I have another date this Thursday night. Planning on taking her to a nice little pub to get to know her but the issue is that all the girls I've been with have been pretty aggressive and make the moves. I only go along with it but this girl doesn't seem the type. In our first interaction she said "Girls dig aggressive guys to me." I just replied with "Oh so this isn't aggressive enough?" playfully, and she laughed and said no, so I said "Just put your number in my phone and let's hangout soon." and I got it and set up the date, she's down but I don't know how fast is too fast. I'll probably start the date off with a hug, but the issue is I imagine we're going to be sitting across from one another, so how would I escalate in that scenario? I can hold her hand and observe it, hand reading, whatever, but at what point is escalation too fast? Is holding her hand right after we finish eating and walk out too fast? What are the boundaries I should keep in mind?