I have friend at work let's call her the Argentinian, just friend (she has boyfriend). At the time I was truly understanding of "the boyfriends plight", and did not feel like pursuing since guy seemed decent. I leave the job get higher paying job with more status. Keep in contact but mostly forget about her since we don't see each other on a regular basis and don't really care. Weekends here, get together with friends and decide to have a party. People start confirming, almost immediately notice that there needs to be more girls. I call up The Argentinian and tell her having a party come though, bring your guy (to keep platonic) and friends in hopes that she'll bring atleast one extra girl. She comes with her girl, no boyfriend. I ask about him she replies "We broke up." We all drink, we have fun, Great night. That night I decided I'm going to pursue her. She's hot, seems like decent chick, and I know a couple guys who tried to get at her with no luck when she had a boyfriend. Seems faithful.

For all intents and purposes she seems like a good girl. Possible LTR. Flash forward about a month we've been talking but still haven't had sex. Which is ok by me since I haven't had to wine and dine her, all we ever do is watch Netflix. Very low maintenance. I actually find the waiting nice, my attraction is growing. Most girls that I take out on a date/stay in with/text usually give it up relatively early. With in first to third encounter. More time goes by we almost have sex a couple times, then she hits me with first shit test. "I know you have a reputation with girls, I don't want to be another one that you just add to your list" I stay silent. She asks "How many girls, have you been with?" I reply "After you... 412" I laugh. She says "seriously, I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours." I don't really care about her number so I respond "Nah" and she gets the hint to drop it. But she demands I go get STD tested. No problem I say.

Another week goes by and we almost have sex again. Results are in this time I'm healthy as a horse. She puts it off and discloses to me that she's only had one partner before (could of guessed but again I don't care). She says just a little bit longer, I comply and think nothing of it. So another week goes by and she says she's ready. She sits me down on the bed for what I think is going to be foreplay but instead she starts to talk. Blah, blah, blah, STD blah, blah, blah, herpes. She looks hard at me for a reaction. I didn't really pay attention the first time she told her story because it was long and a lot of beating around the bush but in a nut shell she says That her previous boyfriend gave her herpes and wanted to make sure that I knew what I was getting myself into. WHHHHAAAATTTTT! At this point were done, I've made up my mind. But what I could not shake was the fact that this chick actually made me get an STD text when she was the one who had an actual STD's. I asked her what she would have done if I had asked her to get one she told me, She forgot(I don't believe her). I don't know if this is some form of hampstering or just super selective memory where she can choose to just forget when ever its convenient. I end things with her, She's mad at me! Like I was suppose to commit to taking such a huge risk with her. I see her every now and then. I'm always friendly, she's always awkward and bitchy like she broke up with me and is wondering why I'm talking to her. Weird.