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Why you so mad? How can you guarantee something you know nothing about?
/r/seduction25/12/21 04:10 AM
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You're welcome!
/r/seduction28/04/18 06:41 PM
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I actually explain how to do this in the dating section of my book.
/r/seduction28/04/18 06:42 AM
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Opener 1: "Isn't (insert band) great?" Opener 2: Look at her and then say; "I love their music". She'll respond with; "Me too" or why she doesn't like their music which will lead into a conversation. Opener 3: Make a remark on something interesting she's wearing.
/r/seduction28/04/18 03:28 AM
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For item 2; I meant do you have any girl friends that could recommend how you could improve? They don’t have to see you approach. They’ll be able to tell you based on what they think would/wouldn’t work for you.
/r/seduction11/04/18 04:51 AM
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5'8 is short? The average height for women in America is 5'3.
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:35 AM
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Text him to do something outside of your work. He should get the hint.
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:34 AM
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The thing is you have to know when to turn it up and when to turn it down. By it I mean the humor. Instead of just being the dancing-monkey, you have to be able to engage the girl. Ask her questions, see what she's interested in, make comments based on her answers and ask about more. Lower your voice and tonality. Talk closer to her. Kiss her. Does that help? You have to learn how to work both ends of the spectrum; dancing monkey ----------------- serious guy so that you can get what you want. I…
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:32 AM
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First, how do you dress? Are you in shape? Do you have good hygiene? Do you have a good style? I'm asking to see if there's something you can change to create attraction from women. Second, have you asked any of your female friends what you need to work on? Let me know and I'll add in more.
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:27 AM
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Here you go! https://www.authenticsociallife.com/blog/case-study-my-friend-who-s-slept-with-over-a-1-000-women And if you could upvote; https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8be25b/case_study_my_friend_whos_slept_with_over_a_1000/
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:24 AM
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I started on it. I'll leave a comment here when it's finished.
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:14 PM
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Brian Tracy is excellent for business success. Paul Janka is great if you want to learn how to be a player. I love Jack Canfield for overall well-being. Eric Thomas for motivation. Tony Robbins is incredible as well.
/r/seduction09/04/18 01:37 AM
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Having a positive role model or mentor can be hugely impactful to your success. Go to Barnes and Noble and go in their various book sections and find someone that you want to emulate. The person can be living or dead and begin to read that person's material. By studying that person; you'll learn his thought patterns and behavior and can take on those characteristics. By the way, your Dad has mouths to feed so it's easy from the outside looking in to judge him but you should ask him about his chi…
/r/seduction08/04/18 10:52 PM
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Yeah. I have two friends one is the 5'3 one who has been with over a 1,000 and another friend who has to have been with over 500 and is maybe 5'6. I could do a whole write-up on my 5'3 friend.
/r/seduction08/04/18 10:34 PM
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Just be clear in advance; "I'm just looking to have fun. I'm not looking for a relationship." There are lots of girls out there who are looking for the same thing.
/r/seduction08/04/18 06:41 PM
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It's not determined by that. You've come to the incorrect conclusion that your height is the determining factor when it isn't. For example, my friend who is 5'3 has slept with over a 1,000 women. He has more charisma and charm then most people I've ever seen. The taller the woman is the more he wants to bed her. He's dominant, not because of his height, but because of who he is. If you want to be dominant, go for who you want. Build up that habit of assertiveness and confidence. Break that old n…
/r/seduction08/04/18 06:37 PM
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Those guys are idiots and are going to be stuck at their level for basically forever while you're going to keep getting better and better. Props to you for breaking off from them that night and for recognizing the effect they've had on you. Until you find some good friends or a good friend to go out with, I recommend reading good self-improvement books to keep you in a good state.
/r/seduction08/04/18 07:04 AM
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That last line is brilliant.
/r/seduction08/04/18 07:02 AM
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For sure it is. A lot of women find it empowering to take a man's virginity. When you say you're a virgin though say it from a place of power as if you've been saving it for the right person. Lastly, we were all virgins once so don't get too hung up about it.
/r/seduction05/04/18 09:59 PM
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At a certain point in the conversation you have to change your methodology. Lower your voice, ask questions, make comments about her preferences, stand closer, touch more, then kiss. You can't be the comedian the whole time as it'll get draining from you. Also, if you go direct from the beginning she'll know you're interested and then you can joke with her to a degree while she still knows your intent.
/r/seduction05/04/18 09:56 PM
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It's actually really easy to fix. First, make sure you don't ask too many questions in a row so it doesn't come off as an interview. Instead, ask a question, make some comments about your experience with what she's said (or your lack of experience with it) and then ask more open ended questions. Women bridge the gap through talking and she'll feel you have more of a connection. Also, imagine that the woman you're with is the most important person in the world. You'll be more enthusiastic in the …
/r/seduction01/03/18 11:10 PM
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It's not so much about being a "bad-boy" it's that women like excitement and a challenge. Also, the bad-boy stands out and draws attention which the girl might like.
/r/seduction01/03/18 04:37 AM
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Smile. She smiles back. Point at the book and ask; "Any good?" or "How goes the studying?" She'll take her headphones out and tell you. I used this at a Starbucks and the girl left her table and ended up joining me.
/r/seduction01/03/18 04:36 AM
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Yes. first develop a cool look/style that works for you. A lot of being "attractive" for men is having a look that works. Second, make sure your clothes are fitted properly and in season (if it's summer time don't wear a lot of dark colors). Third, get into as good of shape as possible. Fourth, have good hygiene; good smelling breath, white teeth, clean skin, and wear deodorant and some cologne. Fifth, have some type of opener that you've rehearsed at home a bunch of times so that when you say i…
/r/seduction01/03/18 04:33 AM
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My friend is 5'3 and has slept with over 1,000 women. For the guys reading this; height is not the determining factor.
/r/seduction28/02/18 10:02 PM
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When you start smiling it can make fake you feel better ala the James Lange Theory (what you do with your body effects your mind). There's also a Law of Reversability where when you start telling your things like; "I feel great!" even if you're feeling shitty if you keep up at it for about ten minutes your mind will start to change. I would recommend reading stuff on self-improvement and not worry about pick-up right now. You'll feel better about yourself and can come at this from another angle …
/r/seduction28/02/18 09:28 PM
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It's literally a montage of what could take place in any club anywhere and doesn't show anything about Luke. The sad part is that a guy with no skills will think he needs to pay someone to experience that as opposed to just going to that venue.
/r/seduction28/02/18 09:26 PM
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haha I was on my phone so it probably autocorrected. Aeon, do you realize what's happening in this discussion? I'm arguing on your behalf, on behalf of your success, and you're arguing for your limitations. What has your current way of thinking gotten you? What I'm saying I've demonstrated in my own life and in the lives of hundreds of other men. I just reread what you wrote and what I think you have is not a dating issue but more of a self-esteem issue. A good book would be Brian Tracy's The Po…
/r/seduction27/02/18 06:07 PM
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Most guys stand around with their friends at events hoping something will just happen. That's why it's called "getting lucky". They're hoping they'll win the lotto or receive some type of magical prize. Being action oriented and going for who you want is a much better way of succeeding.
/r/seduction27/02/18 04:44 AM
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It always seems that way when you're not with anyone and then when you are you suddenly don't worry about if anyone else is.
/r/seduction27/02/18 04:24 AM
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Damn. Have you tried thicker condoms? Get you some Trojan Magnums as they'll be thicker and might allow you to have less sensation. Also, if it's your gf and she's on birth control you two could raw dog until you build up your stamina.
/r/seduction27/02/18 04:17 AM
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Stop masturbating. If you do masturbate, make it just a physical act and stop flashing lots of images in your mind that make you cum faster. You'll notice that if you masturbate as just a purely physical act you'll last longer. Control your breathing. Relax; take a deep breath. slow down, and take your time. You can also switch positions. If you watch porn, stop it because of item 1. Jack off earlier in the day. You'll be on your second round and last longer.
/r/seduction26/02/18 09:10 PM
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You’re not another disposable male. There has never been someone like you and never will be! You have a unique set of goods that only you can deliver to a woman. With all this online stuff it’s a relief and a huge selling point when a guy knows what to do in person. Give yourself some credit Aaron! You’re not just some fun of the litter man. You’re a guy who wants to meet and connect with women in a good way and there’s for sure a woman out there for you!
/r/seduction26/02/18 07:31 AM
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Yeah, not “catch up” as it’s too friendly but “let’s grab drinks”.
/r/seduction25/02/18 08:37 PM
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“Social status is crucial, you should be well-known, witty, and connected If you don't have that, money is the next best thing‘ This is BS. I’ve been to plenty of places with little to no money and no connections and picked up women. You have value because you exist; not because of your social connections, cash, or status. There are factors you can control and improve; your attire, level of athleticism, diet, social skills, and time spent interacting with women. Focus on those and get strong wit…
/r/seduction25/02/18 06:39 PM
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Remember that most already know you’re interested especially if you’re both single. “I have to go to class (or work). Let’s get together soon. What’s your number?” Then only one or two texts and set up the date. Does that help?
/r/seduction24/02/18 04:30 AM
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That should be sufficient then. I thought you weren’t asking for the date at all.
/r/seduction24/02/18 12:55 AM
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You never know what you could do to make a girl think you’re not compatible. I was talking to this girl for a few weeks and she sent me a personality test while I was at work. I didn’t respond to it because I was at work and she got upset and blocked me from Snapchat and Instagram. To me it wasn’t important while to her it represented how I ignore her and how she’s not important.
/r/seduction24/02/18 12:02 AM
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Brian Tracy has one of my favorite quotes that I think applies to this. He says; “Everything helps or everything hurts but everything counts.” Looks are a factor; are they the determining factor? For some they might be for others they might not be. Also, this is one area not a lot of guys might’ve considered but it might be a factor for you! For example, when I look really good then I feel really good which causes me to take better actions and get better results. So for no other sake than my own…
/r/seduction23/02/18 11:44 PM
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Be more direct. The indirect way isn't doing them or you any favors.
/r/seduction23/02/18 11:32 PM
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Work on small things you can control: 1) Don't ask too many questions in a row. Ask a question and then make some responses based on what she says. 2) Keep it brief if it's during the day. You don't have to have a ten minute conversation with her. Talk, tell her you have to run as you have to get to work or whatever your pre-made excuse is and ask her out. 3) Practice improv. Communication skills are a skill like any other that you must practice. Practice improvisation meaning you pick a subject…
/r/seduction17/10/16 04:48 AM
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Just about all of my close friends have been with 100+ women. One thing that all of them have in common that I haven't seen posted on this topic is that they all have a system in place for women. All of my friends have some type of system for meeting women and then sleeping with them. In fact, everyone has a system whether they realize it or not. Some people's systems are highly effective while others aren't. The main thing to ask yourself is; what is your system? Where are you meeting the women…
/r/seduction07/06/16 11:25 PM
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Thank you for the kind words! I'm really glad this writing has to continued to people. I also have some other posts on here and my site www.authenticsociallife.com that could help you.
/r/seduction14/04/16 06:24 AM
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Be witty in your texts. Tease her. She won't be able to handle it.
/r/seduction30/03/16 04:47 AM
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I went through this early on in my life. As you meet more women and interact with them more and see how many value you, your perception of yourself will change. And you're not giving yourself enough credit and overplaying the accomplishments of others. You were able to sleep with a good looking woman on the first date and the other guy was not able to even get her out. I want you to do the following, list at least five things you've achieved in life. And every day I want you to add to this list …
/r/seduction30/03/16 04:40 AM
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A lot of guys here are very VERY new to pick up and so when they see someone doing anything like approach a woman they assume the person is great.
/r/seduction10/01/16 10:06 AM
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Dress well so you stand out. Getting her interested in you without saying anything yet really helps. Talk to women. You're there to hustle so do it. Isolate. Get her alone so you can see if you two have a connection. Qualify. See which are going to go home with you and which aren't. Number close those who won't and go for those who will.
/r/seduction08/01/16 01:05 AM
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I liked The Grove mall and Beverly Center. For downtown day game I would walk around near FIDM and pull women from there as well as USC campus. There's certain clubs in downtown that go off and are primarily Asian but I don't remember the names. This Asian girl I knew use to invite me.
/r/seduction07/01/16 07:06 PM
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All great places!
/r/seduction07/01/16 07:04 PM
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Go to The Grove or Beverly Center any day of the week. There's also the shops near FIDM in downtown, 3rd St, Beverly Hills, and all the college campuses. Now you have plenty of places.
/r/seduction07/01/16 07:03 PM
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I've picked up models and celebs and I did it by being authentic. If I thought she looked good, I told her that, not to impress her but that's how I felt. Others I have gone indirect and made a joke or comment about something. Do what feels best to you at the moment. Don't worry about how many likes they have. The thing with a lot of these women is that a lot of guys don't approach them. They get so intimidated by how hot or beautiful they are so they stay away. Go for them.
/r/seduction07/01/16 07:02 AM
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I like to go to Del Mar or Little Italy.
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:43 AM
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As a former LA resident I second this. Nothing beats certain parts of West LA; models, celebs, gorgeous every day women, Yoga girls, it crushes even the best college campus. Miami would also be my other choice.
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:42 AM
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Glad you enjoy it and good to see someone else applying it. It works so good!
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:40 AM
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As someone who used to go regularly cliff jumping, I approve of this post.
/r/seduction04/01/16 06:39 AM
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Glad to help. People who have their lives together won't pester you about this. And first it was annoying but as you get use to saying no about this, your conviction about it becomes firm so people leave you alone about it.
/r/seduction03/01/16 01:56 AM
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As you go out with more women that feeling will still be there but its impact will be lessened. It's like AA, you have it but you can move past it now. The same thing will happen with that feeling. At first when you're new one woman is your whole source of sex and pleasure in this area. Then you start dating more and you realize that there are lots more women out there. Then even if you meet a 10 and it doesn't work out, you still don't stress as you know there are other 10s out there. It's like…
/r/seduction02/01/16 10:54 PM
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You don't need to justify it; just be firm with it: You: "I don't drink." Them: "You never drink?" You: "No, I don't enjoy it." Usually they will leave you alone at that point. You could also say you're driving or get a small glass and have it filled with cranberry juice, that way you have something to sip on and it looks like you have a drink. The people who are urging you to drink when you don't want to are usually dipshits you don't want to be around anyway.
/r/seduction02/01/16 10:49 PM
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No, what I mean is sometimes you'll approach a woman and it won't be the best interaction. The energy will be low and you won't really be feeling it. For example, my friends and I were talking to this group of women but I was just there to support my friends, I wasn't really interested in the group of women. As we were talking, I saw one of the best looking women I've ever seen walk by. I politely excused myself and went and got the number of the other woman. She and I ended up becoming very clo…
/r/seduction02/01/16 10:47 PM
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I don't drink when I go out. I practiced enough until it was no longer necessary. If you can't handle your booze, don't drink. And just because you're around people who do drink doesn't mean you have to.
/r/seduction02/01/16 08:19 AM
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Throw that limiting bullshit out the window. If she's interested, go for it. You can use her sorority as a talking point if it help the conversation along. Don't accept any idea that hinders your progress.
/r/seduction02/01/16 08:18 AM
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The average age in Europe to be married now I believe is 34. Lots of people are waiting till later in life. There's great and shitty women at every age.
/r/seduction02/01/16 08:11 AM
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My friend who is 6'6 is one of the biggest players I know. Think of it as a super advantage. People are literally looking up to you to talk to you. Women see you as strong.
/r/seduction01/01/16 09:30 PM
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Awesome, thank you for the in-depth response!
/r/seduction01/01/16 09:08 PM
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Good post. These are social skills guys are learning.
/r/seduction01/01/16 07:29 PM
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Set some goals both large and small. Start putting yourself in social situations; they can be challenging and easy but more then you have before. Sign up for Meetups, schedule things with friends, do daygame, push yourself more this year. Get in shape and make fashion your friend. These are factors you can control. Control them and make them work for you.
/r/seduction01/01/16 07:22 PM
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Hello!
/r/seduction01/01/16 06:20 PM
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Congrats man!
/r/seduction01/01/16 06:19 PM
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If his ass can get white girls, you can too! I use to think the same thing about white guys until I started approaching lots of white women and saw how responsive they were to me. There are white guys that get accepted and ones that get rejected, the race isn't the differentiating factor. The only thing that could stop you is if you have a heavy accent. Do you have one? And my Indian friends are PLAYERS!!!!!!!! Super good with any type of woman. Think that women like you, are receptive to you, a…
/r/seduction01/01/16 09:45 AM
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Thank you and Happy New Year!
/r/seduction01/01/16 09:38 AM
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Yes! The way I say it in person implies ithis (us talking close, rapport established, arm around her waist or holding her hands about to pull her in(.
/r/seduction01/01/16 05:40 AM
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Oh! Hence the name "Alyssa says so". Thanks for your input. It's always good to hear from women on this sub.
/r/seduction01/01/16 05:39 AM
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I posted that video as that's me in the video. I was comparing our "darkness". If you can, film an interaction with them and PM me it. I'd be happy to review it How do you with others as opposed to them?
/r/seduction01/01/16 03:29 AM
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Browner then me?
/r/seduction01/01/16 03:24 AM
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You're welcome!
/r/seduction01/01/16 03:22 AM
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What is your race?
/r/seduction01/01/16 03:22 AM
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"I didn't feel like being around lots of drunk crazy people. I wanted to stay in and relax and start the New Year in a good vibe."
/r/seduction01/01/16 03:21 AM
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haha "That was a good kiss. Have a good year." You can use the second line if you're conversing with a woman after the countdown and want to escalate.
/r/seduction01/01/16 03:20 AM
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Well, make the most of it. If you go out, tell her; "I'm not a big drinker" and just sip your drink. This is what I do and she'll drink her drink(s) and we'll still have fun. I just take them to a cool place to make up for my lack of drinking. I'll have maybe half a drink or one and she'll have two or three and we'll move on with our night.
/r/seduction01/01/16 03:01 AM
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That could be it. Everyone over her loves Yoga and that kind of stuff. Have you tried internet dating? You would be most women's dream guy as those online are not trying to meet a guy who wants to go to a club.
/r/seduction01/01/16 02:58 AM
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Where do you live? When I lived in Los Angeles I would have women going with me to Yoga practically every day. I also regularly take women to boxing with me (maybe one a week).
/r/seduction01/01/16 02:55 AM
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When it's not flowing good or you see someone you might be a better fit with. For example, you meet a girl, the interaction is so-so but you see someone else that would have been a better fit for you had you seen her first. Politely excuse yourself and go get her.
/r/seduction01/01/16 02:51 AM
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I wrote two guides on texting that should help you with this: http://www.authenticsociallife.com/blog/category/guides
/r/seduction01/01/16 02:50 AM
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Set up your structure differently. First date, something you like. Second date can be sushi. Third date can be Yoga. Fourth date can be a hike. Create a system that you like but is also exciting.
/r/seduction01/01/16 02:49 AM
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What kind of camera do you use? Your videos look really good.
/r/seduction01/01/16 02:46 AM
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"Let me give you your first kiss of 2016." or "Let me give you your last kiss of 2015."
/r/seduction01/01/16 02:45 AM
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I regularly date blondes and I'm middle-eastern. I would tell my students; "If it's an issue for you, it's an issue for them." Meaning if you feel weird about your race, height, status, etc. women will pick up on that. If you don't, it's usually not an issue or one that's easily overcome. One of my Nigerian friends does great with all different types of women. He connects with PEOPLE who just happen to be of different races. He's cool, funny, good looking, and dresses incredibly well. Pretty muc…
/r/seduction01/01/16 02:45 AM
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There's nothing wrong with an overweight woman if that was your level and what you liked. These guys were doing this because it was what they were told to do and told me they really didn't want to but that's how they told you build confidence. I told them if they don't want to then don't, talk to who you like.
/r/seduction25/12/15 01:41 AM
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Didn't I say I met him and have met some of his students? I've seen students of his say things like"Fuck a fatty", "Even if she's ugly, fuck her" and things of that nature that they said they were taught at RSD such as to "plow" even if they didn't find the women attractive. Women were just numbers to them, nothing more. Is that shallow enough for you? Just do a quick Google search on him and see what pops up.
/r/seduction23/12/15 10:10 PM
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I think any guy can improve if he wants to. I've met some of his students and they were odd. They would say things like; "Fuck a fatty", "Even if she's ugly, fuck her" and things of that nature.
/r/seduction23/12/15 10:07 PM
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Lol glad to hear it Meetup.com has actual groups that get together in LA and some of them are good. On the Simple Pickup Forums "Find a Wingman" section if you post there you should meet some cool peeps. A group of us use to get together every weekend when I lived in LA. Hope that helps!
/r/seduction22/12/15 10:28 PM
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There's Big Wangs which is a good place along with the Hooters on Hollywood and the BWWs nearby.
/r/seduction22/12/15 10:03 PM
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Actually there are lots of people who stay friends with people who both talk about them behind their backs and make fun of them in person. It's posted on this forum quite frequently. The two points I mentioned are the top two points people usually bring up; "My friend makes fun of me when other people are around." or "My friend says bad things about me when I'm not around." It's on here a lot.
/r/seduction22/12/15 07:53 PM
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He's a weirdo and produces weirdos. I've met him and his students before and they are weird guys. Just look at Julien. He looks like a mess and was kicked out of Australia. For those who don't know what I'm talking about
/r/seduction22/12/15 07:37 PM
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Do it, it will only help.
/r/seduction22/12/15 05:11 AM
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I do both. Why would this put out a desperate vibe? Guys do it at night because it's socially acceptable to them. I do it because I enjoy and live in an area with lots of women I enjoy interacting with.
/r/seduction21/12/15 07:09 PM
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What do you enjoy doing? It'll have value because it means something to you. What do you want to learn?
/r/seduction21/12/15 07:08 PM
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Try the blurt method, as soon as you see a woman you like you have to blurt out the first thing that pops into your head.
/r/seduction21/12/15 08:44 AM
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Good advice for the guys here; upvoted.
/r/seduction21/12/15 08:41 AM
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Great quote!!! Very powerful.
/r/seduction20/12/15 10:40 PM
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It could be that's why I didn't mention it. I didn't want to put down something that might be a legit limitation. With that said though, if other people with autism have found partners, then there is the possibility you can too. Youtube "autism dating" and see all the videos that come up.
/r/seduction20/12/15 06:44 AM
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No, it's the truth. He probably slept with around 150 women or more (he was pulling at least 1-3 women a week every week) in the 3 years we hung out and had been averaging at least one a week for 15 years. And the rest of your post is great.
/r/seduction20/12/15 04:27 AM
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Go to a high end clothing store like Nordstrom's and sample their collection until you find one you like. They have a whole section that is open with testers that you can try at your leisure.
/r/seduction19/12/15 09:25 PM
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Depends on who the girl is. Some I want to do it with and others I don't.
/r/seduction19/12/15 09:15 PM
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If you just want to hook up; focus on the variables you can control; fashion, exercise, talking to women online, having a good profile and photo. If you hate women, it's going to come through in all your interactions with them. I would recommend working on yourself for some time; meditate, get hobbies, read self-improvement stuff, do affirmations, build up your self-belief and confidence and then go meet women. Have you read any books for people with autism connecting with others? https://www.yo…
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:00 PM
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You're welcome. Try it for a week and see. And all you have to do is touch your forearm in the same spot whenever you feel "pumped up"/really good. It's easy to do.
/r/seduction18/12/15 10:09 AM
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I didn't know this sub existed, thanks.
/r/seduction18/12/15 10:08 AM
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hahaha good advice!
/r/seduction17/12/15 08:25 PM
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Where in the world are you? So basically, you have a belief backed by the culture you're in that it's okay to talk to coworkers but no okay to talk to strangers. Are there any instances where it could be okay to talk to strangers? Also, are there places you could go that it would be acceptable to talk to strangers? Bars? Clubs? Do you have anyone say a buddy who is good with women that could take you out with him? What about the other videos? How to Overcome Approach Anxiety or How to Be Confide…
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:18 PM
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Thank God. There are people who have called me about these videos thinking it is real.
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:14 PM
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5'10 so not that much taller.
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:13 PM
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3some!!! Take them both out for drinks and make this happen!
/r/seduction17/12/15 09:53 AM
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They're all hired girls. I would like to do a video like that but at the end tell everyone; "Don't believe everything you see on Youtube!"
/r/seduction17/12/15 09:35 AM
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I just Googled "average height for women in the US" and it's 5'5. Don't let your height hold you up. I've dated lots of tall women, you can too! Let your charm and suave make up for anything you think you might be missing in height.
/r/seduction17/12/15 09:31 AM
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To be honest, I don't really think it's an issue. It's only an issue if you make it an issue. One of my good friends and early mentors is 5'3 and has slept with around 1,000 women and some of them were TALL. He use to wear these shoes that would give him a couple of inches so he looked taller. If you get shoes that add some height, you'll be about 5'8. In reality though, don't sweat it. The average height of women I believe is 5'3 in the US.
/r/seduction17/12/15 09:23 AM
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Your Older Brother's Guide to Dating. I wrote it, if you're not happy with it, I'll give you your money back. The Way of the Superior Man is also good as is Paul Janka's Attraction Formula.
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:34 AM
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Do lots of daygame, get lots of numbers, invite all of them over to your place.
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:33 AM
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This is a really good idea.
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:32 AM
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There's no "rule" for it. Do it with or without; whatever works best for you.
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:31 AM
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Glad to help!
/r/seduction17/12/15 05:34 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction17/12/15 05:34 AM
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I meant as long as he keeps re-anchoring it with positive things.
/r/seduction17/12/15 05:34 AM
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For the chill part, ask some questions or make some comments about her. Or take an interest in her; "What made you decide to do that?" There's playful bantering and then there's this. Most PUA stuff does the first part without realizing the importance of the other half. Does this help?
/r/seduction17/12/15 03:48 AM
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The term is called "anchoring" where you anchor a specific tone, memory, or feeling to a part of your body. It is a way to put yourself into a certain state at will. Does that help?
/r/seduction17/12/15 03:45 AM
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I don't think so as long as you're consistently anchoring that area with something good. Try it out.
/r/seduction17/12/15 03:44 AM
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Thanks dude!
/r/seduction17/12/15 03:44 AM
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Do it. it works! And thanks for the kind words.
/r/seduction17/12/15 03:43 AM
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hahahhahahaha great eye.
/r/seduction17/12/15 03:39 AM
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Schedule time to interact with women or do it while you are walking through campus, grocery shopping, etc... Think of it as something you have to do just like you have to exercise consistently.
/r/seduction16/12/15 09:21 PM
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First, you're not a piece of shit. You're a person who's experienced some setbacks and are letting them effect your confidence. You're also a person who's experienced some successes without realizing it; have a job, are seeking help for this area. and have had dates. Second. do this exercise on the Pain-Pleasure principle: https://youtu.be/_PXgS1kWi_E?t=462 You've associated too much pain to interacting with women and not enough pleasure to it. Third, every time you leave the gym "anchor" that f…
/r/seduction16/12/15 09:20 PM
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If you can get 23 makeouts, you can get laid as much as you like. You've mastered being high energy, now master the other end of the spectrum (being more serious) so you know how to build it up and bring it down when necessary. And at high school be more chill and ease your way into new groups and with women as you're going to be seeing them all the time.
/r/seduction16/12/15 09:02 PM
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Get shoes that add inches to your height.
/r/seduction16/12/15 08:57 PM
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https://youtu.be/0jlcRz19tfY?t=420 Let me know if this helps you
/r/seduction16/12/15 08:55 PM
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It's all good, we've all been there. If you like, feel free to PM me and I'll send you a copy of my e-book to help you out.
/r/seduction16/12/15 06:05 AM
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That freaking awesome! Congrats!!!
/r/seduction15/12/15 07:13 AM
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If you have a legit condition such as autism, I would highly recommend seeing a professional. And you're not worthless garbage, I'm sure you have plenty to offer. Having coached so many guys, I've seen a common trend for guys to devalue themselves while overvaluing a woman. You both have equal value. No one has a higher value then you. There are lots of women who might want to meet a good guy like you.
/r/seduction15/12/15 07:13 AM
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If she's not in your department, go for it.
/r/seduction14/12/15 07:32 PM
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If you're in your 30s, you have time. The average age in Europe to be married I believe is 35 now. Remember, the only one putting the urgency on you is you, so take a breath and relax. You have plenty of time. Have you ever used online dating? I don't mean POF, I mean Match.com. I ask because my friend met his wife on there and this might be a way to meet someone who is looking for something more serious. And by Meetups I mean for men to improve their game. A lot of the guys might be awkward but…
/r/seduction14/12/15 07:32 PM
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Start small and being decisive and assertive on little things you want. You want turkey instead of ham, get turkey. You want a green notebook instead of a blue one, do it. This will get you in the habit of doing it for larger items. Here are some resources that might help you: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3uw3rp/selfimprovement_free_hypnosis_subliminals/
/r/seduction12/12/15 08:05 AM
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I've actually worked with men in their mid-40s and had success with them so if you're anything younger then that, you still have time. Regarding fashion, there's comfortable and cool, and there's comfortable and uncool. It's all about how you match it up and if you throw in any accessories to it. Also, you can be comfortable at home and dress yourself up when you go out to meet women. I would need to see the outfit to get a better idea. Any easy thing to do would be to Google "men's fashion" or …
/r/seduction12/12/15 07:24 AM
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You're welcome my friend. I just got back into the game myself so be kind to yourself as you get back in your groove.
/r/seduction12/12/15 07:20 AM
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"When did they start hiring cute girls here?"
/r/seduction12/12/15 03:34 AM
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You don't know what you're talking about! JK :) Good stuff. There's a great video by Goodlooking Loser that shows him out on a night and going up to girl after girl after girl until it happens. Also, when you do more sets, you tend to be more comfortable in interactions and can stay in them longer as opposed to guys who eject too early.
/r/seduction12/12/15 03:34 AM
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Good way to stay undercover.
/r/seduction12/12/15 03:31 AM
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Very nice.
/r/seduction11/12/15 09:27 PM
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Go direct and talk slow and sexy to her; "Damn, you look fine."
/r/seduction11/12/15 09:27 PM
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[Authentic Social Life] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUslJB1JrYXhen86oNWfXHg)
/r/seduction11/12/15 07:58 PM
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Well that's because you keep talking in a bad British accent.
/r/seduction11/12/15 06:41 PM
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Glad to help. I use to invite women straight over to my place for the first date and if they didn't say yes, they would usually they would say one of those two things. I would write what I wrote and they'd come by.
/r/seduction11/12/15 06:40 PM
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The one that I made I actually sell. For some great free ones along with some free affirmation tracks and subliminals; click here
/r/seduction11/12/15 09:46 AM
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What do you look like? How do you dress? How do you stand? Do you take up space? How loud or quiet do you talk? Do you make eye contact? Smile?
/r/seduction11/12/15 06:23 AM
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I've literally taken guys who are in their mid-20s and never held a girl's hand and turned them into confident men who felt they had value and are now in relationships. Mindset - I would have them listen to a hypnosis track I made once a day to eliminate their limiting beliefs and transform their self-image. I would also have them do affirmations and take them through guided visualizations to reprogram their subconscious. Hygiene - Whiten their teeth, groom themselves right, tan. Fashion - I wou…
/r/seduction11/12/15 06:21 AM
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I would cut out one hour of video games daily and instead use that to exercise. For exercise you could lift weights or do a martial art. You'll get in shape, look better, and your confidence will improve. Second, spend a couple minutes every day visualizing your the life you would like. See yourself hanging out with good looking women, them laughing at your jokes, people high-fiving you, and anything else you would like. The mind is a powerful thing. If you start showing it image of you being su…
/r/seduction11/12/15 05:55 AM
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You don't sound boring. You sound like you have a pretty interesting life if you phrase it the right way. You have to set up a system for your dates that works for you. Where do you meet then? Where do you take them to? How can you get them back to your place? What is your current system? Also, that "edge" that players has comes with repeated practice. As you gain more experience that innocent factor will diminish.
/r/seduction11/12/15 05:46 AM
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When she says; "but I hardly know you" you repeat EVERYTHING you told her in person; "I'm KingoftheCastle94. I go to school at (insert school). I study (whatever you study). I play the guitar. I box." List everything. If she says "but you hardly know me" say "You're Kristen, a nurse from San Francisco, who loves painting, moved here two months ago, and lives with her cat Chester." Most guys don't pay attention to what a woman says or what took place in the conversation. When you use one of those…
/r/seduction11/12/15 03:05 AM
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The show wasn't that bad. There were parts that made me cringe but it did do a good job overall showing why guys get into this and the transformation that takes place for them. It also did a good job of showing that the guys who are into pick up aren't sleaze balls.
/r/seduction10/12/15 03:04 AM
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If you create it I will be a poster there. Sounds cool.
/r/seduction10/12/15 01:42 AM
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Thanks for posting this. I wonder how they found Vince. Vince's wife is like a female clone of him.
/r/seduction10/12/15 01:29 AM
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Get there in advance and get a good table. What would be an example of a smaller booth?
/r/seduction09/12/15 09:41 PM
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Sit in the booth next to her. It's called a "shared point of view". She and you are now experiencing something together and you can also touch each other.
/r/seduction09/12/15 09:24 PM
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Those are great friends. And I would also say in like fashion, that those who laugh at your difficulties or say "I didn't think you could do it" when you do something good are not good friends.
/r/seduction09/12/15 08:50 PM
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I just published blog post about this in case it helps you.
/r/seduction09/12/15 08:49 PM
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Guide for the New And check out my channel. I have videos on how to start a conversation, keep it going, overcoming approach anxiety, and how to know if she's interested in you. This will get your foundation right.
/r/seduction09/12/15 06:11 AM
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Glad to help!
/r/seduction09/12/15 06:04 AM
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Imagine if you had ten women at home waiting to blow you, how laid back would you be in your conversations? Or imagine that you weren't trying to get with her, you were just talking to her as friend, how would you act? And what's your definition of success? Can you lower it a bit so that it doesn't cause stress but instead boosts you up? Also, check out my thread on self-improvement resources as it might have some stuff to help build your confidence: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3…
/r/seduction09/12/15 06:04 AM
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Look at what they're wearing, what are they studying, is she a mix of ethnicities, what drew you to her in the first place?
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:23 PM
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Well, on a positive note, it does seem like you are working on your game which is good.
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:20 PM
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Awesome! Feel free to let me know how it goes.
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:20 PM
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For 1) Check out this video For 2) Whatever was relevant to the conversation. Did you give her a nickname? Did she have something she really likes? Was she some Yoga super star? Did she have something unique that stood out about her? Was there something that was a key point in your conversation? For example with the gym girl, I just texted her what was relevant to our conversation. For the girl who liked to be in the sun all day, I called her Sunflower and wrote something about her being in the …
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:17 PM
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You're welcome! Yeah, it's like you were being two different people. One this super cool laid back guy, the other this overly attached guy. Don't sweat it though, this is part of the growth process and it'll be less likely to happen with the next woman you're with.
/r/seduction08/12/15 07:34 PM
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Good stuff! It reminds me of my friend who is a 5'1 or 5'3 and gets girls: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zjDe9VoBDs&list=PLkEGP9PWbKEOLkV3rbFeZRO8HE7GfAz-Z&index=19
/r/seduction08/12/15 06:58 PM
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Have more women in your life. It reduces the impact of one. For example, if I have only one woman in my life, she is the total source of my sexual pleasure. If I have five, even if I'm seeing only one but have four potentials, if the one I'm seeing leaves, her impact is greatly reduced by the other women around me. Also, as you get better at this and see it's not the end of the world and that there are lots more women out there, you get less attached to each one. And your happiness should come f…
/r/seduction08/12/15 06:56 PM
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Yup, it takes out any worry about if I put it in right. Just be sure to save it after you're done.
/r/seduction08/12/15 06:53 PM
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It seems like you did the right thing. If she didn't seem interested, you trusted your gut and stopped and when you found someone who was interested, you continued. You could always reopen the girl when you see her the next time.
/r/seduction08/12/15 07:15 AM
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Film yourself and PM me the video and I'll be happy to take a look at what you're doing wrong. Are you asking too many questions? Too invested? Leaning too forward? How do you dress?
/r/seduction08/12/15 07:12 AM
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Not true. The more attractive you are the less work you have to do. Think of a super hot woman, like the hottest woman you can think of. She probably wouldn't have to do much to get with you. The same concept applies to women.
/r/seduction08/12/15 07:10 AM
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Please read parts 1 and 2: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3vur6x/texting_102_turning_flakes_into_dates/
/r/seduction08/12/15 07:09 AM
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Too bad. Don't stress. There have been LOTS of time I have put a woman's number in my phone wrong so I have them enter it from now on.
/r/seduction08/12/15 07:09 AM
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You're predicting the future in a negative fashion. The truth is you don't know what'll happen. Take the chance. At worst, she says no. At best, she says yes. Your world will keep on turning. She also liked your picture so the odds are in your favor. Go for her!!!
/r/seduction08/12/15 07:06 AM
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There was someone on here recently that was telling me about how good he was doing even though he has mild asperger's. Don't let anything limit you. There are women out there with their own issues who might want to be with you.
/r/seduction08/12/15 07:04 AM
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I will do that next, thanks! Sorry for not messaging you this. I told myself a bunch of times to remember to do it but forgot.
/r/seduction08/12/15 05:17 AM
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Thanks man! I appreciate the kind words.
/r/seduction08/12/15 04:41 AM
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Great stuff.
/r/seduction08/12/15 02:17 AM
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haha! Glad to hear it!
/r/seduction08/12/15 01:31 AM
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Thanks man! Inner game is to me the most important aspect of pick up so I'm glad that came through in the writing.
/r/seduction08/12/15 01:31 AM
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I made a video on this in case it helps you; "How to Overcome Approach Anxiety"
/r/seduction07/12/15 02:25 AM
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Join your local lair (see sidebar) or Meetup group that deals with this. Take a comedy improv class. What are you interested in? Spend time with different people. What do you read/watch? Read books and watch videos by people who have the life you want. Write out what type of life you would like to have in the present tense; "I am..." and read it to yourself daily. This will influence your subconscious to go and create this type of life for you.
/r/seduction07/12/15 02:14 AM
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Blessed is his name.
/r/seduction07/12/15 02:12 AM
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I forgot to include The Brain Garage He has excellent affirmation tracks.
/r/seduction06/12/15 11:11 PM
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There's nothing wrong with getting psychiatric help. People go to a personal trainer to get into physical shape, why not hire someone to do the same for your mind? I think everyone could use a little therapy. "I think I try very hard when I'm out to find someone and make that connection, but I slide into just casual conversation, and if I try too hard it will probably show, and I'm not going to chase someone when their interest falters." Talk about things you want to talk about that way the conv…
/r/seduction06/12/15 10:48 PM
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Muay Thai, boxing, Jiu Jitsu, MMA, cross fit.
/r/seduction06/12/15 10:44 PM
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Thanks Tony.
/r/seduction06/12/15 10:44 PM
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Example; I'm at a restaurant and every time the waitress would come by I would joke with her. This continued and our interactions got longer and longer. I was only in her city for that night and told her that and said let's grab a drink when she gets off work. Her shift ended at 1 so she came by for some wine at my friend's place and we got down to it. The fact that the scarcity was built in helped. Another example from one of my friend's recently. He and two married buddies go to a sports bar, …
/r/seduction06/12/15 06:18 AM
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Why do you assume she's being bothered? Maybe she enjoyed her interaction with him? It's important to understand the difference between politeness and attraction but it's also important not to limit yourself. A woman working can be turned on just like one who's not.
/r/seduction06/12/15 06:13 AM
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Thanks and don't limit what you can do with texting to just scheduling meetups.You can use it to escalate sexually sometimes even bypassing the need for a "date" and can use it to create attraction if your first interaction wasn't the best.
/r/seduction06/12/15 06:07 AM
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This is good advice.
/r/seduction06/12/15 02:13 AM
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These are limiting beliefs and you can create your life so these things don't happen. Set up a good work schedule, go to upscale bars and clubs where the girl to guy ratio is really good, network and meet great people, and surround yourself with people with similar interests as you. I've done it as have my friends. You're only 22 when you graduate, life should be way better.
/r/seduction06/12/15 02:12 AM
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Texting 101: A Guide to Turn Texts into Dates
/r/seduction05/12/15 10:40 PM
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It's WAY easier after college. You now have your nights free and the disposable income to do whatever you want. Your life should improve with time, not get worse.
/r/seduction05/12/15 10:39 PM
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Are you kidding? Myself and my friends have literally taken waitresses home after their shifts ended. Don't impose any limitations on yourself. You might think differently after you pick up your first waitress.
/r/seduction05/12/15 10:27 PM
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No, it makes your chest stick out. Try it right now. I had a video where I explained it better but I don't know where it is.
/r/seduction05/12/15 09:16 PM
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Good job going for her. Dont listen to the guys on this thread who say you can't get a girl's number that's working, that's just nonsense.
/r/seduction05/12/15 07:54 PM
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You invited her to something too comforting. She sounds like she wants an adventure; "My friends and I were trying to drink tonight". She wants to party and hook up. Creed sounds more like a couple thing to do.
/r/seduction05/12/15 07:51 PM
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Take your fingers and hook them in your back pockets. That'll stop you from fidgeting when you talk to a woman. Once you become more relaxed in the conversation, you can take them out.
/r/seduction05/12/15 07:45 PM
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I did good in college and in high school and even better afterwards. I just increased the amount of work I was doing in this area (added in daygame, approached more, invited women straight over to my place).
/r/seduction05/12/15 08:33 AM
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Talking to girls on campus is easy, especially if you go to a big school. You don't need to have a social circle to do it and you don't want to rely on that. For example, what if a cute girl walks by you, you want to be able to approach her then without having to rely on someone to introduce you. Also, most college girls are looking for fun, for an adventure, and are cool to being approached. You don't need a library or bar, you just need girls.
/r/seduction05/12/15 12:23 AM
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haha thank you. In our first year together he probably had sex with around 40-60 women. He had at least one a week, usually more. He had been doing that for almost 20 years. He just got engaged though.
/r/seduction04/12/15 08:31 PM
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Thank you! It got a lot of downvotes whereas my usual stuff goes straight to the top so I wasn't sure if people liked it.
/r/seduction04/12/15 08:28 PM
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Good stuff!
/r/seduction04/12/15 08:28 PM
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Hello! Regarding your items For item 1. Let your good emotions come up, when those bad emotions seem to come up, first take a deep breath. Relax yourself. Realize that those bad emotions is just your mind's way of trying to keep you safe. As you have more interactions with women, that voice and it's power will begin to diminish as your confidence grows. It reminds me of when I would first spar in boxing. I would get super nervous before each sparring session but after a while I began to actually…
/r/seduction04/12/15 08:27 PM
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That sums it up. I remember going in there thinking it was going to be this great place with lots of experienced guys talking about what works. I couldn't get out of there fast enough.
/r/seduction04/12/15 09:04 AM
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I just wrote a guide for new people in case it helps you: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3vczyt/a_guide_for_the_new_the_right_mindset_and/
/r/seduction04/12/15 06:55 AM
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Sit next to her. It's not awkward at all. From a blog post I wrote some time back: First, I want to give credit to NY pickup artist Paul Janka for this excellent idea I am about to discuss. When on a date; (1st date, 2nd date, instadate, any date), be sure to sit NEXT to your date, not across from her. When you sit next to your date it provides you with a shared point of view. The two of you are experiencing something together. However, when you sit across from her, this splits the energy of you…
/r/seduction04/12/15 06:08 AM
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I have something in this video that can help you, please do the exercise and also watch the next section on state control.
/r/seduction04/12/15 06:04 AM
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Hey JDPM, Thank you for the kind words! Yeah, number 14 frees me up to try different ways to see what works. For toxins,I mean things that are harmful to one's body, be it from the air, food, or things we drink. For example, a lot of guys I would teach bootcamps to would drink on the weekend or many of them would eat massive amounts of junk food during the lunch break. When I would ask them about their diet, they would tell me that they don't pay attention to what they eat and many of them would…
/r/seduction04/12/15 05:59 AM
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There's a few from that place that follow me around on Reddit and leave nasty comments in anything I write and downvote anything I post (even comments in other people's threads). What I say is true though for many of them. For example, here is the title of a recent thread that was started in there: "Women are an amalgamation of popular culture: or why they offer nothing of value aside from their pussies."
/r/seduction04/12/15 05:54 AM
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Here you go: "10 Ways to Start a Conversation with a Woman"
/r/seduction04/12/15 02:04 AM
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One is filled with great advice and one is filled with guys that hate women.
/r/seduction04/12/15 02:03 AM
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Good stuff and Emerson is the man; "Do the thing and you shall have the power." I translate this to pickup because if you go out you'll get good at it. Good write-up.
/r/seduction03/12/15 11:03 PM
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First, looks aren't as key a figure to women as they are to men. Second, most guys undervalue themselves while over-estimating a woman. Third, you can do things to improve your looks and fashion. Fourth, women tend to look at men as a more comprehensive hole. You don't have to be as physically attractive as she is if you have other factors to compensate for it. Fifth, if she makes your dick move, go for her. Keep it simple.
/r/seduction03/12/15 11:01 PM
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Get those shoes that add a few inches to your height. I wouldn't sweat your height. My friend who is 5'3 has been with around 1,000 women and would consistently pull these really tall women.
/r/seduction03/12/15 11:55 AM
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Using "net time" where instead of going out specifically to do your daygame, you do it when you're out doing regular things. Your game will get really good really fast and your self-esteem will also build. Most guys see all these women they want to talk to during the week and don't which I believe hurts their self-esteem and then are all amped up on the weekend when they believe it's okay for them to approach. The importance of consistency. You work out regularly, you should do the same in regar…
/r/seduction03/12/15 02:44 AM
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Every good looking woman you see you can approach now with a legit reason for getting her number.
/r/seduction03/12/15 02:39 AM
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Talk to the women there. Lots are commuters also.
/r/seduction03/12/15 02:38 AM
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I just wrote a lengthy reply but accidentally deleted so here's the short version. The first one was because this was the third time in a week something like that had happened so I really began to realize I had something (plus all the craziness that ensued at my place). The second one because of how far things went. I met a girl outside Barnes and Noble, she joins my two friends and a I for coffee next door, we all go to eat, she and I grab a drink, and then she and I get a hotel room for the ni…
/r/seduction03/12/15 02:36 AM
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"I see you here all the time. Hi I'm Benson Baratheon true King of the Land, true heir to the throne." Or "I see you here all the time. Hi I'm Benson Baratheon."
/r/seduction02/12/15 11:59 PM
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I brought these two Japanese women home from a hot dog joint during the day with my friend or the time I got a hotel room with this girl I met at Barnes & Noble.
/r/seduction02/12/15 09:57 PM
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Glad to help! I've seen some crazy amazing stuff with hypnosis so I know it can work wonders for a person. Maybe I'll film something next week for you guys regarding hypnosis and put it up.
/r/seduction02/12/15 09:56 PM
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haha that's usually what happens. I had a track playing and didn't realize Youtube had switched to the testosterone booster and suddenly I started to feel amped up without realizing why.
/r/seduction02/12/15 07:51 PM
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There is for hypnosis: http://www.apa.org/monitor/2011/01/hypnosis.aspx
/r/seduction02/12/15 07:50 PM
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It is if you practice it. It's like anything else, if you practice it enough, it becomes easier.
/r/seduction02/12/15 07:46 PM
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Artisan's a great guy, super nice cool dude.
/r/seduction02/12/15 05:59 AM
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Thanks. Good luck on your new adventures in dating!
/r/seduction02/12/15 12:58 AM
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You're welcome. Glad to be of help.
/r/seduction01/12/15 10:19 PM
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I will check it out, thanks.
/r/seduction01/12/15 10:19 PM
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I have some of me doing pick-ups in case that helps: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLkEGP9PWbKEOLkV3rbFeZRO8HE7GfAz-Z
/r/seduction01/12/15 08:59 PM
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Oh okay, forget that route then. Let me know if you have better success with the affirmations.
/r/seduction01/12/15 08:58 PM
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I will make a list at some point.
/r/seduction01/12/15 07:34 PM
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How do I do that? Or is this a message for you?
/r/seduction01/12/15 07:34 PM
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Have you ever been hypnotized before? You're not always "asleep", you're aware of what's taking place.
/r/seduction01/12/15 07:33 PM
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That is a good question. It seems like your grasp of the english language is proficient enough for them to be effective.
/r/seduction01/12/15 07:31 PM
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You're welcome!
/r/seduction01/12/15 07:31 PM
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Good advice!
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:51 AM
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AMAZING book. Do you guys want me to do a book list too?
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:48 AM
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badfps gave good advice. As long as you're a decent person your reputation will be fine. Treat women well and you'll rarely have an issue with your rep.
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:41 AM
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Just be cool. You got her to like you once, you can continue doing it. Don't build it up into this big thing. Invite her to something cool to do. When she told you she didn't see it coming, usually this means she wanted you to reassure her that you like her so that she doesn't invest in someone who doesn't like her.
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:39 AM
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4 Ways: 1) I call it the eavesdrop method. You're basically near the group, say with your friend, and you chime in on something they say. This allows you to get in with the group. For example, I'm at a bar and these two women are arguing about where they had left a bottle of champagne. Girl 1: Where's the champagne? Girl 2: I thought you had it. This is going on for a little bit when I chime in; "Alright ladies, where's the champagne?" Girl 1: "I've been asking this bitch for the last ten minute…
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:36 AM
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I wouldn't worry about the "alpha" guys as a lot of guys that are "alpha" have insecurities as well. You nailed the issue in your post. You mastered being silly now it's time to be more serious and sexual. Learn to work both ends of the specturm so you can really stimulate a woman. Silly --------- Serious Use both. Ask more questions, make comments about those questions, throw jokes in but also escalate when it's time to. You can be funny but know how to transition into something serious when it…
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:31 AM
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Michigan must sound like a beach resort compared to there. PS - I love Canada. I want to go there this summer.
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:27 AM
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I'm going to check it out now, thanks!
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:24 AM
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Serious question, since the subliminals had a significant effect on self-concept improvement, wouldn't that cause a change in behavior? I mean if you see yourself differently wouldn't that cause you to take new and different actions?
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:23 AM
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ha! That changes things. Is there a room that gets sunlight? I use to live in Michigan and had really bad insomnia when I was there.
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:22 AM
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Right? It blew up. I hope they help!
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:17 AM
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I don't see anything wrong with it. Gerardo has a pretty good playlist in his Ultimate Playlist. There's so much content on here that I would just pace it out. Listen to a track a day. Right now I play Gerardo's stuff when I work (for instance it's playing now) and I listen to sleep affirmations at night. I was listening to Michael Sealey every night for a while and I felt really great. I'm curious to see how they work for you.
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:17 AM
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Yeah, Michael Sealey has a few for that: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qx7MD_Y-Zac https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=67EwC4z2l18 and there's more in this playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLO9OtUmChpP_Po7RGMHFJ4kNbavmHhYhJ I use to have REALLY bad insomnia and the thing that's helped me the most is I actually sit every day in the sun for a few minutes. Since I started doing that my insomnia has pretty cleared up. Also, don't take naps. 2.
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:10 AM
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You are not your reputation. Don't let what others think stop you from going for who you want. Also, most people aren't thinking about you and if they are,they are thinking about what you think about them.
/r/seduction01/12/15 02:22 AM
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They are usually a lot of work and respond well to negative reinforcement. I don't like or want to say something bad to someone to get a reaction out of her.
/r/seduction01/12/15 02:21 AM
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Thank you! And for sure. I actually have something really cool for you guys that I'm hoping I'll have ready tomorrow. PS - Good username.
/r/seduction01/12/15 02:18 AM
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lol yeah, those can seem pretty out there but they're done that way for a reason. Glad you're you're enjoying them. There are other ones that are just one voice that can be found on Youtube if you prefer that method. I like Gerardo as he has good messages and good subjects he focuses on too.
/r/seduction01/12/15 02:17 AM
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It says that they are ineffective in teaching you but effective in changing how you pair things. For example if you listen to subliminals to try to learn Spanish, you're not going to see a result. They are effective though in how your subconscious pairs things. So if you're being told in a subliminal to associate ice cream with strawberries, when you think of ice cream, your mind will bring up the strawberries. This is good as subliminals will give you for example ideas about confidence so that …
/r/seduction01/12/15 02:15 AM
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Oh okay, definitely try some of the hypnosis stuff. It'll work wonders for you.
/r/seduction01/12/15 02:13 AM
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You're welcome
/r/seduction01/12/15 02:12 AM
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I agree. It's one of the best books written on the power of the subconscious.
/r/seduction30/11/15 09:59 PM
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Tell them in advance. When she asks; "What are you looking for?" Tell her you're just looking for fun, nothing serious.
/r/seduction30/11/15 08:36 PM
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Don't see her as a 9 or 10. See her as a person you'd like to connect with. Also, realize that she might be incredibly good looking and mastered this area of her life but there might be other areas she needs help with. Don't equate her beauty with perfection. She's a person just like you.
/r/seduction30/11/15 08:35 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/seduction30/11/15 08:33 PM
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Here's the problem right here: "I constantly tell myself that I am not an interesting person". A belief is just a thought you've thought over and over again so you're creating dis-empowering beliefs through statements like those. Start to affirm the opposite; "I am interesting to women. Women like me. Women want to be with me." And that's what will take place in your life. "Why would this girl even like me? What do I have to offer?" These are good questions to answer. Let's answer them now; you …
/r/seduction30/11/15 07:51 PM
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Good! It'll keep getting better too. Keep up the good work!
/r/seduction30/11/15 07:47 PM
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Hi! I deleted my thread yesterday and reposted it today in case you need it.
/r/seduction30/11/15 07:44 PM
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Make some comments about her: "I'm guessing you're a communications major." or You could do a direct approach telling her you think she's cute and then say; "I'm guessing you're heading off to class. What are you studying?" And your cold approach isn't pathetic. You do that fine. It's keeping the conversation flowing that needs work. Here is something I wrote that might help you; How to Keep a Conversation Going
/r/seduction30/11/15 07:43 PM
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If it happens that she's still in high school, you can just be polite and talk for a bit and bow out of the conversation. Get your ass in the gym! :) You'll feel more confident and better about yourself. Here is the thread that could help you out: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3uw3rp/selfimprovement_free_hypnosis_subliminals/
/r/seduction30/11/15 07:34 PM
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What were you doing 10 years ago that you aren't doing now? Regarding the age thing, as long as you two are getting along (assuming she's legal) the age doesn't matter as you're 27 and can date from 18-35 with ease. If it's an issue, she'll tell you. I too regularly assume the incorrect age and usually it doesn't matter if she's a few years older or younger. Now, what can you do differently that you haven't done before? Change your peer group, go to a lair meeting, read new books, exercise, chan…
/r/seduction30/11/15 06:52 AM
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Car, her place, beach, hotel like Days-In or Motel 6 that runs you about $69 a night.
/r/seduction30/11/15 06:20 AM
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From one Tony to another, good job.
/r/seduction30/11/15 05:57 AM
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Smile. She smiles back. You're good. Here is a video I made "10 Ways to Know She's Interested" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXe_Z1fJaRw
/r/seduction29/11/15 10:22 AM
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Props to you man! Glad you rebounded well.
/r/seduction29/11/15 10:20 AM
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Not breaking up with ex's when it was clearly over. I now end things when they're supposed to and am much clearer up front about what I want and what I will/will not tolerate. Not realizing how much worth I had. I now have way more sex with way higher quality women.
/r/seduction29/11/15 10:19 AM
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Does he drink? Doesn't that let him get over this mental hurdle? I had a friend who was literally in the same situation. I went with him to a bar/club and introduced him to this woman. They were talking and after a while I pulled out my phone and said; "Picture!" I then yelled for him to put his arm around and took it. I then said; "Now a kissing one!" They started kissing and he got his first kiss. You could try something like that. Also, tell him the key to doing something big is to do somethi…
/r/seduction29/11/15 01:24 AM
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It sounds like you escalated too fast with her and it overwhelmed her. Was there at any point before she left that she asked you to slow down or said no?
/r/seduction29/11/15 01:13 AM
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Those are shitty friends. Tell them to do it in a good way; "Have you met dattebayo13 yet? He's a great guy."
/r/seduction28/11/15 08:16 PM
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Well said! You should be writing the posts and I'll just comment on your stuff.
/r/seduction28/11/15 04:53 AM
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Let me know what you think and if you have any questions.
/r/seduction28/11/15 04:41 AM
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haha I got a kick out of this
/r/seduction28/11/15 04:41 AM
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I agree. Once you're in Rugby get ready to party. Steely said most anything I would have said (good job!). I had a friend in a similar situation as you. At first he was taking the girls for walks around the campus. I told him to invite them over for some wine, they'd have a drink, go walk around the campus and see something cool (he would take them to the top of this building that overlooks the city), they'd chill there (there was usually another bottle and chairs waiting on the roof), kiss, and…
/r/seduction28/11/15 04:39 AM
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I'm glad you asked as I was wondering if I should do a write-up about this. I'll do it and send you a link once it's done.
/r/seduction28/11/15 12:47 AM
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This is good advice.
/r/seduction28/11/15 12:15 AM
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That's awesome! Glad you are doing better. Quiet bar is good. I would recommend sitting next to her as opposed to across from her (not sure if you do this already) as it allows you to have a shared point of view and you can escalate physically. It sounds like you're talking about the right stuff and you are getting results. I would tone down how much you emphasize you want to be with them in a relationship. Sexually attracted is cool but emphasizing too much that you want to be in a relationship…
/r/seduction28/11/15 12:12 AM
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Just realize that everyone is where they are and doing the best they can with what they have. Look for the good in people and you'll find it. This will stop you from criticizing and will actually build people up.
/r/seduction28/11/15 12:11 AM
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This is one of those questions where the answer might differ for each woman.
/r/seduction28/11/15 12:10 AM
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Act cool and confident. You had a great time, be relaxed about it. What are you doing after sex as opposed to before it? Are you texting them more? How often are you texting them? Do you still escalate with them?
/r/seduction28/11/15 12:09 AM
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Where do you go for your first date? Where do you sit? What do you talk about? And be patient with yourself as I read your comment below and it looks like you're developing in this area.
/r/seduction28/11/15 12:08 AM
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It's not complicated however you might be doing naturally what others might have difficulty in. To me this is easy but I wanted to be able to replicate the results I get for other guys so I had to break down what I am doing so that they could do it too. For example, I'm an awful cook but it comes naturally to others. If I need to cook something, I need it broken down into as many steps as possible.
/r/seduction28/11/15 12:04 AM
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You're welcome!
/r/seduction28/11/15 12:02 AM
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Glad to help! And yeah, it has. It's now pretty much considered acceptable to just text instead of calling so it's an important skill to have.
/r/seduction28/11/15 12:02 AM
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I would escalate more with her before asking her out. Reel her in more. For example: "Had fun last night, lets do it again" I did too lol" "I liked it when you (insert whatever she did). It was so fucking hot." You could write something to build her buying temperature. She also might have just wanted a one night stand. To reduce your flake rate; one, go more direct in your interactions. Tell women that you think they’re beautiful. Make it clear that you are going to take them out. Two, talk long…
/r/seduction28/11/15 12:01 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction27/11/15 11:48 PM
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Thanks dude!
/r/seduction27/11/15 11:48 PM
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Ha! You got it. And thanks!
/r/seduction27/11/15 11:48 PM
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Awesome, let me know how it goes!
/r/seduction27/11/15 11:47 PM
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I hope your date goes amazing!
/r/seduction27/11/15 11:47 PM
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She might be legitimately busy with school stuff. What I would do is joke with her a bit, have some banter for about three or four texts and then hit her with the date. Have something specific to do, not a general "want to chill?" type text. Let me know how it goes!
/r/seduction27/11/15 11:26 PM
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It has nothing to do with you. Don't get wrapped up in it. If it's brought up, make it clear that past guy is not you and move on.
/r/seduction27/11/15 08:13 AM
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I actually made a video on this "10 Ways to Start a Conversation with a Woman" in case it helps.
/r/seduction27/11/15 05:34 AM
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Glad to hear it, thanks.
/r/seduction26/11/15 06:55 AM
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Awesome. Firas is the man and knows so much about the intricacies of MMA. His other video is also good for dating: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aowunaGcly8
/r/seduction25/11/15 08:28 PM
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How did the rest of your interaction with her go? She might've not known and been in that in-between place between one-night stands and wanting to meet someone.
/r/seduction25/11/15 07:58 PM
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All good, I have the same problem when I reddit with my phone. I actually worked on them both simultaneously years ago. As my social skills improved, my confidence grew, and my anxiety went down. As my anxiety went down from other things I was doing like meditation, my social skills improved, and my confidence grew too. Thanks for responding.
/r/seduction25/11/15 07:56 PM
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Do daygame and go indirect. I would go walk around campuses like US or SDSU and meet women, you can do the same at your college.
/r/seduction21/11/15 08:27 AM
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Glad to help!!! I just put a new video too. I hope it helps you!
/r/seduction21/11/15 04:08 AM
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Glad to help! Sometimes it takes an eye opener like that to make us aware of what's possible. I hope it doesn't sound bad but I'd recommend my own book; "Your Older Brother's Guide to Dating: http://www.authenticsociallife.com/books.html If it appeals to you, feel free to check it out. I also have a Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUslJB1JrYXhen86oNWfXHg And here is my old one that has a lot of stuff: https://www.youtube.com/user/IncreaseYourDating
/r/seduction20/11/15 10:58 PM
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After interactions like you just had ask yourself; "How could I have gone more direct (direct being sexual) with this?" Think of it as a spectrum: silliness <----->sexiness You've mastered one side, now you have to master the other so that you can use both to get great results.
/r/seduction20/11/15 10:14 PM
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First, there might be some who don't ask because they're not looking for anything. And as your game develops, you'll get a better sense of women who are looking for a relationship as opposed to those who aren't. You won't even have to ask. Some you might not escalate with because you'll know this is the case. Others you might have sex with on the first night and depending on how you follow up will depend on what happens. For example if you two were to go on an actual date a day or two later but …
/r/seduction20/11/15 10:10 PM
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Usually at some point they'll ask you; "So what are you looking for?" At that point tell them; "I'm just looking to have fun." When I had just gotten out of a relationship I would say; "I just got out of a relationship so I'm not looking for anything serious. I'm just looking to have fun." Usually the woman would say it back to me; "So you're just looking for fun?" I'd say yes and things would get wild fast.
/r/seduction20/11/15 09:41 PM
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Just be as clear with the women as possible up front that you are just looking for sex. I use to tell each woman; "I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm just looking for fun." There would be some women who were looking for more and that would save us both a lot of headache. There were LOTS who were down to just have fun. Women are sexual beings just like us and some just want sex too. Once these women would see I just wanted to have fun, they would be super wild as they knew this was just one …
/r/seduction20/11/15 05:28 PM
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You got it! Once it's out I'll hit you up.
/r/seduction20/11/15 05:25 PM
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Things in L.A. do progress way faster then other places I've lived plus the women are super cool there but this should work in any city with a decent sized population. I've done it in SD as well as Michigan.
/r/seduction20/11/15 01:11 PM
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I hope it helps!
/r/seduction20/11/15 01:05 PM
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Yeah, I agree, I wrote it with that assumption in mind.
/r/seduction20/11/15 12:54 PM
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"You seem cool. We should hang out sometime. Give me your number and I'll give you a call."
/r/seduction20/11/15 05:19 AM
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Edit: Here is the video! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXe_Z1fJaRw
/r/seduction20/11/15 05:18 AM
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Lift, read, mediate, practice your game, and work towards your goals.
/r/seduction20/11/15 05:17 AM
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I had my laycounts skyrocket as I did a few things differently: Daygame Invited women over to my place for the first date (would do this Sunday-Thursday) Screened the girls I met at bars to see who was going to go home with me and who wasn't.
/r/seduction20/11/15 05:16 AM
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Your scent is like anything else, let it work for you rather than against you. Also, some women will use it as a way to open you if you smell good.
/r/seduction20/11/15 05:14 AM
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I just wrote you the reply but hit something on my keyboard and it's gone so you're getting the cliff notes now. What is the CBD? And you want to visit high traffic areas like a mall as opposed to a park as you the greater the number of women there are, the better chance you have of seeing someone you like.
/r/seduction20/11/15 05:14 AM
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Are you going out to the same place every time? And yeah. Switch tactics so you can get the results you want.
/r/seduction19/11/15 10:40 PM
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I think he can still recover as well. I was waiting to see his response before sharing anything but what you said should work.
/r/seduction19/11/15 10:35 PM
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Oh I missed that, thanks. And yeah, it looks like there was too much comfort and not enough escalation.
/r/seduction19/11/15 08:00 PM
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Did you physically escalate with her at all in person? Was there any kissing?
/r/seduction19/11/15 07:40 PM
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There's 3 main components to state; physiology, breathing, and focus. It makes sense that when you shift your focus from your head to your heart you will feel better. Something my friend does is he focuses not on what is happening to him, but what he can give to the world. That takes him out of his head and puts him into action. I like to focus on what good thing is taking place at the moment. For example, if I'm out with friends, I'll remind myself of that good and that will relax me.
/r/seduction19/11/15 07:30 PM
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Then switch locations such as going to a bar on a Friday night.
/r/seduction19/11/15 05:35 PM
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Yeah, I still disagree with that.
/r/seduction19/11/15 07:43 AM
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You're not being a dick at all. This is not my area of expertise. You're probably right. I'm going to delete that from my post, thanks. What about the rest of the items?
/r/seduction19/11/15 07:31 AM
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You're welcome and two birds with one stone it is! I figure why not meet an attractive woman while getting in shape? It's perfect.
/r/seduction19/11/15 06:44 AM
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I would be open to meeting women wherever but there's nothing with setting aside a time for it as well. For example I would talk to women as I would go about my day but I would also have Friday or Saturday night reserved for my boys and I to hit bars and clubs. As for dry spells, realize that everyone has them and when you're in one, it looks like you're the only one having one while it's raining for everyone else. That's not the case. Also, it's usually only temporary and the rain will come eve…
/r/seduction19/11/15 06:42 AM
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I would say yes he could meet women as long as he has game and can give them the picture of what he aspires to be. Women will be patient with a man who appears to be going somewhere. When I was 25 I made a few bad business investments and lost all of my money and had to move home for a short period. I went from doing over six figures in sales a year and having an amazing place to broke. Did my dating life suffer? Yeah because I couldn't take women out like I could before but I could still meet t…
/r/seduction19/11/15 06:37 AM
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I have to disagree with this. Some of my close friends are Asian and Indian and date white women consistently. The same concepts of pick up apply to them as other women. If you hit the right attraction triggers, they'll get attracted just as any others do. Just look at the Simple Pickup guys as an example of this.
/r/seduction19/11/15 06:35 AM
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There's nothing wrong with taking your prescribed medication to keep you calm and at ease. It might take a about about a week or so for you to feel really good from it (one of my friends started to really blossom around 12 days on it) but don't let my advice replace any medical advice you were given. As cudder17 said, try some basic meditation. I also found yoga works great for relieving anxiety and stress.
/r/seduction19/11/15 06:32 AM
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That it is!
/r/seduction19/11/15 06:10 AM
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I feel ya. And first, I have to say thanks. You're the first person on this site that has given me an intelligent counter argument to something I wrote rather than calling me names. And I use to feel the same way you do when I was younger but now as working out isn't as big as a priority as my social life, things have changed. Also, the fact that I've had a lot of great experiences from doing this has swayed my opinion also.
/r/seduction19/11/15 01:04 AM
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Awesome and I agree with you as well. Here, have some karma.
/r/seduction19/11/15 01:02 AM
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Become rich.
/r/seduction18/11/15 11:11 PM
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Go for it. I started dating this beautiful woman that I connected with through FB. It's possible and easy to do.
/r/seduction18/11/15 09:35 PM
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That's what I thought too.
/r/seduction18/11/15 09:34 PM
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PS - If you have any questions later on, feel free to hit me up.
/r/seduction18/11/15 09:33 PM
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You're welcome! Just practice going up to a woman when you first see her if that happens. The reason I linked the AA video is because I have some tips in it on how to keep a conversation going. Good luck! :)
/r/seduction18/11/15 09:32 PM
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4 Ways The first is you talk to him to the exclusion of the girl until he feels complete in the conversation and moves on. The drawback to this is she might leave at a certain point so you have to be aware. You talk to him and as you two are talking, you ask her questions about what you two are talking bout; "What do you think?" At a certain point if he's talking your head off, you can excuse yourself for a minute and when you walk off, instead of re-engaging both of them, you can focus on her. …
/r/seduction18/11/15 09:31 PM
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Our brains tell us that's either too soon or too late to start something. Start now where you're at and develop your social skills as you develop physically.
/r/seduction18/11/15 09:05 PM
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Sounds good. Approaches is a huge subject and I have a ton of things to say. Have you seen my video "10 Ways to Start a Conversation with a Woman"? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0jlcRz19tfY How to Get Over Approach Anxiety: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCqorhuxIaw My main advice would be to keep approaching. Improve on your end everything you can, looks, mindset, career, and get in there both during the day and night and approach. Do the sets other guys don't want to do such as when you see…
/r/seduction18/11/15 08:15 PM
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That's not an AMOG. That might have been a person who thought you were cool. Just befriend him and talk to him and then go back to talking to your girl.
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:59 PM
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You could also hand her a note with something written on it that she has to hand back to you. If done right, it's pretty fun. You could also just start small. When you walk in and see her, smile and say; "Hey what's up? What are you studying for?" Start talking and introduce yourself.
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:09 PM
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Kino shows your sexual intent. It also builds the sexual chemistry and takes you from talking to touching.
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:06 PM
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Good to see a mod who knows his stuff.
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:00 PM
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Different type of women. College girls can be immature. Girls out of college have more of their life together. You're not giving as much as fuck. You're older now and have your shit together. You have more of a disposable income to do things like dates and go to bars and you have your own place.
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:51 AM
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Make more comments, at least two between every question and you can let some of them be guesses about her. Practice improv (spend 30 seconds to a minute talking about whatever is around you at random) so that you can jump from whatever subject she gives you onto another subject. Be ADD meaning that you jump from one subject to the next when you feel like it. Don't ask more then one question in a row without making some comments in between it. I did a blog post on how to keep a conversation going…
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:49 AM
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Here is the sublminal: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1u4HfsfGzdg And Michael Sealey: https://www.youtube.com/user/MichaelSealey
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:44 AM
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I actually had extreme PTSD from my childhood. Just ease into developing your social skills. Just look at this area of your life as a skill you're developing which should hopefully take your ego out of it. Also, the more you put yourself into social settings, the easier they will become. They'll no longer be a source of anxiety but a place of pleasure for you. I too had the same problems. I would monitor my speech and work on practice talking slower. It felt weird to talk slower then I normally …
/r/seduction17/11/15 10:52 PM
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Think about the reasons you broke up. Think about all the stuff you dislike about her. After an hour of this you'll be totally over. Start dating other women. This will reverse the roles.
/r/seduction17/11/15 10:49 PM
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Yeah, the logistics have to make sense. Could you have taken your Tinder date to her place or your car? What about hotel rooms?
/r/seduction17/11/15 10:48 PM
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Yes, taper yourself off. Let's say when you go out you normally have 5 drinks. The next time make it four drinks, then three, then two, then one, then none if you really want to improve your game. This will get you use to talking to women sober. If you feel more comfortable with a drink in your hand, have the bartender pour you a glass of cranberry in a small glass, it'll look like a drink to anyone who sees you. If you don't have a drink in your hand and someone wants you to drink, just tell th…
/r/seduction17/11/15 10:45 PM
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Yeah, I wouldn't that as it puts the burden of conversation on her. Go in with something funny or witty to catch her attention. I do what I call hook, tow, tug. The first text has to hook her. Just like you put bait on a line to catch a fish, put some bait on your text through humor or wit to catch her attention. Then let your next two or three texts also be humorous or witty (most guys after they get one good text immediately ask the woman out). After reeling her in and establishing rapport, th…
/r/seduction17/11/15 10:43 PM
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It sounds like you have the first part down (meeting her and getting her number). Now we just need to work on your text game so that you can convert your numbers into dates. My question is, what are you texting them with? I wouldn't worry so much about setting up the dates then as it can sometimes constrict you if you think you have to set up the date then. As long as the interaction is going good, that's what's more important. If you can set up something, great. If not, no worries. As long as y…
/r/seduction17/11/15 07:12 PM
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Did you see my reply? It's up above.
/r/seduction17/11/15 06:59 PM
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Thanks! It's actually pretty safe. Most people are cool.
/r/seduction17/11/15 06:58 PM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction17/11/15 06:57 PM
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Thanks :-)
/r/seduction17/11/15 05:33 AM
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Yes there is. You have to bring up interesting points that you two connected on during the conversation. For example,what did you talk with her about? What did you joke with her about? Is there a relevant nickname that you could give her? What were key triggers in the conversation that you could use to get her excited? An example from an old field report I wrote: I met this woman who works at a male enhancement company. Me: "How many men have you enhanced today? - Tony " She then wrote me back t…
/r/seduction17/11/15 05:32 AM
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I use to go out with this woman who didn't photo well but in person she was so damn beautiful (great personality and amazing body). Good luck on your date!
/r/seduction17/11/15 02:48 AM
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I personally wouldn't string her along then. She'll end up really liking you and you won't have much interest in her.
/r/seduction17/11/15 02:39 AM
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Yeah. I just do a "1 minute" motion with my finger and they stop and take their headphone(s) out. Example, I see this woman doing this insane amount of weight on the legpress. She's doing I think 6 plates on each side with a good number of reps. After she finishes I do the "1 minute" motion and she stops and takes out her headphones. Me: "That was amazing. You're super strong! What's the secret?" She starts telling me about this product that she had been using and she was super cool and we talke…
/r/seduction17/11/15 02:38 AM
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Just so I'm clear, what's happening is you've built up this sexual energy with a woman that leads into an instadate but once you turn it into a conversation it starts to fizzle out. I would recommend doing the following on your instadates. When you're with the woman, work both sides of the spectrum. By this I mean give serious answers to questions but also joke around with her. This will add in more variables to the conversation. At a certain point you decide to either end the instadate or you m…
/r/seduction17/11/15 02:30 AM
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"Come by. I'm going to make you the world's best espresso." If you do decide to get coffee with her, have her meet you at your place and you two can go to coffee from there. That way you two can go back to your place afterwards.
/r/seduction17/11/15 02:14 AM
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Glad to help! Go get em!
/r/seduction16/11/15 11:51 PM
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This is fucking horrible.
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:39 PM
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He and his fiance are happily engaged now so it looks like he did.
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:18 PM
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Maybe it's the opposite then. How attracted to them were you physically before sex?
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:16 PM
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Depends on when she says it in the interaction. If she says it early, you can just brush it off; "Yeah, yeah. We all have boyfriends." or "That's fine. You can still have a boyfriend." and you keep talking. If it's later in the interaction, you can use the boyfriend destroyer; "Yeah, but he's so boring, all he wants to do is stay home and watch Netflix and he never takes you anywhere and he never pays for anything."
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:12 PM
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I would say pretend you are good in party environments. Pretend you're super social and that people want to see you. Have fun, talk more and to more people then you normally would.
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:09 PM
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When that would happen, it would be usually because the woman and I didn't have much of a connection other than a physical one. Now that the physical part has been satiated, there's nothing left to connect us. When I would meet women with similar interests and we vibed well together, I would find that the woman would become WAY more attractive to me afterwards.
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:08 PM
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Bas Rutten - The guy is Mr. Charisma. He's hilarious, super tough, and incredibly friendly. When we would be out, he would be joking around with everyone and women would of course want to know who this guy is that every guy is trying to meet. John G - My friend who has slept with around 1,000 women or more. Same thing. Charisma! He jokes around a lot with women. He's super short (5'3) and would pick up these tall women in the club and carry them around. The thing with John is that he consistentl…
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:05 PM
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hahaha thank you!
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:54 PM
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Yeah, a mod took it down as it was a personal story and it turns out that's not allowed in that section.
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:54 PM
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I don't know if they intentionally do it but how you react to it is important to whether or not you get a first date in the future. Burntmoney handled that situation correctly, just be laidback about it. This conveys that you're cool, laidback, nonneedy, confident, all attractive qualities to a woman.
/r/seduction16/11/15 10:16 AM
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Well done.
/r/seduction16/11/15 10:14 AM
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Thank you! If I can recommend something, drill the number close in advance a few times. Say to yourself; "You seem cool. We should hang out sometime. Give me your number and I'll give you a call." Or however you want to phrase it so that way you're ready come next time. Keep up the good work! It's like a muscle. As you keep working it out, it'll keep getting stronger.
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:51 AM
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How have you been on hundreds of dates and never had a gf? Maybe it would be better to meet them in person then? Do you live at home with your parents or have a roommate? And what's wrong with going to a bar alone? Just say you had a friend who was supposed to meet you but cancelled. Now, regarding your question. My answer is the Earth. I'm alone on it the majority of the time and there are women everywhere. Most guys think they need to "go out" to meet women. I take the mindset that when I leav…
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:24 AM
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Glad to hear it. And yes, it builds instant rapport.
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:11 AM
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What did you talk with her about? What did you joke with her about? Is there a relevant nickname that you could give her? What were key triggers in the conversation that you could use to get her excited? An example from an old field report I wrote: I met this woman who works at a male enhancement company. Me: "How many men have you enhanced today? - Tony " She then wrote me back this LONG text message about how business is booming and all this other stuff and we got into a real sexual talk. Does…
/r/seduction16/11/15 03:28 AM
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No, don't "just do it". If you're feeling deflated, take a step back and relax and recharge. It's like if you've worked out too much, if you keep going it's only going to burn you out. So take a few days to relax and do something you enjoy, girls will still exist in a few days. In a week or so, you can try again but start with smaller steps. Example; "Tonight, I'll talk to 3 people". And build from there.
/r/seduction15/11/15 11:48 PM
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You're overthinking it way too much. Let's say you're with a friend in a bar and you two split up for a moment and you meet a girl, is she going to say; "This is weird. He's by himself." No, she's going to be curious as to who you are (assuming she's interested). You have a built in store already; "I just moved to the area and want to meet some cool people. Hi, I'm bertrand." One of my brothers was a huge player and would go to bars and clubs alone. He would go the bar, grab a drink, and start c…
/r/seduction15/11/15 08:41 PM
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If a girl likes you, she'll let you make some mistakes just like if you like a girl, you'll let her make some mistakes. It's not so clear black and white.
/r/seduction15/11/15 08:31 PM
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I read the tl;dr version but my advice is to be patient with yourself. You're learning a new skill. Props to you for at least going out. Just keep practicing. We've all had off nights. Use them to evaluate what you could have improved on and keep going.
/r/seduction15/11/15 08:27 PM
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What I've noticed with a lot of guys is let's say they meet a pretty woman. The pretty woman likes item x so suddenly the guy feels like he has to like item x. The pretty woman says something and the guy does this big boisterous laugh at something that's not funny. The woman says something and the guy immediately agrees with her even if he doesn't really believe it. Don't do those things and you'll be unreactive.
/r/seduction15/11/15 08:26 PM
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What are you texting her with? Let's say on a scale from 1-10, 1 being super depressed and 10 being super happy, she walks around at a 5. Now, she sees you, you make her feel good and she goes to a 7. Now, you're not around and she goes back to her normal state of 5. If you ran into her again, she'd be back at 7. So, you have to craft your texts in a way that reengage her and put her back in the same state as when you saw her. You need to hook her.
/r/seduction15/11/15 08:21 PM
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Thanks dude! Check out my Youtube channel as I'll be posting stuff each week that I think will really help guys out, especially if they're new.
/r/seduction15/11/15 07:16 PM
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Thank you! I appreciate the support and will post a new video soon.
/r/seduction15/11/15 07:15 PM
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Thank you. I appreciate that. I'll post another video next week.
/r/seduction15/11/15 07:52 AM
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You're welcome. Don't let one woman be the ruler of your reality. There are TONS who would love to go out with you. Go get em!
/r/seduction15/11/15 04:16 AM
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You guys are crazy. That's how I am. I enjoy communicating with people, be it in person or through video.
/r/seduction15/11/15 03:14 AM
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Yeah, it's totally possible. What I use to do is get numbers as I would go out throughout my week and Sunday-Thursday I would invite women over. Friday and Saturday I would go out with my guy friends. When I did this, I would have at least six month. You also made two great points there.
/r/seduction15/11/15 03:12 AM
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You start where you start and wherever it is is fine. I have a few things to say; I had sex with more 18 year olds at 28 then I did at 18. They want a man who has his head together, which you now do. Do all the stuff you wanted to do then now. If you have sex with six women a month, that's 72 a year. You have everyone in the age range from 18-28 to have fun with. I'm 34 and having a blast. When I was 30 my girlfriend was 19. Everyone always thinks that's too late or too soon. It's the mind playi…
/r/seduction15/11/15 02:27 AM
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I wanted to give as much info as possible. Like I said in a post above, I'll be chopping the video up to make it easier but I would rather get the full portion out for those who want. Regarding credibility, I'll be posting more videos soon so people will get to know me better. Thanks.
/r/seduction15/11/15 02:07 AM
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Check out my other pickup channel if you want proof: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2nWS5ZYaHP4&list=PLkEGP9PWbKEOLkV3rbFeZRO8HE7GfAz-Z&index=5
/r/seduction15/11/15 01:40 AM
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I think this is exactly the type of content a lot of new guys need so that they can initiate a conversation with a woman. Have you not seen my field reports? I actually have another channel that is full of pickups. Pickups: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2nWS5ZYaHP4&list=PLkEGP9PWbKEOLkV3rbFeZRO8HE7GfAz-Z&index=5 Me picking up women while driving: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cI90d9KAFdc And regarding Simple Pickup, they actually have one of my former student's videos in their Project Go sec…
/r/seduction15/11/15 01:39 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction15/11/15 01:32 AM
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It'll happen as you practice. Just be patient with yourself. I was once where you are. Check out my video on how to overcome approach anxiety and also my video on how to start conversations: http://www.authenticsociallife.com/videos.html
/r/seduction14/11/15 11:03 PM
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It sounds like he wanted you to meet new people. You said you were leaving as you only knew a few people so he wanted you to open up. It's being said in a good way as it shows that you have something to share with people and people enjoy hearing it. Now to open up more, let's say you go to a new venue, talk to more people then you normally would and when talking to them, stay in the interaction longer then you normally would. This will cause you to stretch and your social skills will improve. Yo…
/r/seduction14/11/15 10:03 PM
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Several Ways: Don't start with the casual "hey, what's up?" I made a video on 10 Ways to Start a Conversation with a Woman that might help you. Do you know how to improv? This will allow you to transition from whatever topic she says onto something else or to expand on what she says. I explained it in the blog post down below. Talk about things you enjoy talking about. What is she interested in? What is she passionate about? Do cold reads - This is where you guess something about the woman. She'…
/r/seduction14/11/15 09:54 PM
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Go to the party! You'll meet new people and get out of your house.
/r/seduction14/11/15 09:45 PM
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This is a great book.
/r/seduction14/11/15 09:32 PM
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Just lots of different ways to open women. I'm going to chop it up into sections but I wanted to make the whole thing available first to those who want it.
/r/seduction14/11/15 09:31 PM
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Look at it from the girl's point of view for a second. 1) She might have guys saying "hey" or "hello" all the time. 2) If you didn't follow it up with anything, you've just put the brunt of the conversation on this complete stranger.
/r/seduction14/11/15 05:06 AM
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It's like with anything else, as you practice you'll become better at it so just think of yourself as developing a new skill because you are, you're developing your social skills.
/r/seduction13/11/15 07:30 PM
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If you check out Encinitas, definitely check out the Self-Realization Fellowship Garden: http://www.yelp.com/biz/self-realization-fellowship-hermitage-and-meditation-gardens-encinitas-2 It's amazing! And it's less then a mile down the road from I think it's called Moon Rock Beach which has tons of gorgeous women.
/r/seduction13/11/15 07:29 PM
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Usually eye contact is brief, not more then a second. Just make eye contact and smile. And just because she doesn't make eye contact or smile back doesn't mean she's not interested or not open to being approached. She might not have seen you, might have been checking you out and got embarrassed when you looked, might be only comfortable with brief eye contact, so don't rely entirely on eye contact.
/r/seduction13/11/15 04:50 PM
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Thank you! This post surprisingly triggered a lot of people. I hope you enjoy the Gym Game guide.
/r/seduction13/11/15 04:20 PM
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Glad to help!
/r/seduction13/11/15 04:09 PM
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Did you not read the report? I went to the gym with my hair messed up and me wearing whatever and met women. And why do I have to live my life by your standards? i.e. go to the gym and just work out. And how long does it take to fix my hair and put myself in state? 30 seconds? A minute? I literally said in the report it takes only a minute to do this. It's a super small amount of energy to put forth to meet a beautiful woman. And like you said, this is seduction. I wanted to explain what I do di…
/r/seduction13/11/15 06:13 AM
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Playing with her hair, touching you, filling in pauses or silences in the conversation, asking about you, smiling at you.
/r/seduction13/11/15 06:01 AM
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Nice! And yeah, it's ridiculous how beautiful they are. Have you gone out to OB or Encinitas yet? I think the women in Encinitas are some of the most beautiful I've ever seen.
/r/seduction13/11/15 04:21 AM
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I posted links to my site so you can see what I look like. It doesn't have to be complicated.
/r/seduction13/11/15 03:01 AM
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Exactly! You know your stuff. I've found that it's usually the guys who criticize the most that usually need the most help. I write my field reports for the new guys out there that need a hand in this area. I hope it motivates and equips them to take action.
/r/seduction13/11/15 02:55 AM
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You got it!
/r/seduction13/11/15 02:47 AM
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lol maybe. Or maybe I'm doing it right. A good workout + pretty women sounds much better to me.
/r/seduction13/11/15 02:40 AM
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Thank you Gloots. Guys, it's talking to women at the gym. I didn't say I invented the cure for cancer. I also do stuff like this while driving: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cI90d9KAFdc There's lots of videos of me doing pickups out there. It's easy to do.
/r/seduction13/11/15 02:34 AM
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Of course. Meeting them is the first step.
/r/seduction13/11/15 02:28 AM
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Some people can do both. Several women have told me that they have a "guy" at the gym they hope talks to them.
/r/seduction13/11/15 02:28 AM
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That's weird about the downvotes. We're just discussing a location. You're in a good area to game.
/r/seduction13/11/15 02:25 AM
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"I'm fine with stage 1 in a charged environment, where approach/opening feels more natural, but I'm awful at it in a normal everyday scenario." - In these situations there's usually not a clearly defined social norm as opposed to when you're at a bar talking to women so you have to decide what you want to do. Regarding feeling like an outsider - When I would take my new students to a packed club or bar, they would get overwhelmed by the energy of the place and feel like they didn't belong. I wou…
/r/seduction12/11/15 11:49 PM
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I know, I was just using my friend as an example to further illustrate your point to anyone new who might be reading this. How can you have a sucky smile? Have you asked a few women what they thought of it? It must be good if they're responding to it.
/r/seduction12/11/15 11:37 PM
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You sound like a guy who just needs to get his flow going and then he opens up. For example, if you look at pick-up or even social interactions in stages; stage one being you meeting, stage two being you connecting, stage 3 being sex or intimate relationships, you're good at stages 2 and 3 as you feel safe and at ease. For stage 1, you just need to practice talking to strangers. You can start with where you're comfortable and build from there. For instance if all you can do is smile at a strange…
/r/seduction12/11/15 11:32 PM
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No. I'm in East County. What about you?
/r/seduction12/11/15 11:20 PM
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I have a friend who is similar to you and I had to remind him to smile as it lets the woman he's talking to know he's friendly. Smiling eases the whole interaction. For anyone reading this, it says; "Hey, I'm friendly!" and it pumps endorphins in your system which make you feel good and pumps endorphins in her system which makes her feel good.
/r/seduction12/11/15 11:19 PM
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I'll PM you.
/r/seduction12/11/15 11:13 PM
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haha well done
/r/seduction12/11/15 11:13 PM
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You got it! I'll post more. You've never been to a gym before? Good luck tomorrow And thanks!
/r/seduction12/11/15 11:12 PM
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I use to have the same rule when I was younger but now it's not really a big deal. When I was there I actually ran into this woman I use to date. We chatted and joked around for a bit and went on our way. If you're cool, other people will be too. Your rule doesn't sound stupid but I would recommend being flexible on it in case you see a woman who is worth talking to.
/r/seduction12/11/15 11:12 PM
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Go for it! and thanks!
/r/seduction12/11/15 11:10 PM
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Humor! One of my best friends who is overweight has been with around or slightly over a hundred women. He's funny but will also go direct when it's time to. Have you seen that video of the Simple Pickup guy in the fat suit?
/r/seduction12/11/15 11:09 PM
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hahahahaha you guys are cracking me up today. I do that type of line a lot and I'll tailor it to the woman; "From one beautiful person to another" or "From one good looking person to another" or "From one bad ass to another". It's a fun easy way to connect. Thanks for the good response.
/r/seduction12/11/15 09:25 PM
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hahahaha thank you, it works at every gym!
/r/seduction12/11/15 08:53 PM
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First, thank you. While women smiling at me does make it easier, it is not something I rely upon. For example, with the second woman, I smiled at her, she didn't smile back, in fact she had a real serious look on her face as she was working out hard but I said "Fuck it" and ran up to her. Smiling at people is a habit I developed when I first started daygame but don't depend on it as some women might not see you when you smile, or they're thinking about something and you misinterpret their stare …
/r/seduction12/11/15 08:48 PM
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In all seriousness, I have asked a few good looking women about meeting guys at the gym and they all told me they had a "gym guy" that they hoped would ask them out.
/r/seduction12/11/15 07:01 PM
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Ha! Thank you. This puts a big smile on my face. And yes, you got it. Doing what you said let's women know you're cool to talk to.
/r/seduction12/11/15 07:00 PM
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Thank you. I'll post more.
/r/seduction12/11/15 05:25 PM
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Thank you. I thought I should post this as so many guys ask if it's possible to meet women at the gym. PS - Good username :)
/r/seduction12/11/15 05:23 PM
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I wouldn't recommend going to bars or parties for your girl as it's going to be overwhelming for you especially if you're new. Do you exercise? Could you make any changes to your style to increase your attractiveness? Cool haircut, better clothing choices, better grooming? I am 5'9 and not that skinny but I was super skinny for a while. One of my close friends is 5'3 and has slept with around a 1,000 women. I just say that so that you don't get too hung up on your size. The average height for wo…
/r/seduction12/11/15 09:02 AM
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Exactly. I just didn't want him to get disappointed if it didn't happen on the first night so I said the second.
/r/seduction12/11/15 02:24 AM
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Scarcity. When you have lots of women in your life, your Oneitis diminishes or disappears.
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:36 PM
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I would just take a deep breath and relax as that means you're overthinking things. If you were confident enough to set up the date, you're confident enough for it to flow smooth.
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:35 PM
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Just tell her; "That's fine. Just come by. We'll listen to some music, chill, joke around, it'll be fun." If she's telling you "I don't have sex on the first date" she's already thinking about sex. Kiss and fool around on the first date and you'll probably have sex on the second.
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:34 PM
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Working on your social skills will improve your confidence. Being able to connect with women and people will help your self-esteem. They don't have to be separate. Just set a day aside, or a few hours, where you interact with the opposite sex; be it online through dating sites or in person. Online dating might be good for you to start with. And you are not what you do. You have a lot going on. You're going to school and are getting your life together. It's about how you present it to a woman. Yo…
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:32 PM
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First, props to you for your good outlook. Here is a video I did explaining how overcome AA: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCqorhuxIaw Please excuse the audio in the beginning. I have new videos coming out this week. I hope this helps you!
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:29 PM
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Tease her! Get her out of her shell. She's use to guys fawning over here.
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:25 PM
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Few ways. First, let's say you two meet and the friends are there. Introduce yourself and talk to the friends for a minute. Then say, "We're going to talk over here for a second." Have it be somewhere in the vicinity where the friends are. Second, if you are talking to the girl and her friends come, introduce yourself to the friends before they introduce themselves to you ;"Hi, I'm darkstar. Great to meet you." Smile and extend your hand. It's like a preemptive strike. Women aren't going to typi…
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:23 PM
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As long as you're cool, even if you go direct it'll be fine. For instance, if she's not interested and you realize that and take your cue to go, it'll be fine. There would be nothing weird about that. Here is a very easy way to open her based on what you said: "Hi, I'm TheRubberBand, I see you here all the time. It looks like we have the same schedule. How's everything going?" Talk about school and then build from there. I do silly stuff at the gym. For example, I got on a treadmill, a woman got…
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:17 PM
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It's because when you're with your friends you're not really interested in what they're doing so you're letting them lead until something interesting comes along. There might come a time though when you don't want them to lead you anywhere and you go off on your own.
/r/seduction11/11/15 07:34 AM
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You can approach at the gym either indirect or direct. Just be courteous and cool. "Hi. I'm authenticsociallife. I thought you were cute and had to meet you." - I said this to this slamming hot woman at the gym recently and we talked for a bit and she gave me her number. That was direct. Indirect - Saw this woman on the stairmaster. In great shape. I jump on the stairmaster next to her. Turns out mine's broken. I ask her what I'm doing wrong. She tells me it's broken, I ask her if she broke it. …
/r/seduction11/11/15 07:32 AM
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I didn't read your whole post but just start now. Okay, you're 23. Let's say you talk to ten women a week, 3 give you their number, you have sex with 1. That's one a week. Do that for a year and that's 48 women. Just create a system where you talk to them consistently.
/r/seduction11/11/15 07:26 AM
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I want to add in one more thing to this. When you say you're twenty-eight or twenty-nine all the women hear is the 20. What comes after that usually isn't an issue.
/r/seduction10/11/15 08:44 PM
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80% of the results you get are from 20% of what you do. You have to find what 20% gets you the best results and do that more.
/r/seduction10/11/15 03:32 AM
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I believe this is just a rip off of the Parreto Principle "The 80/20 Rule"
/r/seduction09/11/15 10:00 PM
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I had sex with more 18 year olds at 28 then I did at 18. I am 34 and consistently have sex with really good looking women who are 19 and 20. Stop thinking about age. I had a couple of girls ask me to hang out who were still 17 recently (I had to turn them down). You're not old unless you think you are.
/r/seduction06/11/15 06:27 PM
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Or you could do online dating like Match.com if you like.
/r/seduction06/11/15 06:23 PM
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When you're ready, you have to develop some type of system that will have you interacting with women. For example, you could go out with a guy friend once a week to meet some at bars. Something easy and fun though.
/r/seduction06/11/15 06:23 PM
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If it's a guy who's new, his wingman will be someone he can talk to to get warmed up, to keep him in the flow in between interactions, to vent to if an interaction didn't go well, to push him, and to help him approach women who are in groups of two. Instead of having to go by himself and talk to two women which could cause anxiety for some people, he has someone to help him. Also, it's more likely that women will be partnered up or in groups at a bar rather them by themselves so a wingman usuall…
/r/seduction05/11/15 07:51 PM
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Request her, message her, see how she's been. If you two still click, invite her out.
/r/seduction05/11/15 05:14 PM
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Forget pool! I was just saying that maybe up until now you had been trying to meet women in a place that wasn't ideal for you. What are some of your hobbies?
/r/seduction05/11/15 04:56 PM
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Maybe you're a square peg trying to fit in a round hole. What I mean by this is maybe you've been looking for love in all the wrong places. For instance, this instructor once told the story of one of his students who hated going to bars and clubs. The guy however was a master at pool. The instructor had him go to pool halls and that's where he would meet women. What are some of your hobbies? Maybe go on Meetup and find people with similar interests.
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:22 AM
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I agree with you optimusderp. Also, it's his last semester there so he should go balls out in daygame.
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:17 AM
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First, I am middle-eastern and grew up in a strict family so I've been where you are. I've also dated some of the most beautiful white women on this Earth; playmates, high end strippers, pornstars, I've been with all of them. Just as you like white women because they're different and unique, they will like you if you have your shit together. Think of yourself as a rarity, they get to try a new culture by being with you. Women want to fuck someone unique, just like you do, so think of you being A…
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:12 AM
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You are making the right move. When things get that frustrating, take a step back, regroup, work on yourself, and then meet women. There is more to life then just meeting women. If you want, send me your email and I'll email you a copy of my book. And if you don't want that, that's okay too.
/r/seduction05/11/15 07:54 AM
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Dude, your life should be even better after college! For my friends and I, life after college was a 100 x better and our life in college kicked ass. Just go create the life you want. We went out to the top bars and clubs in Los Angeles for years picking up beautiful women from all around the world. Your life is just beginning. The only one who can limit it is you.
/r/seduction05/11/15 07:51 AM
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It's something that's needed. There should be one for gay men too.
/r/seduction05/11/15 03:50 AM
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I said they're building up to it. Whether it's your way or mine, I was saying they can start small. That's the point I was getting at.
/r/seduction05/11/15 01:31 AM
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The last time I got asked this, it was by this really bitchy girl who's friend I was getting along with really good. The bitchy girl comes up, the friend introduces us, and the first thing she asks me is; "Are you gay?" I told her; "Touch it." Her: "What?" Me: "My dick. See if it moves." She then apologized and was following me everywhere around the bar, offered to buy me a drink, she was in love with me. I like the Neil Patrick Harris line and the "do you fuck gay dudes?"
/r/seduction04/11/15 06:42 PM
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It doesn't have to be that dramatic. Not everyone is ready to make direct eye to eye contact. Some guys have more anxiety then others. This is an easy way to get to build up to it.
/r/seduction04/11/15 06:38 PM
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Right now if you have no women in your life and you talk to one, she suddenly has a huge value to you. She's your only source for your sexual outlet and interacting with women. Now if you have 10 women in your life and you meet one, she now has a smaller importance as her importance is divided among 10 other women. As you go out and talk to more women, you'll also start to see that women are people. They have issues, concerns, worries, and you'll stop seeing them as perfect just because they're …
/r/seduction03/11/15 10:54 PM
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SHITTTTTT!!!!! I just wrote this long reply and it got deleted. It was brilliant. In a nutshell: I looked at humor from a sexual point of view. Humor will make her laugh and let you know you're safe to be around and put her at ease but it might not turn her on sexually. You want her to be sexually into you so you have to know how to balance humor with real conversation. Also, if you're doing a lot of humor and try to transition from that into sex, it might surprise her as she wasn't in a sexual …
/r/seduction03/11/15 10:48 PM
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I don't know if I would have more to add about this topic. If you have more questions, that would make it easier for me to say more.
/r/seduction03/11/15 06:43 PM
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Thanks for the input. I'll incorporate this into future videos.
/r/seduction03/11/15 06:40 PM
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Well said!
/r/seduction03/11/15 06:39 PM
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If you're new to this, it can seem odd walking up to random strangers and talking to them. Women love musicians!!!!!!! It's like instant status upgrade. "I play the cello. Let me play a song for you some time." I think it's awesome, almost like a superpower to approach women. I have some videos of me talking to women at USC if you want some campus in-field videos.
/r/seduction03/11/15 08:18 AM
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I love the ESL vibe. They're so damn cute. If you've met them, why didn't you just ask them out after joking with them???
/r/seduction03/11/15 08:08 AM
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You have to know how to work both ends of the spectrum; joking---serious. It's good you can make them laugh but practice bringing your energy down and connecting with them more. This reminds me of a time I was joking with this women and she was laughing a bunch but when I went to ask her out, she didn't think I was serious. I realized then, I kept it too high, like a entertainer or comedian. So you do a mix of both. You keep it fun but you connect with her as well. Does that make sense? You can …
/r/seduction03/11/15 08:06 AM
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I've dated lots of Asian women and I actually prefer it more when they are ESL. I find that lots of humor works well with them and not a lot of touching, especially early on. And Asian women tend to like white guys a lot. Just like you like Asian women, they like white guys. You're something unique.
/r/seduction03/11/15 08:01 AM
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Take it easy man. I didn't explain it clearly. Most guys have to "go out" to meet women and only talk to them at certain times they think it's socially acceptable, for instance, at a bar. These guys miss out on all of the beautiful women they meet every day; at the gym, supermarkets, driving next to them, everywhere. When I say to go about your life and talk to women, I mean to talk to all of those women you see during that time when you do. Of course you talk to the ones when you "go out" but t…
/r/seduction03/11/15 07:57 AM
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The key to avoiding this is to be up front in the beginning; "I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm just looking for fun." The clearer you are on the front end, the less headache there is on the back end.
/r/seduction03/11/15 06:36 AM
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Talk to her without the whole group being involved. If you're all out, go and grab a drink at the bar with her. Then move to somewhere else and keep talking. It's really simple.
/r/seduction03/11/15 06:35 AM
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It's not fun to be around those types of women. I'll just tell them; "Stop bullshitting. You know you look good." If she genuinely means it, it means she has a lack of confidence in herself and trying to help a woman like that can be really draining.
/r/seduction03/11/15 06:32 AM
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The RSD guys also live in Los Angeles and there are tons of women everywhere. GJLuke said it best, going about your life and talking to women as you go about it is the way to do it. When I was teaching + doing this I would get about 50 numbers a week.
/r/seduction03/11/15 06:30 AM
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Lean forward and Kino and then lean back. That's called push-pull. You can lean in on your front leg and do it and then lean back on your back leg as you hang back.
/r/seduction03/11/15 06:28 AM
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That could work. I use to go driving with my friend in his Lamborghini. This thing was a fucking pussy magnet. Girls would pull over on streets to give us their numbers. It was a piece of cake.
/r/seduction03/11/15 06:27 AM
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Glad to help.
/r/seduction03/11/15 05:37 AM
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Hahaha good stuff
/r/seduction03/11/15 05:36 AM
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Oh yeah she was super down. She asked to meet at 10:30 that night.
/r/seduction03/11/15 01:34 AM
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You have plenty of time. You're only 24. The average age for marriage in Europe for example is 34 or 35.
/r/seduction02/11/15 11:16 PM
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What about it? You can't see because it's blurred out but she's smiling and making hand gestures at me. This happens a couple of times.
/r/seduction02/11/15 11:15 PM
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Keep it simple. The less steps a plan has the more likely it is to succeed "There's a great winebar by my house. Meet me here and we'll go together." - It's that simple.
/r/seduction02/11/15 11:02 PM
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This is great advice. Thank you.
/r/seduction02/11/15 10:59 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9V5w2iGhgyA Here you go!
/r/seduction02/11/15 10:59 PM
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Just walk up to here and say your line and introduce yourself to her friends. Don't think of them as obstacles but as possible additions to your team if they like you. For instance if you walk up to her and say; "You're really beautiful" (just making this up) and you turn to her friend and say; "She is, I was over there and now I'm somehow over here talking to her" Back to her; "I'm LambsBCLions" introduce yourself to both and joke with both until it's time to number close.
/r/seduction02/11/15 10:57 PM
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Realize that your happiness cannot be dependent upon whether you have a gf or not. If you have one, great, if you don't, great, you're cool either way. And sloooooowwww down. Tell yourself you'll give it two months with a woman before deciding if she's gf material (or some time frame that seems best to you).
/r/seduction02/11/15 10:54 PM
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This guy got it!
/r/seduction02/11/15 04:25 AM
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You're super young and have YEARS of dating ahead of you. Guys like Paul Janka and myself didn't get really good until our last twenties and early thirties. Let's say you put in a lot of work and have sex with ten women a month. In a year that's over a hundred women. In a few years you'll have been with hundreds. You have plenty of time.
/r/seduction02/11/15 02:56 AM
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You need a phone, an apartment, and $3 for a bottle of wine. Meet women, text with them, invite them over for wine, boom! That easy.
/r/seduction01/11/15 07:52 PM
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"Ah, forget that. Age isn't anything but a number. It's not about age it's about consciousness. It's about being successful and doing things with your life."
/r/seduction01/11/15 06:55 AM
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I've read No More Mr. Nice Guy and it's great. Check out Brendon Burchard on Youtube, he's amazing: https://www.youtube.com/user/BrendonBurchard Check out Michael Sealey for different hypnosis programs for healing, self-confidence, dealing with anger, and more: https://www.youtube.com/user/MichaelSealey With what you're going through, a complete life overhaul, I would recommend Jack Canfield's book; "The Success Principles": http://www.amazon.com/Success-Principles-TM-Anniversary-Where/dp/006236…
/r/seduction01/11/15 06:52 AM
2

Instead of making eye contact, just look at the person's forehead right above their eyes. Gives almost the same impression.
/r/seduction01/11/15 05:52 AM
2

Day game. Regarding the library, you see the girl and say; "Communications" or some type of guess based on what she's studying. She'll either correct you or tell you you're right. You start a conversation from there.
/r/seduction31/10/15 05:38 PM
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I'm going to check it out, thanks.
/r/seduction31/10/15 05:34 PM
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It literally took two seconds to explain a basic concept that most anyone should have gotten from the start. Best of luck to you.
/r/seduction31/10/15 07:12 AM
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Dude! It's a whole new world! It's healthier, smoother, super easy, and creates so many opportunities for you. Good luck on your new adventures!
/r/seduction31/10/15 04:18 AM
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It is if he's been wanting to do it for some time and hasn't. I look at it like every time a guy sees a woman and doesn't ask her out due to fear he's dishonoring himself as a man. Instead of going for what he wants, he's allowing fear to hamper him. When he goes for it, he's honoring his wants and needs. It's that simple m'lady.
/r/seduction31/10/15 04:17 AM
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PS - I know this works bc I did it with my own life about five years ago when I stopped drinking.
/r/seduction31/10/15 03:44 AM
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I'm typing this from my phone so please ignore any grammar mistakes. It sounds like day game needs to be your new vehicle. Once a week go to the mall and spend a few hours talking to women. Let's say you get 3 numbers an hour, that's 9 nimbers a week. 36 a month, you'll be a busy man. Plus, take the approach that you'll talk to women wherever you see them; grocery stores, supermarkets, gas stations, you're literally surrounded by women. If you get 3-5 numbers a week tjat way in addition to your …
/r/seduction31/10/15 03:41 AM
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I don't think that's a super hard rejection. She was kissing you. Maybe that's as comfortable as she felt like taking it at the moment?
/r/seduction31/10/15 02:22 AM
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Oh okay. Forget that then. Props to you for moving beyond it. We just to need to figure a system or date place that you could take a woman that will allow you both to be sober and have fun; hiking, gelatos, sushi, any of these sound good?
/r/seduction31/10/15 02:20 AM
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It doesn't really change anything. If you're comfortable with the issue, women will be too. I've dated a few women who use to have drinking problems in the past and it was never an issue in our relationships. Are you going to drink now on dates? There was a time I quit drinking altogether but would still have women over. I would just ask them; "Do you want water? Wine? (whatever else I had)?" Since you offered water, it wouldn't be out of the norm for you to have water if they had wine. If I wou…
/r/seduction31/10/15 01:35 AM
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hahaha very nice!
/r/seduction31/10/15 01:14 AM
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Thank you. I didn't know how my post would be taken when I wrote it. In this case, it seemed like jealousy. I wanted to do an "ask reddit" about this, why women pull their friends away when they meet a good guy. Thanks for your post.
/r/seduction30/10/15 10:31 PM
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It's below this comment.
/r/seduction30/10/15 08:07 PM
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I accidentally deleted it. Let me know if it's up now.
/r/seduction30/10/15 08:07 PM
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Shit, I deleted it. Long story short. I was getting this girl's number, she was into it, gave me the first 7 and as she was giving me the rest her friend came out of the store and started pulling her away; "Sorry, she can't give her number out!" The first girl wanted me to meet her at whatever bar they were going to. I told them to stop, give me the number and we'll meet up. The original girl starts giving me the digits and her friend says; "She can't give her number out." The first girl starts …
/r/seduction30/10/15 08:05 PM
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I can only speak from my experience.
/r/seduction30/10/15 07:50 PM
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Glad to help!
/r/seduction30/10/15 07:49 PM
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Posted!
/r/seduction30/10/15 07:49 PM
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Well said!
/r/seduction30/10/15 07:47 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3qj8ex/how_to_keep_a_conversation_going/
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:58 PM
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It's been a been a while since I had a big revelation. One recently, I went to this spiritual center expecting to hear a good sermon, met a girl there, went somewhere afterwards. I forgot that sex can really happen at anytime. One that sticks out is when I was talking to this woman and she was great until her friend showed up who was acting retarded. The original girl started being retarded too and I told them; "You girls are idiots" and walked away in the middle of the conversation. The origina…
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:51 PM
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LOL!!!! And thank you moodorks
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:47 PM
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Good job! You went for it and honored yourself.
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:43 PM
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I was just using them as a reference that women do get some guidance in this area whereas guys typically don't get any. Luckily it seems like more people are waking up as good material becomes more prevalent.
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:43 PM
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lol we're talking about practice
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:41 PM
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I mean just practice period. It can be in front of a mirror, with a friend, in your room, wherever. It's like when I would practice a speech; I'd do it in my living room a bunch of times, then in front of my mirror, then maybe in front of a friend. Whatever is best for you. The main thing is to just practice it until you have it memorized.
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:40 PM
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Oh yeah, good point, thank you.
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:38 PM
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First, I don't think you failed at all. The fact you're willing to push yourself especially after having broken up with your ex is admirable. Second, good job on the push-ups. Third, check out that guy Michael Sealey I sent you. He has great hypnosis tracks to help with healing, confidence, all kinds of great stuff. Fourth, if you need anything, feel free to hit me up.
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:38 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSVrctPcWVM That's me
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:36 PM
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You sound like an intelligent courteous guy so at the least she'd be flattered you spoke to her.
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:51 AM
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It's 7:17. I need an update!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/seduction30/10/15 02:18 AM
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This is something I wrote for someone else. I hope it helps! One thing that I've found works to build confidence in approaching women is if you already have a opener you can use and have practiced ahead of time. Instead of trying to think of something on the fly and hoping it comes out good, you have this line you've practiced a few times and it's delivery will come off well. The woman will think you just said something spontaneous and sound confident while saying it but little does she know you…
/r/seduction30/10/15 01:59 AM
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If I could get him to do one, that would be great. Why do you think it's fucked up?
/r/seduction30/10/15 01:55 AM
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I think he was 34 at the time we were hanging out and started when he was 15. He said he was at 850 or 860 when we met and he probably slept with at least 60 women in the first year of us hanging out. He would have at least one woman a weekend. For three years straight we went out at least 2-3 nights a week to meet women. PS - I'm laughing about this now but there would be so many women I would meet and when I'd tell him he'd tell me; "Oh yeah, I fucked her. Here's how." He would tell me how I c…
/r/seduction29/10/15 10:32 PM
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Perfect. He might know other girls too.
/r/seduction29/10/15 08:10 PM
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Realize that some of the women there might be there for the same reason you are. They want to meet you! She didn't get dressed up to meet her girlfriends that she already knows, she's hoping she meets a great guy. Go get her!
/r/seduction29/10/15 08:00 PM
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Just be nice to the dude and then you can meet both. "How are you guys doing in this class?" "How'd you do on the test?" Start talking, the guy will feel comfortable around you, and if it's not his girl, there will come a point where you two will be left alone (it might not be on the first interaction). Basically, just befriend him and it will lead to her.
/r/seduction29/10/15 07:59 PM
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As Turlast said, don't compare yourself to him, for now, compare yourself to where you were and monitor your own progress. I have a friend who was for a long time overwhelming when we went out to meet women, he had slept with 800+ women at the time and it was like I couldn't get a word in. What I would do is I would break off from him when we would arrive somewhere so that I could do my thing without being effected by him. Once my game got solid enough that we were on the same level, we could go…
/r/seduction29/10/15 07:52 PM
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I agree with you and thank you, you got the jist of what I was trying convey.
/r/seduction29/10/15 06:21 PM
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DO IT!!! Let us live vicariously through you.
/r/seduction29/10/15 06:18 PM
1

The clock is ticking. Get on it!
/r/seduction29/10/15 06:18 PM
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I totally agree with this. Also, we're told that we need to be "men" without being shown exactly how to do this. Girls get stuff like Glamour, Vogue, Teen, etc... to help them. I don't think there's a male equivalent for that stuff.
/r/seduction29/10/15 06:17 PM
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Love it. You'll make it happen. By the way, some of my friends who team up and slam older women as the older women they would meet were into some freaky sex. Get ready for some adventures.
/r/seduction29/10/15 08:16 AM
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Awesome. Let me know how it goes. The first older lady I had was 42 and a MILF and I was 19 so it can be done!
/r/seduction29/10/15 08:13 AM
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You can screen them. Smile, if she smiles back, take it from there. Just because she doesn't smile back doesn't mean she's not open but if you're looking for an easy way to see who's receptive do that. Also be aware of indicators of interest. Does she keep looking your way? Fixing her hair? Slowing down so you can catch up? Comments on something you have? If so, talk to her.
/r/seduction29/10/15 08:07 AM
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PS - I use to go to Agape Spiritual Center and the older ladies there LOVE younger guys. Like seriously, between there and my Yoga class I meet so many older women that want to go out. Just throwing that out there in case that helps you.
/r/seduction29/10/15 08:05 AM
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"It's not about age, it's about consciousness." or "Age isn't anything but a number. It's not about age, it's about consciousness. There's older people that are young, there's young people that are old. It's all about your attitude." or "Age isn't anything but a number. All it means is you've gone around the sun more times then I have. You seem cool though, we should keep in touch."
/r/seduction29/10/15 08:04 AM
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For sure. Keep up the great work!
/r/seduction29/10/15 08:01 AM
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Go in there once a day for the sole purpose of meeting women. If you feel odd about doing it, just pick up something small, like a dollar bottle of water and spit your game. Online game isn't my strongest suit so I can't answer that question with a 100 percent certainty. When you say you don't close, is that because you pull back or they do? You have to find the ones that are open to it. The ones that are saying; "I have kids your age" are not the ones you want to invest time on. The ones that w…
/r/seduction29/10/15 06:59 AM
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You're way overthinking it. I'm middle-eastern and have dated tons of those girls. They're fun, flirty, and cool to talk to. Being Indian has nothing to do with it. They're progressive and don't care so much about your ethnicity.
/r/seduction29/10/15 06:47 AM
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"I'm looking for a tall, beautiful, (insert her ethnicity if you have it italian/Irish) Victoria's Secret Model to take out for drinks. Where can I find one? :)" PS - Good job on the work you did so far.
/r/seduction29/10/15 06:43 AM
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See my answer above in case it helps.
/r/seduction29/10/15 06:40 AM
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Don't they have some site like Cougar Hunter? (Being serious) What about dating sites? There are tons of older women on there that would LOVE a younger guy to fuck them. The places you need to go are; Nordstrom's, Bloomingdale's, higher end stores and supermarkets like Whole Foods. There are older ladies there that look great. Also, spiritual centers and yoga classes are places that have lots of single pretty older ladies.
/r/seduction29/10/15 06:40 AM
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If you lived in the US I would call you yelling tomorrow. Have you ever posted on the Simple Pick Forum? They have a "Find a Wingman" section: http://www.simplepickup.com/forum/find-wingman/ Or you could search Meetup.com for pick-up and find someone to go out with through there. I am going to follow-up with you at 7:00PM California time tomorrow. If you haven't spoken to two women, you owe me twenty push-ups in a public setting.
/r/seduction29/10/15 05:34 AM
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I think I have a lot of charisma and it's something that can be developed. When you speak, stand with confidence, imagine that every woman wanted to be with you, that you're ten feet tall. Practice walking around like this and PROJECTING when you talk, as if you're an entertainer on stage. Take up room with your stance, talk with your hands, be larger then life. Practice this at home several times a day. When you meet people, smile big, maintain eye contact, shake their hand firmly. Compliment t…
/r/seduction29/10/15 05:31 AM
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Don't let the actions of one guy stop you from doing what you want. She was fine with it. If it's a work environment, just be aware of your co-workers.
/r/seduction29/10/15 05:27 AM
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First, have good hygiene. Brush your teeth, use some mouthwash, put on deodorant. Take a shower in advance. Second. • Topics to discuss; dating in the city you’re in, favorite place in the world, your hobbies, pop culture (music, fashion, girl stuff), anything you’re generally interested in • Topics to usually avoid; politics, war, religion, death Third, have fun. It's a chance for you to connect with another person.
/r/seduction29/10/15 05:24 AM
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Congrats!
/r/seduction29/10/15 01:04 AM
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You're welcome. Try the exercise first. I've seen it make such a difference in people's lives. Here is a good hypnosis to listen to before sleeping to help you (this guy has a lot of great ones): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=--V2GuvBHOU&list=PLO9OtUmChpP_Po7RGMHFJ4kNbavmHhYhJ&index=2 Second, if you want to jump to going direct, just find one friend who will keep you accountabe. If you don't have one friend, I'm happy to keep you accountable. Do two approaches tomorrow. If you don't, you owe m…
/r/seduction29/10/15 01:00 AM
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Props to you for realizing your rationalizations were holding you back, Keep up the good work!
/r/seduction28/10/15 09:54 PM
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You're welcome! I would definitely try some nightgame to see if that works better. You can be more direct at night and all of your energy will get you better results. I would recommend you make more cold reads; "I'm guessing you're a (insert occupation)." Once we have the audio, it'll give me a good idea of what to tweak.
/r/seduction28/10/15 09:52 PM
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Good stuff about the grin. Jstantherthrwaway, try it and see if you notice a difference. Regarding your friends, they might have put in the work earlier in their lives in this area and are reaping the rewards of it. Guys see me and think, he's a natural, or the same about my friends but don't realize how much time and effort was spent getting there. Try the grin and the next room you walk into, walk in like you have a ten inch dick and think that every woman in the room wants to be with you, tha…
/r/seduction28/10/15 09:50 PM
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It sounds like it's confidence/charisma issue. How do you walk? When you walk into a room do you walk in knowing you could have any woman there? What are you friends doing differently that you aren't doing that could allow you to go from okay to great? How much time do you spend in this area as opposed to them?
/r/seduction28/10/15 09:20 PM
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First, props to you for using your anger in a constructive way. If you're having serious AA, the reason for it is very simple, you've subconsciously associated too much pain to approaching and too much pleasure to not approaching. The way to do this is to reverse by linking massive amounts of pleasure to approaching women and massive amounts of pain to not approaching them. To do this, grab a pen and paper and the top write out; "What is the pain I feel by not approaching the women I want?" And …
/r/seduction28/10/15 09:08 PM
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Go for it. Ten years from now the only people that will remember this is you and her.
/r/seduction28/10/15 08:26 PM
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I took it and my friend took it. My friend who is a world-champion in Jiu Jitsu was told by MB that he was best suited to be a world-champion. I got teacher and ironically, I teach dating and spirituality classes. There might be something to it.
/r/seduction28/10/15 08:24 PM
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With 170 approaches, your number ratio should be way higher. What do you talk about with them? What do you invite them to if anything? If you can, film yourself approaching, even if it's just audio on your phone and I'll take a look at it. You have the balls and drive to get stuff done. We just need to tweak a few things. PS - Are you old enough to go to clubs? If you are and already do, how is that going?
/r/seduction28/10/15 08:22 PM
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I agree with Gregger90. I'm not a big fan of negs. Also, if you neg her early on like that it could mess up what would have been a good flow. I would rather build a woman up if possible.
/r/seduction28/10/15 07:46 PM
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I usually turn it into a joke; "I know, your friends actually paid me to have coffee with you. It turns out they're not coming and they went shopping instead. That Kristen, she loves to shop." Or "I know, I actually paid your friends $200 so they could shop and we could have some time together. Come on, let's go grab that coffee." It works because that's my style of humor. Here is a conversation where that actually happened. I see this beautiful blonde that looks like something out of a magazine…
/r/seduction28/10/15 07:44 PM
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"but what are you doing with the answers?" They're not doing anything with the answers which is causing the problem you mentioned. It's not that the guy's don't care, they just don't know how to make the conversation flow on any given topic so they keep asking questions. And like you said "And it might be a good option to dig deeper into the subject of her friends", women give men so much to talk about so this method gives them a way to branch off on one of the topics they mention.
/r/seduction28/10/15 07:35 PM
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No. It's way easier as you're out of school and have more free time and you have more money which gives you more freedom to do stuff.
/r/seduction28/10/15 08:19 AM
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I have to disagree with number two with you my friend. Sorority girls like older guys that are out of college and have their act together. I do agree with number one though.
/r/seduction28/10/15 08:08 AM
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Are there any bars in the area? Where do people go to have fun?
/r/seduction28/10/15 07:58 AM
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