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10

Real talk: give up on that. Those are called red flags for a reason. You're not a therapist and you're not going to fix anyone. When your relationship blows up in your face you'll wonder what you did to deserve this, and the answer will just be that you did it to yourself. Sounds like YOU need therapy
/r/seduction13/01/26 07:53 PM
1

Not really, they would usually have "favorite" customers who would come in and spend a lot on them or look for them specifically. I have heard of a few of them getting out of the life like that, but always with some kinda rich kinda nerdy guy who was spending a mint on them
/r/seduction05/01/26 03:18 AM
2

Definitely not haha
/r/seduction05/01/26 03:04 AM
2

Get a job in a strip club as a DJ and be cool to everyone until they get crushes on you. Beware tho, it's likely even the ones that like you want you to spend $$$.
/r/seduction05/01/26 03:03 AM
6

Nobody ever raped me, followed me down the street catcalling me, or made me feel afraid for my life during a date. Now guess my gender
/r/seduction01/01/26 05:10 PM
39

No commitment, you're not her boyfriend. But she will continue to see you
/r/seduction02/12/25 12:28 AM
2

I'll ask for the first one, but then after that if it went well I'll just assume it's all good with blanket consent going forward
/r/seduction01/12/25 11:24 PM
1

Pathetic
/r/seduction13/11/25 09:49 AM
11

It's true, but you will still have to take 100% initiative
/r/seduction06/06/25 05:27 PM
5

Meeting girls out on a night is tough because good conversation doesn't mean anything. Making out with a girl on a night out doesn't mean anything either. They could be humoring you, or experimenting, or horny and regretful.. anything really. Young girls are VERY erratic and fickle. Especially with college aged girls, you're probably going to have to drive toward sex on a night out for anything to really stick. And even even, there's buyer's remorse. I think you should keep going out and trying …
/r/seduction27/10/24 04:23 AM
9

Wake the one you like up on your way out and get contacts. Tell them you had fun and they're so sexy. Dip out and hit her up later to hang with (or without) the group
/r/seduction11/10/24 09:50 PM
2

Not today. Just get out of there and try again with them later
/r/seduction11/10/24 09:46 PM
2

Yeah, I'm guessing 6'4 but I wouldn't be surprised if he was wearing platforms. I'm 5'5 though so everyone is tall to me
/r/seduction19/02/24 01:01 AM
5

I met him once in Lower East Side NYC at a kink event called impact(I think). He was cool. He caught me staring at him trying to figure out if it was him or not before I went to talk to him and didn't make a big deal out of it which I thought was nice. Talked to me for a while even though he was with a girl, but I guess that was him impressing the girl because he was really ready to jump into teacher mode even though I didn't ask for tips. Overall nice guy This was a couple years before covid. 2…
/r/seduction18/02/24 02:34 PM
1

So you're 5'9, and there's nothing actually wrong with your face? The kids in your past were just bullies. The only thing wrong with you is that you don't love yourself more. How can you get to start liking yourself? Your attitude about yourself is the only thing unattractive.
/r/seduction12/02/24 10:45 PM
1

You're not talking about women at all. This whole post is about other dudes. You didn't even notice that? Thinking about guys isn't going to make you progress with women. It's not a competition with other men to "beat them" at getting a girl (which is extremely reductive and objectifying to women by the way), it's a competition with yourself to become the best version of yourself until you know that you're worth all the good things life has to offer, women included. If you don't mind me asking..…
/r/seduction10/02/24 02:23 AM
6

I mean, are you out there to think about guys, or are you out there to think about girls? The best, and probably only thing you can do that will get you any success at this point is to just forget about what other guys are doing, or how easy they have it and focus on yourself, those around you, and what you want out of your own life. You're spending so much energy looking at someone else's bowl that you're not able to fill your own. I'm 5'5, and I never had it easy. Instead of focusing on figuri…
/r/seduction09/02/24 03:36 PM
4

I definitely understand the innate danger of being a woman and having to deal with guys.. but if you're telling me that "would you like to come home and see my comic books" is truly better than "Would you like to get out of here" across the board, I'm gonna have to disagree.
/r/seduction30/01/24 04:57 PM
44

I am failing to see how this is better than asking directly. Seems overly complicated to me.. if she knows what's up when you ask her to drink your fine herbal teas, she knows what's up when you just ask if she wants to get outta there. Not to say I haven't lured girls home before (hot tub in my case), but it's never been a situation where sex is a surprise. When a girl leaves with you to your place from a public drinking location she knows what's going on. The only way I see this being better i…
/r/seduction30/01/24 03:30 PM
1

Expensive dinner dates are lame. Better to find a cozy bar. The crux of the date shouldn't be you bribing someone's affections w/ food.
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:02 PM
2

Are you in college? You're a great age to get laid a lot even as a shorter guy. The best thing is to just not care and not make it a problem. Go get in shape, but not super jacked. Pick up some fun hobbies, stuff you like. DJing, snowboarding, stuff like that. Throw cool parties and do interesting stuff that draws people around you!
/r/seduction14/03/22 06:41 PM
2

Wtf? You better talk to her. She thinks you're hot. Don't follow her Instagram, just talk to her
/r/seduction24/02/22 11:52 PM
1

You have to approach with a lot of confidence. That type of girl is dressing to attract men who aren't feeble
/r/seduction18/02/22 11:00 PM
2

I wouldn't double book now in my life, but if I was brand new to dating then I would. It's important to get a lot of new experience in, and online dating can be pretty flaky.
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:43 PM
21

Short guy here, 5'5 It matters, but the amount it matters goes down proportionally to your confidence - potentially drastically. It's been a while since I wasn't getting laid by someone attractive
/r/seduction06/01/22 03:39 PM
32

Nah, that's just your insecurity fucking with your mind. Do you think she's going to forget about you while she's away? Not bloody likely.
/r/seduction23/11/21 03:02 PM
1

Obviously you want it fast, but doing it the way you're talking leads to further extreme body dysmorphia, where you're never satisfied with how big you are and you look like a damn freak. I'm certain you don't even know a proper gym routine yet. Also it shrinks your fucking balls to little peas
/r/seduction04/11/19 03:42 PM
2

Sounds like you'll wind up going from being empty and shallow to being an empty shallow prick with fake muscles and a fake dick. Just go to the gym and earn your gains like a normal person, lose the short cuts. Unless you have a micropenis, nobody cares. Women don't see your dick until you're naked
/r/seduction04/11/19 03:30 PM
3

NLP sucks for pickup, but it's a powerful tool in a lot of other ways. If you're going down this route though, start listening to blueprint decoded.
/r/seduction25/12/18 02:56 PM
1

Getting hurt badly. Kind of gave me this "I don't give a fuck" attitude that girls find attractive. Thanks, Jennifer!
/r/seduction31/01/18 05:53 AM
3

Dude, you're not even short shut the fuck up. Most girls are 5'5 and below. Most important is to be confident and comfortable in your skin. Girls can sense it and love it. Forget that height is an issue. Source: am 5'5. Don't be a pussy about your height.
/r/seduction31/01/18 05:29 AM
10

Nice vid. I'm getting over a chick now, and it makes me feel better to see that i'm mostly doing all the stuff you recommend. Kudos bruv.
/r/seduction23/01/18 05:06 PM
1

It's tough to read, since you don't name your girlfriend. Next time you write something like this you should go "My girlfriend, let's call her "vivian"..". At any rate, I think you should forgive her, if she was covering for her friend. But you should absolutely let her know beyond a shadow of a doubt that if you ever catch her lying to you again about anything then it's completely over.
/r/seduction04/01/18 06:17 AM
1

Ping text a non sequitur or shower thought. Something that doesn't explicitly demand a response, but invites one.
/r/seduction11/11/17 02:51 PM
1

I wouldn't sweat it. You should have had at least 15 min of real interaction with her for her to guaranteed release the # though. Not a big deal
/r/seduction11/02/17 07:52 PM
0

Some girls don't really smile a lot. I just assume attraction and approach. If you don't go say hi, the result is the same as getting blown out, so why not?
/r/seduction09/02/17 07:49 AM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction30/12/16 04:32 AM
1

That's uncalibrated, and even if she is a whore you don't want to make her feel like it.
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:27 PM
19

Yeah, it is what it is though. Most of us have had girls say "I'm not fucking you", only to have consensual sex less than an hour later. Also, we must recognize that an unsolicited "we're not having sex" is much different than receiving a "no" while escalating.
/r/seduction02/12/16 03:04 PM
5

It does. Just issue a command for eye contact
/r/seduction26/11/16 11:14 PM
41

Make plans to hang out with her and not them
/r/seduction23/11/16 06:19 PM
2

DJ controller
/r/seduction18/11/16 09:03 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/ogc1f/getting_your_girlfriend_to_orgasm_on_command/
/r/seduction14/11/16 02:16 PM
7

A lot in my experience. I'm good at giving girls multiple orgasms, and if you can make a girl cum non stop, you'll be on her mind the next day. Still a matter of striking while the iron is hot afterwards, and you can't act like a total goober, but there you have it
/r/seduction11/11/16 12:26 AM
3

I'd consider that a decent warm-up set. You'll have to approach a lot in a night find your footing. You really get to a point where you can escalate
/r/seduction13/10/16 02:56 PM
3

Dude, you don't know how good you've got it. You need to relax, and get more comfortable in your own skin. Nobody thinks you're gay, and even if they did who cares. Make friends with the coolest ones, and start pushing them to go out and party. Even having a few girls with you when you go out is social proof as hell. You'll look back on this experience and smile.
/r/seduction26/06/16 01:57 AM
1

David shades masterful lover course, or whatever it's called. David Shade. Girls fall in love with me often because David Shade taught me how to sling the D. Getting in her head is equally if not more important than getting in her holes.
/r/seduction26/06/16 01:52 AM
2

Nobody at music festivals cares if you're wearing one. It's actually a plus if you're cool.
/r/seduction26/02/16 08:13 AM
1

Take action while putting in the work to be your best self. That way you'll get laid in the process, and be on top of your game when you shed
/r/seduction18/11/15 06:47 PM
1

A minor mistake. Just don't pour more fuel on it
/r/seduction18/11/15 04:26 AM
3

Those aren't shit tests.
/r/seduction31/10/15 06:25 PM
1

You're not qualifying the girls properly. It sounds like the rest of your game is tight though, so that's really great. Bone up on qualification and start making that a more core part of your game. Done correctly, the girl should feel like shes winning you over through the course of the interaction. See how that changes your results!
/r/seduction31/10/15 06:24 PM
3

That's a gross mindset to have.
/r/seduction12/08/15 08:35 PM
3

Dude. You are fucking obtuse.
/r/seduction27/07/15 02:21 AM
3

That's what I did. Works great
/r/seduction03/06/15 06:47 PM
8

Magic bullets
/r/seduction21/05/15 04:01 PM
2

Yeah, I think this is a pretty common issue. Only one way out though.. Grit your teeth and get through the first 5 to 10. Not even that many approaches when you think about it.
/r/seduction25/04/15 02:59 AM
3

Haha, I'm upset with myself but I'm not THAT upset. Thanks for your concern.
/r/seduction24/04/15 03:57 PM
1

Yeah, I hear ya. Isolation isn't tough either though. In my experience, when you know it's time to isolate, just assume that you're leading the interaction and move her somewhere with you. A simple "let's go get a drink" or a "let's go sit down somewhere I can hear you better" is all you need. If you assume she'll follow, 4 times out of 5, she will. Get 'em, pimp.
/r/seduction01/04/15 03:12 PM
1

Next time you go out and do that, you'll do better. And the next time after that, even better. Don't drown yourself in game theory though, just take little pieces at a time to tweak what's holding you back. Right now, you need to remember to.. "assume attraction, escalate, and isolate". Just make that your mantra to yourself in line next time, and see how things change. Get it buddayyy!
/r/seduction01/04/15 01:49 PM
1

Nothing is wrong with the ego, until it gets overblown. Then it's a complete cancer on your life
/r/seduction23/02/15 01:08 PM
3

They give refunds if you're unsatisfied?
/r/seduction24/01/15 09:20 PM
1

Write detailed field reports for every time you go out and share with seddit. The feedback will help a lot, plus you'll start to notice your own patterns. At the end make notes on what you did well, what you did poorly, and what you can improve on. This will help IMMEASURABLY.
/r/seduction09/12/14 03:41 PM
2

Yes. Stop reading and start approaching. If you're going to read, ALWAYS make sure you're approaching just as many hours of the day. Especially once you've come back to reading the material! The best advice I can offer you now is to write frequent field reports, even if they read like "TLDR: AA was too much & I didn't approach." And try not to put a lot of pressure on yourself to kick super solid professional caliber game. Just force yourself to approach and see where it goes. Approach EVERYONE …
/r/seduction21/11/14 06:57 AM
2

Yes, outer game is stuff like magic bullets or that rapid escalation video you linked to.. or push pull, or hoop theory, or isolation games and similar things that you can field test. It's different from "inner game" which is more about confidence and non reactivity. Tons of outer game stuff on the sidebar here.
/r/seduction16/11/14 11:51 PM
1

If you're going to peacock that heavily, you should have some DHV stories about your jewelry to tell. It doesn't matter if they're true or not, but if a girl starts asking you questions about one of your rings it's an awesome opportunity to both DHV and start getting in some kino. Nice FR, really good to see you're keeping up with this. It would be nice to see you trying out some new outer game techniques
/r/seduction16/11/14 11:33 PM
2

Not really. I keep escalating, but I also keep cool. I show my desire, but when I say "ok" in response to the no sex objection I mean it. I'm prepared to not be upset if it doesen't happen - even though it always does. I guess you'd say my goal is to take them from being very horny and make them uncontrollably horny. For example, if she hasn't drawn the boundary yet, sometimes I'll reach down from behind her ass and start playing with her pussy from behind. Since she doesent expect it, she won't…
/r/seduction12/11/14 03:48 PM
3

It's just token resistance. Keep advancing until she stops you, then back off a little. Re-engage the sexuality and you should get further before she stops you. Rinse repeat. Respect the drawn boundary, and often she'll let you pass it. This is probably contriversial, but another trick I picked up.. guys always under estimate how much a woman who's horny enough to fuck you loves the feel of your dick. If it's getting super sexual and clothes are coming off, pull your dick out and put her hand on…
/r/seduction12/11/14 04:33 AM
1

Hahaha sorry, I wasn't paying attention and thought you were OP. Hit on hotter chicks!!
/r/seduction07/11/14 07:58 PM
1

That's why you have to practice on girls you're attracted to. The same pressure isn't there when it comes to sixes. Get used to feeling the tension and training yourself to handle it
/r/seduction07/11/14 07:05 PM
2

Not bad. It's a lot better to practice on girls you're attracted to though. Approach them, and use the sixes and sevens as pivots
/r/seduction07/11/14 03:52 PM
3

You can definitely still get this girl. Shes obviously attracted. I think she's still interested, and probably a bit shocked (in a good way) that you had the balls to not wait around forever and play her game. Probably made her think about how dumb she's being by missing out on current opportunities for something that's already dead. The fact that she tried to catch you out at the bar is huge in my mind. Invite her out again, and keep escalating. Bounce her to a bunch of different places, and tr…
/r/seduction07/11/14 03:36 PM
1

What..?
/r/seduction07/11/14 03:26 PM
11

My job requires me to socialize and meet a ton of people. I'll tell you this.. some times when you're not feeling it and you go out anyways, you have the most amazing nights and meeting the best people. I'm not saying I never stay in, but nights out exploring the world are always more valuable than nights in exploring Netflix.
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:56 PM
1

I'm really confused. You kissed the one chick, then you suddenly start approaching a bunch more, and then you leave? What happened to the girl? You also say you made a ton of approaches, but none of them are detailed here. What exactly did you approach with? What opened and what didn't? How are your sets going when you do open? It's really tough to follow your night.
/r/seduction28/10/14 06:26 PM
1

Get yourself to a psychiatrist. Are you making an identity out of inadequacy?
/r/seduction25/10/14 07:58 AM
2

What subreddits do you have on your front page? Science? Space? Can you speak in an impassioned way about the topics that interest you?
/r/seduction23/10/14 01:00 AM
1

Yes, I thought that the hot girl shoot down was an opportunity as well. Next time don't give up so easy!
/r/seduction21/10/14 01:45 AM
4

Obstacles are there to stop others. Not you.
/r/seduction20/10/14 07:24 AM
2

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1hjetl/what_are_the_must_watch_seduction_videos/
/r/seduction19/09/14 04:48 PM
1

Nobody?
/r/seduction17/09/14 06:05 PM
1

Yup, that's the one
/r/seduction17/09/14 05:04 PM
1

It looks like you worked on improving yourself, but not really aspects of your game. Maybe this video will help. http://www.rsdnation.com/tyler/blog/7-masters-game-reveal-how-learn-pickup-fast
/r/seduction04/09/14 12:52 PM
1

I don't understand
/r/seduction19/07/14 07:38 PM
1

Nothings wrong with it, you just aren't expanding your skills
/r/seduction12/07/14 11:27 PM
2

I bet you're in Rutgers town. Just go up to NYC and hit up the parks. Union square, central, and whatever park is right next to NYU. Full of cuties. Also, the beach is only an hour away, so rally up the crew and ride down. If you go to central(or the beach), bring a prop like a volleyball net, frisbee, soccer ball.. anything that will gather a game up.
/r/seduction24/06/14 01:57 PM
1

Pick up a copy of magic bullets by savoy. It helped me out a lot, and you can find it easily all over the internet if you poke around.
/r/seduction24/04/14 04:17 PM
19

Sober game > Drunk game. What are your 2 biggest problems?
/r/seduction24/04/14 01:54 PM
18

Be more proactive. Join an improv class, practice in the mirror, practice on random women and tell them English isn't your native language. DO something about it!
/r/seduction24/04/14 01:44 PM
59

Your delivery is off.
/r/seduction24/04/14 01:39 PM
2

The easiest answer is to try to have a good time, and lean into your fears by forcing yourself to talk to strangers. I'm not even talking about trying to get laid at this point, just taking steps to start cracking out of your shell. There's plenty of great advice here, and a lot of advanced technique, but it all starts there.
/r/seduction17/04/14 02:15 PM
1

Nope. No fatties.
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:05 PM
3

Do both. It's not about getting laid right now for you.. It's about getting comfortable overcoming your shyness and anxiety.
/r/seduction13/04/14 11:30 PM
1

Sure.
/r/seduction13/04/14 02:55 AM
1

So overcome the hurdle. Don't complain, achieve.
/r/seduction12/04/14 07:21 PM
6

Height isn't a belief. The limiting belief is that your height will hold you back in life. Everyone knows that women prefer taller guys. So the fuck what? Get over it
/r/seduction12/04/14 02:31 PM
9

He's kind of an annoying dick and I wouldn't be friends with him in real life. His info is solid though and he's a master. Take what you will and leave the rest behind.
/r/seduction10/03/14 04:14 AM
1

Your opening is fine. Relying on getting em drunk to come home with you isn't really good game though. Have you read Magic Bullets? Basically, you need to forget that you're good looking and start to work on your skills. You're gonna have quite a few more "BUT I'M ATTRACTIVE. FUCK!!" moments, but try not to let it fuck with you. Being good looking is a nice help, but it's just a fleeting blip on the radar if you don't have any game to back it up.
/r/seduction24/11/13 03:22 AM
1

It is exercising. For your social skills
/r/seduction16/11/13 06:23 PM
1

Kind of like cocky funny w/o the confidence? Awkward=unconfident=unattractive.
/r/seduction09/11/13 04:18 PM
1

Funny, yes. Awkward? Hell no.
/r/seduction09/11/13 04:16 PM
3

White knight somewhere else please
/r/seduction03/11/13 04:05 PM
1

Commedians don't run out of stuff to talk about. They know how to transition
/r/seduction03/11/13 05:46 AM
8

I love how outer game has to be pointed out on this sub now.
/r/seduction29/09/13 05:55 PM
20

Duh. That's what you need game for
/r/seduction13/09/13 05:27 PM
-1

The scholastic scale is perfect. Everyone instinctively knows the difference between a C+ and a B-.
/r/seduction28/08/13 04:57 AM
3

"The game" is a story book. Not a how-to. Pick up Magic Bullets instead.
/r/seduction24/08/13 11:04 AM
5

I want to believe.
/r/seduction06/08/13 01:48 PM
1

No thanks. Someone else please
/r/seduction02/08/13 06:38 PM
1

Stop crying
/r/seduction02/08/13 03:37 PM
1

Although this style isn't for me, I fully appreciate this post. There is always something to learn, particularly from game that is very dissimilar to your own. Upvoted
/r/seduction02/08/13 03:34 PM
5

Actually I like to read about it so when I catch myself doing it I can say to myself "Oh yea, that's chodey. Get in the game, playboy!"
/r/seduction22/07/13 03:26 PM
15

Eh.
/r/seduction18/07/13 03:13 PM
3

Scientific method? If you can't handle normal human interaction and being attractive without trying to break it down into a mathematical equation, just go Mystery Method, and be done with it. She SAID his game was natural. This is what natural game looks like, and no you can't break natural game down into bytes.
/r/seduction02/07/13 09:11 PM
2

First things first.. talk to your girl. Tell her that things can continue, but you really just don't want to talk about what she does with other guys if you can't handle hearing it. Anyways.. as a guy in an open relationship myself, I understand how you feel. But you HAVE to be able to practice what you preach. Otherwise the premise of your entire relationship is based on a lie. You didn't want an open relationship. You wanted a harem. Let's be honest with ourselves here. An open relationship is…
/r/seduction31/05/13 06:43 PM
4

It's only oneitis when you're attached through lack of other options. I don't think any coach worth his salt would say that at all. These guys DO settle down into relationships too you know.
/r/seduction23/04/13 07:46 PM
46

Nope! The genome of human interaction has been thoroughly mapped at this point. All anyone can do now is put their own spin on what's already been uncovered
/r/seduction23/04/13 07:15 PM
6

I highly doubt that.
/r/seduction25/03/13 12:42 PM
0

I said possibly dangerous. Are you denying that it could be trouble for a girl to give a guy she doesn't know her number? What are You smoking?
/r/seduction27/02/13 08:40 PM
-2

Yea, one idiot. What woman of any substance is going to give a random, possibly dangerous guy?
/r/seduction27/02/13 07:20 PM
3

I used an axe
/r/seduction15/02/13 06:29 PM
2

Fuck normal
/r/seduction08/02/13 06:17 AM
-6

Shut up.
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:36 PM
12

He's probably using the same routine stack that he's comfortable with to pick up. OP is a regular, so if his game worked on girls, then they see the exact thing verbatum working on other girls, I could understand how they'd get to feeling pissed and used.. and maybe complain.
/r/seduction19/01/13 10:01 PM
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Replying here so you see it, but mamser102 has a really good point. If you got bounced because of it, you're definitely using your routines far too often. If you can get yourself unbanned from the bar, you better switch your game up & start opening more natural. Put bluntly, the fact that you keep rehashing the same material gets around and chicks who bought it the first time feel cheap & used when they find out you say the same shit to everyone. Being a regular only exacerbates the issue becaus…
/r/seduction19/01/13 04:51 PM
10

ITT: just say anything. Don't be sorry about it
/r/seduction18/01/13 04:23 PM
9

A lot of guys don't understand what a shit test is either. Unfortunately.. It irks me sooo hard when a guy mistakes a girl trying to brush him off or telling him that he's being a dick as a shit test. The differences aren't even slight! A shit test is something a female does to test a guy's mettle when she's possibly attracted. It tests a dude's congruence with the image he's portraying. It's usually a conscious thing, but not always. For example, if you're kicking it to an older woman (milf cou…
/r/seduction12/01/13 11:46 PM
2

it's not about deep. It's about strong.
/r/seduction31/12/12 01:49 AM
5

Still. That's what guys think when he asks you for your #, and you ask for his instead. Now if you are asking for his # at some time without him asking for your digits, that's a whole different story. That's hot.
/r/seduction28/12/12 10:10 PM
-2

I... want to believe..
/r/seduction16/12/12 05:47 PM
1

If tricking someone into bed is what you're looking for, this subreddit prrrobably isn't really for you.
/r/seduction25/10/12 09:27 PM
9

Couple different choices. Pick the one that works best for you. http://thesanfranciscolair.com/kino-escilation-ladder/ http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL45A52788C1616B18 http://www.pickupevolution.com/getting-started-in-pick-up-guide-part-14-kino-escalation-ladder-part-b/
/r/seduction25/10/12 02:45 PM
1

It's not a bad thing per se.. but it'd be better if you were the guy all the girls were interested in/hitting on, as opposed to the guy who's hitting on all the girls. It sounds like you've got the fun party guy vibe down, so maybe you should spend a little time working to come across as a little more naturally screening and high-value. How's your qualification game and push/pull?
/r/seduction08/10/12 11:14 PM
18

Then go do the same stuff.
/r/seduction23/09/12 08:14 PM
3

Next time you see her is what I meant. Look for an opportunity for something fun to do (that you would go do anyways) and bring her with you.
/r/seduction20/09/12 05:44 AM
2

Why not invite her to a party with you?
/r/seduction20/09/12 05:40 AM
2

You can lead a horse to water, but you cannot make him drink. If he doesn't want to hear it, move on and be as awesome as you can on your own. Maybe he'll come around later.
/r/seduction19/09/12 09:48 PM
3

Your friend needs to stop worrying so much about what other people think of him.
/r/seduction19/09/12 07:41 PM
2

Some of it does yea, but honestly bro you're gonna be a lot better off just making friends and being social at least for a little while. Now is the time for you as a college freshman to make a bunch of buddies and set up for a bunch of good times. Just focus on approaching new people. once you get to feeling comfortable in your surroundings, THEN it's time to start to integrate a thing or two into your everyday interactions. Start slow with that shit too. Don't try to enact everything at once.. …
/r/seduction18/09/12 10:02 PM
2

Dude, you're at college. Are you fucking serious? Fuck the shirt and tie shit, that has nothing to do with anything. Tough love coming up.. you're being a bitch. That's what's mostly going wrong. How the fuck many girls are around you at your university? You don't see attractive girls EVERYWHERE?? APPROACH NEW GIRLS!! Keep doing it over and over and over again. You're gonna get rejected, and it might hurt. Who cares. You'll survive. Keep going. Don't get hung up on what didn't work. Do not let y…
/r/seduction18/09/12 08:08 PM
1

Your buddy has to make his own moves and mistakes. Yes, of course girls like being bought shit. Can you can get a girl by lavishing goodies upon her? Absolutely! Do you have to? Absolutely not. Supplication can be a tricky thing. If your friend is happy taking the long road, then leave him be and let him make his own way. You don't know that this is going to be a problem for him, and even if you somehow did, you can't save him from himself, so don't even sweat it. You need to worry about you.
/r/seduction18/09/12 07:52 PM
4

r/circleseddit
/r/seduction18/09/12 05:00 PM
1

I don't really think of it as a catch-22.. more like a 20 mile road with a 2 mile marker.
/r/seduction18/09/12 04:54 PM
4

Well if you're following the natural path (which is not easy to do.. at first), the goal is eventually to "just be yourself". But precursor to that is you have to know who you are, what you stand for, where your boundaries lie, what you expect out of others, etc etc etc.. not to mention working out a fucking football field's worth of counter-intuitive social paradoxes to fully get a handle on it. "be yourself & have fun" is a very short and simple version of a very long and complex answer.
/r/seduction18/09/12 03:50 PM
1

All the techniques are right there in the sidebar. Don't you think seddit IS a mix of inner/outer if we discuss inner while directing people to scope out the sidebar infos? Without inner game, you'll get crushed repeatedly when you try technique. Not that that's nessecarily a bad thing, but that's why we get "SEDDIT, I'VE BEEN IN THE GAME FOR 5 YEARS AND I STILL AM NOT GETTING LAID" posts. They're both important, mang. You can't put one over the other.
/r/seduction18/09/12 03:41 PM
7

The age shit test ALWAYS comes out with cougars. Be ready to agree and amplify, or otherwise deal correctly with the test when it pops up!
/r/seduction15/09/12 04:31 PM
2

Nope. It kind of makes me chuckle to myself actually
/r/seduction13/09/12 07:51 PM
7

You definitely are over thinking this. Lucky that she works at the resturaunt near you, but you're being kinda stalkerish with this whole thing. Fucking RELAX. You don't even know if this girl works there or not yet for sure, so chill. Now i'm not going to tell you to not go for it with this girl, but you have to recognize that you've got ONEITIS over a girl that you DON'T KNOW yet. You haven't had enough conversation or time to get to know if you actually really like her or not at all yet! You …
/r/seduction13/09/12 07:49 PM
0

I'm a space alien. I was born on a planet that you can't pronounce in your human tongue, and i only have 8 toes total. Don't worry about if talking about animals makes you alpha or not. An alpha guy wouldn't think twice about it, and talk about whatever he wants.
/r/seduction13/09/12 06:56 PM
1

http://i.imgur.com/vcJwd.gif
/r/seduction10/09/12 05:57 PM
1

Who the fuck cares? YOU. That's it. You're the only one.
/r/seduction10/09/12 05:56 PM
2

After reading your replies, it doesn't really sound to me like you came here looking for success - only to reinforce that your failures are insurmountable. Get on board, or be a lonely loser. I don't have patience for people like you who make excuses and won't listen to what people are trying to tell you.
/r/seduction10/09/12 05:50 PM
1

5'7? I wish I had your problems dude. At least you're still taller than most of the girls you see! You're making excuses. The only problem here is your own lack of self confidence. The height thing is a non-issue. Stop being a pussy about it.
/r/seduction10/09/12 05:42 PM
5

If you've caught her looking at you repeatedly, it's because she's attracted to you. Don't mistake that!
/r/seduction08/09/12 04:54 PM
3

http://i.imgur.com/PZtQb.gif
/r/seduction08/09/12 04:53 PM
1

ehh i definitely wouldn't say that. It's just a dayplanner that tries to teach you how to get a date. If you've found seddit or askseddit, you'll be a hundred times better off asking questions here than buying that thing. Moneygrab with little content. avoid.
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:17 AM
1

Man, i wish I saw this 2 weeks ago when you posted it! One thing to think about is that a lot of original seduction ideas (push/pull, outcome independence, etc) actually came from studying how women seduce. It makes a lot of sense that they'd work well for you. If you take a seduction community technique and modify it to work for yourself.. chances are that you'll be doing something pretty similar to the original thing that a guy was trying to emulate when he "came up with it" in the first place…
/r/seduction06/09/12 08:30 PM
4

You can say that with about as much confidence as I can give a dissertation on particle physics. GTFO.
/r/seduction04/09/12 07:13 PM
1

Idiot, this subreddit is not about tricks. You're just as much of a fool as those guys you think you're talking about. This place is about profound personal change and self-confidence. Please take your close-minded BS elsewhere. You really don't know what you're talking about at all.
/r/seduction04/09/12 07:11 PM
16

40 year olds get laid at the clubs too, man. Once you start talking bout how OBVIOUS it is why you're getting rejected, you close the door to other possibilities. Not good at all. The main problem here is that you're ASSUMING that people are going to think you're creepy. THAT MAKES YOU COME OFF CREEPY!! The first thing is you've got to act in spite of that voice in your head telling you not to be a creep. You have to assume that girls will be attracted to you, and that your interactions will go …
/r/seduction04/09/12 05:37 PM
15

You are an obstinate fool. When bad things happen, you'll remember that people came to tell you these things and you ignored it all.
/r/seduction03/09/12 03:59 PM
4

I tried to handle a situation like that all on my own, and it wound up with my ex attempted to commit suicide. Fuckin listen to these guys, stupidass.
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:38 PM
1

It's really rudimentary. You'll have a lot better results asking questions on here, and going out regularly. Don't waste your money.
/r/seduction02/09/12 09:26 AM
5

I just wanted to clarify that does not include shit you're not comfortable taking. I know this message is probably needless, but I know a lot of people who wound up getting in trouble with peer pressure issues. Remember to make sure that at the end of the day, you're your own man.
/r/seduction01/09/12 08:08 AM
6

If someone offers something, take it. Beyond that, it sounds like you're off to a good start! Read up on some of the principles.. They're less like instructions and more like ideas to keep in your head to be a more effectively sexy bitch. Good luck to you!
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:49 AM
9

Better that way. rules of the game is kinda garbage
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:45 AM
1

Dates are not necessary. Girls can and will hook up with you without having to be taken out on a date. What is important is that you can spend time together, enjoy each other's company, and let some sexual tension develop. In my town, there are a bunch of cool semi-hidden spots.. for example there's a 1-mile long stretch of wall that's covered in grafitti that I've been known to take girls down to see. But honestly, that's just an excuse to spend some time together and let her become more attrac…
/r/seduction31/08/12 04:46 PM
2

Dishonest? I disagree. They're there to get laid & have fun. You're there to get laid & have fun. They're drinking to have fun, but even though you're not drinking you're having fun too. I don't see anything dishonest with an iota of that picture. As long as you're sure your advances are being well received, just roll with it. No problem. It's simply not a big deal at all.
/r/seduction29/08/12 08:26 AM
1

good luck
/r/seduction29/08/12 12:27 AM
1

I can only point you in the direction of the water. If you want to drink it or not is up to you. Are you a high value individual, or not? Can you not have fun whatever you're doing? Correct me if i'm wrong, but isn't success in spite of circumstances exactly what you're looking for?
/r/seduction28/08/12 10:54 PM
1

A girl is more likely to like you because you're awesome and it shines boldly through your every action than she is to like you because you know a list of interesting things to do. Who cares if you meet up with a girl at the exact same place every day, if you're consistently having an excellent time?
/r/seduction28/08/12 10:18 PM
1

I don't drink, but I still go out to bars and clubs regularly. How's your self control? Can you be around alchohol and not drink? I never mention it, unless a girl asks. If she does, I just tell them that I don't drink. That usually breaks it right there. If they're persistent, I'll tell em that I'm a recovering alcoholic and just keep it moving along. Nobody has ever seemed to mind, and there has rarely been a time where I had to pour over my life to explain what's up. Treat it like your own pe…
/r/seduction28/08/12 10:10 PM
2

As one of seddit's resident poor dudes (HOW AM I GONNA PAY MY RENT THIS MONTH OH GOD SOMEONE PLEASE PAY ME FOR SEDUCTION ADVICE), pick up doesn't involve as much money as you think. You can pick up anywhere. And as long as you have the right mindset, money is no object. People can and will be interested in you for the value you can bring to the table, regardless of what a broke-ass you are. Talk to girls everywhere, and assume attraction. Drink water or ginger ale when you go out. Poverty, just …
/r/seduction28/08/12 10:05 PM
2

He doesn't drink when he goes out. Same as me.
/r/seduction28/08/12 10:00 PM
1

I see another "the hottest girl I've ever seen" probably every other week. It's not that special, and you'll never know if she's the one unless you talk to her like she's a human being and find out. You might not even like her personality.
/r/seduction27/08/12 10:01 PM
1

Why don't you just get some sildenafil tablets? Snap em in half and have a wonderful time. I don't even have ED, and I love those little blue guys.
/r/seduction18/08/12 12:58 AM
2

I think it could have gone better if you had a few exaggerated sips as a joke. "Ooh, this. is. GOOD." kind of a deal. Drinking her whole drink was a little dick. but then again, it doesn't sound like you have issues meeting people, and girls are everywhere. it doesn't matter if one or two walk off, but if you can keep em sticking then more power to 'ya
/r/seduction16/08/12 01:31 PM
6

You make a good point. OP is right, but that's playing at an advanced level. Get to the point where you can have fun picking up, then roll over into this mindset
/r/seduction16/08/12 01:06 PM
1

Uh wow. where was this place?
/r/seduction15/08/12 06:30 PM
2

You are making too much of it. Your teeth aren't hindering your dating life, your self-consciousness about it is. Start acting like you don't give a fuck about how bad your teeth are, and expect your interactions to go well.
/r/seduction15/08/12 06:24 PM
7

30 second number close is impressive, but it should be stressed that you need to hang around and interact for a while longer than that otherwise the # will almost definitely flake. The # is not a victory!
/r/seduction05/08/12 05:32 PM
1

r/fitness
/r/seduction22/07/12 07:15 PM
2

You are Mr. Close. I dig it.
/r/seduction26/06/12 10:48 PM
5

nigga, I disagree.
/r/seduction26/06/12 10:48 PM
2

Being a nice guy isn't. Being a "Niceguy" is.
/r/seduction23/06/12 03:29 PM
2

I didn't call you any names, I told you to shut the fuck up if you didn't know what you were talking about. You told this guy to walk up to the girl, act like a fool trying to falsify alpha posturing (which REEKS of value-seeking), and then walk away. Which I guarantee you is exactly the same kind of asinine I'm-gonna-go-for-it-but-blow-myself-out-before-she-can crap attitude that losers throw at her all the time when they DO gather up the balls to approach. What is stand-out, determined or "alp…
/r/seduction11/06/12 02:10 PM
2

No, this is Seddit. The point is to give good advice to people who ask, and exchange information on what works. Not to rattle off random bullshit that will make someone feel like as much of a tool as possible if they're unfortunate enough to take you seriously. We're here to help people get a handle on their shit, not spew garbage. You should read more and post less.. you've obviously got a lot of learning to do yourself.
/r/seduction11/06/12 11:55 AM
5

Are you a troll? You sound like a total clown. This advice is terrible.
/r/seduction10/06/12 03:09 PM
3

If she's been looking at you, it's because she likes what she sees. Don't mistake that. Often times, the girls who are the most attractive also get the FEWEST approaches, because of the intimidation factor. Sure she probably has to flick off a drunk or two a night, but be careful in assuming that she's chewing people up and spitting them out on the regular. As long as you treat it like no big deal, she'll probably be very happy to talk to you. some people start in with the whole "THE GYM IS FOR …
/r/seduction10/06/12 07:03 AM
5

Dont take seduction advice from himym.. keep trying it for science though, and let us know how it goes. You're bound to have some crazy story from it at some point. Probably involving you getting kicked out of someplace naked.
/r/seduction09/06/12 04:37 PM
2

What a lucky start! You're the man now, dawg.
/r/seduction04/06/12 02:11 AM
4

She's not your girlfriend, so technically you have no right to get mad. You're human though, so of course there's gonna be that twinge of emotion over this whole thing. If you want to wife her up, do it. Otherwise, take your lumps like a man, and keep trying to bang whoever you want - which is why I assume it's not a true relationship already. Why do you have to talk it out with her exactly? I'd just let it go competely. Not like she's gonna suddenly stop wanting you if you dont get to the root …
/r/seduction02/06/12 05:03 PM
2

It's not the line, it's the execution. The confidence behind it and the flow when it leaves your lips. OP is just looking for examples
/r/seduction28/05/12 03:46 AM
2

People jerk themselves off. Figuratively.
/r/seduction27/05/12 12:54 AM
2

Hey man. I read your post. It was pretty pathetic, but almost all of us have been in your shoes so it's really nothing to be embarrassed over. Read over the sidebar, and take any specific questions you have over to r/askseddit. This community is really about bettering yourself and becoming more socially competent - it just happens to be through the lens of getting laid. It sounds like you're trapped in your own head, so let's find a way out of there, shall we?
/r/seduction27/05/12 12:09 AM
1

It's worth it, but it can take a long time. Not only is it 20 hours long, but I'm on maybe my third listen, and i'm still picking up new things. You have to take notes like a class, or listen to it repeatedly.
/r/seduction23/05/12 12:49 PM
2

I'd recommend listening to the blueprint decoded on repeat for a couple of weeks..
/r/seduction23/05/12 02:51 AM
2

Smart will not attract a girl alone. Supplement it with social skills. If you want to meet girls who are REALLY want intelligent discourse, join a book club. Talking smart won't get you anywhere if you're an tactless unfunny slob with the personality of a block of wood. Step up your game around it, and use it to your advantage.
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:19 AM
2

I dress like a bum and still get laid. I'm also short and bald
/r/seduction14/04/12 02:42 PM
-1

If he wasnt gay then, he's gay now. Haaayyyooooo!
/r/seduction17/03/12 10:48 PM
1

Just get your approach on. Start approaching every day. Multiple girls, groups. Keep it up for 30 days straight, and you'll find someone who likes you
/r/seduction17/03/12 03:06 PM
0

Rules of the game is a totally worthless book. It's a lazily written insult.
/r/seduction17/03/12 03:05 PM
9

If a stranger asked you that, he'd most likely be a guy propositioning you for some form of gay sex
/r/seduction15/03/12 04:12 PM
0

Weak. Not funny.
/r/seduction05/03/12 01:33 PM
11

Another thing to think about is that if she saw you pacing around all night, others saw it too. You don't want to look like the guy who's fumbling around with himself and doesn't know what to do. It's totally unattractive. When you get there, you want to look (BE) relaxed and in your element. Build towards being the most fun guy there, and your results will 180.
/r/seduction06/02/12 04:53 PM
3

5'7 isn't even short, ya panty waist. be 5' 5 like me, and then complain. And then stop being a wuss and go make it happen
/r/seduction02/02/12 06:30 AM
-5

Sidebar
/r/seduction01/02/12 02:33 PM
2

I used to wear a really loud red hat that looks exactly like M.Bisons cap from street fighter. Pretty effective.
/r/seduction25/01/12 04:47 PM
2

Uhhhh... gonna have to disagree with you there, buddy.
/r/seduction18/01/12 05:57 AM
1

The game is more of a "what is modern pickup?" book told with a great story. If you want to learn seduction, it wont help you much.
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:50 AM
2

some dumb shit about how it's more like 9/10 times that girls are interested in looks, and that it's a scientific fact that your height is directly correlational to how many girls you'll sleep with in your lifetime. Shit nobody should ever listen or pay credence to.
/r/seduction11/01/12 08:07 PM
1

Sorry, but you're flat out wrong. You need to work on your game. I'm 5'4, and I right now I have 2 girlfriends. Physically a 7 and an 8. and one of them is taller than me. I would appreciate it if you would keep this self-defeating horseshit to yourself.
/r/seduction10/01/12 07:44 PM
3

More like 3/10. Girls care about looks, but not nearly as much as you think. They want all that other good stuff. Looks is 30% of the package.
/r/seduction10/01/12 01:39 PM
3

That's just a limiting belief. I feel sorry for you, and it has nothing to do with your height
/r/seduction03/01/12 02:36 AM
10

Dude, I'm like 2 inches shorter than you and I have 2 girlfriends. It's only a problem if you make it a problem. Strive to be awesome enough where your lack of height doesn't matter.
/r/seduction02/01/12 10:26 PM
2

Common wisdom says to avoid talking about politics and religion. Change the subject.
/r/seduction30/12/11 02:13 PM
4

Once again, female proves that she doesn't know dick about attraction.
/r/seduction27/12/11 03:22 PM
11

Wtf's wrong with you guys? Dude just went out stoned and got his party on. Christ.
/r/seduction26/12/11 06:09 AM
3

Technically. Here they're talking about cougars. The idea is "I want to fuck a hot older chick" not "I want to fuck a chick who's had kids"
/r/seduction19/12/11 08:28 PM
5

If you're leading the interaction and you guys are having a consistently fun time, things should never get weird. Don't worry so much about feeling odd. Focus on feeling great and having fun instead.
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:59 AM
2

Wrong subreddit.
/r/seduction03/12/11 11:15 PM
1

I don't recall anyone saying anything about a first date.
/r/seduction26/11/11 12:42 AM
8

You must be so much fun at parties. Give it a rest, nobody likes a judgemental puritan.
/r/seduction25/11/11 09:38 PM
5

Err yeah, i meant cocaine sprinkled on the weed. I never tried adderall like that, only via ingestion.
/r/seduction25/11/11 09:26 PM
5

If you're gonna smoke and then get flirty, definitely keep some uppers around. I like adderall, and to a much lesser extent cocaine. we used to sprinkle some on top of the weed, and that would help prevent us from turning into slugs. Red bull might work well too if you're not into las drogas. disclaimer: I have an unprecedentedly non-addictive personality. If you're the kind of person who gets fiendy for speed, steer clear.
/r/seduction25/11/11 08:29 PM
1

There's nothing clingy about saying "Hey. I'd like to see more of you." It's what you want, not something you need. If she's as counter cultural as you say, the bf/gf label (even if it's in an open way) might be offputting. However, even if she is to go for it, it shouldnt be a situation where you suddenly snap to a comitted relationship and start communicating with and seeing each other 3x more often than you're used to. Start off more gradually, and get her used to more you in her life. Calibr…
/r/seduction24/11/11 06:44 PM
3

Very interesting FR. Not gay here but I think it's really cool how similar gay pickup and straight pickup are once you get the ball rolling.
/r/seduction21/11/11 06:52 AM
2

No, kids today are just scared to escalate. It's like everyone whoposts here's turned into michael cera.
/r/seduction20/11/11 01:59 PM
-2

Nice little slogan, eh? Whatever you say, buddy. I suppose all I can really do is point out the fact that you slow rolling into a relationship with awkward and slow flirtations sounds awfully beginner status. Legitimate fear of ruining a friendship? Give me a break. Once again I remind everyone that this is a SEDUCTION board. So sick of this and every other friendzone shithead circlejerk. Done with this chode thread. Downvoting, moving on.
/r/seduction20/11/11 01:51 PM
6

...no. Boldness removes obstacles. Timidity puts them in your path.
/r/seduction20/11/11 04:29 AM
1

No its not. There's a difference between not rushing and making the interaction awkward, and not taking the bull by the horns when the opportunity has arrived.
/r/seduction20/11/11 03:16 AM
3

If you started assuming that it would lead somewhere (like most peple do), you'd probably get laid more often.
/r/seduction20/11/11 01:15 AM
7

I dont recall anything here telling you not to go for it when the feeling is right. you build anticipation with your actions beforehand, not the lack of action when the time comes. I think the point you were supposed to take away is not to rush it and make the interaction awkward.
/r/seduction20/11/11 01:11 AM
3

Good job man, but don't jerk yourself off just yet. You still have a lot of progression left ahead of you. Careful you don't go getting needy now.
/r/seduction20/11/11 01:07 AM
6

My gut says use her as a pivot. Walk up all "hey, oneitis! Nice to see ya!" Ground yourself and just continue bringing the good vibes to her and everyone else without focusing your attention on her too much. If she tries to break your frame, treat it like a shit test - which it probably will be. Beyond that it sounds like your awesome frame will carry you through. Maybe practice some push/pull or isolation tactics while you're there to get it down. It sounds like you (just?) finished the bluepri…
/r/seduction30/10/11 08:28 PM
1

This belongs in r/askseddit. Post shit like this over there from here on. Edit: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hs8j9/not_giving_a_fuck/
/r/seduction24/10/11 06:32 AM
1

Leader of men, brother. Dont think of it as conversationally dominant, but situationally dominant. Subtly dominant, Alpha. If you want to check some good stff out, try mehow's stuff.. he's a total wierdo, but his understanding of subtle situatonal dominance is pretty tops, and easy to co-opt into a less fruity oddball style. And remember, you dont nessecarily have to be the one talking to be the one driving a conversation.
/r/seduction21/10/11 08:00 PM
19

Fuck the haters. I feel no urge to defend seduction principles from fools.
/r/seduction21/10/11 01:58 PM
3

If you're worried about your posts being too long, add a tldr summary at the end. No problems. First off, Congratulations on making that first approach. It takes a little guts to get up there, but the more you do it the less it stings. There are a lot of things you definitely need to pick up on, but I'm feeling like #1 is that you should work on being the leader of the social interactions you partake in. I'm getting the feeling that you're a classically attractive dude, rugged and whatnot if you…
/r/seduction21/10/11 03:08 AM
1

Simply let the confidence of knowing you're hung carry you on. Works for me! Don't be a braggart.
/r/seduction20/10/11 12:26 AM
3

Total disagree. You just have to approach it differently
/r/seduction20/10/11 12:21 AM
1

Just get a car. It's only a month. Chalk everything else until then up to practice and keep kicking that game.
/r/seduction19/10/11 10:34 PM
14

He opened his MOUTH about it.
/r/seduction19/10/11 04:58 PM
1

The best advice I ever got about AA was to treat it like a game. Go open, but don't think about it as being life or death. See what you can get away with. Have fun with it. Experiment. Don't take it seriously. If it's just a game, what have you got to lose?
/r/seduction18/10/11 11:23 PM
9

I still love gaming. Get a blowjob while demolishing someone online and then come tell me how boring videogames are now.
/r/seduction18/10/11 05:42 PM
1

You have the ability to call out bad advice.
/r/seduction18/10/11 03:25 AM
3

This belongs in r/askseddit. Please post things about specific situations over there from here on out.
/r/seduction17/10/11 09:04 PM
2

This type of thing belongs in r/askseddit. Post questions about specific things over there from here on
/r/seduction17/10/11 06:21 PM
2

this belongs in r/askseddit. repost there instead.
/r/seduction17/10/11 06:16 PM
2

Nah dude. That's a shit test.
/r/seduction17/10/11 05:29 PM
5

I'm gay for that bearded clam! I'm a total faggot for some vagina! YOU HEAR ME!? FOR THE LAST TIME, I LOVE THE PUSSY!!
/r/seduction17/10/11 05:25 PM
1

THIS BELONGS IN R/ASKSEDDIT christ.
/r/seduction17/10/11 05:22 PM
1

Hahaha.. I love these guys. CYCLOOOOONNEEE!!
/r/seduction17/10/11 03:43 PM
1

Scott Pilgrim-esque? Really now?
/r/seduction16/10/11 10:57 PM
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Re: your image issue. Credit Raptorbutts Affirmations to: Not Give A Fuck I don't want or need any validation. I don't compare myself to other people. I only control my actions, the rest don't matter. I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks of me. I am internally validated, and my self esteem is impregnable - since it does not rely on external factors that can change. I am a man of authentic self-esteem. I am no better than anyone else. I know that others thoughts only affect themselves. I do not…
/r/seduction15/10/11 09:52 PM
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You're gonna have to get those limiting beliefs under control. Being a guy, you don't HAVE to look like a model in order to take home the best looking girls. Thinking anything even close to otherwise is bullshit. Get it out of your head, stop comparing yourself to others, and start thinking about how awesome you are and what a good time you and those girls are about to have together when you hook. When conversation starts to die in a situation like approach #1 outside in line, you have to start …
/r/seduction15/10/11 09:12 PM
1

Play on, Player.
/r/seduction13/10/11 10:34 PM
1

Yep. You waited too long. You should have started escalating well before leaving your place, probably during cooking would have been the best bet. You can and should escalate all throughout an interaction, so don't feel like you have to make one abrupt move.
/r/seduction13/10/11 10:26 PM
1

Nah, magic bullets is a MM product if i'm not mistaken
/r/seduction04/10/11 03:55 AM
1

Nah, magic bullets is a MM product if i'm not mistaken.
/r/seduction04/10/11 03:54 AM
1

Yep, lots of love for blueprint decoded and magic bullets around here
/r/seduction04/10/11 01:30 AM
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Why are you wound so tight? Take it easy and hit the spa or something.
/r/seduction02/10/11 06:33 AM
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This belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:22 PM
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This belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:21 PM
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This belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:20 PM
1

This belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:20 PM
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This belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:20 PM
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This belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:19 PM
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This belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:19 PM
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This actually belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:18 PM
1

This belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:16 PM
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This belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:15 PM
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This belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:14 PM
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This belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:13 PM
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This belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:13 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:11 PM
3

I think r/seduction probably just needs another mod whose sole purpose is to remove posts like that and redirect them to askseddit
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:07 PM
2

Guys. It's just one more resource. Not taking anything away from anything else. Relax.
/r/seduction30/09/11 12:52 AM
16

I've always been a pretty good looking dude, and have never had difficulty being creepy.
/r/seduction27/09/11 05:26 PM
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Yeah, opinion openers are kind of played out and over-used these days. On top of that, it sounds like you didnt really plan it out / didnt have anywhere to go with the interaction. Opinion openers rarely generate attraction by themselves, so you have to sub communicate all kinds of other attraction generating qualities behind it. If your game isnt tight like that, and you're not trying to learn all the subcoms, it's best to just go direct like the guy above me suggests.
/r/seduction26/09/11 04:07 AM
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Before and during, yes
/r/seduction22/09/11 10:28 PM
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It's not a failure if you learned something from it. You did good, keep it up.
/r/seduction22/09/11 07:02 PM
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The OP isn't telling you who you should be. The OP is painting an image of the ideal male archetype. Your angst is horribly misplaced. Furthermore the guy described in the OP isn't a disney prince, or a dude who gets walked all over, or a guy who supplicates. He's a combination of things that the seduction community openly condones bringing oour of yourself. Leader of men, Socially competent, Protector of loved ones, Preselected, Social proofed, all that. If you want to operate below your max po…
/r/seduction22/09/11 03:01 AM
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You're up front about what you want. "Hi. I think you're really attractive. What's your name?"
/r/seduction22/09/11 02:27 AM
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It's illustrating the ideal. This should be you, being your best self. Isn't that what the seduction community is supposed to be about?
/r/seduction22/09/11 02:15 AM
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One thing that works for me is speculating what she sounds like while getting rammed by your cock. Get used to the kino escalation ladder.
/r/seduction22/09/11 01:49 AM
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They work, and they're not that dick. You can think of times someone was a real asshole, and i'm sure they don't mirror either of those last 2 experiences.
/r/seduction19/09/11 05:10 PM
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Not exactly what i have in mind. i'm asking about working it in the field. I read "the game" too.
/r/seduction14/09/11 12:08 AM
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Nobody's got this one?
/r/seduction13/09/11 09:54 PM
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Dont give oneits the time of day. Dont reward her with your attention for her acting shitty. You did good tonight, but you should send her the same signals she's sending you and just be dismissive of her from time to time. If she doesnt want to be cool, cut her off and keep rollin. It'll probably drive her nuts to boot.
/r/seduction13/09/11 01:22 AM
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I can vouch for this guy. He's cool, definitely not a psycho
/r/seduction13/09/11 01:03 AM
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At a frat party, all you really have to do is be forward and slightly aggressive. Dont forget about the other stuff, but frat rats and sorority chicks generally have loose morals and are pretty much trying to drink, dance, and fuck. At the same time, it's on you to make it happen, so go for it and your chances on any given night will be pretty good if you have an iota of pickup skill or socal competence. Try to make out with her while you're dancing with her if it's getting hot n heavy with the …
/r/seduction13/09/11 12:45 AM
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It's that you're insecure about your acne, and it's making you act like a feeb when you do approach/interact. Work on not giving a shit
/r/seduction13/09/11 12:40 AM
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I know a lot of emo hipster chicks like scrawny wafish dudes, so you can always go after that set. Alternately, r/fitness. Or alternately from that, just own it. The belief that you're too sinny is an untrue limiting belief just like thinking you're too short, ugly, or any other number of things like that. Be fun, be open, be confident, and just go for it.
/r/seduction13/09/11 12:25 AM
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Dude, i hope by raw dawg you mean you fucked her ragged doggystyle WHILE being safe. If not, you're not allowed to dothat dumb shit agan.
/r/seduction13/09/11 12:17 AM
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Buyer's remorse. Just move it along dude. If you want to remain friends, use her as a pivot and go out and get other girls with her help, which would also dual benefit by making her jealous. But certainly don't stress it. "Women are like busses. If you miss one, there's another coming around in 15 minutes."
/r/seduction07/09/11 02:21 AM
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sounds like a self-confidence/self worth issue on her behalf. Suprisingly many people have low self esteem.
/r/seduction29/08/11 02:11 PM
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Rules of the game is weak. Do the 100 set challenge instead
/r/seduction26/08/11 03:15 PM
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take her to the gym
/r/seduction19/08/11 09:11 PM
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I've been down that path, but only for seduction purposes with LTRs. Definitely check out David Shade's Manual. It's tits.
/r/seduction19/08/11 03:15 AM
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You are a Spaz. Spazzes don't tend to get laid in my experience. Unless your goal is to crash & burn with as many chicks as you can, dead this idea and listen to the advice of those more successful than yourself.
/r/seduction19/08/11 03:09 AM
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Most rugby chicks I know are lesbians
/r/seduction16/08/11 06:23 PM
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Could be, if your frame is wrong. If you're confident and entertaining YOURSELF first, It's all good.
/r/seduction09/08/11 09:10 PM
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I hate how true this is. AA can always come back if you don't flex your ability
/r/seduction06/08/11 11:36 PM
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Good shit man, it sounds like you're opening like a beast. Once you realize it won't kill you, it's easier and easier to do again and again(as long as you keep it up!) Once you get a little more comfortable, hit up the sidebar and work in a little more technique. Your results will skyrocket.
/r/seduction06/08/11 02:33 PM
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I'm not buying a girl shit unless she's my girlfriend. Fuck. That.
/r/seduction05/08/11 02:22 PM
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Anything that can be cool can be creepy or desperate too. It depends on your confidence to make it work. Frankly, with the right frame your opener could be "i'm from mars, and i've come for your minerals."
/r/seduction05/08/11 02:18 PM
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You're going to do this anyways. It'll be fun, but it'll fuck you over in the end. Good luck!
/r/seduction04/08/11 08:55 PM
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Just go for it. There's never a good time to have that conversation, but the earlier the better.. I usually do it the day after before she or I have to leave, and the results are normally good if I'm honest. Other options are to disqualify yourself as boyfriend material before making the final push through, or during whatever LMR she's throwing up. But for the love of god, don't let that freeze your progress.. Change can be a good thing too :)
/r/seduction01/08/11 09:12 PM
2

Yeah, that guy's EASILY as douchey if not moreso!
/r/seduction25/07/11 09:15 PM
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To be honest, I didn't really give it much thought. But when I got to talking to her, she didn't even remember what the opener was. In the future if I use something like that again I'll probably just intentionally stray away from telling her what the experiment is and start some story that I get "distracted" away from. In the end, i'm glad I didn't get to finish my opener. But also, who cares how lame the opener is? The most important thing was to just get over there and interact. And to reconne…
/r/seduction25/07/11 09:00 PM
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Well even if the community itself is in good shape, I'm sure there are some craigs listers who haven't found the community who could use a guiding hand from someone well versed in exchange for some greenbacks. lol just sayin'..
/r/seduction25/07/11 08:23 PM
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I am either going to be a wealthy asshole, or you in 10 years. Either way, I think I'm cool with it. edit: why don't you offer your services locally as a personal dating coach for a few pesos?
/r/seduction25/07/11 03:05 PM
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dream world. If you guys had hot amazing irresistable sex, then maybe this would work, but obviously that's not the case. That will in no way goad her into jumping your bones to do it right. Let it go, and approach/try to bang some other chicks. Also, shit like this belongs in r/askseddit
/r/seduction25/07/11 07:23 AM
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This belongs in r/askseddit. repost over there.
/r/seduction25/07/11 07:20 AM
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You're not qualifying them, I'd wager. Girls know that high status males aren't (or shouldn't be) easy, and you should be showing that you like them for a specific set of reasons in your interaction. Also, are you a wealthy model or something? Give some more information plz
/r/seduction25/07/11 06:17 AM
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Asking a girl for her # in front of her other friends who already rejected giving you their number earlier is terrible form. You weren't getting that # unless you isolated and got her really interested in you. Next time, put in some more work - isolation, kino, comfort, all that. You should have gamed 7 from scratch. Asking her for her digits straight up like that in front of everyone at best made you look socially unsavy, and at worse made you look like a desperate clown.
/r/seduction25/07/11 03:41 AM
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Tough to say.. my AA used to be way way worse, like crippling immobilizing terror. I used to just want to WANT to approach, and i'm still getting used to actually wanting to approach if that makes any sense. My inner game was pretty mangled, but I made a lot of progress straightening it out in the last couple of months. Even now, I have a super tough time "thinking" pickup when i'm approaching. I just read material, absorb what sounds right, and hope it comes out at the right time when my lips m…
/r/seduction25/07/11 02:44 AM
2

Thanks for adding no value. Dude, get out of here.
/r/seduction25/07/11 01:15 AM
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Work on day game for sure. It's pretty satisfying.
/r/seduction25/07/11 12:14 AM
2

Maybe Captain Jack's rings on fingers routine?
/r/seduction24/07/11 11:42 PM
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You drove 200 miles, and didn't think to pick up condoms? If you're going to be kicking game, keep some jimmy hats in your room, in the trunk of your car, wherever. Never be unprepared!
/r/seduction16/07/11 07:59 PM
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Yeah. Then get money. Awwwwwww!
/r/seduction16/07/11 02:08 AM
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hahahahaha.. Hate is definitely the wrong word because I loved that.
/r/seduction08/07/11 02:08 PM
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Don't worry about getting her back. Increase your skills, Fuck 10 other girls, and sooner than later you'll be in the same position as OP here.
/r/seduction04/07/11 11:57 PM
1

The cube and 5 questions are both pretty over used, and the whole FR sounds pretty old school. Seduction's evolved a lot since "The Game" came out. what sources are you drawing from aside from Neil Strauss?
/r/seduction29/06/11 02:58 PM
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Take it a step further. Not only is the fun not reliant on your group, it's totally reliant on you. If you're the one having a great time, it'll radiate outward and rub off on those around you. Happy you see the inner game problem you need to sort out. I definitely think you could do with less "what will they think of me" and more "I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks of me, cause i'm here to have a great time".
/r/seduction25/06/11 05:33 PM
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Loving this. Please post an update when you have one to post.
/r/seduction25/06/11 12:28 AM
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Not necessarily, but the way PasDeDeux puts it, it sounds like the guy is trying to beta everyone around him, including friends. You can AMOG a guy by making friends with him too if he's trying to scoop your girl, or trying to prevent you from doing it to him.
/r/seduction24/06/11 07:36 PM
1

You can get cheap wine in the states, just don't expect it to be great. I usually spend 6-8 bucks on a bottle, but then again i'm a cheapskate.
/r/seduction24/06/11 07:14 PM
1

This. Also, your friend probably doesn't understand that when he makes his friends look bad in public, he's making himself look bad as well. You guys should be constantly making each other look awesome to those around you. If I read that correctly, and he is in fact AMOGing you guys.
/r/seduction24/06/11 06:33 PM
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Don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction24/06/11 06:18 PM
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Do some more work on your inner game. Who gives a fuck if you get rejected? A.) They're rejecting your approach - not you as a person. They don't even know you, how can they reject who you are as a human being? It's your approach that got rejected, and you should remember that. B.) As an internally validate male, it does not matter if you get rejected. You have everything you need to be whole, and your self esteem is based on that - not external factors that can change. Your value to others is a…
/r/seduction24/06/11 01:32 PM
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Anyone who thinks being short is going to hold you back.
/r/seduction24/06/11 01:25 PM
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Height is an advantage, but lack thereof is not a disadvantage.
/r/seduction24/06/11 04:26 AM
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I'm 5'4, and you're an idiot.
/r/seduction24/06/11 04:22 AM
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You'll get away with it as long as you're sporting a wicked and/or mischevious smile.
/r/seduction23/06/11 09:25 PM
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Agreed. She doesnt need to know about it, just dont talk about it.
/r/seduction13/06/11 05:15 PM
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Why would he want to take it slow if he doesn't want her to be a girlfriend? He needs to get her over to his place, take her clothes off, and let his penis do the talking. It's what that bitch wants!
/r/seduction13/06/11 05:13 PM
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She's crazy. Any girl who stays in a relationship that involves getting beat on has issues BIGTIME. I know it's tough not to see yourself as her sexy savior, but trust me - you don't really want any part of that. Read the sidebar, approach some new chicks(even though it's less comfortable than trying to game the one you already know) and drop her into the friend zone. Your sanity will thank you later.
/r/seduction08/06/11 04:28 AM
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Alternately, read the not giving a fuck post
/r/seduction06/06/11 01:34 AM
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I don't think your inner game is as tops as you think it is. If it was, why would you be getting upset from the way other people react to you? The idea is to be non-reactive and non approval seeking. And it sounds like you're seeking quite a bit of approval.. and that kind of action will hurt both your game social life a LOT. I have friends among my group who NEVER get laid, ad they still have everyone's respect because they're cool simply being them. My advice is to relax, stop caring so much a…
/r/seduction06/06/11 12:24 AM
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Granted, but the choice isn't between simply reject yourself or kiss her. Furthermore, the girl was with people and no girl is just going to make out with some dude after a half decent opener in front of their friends. I still say that in this case it's bad advice. I think the OP is looking for more technique, which can be found in the sidebar - particularly the conversation, kino, calibration, and shit test links.
/r/seduction05/06/11 02:48 PM
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Still kind of a noob here, but I dont think that's very solid advice. If you makeout with a girl and dont go for trying to have sex with her that night, doesnt it hurt your chances in the long run?
/r/seduction05/06/11 01:42 PM
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That's very cool. I like that one, thanks! I'm kind of interested in the general flow of things though.. like the mechanics of what you're thinking when you're sending texts and how you go about it. When I'm interested in a girl and I feel a mutual attraction, I tend to pursue pursue pursue and it kind of just falls apart. I just don't really have a solid grasp on the mechanics of this piece of game.
/r/seduction02/06/11 06:35 AM
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What's your general texting strategy?
/r/seduction01/06/11 09:12 PM
0

Yeah, I don't think a lot of these are meant to be used out of nowhere. More context specific i believe.
/r/seduction01/06/11 09:10 PM
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pretty sure brat is interchangeable with whatever other nickname you come up with and/or building off of teasing that you did in person from before. All of these definitely have to be used in a context that fits. edit: you're so cute when you're confused.
/r/seduction01/06/11 08:38 PM
5

Listen to this guy. Anyone who tells you not to approach is leading you astray
/r/seduction01/06/11 01:45 PM
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I'm having kind of the same problem as this guy. My texting is HORRIBLE and I never get good results. It makes it way tough to set up day 2s, and even ever see these girls again. Does anyone have a general skeletal outline or flow chart of how this is supposed to go?
/r/seduction01/06/11 01:41 PM
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Why do you want to save this relationship so bad? It's broken.. it's obvious she's your best friend, but you can't subject yourself to this kind of shit or you risk ruining your own life. You can still be there for someone without being a "boyfriend"
/r/seduction24/05/11 02:49 PM
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I hope I don't sound like an asshole, but your relationship sucks. Cut your losses, keep her as a best friend, hit the gym, and find a girl who wants to have her brains fucked out.
/r/seduction24/05/11 02:43 PM
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