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I'm not compatible with a man who won't do oral, I can only orgasm from oral and vibrators. Also, my personal opinion is that a man who resists oral is probably going to be stingy in other ways and not great in bed. I will say that a man who is HV (which to me includes not being a porn user), is not going to see his partner as an object, he will want to please her and he's not going to see her pleasing him as demeaning. I am a very sexual person in a committed monogamous relationship, with a lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 03:57 AM
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Joke's on this asshole because even if she doesn't find out- infertility can really wreck a couple (possibly ending the relationship). My guess is that this man has other moral flaws and manipulative behaviors. Let's hope she ditches him and finds a HVM that will treat her right and give her the amount of children she wants. It's wonderful to imagine him watching her go on to enjoy a healthy relationship with the family she always dreamed of, while he has sex with his hand and wonders what happe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:46 PM
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Yeah it's really disturbing when you find out they are over 30 and still speaking that way. I take solace in the fact that with the porn addictions and lack of health, that eventually, most of their dicks only work sporadically and it's all down hill from there. Imagine placing so much value on something you can't even get to work because you don't take care of it 😆?! I'm not accepting ED unless it's age related at 60+ 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:36 PM
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Damn, they are delusional! Men commenting about how the woman has to be cheating (projection at it's finest) and how men would stay to work things out. Many women file for divorce when they catch him cheating or after years of asking for things to change and him ignoring her pleas. Also relevant, they are excusing the emotional damage that occurs to the children when you can't keep your shit together in front of the ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:29 PM
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Male 34, 6'1" strong protective cop looking for a woman who will finally treat me right! My 23 and Me says I'm part viking. I love my guns, fishing, alcohol and dip. I love hard (I better be number one in your life- kids come second- and other men cannot look at or talk to you) and I work a lot (so make sure you can cater to my schedule). My family didn't treat me right growing up and I've also been married to TWO crazy women, who both abused me. The last one took my three kids and moved 5 state…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:17 AM
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The poor wife. She deserves so much better. I'm glad he doesn't plan on saying anything in hopes she will never figure this out. I'm also hoping they got married young and that she can meet a man that truly loves her after this coward dies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 02:27 PM
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Seriously, will men ever be men? I cannot comprehend that certain "men" don't understand why it would be a bad idea to draft women into combat positions. Can women do it? Sure, but if you want your country to stay populated, economically stable, and have the best chances of winning- you aren't going to do it. Women have always helped during war and there are women in the military currently. Men and women are different biologically and that will never change. War is about strategy and resources. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:07 PM
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You are absolutely doing the right thing ending this relationship. I find it interesting that instead of trying to change your mind by showing you he loves you and doing sweet supportive things, that he is instead showing you violent, destructive and distant behavior. I'm not advocating that he should try to get you to change your mind, but it's just odd that he goes straight to destructive (also not surprising because many men do this). He's allowed to have his own feelings, but he is not allow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:43 PM
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Should I feel guilty that I can't stop laughing 😆? I personally think being FWBs is never a good idea. It seems like one person always wants more and is settling for less, because they are hoping the other person will change their mind. A man will not FWB his dream girl because he cannot fathom having to lose her or share her with other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 05:24 PM
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My guess would be any type of energy from a woman would be considered "masculine" to the large majority of cheeto fingered incels in their Mama's basements 😆. The insecurity they feel is because they are not living up to what high value masculinity is. I love nothing more than letting my feminine energy shine and it's easy to do with a high value man that's confident with his masculinity. If these "men" are feeling threatened by "masculine" energy from women it's because they aren't killing it i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:16 AM
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Honey, you need the best kind of D... DIVORCE! He's obviously an emotional abuser and a pervert. This is just the tip of the iceberg if he cannot even control himself in public. Even young single men would be considered creepy for following random women around. Amazing how so many women experience trauma or have mental health issues etc, but they don't use either as an excuse to hurt others. I'm so tired of this shit being acceptable and everyone being too afraid to say anything lest they be tol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:42 PM
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Blocking is appropriate and it has nothing to do with "caring too much". In real life interactions, it's akin to cutting someone out of your life. It prevents toxic people from manipulating you and subjecting you to other negative behaviors. People who can't bring themselves to block someone in the appropriate situation, either do not have strong boundaries, or want to continue interacting with the person. Blocking is not used as an insult to the person, it is done for OUR OWN personal peace/san…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 11:38 PM
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LVM have this mindset and it's a self fulfilling prophecy if you ask me. How are you going to attract, bond and build a relationship with a good partner when you don't put any effort into getting to know them? I'm pretty traditional when it comes to dating. I feel like this would be equivalent to me rolling out of bed, showing up completely undone in sweats, playing on my phone, talking about my issues, not asking him any questions, being rude/ungrateful/apathetic and so on. Is a man going to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:02 PM
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I worked for an online company and woke up very early like 3 and 4 am (you could pick your schedule and the parents would sign up and pick who they liked).They were 30 minute sessions, so I would only book 1 hour at a time so that I didn't have the baby or older kids waking up.There are several companies that will do this and hire you if you have a Bachelor's degree, experience with kids and pass their interview system. They provide the curriculum too. I am not sure how much work people are gett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 03:57 AM
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Thank you! This is wonderful advice. This is another reason why I believe that the man should pursue consistently and there shouldn't be gaps in communication. He will also continue to act the same with you when you are responsive. He will match your energy and not become intimidated or withdrawn. I understand people get busy, but it's not hard to reply within 24 hours. All the careers I've had required responses to communication within this timeframe. A prospective partner should be able to do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:57 PM
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Exactly this! Part two of the lie is that when you leave a marriage (especially with kids), that you won't be happy and life will be horrible. SURPRISE! It's way better being single with kids than being married with kids to a LVM/NVM. You get to run your own household and you get to stop doing all of the extra things you were doing for an adult parasite that made you feel like shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:55 AM
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There is definitely what I call a "cheater's handbook". They all make extremely similar statements about their wives in order to justify cheating and in order to triangulate the mistress against the wife. Sometimes the separation is actually "real" and divorce papers have been filed, but they are not in a place to actually date. I know they exist, but I've never met a man that actually stayed single and worked on himself after a divorce and before dating again. I also feel like it's very rare to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:36 PM
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It makes me so happy to hear about women, especially younger women, finally feeling safe/confident etc, enough to not engage with this type of bullshit.The sad part is that we still have to worry about men getting so angry with any kind of rejection. Hats off to this lady for her very appropriate response. Even at 34, I still struggle with being able to reject inappropriate advances because of social conditioning and experiences with men who get frighteningly angry. I've noticed although it does…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:59 PM
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I think this is a very personal decision. I completely understand why a woman would want to wait until her children were older because of the risk/safety issues of dating with children.That being said, I believe it's completely unfair that there appears to be a narrative that women need to wait until children are older, but that men are expected and excused when they date ASAP. The most important factor is that a person be healed and emotionally stable, so they can make healthy choices for thems…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:14 PM
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Oh darling, I'm not "getting all superior". I AM SUPERIOR. I don't need to watch rape and exploitation, while taking my partner for granted and committing infidelity by fantasizing about having sex with women who are not my wife. Also: that 50-99 percent of men can continue with their limp dicks that only get hard for a screen. I'm only interested in those who have evolved higher thinking, empathy and have values. Seriously, it's sad to think that there are so many men choosing to watch porn ove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 04:16 PM
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I'm glad he showed himself the door and that she stood her ground. The problem with putting stipulations about a certain BMI (especially after pregnancy and aging/hormonal changes) is that this in indicative of other unrealistic standards. Sometimes people with large amounts of muscle can be out of a "normal" BMI range. Someone could also be in a "normal" BMI range and have health issues or have physical bodily changes after pregnancy (and we all know that any stretch marks or sagging are not go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 07:31 PM
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Can confirm- ex police wife. Men in law enforcement tend to support and encourage cheating, alcoholism, and misogyny. They also love to joke about how normal it is to have multiple ex wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:06 PM
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SPOILER ALERT: they are! I've seen multiple comments on Reddit about men "supporting" their female friends Only Fans (interesting that they literally need to see "their friends" naked and exploited in order to contribute- a man who was really supporting/helping his friend would do so with no strings attached). I guarantee (especially with all this incest porn I keep hearing about) that nothing's going to stop those porn sick losers from subscribing regardless of the relationship they have with t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:26 PM
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Yes- red flag. This is really typical behavior of narcissistic man who are triangulating you. I've always believed that a man who is interested in you (and not some sort of manipulator), will never bring up other women in this way, because they understand if they talk to you like they would to another man, that it would convey they do not see you as a romantic prospect. Even for myself, I would not be discussing men's looks with a man I was interested in having a romantic relationship with. If I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:13 AM
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Oh hell no! This man is going to be a doctor and he doesn't even have empathy for his wife who is also a medical resident and in her third trimester ?! I am 100 percent sure he's going to be a shit doctor. If you can't even display empathy for your own wife, you definitely won't care about people you have no relationship with (patients). I'm really scared about what is coming her way. If he's this amped up about chores not being "fair" between two people and when there are no children, she's scr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:47 PM
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Seriously EW. This poor lady. I hope she uses her law degree and gets the hell out ASAP. It would be even better if she didn't go back to work prior to leaving and got her fair share of the assets (spousal etc) for having to deal with such a POS. It's appalling that she's trying so hard and it's still not good enough for him, because he has to respect and treat her like a person by providing emotional intimacy and respect. It's comical to me that this middle age man obviously thinks he's such a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:18 PM
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Okay... My first thought is that all he talks about are the blowjobs. He's admitting that the only way women are finding his penis is by searching for it with their mouth and using suction to make it discoverable 😆. Penetrative sex doesn't appear to be mentioned at all, so I'm assuming it's not happening. He is considered morbidly obese, yet he has complaints about his FWBs' weights. Then he has the audacity to say maybe he should lose weight so he can attract some "conventionally attractive" wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 03:12 AM
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The 1st issue, She expressed a horribly painful experience and this NV downplayed it and changed the subject. He can't even pretend to have empathy for and be supportive to the woman he is interested in? This is a huge indicator that someone will not be a good partner. The 2nd issue, He's trying to insult a man who has tragically passed away and treated her well? This is absolutely disturbing. He doesn't even have the decency to say nothing. If a man acts like this, you will eventually become th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 04:03 PM
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This is so sad. I will never cohabitate with a man unless we are married. Not only does this provide legal protections, it gives you a higher chance of someone being serious about their commitment to you (yes, you can still end up in a bullshit situation, but at least you can have the legal protections if/when that occurs). This man wanted the benefits of a wife without the commitment and she probably thought he was going to escalate the relationship to marriage. Surprise, surprise, they also ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:18 PM
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My personal deal breaker is ED of any kind for men within my dating age range, sorry, but I'm sick of it being normalized. Why should I have to settle for a man that cannot have sex? How many men would sign up for a relationship where they could never physically have sex? That's right, they wouldn't. I refuse to choose someone who isn't sexually functional for an abnormal reason. ED is NOT NORMAL for young men and for healthy middle aged men it shouldn't be either. Plenty of men have no problem …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 04:40 PM
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Nope, no reason to be friends with exes. They also shouldn't hate all of their exes or say "all my exes are crazy". I think if they have truly moved on then they should be indifferent and have no contact with their exes. I also think it's a healthy mindset if they are able to wish someone the best and hope their life works out well without having to be involved in their life (in a relationship without children). Now, if he has children with the ex, I still think there should be very clear bounda…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:54 AM
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I feel so bad for her and I hope she comes to her senses! She is getting the shit end of the situation. The perks of a committed relationship include the fun, the sex, the emotional and physical intimacy and the stability. These perks go away when the relationship gets opened because they are going to the new partners, not the spouse. This is a mistress that he gets to have an affair with and this lady is the wife whose purpose is to care for him and the home. What is the point of a relationship…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:58 PM
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Can't do CAM girl "therapy" in a public place, so of course he wants the bedroom. He probably masturbates right after the door gets locked, so by the time she gets in (if she does),his penis is covered up 😆. On a serious note, as an ex-wife of a cop, that was my first guess as to his profession. The bad thing is that cops tend to be experts at gaslighting and manipulation. As we know, there is also such a high rate of domestic violence. I'm sure she wants to believe him so badly and I can relate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:46 PM
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I watched this series and I was enthralled by it. I almost didn't watch it because I knew how badly it might trigger me (and it did). There were many moments that I broke down in tears, but it also made me so grateful that I was able to get out of my situation and that I was fortunate to have an education and the resources that many women in these situations don't have. This show gave an excellent example of the barriers that women face in abusive and controlling relationships, especially those …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:47 AM
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I identify as a Christian, but I also refuse to follow the things I don't agree with in the bible. I know plenty of people would say that means I'm not a Christian, but there are a lot of things in the Bible that people choose to interpret in different ways (hence why there are so many groups with changes in their philosophy all under the Christian umbrella who are all still considered Christian). I choose to live my life based on the New Testament and follow what I interpret how Jesus would act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:05 PM
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I expect him to be contacting me daily. It shouldn't be incessant phone calls or texts, but it needs to be enough that he's showing continual interest and that he's thinking about me. I expect daily communication in an exclusive relationship and I also expect it during the dating phase. If it's past the first date and he's setting more dates, he should also be maintaining solid communication. If there is no exclusivity, then it's fine to multi-date. A man who is truly interested in you and has a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:13 PM
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Better to be safe than sorry, always have some sort of a weapon at your disposal. I've gone back and forth about getting my concealed carry license and getting a firearm, but I'm worried about a firearm in the residence with three young kids (even with a safe etc). When I hike alone I bring an air horn, a knife, and mace (these things could help in the instance of a wild animal or a dangerous man). Even when I take my walks in public I bring my mace and I purposely change directions or cross the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:13 PM
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Yes! I instantly lose all respect and sexual attraction for someone that doesn't have the maturity to deal with natural bodily functions. I had NO IDEA how vulnerable, personally embarrassing and messy having babies was, until I actually experienced it (3 times). Even my narcissistic ex husband held my legs, watched the babies be delivered, cut their umbilical cords and supported me while laboring. Had he ever made me feel embarrassed about it or acted like he wasn't sexually attracted to me any…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:42 AM
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This is so sad, not only that she isn't embarrassed to post this, but also that this lady seems to think she has no value other than selling her body for the pleasure of men. I would love to see it all SHUT DOWN. No one deserves to be an object, we are human beings!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:11 PM
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I know HVM exist and I do think regardless of the patriarchy and media that we can raise HVM. I know one of the largest parts of this is exposing our sons to HVM, so that they can learn how to be HVM. Unfortunately, a lot of us don't have HVM in our lives. I do believe it's better for children to NOT have an example than have a bad example (LVM/HVM). It used to scare me that I had sons because of everything I have gone through with men. Now I see it as the gift that it is- that I have the opport…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:34 PM
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I had to click on this man's bio, I seriously didn't believe he had any level of formal education 😆! I've known plenty of women that were very attractive and still very sexually active with their husband who cheated and/or left for another woman. In addition, if wives don't want sex there is usually a huge reason why (he never helps, he's an abuser etc). I feel like plenty of women want and crave good sex lives and nowadays it's the men that have porn sick limp dick and are too unhealthy to keep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:16 AM
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Hi Alan, Your post needed some corrections, so I fixed it for you. I hope MEN take responsibility. Their misogyny and adherence to the patriarchy have fostered and encouraged violence against and objectification of women. GOOD MEN need to take a stand against these behaviors. Young men need examples of what GOOD MORAL MEN are and how they treat women and children. They need to be taught by GOOD MEN how to be fathers and husbands and how to be productive members of society that take responsibilit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:55 AM
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No playing dumb with him, you have your answer about who this man is already. So glad you found out earlier before you were more invested/committed! I ended up in an abusive marriage because I tried to rationalize things he did and gave him the benefit of the doubt/made excuses for his behavior. Now I've realized that when someone shows you who they are believe them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:33 AM
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This is extremely disturbing and should not be normalized at all. I just turned 34 and I have children, but they are young. When I see teenage boys (and sometimes men in their early twenties) they look like kids to me. It's very rare that I've seen one that age that actually looks like a man to me. I can't find myself attracted at all if they don't appear to be a fully mature man. When I see teenage girls they usually look very young to me and often times not reflective of what a fully developed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:33 PM
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Congrats! Beautiful ring- I am so excited for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:00 PM
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Yes, I definitely think that there are manipulative men that use it as a narrative that "nothing is wrong with me" or to gain experience that they can use against others in manipulative ways. I would want to see actual individual counseling after the divorce (not prior marriage counseling- because this doesn't really tell me anything about who initiated/what the actual issues were and regardless after a failed relationship everyone is going to have some things to work through). I'd want to see o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:00 PM
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This is something I'm still deciding what to do about, now that I'm divorced and in my thirties. I want good sex and my drive has gone through the roof. I am not comfortable having sex by the third date, it's too soon to let someone inside my body, but I want a nice working penis and a man that can make me orgasm somehow. That being said, I'm highly concerned with the levels of porn sick limp dick and ED having men within my age range. I'm hearing all the women on here and other dating forums ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:35 PM
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I feel the same way! Especially if there are really young kids. I know based on my experience that if a woman left a man and they have kids under 5, that it is very likely an abuse/ cheating situation/abandoned his family etc (like what happened to me). Also, how many divorced men really seek counseling to work through it and make changes? It wasn't my "fault" that I ended up with an abuser. I had a very hard time realizing what was going on because of my childhood trauma and what I viewed as no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:54 PM
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Lol! This man is clueless... After having a bad first marriage most women stay single and enjoy the freedom or we upgrade! If he can't do at least what my first husband did and then some- HELL NO! Spoiler alert: Even my covert narcissist ex husband was above 50/50 finances and had no problem providing. The bar is LOW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:43 PM
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I am completely against it. I do not want to be involved with a man who patronizes these establishments and I would never want my money to benefit them. They are taking advantage of women and using women to sell their product. Often- very young women who don't realize they are being exploited and are unaware of the future ramifications of working in these places. There are plenty of restaurants that can sell good food without using sex. In Texas, I couldn't believe how common these places were a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 07:17 PM
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All for a man (if the roles were reversed), that probably can't even do one of these roles well?! HELL NO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:06 PM
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I agree! I started playing my podcasts/music etc on my phone with the volume instead. I don't care if people think I'm rude because my safety is paramount. This way I can hear everyone and know if someone is approaching from any angle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:52 PM
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Excellent post! Also, I want to add one of the biggest things you can do-in addition to these things (out in public places etc) is to BE AWARE. Unfortunately, it's not fair and it's frustrating that this is yet again another thing that falls on women, but when you have situational awareness you can often avoid and or be ready to deal with the situation. It's noticing the little things that can save your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:17 PM
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EXACTLY! One of the things that was so attractive to me initially about my ex husband, was that he appeared to be so nice and helpful to others. His occupation should have been an indicator that I needed to vet even harder (police officer) given the domestic violence statistics and personality types often attracted to the profession. He turned out to be a covert narcissist with a hero/victim complex. He derives power out of "being the hero" and needs to project that image in front of others. It …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:59 PM
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The men who have the character and traits you have described should be proud! Despite my many painful experiences with LVM, there is nothing more attractive to me than a man who embodies these qualities. There is something so amazing about true, stable, masculine energy. Unfortunately, as we know, men like this are rare. The good news is, that if someone chooses to refine themselves and improve/make changes, they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:55 PM
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"YOUR ABUSIVE PARTNER DOESN’T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH HIS ANGER; HE HAS A PROBLEM WITH YOUR ANGER. One of the basic human rights he takes away from you is the right to be angry with him. No matter how badly he treats you, he believes that your voice shouldn’t rise and your blood shouldn’t boil. The privilege of rage is reserved for him alone. When your anger does jump out of you—as will happen to any abused woman from time to time—he is likely to try to jam it back down your throat as quickly as he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:39 PM
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I don't fake orgasms and I don't "fake reaches". I'm not going to perform in any way to make some man feel better about me. If he's turned off that I expect traditional hospitality from someone who asked me out, then I am not interested in the least. It's just like inviting a guest to your home, you are the host and you entertain/make sure they have everything they need. It's common decency. I don't see anything wrong with not offering to pay. It's interesting that the "fake reach" makes any man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:46 PM
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Notice how in this context it was relevant to state that the diamond was harvested by a child at gunpoint, but only because they don't want to buy a ring for a woman they should love and care for (also there are plenty of stone options that don't exploit people). I would love to know how many men upvoted and/or agree with this post ,watch porn, which we all know abuses women and children and has other detrimental side effects. Interesting that they are only against abuse and exploitation when th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:23 PM
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There is only one option in this circumstance- DIVORCE! He did this, so what else is he doing/has he done? I guarantee he is porn sick and who the hell knows what else. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. I hope she gets out quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:17 PM
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It's horrible to admit, but I feel guilty making this list (and I completely understand this is because of the way women are socialized, that we should only care about personality and that men who aren't as good looking are more likely to treat us better- obviously not true). For some reason I've been lucky to end up with traditionally attractive looking men (and they have fit a lot of things on my list), but it was never because I sought out these specific characteristics. I was actually sucked…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:42 PM
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My parents divorced when I was 12 and my father dropped out of my shortly after. He was an emotionally unavailable abuser (the last time I talked to him I was in my teens). In my third year of college I decided that I did not want his last name. I felt like he did not deserve any credit for how I turned out and I didn't want to feel like I was "his". It varies by location, but if I recall correctly, it was about $100 bucks and a quick 30 day process in my county to change my last name. I took my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:13 AM
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I'm so sorry that you have experienced a relationship with domestic violence. Before you start dating, please attend counseling (if you aren't already). Abuse takes such a toll on us and can make us even more susceptible to picking another abusive partner or even just putting up with less than we deserve and accepting crumbs of affection from an unsuitable partner. I am the ex-wife of a police officer. He was married previously to what he told me was a "crazy ex". I hadn't been married before an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:03 AM
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Yes! My Ex Husband absolutely loved my startle reaction. He would purposely do things to watch me startle (loud noises etc) and then he would laugh. He also loved to drive in a way that made me very anxious and would get annoyed at my reaction. He was emotionally abusive and would punch things or leave holes in walls sometimes when he was angry. I don't know why I didn't see how abnormal it was earlier. Now, I see there were dynamics such as trauma bonding and codependency in the relationship. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:01 PM
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My first thought is that this is the mistress/other woman. The guy is telling her that he's so abused and hurt by his wife and she wants to be picked by him because ShE kNoWs HoW tO TrEaT a MaN. Second thought is- whose Mother in Law is this LOL 😆?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:51 AM
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I'm sorry this is happening to you. My ex-husband is out of state and I was shocked when he started calling daily after being so minimally involved while we were in the same state. The calls are usually around 5 minutes total. He started calling while on his shift at work and it's become obvious the kids are still an afterthought. We agreed in our divorce decree to two video visits and three phone calls weekly. We did not put times other than duration stipulations and if he ends the call it's ov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:48 PM
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I can't imagine sending a comment like that to my friend, her husband's rude and she's inconsiderate to even repeat such an asshole comment.The only thing that should be hoped is that mom and baby are safe/healthy. I definitely noticed that there was a preference for boys in my ex husband's family. I was always secretly happy that I broke the mold by being a feminist and will forever alter the pattern by raising my sons and daughter differently (than their family did). Also, oddly enough, a coup…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:06 PM
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This is appalling! I really hope that he sticks with a sex doll, stays celibate and gets a vasectomy- just in case. Can you imagine a person like this having children? The fact that he is disgusted by women having the same bodily functions that he does is terrible. Not only are women just sex objects to him, but I would bet he also has no empathy either. If women aren't allowed to have normal digestive functions, then of course how could they have feelings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:49 PM
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If this man was actually intelligent, he would have thought about more than attractiveness and sex chemistry prior to getting married. I don't believe his wife is unintelligent or boring for a second. It sounds more like he wants a pet who is involved in all his activities and not her own. I've observed that a lot of men want what they call a "companion", which is the term my ex husband used. What he meant by it was that I was to always be interested in what he wanted to do and drop everything t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:12 PM
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I couldn't agree more! These little unconscious behaviors (actions that they do without thinking), tell you exactly how they feel about you. It's like body language, all of that non verbal communication really gives a person's true thoughts away. When I was dating my ex husband, I noticed how he would walk off without me and walk in front of me. I told him it made me feel bad and like he didn't care about me. It really never changed, unless he was trying to impress others and appear really carin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:27 AM
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It really is! Apparently there are different "types" of empathy. I can't recall which it is, but there is one that narcissists utilize. I may be summing it up incorrectly, but I want to say they don't really "feel" what others feel, but they have enough technique to act like they know where others are coming from to get what they want/manipulate. Sounds like you got away! Thank God!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:32 AM
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My ex husband complained to his mom that I "loved" my dogs "too much" and he didn't know if he could handle it. His mom told me jokingly, but I look back and see what a huge red flag it was. Both of my dogs I got as puppies. I got one my final year of College and one my final year of High School (so one was 8/9 years old and the other was about 4-5). They were well trained, easy keepers and there was no reason for him to say he couldn't handle it. Later on, after I married him, he was very jealo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:24 AM
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I'm so sorry you are experiencing all of these things. First: you are doing a great job! Please don't compare yourself to their father. I know it's hard not to be resentful, but he has missed out on things- even if it looks like he has so much fun and gets off Scot-free. It's easy to be the "parent" who is fun and hardly sees the kids. It's true parenting when you raise them, care for them, teach them and you are there for both the good times and the bad times. I'm a single mom to three children…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:45 PM
13

This is going to make me a "horrible" Christian because I know that a lot of Christians believe you are to follow and believe exactly what the Bible says in it's entirety, but: I DON'T! I know that my God is loving, forgiving and kind. I know that Jesus was/is the same way. Being a parent gave me perspective on this as well. I realized that we are all made in God's image and we are his children. As a parent, no matter what my children do, even if they disappoint me, I will never forsake or stop …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:35 PM
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This is rage inducing! I breastfed all three of my children- the process can be extremely challenging and emotional. A lot of people assume you can just latch the baby on and everything will work just fine; so many mom's struggle with guilt if things aren't as easy as wrongly portrayed. So many women have questions and need help from other moms during their experiences. These women would be posting for help and detailing all of their intimate physical and emotional experiences and instead of pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:14 PM
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Exactly! I'll be damned if I'm going to get all dressed up just so I can sit across from someone I'm not attracted to and probably annoyed by, so they can take me out to dinner. I wouldn't even be able to enjoy my food in that situation, so what would the point be? My ex husband accused women of using him for free meals when he was dating... I've realized this means that the women were smart enough to see the red flags that I missed and never wanted a second date 😆.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:01 PM
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Haha! I would never require a man to bring to the table what I can't- so you bet your ass, he better meet or exceed my very real expectations. I've experienced what it's like to be trapped in one of these unequal relationships and I will never again make any exceptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:57 AM
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Hmmm... I'm thinking something along the lines of: -Beauty Collector (to denote how you are being objectified by him) -Beauty Captor (to explain that there is often an uneven power dynamic) -Variation of the word Beautiful with the ending of "phile" 😁, (because it focuses on his creepy obsession with looks).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:15 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that.Yes, you can do it! I never thought I'd get to go back to my home state because I had no family (only he and his) in the previous state, but it happened! I pray that everything goes in your favor and that even without family support in your current location, that everything you need will come your way to get out of this situation. You are going to do great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:12 PM
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Sending love from a fellow divorced mom with multiple kiddos ❤️. I hope that you have all of the support and strength you need during this time. You are going to feel SO MUCH better! It seems really intimidating at first and then you realize how much they were dragging you down- after that the freedom and empowerment comes! I've been narcissist free since Oct 2019 and I've never been this happy- despite having three kids under 6, alone (they do have rotating holiday and summer visits in another …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:41 PM
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I always knew I wanted children. I used to say that if I hit 35 and didn't have them, that I would have them by myself. I wanted kids and marriage so badly that I rushed, ignored red flags, and married at 26. I paid a heavy price after saddling myself with a very narcissistic man. I did almost everything for the majority of the marriage while I was subjected to his emotional abuse, alcoholism, infidelity etc. He walked out, not once, but twice, and thank GOD I divorced him the second time- when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:28 AM
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This is disgusting. The sad thing is I've even had related men in my family make these types of "jokes". You would think anyone who wasn't a biological parent would go out of their way to ensure that they didn't cross any boundaries or make their stepchild uncomfortable like this (and bio parents shouldn't be "joking" like this either). I've never been a stepmother, but, I cannot imagine talking to my stepson/daughter about anything sexual in this manner. In fact, this type of talk will not be t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:18 PM
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Thank you for this post. I can't imagine how challenging this must be for you. I know it's really hard not to blame ourselves when things don't go as planned/expected. I still have moments where I can't believe I married and had multiple kids with someone where I saw immediate red flags on the first date- not to mention all the behaviors during the marriage. There were days where I felt so stupid and blamed myself completely for the situation I ended up in. Your situation is not your fault. You …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:47 PM
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Exactly! Definite DEAL BREAKER- if he can't get hard etc. when we are all over each other and at the beginning of a relationship, it doesn't bode well for the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:53 PM
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Very true LOL! I'm really tempted to ask because it's such a huge issue these days and I don't want a shit sex life. I've never asked, but in my experience the signs of porn use and ED issues were apparent. I didn't put two and two together before FDS. The weird thing is they talk themselves up and then can't perform, so I'm not sure if a man would admit it until he has to. I think if I don't feel anything if we make out that's probably my answer 😂. After being married I realized how strongly I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:09 PM
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It's quite comical that so many men think it's acceptable to ask things like this. Of course Block and Delete is the best response, BUT it would be challenging not to reply: Just checking to make sure you can get hard spontaneously (without my mouth/your hand), stay hard an appropriate amount of time and finish from sex... Women are often expected to have no boundaries in regards to how often sex should happen and what sexual acts should take place. God forbid a woman wants a man that has a work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:12 PM
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This man has mommy issues for sure .... "She rules with fear"?!? I'm the helpless victim of my wife! The way he writes indicates that he truly doesn't take responsibility for things, wants to blame it all on her and sees the whole situation as happening to him- instead of communicating and making changes. The men I've known that have such a problem with "domineering women" tend to see every little thing as a woman trying to control them (God forbid you ask them to help with something or act like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:38 AM
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I am pretty traditional in some ways. I was anti-porn even before I found FDS because to me it does appear to be a form of infidelity. When it comes to marriage especially, I believe that both partners within the marriage should be the receiver of the sexual/emotional etc. energy and attention (I'm not saying that we shouldn't put ourselves first or have bodily autonomy-just that other opposite sex individuals should not be receiving these things instead of the parties of the marriage). What wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:02 AM
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HAHA 😆, Kevin Samuels and men who subscribe to Kevin Samuel's ideals: I WOULDN'T LOOK TWICE AT YOU, not even before I had children (and just FYI as Samuels would say "I'm beating them off with a stick" - just like I was before kids); because you are not a HVM in any capacity. Being high value is not about net worth, it includes things like character, which unfortunately, you do not appear to have. I still remember the video of this man tearing down a beautiful, sweet and hard working business wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:08 AM
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Here's my reply nowadays: Actually, disregard my former reply, I'm losing 200 lbs right now. Come pack your shit and you should probably let your parents know you will be moving in again !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:25 AM
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I have two boys and one girl. Just to give some background before I answer the question: I have had a lot of trauma in my past involving men. I can't remember a lot about my childhood in regards to my relationship with my father, but I do remember he was emotionally unavailable, controlling, paranoid, and scared me with the things he did. Apparently it really created issues for me, for example, when I was about to go into fourth grade I found out I had been assigned my first male teacher and I c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:47 AM
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Whenever I hear something like this about women's post partum bodies, I think to myself about the majority of middle aged men's bodies. Interestingly enough, it's acceptable for them to have what look like pregnancy bellies, while never having grown and nourished a human. On that note, don't have children with OR partner with any man that is superficial. Even if you choose to be child free, we all age and our bodies change to some extent regardless of self care/nutrition/exercise (although these…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:41 PM
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I needed this laugh 😂, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:19 PM
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Congrats! You are going to do a phenomenal job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:18 PM
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What is your religion and do you practice it? What is your financial philosophy in regards to spending, saving, investing and retirement? What is your educational background, current career and what are your future career goals? Do you have any addictions; including any history of drug use (legal or not)? Do you watch porn, subscribe to Onlyfans/Cam girls or have you ever gone to strip clubs, prostitutes, or "Breastaurants"? Do you believe men and women are equals? What was your longest relation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:38 PM
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That's absolutely appalling. I have two sons and while it can sometimes feel intimidating because our society encourages and allows men to act in a certain manner, I feel that I've been given an awesome responsibility to raise good men (and a chance to make a difference in doing so). In addition to their post about FDS: Why would having standards for yourself/your own life/leveling up and expecting men to do the same/also be of quality, ever be a problem ? Also, what's wrong with a bunch of wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:46 PM
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Don't beat yourself up about this, I know it's hard not to, but I would bet that's also a lie. My ex husband tried to say that shit (both times, actually), yet just weeks/months before he left I had hand written love notes from him, he made statements out of nowhere about how happy he was, even my mom came to visit when the baby was 6 weeks old and commented on how great things appeared, HELL, I even had a planned baby that was only four months old when he left! It was the same statement about h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:26 PM
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I'm so sorry! I know it may not feel like it now, but this is a blessing in disguise. Thank God you aren't married to him and don't have children! Who wants to be with someone that either: A. Is a cheater or is thinking about cheating (because that would be the most likely reason to randomly go cold and give up someone they spent two years with), B. Has some sort of issue where they cannot be consistent, respectful and stable or loyal with/to someone they have committed to? Before I was married …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:23 PM
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Thank you ❤️! Yes, my life is SO MUCH BETTER! I am free and happy and the kids are doing so well. I appreciate your kind words. I am glad you found this group too and I know you will find a HVM who deserves you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:57 AM
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I'm sure more will be added to think about, but my immediate thoughts: The age gap: You are looking at over ten years difference- men have lower life expectancy (higher chances he will die before you, you will be his caregiver, you will be in different life stages once his age sets in), he has lower sperm quality (this could make it harder to have children with him or put the children you have with him at higher risk of certain conditions), your sex life may be not as great as it could be with a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:33 AM
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I randomly came across that thread as well. I've noticed that it is both men and women that are wanting to be "roasted". The women that are posting appear to be very attractive, so I'm wondering if it is an attention thing. Regardless of the motivation, I personally believe it's appalling for anyone who participates on either end. I think wanting people to insult you for any reason is heartbreaking and I feel that those who obtain pleasure out of making fun of others is very disturbing as well. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:44 PM
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The thing that helped me most was learning how to love myself and give myself validation versus deriving it from others. Counseling also helped immensely because I had codependency issues in my emotionally abusive marriage. Part of the reason I was able to remain in my marriage while being abused was due to the trauma bond I had with him and I developed the ability to only see the "good things" he did while dismissing the horrible ones. Sometimes it helps to write a list of what they did to you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:45 PM
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No, I think you are spot on and that this is more of a normal feeling. I'm 33 and divorced, dating again. Before I was married (26 and under) I had an extreme attraction to men that were way too old for me (anywhere from 10-15 years older I found very enticing). After counseling and working through issues I had with my father, I am no longer attracted to an age gap and it actually repulses me that men 15-30 years older are interested in me! Now the largest age gap I would be okay with is a man w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:55 PM
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There is HOPE! Stay here, level up and you will FLOURISH! You are not stuck in these circumstances. My narcissistic LV ex-husband left me for the second time when my children were 4 months old, 3 years old, and 5 years old. I am a living testimony that parenting alone (even living states away) from my ex has been millions of times easier than being married to him, HANDS DOWN! My children are now 17 months old, 4 years old, and 6 years old. I have not been this happy and free ever before in my li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:01 PM
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I'm divorced from a man that had been divorced once (I had never been married before). I was a little weary, but there were no children, he said he was young, and HUGE RED FLAG- he said she was crazy etc. He always demonized her and I let myself be triangulated and sadly believed that she was "crazy". I believed he was just some poor broken man whose ex-wife did a number on him (again he was always the victim). Stupidly, there were multiple red flags that I let slide because I believed that the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:49 AM
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This is absolutely disgusting and inappropriate! Those poor girls and his poor wife. I hope she leaves him! The fact that he obviously sees no issue with this as well as what he says, we can see exactly how this pervert thinks/feels. At 16, I refused to be around my biological father after my brother found Britney Spears "look-alike" porn on my father's computer at his house. My father had been calling me "Britney" as a nickname saying that I looked like her. He also made inappropriate comments …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:42 AM
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Yes, I check "have kids". I do not put any details or pictures in my profile regarding my children. It's definitely a good idea to be aware that there are predators out there that specifically look for women with children. The best thing you can do is to vet ruthlessly, maintain your children's privacy etc. I don't even have social media. Also, I'm of the opinion that a person should not be meeting your children unless the relationship is serious and it has been a long enough time for you to kno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:06 PM
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You are a total catch!!! Someone else's behavior does NOT determine your worth. It's hard not to feel rejected, I have rare moments where I am like WTH did I do wrong? Then I have to logically look at the circumstances and ex's behavior and I set myself straight that it was on him. The things I did wrong were making excuses for his behavior and ignoring the red flags (along with rushing very quickly into a serious relationship). I am 100 percent positive my marriage would have lasted and been he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:10 AM
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I felt the same as you did at first, then I started seeking out positive stories, looking at statistics, and attending counseling helped me phenomenally. Then I started slowly chatting to men online and practicing boundaries and observing red flags. This was a safe way for me to interact with men and see the difference in how they all communicated/treated me. At first I didn't trust myself because of what I dealt with in my past and my marriage. I was afraid I would let things slide and make exc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:54 AM
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Yes! 👏This a MILLION times, we don't deserve less AND we are a package deal and a gift!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:57 PM
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It is extremely disturbing, but you have to remember (as I had to do as well), that Reddit has such a large collection of men that hate women in general. The good news is: having children can help filter out the HVM from the LVM. Not always, because some men specifically look for women with children to victimize. I've noticed that having children really helps weed out those that would have never been appropriate to have children with. Also to you and any other woman feeling bad about this: in my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:40 PM
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I agree ! Regardless of if you are a single parent or a married parent, there has to be a balance in how each individual is prioritized in those relationships (including the couple, the children and individuals themselves).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:16 PM
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Single mom here. I find this comical because plenty of people are not financially stable, regardless of their status (child-free, single, married, solo parent etc). I have always made solid and stable choices with my finances and I will continue to do so- despite being the main caretaker of three children and the one who stayed. I would never consider dating a man with this mindset because they are obviously not logical enough to realize that every situation is different. I know what I bring to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:53 PM
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I'm sorry, how painful 😭. Just know that today is painful, but you will continue to heal. Be glad to be rid of a person who is obviously selfish and lacking morals (based on the affair partner's messages and actions it sounds like they are a perfect match)! That man is no prize and she is going to see it sooner or later. The fact that she wants to create more pain for you is absolutely disturbing. I would not be surprised at all if either one of them cheat on each other. If there are no children…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:25 PM
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Everyone has some stellar advice, block him, don't do this to yourself! I have no knowledge of what any of my ex's are doing- with the exception of my LV ex-husband because I have children with him (even then I do not have social media because I don't want my privacy invaded and don't want to know anything about his personal shit show). From personal experience, I can tell you, as others have mentioned, that almost everyone puts their best/inflated self on social media. I've observed that those …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:27 PM
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This is my ex husband (covert narcissist). It's so easy to want to believe that the "good behavior" is actually them, but really it's all manipulation. Please get away now while you can, because it only gets worse. The posters mentioning Trauma Bonding/Narcissism etc are SPOT on. Also, I would recommend counseling for you. You may want to explore the possibility that you have some co-dependency issues. I was not aware that I had some and they had a lot to do with the behavior I was accepting. Wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:23 PM
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Just chiming in to say that I felt this way prior to being married. I knew I wanted to be married and have a family (and of course I did love him)- so I rushed and ignored so many red flags, married quickly and continued in an abusive marriage (in fact, it took him leaving me for the second time to end the relationship). I wouldn't trade my children for anything, but now, despite the relationship ending, I am tied to their father due to having kids with him for the rest of my life. I am working …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:50 PM
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Seriously! This is what my ex says ("I'm an asshole", "you knew I was an asshole when you married me" etc) and he is proud of it. He is at the very least, high on the narcissism scale. Taking pride in being mean to others is a giant red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 10:33 PM
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Thank you very much! You are also an amazing woman! I read through everyone's responses on this great post. All of the posts are so inspiring and empowering! I am proud to be part of this community full of wonderful and talented women. I am very excited for each and every one of us as we continue on our personal journeys of acknowledging our own self worth, requiring proper and respectful treatment in our relationships, and supporting one another!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:32 AM
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I love how driven/ambitious I am and how I refuse to allow circumstances to get in the way of me achieving my goals. I love that I'm an awesome mom who is raising kind, respectful, independent and successful children. I love my sense of humor and that I can laugh at almost everything. I love that I'm intelligent and have an insatiable desire to learn. I love that I am introspective and enjoy improving myself and how I am willing to make any necessary changes to better myself- body, mind and soul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:04 PM
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ENFJ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:54 PM
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That makes complete sense. You know yourself and good for you for being aware of your needs and thinking about what would be fair to him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:08 PM
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Thank you! You will get through this too and knowing what is going on in your mind is half the battle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:34 PM
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I am also working through my trauma bond right now. Counseling has helped immensely because I have been given techniques to realize what is occurring in my head. Whenever I start to make excuses for his behavior or have that feeling in my head where I want to believe the "highs" of his actions/behavior and not the lows- I have begun to acknowledge them in my head. They are just feelings and they don't need to be acted on. For example: if he starts to treat me "nicely" and I began to question my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:27 PM
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NOOOOOO! Do not take this person back. I promise you it will be the wrong choice. Ask me how I know ? My Pickmeisha ass took back my husband who walked out on me and two kids, was an alcoholic/cheater/verbally abusive/narcissistic etc. He came back crying about how much he loved me (while he was already dating another chick I was unaware of). I took him back, we cancelled the divorce we did a year of marriage counseling. He appeared to change (although now I see little red flags that I missed) s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:23 PM
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As it's continually said again and again.... any guy in law enforcement! I didn't learn my lesson time after time (I worked a lot with law enforcement) and continued to date them, then married a narcissistic police officer who now supervises other police officers. I have heard and seen what all the other LVM do in law enforcement and have experienced it with my own STBXH and previous boyfriends. They may act nice and a lot are very good at acting like they care/respect you, while fucking around.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:12 PM
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