Met a drop dead gorgeous girl on a (college) school trip a few weeks back, and we seemed to hit it off what little we got to talk. I was going to ask her on a date, but long story short, I didn't get a chance to before the trip was over.

Later, we matched on tinder. I'm 24 and she's 20. We started talking and I forgot she was under 21 so I asked her for drinks. She told me she was too young, blah blah blah, so I told her "I'll tell you what, you pick what we do and I'll go along with it, I've forgotten how the under 21 dating scene works." She said OK, and then I gave her my number. This was a little over 24 hours ago and I haven't gotten a message back.

A couple things are running through my head. (I feel like I've accepted the abundance mentality, but with some girls I just really want it to work out.) Like, "It's the end of the semester, maybe she went home" or "Ah, girls never take control with these kinds of things, I should go back on it and suggest a date" etc.

Did I screw this up, or am I in my head too much?