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| 1 | Is building sexual tension through text a better idea, or save it for in person?That's good, and you're definitely right. Thanks for the tip, keeping it in mind. | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 12:33 AM |
| 1 | I rarely ever show interest in a girl until I know she is interested in me. This narrows down my options; any advice on showing interest/ initiating relationships?Very inspiring. | /r/seduction | 21/02/16 08:27 AM |
| 28 | Why do I always miss the opportunity to hookup?You miss it because you think you're not worth being kissed. You have almost zero self confidence. Stop focusing on the outcome and start focusing on yourself and being in the moment. | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 03:51 PM |
| 4 | "There is little that would stop me from getting a coffee with a girl like you"Perfect. Thanks, this works. | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 03:49 PM |
| 2 | I'm going through some pseudo-oneitis shit right now..It didn't end poorly or anything, but she just told me she wasn't looking for anything over text (I never said I had feelings.) and I told her that it's totally cool, and that I'll see her around. I'm trying to have more sex. I don't have nearly as much as I'd like to because of how I still live at home, moving out as soon as I have the money and then I'm going on a rampage. | /r/seduction | 17/02/16 10:34 PM |
| 1 | I finally did it. My very first cold approach ever, at the age of 34.That's true, at least with Tinder I'm improving my dating experience, just not my approach experience so I do get one side of it all. I do get a great amount of satisfaction when I have that 1 on 1 connection on an approach though, I just need to figure out why I'm such a bitch when it comes to approaching, because honestly I've been rejected a good amount of times but I never really cared so I'm not sure what's stopping me. | /r/seduction | 17/02/16 12:21 AM |
| 1 | I finally did it. My very first cold approach ever, at the age of 34.Love it, OP. I'm really jealous of you right now. I've done a decent amount of cold approaches, but it has never gotten easier. I still rarely even cold approach a girl, and I've had so much success with tinder that it seems futile at this point but I know cold approaching is 100% the best way to go about things. Hoping to be able to eventually have cold approaching be second nature. You're on a good track. :) | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 10:57 PM |
| 1 | I'm going through some pseudo-oneitis shit right now..That's the thing, I am happy being single. I like fucking girls, going on dates, making friends. I have lots of hobbies, I'm a guitar player, avid gym goer, self-proclaimed professional gamer, etc. and on the side, I date about 3-4 different girls per week. I'm content, but this girl is just still in the back of my mind and she pops up from time to time. I'm living a pretty eventful life with lots of good things happening (minus college, fuck college) so I'm on a good track right now, not sure w… | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 10:51 PM |
| 3 | I'm going through some pseudo-oneitis shit right now..We didn't even know each other that long, but maybe you're right. It sucks the way it works, how somebody can be so good for me but I'm not good for them but you're right, that's life. I feel really grateful because I don't feel like shit or anything, I am still myself but she still lingers in my mind. Thanks for the post, it helps. :) | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 07:32 PM |
| 1 | What would you guys do in this situation?Time machines don't exist in this day and age so I can't actually do that sadly. | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 12:16 AM |
| 1 | What would you guys do in this situation?OK, so what do you suggest I do in this specific situation? | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 09:22 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Met her in the library. K-close an hour later.People here are so bent on theory that they forget that you're talking to an actual human being, and you should be yourself in all of your not give a fuck glory. Assess a situation and act based on how the girl is feeling. He did fine. | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Overwhelmed with dates, yet I can't get the first girl off my mind?Sex was alright sometimes, hit or miss really. Our last time sucked. When I had sex with her it was my first time so of course it wasn't the best, but I have a lot more experience now but it's too late. So, for sexual compatibility, maybe a little bit but honestly, despite her being very attractive, my best sex was with a girl who wasn't even that attractive at all, so I'm not craving sex with this girl at all, as far as I know. Also, I'm already sure of how things are. I know she has no interes… | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Overwhelmed with dates, yet I can't get the first girl off my mind?I really appreciate that response, whether you're right or wrong it does help me be at peace with it. I see what you're saying about fighting for her, but I feel like that'll just be a disaster for me. She has no interest anymore otherwise she'd make an effort to at least be friends instead of hitting me with the "visit me at work" card. She didn't even attempt to reschedule or find time. It just doesn't seem to work. Maybe I'll visit her at work one day when I'm already nearby and just tell her… | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Overwhelmed with dates, yet I can't get the first girl off my mind?Sure. So, met her at my work. Instantly hit it off, she looked me up and down so I took that as a hint of attraction. She works in the place next to me, so I ran over and asked for her number the next day. Got it, she invited me to her place that night. Went there, watched 15 minutes of netflix and then started to have sex. Went home the next morning, didn't text her that day. Next day I text her that it was a good time, set up another date. She's totally down for it, we get sushi. On this date … | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Saying it's Your BirthdaySlide it in. Don't make it a primary focus in conversation, don't open with it, just approach normally and somewhere down the line say something like "Yeah I'm just here with my buddies for my birthday, great place blah blah". | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Want some motivation? Look no further.I giggled. | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 05:59 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Did some daygame approaching. Kept my ego in check.I live in a city with so many colleges and one of the top universities in North America. Most people are my age (20) and I take care of myself with a little genetic help from my parents. | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 04:48 PM |
| 14 | Ignoring HER messages, telling a girl you deleted her number.This guy. | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Is she making excuses? How can I tell if she's interested?I get what you mean, it makes sense. I'm still going to ask her out, just because she makes it seem like she's interested. I know she might not be, and she might just be VERY decorative with her texts but asking her out doesn't really take any effort on my part. | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Is she making excuses? How can I tell if she's interested?Yes it does, for me as well. Do you mean direct as in, asking her straight up "Are you interested in seeing me?" I'm not looking for anything serious by the way, but this girl is really chill and attractive, so a friends with benefits would be cool, or even a lay. Do you think it'd be a good idea to just ask her out, something like "let's hangout soon, take a tiny break from studying." | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How would one handle this situation?So something like "hey you, hope your grandma's surgery went well, just texting to see how you're doing :)"? | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 01:07 AM |
| 1 | How would one handle this situation?Alright, I'll hit her up tomorrow and send my regards. Should I leave it plain and simple like "Sending my regards, hoping the surgery went well!" or go a bit more in depth, something reply worthy? | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 06:19 AM |
| 1 | How would one handle this situation?It was last Saturday, yes. It's Thursday now. I do dig this girl, she has a very unique personality, haven't met a girl like her so I want to keep her around. I don't have any oneitis feelings for her, this is just me wanting to know her better as a person and possibly take things further. | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 05:38 AM |
| 1 | How would one handle this situation?Oh no I wasn't saying I'm mad at what she did, I'm just wondering if I should contact her again or not in the case that she doesn't get back to me. | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 05:03 AM |
| 1 | When a girl feels obligated to go on a date with you?I got there and she texted me rescheduling to next week. I was pretty pissed since it took me an hour to get there so I just told her that it's alright, but next time we're meeting at a bar in my area. | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 02:04 PM |
| -9 | How do I get a girl to take ME back to HER place?I.. I don't understand what you just typed. | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 12:04 AM |
| -3 | How do I get a girl to take ME back to HER place?Or maybe she'll assume since her house is 5 minutes away and mine is an hour away that her house is more time efficient to use? Use your head. | /r/seduction | 26/01/16 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Texting your girlfriend?I don't think you should be her boyfriend if there are still questions like these involved. If you feel like you're forcing yourself to ask how her day was over text, then don't text her that. Text he whatever you actually want to text her, or even call her. Apparently you're her boyfriend now, so ask her to hangout whenever. The fact that it isn't sexual yet kind of confuses me. You obviously (please, please please) have kissed her before, so making out shouldn't be an issue, and then you escal… | /r/seduction | 26/01/16 09:54 PM |
| 2 | How best to respond to praising questions?I tend to go with a variation of the term "thanks" so you could say something like "Thank you!" or just the commonly used "Thanks!" | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Hit it off with HB10 at party. Not looking for anything long term but would like to see her again. Now what?Ask her out, tell her there's a very nice alleyway around your street corner you'd like to take her to. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 02:20 AM |
| 14 | An idea of throwing a party that includes my friends inviting all of their Tinder matches, could it work?Tell every single match "but don't tell anyone we met on tinder." and then invite them all. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 02:19 AM |
| 1 | When a girl flakes twice, but keeps rescheduling?Yes | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Girl won't hold eye contactAbsolutely not. You think a girl would be like "Oh he's ugly, I won't look at him. Sex with him though?? Hell yeah!" no. She doesn't think you're ugly, she just sucks at eye contact. Eye contact ISN'T COMFORTABLE, it can be after some time, I'm very comfortable with eye contact but some people just can't hold it and need to look away. She's just shy it seems. | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 03:45 AM |
| 1 | How to approach in this situationTell her that you followed her from the same town to the same university. You know how touching that is? | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 03:39 AM |
| 1 | When a girl flakes twice, but keeps rescheduling?Sounds good. I'm just being really nice and understanding right now. I kind of put the ball in her court by telling her to message me when she's free. | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 03:36 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Tinder date. K-closekk | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Second Chance for Sex on Valentine's Day??Rooting for you, let us know how it goes. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 12:31 AM |
| 2 | What to do after getting there number?Here's what I do. I approach, I get the number. I text her right there saying "Omziraal." and then I ask her when she's free next, while she's standing in front of me. She tells me, we set something up in person. Try setting it up as close to when you met as possible, but don't be needy about it and say "Ok Tuesday.. No? Wednesday? Ok, how about Thursday?" No, just ask when she's free, pick one day. Text her the day before the date asking if you're still on or whatever form of that. Text her the… | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Second Chance for Sex on Valentine's Day??Isn't V-day in like.. a month? First date? Let's be honest, she met you when you were both drunk as fuck, you got nothing out of it besides a dick pat. Do you believe she is that emotionally invested? | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 12:17 AM |
| 1 | A girl who seems reserved / doesn't seem to WANT to be kissed?Nah she has been texting me pretty needy these past few days, asking if I can hangout ANY day at all. Gave her Tuesday, I'll do it then. | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 03:08 AM |
| 7 | Question Game 2.0I like this but what if she asks me something where my response would be SUPER awkward? Do I lie or answer it without batting an eye? I'm super open and would literally answer any question so it may be an issue. | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 12:39 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with my oneitis issue?No. My longest one was a mutually exclusive relationship that only lasted like 3 months. | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 10:54 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck is wrong with my oneitis issue?I'm looking for something more serious but hookups are alright too. Maybe I'm attracted physically and I'm upset that I lost that? I don't know I'm really confused and it's fucking up my ability to go out and game. | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 10:14 PM |
| 1 | My AA is too high to approach alone.RSD. Real social dynamics. | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 09:25 AM |
| 1 | My AA is too high to approach alone.I've been hitting the gym for 6 years. I'm good in that respect. Also I'm not going to drink in public. :( edit: this is for daygame atm btw. nightgame, yes, alcohol | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 09:24 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Date number 2 with this girl. Completely messed it all up somehow.Sounds good. I'll try to work on my daygame some more. | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 08:42 PM |
| 0 | Date in an hour.The problem is she's picking me up in her car. The only thing I'll be able to do is sit next to her and start talking. After we get out when we reach the location, should I give her the hug, etc. THEN or what? | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice on what to do nextThat's a shame brother, best thing to do now is meet new girls and you're doing just that. I'm not a gaming god at all or anything but the bottom line is gauge how she's feeling, see her body language and tone of voice, how she's reacting to your movements, etc. Perhaps even put your hand on her thigh, tell her you're going to use the washroom really quickly, squeeze, go to the washroom, grab a blanket and tell her to get under it and watch the movie with you. Easy escalation from there. | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice on what to do nextDefinitely be more aggressive. It seems to be exactly what she wants. I had a girl like this, started off pretty heated and as time went on she got less and less aggressive. I rarely ever made moves so nothing happened because I considered myself much less aggressive as well. Eventually it kind of clicked and I started to notice a pattern where whenever I'd mention anything close to romantic or slightly sexual, she'd lighten up a bit. I wouldn't actually make moves but I'd hint that I'm about to… | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 05:00 PM |
| 0 | With the New Year coming up, does anyone have good advice for NYE parties, resolutions?Approaching during the day would be awesome because the conversation of NYE plans is so open ended and a fun topic. Great time to do day game. | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Difference between first and second dates?Nah she doesn't mention her ex. She'd mention him in passing, like she'd talk about how she was at a show and she was about to be knocked down in a huge crowd, and then she'd say how her ex had to pull her out and that's pretty much as far as she got with it. I'm probably overthinking all of this anyway, right? I always do before a date and then the date ends up going great. I guess I'll just forget about what to say and instead just focus on the fact that the date is going to happen and enjoy i… | /r/seduction | 28/12/15 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Difference between first and second dates?She opened up a fair amount already. She told me about her family a bit, I know what they do, etc. I don't want to ask anything that I'm not genuinely interested in either. Also, what about possibly past relationship stories? Or even general romantic past / dating life? Are those red flags or are they okay? What if I asked for funny stories about it? | /r/seduction | 28/12/15 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Difference between first and second dates?What are some examples of personal ones? I fucked up with one girl because I asked a question that was too personal on the fourth date. What are some good personal second date questions? | /r/seduction | 28/12/15 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Approached, got number. What now? [Beginner]Don't apologize | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Trapped in my LTR...Your reasons are not valid enough. If you're not happy and not in love with her then get out of it. Why do you care what people think? It's your relationship. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Did I screw this up?Of course as everyone here will say, meet more girls, which is true but you're not looking for that advice right now so what I'll say is that you should say "fuck it." because the outcome doesn't matter. She will either message you within the next 24 hours, or she won't. Give it a few days, try not to dwell on it because this won't matter to you in a few days, and send her a fresh message when you're feeling totally fine and cool about it. You barely know her and if she doesn't want to go on a d… | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, I need your help. This hard 1-itis is fucking me up and nothing I do now seems to make sense. Please, guide me.Definitely meet more girls. I'm like you man. I'd be feeling like shit at work, then she'd text me and immediately I'd kill the customer service act. Today we ended what we had, but for the first time in my life I approached and got 3 numbers and 2 dates that same day and now it barely hurts. She's not as special as you think, trust me. Once you meet the next girl that you even find moderately cool you'll get over her. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Looks are easily 60% of the result : discuss.I feel like the main thing that dictates an interaction is how the first minute or two go. So if you're ugly, a girl might be more put off at the start but as your personality kicks in she'll change her perspective depending on how awesome you are. If you're attractive it might make it easier for her to open up to you, but in the end she'll only give you her number if you make her laugh or show that you have a good personality. I wouldn't give looks 60% of the credit, more like 30%. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to ask a girl what she's looking for when she meets a new guy? Relationship wise, fuck buddy wise, etc.?Thanks, this is some actual good advice. Needed to hear it. :) | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to ask a girl what she's looking for when she meets a new guy? Relationship wise, fuck buddy wise, etc.?It is oneitis for sure, but it's going really well so I'm not too worried, but I do feel like if it doesn't work out I'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to ask a girl what she's looking for when she meets a new guy? Relationship wise, fuck buddy wise, etc.?I can't expect you to understand when you have zero information on her and I, but thanks for trying. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to ask a girl what she's looking for when she meets a new guy? Relationship wise, fuck buddy wise, etc.?Well, it's just my issue with second guessing. She has given me nothing but IoI's, and if anybody at all saw us they'd assume we were on our honeymoon or some shit with the hand holding, kissing in public, sick nose rubbing, all the cute honeymoon relationship stuff when people first start dating. So yes, I do know that she's interested in me but that doesn't really mean that she doesn't just want a fuck buddy, and I want to know but I guess I'll just let it come naturally. Also, I have not text… | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 11:55 PM |
| 1 | i matched with a girl on tinder and...Yeah that's fine. Just ask her out, 19 to 22 is really nothing at all. You met on Tinder, if she rejects you you'll just find another match anyway. | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 10:42 PM |
| 2 | I am REALLY bad with texting and neediness.Yep I'm trying. It's just tough because I go to work, I do my own thing and live my own life, but she's always in the back of my mind. I've always been a relationship guy, but I don't know what kind of girl she is and it's definitely far too early to ask. I'm not saying I'm in love or anything but I'm just saying that if I enjoy being with a girl she's a prospect. This is going to be an annoying few weeks for me. | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 02:25 AM |
| 1 | I am REALLY bad with texting and neediness.Alright, I'll do it. You're right about not being afraid of the outcome, I'll try to take more chances with texting. The question is, even though we just saw each other yesterday, do I still invite her out to something? Also, do I wait to text back or just text back instantly? Someone mentioned the "relationship texting" phase where it just doesn't matter, but I'm not sure. | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 01:58 AM |
| 3 | I am REALLY bad with texting and neediness.I was thinking of sending her a text saying "Have your essays killed you yet?". Probably will end up doing that, and maybe inviting her out to a nice cheap place, but is it alright even though we just saw each other? I'm just trying to play it really safe, but I know risks are a good thing. Also, I did text her last but as I said, it was a closing sentence, just telling her that I'll leave her to her essays. I didn't expect a response. Does this count as double texting, if I text her the next da… | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 01:48 AM |
| 2 | There's a lot of people against texting here, but when would you say it's okay to have a text conversation and not just logistical?I was feeling great, and the morning after went well. Nothing has gone wrong at all yet, except how we barely text anyway, which is fine because I work and do school a lot so I'm not free very often, but I still want her to know I'm interested but not sure how without seeming needy. She's busy with her essays, so even if we do text it's pretty bland, but in person is always a good time. Hoping to figure out a good texting routine so that we can actually get something going. | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 11:54 PM |
| 2 | There's a lot of people against texting here, but when would you say it's okay to have a text conversation and not just logistical?Okay so, we went to a place to eat. I grabbed the menu since there was only one and took it next to her so we could read it together. Instantly she asks if we can stay sitting next to each other and I said that was the plan the whole time. She grabbed my arm and all this happened within 5 minutes. From then we just talked about shit with my hand on her thigh, occasional kissing and the absolutely gross nose to nose rubbing, but I liked it. Eventually she said that I could come over and I did so … | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Would you date yourself if you were a girl?Sexy as fuck. Very friendly with everyone and treats everyone equally. Genuinely good human being with morals and a strong will that will help him succeed no matter what. | /r/seduction | 05/12/15 12:46 AM |
| 1 | There's a lot of people against texting here, but when would you say it's okay to have a text conversation and not just logistical?Today is my date in roughly 2 hours yes. I'm not nervous, since I still have so much I genuinely want to learn about her, and she has a lot she doesn't know about me. Only concern is figuring out how to speak with her when we're sitting next to each other, it would be awkward to turn my head all the time, wouldn't it? I don't want to sit across from her and turn it into an interview. | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Question about sitting next to her at dinner.Did this with her today on our 30 minute instant date. It's perfect but where we're going I don't believe they have those. Maybe I'll just eventually move over next to her? Or should I just straight up tell her that I'd rather sit next to her? | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 05:09 AM |
| 1 | There's a lot of people against texting here, but when would you say it's okay to have a text conversation and not just logistical?It's nice of you to want me to message you about it, thanks for that. Here's some good news. Today, since we work right across from each other, I got off work and was about to head home but kind of felt like I should drop in and say hi to her, so I did and I did just as her break was starting, so we sat down and talked for 30 minutes and it went really well. Kissed her goodbye (she initiated that one) and then we went on our ways and said we'd see each other tomorrow. I'm really glad I made this… | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 12:16 AM |
| 2 | There's a lot of people against texting here, but when would you say it's okay to have a text conversation and not just logistical?What I'll probably end up doing is going on the date this Friday, and getting to know her better and figuring out what she likes and what she doesn't like. I'm having a tough time mainly because about 1.5 months ago I ended it with another girl who I'm totally over now, so I'm hoping to do better with this one this time. | /r/seduction | 03/12/15 01:48 AM |
| 2 | There's a lot of people against texting here, but when would you say it's okay to have a text conversation and not just logistical?Let me rephrase that. What I meant was that when we met we had a great connection and I would simply LIKE to see if it can go in the right direction because there's good chemistry. Also we haven't known each other for long at all. We met, we talked a bit, went to her place and had sex so I don't think it's right for me to already be asking for phone calls and such, doesn't it seem clingy or needy especially since she doesn't respond to my texts in a timely manner? On our date Friday I'll try to … | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 04:20 PM |
| 1 | There's a lot of people against texting here, but when would you say it's okay to have a text conversation and not just logistical?I am looking for a relationship in this one eventually. The problem is, the last times we've texted its been boring because I'm so used to the ONS stuff so I play all the tricks. Recently, I've always been the last one replying and that's fine, but if she would reply more it would give me something to work with. I feel like I fucked up on this subreddit because I've engrained it in my mind that too much texting and too fast replies are bad, so now I feel like I can't hold a convo over text. Not … | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 07:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Lost virginity, lost potential FWB. Need help understanding my mistakes.What if he wanted to pursue this girl further? | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 06:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with a friend that does this?I don't have feelings for her. I'm looking for a FWB thing. I'm only attracted to her physically. If anything I'll see that she's really boring, straight up tell her we should be FWB, if she says no, cool, you're boring, nothing lost. If she says yes, cool. | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Is asking a girl out on facebook weird?A girl that I was always attracted to messaged me through FB and we dated for 2 months after that. It didn't work out, but the only reason it happened was because FB. Go for it. | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Game vs looks.The point you're trying to make is silly. | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 05:48 PM |
| 5 | Game vs looks.Tinder is purely an app based off your level of attraction. The better looking you are, the more matches and chances you'll get. In the real world, I can promise you that looks don't mean nearly as much as people make them out to be. They will accentuate your game if anything, but they are not your entire game. I'm very confident in my looks and yet I suck at approaching girls so I don't get shit. Action, action, action. | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 04:25 AM |
| 1 | [FR]My first and last seduction attempt totally backfiredYes, he will. OP should work on himself first and foremost, but I still believe that the more girls he communicates with, the more he'll realize that he can be just friends with them, because they are awesome, even as just friends. | /r/seduction | 14/11/15 05:48 AM |
| 1 | I'm getting back into playing piano and working on my singing. Is this practical at all in the seduction process?Like people are saying, do it because you love it. I love acoustic guitar, and that's why I'm going to start playing. I had no intention of trying to get girls with it, but my friend who has been playing for a few years was strumming his guitar and even I fucking swooned. If you and the girl have a passion for music, she'll love it. In the end, do things because you want to. | /r/seduction | 13/11/15 04:50 PM |
| 2 | I'm getting back into playing piano and working on my singing. Is this practical at all in the seduction process?Why not if she asks you? | /r/seduction | 13/11/15 04:48 PM |
| 8 | [FR]My first and last seduction attempt totally backfiredYou're not in love at all. You met 2 weeks ago, you're just latching on to the first girl that gives you attention because you're lonely. You said this is your last attempt in your title but not going out and meeting new women is going to hurt you so much more. Once you meet new girls you'll forget about this one you "fell in love with". | /r/seduction | 13/11/15 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Would you fuck a 3/10 if you hit a dry spell?My personal preference is a bit smaller, but here I am, on NoFap, 15 days in, feel like I'd fuck anything but another part of me says that after I cum I'll regret it. | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 08:54 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Gym PickupNicely done. Funny, I was at a new gym yesterday and wanted to do the same thing to the girl that worked there, but I couldn't bring myself to do it. | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Free Infield Workshop, London THIS FRIDAY 6th NovI'm in Ontario. That London or the good London? | /r/seduction | 04/11/15 07:52 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce a girl who is in already relationshipI don't like it. Sure, you can be fun, take her out, be great friends and whatever happens happens but if a girl is at the point where she's lying where she is, etc to her boyfriend, she loses the ability to be my girlfriend and I would never let a girl cheat on her boyfriend with me if all I want is some ass. Best idea, see if she starts liking you and then ask her to close her chapter with her boyfriend and open a new one with you. | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 03:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of this "I can't" mentality?I failed. I did 20 push ups at the gym for ya, it was at peak time too. Seriously though, I couldn't do it. The entire day I had my ex in the back of my head and I was feeling negative and had major resting bitch face. Had to speak to a councillor for a few hours, I think right now I should be focusing on inner game until I feel less depressed and then I'll try again. | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Did 5 approaches todayYeah after the break up I was in a huge slump for only 2 days. Couldn't eat, couldn't workout but yesterday I managed to workout and it was a great one. I felt depressed again right after but I think there has only been improvement so far. Also no I don't feel sorry for myself and I don't listen to depressing music. Actually, the first thing I did was delete all of my depressing music and now I'm working on listening to songs that motivate me and make me feel energetic. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 02:14 PM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of this "I can't" mentality?Alright man, I'm going to try and see what I can do. It's funny, when I read your post I actually felt really anxious already. Also good idea, I'll look at meet up and the simple pickup forum. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 02:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of this "I can't" mentality?I'll definitely do the exercises ASAP, and I'll give that hypnosis a listen. Also I am trying to find a friend to hold me accountable but they really don't care enough about approaching girls to do it. I'll try to seriously convince one of them sometime. I'd like it if you held me accountable, but I'm not sure if it'd motivate me much. I'd need somebody on the phone yelling at me, haha. I'm also in London, Ontario, Canada. Pretty small city. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Did 5 approaches todayI like this because I remember your first and second post, so it's nice to see the gradual, but large improvement that has happened to you. I'm working on my first approach right now. Currently in a state of depression after a break up but if I approach now then I feel like I'll get out of this slump faster. Thanks for your posts and keep us updated on your journey. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 12:57 AM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of this "I can't" mentality?Thanks for all of this. I've already taken lots of baby steps. I've gotten really good at eye contact, I constantly seem to be having staring contests with girls while I walk through my school. I win most of them, incorporating a smile is my next move but I'm kind of sick of being stuck in this loop for an entire year, I just want to jump to the last step, start a conversation and do that many times per day. The thing is, even though I know the benefits, even though I know how amazing I'll feel … | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 12:50 AM |
| 5 | From kissless virgin to 2 dates, 1 K-close and soon maybe... (STORY TIME)Nice work. I like this. I'm going through a rough patch in my dating life right now. I'm 20 years old, met a girl for the first time and it's taking a huuuuge downhill spiral right now. Essentially, I threw away everything I learnt here and made myself very vulnerable to her, sent her a message asking if we're really going to do this, or cut it off, expecting a reply from her tomorrow morning. I was planning on being a little bitch if she totally shunned me, but your post kind of helped me reali… | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 04:28 AM |
| 3 | How to seduce your female friendsBecause you haven't developed anything with them yet and what you're showing them is that you want more than just friendship. With long term female friends as soon as you start trying too hard to get in their pants, they will know. | /r/seduction | 17/10/15 01:34 PM |
| 2 | I suck at kissing and don't know how I can get better.I'll try that next time, if there is a next time. | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 08:27 PM |
| 1 | I suck at kissing and don't know how I can get better.Do I essentially just move my mouth in a rhythm? Do I ever suck super gently or is it literally just moving my lips against hers? | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Wasn't really ready for this questionOr she kisses him and they last years. Not everything has to be so technical. | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 02:56 PM |
| 2 | To men: Our physical looks are much LESS important to women than self-confidence and assertivenessIf you're really attractive, believe it or not girls do want you to approach them. The girl I mentioned in my original post, I noticed her 2 years ago and I never had the balls to say anything. I also didn't believe her and I would be compatible, and so I decided to sit back and completely forget about her. After she approaches me 2 years later, we have a great relationship right now and I'm planning on making her my girlfriend in the next few months. Every girl you walk past has potential to ma… | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 07:23 PM |
| 13 | To men: Our physical looks are much LESS important to women than self-confidence and assertivenessPretty true. Being good looking makes it so much easier though. A girl I'm seeing that I have always wanted to meet approached me and now we are seeing each other. However, before this approach I never had anything close to a girlfriend, even though I'm a really good looking guy I never approached or had confidence in my abilities. No matter how you look, you need to put forth the effort to be who you want to be. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 03:58 PM |
| 3 | How to go about asking to hang out via texting?I just say "when are you free next?". Don't think and theorize every single reply, just fucking ask. | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 03:47 PM |
| 3 | I need your input!! New Gym scenario! What should I do?Get her to bench press and as you're spotting her try to get your dick directly on her face. She will love it. | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 01:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gained enough exp to go for the big one, was not disappointed.You need to realize that you just met her. Your comment on how she was with another guy is silly because you can't be thinking that she will be exclusive to you when she just met you. A cute girl will have lots of guy friends. Good on you for approaching though, if you manage to get a date where it's just you two then try to touch her more and flirt. I don't think a play is a good idea for a first date, also if it was me I wouldn't have gone to the play in the first place, I would have reschedul… | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 01:21 PM |
| 1 | I feel beta with this girl. How do I make myself more.. manly?When we make out, going for the ass is my first move, then I'd pick her up and pin her on the couch. I guess in that regard I do well. I guess next time I'll try to be more clear and to the point with my words, seeing as I'm lacking there rather in the physicality area. | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 04:02 AM |
| 1 | I feel beta with this girl. How do I make myself more.. manly?It's not friend-to-friend at all, because friends don't confess their feelings and make out with each other as much as possible (generally). I just want to find a way to be more controlled and straight forward. Maybe I'm doing that right now but I don't realize it, or maybe we're in our honey moon phase so I'm really gentle and it'll get better. Who knows. | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 03:11 AM |
| 2 | I feel beta with this girl. How do I make myself more.. manly?Thanks for the reply man. I am doing the right things it seems, since she has feelings for me. I just see that usually the guy who is soft, laid back, friendly ends up getting his girl stolen by somebody more aggressive. Any specific tips on ways to change my personality to make myself more collected around her? I feel comfortable, but I notice although I feel really comfortable in my own skin, some of the actions I do aren't resonating that, and they're more on the awkward side. | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 02:52 AM |
| 1 | If you made out with a girl already, should kissing be a regular thing?but the problem is I don't think she'd expect it. I'm moving really slow, even though we made out today. Do I just go in for it? I feel like it might be too strong, but fuck it? | /r/seduction | 26/09/15 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Can I just beat myself up a little?Agreed. I never thought of it as an ego issue but now that I think about it you're totally right. I've worked so hard on my body in the gym and I'm really happy with the way that I look that I suppose I'm worried to finally prove that looks don't mean much. | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 11:13 AM |
| 1 | How old are you and what's the distribution of age in the girls you hook up with?I'm almost 20 and a 17 year old really wants it. Actually at one point I was seeing this one girl and I swear I thought she was my age or even older and she ended up being 15. Dropped it right there. I seem to attract a younger crowd.. | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 03:10 AM |
| 1 | How to initiate the kiss with a girl?Well I guess I'll just be myself, we are making food together at my place Friday and then I guess before we watch the movie I'll get my arm around her.. should I simply look into her eyes for a few seconds then just slowly go in for it? What if she averts eye contact? Should I tell her while I'm looking in her eyes that "I'm going to kiss you." Then just do it? So many factors and I'm concerned she won't reciprocate but I guess you gotta take risks. | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 11:26 PM |
| 1 | How to initiate the kiss with a girl?This is cute, but everything would need to be perfect for this not to backfire. I'm probably going to simply try to move the conversation to kissing or sex (she's a virgin so I'll just bring it up) and then slowly brush her hair back and then just do it. If she denies it the best thing to do is simply back down. | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Should I try again?She seems like a bit of a bitch if she'd just ignore you. Unless she didn't hear you, I wouldn't give it another shot. It's high school, girls care too much about their silly status. | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 09:25 PM |
| 2 | How to initiate the kiss with a girl?Yeah man her and I had a lot of touching during our first hangout ever. She would move my hair back and fix it, we'd hold hands for a bit, she'd put her legs over mine, etc. If she allows all that happily, would you say I'm set? | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Have a girl coming over tonight. HELP.I should've been more clear. She messaged me completely randomly, and we flirted for a bit. She said I was cute, and then the next day I invited her to my house and she said she was down. She's attracted to me, so I know that much. Also, it's not a party, it's just a get together with some friends, the house won't be packed. Maybe 7 people or so, including her and I. I guess I could ask her if she wants to meet everyone or get to know me first, but in better wording of course. | /r/seduction | 19/09/15 08:12 PM |
| 1 | How has been your experience with this Kino?Skimmed through it. That's a pretty accurate guide, but stop making it so complicated. It's honestly not a science, start by touching her arm every now and then, then as the date goes on and she's more receptive and comfortable, you can hold her hand to direct her, and then as the guide says, about knees touching, I usually just do that even at the start of the date because it's totally natural, but pretty powerful. Those are essentially the basics of if you're sitting in a coffee shop or someth… | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How has been your experience with this Kino?You might be overthinking kino, man. Kino is just touching. It's not always sexual. Just touch her arm when she says something funny, or if you are heading to the washroom tell her you'll be right back, and gently touch her arm as well. If the date is going really well and she's very receptive, you can escalate and move from the arm to the thigh, you can touch her lower back as you're crossing the street, it's not complicated and it's not always sexual. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 05:20 PM |
| 2 | How has been your experience with this Kino?That's essentially what I said. If you force it then it will possible be uncomfortable for her. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 02:43 PM |
| -1 | Texted her and she texted back but kind of confused...Ask her out again, on a date. See what she says. That's all you can do at this point. She's not being receptive through text, some would say to just quit it but give her another date. If she says no, it's a no. Or you can stand outside her window with a boombox playing a love song and give her a nice speech. edit: It was a joke. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 05:40 AM |
| 1 | I don't know if i can continue going to school. My heart hurts every time a girl walks past me.When I was in HS I had a few friends but not a single girl. I could not speak to them for the life of me and after HS ended I felt so much regret for not doing all the things I wanted to do like simply talking to girls. I'm in college now and I've talked to lots of girls. Lots of awkward moments but I'm working on my conversation skills. Brother, whatever anyone here tells you might inspire you and put so much faith in you that tomorrow will be a better day, but you're going to wake up with the … | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 11:25 PM |
| 2 | How has been your experience with this Kino?Don't force it and let it be natural. Shoulders, knees touching, hand on her arm, arm around her to direct her, etc. It develops a deeper level of comfort for her and shows her you're comfortable with touching. There's no reason not to escalate with kino unless you escalate way too fast. It'll make her uncomfortable really fast. | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 11:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Going well with one girl, but I do need advice.True, man. I think I'm over thinking it as well now that I read it again. The thing is she's an HB8, so maybe that changed the way that I acted. She texted me right after our class and asked to hang out on our mutual break. It was going great and then we ran into some mutual friends and when they left I kind of ran out of things to say and it got a little awkward. I'm sure I can recover but honestly I think I'd be fine if she was just a friend. | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 08:29 PM |
| 4 | In college and confusedReal parties as in.. clubs? What do you mean by real parties? | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 02:50 AM |
| 1 | this is stupid - but do you think a t-shirt inviting conversation would be work?I've seen a lot of these shirts. The silly quotes that try to be funny.. it's not only stupid and pretty desperate but it also shows a lack of fashion. Dress nicely and approach. | /r/seduction | 14/09/15 05:08 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about NoFap?My record was 21 days. It's great because I had so much energy and anything that slightly resembled a female was fuck worthy, and somehow I felt more confident. It definitely has some special shit to it. There's no reason not to do it, except that you become a fuck hungry monster. | /r/seduction | 13/09/15 03:17 AM |
| 11 | Welcome women into YOUR life of fun. Seduce them if they stick around.I can't believe I haven't read this yet. I'm going to get it. | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Get a Google Voice number!Wait what. I need WiFi to use it though, right? If not, then why the fuck do I even need a phone plan? | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to regain attraction from a girl you have seemingly messed up with?I did the exact same thing as you a few months ago. 4 months after she messages me with small things about college like if I did this or that and it turned into "why didn't you sit with me today?" So starting yesterday we started talking again and there are no feelings for her but I'm just doing this for the fun of it. She has a boyfriend but I'm going to see how far it can go. My opinion is don't burn any bridges but don't emotionally invest yourself into her. | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 05:27 PM |
| 1 | My lack of success with girls depresses me25 out of 100 is damn good. | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 01:53 AM |
| 1 | How DO you use kino on a date (sexually)?This is good. I'll definitely try this next time. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Simple and Fun Date Idea - Making Boring Conversation Questions FunYeah I'd rather not blow my cash to ask a girl a few questions. | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Had a nice rejection tonightKeep trying. Sometimes they reject the first ones and if you make it no big deal, then it's just out in the air. Try again. | /r/seduction | 04/09/15 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Different ways guys have initiated the first kiss with me.For statistical purposes, do your middle finger and thumb happen to make a circumference of, I don't know.. 5 inches? | /r/seduction | 04/09/15 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Different ways guys have initiated the first kiss with me.What's your ideal girth? | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Different ways guys have initiated the first kiss with me.Really love reading your posts. | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 11:54 PM |
| 1 | [FR] From a first timerYeah, what I'd say is "So am I just going to stand around here or are you going to introduce me?" in a playful tone, otherwise it could seem pretty dickish. | /r/seduction | 29/08/15 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Message that girl on facebook you always likedYeah, not sure why she added me so suddenly. I really should've talked to her, asking if I knew her. It could've started something at least. Any ideas for a recovery? | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Message that girl on facebook you always likedI've always had a problem with talking to girls on FB. I hate typing, I like face to face so I never dabbled in this kind of stuff. What about if it's a girl that you don't see in real life because you live on other sides of the city (15-20 minute drive), and you've never met her to boot. Still message, provided that SHE was the one who initiated the add on FB? | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 08:07 AM |
| 0 | [FR] 3 Dates then Called off, Analysis appreciatedI always used to make this mistake. I'd always agree with girls because I thought it'd get them to like me, but in reality it's just a vibe / conversation killer. You gotta have your own opinions and argue, don't just let her be right all the time. At least that's one part of it. However, if you have to "force" an argument just for the sake of disagreeing, then you're trying too hard any maybe you should just be friends. | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 07:54 AM |
| 3 | What the fuck shall I do to make my confidence go from Houston to Mars ?Make hitting the gym a passion. Try to get a sexy body. Get a haircut. Instantly helps, unless you've got long hair and you can rock a man bun, or any other awesome long hair style. It honestly helps my confidence if I go a few days without fapping. Not sure what it is, I just feel more energetic, talkative, and more productive. | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Is there anyone else like me ? Virgin in late twenties?The thing about this entire game is that you need to understand that there's (usually) no death, no law suits, or any of that horrible shit. The thing that there is, is anxiety, fear, rejection, perhaps great happiness. For me, this had to be engrained in my mind by so many people for me to understand it and have balls. I even still have trouble with it these days, but you just gotta get out there and do it man, whatever it takes. Go up to a girl and say hello, and do it to as many as you can an… | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 04:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Making The Best Out Of A Bad NightYou think that girl stopped and checked out your pants because of how ridiculous they were? Nice work getting a number though, hope the best comes out of it. | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 02:29 AM |
| 1 | This will help you immensely in not giving a fuck!I saw a social experiment where the guy went up to girls and just said "put your number in my phone." and it worked sometimes. It seems like a fun way to get over AA. | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 02:24 AM |
| 6 | [Tip] Mark Manston Improve Voicehuh | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 02:19 AM |
| 22 | As a girl who's been on countless dates - great things guys have done to pick me up, and a few notes on when I've picked up girls.Too much work? Taking a girl out, touching her a bit, being interested in her and being down to earth? Oh. | /r/seduction | 21/08/15 02:25 AM |
| 31 | As a girl who's been on countless dates - great things guys have done to pick me up, and a few notes on when I've picked up girls.This slightly, SLIGHTLY turned me on. Slightly. | /r/seduction | 21/08/15 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Meeting a girl through FB who you haven't talked to IRL?It's not a bad idea. I could just ask if I know her from somewhere, then depending on how she responds I'll see if I can set something up. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Meeting a girl through FB who you haven't talked to IRL?So just say "hey." and wait? Or should I just ask her who she is and that I'm clearing out my friends list or something? | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Meeting a girl through FB who you haven't talked to IRL?Sorry I forgot to mention that her and I don't see each other in real life. I graduated high school a year ago but she only fairly recently added me. I'd never message a girl on FB that I could talk to IRL. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 03:28 AM |
| 1 | *Repost* Does height matter?Of course it does. Everything matters. I'm 6" for example and I feel insecure about it because all of my friends are somehow taller than me. One time I was going on a date with a girl and after the date she messaged me, insulting my height because she's seen guys that are much taller. It pissed me off, but I didn't react and stuck around for a few more dates, in the end I cut it off because I'm not going to waste my time with a girl that's going to insult me physically when she's not perfect her… | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 02:20 AM |
| 2 | How do I change to make girls want to come up and want to ask for my number, or at least check me out?Very envious of your body fat percentage. I'm having so much trouble cutting fat after my bulk right now. Anyway, girls approaching is so rare, but if they do they're going to be awesome. I've been approached a few times and each time its created a pretty good friendship, but it barely happens. You should do the approaching and not expect to be approached as to not have expectations that are going to be shut down fast. Girls looking at you is enough incentive to approach them, and if it fails, i… | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 02:13 AM |
| 13 | For Those Of You Starting A New School Year (High School or College) This Principle Is HugeNice video here. Perfect for me, first year of college is in a almost 3 weeks, I'm excited and this video really pumped me up but I'm still pretty scared because when I actually get to the moment I'm hoping I don't pussy out. I have a bad habit of changing my vocal tone when meeting new people. My voice gets a bit higher and kinder, I hate it and it doesn't suit me because I'm a body builder, any idea on how to not have a little bitch voice when meeting new people? | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 06:19 AM |
| 2 | My (19f) girlfriend wants me (20m) to go to a club... and i am scaredWhat part of Canada are you in? Also, dancing is the easiest part when you have a girl with you. Just relax and don't make it complicated. Even look up some moves. Dancing is extremely fun. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 06:06 AM |
| 12 | To the guy who asked about beach game (FR)That's great man. I wish I had friends who had any interest in approaching. I'm working on it myself, I cut out all the negative people in my life, working on myself and hopefully I can have some success like you some day. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 06:04 AM |
| 1 | 20/M and a kissless virgin.Made out for the very first time today.Nice job man. Also, jealous of your height. I'm at 6". If you start working out you'll be elite. | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Just a reminder: your female "friends" can often be trying to cockblocking you.One of my former closest female friends, her and I were really tight. I had severe oneitis from her. Eventually I started dating other girls to get her off my mind, and I found one girl that really wanted me badly. I told my best friend about her, and he told my close female friend. She messaged me and said she's sad, and then she came to me and we talked about it. My inner pussy came out and we talked, she told me she was jealous and she was upset. I used that opportunity to rub her leg, lots o… | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Almost got a girls number today...thanks sedditWatched this all the way through for the second time. I love this guy. | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Going to Bars AloneI went to a bar alone once, I mean, I had friends earlier in the night but we all kind of split to meet up later. In the bar it was great, I didn't have any alcohol in me yet when I walked around people would talk to me, make small talk and when I saw that I started to do the same. I'd go up to someone and say "Hey man, how's your night going?" and we'd just talk about small shit. Doing it to a girl isn't much different, just got to add a flirty vibe to it. "Hey, thought you were cute so I wante… | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 04:29 AM |
| 1 | How do I reconnect with a girl that I kind of rejected for a date?I don't see her in person. I'm in college, she's not at mine. Since she showed interest before I'm probably going to do my best to bring her to my house on the first hangout, then say what I said again about why I rejected her. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I reconnect with a girl that I kind of rejected for a date?I wouldn't blame someone for giving me advice that didn't work. No worries. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I reconnect with a girl that I kind of rejected for a date?Sounds good. I'll give it a shot. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 06:24 AM |
| 2 | How do I reconnect with a girl that I kind of rejected for a date?It could do without the gorgeous part. It's a bit of a stretch, first part isn't bad though I'll shoot her a message in a few days and see how it goes. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 06:24 AM |
| 1 | How to initiate conversation with cute lady working in the store next to mine?What I would do is feel confident as shit, because I work in a glamorous suit shop and wear a $2,000 dollar complimentary suit to attract customers, and I would go up to her, and talk to her about interior design, like "That cornerstone is really aesthetically pleasing, especially with the fireplace to the right properly accentuating the light, but booming tone that the bulb above radiates." No idea what I just said, but say that and then be like "Almost as radiating as your eyes." | /r/seduction | 08/08/15 11:21 PM |
| 11 | Girls that are hyperactive or excitable are harder to connect with.Fuck, I know that so well. Girls that are just complete jokes that I feel like I can't speak to on an emotional level. Like everything is a joke. I've had so many friends like that, actually. I don't even know what to do in that situation, but if she's always so perky and happy to be around you why not take a risk and kiss her to shut her mouth? | /r/seduction | 08/08/15 11:15 PM |
| 7 | There MUST be something that I am doing wrong and I want to change!Yeah all I'm seeing is "I'm super great looking yet can't get girls, help." More info needed. | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 04:57 PM |
| 1 | 30m virgin here, any advice to be somewhat "caught up" to speed on things?I disagree. It's not rocket science, as long as you're not nervous on your first time (which can be extremely difficult), you'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Is my height considered inadequate?This is stupid. Your height is above average. Girls usually say BS about wanting guys over 6' but 5'11 is a great height. I'm 6' and as much as I'd like to be taller there's nothing I can do to change my height. Still though, you need to understand that your height is perfectly adequate. | /r/seduction | 04/08/15 07:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Met Girl on Subway, Went for Drinks, Bromance EnsuesBob seems like a great friend. | /r/seduction | 04/08/15 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Eye contact works. My story of its use at a weddingEye contact feels exhilarating for me, and I guess that just goes to show my lack of experience. However, when I'm talking to somebody that I'm attracted to, I lock eyes extremely hard and rarely ever let it go. I had a girl once tell me that I need to stop that because she found it ridiculously attractive and mesmerizing. I'll work on holding eye contact with random, attractive, female strangers from now on though. | /r/seduction | 04/08/15 02:15 AM |
| 1 | I was an unpopular, socially awkward, kiss-less virgin until I discovered pickup. How do I prevent my little brother (11) from becoming like me?The best thing to do for someone young who you want to develop is be there for them to let them let out all their feelings. Let them go to you if they want to vent about anything. Sure, 11 year olds don't have many issues but everyone in life needs somebody to talk to. I'm turning 20 now and there hasn't been a single person in my family I could confess anything to, and that made me turn out a lot worse than I could have been. | /r/seduction | 04/08/15 02:11 AM |
| 8 | How to Have a Perfect First DateAny tips on how to be excited instead of afraid of a date? | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 02:48 AM |
| 7 | How do I send a good first message?Your opener is boring, and comes off as really formal, like a poor resume or something. What I do is usually say something like "Sarah!" or whatever the girls name is, and that's if I'm familiar with them / on Tinder / haven't seen them in a while. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 02:35 AM |
| 3 | A few things I've learned from Tinder.If you're a 8-9/10, would you think it'd actually be easy to get laid on Tinder? | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:33 AM |
| -1 | [London] Wingmen WantedOntario? | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Girl who has been 'just friends' with me suddenly comes on to me.It's just the way girls are man, once they start seeing you as desirable they're all over you. Don't let it get in the way, which I'm sure you won't. I had a girl in my life who was important to me but the relationship was very one sided and whenever I went to see another girl she'd hit me with the "I'm jealous." I let it get to me and it got in the way, never again. | /r/seduction | 16/05/15 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'm around a lot flirts with other guys in front of me?It looks to me like OP is just friends with this girl and he is just hoping that by being a good friend to her she's going to be romantically interested in him. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. In OP's case, it clearly doesn't work. What I'm saying is that if he changes how he is towards her, more kino, being honest with his feelings, some sexual tension, etc. he can change how she feels about him. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Girls flaking when it comes time to 'hangout'I've never been a fan of the really delayed responding to "keep her guessing". I get the concept, but it gets very irritating. Have a conversation with her through text, that's fine, let her enjoy it, respond at a comfortable pace but don't make her a priority, do whatever you're doing and genuinely get back to her when you can instead of timing when your next text will be because that's not genuine at all. Trust me, if you can grab her interest when texting and have her in an engaging conversat… | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 01:49 AM |
| -6 | Girl I'm around a lot flirts with other guys in front of me?He can change the fact that she's not interested in him. You always can. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Do girls talk?She might? I don't get what the issue is. I think your problem here is that you care too much about what your friends think of you. Don't. I know it's not that easy but trust me, when I stopped caring about what my friends thought I was a lot happier. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Question about facial attractivenessIt goes person to person. You either look good or bad with facial hair, you said you look bad so don't do it. | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Do girls talk?They'll talk, but why would you say something you don't want your friends to know? Are you saying bad things behind their backs? Simply don't say anything you don't want her to tell to people, because she will tell people. | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis - Need help! It has been such a difficult week in my lifeYou were probably too clingy and she might not have liked that. That's just my assumption, I don't know what you did or how those 20 days panned out but you need to realize that all of this is an illusion. I was in your shoes except it was hard for me because I had to drop a girl I liked because I knew I could never have her, I struggled with her for a year and what I did to get over her was simply not think of her, not look at her, don't associate with her, I told her how I felt then I told her… | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 11:01 PM |
| 7 | Girl I'm around a lot flirts with other guys in front of me?How do you feel about her? If you have strong feelings and this is making you feel bad, distance yourself a little bit. You sit with her everyday, you've probably known her for a while and yet you haven't gotten anything from her. No signals, nothing? You have no goal, do you want to date her, is she just hit and quit for you? Give us some details. She might not be interested in you, but you can change that. | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 10:53 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First Tinder Date, and Tinder TipsIs your first message usually just "Hey, let's go grab a coffee sometime."? | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 11:23 PM |
| 1 | How does somebody keep a girlfriend?That's what I believe too. I feel like there doesn't need to be any trying, and it should just work. You should just naturally love to be near each other. I guess I just read posts about people falling out of love and I wonder how it happens. | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 10:51 PM |
| 1 | My gf broke up with me 2 months ago, and despite going out all the time i just think about her constantly and how i'll never find a girl better than her.Trust me, time is all it takes. It was really difficult for me but I got over it quicker than expected, and I'm pretty content again. Listen to me, you WILL be happy again, you won't feel for her anymore, trust me. | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Oh man how awkward.No use dwelling over it. Do better next time. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 06:18 PM |
| 1 | (Question) How can I be friendly without being a "nice guy".There's not much to work with there. The reason guys get friendzoned is because they put the girl on a pedestal, treat her like a princess and do anything she wants. All you need to do is simply not do whatever she wants and let it be clear that you're not a bitch that can be pushed around by any woman. Don't be mean about it, but just make sure she knows her place in as much of a fun, witty way as you can. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 05:58 PM |
| 0 | (Question) How can I be friendly without being a "nice guy".Being friendly doesn't mean that you can't be sexual or make witty remarks. Just be nice, but keep the sexual tension. It's not what you say, it's about how you say it. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 05:40 PM |
| 9 | Should I tell her that she was my first?Absolutely no reason to bring it up. It's not a bad thing, but eventually as your relationship progresses and a talk of some sort that's related comes up you could drop a "You were my first, you know that?" | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Senior year prom should I ask this girlIt's your last year. It's your prom, fucking do it. No, seriously, fucking go and do it. After prom, after high school, after college, will it matter what her answer is? Not at all. It's either yes or no. Yes? Awesome. No? Oh fucking well, go rock it alone or ask another girl. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Told best friend I liked her, she doesn't like me back. Moving on, but probably keeping her on a long leash. Help?I told her that. I said that we should never speak again and I dropped it. Lots of events happened, I told her boyfriend who was my best friend how it was, how we all fucked up and shit but I just decided to take the entire blame. He said I don't respect him or anyone else in our friend group and we kind of just said "alright" and left. I don't know what's going to happen now. Nothing like this has ever happened to me and I don't know how to feel. I can't cry, it's just not coming out. A year of… | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Can oneitis last for over a year with a girl you've never dated, or could it be something else?Sounds good. I know the answer though, I know who she likes more. I know I'm special to her but I don't think she'd ever leave her boyfriend for me. I just want to hear it from her, so after, when I do happen to find the courage to tell her, then that's that. I'm walking out until I can find somebody better, and only then will I give her another shot. | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Can oneitis last for over a year with a girl you've never dated, or could it be something else?Should I say it as if it's not a big deal? Like "you know I like you, right?" then go ahead and tell her that maybe we shouldn't talk as much until I get my shit together? | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Can oneitis last for over a year with a girl you've never dated, or could it be something else?That could be the problem. I've had girls in my life but I've been putting off all the dating because I'm too distracted by her. | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Girl has bf already but seems interested. Pursue anyway?My advice? Go over, watch the movie, DON'T make a move. Instead, eventually, if it gets to it you can talk to her and have a good conversation that'll eventually lead to you asking her to close her chapter with her current boyfriend and open a new one with you. Don't help her to cheat on her boyfriend because if she does, she'll do it to you. Having said that, don't fuck her as soon as she agrees, give it time. | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Pro Tip for getting girls to come back to your placeI don't know if it's sad or funny that I'm genuinely looking for a cat on kijiji right now. | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 01:51 AM |
| 67 | Pro Tip for getting girls to come back to your placeYeah, I feel like the cat line would work amazingly somehow, haha. | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Do This And Own Any Bar You EnterYeah, this is cringe. This personality is the exact type of guy that I laugh at with my friends at a bar. 90% of the time it's not genuine. Also, the way you say "Yeah, all guys want to do is fuck you that's so unfortunate for you" to the hot girls? Yeah, that's awful because your only intention as well is to fuck them, you're just playing silly mind games that they don't fall for. | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 09:55 PM |
| 1 | How can i get a flirtatious mind?Not crossing the "creepy" line isn't usually about what you say, but how you say it. | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 03:22 AM |
| 1 | I simply cannot fucking do it. Beating AA isn't happening for me.Really? In a recent video collab on SimplePickup, somebody asked if SimpleSexyStupid was the replacement for Jason, and they said they'd never replace Jason. I don't know if they meant that in the way that he's gone and there will never be a third guy, or he's on hiatus or something. | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 11:40 PM |
| 5 | I simply cannot fucking do it. Beating AA isn't happening for me.What is it? edit: by the way, I meant "then go" as in, "then go talk to her.", not leave. | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 12:01 AM |
| 1 | What is the main reason all of you follow Seddit?Support and information. I've learned a lot here through the videos I've watched, the books I've read, and the posts. I haven't taken the next, huge, most important step of actually approaching a woman but as I take in more and more knowledge I know I'll reach that step. I stick around because I want to keep learning more and more and hearing more kind words from people that will boost my knowledge of how people will react to what I say. | /r/seduction | 22/02/15 04:41 PM |
| 2 | I've helped 1000s of men with their dating lives... So I created a Udemy course called Dating, Relationship and Conversation Skills For Manly Men and I’ve decided to give it away for FREE to the Seddit communityEnrolled. Will take a look at this tonight or after Tuesday. Thanks for making it free for all of us. :) | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Help with a girl in my grade!Okay man, I'm poor with women, that's why I'm here. I'm the kind of guy that if a girl looks at me, smiles, bites her lip, takes her shirt off, forces me to motorboat her, I wouldn't be able to approach her, but even though that's the way I am, I have the sense to know that if a girl TELLS ME that she likes me, then she likes me. Even through text. Be more of a man, man. Go to her, and talk to her about it. If you guys find it awkward to talk to each other after confessing to each other then you… | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 02:14 AM |
| 3 | I need an opinion on making eye contact with women.This is nice to hear. A lot of girls smile at me while I'm walking. I smile back and keep on fucking walking like a little bitch. Gotta change that somehow. | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 11:27 PM |
| 2 | So Valentines Day is coming up. As a single guy, how can I make the most if it.Braces can be attractive! | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 01:57 AM |
| 1 | I am a guy who is really a social inept and i want to get this area of my life handled any suggestions?I know exactly where you're coming from. I used to be just like you back when I was a little younger. I was 250 pounds and everytime a girl would talk to me, even to ask me for a pencil or something I'd break into a cold sweat and have to think about the response. It was horrible anxiety, but I started to go to the gym daily, I shed all the fat and then I felt much better. A lot more confidence, I could actually speak to people normally without freaking out. What I'm trying to say here is that y… | /r/seduction | 16/01/15 02:18 AM |
| 6 | Dating girls less attractive than yourselfA girl that I fell absolutely in love with was about a 7 in the face and a 5-6 in the body. She was cute, she wasn't my type at all, I thought she was the farthest from it but after hanging out with her, getting attention from her and just having fun with her, being my self with her I definitely had feelings. Still do for about a year now. So to answer your question, yes I can definitely be attracted to girls less attractive than I am. I don't actually consider them "less attractive" because tha… | /r/seduction | 16/01/15 02:05 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys feel about No Fap?Here's my experience with nofap: My record was 23 days, I've never beaten it. (no pun) In those 23 days I noticed significant change but that's because I was extremely shy to begin with. In the middle of the 23 days, I was more energetic and felt like communicating with others more, also my sex drive was high so I would mask my intentions with women way less, I'd get more to the point. Don't get me wrong, it wasn't like "I want to have sex with you", it was just being generally more flirtatious.… | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Firm Handshakes, yay or nay?I don't really feel like it matters. It's a hand shake. She isn't going to be overthinking about it. Think about what to do after you introduce yourself. Hang out for a little while, keep her interested and if it goes well give her a hug or small kiss, or both. | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 06:43 PM |
| 7 | How to escalate on a couch?What I'd do is simply say "What's up? Get over here." | /r/seduction | 07/01/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | What should I do?Be optimistic. You're in a temporary location so you'll probably never see these people again, and you don't know anybody that could judge you. Go hard. | /r/seduction | 03/01/15 02:21 AM |
| 4 | Hooked up with a girl on New Years and I never felt so lonelyWas about to scroll past this but decided to read. This helped me in opening my eyes to some things, even if only a little. | /r/seduction | 03/01/15 01:27 AM |
| 1 | I love seddit and I owe a lot to it, but through my reading and watching I've realized a few things.Not yet. I'm new to the entire thing, but I know that I'm missing out on all of it, and I hope to improve. Just trying to figure out where to start. | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 12:12 AM |
| 2 | I can't seem to shake this...Wanna be my coach? | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 05:40 AM |
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