I've been with 3 girls recently. One of them I was actually exclusively seeing, didn't workout, had oneitis for a few months after. Really fucked me up. Another girl came into my life, we had sex the night we met and saw each other 4 times after. I forgot about the first girl, and had oneitis for this one. After she told me she wasn't looking for anything, I moved on to another girl but I STILL have some oneitis for the previous one, AND this third one. The third one didn't work out. We went on TWO dates. We saw each other TWICE and yet I have oneitis for her and it's constantly making me feel like shit. I'm finding it really hard to meet new girls and I'm in an awful state at the start of this new year. This third girl, she commented on a post on facebook (I unfollowed her because I'm trying to get over this oneitis) and when I saw her name commenting I literally lost my breath a bit. Like what the fuck? Her and I had no chemistry, sure we made out on both dates but in the end we both knew it wouldn't work because conversation wasn't flowing as well as it could have, and we had literally nothing in common so why the fuck do I have so much oneitis for this, and a little bit for the last girl?

I've done everything I can. I know that I need to go out and meet new women but I'm still not over my AA and I have nobody who wants to go approach as well. I tried Badoo and OKC, managed to get a lot of matches, a few numbers from there, I'm going to see where it goes because I have a few dates lined up from those sites, but even so I'm really getting sick of oneitis and how it constantly makes me feel like shit. It makes me FEAR dating new girls because I know I'm going to fall into the same spiral over, and over, and over again. What can a young man do?