So I've been on 2 tinder dates since getting the app, this was my second one. She walks into the coffee shop on campus, no smile, nothing. Looks bored. I give her a hug and start with some really silly small talk, like what program she's in, how that's the program I'm going in, etc. and it's just boring. She seems so, so boring and I honestly feel like I'm going to cut it short because of how boring she is. We sit down and I start to ask questions, she responds with good answers actually, but she never asked back. No "what about you?" etc. it was just me asking, and digging deeper. This went on for 3.5 hours of straight conversation, and occasional kino. I told her to feel my callouses, and I felt hers because I play guitar so she was shocked at how hard my finger tips were, I held her hand to ask what was with her bandage, I touched her legs because I was curious about her leggings, little stuff like that. After the 3.5 hours we went for a walk, arms always touching, she didn't move. She told me I looked like a model, and I always get flustered when people compliment me like that. I thanked her, told her she was cute, and she stuttered a bit here. It was cute. Her really odd, ditsy, boring but sometimes fun personality kind of really appealed to me.

So, as we're walking she's showing me around campus, I told her to come with me to the supplement store because I love that shit. Eventually we left and I told her to walk with me while I wait for an Uber because I have no car, told her to come inside so that we're not cold and then we just talked. I tried to be as close to her as possible, she was leaning against the wall and her eye contact skills suck, but I can tell she was trying. Random talking, managed to set up another date here, told her that I'd like to go play pool and go skating so she should tag along, she happily agreed. Eventually the Uber didn't show up after like.. 15 minutes so I had to call, etc. and we ran to another spot so that he wouldn't leave, and as we saw it in sight I was about to cross and I looked at her, and said alright I'm gonna go now, was about to give her a hug and leave, I just didn't feel like the kiss was the right move, but she kind of stood square, like she was preparing or something and she looked me in the eyes, I said "Oh, you'd like a kiss." It wasn't a question, but it just kind of came out of my mouth haha, and I went in for it. Made out for about 15 seconds, stopped. I said "Nice." but fuck me, I have a habit of saying random shit like that when I shouldn't lol, she just thanked me shyly, and I asked her when she was free, she told me she's not sure and that I should text her. I said "Alright, I'll see you around" smiled, walked away. She took the last word by saying "Hope you don't miss your cab" and she said it in a flustered way, it was really weird and cute.

Texted her the next day, asked her when she was free. She didn't reply for 12 hours and then she told me when she was free, I told her when I was, we found a mutual day and we set something up for Wednesday.

Guys, always go for the kiss. I wasn't going to but luckily her obvious body language forced me to. I have another date the day before the one I have with her, and this is the third date with another girl and I still haven't k-closed this one, but I will this time.

Anyway, it was a bit of a bumpy road, but she was really unlike any girl I ever went on a date with, which was nice. Beginning kind of sucked, but her personality is different, kind of like a ditsy air head, but she's really smart and extremely inexperienced. Looking forward to seeing how this plays out.

Also, should I kiss her on the cheek or a quick peck on the lips next time I see her?