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I'm mostly worried about finding the right time to start things up. I could see myself waiting for just the right time to make a move and taking too long, or blowing it, etc. I want to be able to take charge and make the moment happen when I want it to, but I know there's a fine line between going for what you want and going too far.
/r/seduction10/04/17 08:37 PM
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Go back to the red pill.
/r/seduction18/08/16 07:11 PM
4

What if you think they're looking at you but they're really not?
/r/seduction29/02/16 04:10 AM
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A bad listener uses their ears, but a good listener uses their brain.
/r/seduction26/02/16 05:56 PM
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Attractive girls are still regular people.
/r/seduction21/01/16 08:47 PM
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Not as bad as kids though.
/r/seduction22/12/15 05:59 PM
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I feel like that's one interpretation sure. Of course there's always different ways to think about things. Maybe that one works for you and that's great. I'm not trying to fuck my way across Oklahoma, I'm trying to find a girl that I gel with and enjoy spending time around. It's this one's turn for me to focus in on her a little bit, if it works, great, if not, no big deal. I also have another tinder date set for this Sunday and another girl I'm supposed to see once I go home for Christmas break…
/r/seduction19/12/15 02:34 PM
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Ugh. I guess I'll chalk this one up to a loss I guess. We're throwing a house party at the beginning of the semester in January and were Facebook friends, I'll invite her to that.
/r/seduction18/12/15 08:30 PM
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Go back to /r/TheRedPill
/r/seduction26/10/15 11:51 PM
2

Have you ever thought about that fact that you can be confident and dominant and still considerate?
/r/seduction26/10/15 11:30 PM
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Well, yes, but you're wrong in one way. I am in her life as well. I want to do something that we both might like. It's not that I'm changing myself, or worrying about impressing her, I'm just looking for ideas.
/r/seduction26/10/15 11:10 PM
2

I just want someone who is semi-classy and educated. Unsurprisingly hard to find in central Oklahoma.
/r/seduction26/09/15 05:22 PM
3

Fuck dude, that's heavy.
/r/seduction26/09/15 02:40 PM
8

As someone who's been all over the country and lived in two very different areas, yeah man. Everyone smokes or at least has tried it. Get off the high horse.
/r/seduction13/09/15 11:39 PM
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The only girls on Tinder anymore are robots, and Bumble mostly has a lot of fake girls on it to get guys interested in the app. I've been using both of them for a long time and I've matched with only one girl on Bumble and 9/10 matches on Tinder are robots sending links to scam sites.
/r/seduction13/09/15 11:36 PM
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It's almost like there are multiple ways to handle different situations and depending on the person/solution/situation the outcomes may be different.
/r/seduction22/08/15 08:01 PM
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lol That was not white knight worthy.
/r/seduction20/08/15 08:13 PM
1

I dunno, it seems a little atypical to me.
/r/seduction13/08/15 06:34 PM
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That seems a little over-familiar doesn't it? I feel like I would talk like that to my friends or someone I already had a pretty good rapport with.Wouldn't it be more... how do I put it... reassuring to her to admit that this is somewhat unordinary?
/r/seduction13/08/15 06:17 PM
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This is kind of what I was thinking. Something along the lines of the "getting to know you better" route. I'm not going for sex right away, I don't mind (and actually prefer) waiting to get to know the girl a little better.
/r/seduction13/08/15 05:20 PM
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Well, I'm aware of all of that, I just wasn't sure if I had talked to her enough. We've exchanged a handful of sentences and thats about it. I was just wondering if it was too soon or if I should try to chat her up more. With the hectic nature of the gig though, holding a full conversation is hard. People are constantly running around, changing costumes, taping up feet and hands, doing make-up etc., which is why I'm considering just going for it now.
/r/seduction13/08/15 05:18 PM
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You sound like a lot of fun.
/r/seduction11/08/15 10:40 PM
1

So have you ever turned anyone? How did you do it? I feel like you could have some killer stories.
/r/seduction11/08/15 10:32 PM
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Do a lot of guys not like bi-women? Cause that's news to me, I've always thought that would be a lot of fun.
/r/seduction11/08/15 10:24 PM
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I have my first tinder date coming up soon and I have no idea what to talk about. I have interests and I've done some cool things lately, but I have no idea how to get the conversation going.
/r/seduction17/07/15 07:00 AM
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I would post this to a more relevant subreddit.
/r/seduction17/07/15 06:44 AM
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Next time look the dad square in the eye and say "I'm a fan of your work. Keep it up."
/r/seduction12/07/15 08:10 AM
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Jesus dude, that's a huge assumption. PMA is the acronym of my fraternity. And quite frankly you're just some nobody stranger on the Internet I'll never meet. I don't care about your opinion.
/r/seduction10/07/15 04:27 PM
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He calls them tugboats? What a cock. Just because a woman isn't insanely hot doesn't mean she's valueless. You can mock me and call me a white knight if you want, but there's no need to talk poorly about someone solely because of their looks. The best relationship I ever had was with the least attractive girl I've ever dated. Now, am I going to pursue a woman I don't find attractive? Obviously not, but calling them names is childish and stupid and exact why I hate TRP bastards.
/r/seduction10/07/15 02:07 PM
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I'm just saying, the guy sounds like a douche. And a lot of people seem to agree with me. What does having PMA in my name have anything to do with this?
/r/seduction10/07/15 01:57 PM
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He edited his comment after mine. I was mistaken however. My bad. Point stands.
/r/seduction10/07/15 04:03 AM
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That doesn't even make sense.
/r/seduction10/07/15 02:12 AM
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I'm not jealous of a guy who fucked a girl so easily manipulated. She seems weak and he seems like your typical over-alpha douche. Maybe they're both great people, but this depiction makes them sound like people I don't care to know.
/r/seduction10/07/15 01:10 AM
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All aboard the self-hate train!
/r/seduction09/07/15 10:49 PM
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Yeah, honestly this guy sounds like a tool.
/r/seduction09/07/15 09:31 PM
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I'm looking forward to some answers to this too. All of my friends are either married or engaged or engaged to be engaged (and at 24 too, ugh) and have no interest coming out with me to the bars/what have you.
/r/seduction04/07/15 05:33 PM
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Agreed. Has she given you a reason not to trust her? If no, you really dont have any leverage with her and getting jealous is going to seem needy.
/r/seduction30/06/15 03:20 PM
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Do NOT listen to a word these people say unless you want to become a manipulative womanizing asswipe.
/r/seduction31/05/15 09:05 PM
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What about getting back to HER place? I've got a date with a girl in a week and I'll be in her town, a solid 2 hours away from my place to live. I can make the drive if I have to, but damn.
/r/seduction30/04/15 06:51 AM
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I just try to make the girls laugh. Usually this takes the form of negging but it's just kind of my natural humor. It's a risky kind though because I've gone too far before. Find your humor and make the girls laugh. Women love a man who can make them laugh more than they love 6-packs and broad shoulders. If you hit the gym and get both you'll be irresistible to a lot of women. Not all, but a lot.
/r/seduction22/04/15 10:34 PM
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Agreed. Friends are great to practice flirting on too!
/r/seduction22/04/15 03:51 AM
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This. A LOT of my successes have been with friends who took notice of something new in my life. College makes that easier but I've come back from the friend zone multiple times. Totally do-able.
/r/seduction21/04/15 10:36 PM
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Hahaha! I think this would work with the right guy and tone/facial expression.
/r/seduction26/02/15 10:21 PM
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I'm not the most experienced at this but I'd probably just jokingly agree with her and spin the conversation in a way that would get her tho king about sex with you. "Duh, why else would I be talking to you?" With a huge grin and a sarcastic tone would probably work. She might jokingly slap you and call you a pig but you took her shit test and made it into a joke. Should earn brownie points. Personally if she got pissed at that and left that's not a girl I can have fun with and I'll move on to t…
/r/seduction26/02/15 10:18 PM
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Don't ask for permission, beg for forgiveness. *Just don't be rapey. Don't ask. Just flirt and go with it.
/r/seduction12/02/15 07:03 AM
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Agreed. The idea is that at least in a toy shop it's a LOT easier to kino and make a personal connection etc. I would recommend finding better dates once you're more experienced but there's little wrong with a good old fashioned movie date if you're a new guy.
/r/seduction07/02/15 05:02 AM
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Probably a considerably low amount. Gut feeling says 10% of people are actually able to make a lasting change in themselves.
/r/seduction06/02/15 07:36 PM
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The goal is to get women. Not to go after "the one that got away". The focus should always be one new girls and if an old one comes around then that's great. Otherwise you have a one way trip to one-itis. Edit: Besides that, I've always seen this more as a self-improvement subreddit focused on getting women.
/r/seduction05/02/15 10:48 PM
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Sure, but that'd be a pretty drastic change.
/r/seduction05/02/15 07:28 PM
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Occasionally, sure. It's even happened to me but it doesn't happen very often in my (and other's) experience. If you're hoping a girl will change her mind you will probably be waiting a long time. Might as well move on imo.
/r/seduction05/02/15 06:51 PM
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You should read Models. Seriously, this is his biggest point in the book it seems and his stuff will help you develop this.
/r/seduction05/02/15 06:27 PM
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But at least 50% of the time you did have a chance. You just didn't make a good enough sexual impression in the amount of time you had. In Manson's words you didn't "polarize" her well.
/r/seduction05/02/15 06:25 PM
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Why? It's a pretty hip place with music and dancing and killer cocktails.
/r/seduction04/02/15 10:20 PM
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I disagree with this. I know this is an unpopular opinion, but a hint for the new guys like me who still get nervous on a first date... Movies really aren't THAT bad. Sure you don't get to talk to your date very much but you can learn a lot about her at a movie. Make sure you catch the previews and you can get a nice idea of what movies she likes (hopefully you have a little bit of an idea already since you're taking her. It needs to be something she won't hate.) but you can do a little bit of t…
/r/seduction04/02/15 08:27 PM
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There's a really nice one in OKC that really used to be a speakeasy. Best Manhatten I've had in my entire life. Now it's a bar called... Speakeasy.
/r/seduction04/02/15 08:17 PM
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Just be yourself dude. Text back when you want to. Not when you think it will send the best message. This kind of behavior is very needy.
/r/seduction02/02/15 11:48 PM
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Fuck that. Not only are you being a little bitch by not finishing the date, but you're also too big of a bitch to tell her the truth.
/r/seduction02/02/15 03:19 PM
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I'm reading Manson's Models right now and its been eye opening.
/r/seduction31/01/15 06:16 PM
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There's nothing wrong with telling the girl if you feel that it's important. I'm in the middle of reading Models and one of the things that stuck out to me what that it's OK (and best) to be honest and vulnerable. It weeds out the women that aren't right for you and brother, this one clearly wasn't right. Stand up, brush yourself off, and find a right one.
/r/seduction31/01/15 03:41 PM
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Care to explain it for me?
/r/seduction14/01/15 05:17 PM
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Some of these questions are oddly specific and could seem random if brought up in a conversation. How do you move a conversation to these questions so that it's not awkward? #6 is a good example of something that would be crazy hard to ask in a way that doesn't seem random or nonsensical.
/r/seduction13/01/15 10:48 PM
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I liked my tinder bio before. I like this one way better.
/r/seduction16/12/14 09:19 AM
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Quit being such a pussy. You're a man. A hunter. Now go hunt. Read some sidebar stuff and quit with the entitled self-pity garbage.
/r/seduction01/12/14 07:42 AM
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I might have to steal this one from you.
/r/seduction27/11/14 05:45 PM
1

There's sexual tension and you're already in bed together and YOU HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING?! Try fucking kissing her.
/r/seduction27/11/14 02:29 AM
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If you're touching her even at least a little bit and you haven't made a fool of yourself during the date getting the kiss shouldn't be hard. Give her a hug goodbye. Make it playful. Pick her up when she hugs you. Put her down and slide your hands down to her waist and look her in the eye. If she looks back then fucking kiss her.
/r/seduction26/11/14 03:56 PM
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You make some very good points in your article. Particularly this... Learn how to be chosen, and you may end up being way more successful than in the boring constructs of the past where women were chosen for you, if you were in a position to be chosen for in the first place. I feel like that's what many Red Pill guys are missing. If you can't change the game, play it.
/r/seduction02/06/14 05:05 PM
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That's very much how I felt as well. I've never been too into this subreddit. (Seduction) but I have gotten some pretty good advice and read most of the sidebar stuff, so when I was reading Theredpill stuff I felt like they were just angry, spiteful, possibly failed PUAs. A lot of "Mommy issues" in there as well. Edit: Spelling
/r/seduction02/06/14 04:18 PM
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There's no way it was that easy.
/r/seduction19/02/14 01:57 PM
1

I actuly really like that idea.
/r/seduction27/12/13 02:52 AM
1

Sounds like a success! Congratulations sir. You'll have to give us a follow up on the date.
/r/seduction03/10/13 11:07 PM
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