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I consider it to be more heavily weighted in the fantasy genre over erotica And that's why I highly recommend it. It is erotica without the expectation of erotica, more subtle, more complex, and more to my taste. :) Albeit, these books are not something that a reader after a quick fix should go for. Also, I'd add The Black Jewels Trilogy by Anne Bishop.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 03:14 PM
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As a side note, these are pretty good books: Kushiel's Dart by Jacqueline Carey, and Catherine Asaro books about the Skolian Empire.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 01:01 PM
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I don't even think that 50 Shades is a RPW book. However did you get that idea? I get the impression that RPW don't like 50 Shades of Grey. It's been made fun of a lot in TRP anyway, I thought it'd follow suit here, though I have no idea actually... However, I am not too happy with this book's popularity. It certainly does generate conversation for being out there. It's like any other romance genre novel out there... very simple story line - tall, dark, handsome, mysterious guy meets young, naiv…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 12:52 PM
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I had no plans. Was thinking of spending it alone like i usually do, ignoring the significance of the day. It just happened that i had two meetings scheduled on that day. Both for guys i was getting to know (to maximise my dating effectiveness). One in the morning, one in the evening, so no clash in time, though i know RPW would disapprove, but i would debate that, what is RP for single women nearing the wall, but dating strategically? First guy is a no. We have been getting to know each other f…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 04:04 AM
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There is no consensus. It would require girls to cooperate on a huge scale and being aware to do so. That is overly paranoid.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 05:55 AM
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Projection? They flirt to be liked but have no idea that it can be interpreted differently as interest.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 05:52 AM
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I just realised what this is. It's like i am employing the same strategy as trp does for managing plates. It's confusing because that's what feminists do. Try to enter male spaces and say fair treatment is fair, but men and women are different. I guess my player 'friend' was right. I am a guy in a girls body. Only someone like that can think the same way. That asshole. He will pay one day but meanwhile i will play the cards i have been dealt.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/15 07:12 AM
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Honestly at my age I have no clue what would make me want to "wife up" someone I'm hooking up with because it's so far off my radar right now. She needs to find guys who are ready to settle down and want kids. This can be determined through getting to know the guy and asking questions. Usually these guys are older. They may have had their fun and want to settle down now, or they've always wanted to settle down and just never been ready or have been ready but can't find someone. Sometimes, the gi…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/15 02:14 PM
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What worries me is that he said that we should sleep in the same bed without doing anything, since it was so hard leaving each other. Yeeeeeaaaah... how can you sleep in a bed without doing anything? It's like saying, I won't come home with you, when he asks, and then when he's got you at home, 'I won't let you touch me', etc, etc... everything is one step closer to sex. Good thing you said no. Continue to recognise what these requests are and be cautious about them. Also i don't know whether it…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 02:20 PM
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I see. Get some sleep. Curious, how do you know whether i look great or not? I might not look so.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 05:39 AM
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I hated the idea that women are like a commodity, but it's reality, which I accept now. And if that is indeed the paradigm, then initial cost and maintenance laws apply, as well as the other concepts like expandability, adaptability, to even polymorphism - just like what someone mentioned earlier, how you can gracefully switch between modes. Thanks for your reply. What do you mean by this? Cost and maintenance, expandability, adaptability... I dont understand.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 01:30 AM
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There's something about you that he likes. I am pretty wistful of the idea of what you have - love. I havent met a lot of valuable guys who were decently interested in me as marriage potential, and the ones i have, i havent been attracted to, tho i wish i could be. I may have to settle with someone in my league who can provide a good life for me, but who i do not love. I dont have time to wait for a Mr Right. I can make something of an ok guy. Problem is, will it be a mistake to, and i wonder if…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 04:33 PM
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Digital shrine to the self is a good description of the way a lot of people use social media. It may not even be about getting attention and validation from other people. It may be a PR strategy.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 10:30 AM
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Girls carry their value in their genes. How you look is a big factor on the guy you can catch. Everything else about you is secondary. I cant see any value in myself but everyone does. Most of the value i see, seems to be in the way i look. It seems to be my biggest asset. I've never relied on it or used it to my advantage though, but I dont know what i'd do without it. People value me because of it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 09:02 AM
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Why do you want to have a heads up on him. He seems to be treating you well and using his powers responsibly. He seems to enjoy having you just the way he likes it. It's part of your appeal to him. Has he expressed wanting a smarter partner? RPW use different ways to get to a man's heart. If he is a good catch and a good long term prospect and loyal, I think you should just enjoy the ride.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 02:47 AM
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Face it, you have to be better than just have a job. Women are out competing you in competency. A guy cant be lazy any more.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 10:21 AM
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You sound like a lousy LTR prospect to be honest, for any RPW. If you become a doctor, you have plenty of options. You are already showing her that you cannot be loyal since you are looking around.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 02:27 AM
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Food for thought, thanks. Maybe I am like a nice girl, and the reason I am giving these guys a chance is because they deserve a chance? even if I don't think of them much now? Some of them, I get nothing from stringing along. It costs me to consider them. I know my time is precious, and I choose to spend it with guys who I have no interest talking to, to get to know them better. Is that 'stringing' someone along? I am investing my time and money in them just as much as they are in me. I could ju…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/15 04:14 PM
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Men or people for that matter don't usually have your interest at heart, unless they're family. Don't all look up to them like they have the solution, and that they are always right. They need to be deserving of your respect. Think for yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 08:00 AM
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I guess it would be more nurturing if I considered them one on one, but nothing about them makes them special to me yet. They are just like any of the other guys out there - one is just as good as the other. Why should I commit to them? If I were to commit, it would have to be with someone who I can see myself being with for life, at the exclusion of all others. That means they have to be special to me. They would need to stand out from the crowd. I don't understand how people can go through and…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 06:28 AM
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I keep my options open. I don't flirt per se. I am just considering a few other guys at a time. Most of them have no idea that I am considering other people. They think they are the only one. I like to keep it that way for their sake, and because they may lose interest if they were to find out, but sometimes I just tell them, usually in this case, only because there is very little chance between us. It depends on who they are. Some people like it when you are honest and forthright to them about …
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 06:12 AM
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Well, I'd just be direct and tell him exactly what I want. Eg: "I find it sexy when you just jump on me and ravish me whenever you want :)" Perhaps you need to start wearing some sexy outfits at home, or snuggle up to him in bed, naked. Bleh :p
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 05:41 AM
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NO. Don't even go that way. No fucking way. Or you will find out the hard way. Are you a guy? I didn't know they allowed guys to post in this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 05:31 AM
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Sadist you mean? Masochist is the play toy of a sadist.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 01:48 PM
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She was honest with you before anything started. Just be thankful of that I guess. When you've invested one month of your time together, then of course there are feelings involved. Women aren't very good with handling their feelings, since feelings affect their perspective. Just brush it off and move on with your life. Curious, is there a correct time to talk about STDs? What do you think? When should she have told you?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 07:27 AM
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If it really is a problem for her, then she needs to tell him straight. "Sorry I am not interested in you. Please stop hitting on me." It's that simple. You may have to repeat it a few times. Some guys don't get the hint still.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 06:51 AM
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And yeah... no more everything on the side. No giving men HJs, BJs, anal, (lol this is so funny) what-have-you-not. That has got to stop. Never ever again. Not once! Okay?
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 03:27 PM
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edit: lifeline redeeming quality
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 03:22 PM
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You need to learn how to deal with grief more healthily. The way you dealt with it in the past by hooking up with other guys is not in your best interest as you now know. You need better coping mechanisms for the future. It is okay to let loose a bit when grieving, so that you can be happy but make sure that they are not destructive behaviours that have consequences, that will remain even after your grief period is over, like getting addicted to drinking, getting into a bad relationship (or casu…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 03:16 PM
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Well actually, there is other reasons that they choose based on rationale and logic - they may be Thinkers and or raised to think logically or rationally, and are unaware that they themselves need to consider their emotions and to be attracted to their mate in order for it to work. Well, I don't think they are devoid of all emotions when they choose. The issue in these cases is usually that emotions don't always last, or the personalities are incompatible for a successful lasting relationship, o…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 11:10 AM
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Good observation! I guess I meant it in a 'what is the correct way for a woman to choose a mate?', because attraction for women is based on how a guy makes them feel. Emotions, but emotions (by themselves) are not a good way of choosing a responsible mate; Logic/rational is, but making a good rational choice, doesn't mean that the woman is attracted to her choice. I was responding to this: Time and time again, women marry men that they’re not attracted to. And it seemed to follow to me, that if …
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 10:54 AM
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Wow, what a story. Ok, well first off (and I am not trying to be non-RPW here, but my opinion may not be RPW-certified - we shall see), don't accept the poor behaviour of other men. To acknowledge it would mean that you think that you deserve to be treated that way. Self respect starts with yourself. You need to repair your reputation. Do not ever be alone with any man or men that is not family, for your own safety. If you have guy friends, that means, you cannot be with them alone, without anot…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 06:25 AM
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So should one learn to ride a motorbike if they have no practical reason to other than because they want to try something new and they love the thrill, but will drive responsibly with a motorbike because they know what could go wrong?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 12:24 AM
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This is confusing. On one hand, I've read on TRP that women are irrational and think with their feelings, which can change moment by moment, and hence they are unreliable and on the other hand, you're saying that they should be rational when they choose a mate. Is that right? Those two things are NOT compatible. Unless you mean rational in choosing someone who is better than them in the ways they can be attracted to?
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 02:04 PM
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About this: "I wouldn't do that" and "Just use Snapchat" or "Don't be so paranoid". Don't trust what they say. You need to be self assured, assertive and stand up for what you believe in. If what they say doesn't make sense to you, or makes you uncomfortable, then it is NOT OK. They say this to try to get you to loosen up and get what they want, and mostly take advantage of your naivety or inexperience, which is not to your benefit. Sometimes they'll say something along the lines of 'it's ok', o…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/15 04:01 PM
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