blindbrunette Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
135	How do you know if he’s a HVM or a LVM that’s really good at love-bombing/future-faking?	DISCUSSION	blindbrunette	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/21 03:29 PM
16	My consent was respected for the first time... it was eye-opening	LESSON LEARNED	blindbrunette	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/20 04:04 AM
1	When OLD matches don’t get the immediate gratification they’re entitled to, they’ll resort to guilt tripping. Text time difference was last night vs this morning; he had no reason to behave this way.	RED FLAG 🚨	blindbrunette	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/10/20 02:39 PM
1	Proposed dating rules for women— what’s FDS’s take on these? (Story screenshot from We Met At Acme). Trying to better myself and raise my standards when dating men.	STRATEGY	blindbrunette	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/21 06:23 PM

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72	How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”? In my pickme days, I used to look for tasks I could give my ex so he could feel “needed”, but I only gave him ones that I felt he wouldn’t fuck up because I subconsciously didn’t trust him. Now with my current partner, I don’t even have to delegate tasks, he just identifies a need of mine and fulfills it, because he pays attention and has empathy (unlike my LV ex). A HVM will know where he is needed and what to do. And if he doesn’t know how to do something you need, he’ll have the foresight to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/21 01:22 PM
1	Not to stereotype, but do you tend to notice Mediterranean men tend to be more stalkerish? Reading the comments and realizing that all men from all ethnicities can be awful. I think in this particular case, middle eastern men tend to wear their creepy red flags more proudly than white guys do. But don’t be fooled— all men can exhibit this LVM behavior. The flag signaling just helps you with your dating triage.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/10/20 02:59 PM