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Honestly, I think it's basically confidence that isn't or can't be altered by people outside of the person with that 'true' confidence. A lot of people, including myself more than I'd like, are put into states of insecurity due to the effects of other people. I guess Manson is saying that true confidence is a quality that a person has when that person is confident around anybody and any situation, no matter what. True confidence is consistent. I find meditation and focused breathing throughout m…
/r/seduction01/08/15 03:39 PM
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I agree with the whole 'doing things that make you happy' answer. I've noticed that when I'm working on some project for days or weeks at a time, feeling both stressed and bored, I begin to become very needy towards both friends and girls. But, when I'm enjoying myself (e.g., small weekend trips and participating in my favorite hobbies), then I'm much more attractive as a person because I'm ACTUALLY happy. I guess my point is, if a guy is genuinely happy, then girls will not be able to effective…
/r/seduction19/07/15 04:06 AM
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I'm doing my next writeup on this idea. That is, we all use systems. The world is filled with chaos and systems help us better understand the world by organizing the chaos into coherent fashions. That's why there's religion, government, self help guys like Mark Manson, and so on. My point is, I don't there is necessarily one system that is better than another one. But, some systems are more suitable for some than others due to beliefs, values, etc.
/r/seduction10/04/15 08:48 PM
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The hobbies becoming a time consuming part of my life I could definitely relate to. One thing I believe I'm doing is getting too involved hobbies, which is keeping me away from women. Obviously, I'm not avoiding women entirely, but you get my point. I believe it's a matter of time and learning how to balance these 'issues'. Anyways, good luck to you too
/r/seduction08/04/15 05:44 PM
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This. Yes.
/r/seduction08/04/15 05:39 PM
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Haha, carbon copies, that made me laugh. Yeah, I don't know if it's an ego thing or what to be in large groups. It seems like it turns into this big pseudo, machismo complex...
/r/seduction08/04/15 05:34 PM
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https://blownstang.wordpress.com/ I was saying earlier, the content is not the greatest right now (it's OK), but I post every week (only 2 fairly long posts right now). It'll get better every week.
/r/seduction08/04/15 05:34 PM
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Yeah man, I moved to LA last year from my parents house who live in a suburban area, and my motivation is so much higher than it was while living with my parents. I think it has to do with the LA hustle and bustle being pretty fun and stimulating. For the autocross thing, I think pretty much most states have it, and it's in most big cities. It's cheap, around $30-50 for each event (some cheaper). You just sign up online at http://www.where2race.com/ It doesn't matter if you drive a old Toyota Ca…
/r/seduction08/04/15 05:27 PM
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https://blownstang.wordpress.com/ The material right now isn't incredible, but I do plan on updating the blog long term. My posting is once a week. So, bookmark it and expect the material to get better every week.
/r/seduction08/04/15 05:23 PM
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Plato understood sex and reproduction to be the least gratifying/pleasurable act of beauty a human can experience. For Plato, it's what we create, especially in regards to our legacy, that is most important and beautiful. In other words, he's saying, if one is competent enough, don't waste beauty by chasing tail. Unless it's an important woman to you, why waste the energy?
/r/seduction08/01/15 08:36 AM
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SORRY! I meant to post this in a completely different forum!!! HAH
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:43 AM
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SORRY! I meant to post this in a completely different forum!!! HAH
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:43 AM
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kk
/r/seduction25/09/14 06:51 AM
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Ok good point
/r/seduction25/09/14 06:51 AM
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I did. She said she wanted to go to a club and that I should take her. She was with a friend and I said I'll take you but both of you have to go. I didn't want to comply with her... maybe I should taken a different method, because she seemed very turned off on going when I said that. I seem to notice that she's been trying to push pull me and using compliance on me. I haven't played along too much though. What direction should I take in this type of situation?
/r/seduction30/08/14 07:00 PM
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Ya I've already applied kino. I just gotta show some vulnerability by kiss closing.. had to write that to to realize that
/r/seduction19/08/14 04:10 AM
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Talk to people and be OPEN. Being open is something most aren't used to when stepping foot into college.
/r/seduction09/08/14 12:08 AM
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Agreed. It was just the idea, for example, say you "relapsed" in NoFap, it should be acknowledged that you can still perform, though it may require a tad bit more effort. Kinda like an NFL football player staying in the game with a sprained ankle. It may hurt more and be more difficult to play his position at his highest potential, but he can still get the job done by pushing a little harder than his usual.
/r/seduction08/08/14 01:44 AM
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I think my anxiety comes down to caring if this girl becomes attracted to me or not... I get caught up on the prize or outcome of hooking up with the girl, her becoming attracted to me, etc. It shouldn't be this way but it is, so it's something I need to change
/r/seduction06/08/14 05:35 AM
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Dude that's the worst feeling. In my experience I've found things get awkward when I invest all my attention on the outcome with the girl I'm with and also when I "put the pussy on a pedestal" So just don't do that... easier said then done right? Haha
/r/seduction05/08/14 06:16 AM
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That mirroring concept makes sense. Ill try changing my mental thoughts in a similar way you described. I guess it's just practice and seeing what works. Thanks man
/r/seduction05/08/14 06:12 AM
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I live and work in LA/Hollywood so I'm constantly around people. Could you give me a couple specific ideas?
/r/seduction05/08/14 05:22 AM
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Whip your dick out whenever you're feeling it
/r/seduction31/07/14 12:06 AM
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Haha the beard part is funny
/r/seduction30/07/14 11:41 PM
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Sounds like you're trying to hard I.e. being someone you're not. Or, you're continuing to talk to women who are responding negatively
/r/seduction30/07/14 07:36 AM
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Ya, I've been there done that... it definitely gets to you if you don't make practical sense of it
/r/seduction30/07/14 04:54 AM
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Yeah dude, this stuff is good but shit... reading about something doesn't change you. Something I've realized recently is that most people have these specific questuons like "what should I say when this happens" Or " what should I do when she does this" or "what does this mean when she does this?" Even good advice doesn't help in the long run because in the end the person asking for something so specific like that isn't going to know what to do in the thousands of other women related situations …
/r/seduction30/07/14 03:39 AM
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Maybe she just wanted to have sex with a cool dude? Definitely not something to take personally
/r/seduction30/07/14 03:33 AM
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Maybe you're dating the wrong girls.
/r/seduction30/07/14 03:31 AM
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Feel it out... if you notice your girl and your roommates aren't comfortable with eachother after some talking then do what you can to avoid them having to talk. If your roommates are cool it will be fine And your girl will do the work. If she likes them then kudos, and if not then whatever, they won't talk
/r/seduction30/07/14 03:27 AM
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I talk to random people about random shit... I enjoy people
/r/seduction30/07/14 02:55 AM
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I feel you, thanks man
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:41 AM
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Well, I eat a ton, but all the food that goes into me is clean (Nice restaurants with salads are typical for me. I do notice that higher end restaurants usually don't put weight on me- it must be the quality of food. No fried foods, No fast food- probably not enough green veggies though.) I have noticed that veggie shakes from those juicing stores make me feel great for a good portion of the day- still, good nutrition though hasn't really given me any noticeable improvement in regards to my ADHD…
/r/seduction27/07/14 04:29 AM
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Isn't that true? I think because with ADD meds, they allow you to become more genuine, as you become more interested in what people have to say and so forth... people can definitely sense this instead of you faking it all the time.
/r/seduction26/07/14 12:29 AM
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It definitely is confidence... I'm less needy with adderall, and women sense this. What I've realized is that adderall helps you think straight, which in turn helps you communicate on a more conscious level, and from less of a responsive/anxious level. It also gives you a slight high which gives a person more reason to give less of a fuck since they already feel good. However, I do believe it's possible to have both of these things without medication... just really wanted to see what everyone's …
/r/seduction25/07/14 09:40 PM
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Adderall makes me so damn horny... yes, even after long-term use
/r/seduction25/07/14 09:36 PM
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The way you explained it is exactly how I see/feel with Adderall... it's like I'm finally tuned in to people and ideas. Consequently, I understand things on the spot- not 2 hours or 2 days later. People, situations, tasks, and events turn into things that I can handle to the best of my abilities. I'm in control and not the other way around is the best way to describe it. My health concern is that I have a chronic viral infection (Not HIV or any kind of STD), and adderall pushes on my immune syst…
/r/seduction25/07/14 09:35 PM
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Here's the thing. When I take adderall I actually care and know what to say to both women and men. Off of it I see myself as a zombie who is too stuck in his own thoughts to give anyone decent and interesting conversational play. I guess sometimes I see adderall as something that aids me in expressing myself from an honest standpoint. Ever experience this?
/r/seduction24/07/14 08:40 PM
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Right right
/r/seduction24/07/14 08:36 PM
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All these things I do but definitely not on a perfect and consistent basis. Thx
/r/seduction24/07/14 08:36 PM
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I will keep this in mind...
/r/seduction23/07/14 03:30 AM
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Thx just bought the audiobook
/r/seduction22/07/14 11:22 PM
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Just what I needed. Thanks man...
/r/seduction22/07/14 08:13 AM
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I know at my job all the office employees are required to place their phone at the front desk every morning for the entire day so there is no urge to text...
/r/seduction20/07/14 08:02 AM
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Thank you for reading!
/r/seduction20/07/14 07:34 AM
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because blownstang... that's why
/r/seduction20/07/14 12:35 AM
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Have you ever known something, but never really followed that piece of knowledge because you didn't really have any evidence or personal experience to back it up/ be self-confident about it? Like I always thought I knew I could excel academically, yet throughout high school I had poor grades. However, I still thought I knew I could excel academically. My problem was that I wasn't confident enough to really put myself out there in class. Frankly, I didn't get accepted into any universities. Fast …
/r/seduction20/07/14 12:32 AM
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Yeah, I still have some maturing and an infinite amount of self improvement to do. It's always interesting to become aware of things that push and pull on our behavior, beliefs, and values. I think many of the time I am too oblivious to see and understand what is important to me and why it is.
/r/seduction19/07/14 11:55 PM
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I ASKED YOU FIRST BRO
/r/seduction18/07/14 08:15 AM
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Why is your name "seduce my anus?"
/r/seduction16/07/14 03:49 AM
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Pondering whether or not you are an alcoholic... Hahahhaha
/r/seduction11/07/14 05:10 PM
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To be fair I've always been a high paced individual. Constantly on stimulants for work, at the gym every night, and always going out on the weekends has always been the norm so there is where and how I met people. Not being able to do these things anymore is totally unknown to me.
/r/seduction08/07/14 10:10 PM
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Thx!
/r/seduction08/07/14 04:39 PM
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This is golden, thanks
/r/seduction08/07/14 04:39 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction08/07/14 04:39 PM
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