I've realized that I'm extremely scared. Of course I'm scared to approach girls, even though I've been hitting the gym for 5 years and am confident in everything about myself physically, I'm still scared and that's a scary realization for me. I'm scared to have fun, is what I've noticed. If I go to a club alone, I'm scared to hit up the dance floor and dance by in a CROWD of people. It's not even justified. I'm simply scared to do the minuscule things I want to do and I don't know why. Is "just do it" the solution for this? It's such a sad realization to see that if I go to ANOTHER COUNTRY and to a club, I'd be too afraid to enjoy myself. I need to fix myself. Any advice?