -stay in house, there's no point = more time on internet = ke…
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:00 PM
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I'd just be direct. Here's what I'd do: Approach a girl you're interested and ask for the time, when she gives you the time, then say "I know this is random but I also thought you were cute and wanted to say hi." She will then do/say whatever she does or says and then you say "Well, aren't you gonna tell me I'm cute too?" Then she'll say whatever she says, then you extend your hand and introduce yourself "I'm (your name)". If she says she has a bf or w/e at any point during the interaction, you …
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:18 PM
3

You can not give af what others think of you while also being compassionate/empathetic to those in need.
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:10 PM
2

Lol no no no, "good looking loser" was just the name of the PUA I'm referring to. He used to have a youtube channel where he showed all of his approaches and whatnot, it was hilarious and helpful.
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:55 PM
2

Eh see it gets all complicated and sh*t, this is why I have to fight the urge to game at the gym too. I don't like having to be indirect and also risking becoming "that creepy guy who hits on all the girls at the gym."
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:41 PM
2

Dude very few if any woman would say "who even are you/were you watching me?" and if she does ask you that, it'd most likely be a shit test, which is a good thing. Like that's one of those things that you think will happen when you've never done any cold approaches before. Also, if you're gonna hit on women, you have to risk being cringe af, and creepy af, etc.
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:37 PM
2

You could just barge in (as per advice of "good looking loser") and start talking, "hey what's up how you doing?" etc.
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:33 PM
2

Yeah this actually.
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:28 PM
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Fair enough, that's actually a pretty good opener, simple and honest. I'm working on getting comfortable going out alone. I went to a bar alone, spoke to the first girl I saw when I walked in, she said she was looking for her bf, and I said good luck with that. Went to the bathroom, came out and talked to two girls for a couple minutes before losing my nerve, wishing them a good night and leaving lol. The only vibe I'm giving off in bars at the moment is "holy shit this is intense". I don't drin…
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:03 AM
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Commenting so I can read this later :>
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:54 AM
1

Some PUAs have said to use texting only as a way to hang out, and/or use it to ask if you can call them, that way there's no BS.
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:52 AM
2

I feel you. I would've totally struggled with that too, especially at college age. You could try the "gun to the head" technique, just imagine a man has a gun to your head and is forcing you to go talk to a girl you're interested in. OR know that the inner resistance you're feeling is simply your body's way of telling you that this is something that counts and you better go do it. So basically the more resistance you feel, the more you have to go approach. These are just mental techniques though…
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:50 AM
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Number. I wouldn't waste time with Insta. I don't even have an Insta. If she's cool, you could always tell her you don't believe in social media. If she's really cool, you can tell her you don't believe in social media because it's primarily used for data gathering and predicting behaviors/thought patterns in order to manipulate us by private corporations and intelligence agencies, but she's probably not gonna be that cool...
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:46 AM
1

Two questions: are you going alone or with friends? Will you be drinking or sober?
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:41 AM
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Go out and approach 3-5 hot girls per day. Don't live in scarcity. Also, you create chaos doing cold approaches. You don't create any chaos using their system (tinder/dating sites).
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:40 AM
1

Lol damn, this makes me hate Tinder even more. F*ck dating apps man, start doing cold approaches. Even when they go bad and you have your ego shattered during the first month, always take solace in the fact that you're creating chaos, permanently f*cking up the algorithm because you're off the grid/net and doing something 99% of people would never do. On Tinder you're under their full surveillance, logging every move into the system and thus handing more control over your mind to these pricks. G…
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:10 AM
1

Yeah, I agree with your first paragraph. 80-90 huh? How old are you? I'm 30 and I don't think I'd even be able to physically do that. Your second paragraph is...a lil weird sounding but we'll forget about that for now. Could you answer the 7 questions in my first post please? If you've really done this, they should be very simple to answer, no follow up post necessary for me.
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:56 AM
2

I've noticed a lot of the replies supporting OP in a weird way have accounts that were made in the last 3-5 years... I noticed these types of posts started popping up around that time (2017-ish). Just an observation.
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:45 AM
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Any person without Aspergers/Autism would cringe* . When I was 22 I had relations with hmmm around 20 women. I was also an alcoholic and on SNRI's. I've also had friends who were always good with women. Neither me nor any of these guys would ever write anything like #9. But sure, I guess it's possible that he's just a "hot guy" who writes cringely, even though he also claims to be "charming"...
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:40 AM
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I find it extremely unlikely that a person who fits your description would come on here and write this giant post about it.
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:40 AM
2

You only did this in bars? Were you out alone or with friends? Were you drunk/drinking? Or did you do day game? What was your approach/opener? How did this fit into your schedule? If you'd said 15-30 girls, I'd believe that, but 56? Not even Casanova had that kind of stamina. Did you game them and immediately take them to your car? Let's hear some specifics. And no offense but judging by the tone of your post and comments, you do not strike me as someone this actually happened to. Just my opinio…
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:21 AM
1

Yep, I agree with all that. Good on you for saying she has a beautiful smile, that takes balls, but wait you were buzzed so maybe not as much ;)
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:09 AM
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Okay, if it came from the heart I suppose it can work. It's all about congruence/honesty, that's something I'm learning.
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:07 AM
1

Okay so I took a break from Reddit, now I'm back. I got to the point where I can get numbers pretty damn well, like 1 out of 3 approaches, but now my problem is getting the girl(s) to text back /: also I haven't been doing any approaches at all unfortunately because it's been SO HOT where I live, it's been difficult for me to go out and game, like I'm gonna get a damn heat stroke doing this lol. I haven't really tried night game yet, it takes massive cajones to go out alone at night so I'm doing…
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:03 AM
1

Efficient or not, it's not actual approaching.
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:57 AM
1

Yeah that's the whole thing, like what is a "boyfriend" anyway? A casual dating relationship right? Fair game if you ask me. If she's engaged or married, that I respect.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:28 PM
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I mean, you weren't there so you can't say for sure. Lol I'm not hung up, trust me. I'm doing 3-5 approaches a day or more, I literally forget who I approached 30 minutes ago sometimes.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:21 PM
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"Girls don’t cheat with random men they are approached by on the street unless you are famous" = limiting belief lol, but as I said, I wouldn't do it anyway.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:19 PM
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Lol no, I know the difference between a girl who is just charming and actually having chemistry.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:17 PM
1

Sounds good, but how do you ask for her number to be friends when you've opened her with "hey I thought you were cute and just wanted to see what you're like" lol. Gotta open indirect for that to work...right?
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:57 AM
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Stay in touch with her. Maybe her bf is an a-hole and she is in fact thinking about breaking up with him anyway. You never know. OR she is cool with cheating and just wants you to know for the record that she has a bf (personally I wouldn't do that).
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:55 AM
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Eh I disagree with the first part. I'm pretty good at feeling out situations, I can tell when a girl is interested in me or not. But yeah, 98% of the time I'd agree with you, just move on to the next girl, but I do believe some persistence is fine if you sincerely feel like you guys have a connection. Finding chemistry like that isn't super common, and I don't think it's something you should just brush off.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:42 AM
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Lol my bad, HER brother did him a solid. I'm tired x)
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:31 AM
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Oh yeah, I don't literally mean saying "take care" and leaving lol, like I mean continuing talking for a bit then saying it was nice talking to you, have a nice day etc. I've been pretty direct in my approaches. Literally walking up and saying "excuse me, I just wanted to say I thought you were cute and wanted to see what you're like" then introduce myself etc. I sometimes preface that with "I'm not hitting on you, but I just wanted to say I thought you were cute" etc. Would you consider that su…
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:27 AM
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Damn your brother did you a solid. Well that's cool and very fortunate.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:04 AM
2

Lmao!
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:00 AM
-2

For sure, I think the only exception is if she seems into you and you REALLY feel like you have good chemistry, at which point tell her that you feel that way from the heart, and suggest to exchange numbers at least to be friends. But yeah, most of the time it just means she's unavailable sexually (has a bf), she's not into you, or you just botched your approach. I think the latter case can be fixed, but it's very difficult at that point, and maybe a more experienced guy can pull it off.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:00 AM
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Dopamine hits. Low self-esteem. Validation. Vanity. Feeding the inner demons. Part of me wishes an EMP would take out all electronics, but that would also suck cuz we wouldn't have this (and Youtube, and lots of other extremely useful things). Gotta take the good with the bad you know.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:50 AM
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I feel you, Tinder nowadays sucks ass. It was pretty good up until around 2018. Then it turned to shi*t.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:45 AM
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She was drunk. There's your answer. Get into a situation where you and her are hanging out and she gets drunk if possible. Lol
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:43 AM
0

I would've done it/said it more indirectly, because even if she'd wanted to, agreeing to that might've made her feel slutty, so she HAD to say she was just playing, see. Like it probably would've been better to text her later that week and ask if she'd be down to hang out, go hiking, to a park, or whatever, any situation where it's just the two of you. If she makes herself unavailable, then fck that b*tch she's just teasing you. I'd drop her instantly.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:27 AM
5

Pff he's not approaching, he's on a dating site. Big difference.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:23 AM
2

This.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:22 AM
3

How'd you meet?
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:20 AM
1

Lol oh the days of having oneitis... Hopefully you live in a big city, because if so, cold approach 10 girls, or 3 girls a day, you'll forget about her after 1 week, or 2 weeks tops.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:14 AM
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I'd say it depends on your age. If you're in your early 20s, you can get away with just meeting up for drinks and hang out in your car/drive around. If you're older, still meet for drinks then go to a park, your place, her place, or wherever is nice and chill. If you don't drink, then you can go for drinks and just not drink but she can if she wants, OR just go somewhere cool like hiking or the beach or something. Just my ideas.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:11 AM
2

This is good advice, I can attest. Get off the internet/comment sections. Just force yourself. In fact, that's what I'm gonna do starting tomorrow ;)
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:46 AM
2

Yeah that can work.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:44 AM
1

Noob question but honestly what do you do when she says she has a boyfriend? Just say take care and leave?
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:39 AM
1

You're welcome ;) good luck.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:06 AM
1

That's a great question. Some of the PUAs say talk to more people in general, like just talk to everyone. I say you don't have to. I've found that just approaching women I'm interested in (or just doing my daily number) automatically increases confidence and approaching people you're not interested isn't necessary. But everyone's different and something that works for me may not work for you and vice versa. If you have the urge to say anything to anyone, just do it (assuming it's not mean or thr…
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:05 AM
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Does the girl who you paid for the meal think you wanna be a relationship? If not, then I’d just set up situations where you’re hanging out at your place or her’s, like it’s obvious you’re just hanging out for sex, and there’s no chance of you paying for a meal if you’re just at your or her house.
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:37 AM
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Eh, I'd make it clear non-verbally that you're just interested in sex.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:57 PM
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Girls give you their number and flake to a.) make you leave, b.) they're agreeing in the present, but later the emotions settle and they're no longer interested. If a girl flakes twice, that's where I just forget it and move onto the next girl (or 10).
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:41 PM
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Well, if it's not undermining your self-esteem then keep doing it I suppose.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:36 PM
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"You have sexy body we should sex sometime this week" was that really what you said or is this just bullshit? If so I'd say you got lucky, almost any other girl would've looked at you very weird and ran away then told her friends at the gym "omg there's that creepy guy" whenever she sees you.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:35 PM
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Good, even just talking to women is good. All that is 100% normal. The fact that you've approached means you've done something 95%+ of men wouldn't do. Two things that have helped me: -the "gun to head" method: imagine someone has a gun to your head and is forcing you to approach a girl you're interested in. -just numbers: agree with yourself to do 3-5 approaches per day (or more if you want). If you approach a girl, and it goes weird and awkward asf, or she tells you she's married/has a boyfrie…
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:49 PM
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Awesome post, thank you.
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:59 PM
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There's videos on youtube that show you how to know when a girl is interested. Aside from that, you really just have to put yourself out there and make things happen, and that's the hard part. It's awesome that you're that young, I wish I could be that young again... When you're my age (29 about to turn 30), you'll realize life and time are going to continue whether you want them to or not, so since you're young, go out and make stupid mistakes. Don't make the mistake I made of waiting till the …
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:43 PM
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"it's only easy if she is attracted to you. And that's not in your control" Yes, but I would note that as your vibe/energy changes from doing approaches, you will start to notice more women looking at you. It's a weird thing. So basically, you can't control if a woman is attracted to you, but you CAN increase your attractiveness by getting into the right energy, i.e. more girls will suddenly be checking you out/reacting positively to you. This is something me and anyone else who's tried this for…
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:38 PM
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I recommend doing it sober.
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:27 PM
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Nailed it.
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:48 PM
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Have a clean car and a clean room/house so that when you take a girl there, you don't have to quickly hide all your murder weapons and porn magazines. Lol seriously though, make sure your room/house and car look presentable. Just make it seem like you have your shit together, whether you do or don't. Also make sure you smell good and your breathe doesn't smell bad. Now go get'em tiger!
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:48 PM
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I feel you, we've all been there bro. One technique you could try that has worked for me is the "gun to head" technique: just imagine someone has a gun to your head and is MAKING you do whatever it is you want (approach a girl, ask for a number, etc.).
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:43 PM
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Approach any girl or set that you want. The key is to just do it, even if you're scared asf. I think you can turn around and jog back. Just be prepared to get rejected/negative responses, but it doesn't matter because you are gaining experience either way, and other less intimidating situations you come across in the future will be WAY easier. Speaking from experience here. And also keep your goal in mind: are you trying to get sex, instant date, number, feet pics, lol whatever, just keep your g…
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:35 PM
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Haha that's funny man, I've been practicing day game (approaching 5-10 women a day) for about a month, and I find day game to be much less scary now. I can just walk right up now, no problem, even if it's awkward asf and I get rejected. Last night I tried going to a bar/club by myself. I approached 1 woman, said she was looking for her bf, whatever. Moved onto a set of 2 girls, talked for about a minute, then lost my nerve and wished them a good night, then left. So I'm like the opposite of you …
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:30 PM
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Talking slow, slowing down, this is certainly what I need to work on lol. Indeed, slooowww is better than fast and nervous.
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:11 PM
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Oh, you mean it hasn't lead to dates for you?
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:08 PM
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